Body Language Expert Breaks Down How Appearance Affects Success | WIRED

แชร์
ฝัง

ความคิดเห็น • 777

  • @plr2473
    @plr2473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +908

    As a high school teacher it amazes me how attractive students get treated better. Even the teachers give them more attention. Unfortunately, some of them have terrible attitudes they think they can get away with. Often they do

    • @meladversity
      @meladversity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      and on the other hand you have teachers who treat you worse for it, because they want to teach you a life lesson or whatever. expericences both as a teen and wish someone would've left their personal insecurities out of my school life (positive or negative)

    • @eddiebear34
      @eddiebear34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@meladversity so you are calling yourself good looking, is that right? And teachers bullied you for it?
      Sounds like lies to me tbh

    • @lucky-mud
      @lucky-mud ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Seems totally plausible to me. I don’t see the need to bring this person down or call them a liar

    • @LeanAndMean44
      @LeanAndMean44 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The Manipulation previously only used by psychopaths and other anti-Social personality types has now become widespread and acceptable behavior, yes.

    • @juanarocha8629
      @juanarocha8629 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Halo effect

  • @puipuipui3304
    @puipuipui3304 2 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    My new fav quote-
    “Please stop worrying about what you look like as a result of how you were born. Let’s take what we have, and let’s see what we can do.”

    • @EmyN
      @EmyN 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And learn to appreciate what you have! ❤

  • @zackcarl7861
    @zackcarl7861 2 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    Let's summarise:- 1)look good naturally if not , dress well and
    do makeup to change what you can leave what you can't (or shadow it)
    2) be wired to stand out , be different if you can
    3) be consistent build a image around yourself that says he is always powerful

    • @adedtz8257
      @adedtz8257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for this

    • @kerebaka
      @kerebaka ปีที่แล้ว +5

      and keep vulnerabilities and struggles private.

  • @corycourtney8923
    @corycourtney8923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +642

    I will watch every Joe Narvarro video as soon as it hits my radar. Wired needs to give him a full staff role if he's interested. He needs a weekly show packed with tips. The information he provides is priceless.

    • @stellviahohenheim
      @stellviahohenheim 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He seems to say really obvious stuff though not really mind blowing

    • @corycourtney8923
      @corycourtney8923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      ​@@stellviahohenheim Maybe true, but I also think it's how it's presented. Sometimes the method is the message. This is packaged to get the attention of people who might not see it as obvious.

    • @stayquko8948
      @stayquko8948 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      trustttt.. ive enjoyed his episodes sm

    • @minhphuongnguyen7172
      @minhphuongnguyen7172 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yessssssss

    • @DarkAngelEU
      @DarkAngelEU ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stellviahohenheim It's obvious, but his explanation WHY is very fascinating and sounds scientifically accurate.

  • @MartyD
    @MartyD 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1767

    It helps to be tall and attractive.

    • @nugboy420
      @nugboy420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      And not fat

    • @cg7926
      @cg7926 2 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      N rich n famous n

    • @tontolinification
      @tontolinification 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      And rich 🤑

    • @axeavier
      @axeavier 2 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      And white, and fully able, and male

    • @sandg507
      @sandg507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      And not crippling anxiety

  • @GMAMEC
    @GMAMEC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    I have noticed people behave differently when they are dressed professionally. If you’re in a position to observe several meetings, observe people dressed casually (usually a Casual Friday) vs. a regular business day. The same individuals usually behave differently.

    • @lynnebattaglia-triggs1042
      @lynnebattaglia-triggs1042 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Nothing new. This is why private schools have always demanded that students dress up.

    • @blackpilledchad1927
      @blackpilledchad1927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      LOL. You discovered fire, my friend 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Yt-qi9ot
      @Yt-qi9ot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Casual Friday, the OG morale booster

    • @wanyekest6969
      @wanyekest6969 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dingus

    • @portsac
      @portsac ปีที่แล้ว

      I noticed that too I wonder y they change I noticed it alot in my pass relationship my ex would dress up and changed 🤔

  • @dabieyo
    @dabieyo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +848

    When you thought you weren't much to look at because of societal beauty standards but then discovered that even babies could potentially ugly shame you :')

    • @JacksterKAS
      @JacksterKAS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      He did explain that how you present yourself changes how people see you, so if there's something you would like to change, try it. Your attractiveness also depends on confidence. People find you more attractive if you are confident.

    • @sarahsanchez6821
      @sarahsanchez6821 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @GMAMEC
      @GMAMEC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sometimes it just takes a little more time to get inside, but once you’re in, it’s all about character and how you make people feel.

    • @jrv_chaos4329
      @jrv_chaos4329 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JacksterKAS I know several people first hand who stand head and solders above others based on only confidence and there ability to communicate

    • @JJs_playground
      @JJs_playground 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmfao 🤣🤣

  • @kaylenvee8150
    @kaylenvee8150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    It's kind of fascinating that even across all these cultures, all these different types of people in the past that haven't met or interacted with anyone outside their group, somehow all deviated to the same, super specific aspect, like having something big and tall on your head as a symbol of power. It's pretty amazing if you think about it.

    • @olohialli9289
      @olohialli9289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Yes; and for me though, it just goes to prove one thing. At our very core, we are all the same

    • @Yt-qi9ot
      @Yt-qi9ot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If we all looked at each other's butts when we talked, we might adorn our asses with crowns instead 😂

    • @someonejustsomeone1469
      @someonejustsomeone1469 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Likely based on mimicking animals. Lions with big manes, peacocks with large feathers, etc. have always stood out as powerful. Humans simply copied that.

    • @Fujtajblus
      @Fujtajblus ปีที่แล้ว

      Human nature

    • @Arcessitor
      @Arcessitor ปีที่แล้ว

      That's because our similarities and differences are biological, not 'cultural.' Culture is just an expression of genes.

  • @costaches
    @costaches 2 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    I adore Joe's videos! He explains modestly, with proof, and logical explanations, if something doesn't know or is not sure about - he admits it. A great expert!

  • @sheltongolden4394
    @sheltongolden4394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +304

    I'd like to see a video on how extraversion/introversion affects success.

    • @AnaBotticelli
      @AnaBotticelli 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, please

    • @DreamCatcher-wg1bk
      @DreamCatcher-wg1bk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bill Gates & Elon Musk are both example of successful introverts.

    • @samc5794
      @samc5794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@DreamCatcher-wg1bk but also only two individuals and freakish ones at that.

    • @piriyaj1347
      @piriyaj1347 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don’t think introverts overall like to be in the spotlight anyway 😂 so even if there were a lot of money to be made, it would not be considered ’success’ for them by any means

    • @ziplock8316
      @ziplock8316 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DreamCatcher-wg1bk Marrying some hobo singer and giving the child the most fuckall name imaginable is not introvertion. It shows mental imbalance.

  • @MT.2012
    @MT.2012 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    One more thing that was overlooked is the way a person speaks. The tone and speed of your speech will greatly affect how people perceive you.

    • @DarkAngelEU
      @DarkAngelEU ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't forget accents. In any culture, accents have significance and will add to the perception of the speaker.

    • @Blade56762
      @Blade56762 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      So true.

  • @JoDo777
    @JoDo777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    Don't forget many, MANY narcissists/sociopaths are dressed beautifully/handsomely. Never judge a book by it's cover. Judge by character!

    • @onkelpappkov2666
      @onkelpappkov2666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Unless you can't read that character because they're a psychopath, in which case judge by their actions!
      But if the actions are based on a mental health issue...

    • @mqk_
      @mqk_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said

    • @045632
      @045632 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      because we know the game

    • @blackpilledchad1927
      @blackpilledchad1927 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You mean they are BEAUTIFUL or HANDSOME lol

    • @markmessi9020
      @markmessi9020 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@onkelpappkov2666 Unless then don't do. Don't do anything don't do it!!! No there's consequences to doing anything!!!

  • @manillascissor
    @manillascissor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Love Joe Navarro so much. Probably cause he's wearing a suit

  • @ladariussanders4278
    @ladariussanders4278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It helps to be attractive in general but being tall and attractive makes it even better but being attractive is enough to get you where you wanna go

  • @TikiOperator
    @TikiOperator 2 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    "If the women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy!"
    A more perfect combination of words cannot be spoken, hail

    • @gus473
      @gus473 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ♥️💚👍🏼😎🇨🇦

    • @jamesstephenpeyton3305
      @jamesstephenpeyton3305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Credit goes to Red Green

    • @farhanaditya2647
      @farhanaditya2647 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      But what exactly is "handy"?

    • @MobileComputing
      @MobileComputing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      but a handsome person can also be handy...

    • @edmyeg
      @edmyeg ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MobileComputing yes but a ugly person can't be handsome so they gotta be handy

  • @gorzkawodka
    @gorzkawodka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    In real life it's just like he said, when you dress up, people treat you better, and I don't mean expensive designer clothes, but just looking neat and put together. Anyway it's surprising that in USA majority of ppl don't think much about their appearance and wear just whatever while in Europe ppl put a lot of effort to look good.

    • @laliday
      @laliday 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I just spent a month in your father's country, and I can't say that people were dressed better there. People are just as sloppy as in the US if not more. The fabrics they wore were thin and cheap, the fake eyelashes made them look immature, the neck tattoos made them look unprofessional, lots of moms wore really short shorts, men wore sloppy and thin tshirts or pants that were too tight. I don't care about it that much, but feelings of superiority are just that, they are feelings not facts.

    • @gorzkawodka
      @gorzkawodka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@laliday I wonder which country you visited, cause your description hardly matches my father's country, where only about 1% of society has any tattoo and where fake lashes are worn by hookers and teenage girls experimenting with fashion trends.

    • @grovert4life
      @grovert4life 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      In which country were you though?

  • @HumayunKabir_1971
    @HumayunKabir_1971 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    " Please stop worrying about what you look like as a result of how you were born.
    Let's take what we have and let's see what we can do with it."

    • @Henry_The_Second
      @Henry_The_Second 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🙏 This comment has my respect

  • @INDIANXxhgpp9907
    @INDIANXxhgpp9907 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    2:12
    5:50malcom gladwell
    7:00 4. Perception manage
    8:44 trust is our ability to relax

  • @susantownsend8397
    @susantownsend8397 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When I taught 7th and 8th grade we sometimes had dress up days. It was amazing how much overall behavior improved on those days.

  • @WhatTheHe11isTHAT
    @WhatTheHe11isTHAT ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’m 6’4” and fairly good looking and people bully me because of it. I’ve actually been walked over most of my life. Trying to learn how to get stronger.

    • @jeremye1448
      @jeremye1448 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Learn mma

    • @Daniel-fj8eu
      @Daniel-fj8eu ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Because you are "competition". People try to bring down the competition. Be strong but warm.

    • @potofgreeed
      @potofgreeed ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are probably a "gentle giant." A lot of people don't know how to handle those types. Wishing you luck!

  • @smacky1966
    @smacky1966 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Three points-I am 5' 11" tall.
    1. Many years ago a new IMax Movie Theater Opened in my hometown and my boss gave me her VIP Tickets for the Grand Opening Party. All of the city's business and community leaders were invited. I noticed right away that the vast majority of the men were taller than me and I'd say the average height of the men was 6'1"-6'2".
    2. I can off the top of my head think of four college buddies who are 6'4" or taller. They were average students and all four of them are very successful.
    3. The income inequality between very attractive people and average looking people is higher than the income inequality between whites and minority groups.

  • @judyl.7811
    @judyl.7811 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    顏值決定一切?
    0:55 we prefer people that are well-groomed and well-dressed.
    1:05 very padded shoulders 墊肩
    3:53 beauty dividend 美貌紅利
    5:49 height dividend 身高紅利
    6:05 攝影機跟被照的人
    6:21 presidential election is 9 feet apart.
    7:37 the hair is straight down is perceived strength.
    9:37 they're eligible for courtship 求愛
    10:49 they're in essence saying 基本上是說

  • @andybp872
    @andybp872 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Please stop worrying about what you look like as a result of how you were born. Lets take what we have and lets see what we can do with it..
    Golden quote IMO.

    • @planu9031
      @planu9031 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      But its just to show how hard you be if you are unattractive and disabled the journey is so much harder

    • @macaroni586
      @macaroni586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@planu9031 it also tells you that you could improve on it to. I mean why do you think girls where heels

  • @1HeatWalk
    @1HeatWalk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Scientifically, shorter people live longer than their taller/bigger counter parts. Big bodies put more stress on the heart like dogs.

  • @atomwaffen7943
    @atomwaffen7943 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Being short as a man is playing life in hard mode.

    • @KeepingOnTheWatch
      @KeepingOnTheWatch ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Agreed! Also, being short AND unattractive is playing life in ‘exasperating’ mode.

    • @romanaguilar7277
      @romanaguilar7277 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KeepingOnTheWatch in what way

    • @Kozli1985
      @Kozli1985 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tell that to Putin, Stalin, Hitler, Toto Rina, Napoleon or Mike Tyson.

    • @prestigebro4390
      @prestigebro4390 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And the short guys that make it are as tough as men can get

    • @herohonda4183
      @herohonda4183 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Kozli1985 Mike Tyson is 5’ 10” he is not short at all.
      The napoleon one is a big myth and it has been debunked already.
      While the hitler and Stalin are valid examples, they weren’t super short for their their time. All studies show that a person’s height has a very positive correlation between their income

  • @annalvarez3247
    @annalvarez3247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I always look forward to Mr.Navarros videos 👍 I hope to see him more often in wired

  • @HereIAm247
    @HereIAm247 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Regarding the clothes, I think it is not just about being 'well dressed', but about being appropriately dressed for the occasion. :) Grooming is definitely important always. But if you wore full black tie on a regular workday, people would probably give you strange looks.
    What a suit does for men, and a Galla dress for women, is it enhance their masculine or feminine physique. But it also create an appearance of good posture, even if you don't have it in reality. Good posture also signals self worth and confidence, and projecting 'I am a person of high value' to other people. This is actually the main reason why people find suits attractive; it is not just that it shows money/power/success (someone with great skills/mental energy, who have a lot to contribute with, and would be a good connection to have). It is that it enhances all the biologically most attractive things about men. (and the dress does the same for women).
    When you notice, being 'well dressed' today means to have selected garments of good quality, a look that is aesthetically pleasing and enhances your best features, as well as being well groomed and display good posture/confidence. Good grooming is what makes or breaks the look - not the clothing alone.
    Additionally, while past societies had a lot of focus on money and power, modern society place more and more value on character instead. Therefore, it becomes a form of power statement to wear baggy clothes and 'not caring' about appearance. The key here is to be well groomed and have good posture, even if you are very casually dressed. People who wear 'power clothes' are more often well groomed and displays confidence, than people who don't. But the 'power' of the suit is more how it makes the man feel about himself, not so much how formal it is. :)

  • @alexc8512
    @alexc8512 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well social media algorithms is a testament to how much beauty and attractiveness matters to humans.

  • @boomernality1904
    @boomernality1904 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People here forgetting. It's not that you won't or can't be successful if you're short and or not good looking. It's just that it's a disadvantage to be that, which we all know is true. Stop looking for the exception to the rule.

  • @MoMo2E
    @MoMo2E 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Very informative
    Thanks a lot for sharing

  • @avayu2289
    @avayu2289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Interesting. As a life long fitness enthusiast, my conclusion is that health is beauty and vice versa….

    • @margo3367
      @margo3367 ปีที่แล้ว

      Confidence and a positive attitude can be very attractive too. A beautiful smile can light up even the face of a “plain” person.

  • @tofuguru941
    @tofuguru941 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a species, we have a long way to go. Giving value in something so ridiculous speaks volumes about what else we like to hide behind makeup and facades.

  • @suechapel1443
    @suechapel1443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Fascinating info. As an older woman, though, comfort is more important than beauty! lol

    • @lanaj1107
      @lanaj1107 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You can do both!

    • @gordatados
      @gordatados 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      As a younger person, I agree comfort is better. 😄

    • @natalyaakselaleksander4502
      @natalyaakselaleksander4502 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      The two are not necessarily mutually exclusive…

    • @jessiecoastaliving
      @jessiecoastaliving 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lanaj1107 yea that’s called natural beauty. Nothing more needed

    • @daquieshakeaundra2854
      @daquieshakeaundra2854 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ofc now comfort matter more to you since you can t use beauty anymore ain t no one like wrinkles,dry 🍑.

  • @lmperfection
    @lmperfection ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please do another video about what our grooming/clothing/makeup communicates to other people!

  • @ATGG
    @ATGG 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yay!!! Joe Navarro!! Thank you, again, for this video!

  • @derisory
    @derisory 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    You could do a whole episode on Zelensky, Putin, Sergiy Kyslytsya, and Lavrov.
    Frankly I think Sergiy is incredibly underappreciated for how well he has maintained an image that allows him to bluntly cut through bs and rally support.

    • @onetonsoupp
      @onetonsoupp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Putin and lavrov are not humans.

    • @Aftershock416
      @Aftershock416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Don't really think we need to give war criminals more publicity.

    • @yungjoemighty879
      @yungjoemighty879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So you love fascists

    • @bekbek8848
      @bekbek8848 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Westernized brainwashed people don't like them

  • @sa.sa3917
    @sa.sa3917 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Let's take whats we have and let's see qe can do with it". If we all have this mindset, in any aspect, our lives will be better. No doubt.

  • @lydia9878
    @lydia9878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    What about tall women? Tall men were talked about and how their height is a benefit. How does height correlate for women?

    • @puccarts
      @puccarts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Probably the same tbh.. as a taller woman, you'd get noticed more. Even petite models are over 5'6" (meanwhile the definition of petite clothing is for 5'4" and under). I strongly believe that someone my height 4'11" does get taken less seriously, but I don't have any research data to prove it, only anecdotal experience.

    • @krissy278
      @krissy278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@puccarts i'm a 6 fot 2 attractive woman with natural RBF people assume i'm either a model, doctor, or a high power executive. It helps for sure in being taken seriously for leadership roles and men tend to treat me as an equal or are even slightly intimidated by me.

    • @puccarts
      @puccarts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@krissy278 Well your experience seems to align with my viewpoint.
      I really wonder if we started letting more petite/short models into the industry as standard, if this would slowly begin to change world perspectives. Would be nice to not be judged simply on height. It's not like I am competing in sports where long limbs are an understandable advantage to my capabilities.

    • @hnhnhn797
      @hnhnhn797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@puccarts same im 5'ft tall and no one takes me seriously....they im a 14 y/o girl

    • @anisanancy3858
      @anisanancy3858 ปีที่แล้ว

      Normally a taller women are seen as masculine by men so men go for shorter women. But being tall as a woman makes you more eligible to being a model. It makes you look more like a model but in terms of dating I know a lot of tall women who get shunned because men don’t want someone taller than them generally.

  • @michaelohair3715
    @michaelohair3715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Nobody on the internet has anything better to say than this man does. He's as good as you will see here.

  • @101jir
    @101jir ปีที่แล้ว +4

    In highschool I didn't have the best hygiene, even relative to most of my peers. I was always pretty nerdy, but I would always try to stand up for myself when picked on (not always effectively). I always tried to give every new kid the best chance, and tried to be respectful (though my understanding of what that meant was not always accurate). I wasn't shy about my enjoyment of most academics, and I was good at some I didn't enjoy (such as math) and enjoyed some that I wasn't good at (art, woodshop).
    Despite my poor presentation, my senior yearbook I was one of three students my peers considered "most likely to be president." Fast forward in life, most people wouldn't consider me very successful. Academic skills that seemed nice on the surface I was not able to capitalize on due to a lack of other skills.
    Life is odd that way.

    • @Mrs.TJTaylor
      @Mrs.TJTaylor 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What an interesting comment! Hope your hygiene has improved.

  • @nataliabarrios1239
    @nataliabarrios1239 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ohhh Joe you’re the hansomest body language expert ever, we love youuuuu and your expertise

  • @mariarosariaascione3898
    @mariarosariaascione3898 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    i love this guy, his videos are the best of the channel

  • @xRooze
    @xRooze ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This guy is more of a history teacher than anything

    • @ratherb_skating7145
      @ratherb_skating7145 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seriously, all hr did was give example after example after example of people who dressed a certain way rather than actually getting to the point

    • @xRooze
      @xRooze ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ratherb_skating7145 He also didnt talk about body language like posture, eye contact etc.

  • @ArthurTugwell
    @ArthurTugwell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    My last girlfriend told me our relationship would have been x10 better if I’d have had another 4 inches…
    My height was not a problem though.

    • @prakharranjan6388
      @prakharranjan6388 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Underrated comment!

    • @cedriceric9730
      @cedriceric9730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      4 inches where? there ! oh ok

    • @SuperCaptain4
      @SuperCaptain4 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cedriceric9730 she had a toe fetish I've heard

    • @sikes346
      @sikes346 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      pretty sure she wasnt talking about your height

    • @ArthurTugwell
      @ArthurTugwell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sikes346 well duhhhh

  • @osmondnoakes6675
    @osmondnoakes6675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, I agree it promotes one in a more positive light but maybe not when its gets too warm in these warmer temperatures !!

  • @86nanaki
    @86nanaki 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Richard Feynman's dad to his son:
    "Now, look at those humans. Here’s one human standing here, and all these others are bowing in front of him. Now, what’s the difference? This one is the pope. This difference is the hat he’s wearing.”

  • @Chereese0808
    @Chereese0808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very rare to see suits here in Hawaii.
    Years ago 30ish, men had to wear ties to enter most nightclubs.
    Now barefoot and bikinis seem OK.
    No matter what, people will flaunt their looks.

  • @HoseiJalalaldi
    @HoseiJalalaldi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This man is a genius. I'm reading his book.

  • @MrSneaksful
    @MrSneaksful 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It also helps to be born into one of the most wealthiest families in South Africa. That helps.

  • @AnKore1984
    @AnKore1984 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What an interesting informative video! Thank you, Mr. Navarro for all the informatotion you provide!

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It’s crazy how this is a real job. And what path even gets you to a job like this? Still interesting though 😅

    • @juliegolick
      @juliegolick 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For Joe specifically, FBI agent. :)

    • @perfectpitch2506
      @perfectpitch2506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He is the Body Language guy, you wanna learn about body language, you start with his book.

    • @rahmahassaf2275
      @rahmahassaf2275 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@perfectpitch2506 not necessarily his book but other than that, yes

    • @mishlake1
      @mishlake1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      “Though” ??

  • @davidr4523
    @davidr4523 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As someone who is a little over 6'6'' yes I have seen taller people do well in sports, with women and have been offered more leadership roles. However I have seen shorter men try harder and have more grit in not giving up. But as the Stoics of Stoicism say, you should only think about what is in your control. So for the many times I wished I was shorter when I banged my head in doorway, was on an uncomfortable plane flight, could not find clothes that fit me or have people not want to speak with me because of the large height differential, I refused to even think a thought I had no control over.

    • @shakey3306
      @shakey3306 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There’s limb lengthening surgery as well as shortening surgery, i’m gonna be 6’3” and still wear 3” shoes to be 6’6”, but it’s true you should focus on what you can change

  • @LucasTOrz
    @LucasTOrz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like his speech calm soothing yet informative. Thanks mr fbi.

  • @googleuser3620
    @googleuser3620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Misleading the height association to senior executives, as they earn a good salary only. What about successful entrepreneurs? Most seem to be shorter than average and earning way more than senior executives..

    • @cedriceric9730
      @cedriceric9730 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      that is quite true 😂

    • @cedriceric9730
      @cedriceric9730 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      indeed in a rigid corporation combining height with performance can get one far i imagine.
      a shorter person has to be significantly better to match height in such an environment but thats where it ends

  • @cadeevans4623
    @cadeevans4623 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Very informative interesting thanks for sharing this

  • @staycutene8085
    @staycutene8085 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing.
    I will consider your suggesting into my life.

  • @cinthyasalas2360
    @cinthyasalas2360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We can all agree that Joe is the “Man”

  • @blaiseronstadt6306
    @blaiseronstadt6306 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good Morning 🌄 Mr. Navarro, , you have Reafirmed, and Honed, Many of my communication, and Interaction skills. Thank You, It's Basically what my Mother has been Telling me 50 plus Years

  • @shaatiusmani6211
    @shaatiusmani6211 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woahhh how come i didnt know that your video came out.
    Please upload more videos of Joe Navarro

  • @kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168
    @kemalistdevrimturkaydnlanm168 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Depends on the person who interviews you, her/ his mood at the time, physical needs at the moment, perception also plays a huge role. If a person is hungry will be negative, if had a lunch will be more positive. If the interviewer has biases will also make a difference.

  • @perfectpitch2506
    @perfectpitch2506 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Joe Navarro is back!!

  • @rajavarma1015
    @rajavarma1015 ปีที่แล้ว

    “ Let’s take what we have and let’s see what we can do with it “

  • @viditpant7641
    @viditpant7641 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Basically what we have in hand is to learn how to be properly dressed and how to carry ourselves publicly.

  • @Osiris3657
    @Osiris3657 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Height and attractiveness don't guarantee success, but it gives you an edge over the competition if you're taller and better looking. Sad but true.

  • @E.S.Aneesh.N.I.S
    @E.S.Aneesh.N.I.S 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    " A successful man is of ordinary height with laser like focus " - Bruce Lee🔥

    • @JohnGrapes
      @JohnGrapes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I don’t think he actually said that.

    • @darnitthelma4247
      @darnitthelma4247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bruce was short 😂

    • @theovanhurtere
      @theovanhurtere 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@darnitthelma4247 and still he'll be remembered far longer than anyone pictured in this video even if in slightly changed quotes

    • @immortalxd6190
      @immortalxd6190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theovanhurtere exactly

    • @immortalxd6190
      @immortalxd6190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@darnitthelma4247 yet the world knows him, celebrates him and not average, ordinary individuals like u or me or pretty much anyone in the video here

  • @kutekittykatproductions
    @kutekittykatproductions 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Where do the independent factor in? “Leaders” or “followers” aren’t all there are. I wonder about the perception of strength or status in people who aren’t consciously trying to impress, nor are actively looking to others for cues or leadership.

    • @mrk19901
      @mrk19901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yep. I also belong to the independent group. I don't idolize anyone and follow the beat of my own drum and don't want to "lead" anyone.

  • @asokt4931
    @asokt4931 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I do not know about the height dividend because that can partially be answered by parent income and thus diet. But, I mean - overall, we can also say the way one dress is also linked to one socio-economic class and we also have pretty good understand of upward mobility in different countries.
    In fact, the way you dress is a indeed a class mechanics that gives message to others who is in and who is not in a group.
    That being said, I do think that better looking folks, and those with above average height probably do better than those who are not...

    • @khusseinkhomeini
      @khusseinkhomeini 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      True that. Better access to nutrition and recreation leads to children growing taller and being more fit. Financial stability can allow for nicer clothes and the purchase of other status symbols. But in the end, it is your character, your beliefs, values, intelligence, and charisma which will help you excel in life.

    • @ryanortiz2648
      @ryanortiz2648 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tall people hater

    • @bluekeahi3240
      @bluekeahi3240 ปีที่แล้ว

      Japan and Korea is an example how better nutrition improve height. Compare their pre world war height and the current modern height.

  • @justanotherguygeorge3430
    @justanotherguygeorge3430 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There is something called mindset and strategy they are above any beauty and appearance. (Im 1,95cm )

  • @unified_method
    @unified_method ปีที่แล้ว +5

    too much vanity , just be comfortable and clean and enjoy life .

  • @katyinvierte
    @katyinvierte 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for sharing such interesting topics, I really admire this man. 👏

  • @truthh8597
    @truthh8597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kanye West, Kendrick Lamar, Bruno Mars, Shakira, Fergie, etc-etc like 1000s of other short people all are extremely successful
    Talent Willpower and Dedication are the real deal

    • @herohonda4183
      @herohonda4183 ปีที่แล้ว

      No one said anything about short people not being able to be successful. It’s just that tall people have an edge in this.
      Multiple studies show that success has a positive correlation to height

  • @annib1362
    @annib1362 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most times, outer beauty means confidence or a sense of false bravado.
    But when someone is not attractive to society's standards, but has an overload of self-confidence in themselves irrespective of others opinion, they will stand out of the crowd enough to make an attractive person with a false confidence loose that "confidence".

  • @julesverneinoz
    @julesverneinoz ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is interesting but unfortunately really only covers a certain type of 'success'. Certain type of appearances (which fits within someone's stereotype of 'that type of person' should look) is the 'easier' and fastest method to gain trust and favourability. So, actually, this is an essay on how appearance affects trust and favorability than it is about success as 'success' is subjective.

  • @ahheng6402
    @ahheng6402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Natural selection, make beautiful babies. Culture & attire just enhance them.

  • @atisjojo1
    @atisjojo1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am short and thus unattractive. But i am happy and thats what matters most.

  • @camerondaniel6982
    @camerondaniel6982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Height does not make you more successful, being born into a rich family is the key. Easy

    • @santiagocandela354
      @santiagocandela354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Rich people tend to be taller due to generation's of better nutrition. This is a large reason for the disparity. Also theres a supposed link between height and intelligence.

    • @28th_St_Air
      @28th_St_Air 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Height absolutely contributes to tall people being selected for and given opportunities to succeed that are not afforded to equally qualified shorter people. Spend any amount of time around people who are taller and the difference in the way people treat them preferentially is plain as day.

    • @santiagocandela354
      @santiagocandela354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@28th_St_Air im sure thats part of it. Im just saying theres a genetic component also.

    • @cedriceric9730
      @cedriceric9730 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@santiagocandela354 better nutrition NO.
      they just successively marry taller more attractive people

    • @santiagocandela354
      @santiagocandela354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cedriceric9730 both things are true.

  • @hawho6870
    @hawho6870 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    trust is our ability to relax, because we know they will ot let us down.

  • @wh0tube
    @wh0tube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’d like to see a video on how money affects wealth! 😁

  • @bekbek8848
    @bekbek8848 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Clicked immediately, Joe Navarro

  • @brittanyhinch512
    @brittanyhinch512 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Joe!

  • @MaffyTaffyHaffy
    @MaffyTaffyHaffy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Do we really need an expert to tell us the way you look affects your life?

    • @manillascissor
      @manillascissor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yes

    • @Kieran.Robertson
      @Kieran.Robertson 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Some people would appear oblivious to this

    • @jermainekngdom3154
      @jermainekngdom3154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He is wrong. You're posture is more important. Two similar looking person can look attractive and ugly.
      Kate moss is unattractive. But symmetry and her posture and behavior make her beautiful. While the women with Biden has symmetry. But her posture is bad making her less attractive. You personality actually cap it off.
      People build their personalities by how we look like. But get more comfortable with your body. Stop slouching. Stop moving awkwardly. If you make a movement commit. Don't over think. Be sure of yourself and I guarantee you will be more attractive. Your insecurities are not cute to people who are not insecure.

    • @monica1808
      @monica1808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@jermainekngdom3154 Kate Moss ugly? Lmao

    • @jermainekngdom3154
      @jermainekngdom3154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@monica1808 gap tooth. Sunken cheeks almost hollow. Too small eyes. Yeah. You don't know what your looking at.
      You see her personality and posture which make her beautiful. It is not a jab at her. It's incredible. Beauty isn't just appearance.

  • @koviyovas8325
    @koviyovas8325 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Kevin Hart is 5 ft 4 in. Tom Cruise is 5ft 7in. trump is 6ft 3in, 260lbs

    • @herohonda4183
      @herohonda4183 ปีที่แล้ว

      He didn’t say people people can’t be successful dumbass. He says tall people have better chances of being successful

  • @vish5030
    @vish5030 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am physically ugly and I don't like ugly people but ugliness fades away when they are confident like me .

  • @ernestofurchtgott5421
    @ernestofurchtgott5421 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s a great lesson on branding

  • @DPiii127
    @DPiii127 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When I joined the Marine Corps infantry, I weighed 112 lbs at 5’11”. I got picked on and beat up a lot my first year. I jumped on the juice train & blew up to 190 lbs with 4.5% body fat in less than 8 months. The way I was treated was night and day. I didn’t change anything other than my physical appearance.

  • @EmyN
    @EmyN 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He’s a great speaker

  • @shoubiaokuang747
    @shoubiaokuang747 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb analysis

  • @orestessantander1275
    @orestessantander1275 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very interesting ,also a antropholigical vision of "cultural codes" on each contexts. Congrats , good job.

  • @3432stars
    @3432stars 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Keep bringing Joe back!!!

  • @MMrunner2
    @MMrunner2 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    what is success?

  • @SirPatrickStar302
    @SirPatrickStar302 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Only thing that matters is if you are tall, handsome, have a good build, posture and confidence. Rest is secondary

  • @raresoul5936
    @raresoul5936 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro there are so many successful celebrities like literal legends who are not that tall but have just pure talent like Jackie Chan, Ariana Grande, Lady gaga, Leonardo DiCaprio, Tom Cruise , Bruno Mars, Shakira and Natalie portman so yeah don't feel insecure about your height❤

  • @Iam_mahesh
    @Iam_mahesh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    interesting, thanks for the info

  • @invisibledave
    @invisibledave 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Luckily I have never figured out the purpose of money or power so I get to dress and look any way i want to.

    • @hhggg1210
      @hhggg1210 ปีที่แล้ว

      Money is a tool

  • @Dude-oh8vq
    @Dude-oh8vq 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hair is a bigger indicator of success. If a man has great hair, that will greatly help them in life.
    I know many men who are super successful and they all have one thing in common, great head of hair, whether they are short or average looking. However, at least half of them appear to be narcissists with little integrity.

    • @DreamCatcher-wg1bk
      @DreamCatcher-wg1bk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jeff Bezo and Steve Jobs quite disagrees.

    • @Dude-oh8vq
      @Dude-oh8vq 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DreamCatcher-wg1bk Look up photos of Steve Jobs when he was in his 20's and 30's.

    • @sfrealestatedealmaker6001
      @sfrealestatedealmaker6001 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Dude-oh8vq Bezos had almost no hair when he started Amazon bro 😂

    • @MadeInPython
      @MadeInPython ปีที่แล้ว

      Elon musk was balding when he had started paypal

  • @Eeeee394
    @Eeeee394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can you do a Rubik’s cube video about how to solve 3x3 speed cubing method

  • @jozsefbiro1849
    @jozsefbiro1849 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does as long as height affects personality how you approach people and treat

  • @ronnieadrian9843
    @ronnieadrian9843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent 😊👍

  • @cleigh113
    @cleigh113 ปีที่แล้ว

    the short answer to that question is YES it does

  • @v1nnnny
    @v1nnnny 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    King is back