That's tough, considering there's an innocent child involved. At the end of the day, despite what her parents did, that little girl is still his niece. If it was me, I would have likely put her up in a hotel and helped her get a job, whilst stressing that I was only doing this for my niece. I, like OP, would have found my brother and helped her get child support. Once she was set up, I would have told her not to contact me again unless it was regarding my niece, and only if there was a major problem she couldn't handle herself.
My brother did something that sent him to prison. His wife asked me to take their twins and get the medical processes for them. When I asked for power of attorney so that I could ask to have them put on my insurance, she had a friend that told her if you do that you will never get them back. So she never spoke of it again. When my brother got out of prison, he got a job and took custody of his son and the daughter stayed with mom. After I saw them the daughter had to come and live with her dad also. Mom's boyfriend tried to rape my niece. The mom gave up all her parental rights. Then my stupid brother did not exercise and died while going home from work from a stroke. The kids could not go to their mothers place and had to be with neighbors until 6 months later graduating from High School in Bald Knob, AR.
She's a bad person. Got fired for what? You kept her after that. These people are supposed to be educated enough to pass the bar exam but can't get the courts involved
Let me help. People are responsible for their actions. If you feel neglected a good person communicates this. People like this use it as a justification to cheat. You are only responsible for your actions and decisions. If you lead the burden is if your decisions don't pan out it's on you. If someone spurns direction and suffers it's on them.
I hate all of these stories with the "but the child is innocent" FOLKS, many of the products you buy are made with materials mined by child labor in Africa! a random innocent child is not your responsibility (not saying that we should keep evil pratices, just that if you feel bad for a random child then you should also feel bad and do something about the other thing)
But, the child is Innocent though, and it's not just some random child, it's his niece, right on his doorstep. Yeah, his niece's parents and grandparents are garbage, but that's not her fault. OP helping his niece to have some stability is not the same as helping the people who betrayed him, that's just an unfortunate byproduct. Also, your comment is mildly disturbing. It's like saying let's open child labor sweatshops in America with the tagline, 'Hey, they're not your kids, so why bother caring about them? :)'. I know you said we shouldn't keep evil practices, but your comment stressed that it's not evil to turn a blind eye to an innocent child literally right in front of you.
@@LeDiableBlancwhy should you be shouldered with the responsibility of someone else’s child? It’s not like the kid will ever love you- kids always take the biological father over the guardian one, even when the guardian does a better job of parenthood. The brother should be in charge of raising the kid- not the guy who got betrayed. He’s already spent a large portion of his life funding *their* infidelity while she wasn’t working- why should he also have to spend money to support the kid she didn’t have with him?
@@LeDiableBlanc "it's not just some random child, it's his niece" that's still a random child to someone who doesn't have a personal relationship to her or her parents. If you are adoted at birth and then you find out you had a biological brother who died leaving a young child orphaned, should you be expected to take care of them? For the rest, I just want moral consistency. I would like for society to take care of each other, not forcing a random person to take care of a random child because of some arbitrary reason that is not related to that person consenting to have or take care of a child. And if you feel like we should do that then I think we should first fix the fact that you are paying money for slave labor. Ofc, people don't like to put on the work, but they LOVE to shame others into doing it
@@LeDiableBlanc What he meant was 'You cannot help every one, you cannot save the world and every single innocent child living in it' Just because Jessie was innocent doesn't mean that he has any responsibility, it wasn't OP's fault what happened. Besides, involving with his niece meant involving with this cheating piece of crap and that would be devastating to OP's mental health. No, he had every right to wash his hands of all this bs
@@LeDiableBlancYou do realise the niece was made behind his back not only with his own flesh and blood, but the woman he was to marry. Just imagine how that baby was made, while you were working all day to keep her living there, just to make a child in your own bed. The child is innocent, but you cannot take the child from their mother. If he helped the child, he’d be forced to help the woman who made said niece in his bed. And as for the random child scenario, let someone else deal with it, or just help them out.
Daughter has all of his brother’s features. He is mom’s favorite. Mom sees no problem with infidelity and expects this guy to take in favorite son’s kid… Anyone else suspect mom cheated on dad?
Well i question the integrity of the fiance if she did something to get fired, personal or not. It had to be pretty bad. So i wouldnt have been surprised to hear about the cheating.
I’d have said to the mum ‘you said it was gods plan that they got together and she got pregnant, therefore it’s gods plan it’s all gone wrong and god will sort everything out, have fun’
Also the mum has done a ‘my son doesn’t want to know his child so I’m not going to help you and his child anymore, go ask his brother’.. OPs mum followed her sons actions
OP said she got fired from her job for breaking the rules, that already gave an idea of her character. The responsibility for the little one does not lie with OP, it is up to the parents to take this responsibility.
There's one stupid thing. ..saying that the child looks like his brother so it is his brother's child ... 2 brothers share DNA from their parents so one can absolutely make a child who looks like their uncle or aunt .And you sometimes get cousins who look alike ( without any cheating involved )
How stupid it is you dont realise not every sibling looks the same, some take over mom and other one on dad features.. And OP clearly mentions abt dates and clear difference, you still dancing around with your 2 braincells
True. Years ago, my brother and I discovered we had another brother. Looking through long-lost brother’s childhood pictures, we could see the resemblance between the three of us.
The mom and his brother made this mess and they need to clean in up. They are typical narcissists destroying lives and blaming others while taking no responsibility for any of it. He was right to kick her out and not deal with her. These are the types of betrayal that there’s no coming back from!
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I wonder if OP and his brother look alike or different. I think mom is a cheater and dad is a pushover. Why isn't Lila going after the brother for child support? With her background as an attorney she should know at least how to start that process and she can file the ppwk herself. She should be able to get some kind of job as a paralegal or secretary.
His ex needs to get a job! Apply for child support, or assistance at least...He would never be able to trust that woman again...The mom is a piece of ---- she says Lila and Jessie are family to but they aren't helping them no they expect you to. No wonder the brother turned out the way he is.
"It's as if she was trying justify..." No, OP, she wasn't trying. She was justifying it. Mom is a manipulative PoS. And neither ex fiancee and brother can be remorseful for what they did. Cheating is objectively and always a malicious act. The decision to be disloyal and unfaithful is a fully conscious one. The only "remorse" they feel is how the consequences negatively affect them.
The part where OP laid hands on the brother and giving the 304 10 minutes to get out was so satisfying. I hope that this is a fake story. I wouldn't wish any of this on any one.
That "mother" is absolutely disgusting. After all of the bs she pulled, she decides that she is going to toss out Lila and her child and pawn them off on the man they betrayed and destroyed. She was so in love with the idea of her grandkid and Lila and Mason being together, and because Mason is a PoS she abandons them instead of helping them. Ridiculous.
I'm going to be perfectly honest I don't feel any sympathy for this person because the signs were already there and they still chose to be with somebody that's as terrible as the posters brother and mother maybe that's just me but you can't say this is one of those situations oh nobody could have seen this coming
That's a weird religious take. If you mean Muslims have "happier" marriages, no they don't. Most devout Muslim men are just terribly abusive monsters who threaten women with death if said women aren't obedient.
Spending time with another guy should be red flag enough, there are boundaries men and women should never cross, one of them is hanging out with other's man/woman, man/woman who do that had no respect for another man/woman, they're only there to ruin relationship, not worth the attention.
K a lawyer isn't dumb enough for this. He knows he can get assault charges and be sent to jail. He records and uses the law to punish them. If he is really bright he leaves before being noticed and hires PIs sets recording equipment up and gathers evidence. Cancelling all wedding stuff moving money to safe places,
The police is "VERY" lenient when your reason for beating someone is because you caught them in the act of infidelity. The most you get is an overnight at the station and shouldering medical bills.
@@MaryJane-ln3vv I agree. My first instinct is to break the person. Problem is I have seen what happens when you do that. A lawyer would have seen or heard horror tales of what happens when a man wronged decides to take revenge on the AP. He loses custody, all assets, likely winds up in jail, and then keeps paying once out, only to pay for a woman and kids who hate you and think you are worthless. Not the kids fault, wife has years to turn them against their father. Once you realize that is a likely outcome violence truly is no longer worth it. Also not a fear thing. I am strong and tall. Very few can take me in a fight.
Of all the people you can hook up with why would you do it with a family member's fiance? Is it because you want to betray as many people as you can at once? What happened to that little voice in the back of your head saying stop? Also why is a trained and educated lawyer unable to find a job in any field? It does not make sense
They hung around, they were aware of one another. It is not much different from an office romance in that you see the person a lot and develop feelings for them. Your spouse is much more likely to cheat with a guy she often sees compared to hooking up with a dating app.
The child is not his so he has 0 moral or legal obligation to look after the child. Plus he has no bond or attachment with her either. How would u like if someone came to u and ask u to adopt a random child?
Not a good idea. Child is a product of a very traitorous affair by 2 people who should have behaved better. Better the child has an open adoption with adults or an adult who only has love for her; & does not have any negative or mixed emotions towards the child, her father or her mum.
I would adopt a random child from an orphanage. But i would never adopt a child birth from infidelity, and not only infidelity it's from his ex and his own brother that is disgusting enough.
I feel bad for the kid its no fault of her to suffer like this i know its what the guy did was right but what was the child’s fault just to be born and suffered like that cause her biological father is a jerk who just cared bout his dick what a pathetic being and the mother is also equally guilty to act like its not something big i know its wrong and sad but if the OP could have just helped by letting leila stay till she get a job just for kid’s sake would have been still better i know its totally wrong but the fact a kid has to suffer for a nuisance of her parents. But then the OP has all right to think bout himself as its not his fault she cheated and she has to pay the price at some time to learn to trust the right person
OP should've said to Lila frankly my dear I don't give a damn.
My dad always said Scarlett, the name of the actress who played the character that quote was said to.
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That's tough, considering there's an innocent child involved. At the end of the day, despite what her parents did, that little girl is still his niece.
If it was me, I would have likely put her up in a hotel and helped her get a job, whilst stressing that I was only doing this for my niece.
I, like OP, would have found my brother and helped her get child support.
Once she was set up, I would have told her not to contact me again unless it was regarding my niece, and only if there was a major problem she couldn't handle herself.
@LeDiableBlanc I wouldn't help those who betrayed me ane wouldn't acknowledge the niece as family as she's a reminder of what happen.
Gone with the wind and that what he did after learning of the affair
My brother did something that sent him to prison. His wife asked me to take their twins and get the medical processes for them. When I asked for power of attorney so that I could ask to have them put on my insurance, she had a friend that told her if you do that you will never get them back. So she never spoke of it again. When my brother got out of prison, he got a job and took custody of his son and the daughter stayed with mom. After I saw them the daughter had to come and live with her dad also. Mom's boyfriend tried to rape my niece. The mom gave up all her parental rights. Then my stupid brother did not exercise and died while going home from work from a stroke. The kids could not go to their mothers place and had to be with neighbors until 6 months later graduating from High School in Bald Knob, AR.
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She's a bad person. Got fired for what? You kept her after that.
These people are supposed to be educated enough to pass the bar exam but can't get the courts involved
Let me help. People are responsible for their actions. If you feel neglected a good person communicates this. People like this use it as a justification to cheat. You are only responsible for your actions and decisions. If you lead the burden is if your decisions don't pan out it's on you. If someone spurns direction and suffers it's on them.
I don't think Lila had the money to get a lawyer but either way, it's not Op's responsibility
19:43 But MOM! It was destiny for Mason and Lila to be together....
Good for you for cutting toxic people out of your life, you deserve peace and happiness after all that chaos 💪
I hate all of these stories with the "but the child is innocent" FOLKS, many of the products you buy are made with materials mined by child labor in Africa! a random innocent child is not your responsibility (not saying that we should keep evil pratices, just that if you feel bad for a random child then you should also feel bad and do something about the other thing)
But, the child is Innocent though, and it's not just some random child, it's his niece, right on his doorstep. Yeah, his niece's parents and grandparents are garbage, but that's not her fault. OP helping his niece to have some stability is not the same as helping the people who betrayed him, that's just an unfortunate byproduct.
Also, your comment is mildly disturbing. It's like saying let's open child labor sweatshops in America with the tagline, 'Hey, they're not your kids, so why bother caring about them? :)'.
I know you said we shouldn't keep evil practices, but your comment stressed that it's not evil to turn a blind eye to an innocent child literally right in front of you.
@@LeDiableBlancwhy should you be shouldered with the responsibility of someone else’s child?
It’s not like the kid will ever love you- kids always take the biological father over the guardian one, even when the guardian does a better job of parenthood.
The brother should be in charge of raising the kid- not the guy who got betrayed.
He’s already spent a large portion of his life funding *their* infidelity while she wasn’t working- why should he also have to spend money to support the kid she didn’t have with him?
@@LeDiableBlanc "it's not just some random child, it's his niece" that's still a random child to someone who doesn't have a personal relationship to her or her parents. If you are adoted at birth and then you find out you had a biological brother who died leaving a young child orphaned, should you be expected to take care of them?
For the rest, I just want moral consistency. I would like for society to take care of each other, not forcing a random person to take care of a random child because of some arbitrary reason that is not related to that person consenting to have or take care of a child. And if you feel like we should do that then I think we should first fix the fact that you are paying money for slave labor. Ofc, people don't like to put on the work, but they LOVE to shame others into doing it
@@LeDiableBlanc What he meant was 'You cannot help every one, you cannot save the world and every single innocent child living in it' Just because Jessie was innocent doesn't mean that he has any responsibility, it wasn't OP's fault what happened. Besides, involving with his niece meant involving with this cheating piece of crap and that would be devastating to OP's mental health. No, he had every right to wash his hands of all this bs
@@LeDiableBlancYou do realise the niece was made behind his back not only with his own flesh and blood, but the woman he was to marry. Just imagine how that baby was made, while you were working all day to keep her living there, just to make a child in your own bed. The child is innocent, but you cannot take the child from their mother. If he helped the child, he’d be forced to help the woman who made said niece in his bed. And as for the random child scenario, let someone else deal with it, or just help them out.
Would have called up my mom right away. Give her a piece of my mind and tell her that I demand $200 back
psychopaths gonna psychopath, OP needs to realize that mason will remain a psychopath and use people. man needs to let it go, bruh.
Daughter has all of his brother’s features. He is mom’s favorite. Mom sees no problem with infidelity and expects this guy to take in favorite son’s kid… Anyone else suspect mom cheated on dad?
“So I stepped aside and motioned for them to come in.” 🙄 doormat
Same shit I thought when I heard that. wtf does he mean he couldn’t be rude?
That’s how you know these stories are fake ..no way would anyone allow all this to happen even if you’re a coward weak man …
Well i question the integrity of the fiance if she did something to get fired, personal or not. It had to be pretty bad. So i wouldnt have been surprised to hear about the cheating.
I’d have said to the mum ‘you said it was gods plan that they got together and she got pregnant, therefore it’s gods plan it’s all gone wrong and god will sort everything out, have fun’
Also the mum has done a ‘my son doesn’t want to know his child so I’m not going to help you and his child anymore, go ask his brother’.. OPs mum followed her sons actions
op mom and ex is going to regret what they did to op when everything falls apart
OP said she got fired from her job for breaking the rules, that already gave an idea of her character.
The responsibility for the little one does not lie with OP, it is up to the parents to take this responsibility.
Please do a second part of this story thank you
I'm so amaze at how the thought of forgiving the parents was never and option
There's one stupid thing. ..saying that the child looks like his brother so it is his brother's child ... 2 brothers share DNA from their parents so one can absolutely make a child who looks like their uncle or aunt .And you sometimes get cousins who look alike ( without any cheating involved )
He also explained the other reasons.
How stupid it is you dont realise not every sibling looks the same, some take over mom and other one on dad features..
And OP clearly mentions abt dates and clear difference, you still dancing around with your 2 braincells
That means they obviously don't look alike...have you ever seen siblings before we don't all look alike
True. Years ago, my brother and I discovered we had another brother. Looking through long-lost brother’s childhood pictures, we could see the resemblance between the three of us.
@@mevan883 yes , that’s why I said ONE stupid thing ...
Any updates? And holy the villain turned from lila to mason and his mom in like 2 seconds
The mom and his brother made this mess and they need to clean in up. They are typical narcissists destroying lives and blaming others while taking no responsibility for any of it. He was right to kick her out and not deal with her. These are the types of betrayal that there’s no coming back from!
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I wonder if OP and his brother look alike or different. I think mom is a cheater and dad is a pushover. Why isn't Lila going after the brother for child support? With her background as an attorney she should know at least how to start that process and she can file the ppwk herself. She should be able to get some kind of job as a paralegal or secretary.
His ex needs to get a job! Apply for child support, or assistance at least...He would never be able to trust that woman again...The mom is a piece of ---- she says Lila and Jessie are family to but they aren't helping them no they expect you to. No wonder the brother turned out the way he is.
"It's as if she was trying justify..."
No, OP, she wasn't trying. She was justifying it.
Mom is a manipulative PoS.
And neither ex fiancee and brother can be remorseful for what they did. Cheating is objectively and always a malicious act.
The decision to be disloyal and unfaithful is a fully conscious one. The only "remorse" they feel is how the consequences negatively affect them.
God in every religion has asked Death penalty for Adulterers......has mankind really forgotten that?
The part where OP laid hands on the brother and giving the 304 10 minutes to get out was so satisfying.
I hope that this is a fake story. I wouldn't wish any of this on any one.
That "mother" is absolutely disgusting. After all of the bs she pulled, she decides that she is going to toss out Lila and her child and pawn them off on the man they betrayed and destroyed. She was so in love with the idea of her grandkid and Lila and Mason being together, and because Mason is a PoS she abandons them instead of helping them. Ridiculous.
I'm going to be perfectly honest I don't feel any sympathy for this person because the signs were already there and they still chose to be with somebody that's as terrible as the posters brother and mother maybe that's just me but you can't say this is one of those situations oh nobody could have seen this coming
The only ones I feel sorry for are Jesse, op and the dad
Yes, the passive other parent is always part of the problem.
He don't have a responsible
Surely op is wronged ....but he is a short tempered man without humanity....I mean his father is a sensible person here ...
tale a bit short
The mom os a cheater, cant imagine this kind of behaviour else
After listening to this… I feel so proud to be a MUSLIM😭😭💗
That's a weird religious take. If you mean Muslims have "happier" marriages, no they don't. Most devout Muslim men are just terribly abusive monsters who threaten women with death if said women aren't obedient.
As if that's sort of thing doesn't happen in Muslim societies. O wait you have child marriage which is way worse lmao
Why? What difference does it make?
This can’t be real😮
Was the ending cut off? Or was that it...?
It has a countinuation
feels like a fake story
Truth is stranger than fiction. I'm sure my infidelity and divorce story would be flagged false as well but I lived through it.
Im guessing she cheated on Mason and yean no duh Mason cheated on her. Relationships that start as an affairs end with affairs.
Spending time with another guy should be red flag enough, there are boundaries men and women should never cross, one of them is hanging out with other's man/woman, man/woman who do that had no respect for another man/woman, they're only there to ruin relationship, not worth the attention.
K a lawyer isn't dumb enough for this. He knows he can get assault charges and be sent to jail. He records and uses the law to punish them. If he is really bright he leaves before being noticed and hires PIs sets recording equipment up and gathers evidence. Cancelling all wedding stuff moving money to safe places,
The police is "VERY" lenient when your reason for beating someone is because you caught them in the act of infidelity. The most you get is an overnight at the station and shouldering medical bills.
It is easy to lose it in these situations. Regardless of what he knew, he probably only saw red at that moment.
@@MaryJane-ln3vv I agree. My first instinct is to break the person. Problem is I have seen what happens when you do that. A lawyer would have seen or heard horror tales of what happens when a man wronged decides to take revenge on the AP. He loses custody, all assets, likely winds up in jail, and then keeps paying once out, only to pay for a woman and kids who hate you and think you are worthless. Not the kids fault, wife has years to turn them against their father. Once you realize that is a likely outcome violence truly is no longer worth it.
Also not a fear thing. I am strong and tall. Very few can take me in a fight.
OP, you did the best thing, moving on. Their crap show is theirs and you should not get involved.
Mom is probably a cheater too?
Where is the rest
So the carefree brother takes pottery classes? What?
A lot of guys do stuff like this just to meet women. It's not deep.
He obviously went to where the women are.
Women will be women
Of all the people you can hook up with why would you do it with a family member's fiance? Is it because you want to betray as many people as you can at once? What happened to that little voice in the back of your head saying stop? Also why is a trained and educated lawyer unable to find a job in any field? It does not make sense
They hung around, they were aware of one another. It is not much different from an office romance in that you see the person a lot and develop feelings for them. Your spouse is much more likely to cheat with a guy she often sees compared to hooking up with a dating app.
Story cuts off abruptly.
Made up.😊
It's still a good read.
Is there a part 2? Crappy way to end the story.
Is this the end?
...but what about God's plan?
Only unfaithful hypocrite said that to justify wrongdoing, op mother has a blind heart.
Found the jump the shark moment just before the 7min mark. Fake
I give her $500 and tell her never contact me again. After all the kid is innocent
oof been there.
Nowadays women.
AI Generated Stories are so annoying.
There are enough real ones out there, just use those?
I think you should adopt jesse but dont look after lila
The child is not his so he has 0 moral or legal obligation to look after the child. Plus he has no bond or attachment with her either. How would u like if someone came to u and ask u to adopt a random child?
@bro no need to get mad
Will you do it if you are in his place?
Not a good idea. Child is a product of a very traitorous affair by 2 people who should have behaved better. Better the child has an open adoption with adults or an adult who only has love for her; & does not have any negative or mixed emotions towards the child, her father or her mum.
I would adopt a random child from an orphanage. But i would never adopt a child birth from infidelity, and not only infidelity it's from his ex and his own brother that is disgusting enough.
So what happened after you gave Lila the address why did it end right there
I feel bad for the kid its no fault of her to suffer like this i know its what the guy did was right but what was the child’s fault just to be born and suffered like that cause her biological father is a jerk who just cared bout his dick what a pathetic being and the mother is also equally guilty to act like its not something big i know its wrong and sad but if the OP could have just helped by letting leila stay till she get a job just for kid’s sake would have been still better i know its totally wrong but the fact a kid has to suffer for a nuisance of her parents. But then the OP has all right to think bout himself as its not his fault she cheated and she has to pay the price at some time to learn to trust the right person