I agree with all - except for #7. I am NEVER late - and if I am, something horrible has happened. Even believing that I might not make it on time will cause a panic attack, as "on time = late". Maybe it's because I believe punctuality is a core value that shows respect.
Absolutely do not like ever being late! Mainly because I don't like being kept waiting so a fight against ever keeping anyone else waiting. It's a sense of trust you built with society of simple consistent punctuality.
Same here!!! I DETEST lateness in myself or anyone else. Not sure if it is due to abandonment issues or if I simply want to be there early to survey the scene and plan my attack.
I used to be late ALL THE TIMEEEEE to everywhere. But I began to value punctuality and learned to stop doing so much right before I have to be somewhere.
As a fellow EN/ESFP, what is it that’s turned you into your shell? I wanna know because I just feel it in me to wanna help. I’ve kinda been there before
Number 8 really resonated with me because I extremely enjoy talking to new people but I always feel or come off as being awkward. I think it's because I hate small talk because I feel like it's forced and boring. I would much rather talk about what I'm passionate about and ask other people what they're passionate about instead of saying meaningless things like "lovely weather today".
I like to say things to people like "Hello. I like your face." or "I just read an article on phytic acid today and now I understand cold brew coffee." Why those are not conversation starters is baffling to me. Because, there's a lot more there to work with than "Hi. How have you been? "gives out.
I’ve tested out as enfp every time I’ve taken the test. But learned to not procrastinate very young. In tandem with that…am NEVER late. They really go hand in hand.
Same. My job requires me to be on time so ever since I started working I have managed to calculate time perfectly. I still stress about it while it's happening, but I'm never late 😅
Procrastinating is my worst habit. I have learned to set goals and timelines for work ahead of time giving me room for pushing out deadlines to prevent messing with my anxiety while giving myself the illusion of the needed procrastination. I also get ideas so quickly that I have a hard time communicating bc I will get a better idea before I can speak the first one. I tend to be late to my virtual meetings for the distraction and losing time.
Some people describe us as social butterflies who can go upto any stranger and have a long chat with them, which is definitely not true, at least for me. We are social and emotionally intelligent but we are also shy and need 'our' time regularly. Some ENFPs even mistake themselves for introverts bc of how much alone time they need. I found a beautiful explanation by someone on internet which I would like to put here to describe ourselves: (Wait what was the sentence? It was just in my mind. Lemme go real quick and check.) We people act extroverted but feel introverted. Ah! The contradiction in our behaviours too lol. And what I wrote above in brackets was my actual thought process rn bc I am so forgetful these days ToT I am yet to enter my youth and my memory goes brrrr I DO NOT HAVE ADHD BY THE WAY
Brooo I recently found out I'm ENFP and yess I do act extrovert but I feel introvert as well. I need alone time. Your paragraph literally took the words out of my mouth. Thank you.
The second one explained so much to me, there have been many times where people mistook me for flirting. Also, since I have such a flirty personality and behavior naturally, when I actually try to flirt it comes across as way too much.
Ever since I have gotten to know this, I have been acting more self conscious and had to actually look on internet what people might consider flirting lol
I'm an ENFP.. I'm interested in the video.. but my mind can't help to wonder or float off with random thoughts while im watching the video 😂 You got a sub from me! Thank you for this wonderful video 😁
When it said ENFPs are always late, i nearly spit out my drink. Definitely onenof my worst habits. Literally every single one of my bosses has reiterated the sentiment "if you could be on time youd be the perfect employee." Oh goodness gracious am i always late..... yes. The answer is yes.
My husband is an ENFP, and all these traits check the box. His current favorite hat is a Magikarp (Pokemon), which I think is odd, but he wears it everywhere LOL
Number 1 was my favorite!!😂😂 It's seems strange because as an extrovert who loves being our there with the people, I also love my waking up and winding down time when I get to exist fully in my head. I always have great ideas and observations but never write them down. I'm also always late, but this has gotten worse as I've gotten older. I am only discovering my creativity and love for nuance now, which is fascinating. I love it!!
5 years ago, I took the MBTI and had gotten ENTP. Today however, I place a stronger emphasis on people and feelings. I think the reality is I’m as much ENFP as I am an ENTP. And I think that’s apart of this type, always wanting to learn and engage for the sake of fulfillment and our pursuit of knowledge. The ability to switch between the two comes with experience and awareness. It’s about how well you’ve been able to round out the sharp edges of your personality.
Hey, same with me. I took this test about 4 years ago and was ENTP, but then I got ENFP when I tried it again this year. I'm struggling with choosing a career path because I am logical and naturally curious/inquisitive, and I'm great with logic, but I also am drawn deeply to people and feelings. Any insight?
Often with test I can often switch back between two but most of the time ENFP but I can instantly switch to ENTP when needed but mostly am or kinda prefer ENFP energy of people around me etc etc LMFAO
I wish I meet my ENFP soon. I am an INFJ male and my ex was an ENTP. However, she broke up and then ghosted me for her career. Initially I was angry and heartbroken, but I later realized that True love is not always being together, but rather doing anything for the happiness of the person you love, even if it means separating from them. I didn't want to get in the way of her dreams and so I let her go. I still love her very much and I pray to God that she has a great life ahead. After she left, I was just waiting to fall in love with another ENTP or an ENFP. But I never met anyone. It's been 4 years now, but I am still waiting for my soulmate, I hope I meet her soon. God how I wish there were more ENFPs in the world...tough luck finding a soulmate.
ENFP is adorable. From an INFJ. We have in common a lot. The things to work on are only few, and very manageable. ENFP is sweetheart. And they are actually capable of conversation when they want to, and they do like honesty, and have passions and interests beyond the weather. It's true: even though ENFP is extroverted, they do sometimes need quiet. The ENFP is typically happy and friendly, and can come across flirty even though it's often just being friendly which is very relatable for INFJ. INFJ, even though described as introverted, is quite extroverted at times- with people we're comfortable with or want to get to know more. And so INFJ can be so friendly like ENFP and be mistaken for flirting. At times having to spell it out for someone that they're just being friendly. I always miss you ENFP when you're not around! Can't wait to see you again. I can see a friendship or significant other with ENFP lasting, and likewise they tend to see INFJ as relative too.
I'm a bit conflicted about the whole thing about ENFP personality types being flirty without realizing it. I don't think I have bit a been accused of flirting when I wasn't flirting. Don't get me wrong I can turn it on and I'll blink of an eye when I want to. But I'm such a prude in how I carry myself that I don't allow anyone to ever get the wrong impression. At least no one's really accused me of that that I know of.
@arlettasloan6453 Hmmmm, not really. I'm a prude in large part to my faith values and in small part to being a first born, frustrated perfectionist. (Meaning the drive for perfection overwhelms me to the point that I live in chaos.) One of the perks of my schlub attire is that no one ever questions my motives. I'm just that nice old lady, which is perfectly fine with me.
Thank you so much for such a good explanation. I am an ENFP but I get confused at times if I am actually an ENFP or not lol, so these kinds of videos help me realise that maybe I was just overthinkinh.
for #7, sometimes im late but most times im early, i hate being late so much because i get anxiety if i am! the reason for me being late is my parents tbh, since they will pick me up at home (both parents are teachers and im an afternoon session student) and they always come late.
I'm an ENFP for sure, I just have autism. So, usually it makes me have MOST of the traits. However when it comes to socialisation, it still takes me a long while before i can commit to a conversation. I am mostly introverted, but I can get super outgoing when you get me on a topic I like.
The fact that I'm procrastinating while watching this video... hahahah. But I'm always able to finish everything before the deadline, even if I don't sleep...
I'm ENFP imma say how I relate. 1- very true, I'm a maladaptive dreamer too, so my imagination sometimes is out of bounds lol. I've always had a vapid imagination. 2- yes/no it really just depends on me sometimes I say flirtatious things on accident. One time I was accidentally flirtatious with an aroace friend, said something and they just looked at me. What made it worse is that I involuntarily winked at them. They almost squared me in the face. 3- Yes!!! The oddity and weirdness of anything are what make me love it! 4- Too true! Procrastination gets in the way a lot and tends to create a lot of stress though. 5- Indeed. I do enjoy some rules but not when it's confining or restricting, I don't like to be held back by things unless the well-being for others is on the line. 6-This is very true. I tend to jump into so many projects with motivation but honestly, it gets very overwhelming I keep biting off more than I can chew, to the point that sometimes I feel guilty for that. 7- The is super true. I get side tracked easily and have very terrible time management 8 yeah can be awkward but I have over time become more accepting of me.
@Rawnak Rangan (Double R) One of the big struggles for me is keeping myself accountable and on task but I have a few ways I try to use to help me. I think the most helpful is that I have a friend who will keep me accountable for my betterment. He doesn't have to but he chooses to. When I am in class and I'm slacking off he will not stop pestering me about the work until I start working, and once I do he checks in with me often in case I'm confused, so get yourself a friend who will keep you accountable. He is way more logical than me and has to keep reminding me, "yes I know you want to don't want to do that but if you let the work pile up you become overwhelmed and then you become depressed and then your depression keeps more work piling up and it's a hard cycle to break so let's break that now." Get a buddy who will keep you accountable. If you don't want to get a friend to do that, I get it. 2- You gotta remember getting the work done before rewarding yourself will make you feel so much better because you could like play games and not have to know or have future stress that you have homework that is supposed to be done. Also 3-, what I use the most to get me to do anything is " I can't do this until I get this other thing I am supposed to do done. Now don't take this to the extreme of " I can't eat until I finish cleaning my messy room because it's pissing off the very small old I got from my mom and it's overwhelming and makes me depressed" because that's unhealthy for you and I can say from experience. I do not know how helpful these will be but if you want another tip I haven't tried yet it's setting a low-energy, mid-energy, high-energy cereal routine. Obviously not something too restricted and too uniform and too routine but it's something that might help? I'm sorry if this wasn't helpful, but maybe you can use some of these tips!
No! we are not late. I prefer to schedule everything 5 minute earlier! And when we know our decision may affect anyone else, we are good to be on schedule. We just can't concentrate when the work is for ourselves😅. And I personally can relate with flirting one. I found people too interesting. I wanna know everything about them and often, the person think that I am interested in them or something. But it's just my interest in knowing a human being 😅
Great video! but I agree with most here, you got them all right except the being late one! I think most of us HATE being late or other people being late
I’m always late. I’m not even going to lie. I desire to be punctual but that lasts about a week. Lol. I’m always getting distracted by things or concepts I find interesting.
I’ve always gotten the enfp result and number 3 is so much me, people always say they’re jealous of how much I don’t care what people think and like to stand out.
The ENFPs I know are not always late. Some of them are quite punctual in fact, and do finish projects. But this may just be the more mature ENFP type. Lateness and procrastination are probably more common in immature ENFPs.
Yes all true, though with age or appealing enough incentives to do so, we can train ourselves out of procrastination, difficulty with follow-through, tardiness, and awkwardness. We learn that we care about others, so we don't want to hurt them with our negligence, and moreover, part of learning about our personality is learning how to work with it. We learn to live as right-brain dominants in a world that has a proclivity to left-brained values, since we have to- until we change the world, one enfp at a time.
7:14 - "ENFP are always late..." Jesus christ, did I got the wrong MBTI result? I AM NEVER LATE, I can't tolerate people being late. Yes, I'm lost in my brain and might never finish any damn project but I am always on time
another ENFp-T here! and I am struggling with procrastination and distraction but I just pushed myself into a new work project bcs of my brilliant ideas. yeah, I am doomed!
I think that if you're a turbulent enfp #6 and #7 will make more sense to you, and if you're an assertive enfp you won't agree with them. Because based on my own experiences as an enfp-a I've learned to not procrastinate and i've also learned to not be late!
I’m ENFP…never late, organized, rules are guidelines not laws, never met a stranger, instantly likable but not overtly flirty, laugh at myself easily, love making friends, awkward in formal situations, do not watch Television…competes with the chatter in my head, love, love, love to research, paint, draw, cook, entertain, and discover new ideas, and laugh. ❤ to my sister/brother ENFP’s!
I can relate to almost all of it. The things I can't relate to is being perceived as flirty with everyone, and I actually am pretty tidy.. I dont like when my home is a mess.
This is me! Except…now that I’m older I tend to stay away from people since I tended to get into trouble, despite my best intentions, but it’s okay since my mind is my favorite place! 🤷♀️🤣
Ok that totally me, except I m not late , except to go to work ( so boring) sometimes , but I love punctuality especially with the things or the persons I love. I m the big master of procrastination and inacheved projects and I hate this and the rest is so accurate , incredible!
I seriously need tips on how all of you were saying you’re never late. I am literally late for everything. What is so funny, is it is for the exact reason he listed. Once I start doing something, I instantly get distracted and do something else, then something else, then something else. Next thing I know, I was supposed to be somewhere an hour ago. Lol
I used to be bad with being on time, then took the habbit of setting alarms with my phone. A lot of alarms, for everything. Say I need to go somewhere, I set an alarm for when I need to leave to not be late (taking transportation time into account, which I look up), then I prepare, do other stuff, whatever, but as soon as it rings I grab my bag, put my shoes on and leave. And I keep my phone agenda up to date (with reminders).
Yep. One time my best friend was mad at me for not seeing or calling her on a Sunday. By way of apology, because, she wouldn't talk to me, I followed her around singing Sister Golden Hair ... "Well, I tried to make it Sunday, but I got so damn depressed, that I set my sights on Monday and I got myself undressed .." and she yelled, "It's WEDNESDAY!" and I said, "Yeah, but I set my sights on Sunday. I have been having a really bad time."
I can speak to anyone easily yet be so awkward😅 i remember i was speaking to a friend then a classmate wanted to speak to her and basically ignored my existence so i replied "Hey there im also a lonely pringle looking to mingle🤗" i swear it sounded catchy in my head but he just sneered and i continued by picking up my shattered pride off the floor🤺
Its crazy how that video just mentions things I was thinking about myself my whole life. Being different than most of the people - I have soo much ideas I cant handle, best-procrastinator, ALWAYS late (though I seriously dont want to be) and and and. Its not only what I think of myself, also what others think of myself and are able to confirm. Happy to be a little weirdo and enjoy live. ❤
Accurate with all... I’m always get ENFP since first time I did the test it’s never changed 😅 like I took it every years since I was 20 something and now I’m 30 so maybe 5,6 times already and this is really me 🤪
Rarely is flirting purposeful. This appears to happen when our mind and body engage at once, making us lively, expressive, curious. It is our actual, most natural state, as we like to engage our brain in deep thoughts and express our thoughts with physical movement. We would be this way most of the time if we could, but we feel sometimes we have to hide that part of ourself or we will be misunderstood. Others seem to take it as highly personal, but we are being fully us at the time. I have seen other ENFP be lkke this, and I agree, it does seem super flirty... such an odd thing.
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I've always thought how strange it is that I'm social and talkative yet so awkward at the same time! 😅
Thanks for sharing!
I’m really good around people I’m friends with and I’m incredibly social but when I talk to someone new I’m so awkward
SAME!
Same ;D
What's really weird is when we talk to ourselves
We don't flirt with everyone, we just like to get to know people and make them feel comfortable
Everyone thinks I'm flirting with them all the time. I'm just being friendly and I like people!
LITERALLY
@@justMsBruss exactly
Facts.
That's true. I don't flirt with mostly anypne, but a lot of people sure think I do.
Being awkward but not minding it is the définition of ENFPs😆
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Or to be confident enough in your own awkwardness to embrace it and laugh how akward it makes the other person 😂
I agree with all - except for #7. I am NEVER late - and if I am, something horrible has happened. Even believing that I might not make it on time will cause a panic attack, as "on time = late". Maybe it's because I believe punctuality is a core value that shows respect.
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Absolutely do not like ever being late! Mainly because I don't like being kept waiting so a fight against ever keeping anyone else waiting. It's a sense of trust you built with society of simple consistent punctuality.
Same here!!! I DETEST lateness in myself or anyone else. Not sure if it is due to abandonment issues or if I simply want to be there early to survey the scene and plan my attack.
My ENFP is always late xD. She is always oversleeping and coming late for our meet up. But that's fine by me. But yeaa i think its true
I feel like everything was correct except being late. I get anxiety if I’m late lol
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I used to be late ALL THE TIMEEEEE to everywhere. But I began to value punctuality and learned to stop doing so much right before I have to be somewhere.
@@heritage.home.crochet Thank you for sharing!
Lmao I hate being late but I'm almost always late
@@eri5864 Why is that?
So that’s why people always think I’m flirting
I'm 100% ENFP but I'm suspecting I might also have ADHD. Campaigners are known to have ADHD.
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im an ENFP but i dont have ADHD
I have adhd and am an enfp ☝️
I was diagnosed with ADD at a young age.
Im ENFP but I've lost motivation for everything, I barely talk and I'm not as happy as I used to be
It's like I've become a shell of my old self
As a fellow EN/ESFP, what is it that’s turned you into your shell? I wanna know because I just feel it in me to wanna help. I’ve kinda been there before
@@intrstn It turns out it was my friend group, I left them and I'm so much more happier and I'm a lot more talkative :)
Sadly I feel the same ENFP-T here
Number 8 really resonated with me because I extremely enjoy talking to new people but I always feel or come off as being awkward. I think it's because I hate small talk because I feel like it's forced and boring. I would much rather talk about what I'm passionate about and ask other people what they're passionate about instead of saying meaningless things like "lovely weather today".
I like to say things to people like "Hello. I like your face." or "I just read an article on phytic acid today and now I understand cold brew coffee." Why those are not conversation starters is baffling to me. Because, there's a lot more there to work with than "Hi. How have you been? "gives out.
Why do people do small talk anyway...? Not like you ACTUALLY give a fuck about what is my next class or what i ate yesterday ??
I’ve tested out as enfp every time I’ve taken the test. But learned to not procrastinate very young. In tandem with that…am NEVER late. They really go hand in hand.
Great! Thank you for sharing.
Same. My job requires me to be on time so ever since I started working I have managed to calculate time perfectly. I still stress about it while it's happening, but I'm never late 😅
@@theodora_pilates Thanks Theodora for sharing!
Same here...I'm an ENFP to a T but I cannot STAND being late...abandonment issues no doubt.
I think enfp took the title of "master of procrastination" away from intp😂😂😂.
Procrastinating is my worst habit. I have learned to set goals and timelines for work ahead of time giving me room for pushing out deadlines to prevent messing with my anxiety while giving myself the illusion of the needed procrastination.
I also get ideas so quickly that I have a hard time communicating bc I will get a better idea before I can speak the first one.
I tend to be late to my virtual meetings for the distraction and losing time.
Some people describe us as social butterflies who can go upto any stranger and have a long chat with them, which is definitely not true, at least for me. We are social and emotionally intelligent but we are also shy and need 'our' time regularly. Some ENFPs even mistake themselves for introverts bc of how much alone time they need. I found a beautiful explanation by someone on internet which I would like to put here to describe ourselves:
(Wait what was the sentence? It was just in my mind. Lemme go real quick and check.)
We people act extroverted but feel introverted. Ah! The contradiction in our behaviours too lol. And what I wrote above in brackets was my actual thought process rn bc I am so forgetful these days ToT I am yet to enter my youth and my memory goes brrrr
I DO NOT HAVE ADHD BY THE WAY
This is exactly me, I act extroverted but feel introverted
Okay this was super helpful!!
You type like an enfp lol
@@azeret77 Lol thanks
Brooo I recently found out I'm ENFP and yess I do act extrovert but I feel introvert as well. I need alone time.
Your paragraph literally took the words out of my mouth. Thank you.
The second one explained so much to me, there have been many times where people mistook me for flirting. Also, since I have such a flirty personality and behavior naturally, when I actually try to flirt it comes across as way too much.
Thanks for sharing this!
Ever since I have gotten to know this, I have been acting more self conscious and had to actually look on internet what people might consider flirting lol
I'm an ENFP.. I'm interested in the video.. but my mind can't help to wonder or float off with random thoughts while im watching the video 😂 You got a sub from me! Thank you for this wonderful video 😁
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Seriously. I was already thinking of something else within 20 seconds
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When it said ENFPs are always late, i nearly spit out my drink. Definitely onenof my worst habits. Literally every single one of my bosses has reiterated the sentiment "if you could be on time youd be the perfect employee." Oh goodness gracious am i always late..... yes. The answer is yes.
I actually think enfps are a lot more organized than they appear. Its just a different approach than most people are used to
Thank you for this comment!
Trademark: organized chaos
I would agree
As an ENFP, I agree
Rules are for people that can't make their own decisions. ENFP
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Interesting! Do you make your own rules then?
@@PsychologyRefresh I make my own decisions based on a strong internal compass. I have guidelines not rules. Rules are far too rigid.
@@silentgrove7670 Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
@@silentgrove7670 Yes, and you doňt have to remember them (rules). It is much easier to navigate ourselves by our compass.
My husband is an ENFP, and all these traits check the box. His current favorite hat is a Magikarp (Pokemon), which I think is odd, but he wears it everywhere LOL
Thanks for sharing!
Aaawwee🥰🥰 That sounds adorable
I'm an ENFP too, and I also used to wear a Magikarp hat a lot🥺 you and your husband sound awesome!!
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I'm never late. It's rude and dismissive of another person's time.
True 💯
As an INFP I love ENFPs. They are like we want to be in our head 🤣. Sadly I don't know any ENFP yet.
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@@silentgrove7670 Do you start conversations often?
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@@gibbishgiggles Great personality type!
the punctual thing is so true, even when i get things start early, i always get distracted and become even late than usual
Such an irony that im procrastinating very very hard in this moment while watching this video as an enfp type😂
I wasn't. I was doing it in lieu of procrastination. lol
Number 1 was my favorite!!😂😂 It's seems strange because as an extrovert who loves being our there with the people, I also love my waking up and winding down time when I get to exist fully in my head. I always have great ideas and observations but never write them down.
I'm also always late, but this has gotten worse as I've gotten older. I am only discovering my creativity and love for nuance now, which is fascinating. I love it!!
Thanks for sharing!!
5 years ago, I took the MBTI and had gotten ENTP. Today however, I place a stronger emphasis on people and feelings. I think the reality is I’m as much ENFP as I am an ENTP.
And I think that’s apart of this type, always wanting to learn and engage for the sake of fulfillment and our pursuit of knowledge.
The ability to switch between the two comes with experience and awareness. It’s about how well you’ve been able to round out the sharp edges of your personality.
Thanks for bringing your perspective!
Hey, same with me. I took this test about 4 years ago and was ENTP, but then I got ENFP when I tried it again this year. I'm struggling with choosing a career path because I am logical and naturally curious/inquisitive, and I'm great with logic, but I also am drawn deeply to people and feelings. Any insight?
Often with test I can often switch back between two but most of the time ENFP but I can instantly switch to ENTP when needed but mostly am or kinda prefer ENFP energy of people around me etc etc LMFAO
I like how it says that i wont finish the work fully just like how i have comeback to finish watching this video after being distracted lol
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I wish I meet my ENFP soon. I am an INFJ male and my ex was an ENTP. However, she broke up and then ghosted me for her career. Initially I was angry and heartbroken, but I later realized that True love is not always being together, but rather doing anything for the happiness of the person you love, even if it means separating from them. I didn't want to get in the way of her dreams and so I let her go. I still love her very much and I pray to God that she has a great life ahead. After she left, I was just waiting to fall in love with another ENTP or an ENFP. But I never met anyone. It's been 4 years now, but I am still waiting for my soulmate, I hope I meet her soon. God how I wish there were more ENFPs in the world...tough luck finding a soulmate.
You'll be fine! Be happy! 🌺
@@qw_milan Thank you.
ENFP is adorable. From an INFJ. We have in common a lot. The things to work on are only few, and very manageable. ENFP is sweetheart. And they are actually capable of conversation when they want to, and they do like honesty, and have passions and interests beyond the weather. It's true: even though ENFP is extroverted, they do sometimes need quiet. The ENFP is typically happy and friendly, and can come across flirty even though it's often just being friendly which is very relatable for INFJ. INFJ, even though described as introverted, is quite extroverted at times- with people we're comfortable with or want to get to know more. And so INFJ can be so friendly like ENFP and be mistaken for flirting. At times having to spell it out for someone that they're just being friendly. I always miss you ENFP when you're not around! Can't wait to see you again. I can see a friendship or significant other with ENFP lasting, and likewise they tend to see INFJ as relative too.
AAAAH I love infj's
Absolutely true. I really struggle to finish projects and suffer from regulation.
Okay!
I suffer to start them, and when I start them i suffer to finish them hahah
I was just watching this video when I have two tests tomorrow when procrastinating point came up. You didn't have to call out like that lol
I'm a bit conflicted about the whole thing about ENFP personality types being flirty without realizing it. I don't think I have bit a been accused of flirting when I wasn't flirting. Don't get me wrong I can turn it on and I'll blink of an eye when I want to. But I'm such a prude in how I carry myself that I don't allow anyone to ever get the wrong impression. At least no one's really accused me of that that I know of.
Thanks for sharing this!
Did it ever occur to you that you are such a prude because you sense how easy it would be to get mistaken for a flirt?
@arlettasloan6453 Hmmmm, not really. I'm a prude in large part to my faith values and in small part to being a first born, frustrated perfectionist. (Meaning the drive for perfection overwhelms me to the point that I live in chaos.) One of the perks of my schlub attire is that no one ever questions my motives. I'm just that nice old lady, which is perfectly fine with me.
It hurts to hear the truth 😂, but at least I know I'm 100% enfp, thanks for your video !
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Thank you so much for such a good explanation. I am an ENFP but I get confused at times if I am actually an ENFP or not lol, so these kinds of videos help me realise that maybe I was just overthinkinh.
I am awkward but I don’t mind it a lot of times. But I am extremely talkative and outgoing as well lmao !!
for #7, sometimes im late but most times im early, i hate being late so much because i get anxiety if i am! the reason for me being late is my parents tbh, since they will pick me up at home (both parents are teachers and im an afternoon session student) and they always come late.
EVERYTHING was spot on, this was almost scary
Great to hear!
YEAH, EXACTLY
Punctual ENFP here, but it's true, I was unpunctual most of my life until I met my Ex who is an ESTJ 😅learned to be punctual from him.
Great for you!
I know why he’s your ex lol, nothing to do with the punctuality thing but I can see how other traits would clash
Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have ADHD
;)
As an ESFP/ENFP, I can just FEEL the multiple personalities oozing out through the comment section and I fucking love it LOL
I'm an ENFP for sure, I just have autism. So, usually it makes me have MOST of the traits. However when it comes to socialisation, it still takes me a long while before i can commit to a conversation. I am mostly introverted, but I can get super outgoing when you get me on a topic I like.
The fact that I'm procrastinating while watching this video... hahahah. But I'm always able to finish everything before the deadline, even if I don't sleep...
As a enfp I have so many switching ideas so I’ve had to learn to focus on one at a time haha
Perfect!
I'm ENFP imma say how I relate.
1- very true, I'm a maladaptive dreamer too, so my imagination sometimes is out of bounds lol. I've always had a vapid imagination.
2- yes/no it really just depends on me sometimes I say flirtatious things on accident. One time I was accidentally flirtatious with an aroace friend, said something and they just looked at me. What made it worse is that I involuntarily winked at them. They almost squared me in the face.
3- Yes!!! The oddity and weirdness of anything are what make me love it!
4- Too true! Procrastination gets in the way a lot and tends to create a lot of stress though.
5- Indeed. I do enjoy some rules but not when it's confining or restricting, I don't like to be held back by things unless the well-being for others is on the line.
6-This is very true. I tend to jump into so many projects with motivation but honestly, it gets very overwhelming I keep biting off more than I can chew, to the point that sometimes I feel guilty for that.
7- The is super true. I get side tracked easily and have very terrible time management
8 yeah can be awkward but I have over time become more accepting of me.
@Rawnak Rangan (Double R) One of the big struggles for me is keeping myself accountable and on task but I have a few ways I try to use to help me. I think the most helpful is that I have a friend who will keep me accountable for my betterment. He doesn't have to but he chooses to. When I am in class and I'm slacking off he will not stop pestering me about the work until I start working, and once I do he checks in with me often in case I'm confused, so get yourself a friend who will keep you accountable. He is way more logical than me and has to keep reminding me, "yes I know you want to don't want to do that but if you let the work pile up you become overwhelmed and then you become depressed and then your depression keeps more work piling up and it's a hard cycle to break so let's break that now." Get a buddy who will keep you accountable. If you don't want to get a friend to do that, I get it. 2- You gotta remember getting the work done before rewarding yourself will make you feel so much better because you could like play games and not have to know or have future stress that you have homework that is supposed to be done. Also 3-, what I use the most to get me to do anything is " I can't do this until I get this other thing I am supposed to do done. Now don't take this to the extreme of " I can't eat until I finish cleaning my messy room because it's pissing off the very small old I got from my mom and it's overwhelming and makes me depressed" because that's unhealthy for you and I can say from experience. I do not know how helpful these will be but if you want another tip I haven't tried yet it's setting a low-energy, mid-energy, high-energy cereal routine. Obviously not something too restricted and too uniform and too routine but it's something that might help? I'm sorry if this wasn't helpful, but maybe you can use some of these tips!
Hi fellow ENFP. I want to know more about us but I decide to procrastinate.
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No! we are not late. I prefer to schedule everything 5 minute earlier! And when we know our decision may affect anyone else, we are good to be on schedule.
We just can't concentrate when the work is for ourselves😅.
And I personally can relate with flirting one. I found people too interesting. I wanna know everything about them and often, the person think that I am interested in them or something. But it's just my interest in knowing a human being 😅
Great video! but I agree with most here, you got them all right except the being late one! I think most of us HATE being late or other people being late
Thanks for sharing!
I’m always late. I’m not even going to lie. I desire to be punctual but that lasts about a week. Lol. I’m always getting distracted by things or concepts I find interesting.
@@soloscriptura7451 oh interesting. Now that you explained it makes sense to be either one or the other
I’ve always gotten the enfp result and number 3 is so much me, people always say they’re jealous of how much I don’t care what people think and like to stand out.
I have never felt more seen and excepted. I feel the need to show this to my boss and coworkers. Lol
Thank you for sharing this!
The ENFPs I know are not always late. Some of them are quite punctual in fact, and do finish projects. But this may just be the more mature ENFP type. Lateness and procrastination are probably more common in immature ENFPs.
Can't relate to the comments I'm always late 😭 and I always get distracted while getting ready
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
Everything was so accurate besides the being late part! Where are my punctual ENFPs at? :)
Are you always punctual?
Not here lol
🤚🏾 but only because I use an app that accurately predicts how long it will take me to get places 🤣 before that it was chaos
Yes all true, though with age or appealing enough incentives to do so, we can train ourselves out of procrastination, difficulty with follow-through, tardiness, and awkwardness. We learn that we care about others, so we don't want to hurt them with our negligence, and moreover, part of learning about our personality is learning how to work with it. We learn to live as right-brain dominants in a world that has a proclivity to left-brained values, since we have to- until we change the world, one enfp at a time.
7:14 - "ENFP are always late..." Jesus christ, did I got the wrong MBTI result? I AM NEVER LATE, I can't tolerate people being late. Yes, I'm lost in my brain and might never finish any damn project but I am always on time
Same with me. I'm never late, but I'm always either finishing my project a few hours before the deadline, or I'm not finishing it at all
Turbulent Campaigner (ENFP-T) here 🤘
Hello!
another ENFp-T here! and I am struggling with procrastination and distraction but I just pushed myself into a new work project bcs of my brilliant ideas. yeah, I am doomed!
My deepest congratulations to the creator!!! This is spot on for ENFP including myself!!!!! Well done! Other videos not so to the point as this.
Me too, I second everything apart from being late, well, sometimes I am, but it is not a habit
I took the test twice and got ESFP both times, but this ENTIRE video is literally me. So idk if I’m ESFP or ENFP. I’m just gonna say I’m both 😂
I think that if you're a turbulent enfp #6 and #7 will make more sense to you, and if you're an assertive enfp you won't agree with them. Because based on my own experiences as an enfp-a I've learned to not procrastinate and i've also learned to not be late!
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
@@PsychologyRefresh You're welcome :)
I'm really bad at handling my procrastination. I wish I don't procrastinate much often because I could have made so many amazing unrush stuff :'(
Thanks for sharing!
I’m ENFP…never late, organized, rules are guidelines not laws, never met a stranger, instantly likable but not overtly flirty, laugh at myself easily, love making friends, awkward in formal situations, do not watch Television…competes with the chatter in my head, love, love, love to research, paint, draw, cook, entertain, and discover new ideas, and laugh. ❤ to my sister/brother ENFP’s!
I'm a ENFP, but i am never late. I'm always the first person at any date, and i don't have problems with deadlines..
Interesting!
No way I am never EVER late. If you are not 15min early you are late!
I love how they stress how weird we are. As if we’re strange, but we can sense what people need and we make them feel comfortable
Ill be late to my own funeral!
Yes, indeed you are 100% correct! Great content!! I will refer others to your channel!
Thank you so much, we really appreciate you!
Procrastination king ? That's me
Never finishing anything? That's me
Being Late ? definitely not me
;)
So strange they complement INFJ's but it's fitting & sweet.
EVERYTHING IS CONNECTING TO ME I'M EVEN PROCRASTINATING RN BEFORE I GO TO SLEEP BRUHH
;)
Enfp is the powerhouse of a team🫶🏻
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Hahaha I relate to all of them as an ENFP-T. Especially on the always late part no matter how hard I try😂
I agree SO MUCH with #3 and #6 XD. I have more then a dozen book ideas with at least 3 chapters but i can never finish them .-.
I can relate to almost all of it. The things I can't relate to is being perceived as flirty with everyone, and I actually am pretty tidy.. I dont like when my home is a mess.
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
Woah!! This was spot on
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3:20 This makes me sad. It is like people do not accept us for who we are at our core.
Didn't you just read my biography? Because everything is about me (however, I'm not that sure about flirting all the time)
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This is me! Except…now that I’m older I tend to stay away from people since I tended to get into trouble, despite my best intentions, but it’s okay since my mind is my favorite place! 🤷♀️🤣
Ok that totally me, except I m not late , except to go to work ( so boring) sometimes , but I love punctuality especially with the things or the persons I love. I m the big master of procrastination and inacheved projects and I hate this and the rest is so accurate , incredible!
I can not manage to get in time no matter how hard I try😂
4:24 I'm watching this while I should be doing college homework
GURRLLL ME TOOO I HAVE HUGE TEST AND HERE IM
@@diya4423 Hahahahaha, ya better try to do something before gets too late (not like i can say something hahahaha)
This is all true but surprisingly im never late to class but im late to other places 😂
I used to always be late until I moved to a place 5 minutes walk from where i need to go everyday and now I'm ok
Thanks for sharing!
I seriously need tips on how all of you were saying you’re never late. I am literally late for everything. What is so funny, is it is for the exact reason he listed. Once I start doing something, I instantly get distracted and do something else, then something else, then something else. Next thing I know, I was supposed to be somewhere an hour ago. Lol
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
I used to be bad with being on time, then took the habbit of setting alarms with my phone. A lot of alarms, for everything. Say I need to go somewhere, I set an alarm for when I need to leave to not be late (taking transportation time into account, which I look up), then I prepare, do other stuff, whatever, but as soon as it rings I grab my bag, put my shoes on and leave.
And I keep my phone agenda up to date (with reminders).
"Campaigners" is okay.
"Advocates" is better.
I feel like (if I'm campaigning) I advocate for the voiceless.
Yep. One time my best friend was mad at me for not seeing or calling her on a Sunday. By way of apology, because, she wouldn't talk to me, I followed her around singing Sister Golden Hair ... "Well, I tried to make it Sunday, but I got so damn depressed, that I set my sights on Monday and I got myself undressed .." and she yelled, "It's WEDNESDAY!" and I said, "Yeah, but I set my sights on Sunday. I have been having a really bad time."
As an ENFP , i like to be weird 😅
not me, an enfp, watching this as a form of procrastination instead of doing bio homework…
Thanks for watching!
Ok I’m an ENFP, but I HATE being late. It’s the only one that doesn’t apply to me
I can speak to anyone easily yet be so awkward😅
i remember i was speaking to a friend then a classmate wanted to speak to her and basically ignored my existence so i replied "Hey there im also a lonely pringle looking to mingle🤗" i swear it sounded catchy in my head but he just sneered and i continued by picking up my shattered pride off the floor🤺
Thank you for your video, it was kinda funny to watch because I recognize myself in almost everything you said
That's awesome!
people always tell me I am weird, guess I now know why
This made me feel so relax ❤❤
everyone comment tht they will get anxiety if they are late, ME TOO haha
Thanks for sharing!
I’m always late but I do get anxiety from it
:)
Its crazy how that video just mentions things I was thinking about myself my whole life. Being different than most of the people - I have soo much ideas I cant handle, best-procrastinator, ALWAYS late (though I seriously dont want to be) and and and. Its not only what I think of myself, also what others think of myself and are able to confirm.
Happy to be a little weirdo and enjoy live. ❤
God, insights like these are mostly useful and better than college courses
Glad to hear that!
Accurate with all... I’m always get ENFP since first time I did the test it’s never changed 😅 like I took it every years since I was 20 something and now I’m 30 so maybe 5,6 times already and this is really me 🤪
That's awesome!
Rarely is flirting purposeful. This appears to happen when our mind and body engage at once, making us lively, expressive, curious. It is our actual, most natural state, as we like to engage our brain in deep thoughts and express our thoughts with physical movement. We would be this way most of the time if we could, but we feel sometimes we have to hide that part of ourself or we will be misunderstood. Others seem to take it as highly personal, but we are being fully us at the time. I have seen other ENFP be lkke this, and I agree, it does seem super flirty... such an odd thing.
Always thought I had autism or something else undiagnosed, turns out I’m just an ENFP. 😂
6:00 We dont mind doingnwhat ee are told. What we hate is claustrophobic control by others.
Im late for work and i work from home. I stay up too late working on one of my many projects that i hope to finish someday lol
Thanks for sharing!