Q&A | living alone in nyc, leaving my 9-5, boyfriend reveal?
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- Hello friends,
One of my goals this year is to further connect with you all and try to showcase even more of my authentic self here on TH-cam. Hopefully, through this Q&A you will get to know me a little better. Thank you to everyone who took the time to ask a question and if it wasn't answered in this video (there were actually a lot of relationship & data science q's that I couldn't fit in here), hopefully I can address it in future ones ♥️
xx,
Julia
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00:00 - intro
01:16 - age
01:23 - height
01:28 - ethnicity
01:42 - myers briggs
02:54 - horoscope
03:22 - favorite dishes
03:40 - describe yourself with one word
04:34 - favorite thing about your new apartment
05:06 - best and worst things about living alone
06:23 - plans to get a pet
07:17 - will you live in nyc forever
07:50 - most challenging part of living in nyc
08:31 - if you could live anywhere else where would it be
09:18 - how do you balance everything
11:06 - what are your long-term career goals
12:24 - do you plan on leaving your 9-5
13:04 - do you ever feel behind in life
14:39 - intermission
15:19 - why do you blur your bf's face
16:19 - how long have you and your bf been dating
17:20 - when/will you ever show your bf
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Your bf being so supportive is so cute!! The 1 year and 6 months thing was funny 😆😆
+1 🥰🤍
thank you!! haha I felt so embarrassed while editing that part of the video 🥹
I can listen to julia talk all day her voice is so soothing 💖 the little interactions with her bf is also so cute ughhhh
+1 😅🥰🌺
omg I can talk all day if you really want me to 🥹🥰 I am so talkative irl haha
Hugs back. I am a 70+ subscriber. I found you randomly a year ago. I am impressed by your maturity at 26. I admire that you are career focused and appreciate all the opportunities there are for women these days compared to the 70s when I was your age. Keep up the interesting content.
Julia's vlogs are my breath of fresh air. i feel like she's a friend from afar. she speaks genuinely and I can tell, she's a true dedicated to everyone and everything she does. IT'S WHY I KEPT SUBSCRIBED. 🧡
This comment made me so happy 🥹 we are all friends for life hehe 🫶
Happy about this Q&A vlog !! Love that you have this amazing relationship! I love your vlogs for the aesthetics, NYC content and the calm of your voice !
I love your videos so much! I love the positive and happy energy you give off! Why I started following you is because when I saw your nyc apartment hunting vlogs I already knew your content is amazing! I love how you show both of the good- and bad sides of living in nyc, of how it’s actually complicated to find apartments to rent and overall you are very realistic and honest! :) I just love how honest you are and your videos are so calming and relaxing to watch!
I found your channel from your apartment search video for this apartment and subscribed immediately! and have watched every video since. I love nyc content creators and also love that you bring a different angle from still having a 9-5. Your content is just really relatable and soothing!
Subscribed around the time you did the first ny apartment haunting vlogs. I enjoy how laid back and relatable you are. Content is fun and your personality shows throughout. Everything from the edits, audio, etc is a vibe. Their always just enough to keep us eager to watch more.
Hi Julia, thank you for leaving the funny parts in, always enjoy your video's, keep smiling, you're on your way to two million, just a couple more subscribers and you're there! 😊❤
Your videos are very calming! The 20 something vlogs and the moving information sold me!!!!
Also you just really seem like a genuine person 🤎
Like a lot of people have said, you’re a breath of fresh air, and calming and relaxing. Also I love your productivity and apt decorating vlogs.
I first found your videos when I was researching moving to NYC and I stuck around because I find your videos so calming and easy to watch. You actually inspired me to go to college to get a bachelors in software development. I’m currently enrolled in school and your videos are a huge motivator for me. Thank you for your content!
I found your channel through your NYC apartment hunts. I suck around because I like the feel of your videos, they’re very nice and relaxing! It’s like a little treat at the end of the day, like a hot tea to wind down.
The China blogs brought me. REALLY LOVING them. Only watched two and excited to see the rest. Thank you for posting them ♥
I continue to watch your videos because even by just simply living your life, you inspire me, and your videos are just so soothing and calming. Somehow, your videos give me a certain feeling which is the equivalent of the saying "you're going to figure it all out, like you always did."
Ahhh i love this video in particular so much! Also, 100% behind the idea that you would be comfortable showing your bf's face when you and he feel more comfortable doing that together. Comfort is an important thing and I totally support.
I started following your channel upon discovering the apartment hunt video and stayed for the snips into your life and also because you are a CS student. I graduated with a CS degree and then an MBA and then deviated and moved into audit and am making plans to get back into data science in particular so your content, data science focused and otherwise, is motivating and helpful to me. I also really enjoy watching them for the simple joys of life. :)
I hope your channel continues to grow, more importantly, you continue to grow and have great things coming your way. Lots of love from all the way across the world
julia! you are such a breath of fresh air. i can sit and watch you talk for hours. you really feel like a friend and you are so down to earth and transparent! hope you are well x
i've been watching your vlogs for a week straight now because you're whole vibe is so chill and feels authentic. a lot of bloggers love to do loud, snap cuts, and very exaggerated persona. i love that yours is the exact opposite of that.. i really love your work vlogs and day in my life vids!
I found you through your previous apartment hunting video, then stayed because I love the "living in NYC" content, and it's also refreshing to watch content creators who have a 9-5. I love your personality and the overall quality and vibe of your videos. 🥰
loved your week in a life, bc I’m very obsessed with Spotify and loved your vibe❤
I love this video idea! I just found your channel awhile ago so it’s nice to see a q&a! Now I feel like I know you better 💞😭🫶🏼
that was the goal so I'm glad!! 🥰
I just love your vibe and aesthetic! You always inspire me with your videos!☺
I always thought he wanted his privacy. Good for Julia - wait until the future. He is very supportive and sounds lovely.
Your videos are so calming! 💕
I believe one of your productive vlogs is what attracted me to your channel.
u are so well spoken julia!! your voice and knowledge/understanding of the things you talk about is so satisfying and inspiring!!
the best compliment ever - thank you camila ♥
Loved this video! These types of sit down Q&A's feels like we're just facetiming and eating together😆Would love to see more of these in the future 😊
I started following you because of the apartment hunt videos. Really like how practical AND aesthetic you are. I also watched 1-2 of your data science videos even though I'm not working in the field. Do take good care of yourself~ I think you're amazing for balancing so many things in life, and you're definitely not "behind" in life.
soo cute!! i watched you since your first apt in astoria video & i love that you've stayed true to your aesthetic
Omg WOW that is a very old video 😮 I am so touched that you’ve been watching since way back 😭 appreciate you so much ❤
That was fun, thank you and congrats again on 100k !
You guys are hilarious together! 😂 I think one of the first videos I saw was a productive day/work vlog but I stayed because your videos are somehow comforting to watch? Just chill no pressure but still inspiring to get my behind up and doing stuff? This video was different and it was funny to get to know your stumpid side - because who doesn't have one? Keeping in the embarrassing bits makes your videos feel very honest and so enjoyable, thank you for sharing slices of your life 🥰
started watching from your what i spend in a week video. kept watching because your videos have good vibes, and i find u relatable, hard-working, nice and genuine.☺
thank you for being here 🥺♥
I love your simplicity and how you value your culture ❤..As an African it’s amazing to watch a totally different community through your Channel..Love you ❤
wait i love this so much and hope you do more Q&As!
yayy glad you enjoyed! more to come in the future 🤞
I love watching your videos so much ❤️❤️. They always make me smile.
I really like seeing life in different parts of the world, you and your anesthetic and fashion sense inspire me :)
I first came across your NYC apartment hunting video which I think you did such a great job on. I could really tell you really were thoughtful and it was just a fascinating video. I keep watching because there's something relaxing about just seeing your routine, and also being an Asian woman, I find your content really relatable. I love watching your cooking and your overall chill and friendly vibe!
I started watching you for your data science/tech videos and eventually subscribed because I liked your personality & vlogs! Loved this Q&A :)
Thank you for sticking around 🥰
I continue to watch your channel because your videos are so relaxing and aesthetically pleasing
thank you Melisa 🫶
hi julia, loved learning a bit more about you! i found you through your 2021 apartment hunt video, and stayed because of your soft energy and awesome perspective of nyc
Love your channel. Love your youthful enthusiasm for life!
It’s refreshing to see a young person carrying themselves with respect. I love being able to see how New Yorkers live, I absolutely love your cooking skills and end up trying them out for myself but mostly, your cleaning episodes put me in a cleaning mood. Julia you are a class act… so real… so sweet!
honestly, you are what made me stay and subscribe. your videos make me feel better and inspired, even more productive sometimes. i guess i wish i was a bit more like you but i mean it nicely, like a friend you look up to so much. your videos are beautiful and have a comfy/cozy feeling, but i believe thats just a reflection of you! much love from brazil
Fell in love with the NYC apartment vlogs, and stayed because your vibe and decor, and went back to watch almost all your videos 😅
Same
I subscribed because of your setting up your apartment videos and how calming /relaxing they are. I’m 27 so it just felt relatable watching someone with a wfh corporate job like me.
Hi Julia!!! Firstly can I say what an adorable video that was and I love the fact that your partner is supportive of your wishes, so yay on that! The reason I watch your videos is one I'm from Australia, so seeing a little slice of life across the hemisphere has always been intriguing for me and two the main reason is that I find your videos very calming and just easy listening, I just think you're a genuine person and give off them good vibes ahahaha
I first started watching your channel when you were hunting for your last apartment! I keep watching because your videos are very relaxing, but also so interesting to me because of your culture
It’s ok Julia we all have “stumb” moments 😂 I subscribed because your demeanor is really chill, laid back, fun, and I love the entire aesthetic of your videos. I’m always smiling at the end of every video. I’m not one to request videos so as not to bring on burden or pressure & I enjoy your videos how you see fit to release. You & BF seem to have a nice vibe going & both have such soothing voices! Another great video as always 🫶🏽
I’m so glad you enjoy the videos 🥺♥️ and omg no pressure or burden at all! I’m always so happy to hear you feedback and suggestions!
i loved this so much!! that food looked amazing julia
thank you nicole ♥
I subscribed to your channel when I saw your moving vlogs! It just felt so cozy and it became somewhat of a series then I just had to subscribe to watch it till the end HAHA now I'm still here and still loving the content 😊
Such a relaxing vid, and that food looked soooo good!! Thanks for letting us get to know you a little better. And thanks for answering my question about living in NYC long term! I totally get the need to be close to family. I think that's what's kept me around my city all these years, even though I've had dreams of living in different cities in the US and around the world.
Thank you for watching and for always supporting Haley ❤ appreciate you
I found your channel from the nyc apartment hunt video, then I saw on your channel that you’re a data scientist (which is something I’m also trying to be). I subscribed because I just love your content, your vibes, how you edit and I also love some of the background music you use. I also love that your channel is not data science focused, it has just the right amount for me!
I like watching your vlog because they are very meditating, always feeling comfortable, calm, peaceful 🧘♀️
I decided to watch so far because I found your day in the life vlogs very interesting and inspiring.
Love the channel and this q+a was so cute and fun to watch!
To answer your question at the end:
I started watching when you did your NYC apartment hunting video for your last place, because I was watching a lot of apartment hunting content, and yours came up in the algorithm. However, I found your editing, your personality, and just lovely lifestyle to be endearing so I kept watching, and as someone who also lives in a big city (Toronto) alone, I feel like I relate to you. Also get to live vicariously through your travel and NYC vlogs hehe
Aww thank you!! Toronto is a fun city and I would love to visit again one day 🥰
Loved this video where we get to know you better :) Do this in future as well. Lots of Love 💖
I enjoyed the Q&A! Thanks for answering the question I sent. 😊 I’m like you in that I really like my alone time. It recharges me. Hope you do another one of these soon. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for submitting one! And for always leaving such supportive comments ❤
I watch your channel because you are a very down to earth and kind human being. All the best to you!
Thank you so much 😭♥️
London actually suits you so much 🤔💭 0:11
I first came across your channel when you did the last apartment tour. For me, as someone who enjoys video editing, I love love love it when someone clearly puts effort into their videos and it’s a true reflection of the kind of person they are. You know that reading nook you had in your previous apartment, it was lit up by the sun and so so cozy..and a simple pleasure that warms you up when you have a really good book and some tea, that’s what your videos feel like to me. I’m rambling and I can’t seem to make sense of my words now 😂😂but I hope you get it. You’re warm, your videos are warm and they simply bring pleasure to me (us). Much love ❤
You come across as being very genuine and have a lovely soothing voice
Love this video!! ❤
Your ‘job search’ videos got me to your channel and your genuineness and video editing skills made me subscribe ✨🌈
I love your channel. I started watching your channel when you we’re moving to your other apartment. I enjoy watching you cook. I’m not that much of a cook but I enjoy watching you make different dishes on your channel. ❤
I saw your nyc apartment hunting video back in 2021 i think and not that i was looking to move or for an apartment but I really just enjoyed you and your demeanor and voice and style and knew i wanted to subscribe and just keep watching. You gave me a yt channel that makes me happy and feel relaxed. Keep it up! You are awesome! 💖💖💖
I started watching you because of your nyc apartment hunting video! I want to move to the city after undergrad and you’re currently in the era of life that I’m excited for post grad! Your vibe and aesthetic make of your videos also hook me to stay around
I started watching for your apartment search and continue because you are a lot of fun to watch.
I started watching your channel when it was suggested in an apartment search lineup (the previous apartment) ...I continue to watch because of the quality of your videos and your relaxed charm.
Thank you for your support ❤
I came for the Apartment hunting in NYC and stay because your Energy is so calming!
I think I came across your channel when one of your Spotify day or week in the life videos was recommended to me! I stuck around because I also work in product (UX Designer) and generally love your vibe and love a NYC channel in general. Your demeanor is super chill and genuine, and I appreciate that you never seem like you're trying to be anything other than your self. 🤗
Thank you Michaela this comment means so much bc I truly try to be as authentic as I can! ❤
I really enjoyed watching your Q&A! You should make more. I subscribed because you're my best friend and because your channel relaxes me, inspires me to do more with my life, and also motivates me to clean my apt lolol.
Love you
Thank you for always being such a supportive friend - love you ♥🥰
Mahalo Julia for this Q&A. There were some gentle reminders that all of us can use. ☺☺💗💗
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I subscribed to your channel after going down a rabbit hole of New York apartment living videos. I watched the apartment hunting video and instantly loved your vibe. 💚
19:23 The first video I watched was an apartment tour video from your old place, but the series that got me to subscribe was the 20 something diaries. It's heart-warming to see other 20-something's live, figure out life and showcase growth. It gives me hope that eventually a 20-something year old like me will have it figured soon as well. What keeps me subscribed is how chilled the energy of your videos are. It's nice to be able to go on TH-cam and unwind to one of your videos.
Love this! Fun and informative.
Thank you ❤
I watch your videos because I like your home decor and fashion style as well as your voice which is very calming. You seem like a very genuine and caring person. Also, I am from Chicago so I have always been interested in how NY is and the similarities.
I love your personality!
aw thank you stephanie! 🥰
Juliaaaaaa! 😆🤣🤣🤣🤣 the year and 6 months vs year and a half made me stop! I'm dying hoping I don't catch a cramp😂😂😂😂 you are so inspirational Julia thanks for sharing frfr. This was soooooo awesome 😁omg I can't even remember what got me watching but it's been several months and honestly it's very calming and relaxing watching you also my OCD appreciates you lol ahhh this was such a great video they truly keep getting better and better or maybe it's because I'm getting more and more attached 🥺🥰 much love Julia
Hehe sending love back ❤ thank you for supporting 🫶
I subscribed to your channel after watching a day in the life of a data scientist. I am in software development and find your videos motivational and inspiring. But I definitely don’t watch your channel just for the CS content. Your cooking videos , style and lovely personality are also reasons I love watching your videos! Keep up the great work and content! 🤍
Thank you so much for being here Kaleen! 🫶
I am an entry level data scientist (so also would love more content on what ds stuff brings you energy!!)
And now just looove your overall vibe 🥰
Ahh fellow data scientist! Thank you for watching ❤
The video that made me subscribe to your channel was the apartment hunting video because i like those types of videos in general but I’ve stayed subscribed because i like your aesthetic if that makes sense like the background music, your voice is calming & i am also a 20 something myself living in nyc !
recently stumbled upon your channel and subscribed since I will be starting full-time soon after graduating this year, and have always been a bit curious on content creation, so i thought it would be nice to follow you along on your journey as you navigate through life after leaving your full-time job. just watched this after watching a couple of your china vlogs, and it's so nice to see someone that's also Chinese vietnamese!! will be watching your vietnam vlogs next :)
pieces and scorpio are such a great match !!!
yes!! water signs unite haha
You are inspiring and beautiful. You present aspects of your life, the everyday and the particular, in a cool well structured way.
you are too kind alex - thank you! 😭🫶
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The algorithm recommended a day in the life of a data scientist when you posted your first one! and I loved your aesthetic, that i had no second thoughts and immediately subscribed. I literally hop on TH-cam every Friday like “what’s Julia up to!?” 😂💕
awww thank you Jennifer! Hopefully I can bring a little bit of extra joy to your Fridays hehe ❤
I watch ur videos because currently I am doing my Bachelors in Computer engineering and I love to see what a day in a life of a software engineer looks like. But that's not it I also dream about moving to USA and having an aesthetic life ur videos give me a vision of what my life would look like if I ever move to USA. Seeing ur life gives me motivation and good vibes and it also makes me feel that even with a 9-5 job u can pursue ur hobbies too. LOVE U💕
Your video randomly pop up on my yt and suddenly im hooked and subscribing to your channel. Another reason is maybe I always want to live in new york so yeahhh and your editing is great
Ahh thank you youtube algorithm 😂hope you get to live in nyc one day! ♥
i started watching your videos last summer once youtube gave me that “nyc apartment hunting” one and i just get into the stuff,,,, it’s been nearly half a year i subscribe this channel and watching every single video you post, i think it’s because i just love your living style , tbh i think its my longest relationships between me and my favorite bloggers lmao
Enjoyed! You two are cute ❤️
Thank you Ann ♥
I subscribed a long ago bc your videos inspire me so much, and now that I’m planning to move to the US as an international student, your videos just help me to visualize my … “future” I guess
I found your channel through your day in the life as a data scientist video! I really like that it's one aspect of you but it's not your whole channel!
I really appreciate that you kept in your "stumb" moment lolol! I get you when you say you come off as more introverted in your videos and coupled with the fact that you have such a highly technical skilled job I would even go as far to say that you can be a little intimidating, but seeing your "stumb" moments is refreshing because it just really shows that you're human just like everyone else! An incredibly intelligent and hard working human that is!
I also totally understand and respect your decision to keep your boyfriend behind the scenes! You guys seem very secure in your relationship, but at the end of the day, we come to this channel for you Julia and this is your channel, not a couple channel or whatever! But I will say now I'm super curious what he looks like haha xD
I like your channel because of YOU. I am a software engineer and so are you so I relate in that way. I also want to live in a big city so I like watching your adventures around nyc. I also am around your age, so I relate to a lot of things that you are going through. Also, your views on life (family, friendship, relationships) I tend to relate too as well.
I'm so happy that you're able to connect to my connect 😭manifesting a big city life for you in the near future 🥰
I started watching last year; it was an apt tour of your last apartment. Also, you are in tech ( I work as a software developer) and then I just kept watching your videos.
I subscribed bc I like your content, work vlogs and all. it motivates me to keep going.
I know I'm like 4 months late, but I am a late subscriber. I have been trying to catch up with all you videos when I can. But honestly I just love the vibe of your channel. I noticed that I love watching vlogs of women who I can relate to or women whom I aspire to be like in the future. You are dedicated to your craft, you have a job you really love, you love cafes, coffee, baked goods, traveling, etc. I think you're amazing :)
The first that I got recommended ur video, I thought another successful asian girl living in NYC. But I felt in love with ur videos, I think it's because of how down to earth you are: you don't fancy about the achivements, loves making money and you are there bc of the effort and humble. Also love the sincerity of your talks specially with more tabu topics. Another reason may be of you a viet-chinese and I fell more related to (most youtubers of this concept are Koreans or half asian)
Your apartment video got me hooked because I was also looking for apts in NYC. It's so hard to find what you found so now I watch to see your apt. lol
Aww~ your voice change when talking to your bf at the start and that MAPLESTORY MUSHROOM?! Urgh, so glad I found your channel. Thank you for the Q&A!
Okay just arrived at the end and heard your question: IIWC, it’s the video of you talking about salary and volunteering? Maybe even the apartment hunt one where you were looking for and ended with the previous apartment you stayed at? I stayed for your authenticity and chill vibes, and also just loving that you’re thriving!!
I've been consuming a bunch of AI, ML, and Python kinda content, and you popped up in my feed! I'd be lying if I didn't say I clicked on your "The Reality of working in Tech" video because of that adorable thumbnail, I've stuck around because you're a lovely human being with a GREAT attitude. Gives me hope in our future as people!
cheers!
ron:)
I subscribed to see life in New York. I live far away but I like NY. I stayed subscribed because the vids are so good, the music, the life you show, the shops, the food, entertainment, clothes, jewelry (I loved that pearl ring you were wearing).
I subbed because of your data scientist vlog but then continued watching cuz of your nyc vlogs! Your funnier and silly side comes out when you're around your bf. do you watxh stephanie soo's mukbangs too?!