20 Something Diaries | mini housewarming, job updates & filming a dance cover

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    Hello friends,
    I can't believe it's already February! The days have been passing by so quickly and I'm high-key very upset that we still haven't had much snow in NYC yet :( There's been a lot going on at work lately and in the tech industry in general. I have so much more to say and wish that I can just candidly have an open and honest convo with you all but I tried to share some of those thoughts in this video. If you've been affected by the recent layoffs, my heart goes out to you, and please DM me privately if I can be of any help. Sending love and a big virtual hug 🤗
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    Julia
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  • @BrendaMartinez-yy2yj
    @BrendaMartinez-yy2yj ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I survived a first round of layoffs in October but unfortunately was impacted during the second round in January. It’s such a crazy time and so sad to see how many people have been and continue to be impacted. Wishing those who are currently dealing with this, a lot of well wishes in finding new opportunities ✨

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No one is safe with these layoffs 😭hoping that you find an even better opportunity♥

  • @luluxwang
    @luluxwang ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I was surprised by how the layoffs affected me too, even if I didn't directly get hit... it's a weird adjustment so thank you for sharing your experience!

    • @NoritaGharib
      @NoritaGharib ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed. It is a weird adjustment

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      +1 😭 we exist in a web of relationships and connections and although we do control our own careers, there are so many things that can impact & influence it 😢

  • @elsbells4841
    @elsbells4841 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    OMG never realized you and Sarah were friends! Probably saw that happy 100 being born 🥺 I feel like its auntie, hahahaha

    • @melisaltinoluk
      @melisaltinoluk ปีที่แล้ว

      Likewise, LoL

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahah yes she’s so sweet and surprised me with a little plant baby 🌱

    • @Hierothewordsmith
      @Hierothewordsmith ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was also thinking that like wait I know her too ahhhh it’s Sarah Pan!!! That was neat.

  • @chuckwagon7354
    @chuckwagon7354 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    So sorry to hear about your colleagues who got laid off. I've went through this myself and even though it was 6 years ago I still get a bit emosh remembering how upset my colleagues were. Anyhoo, we've all survived and moved on. Btw, you definitely have a cookbook in you, or at least a food stylist. Very impressive.

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you for your kind comment ! I hope that you love what you do now♥

  • @seraaa6526
    @seraaa6526 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    yessss julia blessed us with another video 💖💖

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      🥹♥️

  • @cincyman321
    @cincyman321 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    As a Product Owner on a very busy Product team, I know what you mean about all the meetings! I try to be very cognizant of my tech people's time since they have to do the actual tech work. I cut the meetings short when I can. Your hard work will pay off!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      We need more product owners like this bless you 🫶🥹

  • @kayls997
    @kayls997 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nice to see sarah! just started watching quite a few new york youtubers :) great video Julia :)

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks for watching! 🫶

  • @maddscientist3170
    @maddscientist3170 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thx...always love seeing NYC! You need 2 floor cushions for people to sit on or a Zafu meditation cushion that does double duty

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes!! On the hunt for some comfy floor seats 😊

  • @joyfullencounters
    @joyfullencounters ปีที่แล้ว +1

    julia post your covers!! love new jeans & your videography :))

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      ahh I'm shy LOL but you can just search up omg by noonbeat :')

  • @ktu3078
    @ktu3078 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    thank you for always being so genuine and real julia 🥰 please don't ever stop sharing your word vomits with us bc we love to listen hehe

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      aww thank you for being here to listen 😭♥

  • @ericeichstaedt2357
    @ericeichstaedt2357 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I quit a job like 3 times, once got laid off in the great recession, always it opened a new unexpected door I couldn't have predicted (sometimes amazingly good), always refreshed my whole life not just my work, sometimes coincided with a move to a bed city. It's never been a bad thing. However, when I got laid off in the GR, there were really no jobs to be had, 100's of people in my city (SF) were all in same boat; I was so desperate I even applied to coffee shop jobs. But, out if the blue an old employer called me up and he needed someone, so Ieaped at it even though I had to move back to a small city. Life takes so many odd turns, we don't always get to control everything. But I guess we just have to be grateful and take it with grace, things could be way worse. Anyway, Julia, I can sense the anxiety in you, you're a very sensitive women, but you of all people will always do even greater things whatever happens. And like you said, opportunities open up.

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for sharing this story Eric! It's always so interesting to learn about someone else's career journey. Life really does happen in ways that we don't expect it to huh 😮‍💨

  • @一颗头
    @一颗头 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for your video again! I've been experiencing a career change as data scientist. I feel the job landing is more difficult at this time, but somehow this video encourages me a lot.

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg good luck!! you got this 💪

  • @christinecanavan7333
    @christinecanavan7333 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Julia...I am a retired dialysis nurse. I only read about the tech layoffs online news. For some reason I did not associate the layoffs with creators etc. Nursing insulated me I guess. I do hope you will have a great year and not be impacted. But I will say that these layoffs must cause many folks to look at avenues and interests not thought of before. I wonder what I would do if I was in tech industry. (There were no computers when I was in high school). Maybe you could make a list of dream assignments that could be shared. Freelance assignments......travel, book authors and exotic places or even "a day in the life of a child in school or of a minimum wage woman or a nurse!

  • @upasanarath1198
    @upasanarath1198 ปีที่แล้ว

    So happy for you ☺️ I hope you are okay and doing good . Love your videos 😍

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 🥰

  • @TheMisschrisaz
    @TheMisschrisaz ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed this video. Your housewarming looked like fun and the dance was great!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      glad you enjoyed 🫶♥️

  • @haleyfranker
    @haleyfranker ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The layoffs were definitely a shocking and scary time. I work on the creative side of UI/UX, and luckily I'm at a smaller creative agency, but I've had a lot of friends in the larger tech industry go through this recent layoff. Very sad and scary. Hope you continue to do well and take care of yourself! Sending well wishes to all of your coworkers who were unfortunately affected. And by the way, gonna end this comment on a positive note, the dance was super cute :)

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing Haley 🫶 glad to hear that you are ok!!

  • @roger-rok
    @roger-rok ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a big fan of your work, thanks for these videos. Greetings from Peru ^^ 🇵🇪

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching!! 🫶

  • @derricklim4935
    @derricklim4935 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really enjoyed the video Julia!! May I know how you color code your clips and if there are any presets that u use? Thank you so much

  • @alanrutherford5724
    @alanrutherford5724 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another great video! Oh, there's Sarah Pan! Love her channel! And at 3:12 - that's a good Dad right there. Virtual high-five, Dad. She turned out awesome - you did good.

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      yes very thankful to my dad ❤ all the credit goes to him haha

    • @alanrutherford5724
      @alanrutherford5724 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliafei No, lots of credit to your Mom and of course you too, lol!

  • @karakuwa553
    @karakuwa553 ปีที่แล้ว

    本日も癒されました♪可愛いすぎます♪次回も楽しみに待ってます♪😊😊😊😊😊

  • @EstherVera.3
    @EstherVera.3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations on your 100k 😊

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Esther ❤

  • @TimmyTriesTo
    @TimmyTriesTo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    missing the data science content. hope to see more of that series! happy 100K

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      new data science video up now 👀hehe

  • @gracesungkim
    @gracesungkim ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where is that cute lamp from! Ah love your videos :)

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      If you’re talking about the floor lamp it’s from Wayfair!!

  • @WalkingCommuter
    @WalkingCommuter ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is like an Avengers "end game" collaboration!

  • @emilyb7752
    @emilyb7752 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Meetings are horrific. I work in marketing and the volume of meetings is just ridiculous.

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂just too many meetings to talk about doing the thing but not enough time to actually do the thing!!

  • @justinreyes2064
    @justinreyes2064 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congrats on your 100k! The growth and love your channel receives is definitely well deserved. Waiting to celebrate the next milestone with the rest of your supporters 👏

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aww Justin I appreciate you so much! Thank you for being such a supportive friend 🥰

  • @notayoutuberjustacommenter
    @notayoutuberjustacommenter ปีที่แล้ว

    me when i know all of the youtubers features bc i love watching youtube (esp techie yters hehe)

  • @kaskahea1274
    @kaskahea1274 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep up the good work Julia. Luckily we haven't hit a recession. ☺ Adversity and struggle really does shape us. Hope you and your colleagues pull thru. 💗💗✨✨

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words Kas ❤

  • @ghravel
    @ghravel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The backpacks in the dance cover were so cute 🥰 ty for sharing about the layoffs; i appreciate you talking about it! Also you know joma crazy!!!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      it’s the first time I’ve ever worn something like that tbh so I was a bit shy haha 😂🫶

  • @stephaniem.982
    @stephaniem.982 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I started self studying in October (Full Stack Engineer) and I've been on pause the last month because of all the negative remarks I've been hearing. I was hoping to switch over to tech from healthcare but now I am scared. I was already hearing how difficult it is to get a job being self taught, this feels like the icing on the cake. Hard to stay positive during these times but I believe everything happens for a reason.

    • @samlab2935
      @samlab2935 ปีที่แล้ว

      im currently doing the same thing (self studying but for programming) and i feel you !! i dont know were you from but here is doesnt matter if you went to school or did it yourself as long as you have the skills and rock your interview… i believe in you ❤

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, I have a handful of friends who wanted to go to a boot camp this year but have since pivoted 😭 I do believe that tech is a cool place to be and that it will get better eventually but it's just going through a rough patch right now. So if this is really what you want to do in the long run, I would encourage you to not give up 💪

  • @pickingpiches
    @pickingpiches ปีที่แล้ว

    your vlogs are so gooood!!

  • @Hierothewordsmith
    @Hierothewordsmith ปีที่แล้ว

    Done like a true data scientist. She knows how the algorithm works and put it at the end of an of topic usual activity video. Genius guys take notes for not getting shadow banned or laid off. Digital footprint is important

  • @wongbritney
    @wongbritney ปีที่แล้ว +2

    yay new upload!!

  • @marcoakastallion8621
    @marcoakastallion8621 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You always choose the best music Julia 🖤

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Such a big compliment thank you 🥹

  • @diyaghosh5104
    @diyaghosh5104 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So surprised and happy to see both of you together 😍

  • @ally-22
    @ally-22 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hii Julia, reupload?

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Haha yes I wanted to make some small edits 😂😅

  • @Hierothewordsmith
    @Hierothewordsmith ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you do a response video to chat Gpt?

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Linking a video that I think explains it well haha 😉 th-cam.com/video/WVct5y3hBEg/w-d-xo.html

  • @carableu
    @carableu ปีที่แล้ว

    Your food looks so yummy!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you been trying to cook more 🥰

  • @MiroKrotky
    @MiroKrotky ปีที่แล้ว

    this video and background music got me super chill, relaxed and ready to work

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yayy glad you enjoyed ☺

  • @sarasanchez6987
    @sarasanchez6987 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi! Can you please share where you got those iced coffee glasses?
    Also, please share the salmon recipe! It looked delishhh 💞

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! cups: www.crateandbarrel.com/atwell-stackable-ribbed-highball-glass/s202062?localedetail=US&a=1552&campaignid=1727389627&adgroupid=69157008713&targetid=pla-1656373421449&pla_sku=202062&pcat=HSW&ag=adult&scid=scplp202062&sc_intid=202062&gclid=Cj0KCQiA3eGfBhCeARIsACpJNU9HW6DTOa3OHFCA-1Fl4ndm_4p5RtWNP--eu1xhCBwJ4NsAJRBUsZAaAlftEALw_wcB
      recipe: www.justonecookbook.com/miso-salmon/

  • @EternalSSSSunshine
    @EternalSSSSunshine ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE YOU QUEEN!!!! 😍💕✨

  • @nickolaygonzalez3429
    @nickolaygonzalez3429 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super awesome to hear you talk about the layoffs. As someone who just pivoted to data science, I was so worried about being impacts since so many technical folks have been impacted. Great motivation to keep pushing forward - thank you!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg I hope you are safe & ok!!

  • @warmbreeze43
    @warmbreeze43 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are destined for great things in life. You work hard, have a great personality and you can connect with people on such a common level. Be gentle with yourself. You meal looked super awesome.

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Linda - these were words that I needed to hear today 😭♥

  • @TvShowManiac
    @TvShowManiac ปีที่แล้ว

    when did you start dancing and how did you learn? OMG is so addictive even the dance whenever i hear it i always picture the moves in my head 😅

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SO ADDICTIVE! It's still in my head and it's been weeks or months now loll I started dancing in college and just went to workshops and learned from there. I did dabble in ballet growing up though so I think the foundations helped :)

  • @MsJisola
    @MsJisola ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been on the chopping block before during layoffs in the legal industry (2008-2010) and thankfully the hard work I put in saved me from being laid off at the time. Now that I'm in the tech industry, I saw the writing on the wall months ago and didn't want to make a move to another company when things were so unstable. My company is currently making some changes and the hope is there won't be layoffs but we have to wait a few months to see if the current measures will pan out.
    Regarding the work day being filled with meetings, I completely agree that a ton of meetings on any given day can make it difficult to sit and focus on work. The team I'm on has no meetings on Wednesday morning (not even standup), which is super helpful to focus solely on code.
    I follow Sarah as well and really enjoy her content! Super awesome that you both are friends IRL!
    Thank you for another great video!

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow, I really hope that things work out for you and your company! I know layoffs are probably (or should be) the last resort so hopefully, the changes will help prevent that. Sending you strength through these tough times 🫶

    • @MsJisola
      @MsJisola ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliafei thank you 🙏🏾

  • @A.n.n.n.a
    @A.n.n.n.a ปีที่แล้ว

    What was your major in college?

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      I studied computer science!

  • @jerbear97
    @jerbear97 ปีที่แล้ว

    lmao this feels like a crossover episode of tech youtubers I usually watch

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      haha hope it was fun to watch 😂

    • @jerbear97
      @jerbear97 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliafei definitely was! also just saw Lillian's video, turns out her footage of your dinner didn't have audio lmao

  • @bethdimonti
    @bethdimonti ปีที่แล้ว

    omg JOMA!!😍 how did you know him???

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We actually met through Sarah!

  • @Phantomstories1831
    @Phantomstories1831 ปีที่แล้ว

    Luv ya girl! Xo

    • @juliafei
      @juliafei  ปีที่แล้ว

      sending love back 🫶

    • @Phantomstories1831
      @Phantomstories1831 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@juliafei luv ya girl i hope u do an intro why u in new york stuff like that ur videos are awsome watching kld ones too xo