Simple, if someone doesn't like you that way it's because they don't find you attractive as a partner. No need to stress understand their POV and move on.
That’s all good and dandy until you’re thirty and single because for some reason no ones into you. You should never stress on the individual level but many people have universally unattractive habits/traits thats stopping them from finding a partner and could be improved with some discipline
Because you're not looking into yourself and finding the issue making you unattractive. Nothing changes, you keep getting rejected because nobody finds you attractive as a partner.
I got a worse situation, my ex said: "let's take a break i need a bit of time, maybe a few days" the next day i found her making out with a guy we litteraly met the same day she told me that, i was almost going berserk, luckily i remembered some words i actualy heard from you: "either you can choose me, or you can loose me" those words saved me... thank you swoozie
Never let women play you like that. Girls like that don't deserve your attention. I hope you are doing well Edit: My god how time aged poorly, my girlfriend of 5 months did the same thing as described by the top comment. I hope we both get through this bro
Sometimes yea the simplest answer is, the reason she doesn't like you or he doesn't like you, is because they don't have to like you. You can't force feelings that don't exist to appear all of sudden. You could meet the qualifications she/he "wants" but, theres still a chance they won't feel anything towards you. Stuff is complicated, you wouldn't date every single person they shows up in your life and neither will others.
Reason why he/she doesn't like you back: 1. He/She said no. No, is a full on sentence. 2. He/She straight up just doesn't like you. Wether a guy/girl rejects you doesn't mean you should go full on "incel/femcel" over it. Just accept the fact that you got rejected and move on with your life. Do what makes *you* happy and you'll be alright.
There’s also a huge difference between a good man and a “nice guy”. Women can discern when a dude is just putting on an act to get what he wants from you.
@@phoenix-king779 no ones mad its just that its not true; no ones entitled to a relationship and no one has to love the nice guy, but making them the problem is a new way of shifting the blame
Modern culture has this toxic mindset that we have to "win" someone over. Nobody really thinks about how much of a waste of time trying to change someone's opinion of you is, especially when you could be spending that same energy talking to lots of different people and seeing who you connect with the most. Doing it that way will near guarantee you end up in a much happier, healthier relationship than if you'd just spent that same time browbeating someone you think you like into liking you back.
Mos tppl are just idiots and way too mamy kovies and shows revolve around ppl having a crush and doing whatever to make them like them back or in movies ppl always get with their crush due to persistence, so ppl think that shit works in real life. Ans also skme ppl just so desperate to be in a relationship, they will do and say the wildest ass shit just because skmeone is good looking instead of taking the time to actually get to know ppl and deciding if you vibe with them or not. Dont trust lust, it's not the thing to chase.
I'm not looking for marriage but I know that to even entertain being with someone forever or even just a few years, I have an extensive list of requirements that must be met (I assure you they're sensible...mostly, lol. Things that I don't think a lot of people truly consider before dating someone and then find themselves being unhappy because they didn't do that self reflection to know what they're looking for). Because of this, I refuse to date anyone I've bumped into when out and about. The region in which I live in already makes it that there's a high likelihood that two of my dealbreakers will not be met by just randomly meeting someone (not wanting kids and not dating someone who is religious. I live in Alabama...that second one especially is hard to avoid here, and lots of people equate religion to "a woman is only a woman if she has children", so, you know...it's been a slow search for Mr. Right, lol).
The cliché in most popular media is "work hard enough and you'll win them over", but what people don't realize is that it only exists to provide narrative sense to the story. Plots usually need progression. Life doesn't work like that. Life doesn't make narrative sense. Just imagine someone you're not into, trying over and over again to win you over. Suddenly it sounds annoying and no longer romantic
I really appreciate all the advice. Thing is TH-cam is filled with some really toxic advice for guys who are looking for some guidance around relationships. You give good, actionable, non-toxic advice in a format that is approachable to teenagers who are trying to figure stuff out. It keeps people away from the awful incel and pickup artist stuff, and makes the world a better place.
Honestly, Swoozie is actually saying the same stuff as most "redpill" channels. So that just confirms those guys are actually right. If you don't believe me, compare a video like this to one from stephiscold or mediocre tutorials and reviews. The same things are being said there, only Swoozie has a much larger following.
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 it doesn’t confirm those guys are actually right, It just confirms that Swoozie is like one of those awful guys. How does that even make sense that that you would assume that those guys are right, how are they right? It just means Swoozie thinks they are right, so that’s why he agrees with them and spreads that message along.
When I was an aspiring TH-camr, I complained about how I could never get advice or the chance to talk to a current TH-camr. I wanted to pick their brain, get some answers and (hopefully) find the right path for my own content creating. When Swoozie was already a gold plaque acquired TH-camr, he responded to my personal messages (back when TH-cam had messaging ROFL)! I was shocked by how honest, candid, and genuine he was as a person. I also had the chance to meet Swoozie at gaming event where he was playing people in the audience, same exact experience. I wanted to say publicly, thanks to Swoozie and TH-camrs like him for inspiring people like me (and im sure many more) to do TH-cam as well! Also your content has grown exponentially in quality, and your story telling is there along with it.
Can we also just point out the fact that when a guy gets a girlfriend his family congratulations him and welcomes her with open arms, but when a girl gets a boyfriend her family (Especially the dad) asks him all these questions and is so much more skeptical to except him lol
Cause men are more likely to have alter motives, women have to be more careful about who they speak to, because the World is a dangerous place. Alot of guys aren't really what they seem. Which is why parents are more protective of their daughters.
I think guys get praise maybe because being able to get a girl takes some guts and getting over shyness since we are the ones expected to make the moves. I only felt like my parents were happy about me making moves on this one girl once, and emotionally it hurt since it felt like my family didn't value my effort or the relationship. I struggle opening up to people about girls now partially because of that.
Because men are generally the ones who have to put their ego on the line and ask the girl out. This means that they’ll be the party who has to deal with the possibility of rejection on the front end, which is a scary proposition to most people. This also means they had a motive to approach the girl, which could be one that doesn’t align with the girls and could become dangerous due to physical differences. Especially at an early age, when it’s more about the status symbol of having a girl friend rather than caring about her as an individual.
@@emlin2005 Interesting you pin that on misogyny. I was thinking that is seems kind of misandrist that a girls parents would regard a guy with skepticism and ire like he might be some kind of dangerous goon by default. Although, to be fair, those concepts aren't mutually exclusive, a lot of cultural standards are shitty for both genders. Could be some misogyny and misandry mixed in there.
"Girls can tell when you like them." As a girl myself, I unfortunately can't tell when a guy likes me. I'm so oblivious to a guy liking me. Unless they tell me straight to my face that he likes me, I won't ever tell and it unfortunately happened to me so many times with a couple of guy friends I had. I felt so bad telling them that I never knew they liked me. ;n;
Big same. Like, honestly people should just talk to you to say whether they have feelings, because it might just go nowhere otherwise (and it might not go anywhere even if someone makes a move, but at least there is communication and understanding in telling someone)
@Ross Orange You have met the wrong girls. You need to meet more. Sincerely, a girl who earns more than her boyfriend and is completely financially independent (not rare tbh). I’m sorry you’ve been hurt. We don’t choose to meet the wrong people. I don’t know your life, but there are so many ways to meet normal girls (and people in general)
👏Exaclly 👏 i had so many times those situations. Once my guy friend said to me „l want to grab something to eat with you” a while after that he told me that it was a date, like how could I know that ? I also had different guy friend who would touch my hair, I was like „what are you doing?” And he said „I just like to touch hair” I tought it was wierd, but people do wierd things so I just ignored it. One day i overheard him talking to somebody that he liked me, I would never realised that by myself. Since we started daiting he never touched my hair. I guess that it was his way to show me that he likes me. Just tell somebody that you like them and don’t pray that they will realise that themself. Also if you’re a guy and looking for tips I would recommend you to watch some girls who are giving advices how to date a girl, they will know way better how to do it rather than a guy.
Honestly sometimes you are just not her type. Simple as that. Its not personal. If someone wants a blue car and all you have is silver cars there's nothing you can do about that. It doesn't mean silver cars are bad either. Weird analogy, I know but its the best I could come up with 😂🤦🏽♀️
"it's a great feeling.. when the tables turn and POI is now interested in you" ... Has never happened to me. Swoozie, some of us are just mere mortals!
@@realfarmer21 fam I unintentionally straight faced 5 of your videos. I wanted to laugh so bad, couldn’t find it in me. I see you got the V’s I see you got the subs congratulations keep at it, try a new approach I might be more apt to peep your material with a open mind.
“Here’s something my friends hate when I say: if a girl’s not into you there’s a good chance she’ll never be into you” Why do your friends hate when you say that?
Swoozie is right when it comes to the fact that if she decides she doesn’t like u she will never like u. However, there is a difference between her never considering u two as a couple and her considering it and saying no.
Just wanna say that Swoozie's advice of "mutual interest, mutual investment" has become a mantra in my life. Once I started adopting that idea, I got a whole lot further in life. I remember for over a year, I had it bad for this girl who never gave me the time of day. We never even dated and I got so head-over-heels for this girl that I made a fool out of myself. Then I just came to grips with the fact that she wasn't into me, and while it was super hard at first, it was the most freeing thing I've ever done. Also taught me a lot about focusing on improving myself rather than a girl. I got better at talking with women, but also learned how to wear each POI loosely until they express the same amount of interest. Right now I just want to focus on God, my career and my music. The right girl will come along when it's time.
I'm a woman, but something I also learned is that liking and not liking someone goes both ways. Think about the people you may have hurt when you reject them (and this could be as simple as with online dating and getting a new message from someone that you're not into). So, while we all want to be liked back when we like someone, we all have the same power as well to reject a person. Once I realized that, being rejected or ignored hurt less. And I'm not talking about doing it out of bitterness or spite, just genuinely not being interested in a person.
As a girl we definitely know when a guy likes us, and when we don’t like them back we try to put it in a nice way or else we seem like a bitch. But when guys don’t take that, that’s when lots of us ghost them or stop talking to them. Also lots of times the “nice guys” aren’t actually that nice, they just do things for you expecting things in return, and if you don’t do what they want in return we are the ass hole. But you definitely nailed a lot of things in this video about girls.
LOL do you realize how complicated this sounds to a simple male mind? Do you see the many mixed signals and selfish thinking in all this? Just be clear and let the guy know how you really feel. So what if a guy you have NO interest in thinks badly about you. Think about how you're mind fuking the guy. It's a lot better than stringing him along giving him some type of hope. What you guys think are nice "hints" that you're not interested. Actually appear like you're playing hard to get or are just nervous. Just flat out ghosting a guy is the worst thing you can do after stringing a guy along. This leaves men in a very messed up confused state. They start doubting themselves, and thinking they did something wrong. About "expecting things in return". SMH if a guy spends money and time on you. You go on dates with a guy and accept gifts. Of course he's gonna expect something!! LOL. Y'all know if a guy is crushing on you 90% of the time. Basically y'all already know what it is. But you sit there and willingly put yourself in that position. Then want to act like something's wrong with the guy. You could have stopped this before it stared or when you noticed it. Y'all gotta cut this out and take accountability, this is not the mans fault. This is the real reason why most guys view these girls as "bitches". There are some guys out there who just are super emotional and ego maniacs. But that's the minority, lets be real here.
As a woman, YES. I also learned so much about guys from this, so thanks! and that girl who gave you her number, drove and hour each way to see you weekly... that can totally be misunderstood as making the first move(s). I don't blame you for initiating even more.
As a girl, I agree with almost everything besides creeping the Instagram likes to see what she likes. For one, my Instagram likes are just of memes and cookie decorating videos. On the other hand, don’t change yourself to fit what you think she might like!!! The most attractive thing you can be is yourself :)
This is what entire video is explaining what I’m feeling in high school and all I have to say it that “don’t worry about a girl who doesn’t like you back, the one thing that matters is focusing on what you want to be seen for and some day a girl will like you for what you do”.
That bit about the retaliation self-improvement is so real, because dudes really be out here heartbroken and trying to prove a point to a chick that never cared.
Swoozie: "You had me leaning back like Neo in the Matrix." Kelly: "Nooo not true at all! You don't remember that night correctly you never did that." Swoozie in his mind: "Was I in the Matrix?"
swoozie You’re one of the first TH-camrs I ever watched as a young kid and you haven’t changed one bit :) thanks for always making me laugh all these years
This video's real. The girl in my life who came after me the hardest happened when I was at a bar by my college campus and she asked me to buy her a drink. I gave an excuse to why I couldn't and went with my friends. I kept running into her every now and then and she would be extremely flirtatious and gave me her number at some point. After a few months we hung out alone and she told me that the reason why she came after me so hard was because no one had ever turned her down when she asked them to buy her a drink and it made me fascinating. Simpin' ain't pimpin'.
I matched with a girl named Jenna on Bumble. After 5 days of having deep conversations, I asked her if I was boring because I’ve never complimented her, like repeatedly saying you’re beautiful and such. Jenna: “I don’t find you boring. The thing about compliments online is when you hear them a lot, it doesn’t really add to or subtract from the conversation. Guys online are very quick to throw things like that at someone and it just doesn’t earn brownie points with me.” Me: I think most guys compliment quickly and often because they wanna skip the conversations and get into the female’s pants. I’m not like that. Jenna: Nah they just think that a woman has never had self esteem ever and like to compliment a lot. So I tune them out because I’m already aware of what I look like. For all the guys out there, Swoozie is right: “SIMPING AINT PIMPING.”
For me i had self esteem issues but when a guy is over complimentive it screams,"i have ulterior motives or don't really care much for you." To me cause they do stay wanting to get in my pants. And i just stay dry till they disappear. I always trust my gut feeling now. And anyone that wanna say i might have missed out on a good guy being like this, i tried it and still kinda regret it to this day and struggle to cope with some of that and took myself off the market because of these problems.
Yep. There's plenty of others out there. The media (from books, movies, TV, songs, etc.) there is the idea that there can be only one. Unless you are the Highlander, this is not true.
Most people do not have this mindset because their mind does not work that way hence why it is not easy for them do. Mental holdbacks are really popular.
One reason that girls end up with bad guys is because the bad guy acts like a nice guy at the jump, and then the girl gets emotionally involved, to the point where she forgives all of his shitty behavior because she loves him so much and forgives easily. I don't know a single bad guy who treats a girl they want like shit from the jump. That's why nice guys get a bad rep sometimes because no one knows if it's genuine or not.
Most of the time there’s a reason why they don’t like you back. It could be something very minor or a huge red flag you have, but sometimes they just don’t want to be with you. And that’s okay.
@@mr.skeleton3190 looks really ain’t all that. 9 times out of 10 it’s less about looks and more about hygiene. Hygiene plays a huge role in how you look and style is also what can attract girls. You also have to realize that every girl is different and not all like the same thing. So sometimes the girls you’re trying to attract aren’t necessarily into the same things you are or don’t find those things to be attractive. That’s all.
@@mr.skeleton3190 Because we have creep radar. A comment can be cute if said jokingly of offhandedly, but creepy if someone expects a date or sex in return. Or maybe she knew that guy and you were a total stranger
I haven’t even had crushes in like 5 years, yet I’m watching this whole video about them and relationships, Swoozie (and Domics) are the only people to get me interested in random crap
Domics video was really good. This video was kinda meh.. it felt like "unless you doesn't look a certain way, she or he will not like you" This isn't a good advice
@@maxderholzrusse7301 Well I mean, I’m not watching it for advice, I get where you’re coming from, but as I stated crushes have just been nonexistent for me.
I agree with all the advice Swoozie has given in this video and others. Dating can be wonderful but sometimes it's just bad. Personally I'm a person who can't really see "double meanings" and in dating there a ton of those! My mantra is "the right person will come at the right time." Simple as that.
My rule of thumb be yourself and be true to you because you’ll never be happy being with someone you change yourself for, the right people will come to you, patience is a virtue!
“Girls can tell when you like them,” We can?! My friends have to tell me if someone likes me. I don’t pay attention to people in that way so I don’t really care.
@@barrytelesford5265 I just can’t tell when someone likes me. Other than that I’m good at reading people. It’s cause I don’t pay attentions to that certain aspect of feeling that I think I don’t notice it.
@@tpgcandy Our Personality Seems To Be The Same And Here I Thought I Was Only one guys have to be blunt with me so I know plus where I live but hey I'm not sure if it's the same in other countries or states 🤔🤷♀️
@@tpgcandy are you approachable. do you have a nice personality where a guy would feel comfortable in disclosing what he feels for you? I have liked some girls looks wise at least but if i feel that they a fussy or weird about it I would not venture to let them pick up from my body language or words that i like them. so could that be the case with guys around you.
Yeah, I've heard stories like this. At first, you'd be the average guy that no girl really takes a second glance at, but, once you become successful, that's when they strike. It's pretty sad that's the world we live in
I mean Yeah When your on the same level and it's just about attraction in real life peeps don't chase Once you get rich peeps who are broke wish to exploit you for your money through dating Peeps at least in my experience Don't just decide to go out with someone just cause they're nice and show some decency There needs to be more Either physical attraction A long term supportive relationship Or the muns
Or, it could just be that, the more fame and status you have, the bigger your social circles are and thus the more people you meet, and so your options for dating increase. For the sake of argument Lil Nas X could be my perfect match if we ever met, but I'm not in the social position where I could presently meet Lil Nas X, and there's a fair chance I may never be.
@@gregvs.theworld451 No, it's literally what was stated. It's not about your social circle. We're talking about THE SAME women who didn't before, but now that you are famous/have money, they are all of a sudden "interested". The world does work this way, it's only natural for a woman to want to attach herself to a successful man, it's just in women's biology.
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 I'm sure some people will give other people a second look when they feel they can directly benefit from their newly found fame or money, but I know not everyone does that and saying it's in women's biology is just ridiculous and sounds like some red pill pick up artist type nonsense.
The one time this happened to me, I chased for a long time. It wasn't until I told my friends that if they got a chance they should take it that things changed. As soon as I stopped pursuing her, she started aggressively going after me. It was crazy.
I think it boils down the truism that "Nice" doesn't mean "Good", and that goes for both the boy and girl. Learning how to judge character and focus on finding someone who shares your value system is the best thing you can do in dating.
The number one thing to keep in mind when doing ANYTHING with ANYONE,( Or something in general to keep in mind with interactions) Is that some people will just hate you for no reason or make up a reason, even if it's something that's really small.
The ultimate key is to practice self love and stop looking for this “thing” in other people. Start giving it to yourself. We’re all more than capable of loving ourselves You just have to commit to it.
Ur a legend Swoozie !!! This is why I just stay in my own lane and focus on myself …. If girls come they come, doesn’t really bother me anymore 👍🏼 keep up the awesome videos man, ur the best !!
@@ivette8459..... it's true though.... So I'll add an extra step to it "Women get with who they want, Guys get with who they can, & Men get with who they want" (I'm talking men who got their shit & lives in order, ladies you know what kind of men I'm talking about)"
Me: Actually gets along with women just fine and be respectful to them to the point of being friends with them! Other Dudes: OMFG!!! WHY DON'T SHE LIKE ME?!?!??!?!?! Moral of the story: Don't be a wimpy simp, be someone who actually respects them in the first place! It is that simple!!
LOL so true. When my man and I started posting our relationship on social media a girl he used to talk to liked all our stuff and then privately hit him up for "casual online gaming". I was annoyed he played a few hours with her - super oblivious as to what was going on and wouldn't believe me. So the second time she asked him to play I joined in the party to play with them. She played 1-2 rounds and suddenly had to leave and never messaged him again.
@deej yt If you're implying we have a toxic relationship - nah, we do great and we've been together over 4 years now plus we always game together anyhow so me joining the party was nothing new. If you mean the girl was toxic, from what I understand she dropped him for some guy she married, had a baby with, and divorced all within 2 years. She was a freshly divorced single mom too when she starting messaging him.
I really needed to hear this. I have just gotten off spending the last two weeks trying to get with a girl at work. Although I am still really into her, after I accepted the fact that it just wasn't happening, life got a lot more enjoyable. We still work together and get along just fine, and could even be considered friends, but now I don't have to worry about trying to impress her, I just do me.
You just gotta rock with someone who rocks with you. Be yourself if someone you like dont like you back just be friends but keep it platonic, no favors or spending too much time together. You'll find some one eventually just make sure your happy.
Except, he did make the first move. Then the years went by and she meets the next. So he did make the first move. Did you and I watch the same video, or did I just click on another Swoozie video by accident?
@@HK47_115 Just chill. I'm teasing about how guys always say they have to make the first move even if girls go to lots of trouble, none of it counts. And she did say later that didn't happen so you're right she could straight up be lying but also he could've misread the situation. Either way I'm just joking about it.
She also gave him her number unsolicited lol I have no idea why she rejected him. Maybe she wasn't ready for a kiss yet, but she did like him. Either way COMMUINICATE.
sWooZie i started watching you about 5 days ago and i have already watched all your videos and i cant wait for more videos to come out, keep up the great work my guy SIMPIN AINT PIMPIN
If she doesn’t like you that way, she wasn’t meant for you and you weren’t meant for her. It’s that simple honestly. Edit: on a side note, don’t change/act like someone else for some girl. Your relationship will go down HARD if you gotta keep up an act all the time.
Nah it just means you don’t have enough money, or look like an NBA player..bet that if she found out you win the lottery, she’d be “interested” all of a sudden
@@PlatinumHustle Lad… who hurt you? I’m a girl, and I’m quite happy with a stay at home hubby who can raise my children right (and wants a future similar to mine). It’s not our fault you’ve only fallen for women like that, there are a lot of gals who would go for someone’s personality over all else, you’ve just had a bad experience (I’m guessing). If you still think all women are gold diggers who don’t like you just because you aren’t rich/extremely good looking, you’re probably a r/niceguy
@@Delilah_Anne lmao y’all women say the dumbest stuff and expect us men to believe it..I’ve been with hella women since I started dating and they all say the same things, but then actions will prove otherwise 🤣🤦🏾♂️🙄
@@luisvaldes5206 nah it’s called the truth. How am I an incel when I smash hella chicks? Just learn about female nature and stop catching feelings for them. These women do not care about you, they have a lineup of men thanks to social media
The second you mentioned "if a girl is not into you, there's a chance she'll never be into you" I just felt like "someone said it omg" I can only speak for myself but personally- it feels crappy. It feels bad when someone just seems to think at some point you'll be into them. . .even if your pretty sure you won't be. I had a guy like this where no matter how many times I denied his confession, he just. . .kept going. As if believing at some point I'd be interested. I wasn't. I was getting uncomfortable. I was feeling guilty about the rejections cause he looked like a kicked puppy. And I felt guilty because this dude would love to get me gifts. He was starting to just make me overall uncomfortable because he also seemed to, in my eyes, get clingy to me. It just overall felt like the very idea that I just wouldn't be into him wasn't possible. I mean, that's my own experience with a guy seeming to think at some point I'd be into him, but it just. . .felt bad overall. I ended up cutting ties with him because of it. For me, it feels like if you keep kind of pushing for that person to like you, even if they made it clear they aren't interested, it feels like your being ignored and that doesn't really make things good. Like, yeah, things can change but continuing to pursue after they arent showing interest ain't the way-
“Simpin aim pimpin” perfect line. When I heard that I had to think back for a second honestly. “Sometimes you gotta let the conversation die and let her hit you up for a change.” Yeah well what if she doesn’t like to start conversations. Well do you want someone who can’t start a conversation? Do you want someone you constantly have to micro manage?
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No replies damn I gochu I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me my brother Fr
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ngl i thought i was the obly one who caught that
I agree
He needs to put that on a shirt
When the world needed him most, he returned.
I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me fam
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@@playboinook don’t care 😐
Simple, if someone doesn't like you that way it's because they don't find you attractive as a partner. No need to stress understand their POV and move on.
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That’s all good and dandy until you’re thirty and single because for some reason no ones into you. You should never stress on the individual level but many people have universally unattractive habits/traits thats stopping them from finding a partner and could be improved with some discipline
@@jollofrice914 That's not the world's problem, though.
Loser you typer
Because you're not looking into yourself and finding the issue making you unattractive. Nothing changes, you keep getting rejected because nobody finds you attractive as a partner.
I got a worse situation, my ex said: "let's take a break i need a bit of time, maybe a few days" the next day i found her making out with a guy we litteraly met the same day she told me that, i was almost going berserk, luckily i remembered some words i actualy heard from you: "either you can choose me, or you can loose me" those words saved me... thank you swoozie
Never let women play you like that. Girls like that don't deserve your attention. I hope you are doing well
Edit: My god how time aged poorly, my girlfriend of 5 months did the same thing as described by the top comment. I hope we both get through this bro
@@deadly5528 lmaoo
@@deadly5528 I wish you all the best. Bless you.
Sometimes yea the simplest answer is, the reason she doesn't like you or he doesn't like you, is because they don't have to like you. You can't force feelings that don't exist to appear all of sudden. You could meet the qualifications she/he "wants" but, theres still a chance they won't feel anything towards you. Stuff is complicated, you wouldn't date every single person they shows up in your life and neither will others.
Absolutely agree with this!
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THANK YOU! 👏
careful, you might anger some children in the comments
Reason why he/she doesn't like you back:
1. He/She said no. No, is a full on sentence.
2. He/She straight up just doesn't like you.
Wether a guy/girl rejects you doesn't mean you should go full on "incel/femcel" over it. Just accept the fact that you got rejected and move on with your life. Do what makes *you* happy and you'll be alright.
Reason 1 and 2 and are the same thing. Lol
Way I see it. Nothing gained or lost. High chances are you'll see someone else you'll like
Preach bro
@@renaesenton8306 All those reasons still mean they dont like you. And the answers no.
Wait, there's such a thing as femcels?
There’s also a huge difference between a good man and a “nice guy”. Women can discern when a dude is just putting on an act to get what he wants from you.
Fax. I use to not understand this at all.
is that why yall get played and cry on twitter 24/7 or why there are more single moms than ever?
Yeah but don't go for good men either if he is below 6ft
@@geasslelouch why yall made in the comments. this is exactly the behavior she talking about
@@phoenix-king779 no ones mad its just that its not true; no ones entitled to a relationship and no one has to love the nice guy, but making them the problem is a new way of shifting the blame
Ever since I stopped messaging people first, my DMs have been drier than a biscuit from Popeyes
Focus on yourself king
RIP
R.i.p
OOF
Same I literally have 3 friends now and 2 live with me 🤣
Modern culture has this toxic mindset that we have to "win" someone over. Nobody really thinks about how much of a waste of time trying to change someone's opinion of you is, especially when you could be spending that same energy talking to lots of different people and seeing who you connect with the most. Doing it that way will near guarantee you end up in a much happier, healthier relationship than if you'd just spent that same time browbeating someone you think you like into liking you back.
Mos tppl are just idiots and way too mamy kovies and shows revolve around ppl having a crush and doing whatever to make them like them back or in movies ppl always get with their crush due to persistence, so ppl think that shit works in real life. Ans also skme ppl just so desperate to be in a relationship, they will do and say the wildest ass shit just because skmeone is good looking instead of taking the time to actually get to know ppl and deciding if you vibe with them or not. Dont trust lust, it's not the thing to chase.
I'm not looking for marriage but I know that to even entertain being with someone forever or even just a few years, I have an extensive list of requirements that must be met (I assure you they're sensible...mostly, lol. Things that I don't think a lot of people truly consider before dating someone and then find themselves being unhappy because they didn't do that self reflection to know what they're looking for). Because of this, I refuse to date anyone I've bumped into when out and about. The region in which I live in already makes it that there's a high likelihood that two of my dealbreakers will not be met by just randomly meeting someone (not wanting kids and not dating someone who is religious. I live in Alabama...that second one especially is hard to avoid here, and lots of people equate religion to "a woman is only a woman if she has children", so, you know...it's been a slow search for Mr. Right, lol).
@@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley k
@@BewareTheLilyOfTheValley k
The cliché in most popular media is "work hard enough and you'll win them over", but what people don't realize is that it only exists to provide narrative sense to the story. Plots usually need progression. Life doesn't work like that. Life doesn't make narrative sense. Just imagine someone you're not into, trying over and over again to win you over. Suddenly it sounds annoying and no longer romantic
im gonna start going to swoozie with lady advice instead of my friends
Sounds right
Watch this comment be most popular cause SWOOOSH.
He hearted ur comment after u said he wasn't ur friend
Mhm
seems like you are one of his other friends from his early life.
Yup. This is definitely getting a reaction 🙂
I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me man
Yessir!!
Whoa!!! It's a surprise to see you here bro.
Can't wait for Swoozie debute, reaction and breakdowns in MT&R.
Lol I didn't know one of the most savage, and wittest TH-camrs watches "Swozzie"
@@novaninja4252 of course. Been watching him for 10+ years. Love Swoozie's content
I really appreciate all the advice. Thing is TH-cam is filled with some really toxic advice for guys who are looking for some guidance around relationships. You give good, actionable, non-toxic advice in a format that is approachable to teenagers who are trying to figure stuff out. It keeps people away from the awful incel and pickup artist stuff, and makes the world a better place.
Honestly, Swoozie is actually saying the same stuff as most "redpill" channels. So that just confirms those guys are actually right. If you don't believe me, compare a video like this to one from stephiscold or mediocre tutorials and reviews. The same things are being said there, only Swoozie has a much larger following.
That is true, I appreciate for your efforts.
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 it doesn’t confirm those guys are actually right, It just confirms that Swoozie is like one of those awful guys. How does that even make sense that that you would assume that those guys are right, how are they right? It just means Swoozie thinks they are right, so that’s why he agrees with them and spreads that message along.
When I was an aspiring TH-camr, I complained about how I could never get advice or the chance to talk to a current TH-camr. I wanted to pick their brain, get some answers and (hopefully) find the right path for my own content creating. When Swoozie was already a gold plaque acquired TH-camr, he responded to my personal messages (back when TH-cam had messaging ROFL)! I was shocked by how honest, candid, and genuine he was as a person. I also had the chance to meet Swoozie at gaming event where he was playing people in the audience, same exact experience. I wanted to say publicly, thanks to Swoozie and TH-camrs like him for inspiring people like me (and im sure many more) to do TH-cam as well! Also your content has grown exponentially in quality, and your story telling is there along with it.
You’re doing good for yourself too!
Atleast someone took there time to type I respect you my guy 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👄👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
I remember him following me back on twitter and that just being the coolest shit to me
Ok
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Thank you park ranger
Lol
Lmao
rofl
Lol
I love this comment
Can we also just point out the fact that when a guy gets a girlfriend his family congratulations him and welcomes her with open arms, but when a girl gets a boyfriend her family (Especially the dad) asks him all these questions and is so much more skeptical to except him lol
Cause men are more likely to have alter motives, women have to be more careful about who they speak to, because the World is a dangerous place. Alot of guys aren't really what they seem. Which is why parents are more protective of their daughters.
I think guys get praise maybe because being able to get a girl takes some guts and getting over shyness since we are the ones expected to make the moves. I only felt like my parents were happy about me making moves on this one girl once, and emotionally it hurt since it felt like my family didn't value my effort or the relationship. I struggle opening up to people about girls now partially because of that.
Because men are generally the ones who have to put their ego on the line and ask the girl out. This means that they’ll be the party who has to deal with the possibility of rejection on the front end, which is a scary proposition to most people. This also means they had a motive to approach the girl, which could be one that doesn’t align with the girls and could become dangerous due to physical differences. Especially at an early age, when it’s more about the status symbol of having a girl friend rather than caring about her as an individual.
@@poopypants2214 also misogynistic double standards like purity culture
@@emlin2005 Interesting you pin that on misogyny. I was thinking that is seems kind of misandrist that a girls parents would regard a guy with skepticism and ire like he might be some kind of dangerous goon by default.
Although, to be fair, those concepts aren't mutually exclusive, a lot of cultural standards are shitty for both genders. Could be some misogyny and misandry mixed in there.
"Girls can tell when you like them."
As a girl myself, I unfortunately can't tell when a guy likes me. I'm so oblivious to a guy liking me. Unless they tell me straight to my face that he likes me, I won't ever tell and it unfortunately happened to me so many times with a couple of guy friends I had. I felt so bad telling them that I never knew they liked me. ;n;
Big same. Like, honestly people should just talk to you to say whether they have feelings, because it might just go nowhere otherwise (and it might not go anywhere even if someone makes a move, but at least there is communication and understanding in telling someone)
@Ross Orange
You have met the wrong girls. You need to meet more.
Sincerely, a girl who earns more than her boyfriend and is completely financially independent (not rare tbh).
I’m sorry you’ve been hurt. We don’t choose to meet the wrong people. I don’t know your life, but there are so many ways to meet normal girls (and people in general)
👏Exaclly 👏 i had so many times those situations. Once my guy friend said to me „l want to grab something to eat with you” a while after that he told me that it was a date, like how could I know that ? I also had different guy friend who would touch my hair, I was like „what are you doing?” And he said „I just like to touch hair” I tought it was wierd, but people do wierd things so I just ignored it. One day i overheard him talking to somebody that he liked me, I would never realised that by myself. Since we started daiting he never touched my hair. I guess that it was his way to show me that he likes me. Just tell somebody that you like them and don’t pray that they will realise that themself. Also if you’re a guy and looking for tips I would recommend you to watch some girls who are giving advices how to date a girl, they will know way better how to do it rather than a guy.
@@gab1888 talk to a girl about dating advice big lol
Did u ghost them tho? I told my best friend I liked her and I got ghosted
Honestly sometimes you are just not her type. Simple as that. Its not personal. If someone wants a blue car and all you have is silver cars there's nothing you can do about that. It doesn't mean silver cars are bad either. Weird analogy, I know but its the best I could come up with 😂🤦🏽♀️
Great analogy actually
Ye
What if that car has a nascar engine
Yeah but like a silver Ferrari is still a silver Ferrari lol, ain't no one saying no to a silver Ferrari if you get what I'm saying
*Spray paints silver cars*
"When she doesn't like you back"
Story of my life 😂😂😂😂😔
My brother I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me
@@realfarmer21 your video legit give me edp445 vibes.
Lol 😂
@@godthesavage5572 damn bro did him dirty 😂😂😂
Damn swoozie you got a wild nice fit 👍🏻
"it's a great feeling.. when the tables turn and POI is now interested in you" ... Has never happened to me. Swoozie, some of us are just mere mortals!
Gotta put the oxygen mask on yourself and focus on having it on correctly before focusing on others
Stop playing with my heart swoozie. I might get use to all these uploads
I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me brother
Fr. Uploading a bit TOO often
Facts. Just to get my heart broken again when he doesn’t upload for months😭😭
@@realfarmer21 fam I unintentionally straight faced 5 of your videos. I wanted to laugh so bad, couldn’t find it in me. I see you got the V’s I see you got the subs congratulations keep at it, try a new approach I might be more apt to peep your material with a open mind.
“He’s not studying her”… one of the most Trini things I’ve heard Swoozie say🤣
Big up T&T 🇹🇹🔥🙌🏼
Das a island ting to say, for sure! 😊 🇻🇮
Yessir💪🏿🇹🇹
It’s true! 😂 🇻🇨
Facts, we say it alot in Antigua 🇦🇬🇦🇬
@@danielmcdougall5624 big up yuhself Pres Man!
Never forget. Simpin ain’t pimpin
Fax
- Swoozie 2021
Hi, I watch your vids all the time
Fax bois
What does it mean anyway?
The person who is least interested in maintaining the relationship... controls the relationship.
There’s “nice guys” and there’s “good guys.” Don’t be a nice guy, don’t be a good guy either
Be a GREAT guy
Ha
I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me my G Fr
I make lit Funny And Entertaining content u might like if you don’t tell me what to improve on your support helps ❤️🙏🏾
Don't worry about being liked, be respected
Lol true it's just all about respect bud.
Dont have a good day, have a great day
"If a girl wants you, nothing can keep her away from you. If she doesn't want you, nothing can make her stay" - Peppa Pig
Peppa pig-
I love it when the pig tells me relationship advice
When did Peppa Pig say that?
Lol is that a real deleted scene of Peppa Pig? Cause the show is rated " TV Y" or something.
I trust peppa pig for my life choices
“Here’s something my friends hate when I say: if a girl’s not into you there’s a good chance she’ll never be into you”
Why do your friends hate when you say that?
simply because it hurts to face that realization. people want to hold on to hope.
@@chelsea545 hope is irrational
@@marlom7882 hope is a drug
its hard to accept that they are not desirable
🗣️🎙️ SIMP'N AIN'T PIMP'N
Swoozie is right when it comes to the fact that if she decides she doesn’t like u she will never like u. However, there is a difference between her never considering u two as a couple and her considering it and saying no.
But they’ll find a stupid reason to not like you, or don’t even give time to get to know you lol..
This is so perfect
I loved!!!
So many likes and there was only one Comment.
DOUBLE UPLOAD WITHIN LESS THEN A FEW MONTHS
WE’VE BEEN BLESSED
I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me G
I make lit Funny And Entertaining content u might like if you don’t tell me what to improve on your support helps ❤️🙏🏾
Less gooo
Just wanna say that Swoozie's advice of "mutual interest, mutual investment" has become a mantra in my life. Once I started adopting that idea, I got a whole lot further in life.
I remember for over a year, I had it bad for this girl who never gave me the time of day. We never even dated and I got so head-over-heels for this girl that I made a fool out of myself. Then I just came to grips with the fact that she wasn't into me, and while it was super hard at first, it was the most freeing thing I've ever done. Also taught me a lot about focusing on improving myself rather than a girl. I got better at talking with women, but also learned how to wear each POI loosely until they express the same amount of interest. Right now I just want to focus on God, my career and my music. The right girl will come along when it's time.
Whats POI
@@aafiaasdfghjkl759 Person of interest. AKA your crush
I'm a woman, but something I also learned is that liking and not liking someone goes both ways. Think about the people you may have hurt when you reject them (and this could be as simple as with online dating and getting a new message from someone that you're not into). So, while we all want to be liked back when we like someone, we all have the same power as well to reject a person. Once I realized that, being rejected or ignored hurt less.
And I'm not talking about doing it out of bitterness or spite, just genuinely not being interested in a person.
@@iamvoicelessmusic Ohh ok thanksss
Always remember: Being single doesn't mean being undesirable. It can mean that, but often times it also means having some STANDARDS!
I agree
Exactly. I really don't mind not being in a relationship, or never having been in one yet.
As a girl we definitely know when a guy likes us, and when we don’t like them back we try to put it in a nice way or else we seem like a bitch. But when guys don’t take that, that’s when lots of us ghost them or stop talking to them. Also lots of times the “nice guys” aren’t actually that nice, they just do things for you expecting things in return, and if you don’t do what they want in return we are the ass hole. But you definitely nailed a lot of things in this video about girls.
LOL do you realize how complicated this sounds to a simple male mind? Do you see the many mixed signals and selfish thinking in all this? Just be clear and let the guy know how you really feel. So what if a guy you have NO interest in thinks badly about you. Think about how you're mind fuking the guy. It's a lot better than stringing him along giving him some type of hope. What you guys think are nice "hints" that you're not interested. Actually appear like you're playing hard to get or are just nervous. Just flat out ghosting a guy is the worst thing you can do after stringing a guy along. This leaves men in a very messed up confused state. They start doubting themselves, and thinking they did something wrong. About "expecting things in return". SMH if a guy spends money and time on you. You go on dates with a guy and accept gifts. Of course he's gonna expect something!! LOL. Y'all know if a guy is crushing on you 90% of the time. Basically y'all already know what it is. But you sit there and willingly put yourself in that position. Then want to act like something's wrong with the guy. You could have stopped this before it stared or when you noticed it. Y'all gotta cut this out and take accountability, this is not the mans fault. This is the real reason why most guys view these girls as "bitches". There are some guys out there who just are super emotional and ego maniacs. But that's the minority, lets be real here.
@@THIZZAVELI i mean yeah but it’s not like every girl in the world is gonna see your comment so why type that much
That's fair, just don't be mad when dudes stop trying when u play hard to get😂😂
@@THIZZAVELI my guy if it was that easy to say yes or no to someone the world would have exploded by now
@@THIZZAVELI I agree girls that act like that have the mind of a 8 year old or a high schooler it’s very immature
"When she doesn't like you" me already clicking 🥲
same lol jk
Lol that's that's sad 😂🥲
The title drew me instantly 💀
This is why I check in on these videos; not for relationship advice, but for these incredible stories! Swoozie a GOAT.
"I wish a girl would" sent me rolling 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Swoozie is everybody’s internet therapist and we all love it😂
this is better dating advice than anyone on the internet who specializes in dating advice, mans ain't trying to be smooth he just got life experience.
How to beast and teachingmenfashion are the closest to this advice tho. There out there
@Jesus Gonzalez It's surely not in the US, of course.
@Jesus Gonzalez "Black women are the most beautiful women in the world." you're fucking shitting me, right
“Why doesn’t she like me???”
Cause she don’t. Keep looking. 😂😂🤣
As a woman, YES.
I also learned so much about guys from this, so thanks!
and that girl who gave you her number, drove and hour each way to see you weekly... that can totally be misunderstood as making the first move(s). I don't blame you for initiating even more.
As a girl, I agree with almost everything besides creeping the Instagram likes to see what she likes. For one, my Instagram likes are just of memes and cookie decorating videos. On the other hand, don’t change yourself to fit what you think she might like!!! The most attractive thing you can be is yourself :)
I make lit Funny And Entertaining content u might like if you don’t tell me what to improve on your support helps ❤️
Doesn’t hurt to see what she likes
best advice ever
I think he meant look at what she likes to see if you fit the bill, like get the answers you need to why it's not working
Said ever no guy who gets laid
This is what entire video is explaining what I’m feeling in high school and all I have to say it that “don’t worry about a girl who doesn’t like you back, the one thing that matters is focusing on what you want to be seen for and some day a girl will like you for what you do”.
Somehow Swoozie rocks everything he's ever worn and I respect that.
The I make lit Funny And Entertaining content u might like if you don’t tell me what to improve on your support helps ❤️🙏🏾
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idk, not feeling the hat here
this man and his advice raised me from probably 2009 to now. amazing
That bit about the retaliation self-improvement is so real, because dudes really be out here heartbroken and trying to prove a point to a chick that never cared.
Swoozie: "You had me leaning back like Neo in the Matrix."
Kelly: "Nooo not true at all! You don't remember that night correctly you never did that."
Swoozie in his mind: "Was I in the Matrix?"
Swoozie could be an anime protagonist with how many girls he's had, Im just here listening to this advice for if I ever do get one, maybe one day
Right? Like where are these women who make the first move on a man??? I'm 26, and never had a girl like me like that.
These, are amazing plotlines I ain't gonna lie.
swoozie You’re one of the first TH-camrs I ever watched as a young kid and you haven’t changed one bit :) thanks for always making me laugh all these years
Swoozie - Talking about common relationship issues
Me - Nodding my head while knowing damn well that I've never even been in a relationship in my life
Damn same
Don’t want one
@@ravravean7368 how old are you is my question
Bro tooo true
rip if you wanna be in a relationship you're going to have to change that username
This video's real. The girl in my life who came after me the hardest happened when I was at a bar by my college campus and she asked me to buy her a drink. I gave an excuse to why I couldn't and went with my friends. I kept running into her every now and then and she would be extremely flirtatious and gave me her number at some point. After a few months we hung out alone and she told me that the reason why she came after me so hard was because no one had ever turned her down when she asked them to buy her a drink and it made me fascinating. Simpin' ain't pimpin'.
Swoozie has been my role model since like highschool. He just out here livin life, doin him while also being a gamer.
Must be nice
"She wants to come over and game, Im not gonna say no to that" - Swoozie, 2021
I matched with a girl named Jenna on Bumble. After 5 days of having deep conversations, I asked her if I was boring because I’ve never complimented her, like repeatedly saying you’re beautiful and such.
Jenna: “I don’t find you boring. The thing about compliments online is when you hear them a lot, it doesn’t really add to or subtract from the conversation. Guys online are very quick to throw things like that at someone and it just doesn’t earn brownie points with me.”
Me: I think most guys compliment quickly and often because they wanna skip the conversations and get into the female’s pants. I’m not like that.
Jenna: Nah they just think that a woman has never had self esteem ever and like to compliment a lot. So I tune them out because I’m already aware of what I look like.
For all the guys out there, Swoozie is right: “SIMPING AINT PIMPING.”
For me i had self esteem issues but when a guy is over complimentive it screams,"i have ulterior motives or don't really care much for you." To me cause they do stay wanting to get in my pants. And i just stay dry till they disappear. I always trust my gut feeling now. And anyone that wanna say i might have missed out on a good guy being like this, i tried it and still kinda regret it to this day and struggle to cope with some of that and took myself off the market because of these problems.
“Why doesn’t she like me back?”
Because she doesn’t. Move on. It’s easier than you think.
Thank you. I don't know why people don't have a simple mindset like this.
@@superfan364 you know how it is. You gotta go through it a few times to get it
Yep. There's plenty of others out there. The media (from books, movies, TV, songs, etc.) there is the idea that there can be only one. Unless you are the Highlander, this is not true.
HONESTLY! People don’t owe you attraction just because you’re attracted to them!
Most people do not have this mindset because their mind does not work that way hence why it is not easy for them do. Mental holdbacks are really popular.
“Simping ain’t pimping”
I swear each video has it’s own slogan and I love em all 😂
One reason that girls end up with bad guys is because the bad guy acts like a nice guy at the jump, and then the girl gets emotionally involved, to the point where she forgives all of his shitty behavior because she loves him so much and forgives easily. I don't know a single bad guy who treats a girl they want like shit from the jump. That's why nice guys get a bad rep sometimes because no one knows if it's genuine or not.
this guy keeps on making bangers and hasn't stopped, his videos are so addicting to watch
I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me kuz
If I had a dime for everytime someone didn’t call me back
I’ve have zero 😎
Because i was too cowardly to ask them 😐
This man finds the funniest, greatest way to talk about life and problems
I make lit Funny And Entertaining content u might like if you don’t tell me what to improve on your support helps ❤️🙏🏾
🤜🏽
Most of the time there’s a reason why they don’t like you back. It could be something very minor or a huge red flag you have, but sometimes they just don’t want to be with you. And that’s okay.
@@mr.skeleton3190 what is that one reason?
@@mr.skeleton3190 looks really ain’t all that. 9 times out of 10 it’s less about looks and more about hygiene. Hygiene plays a huge role in how you look and style is also what can attract girls. You also have to realize that every girl is different and not all like the same thing. So sometimes the girls you’re trying to attract aren’t necessarily into the same things you are or don’t find those things to be attractive. That’s all.
@@mr.skeleton3190 Because we have creep radar. A comment can be cute if said jokingly of offhandedly, but creepy if someone expects a date or sex in return. Or maybe she knew that guy and you were a total stranger
@@mr.skeleton3190 Abuse is way more insidious. Most abusers seem perfectly normal and not creepy. Don’t blame women, recognize the realities of abuse.
@Jesus Gonzalez people in Chicago don’t have to do that tho.
Swoozy's scenario happens all the time. What a great example for advice! Love the story and animations as usual.
That Beavis and Butthead shirt freaking rocks.
i paused Daechwita for this. That's when you know the support is real
I make lit Funny And Entertaining content u might like if you don’t tell me what to improve on your support helps ❤️🙏🏾
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@@playboinook nah
I haven’t even had crushes in like 5 years, yet I’m watching this whole video about them and relationships, Swoozie (and Domics) are the only people to get me interested in random crap
Domics video was really good.
This video was kinda meh.. it felt like "unless you doesn't look a certain way, she or he will not like you"
This isn't a good advice
@@maxderholzrusse7301 Well I mean, I’m not watching it for advice, I get where you’re coming from, but as I stated crushes have just been nonexistent for me.
Its been a good 2 years for me
Wanna see a collab of them
Those 2 were like the ones that started story time animation
Before James and jaiden
Same, i am fine with being single forever, but i dont know why i watch this kind of stuff, maybe i just want to see how desperate people are for love.
I agree with all the advice Swoozie has given in this video and others. Dating can be wonderful but sometimes it's just bad. Personally I'm a person who can't really see "double meanings" and in dating there a ton of those! My mantra is "the right person will come at the right time." Simple as that.
The people need “Simpin ain’t pimpin” merch
I make lit Funny And Entertaining content u might like if you don’t tell me what to improve on your support helps ❤️🙏🏾
Lol agreed man.
My rule of thumb be yourself and be true to you because you’ll never be happy being with someone you change yourself for, the right people will come to you, patience is a virtue!
“Girls can tell when you like them,”
We can?! My friends have to tell me if someone likes me. I don’t pay attention to people in that way so I don’t really care.
then that could also mean people could hurt you as well. because you may not have good intuition about people in general not just for men
@@barrytelesford5265 I just can’t tell when someone likes me. Other than that I’m good at reading people. It’s cause I don’t pay attentions to that certain aspect of feeling that I think I don’t notice it.
@@tpgcandy Our Personality Seems To Be The Same And Here I Thought I Was Only one guys have to be blunt with me so I know plus where I live but hey I'm not sure if it's the same in other countries or states 🤔🤷♀️
@@inohalajian4151 I’m the exact same way; if’s it not blunt, I always assume they’re just really friendly.
@@tpgcandy are you approachable. do you have a nice personality where a guy would feel comfortable in disclosing what he feels for you? I have liked some girls looks wise at least but if i feel that they a fussy or weird about it I would not venture to let them pick up from my body language or words that i like them. so could that be the case with guys around you.
Yeah, I've heard stories like this. At first, you'd be the average guy that no girl really takes a second glance at, but, once you become successful, that's when they strike. It's pretty sad that's the world we live in
I mean
Yeah
When your on the same level and it's just about attraction in real life peeps don't chase
Once you get rich peeps who are broke wish to exploit you for your money through dating
Peeps at least in my experience
Don't just decide to go out with someone just cause they're nice and show some decency
There needs to be more
Either physical attraction
A long term supportive relationship
Or the muns
Yep you need to take the red pill
Or, it could just be that, the more fame and status you have, the bigger your social circles are and thus the more people you meet, and so your options for dating increase.
For the sake of argument Lil Nas X could be my perfect match if we ever met, but I'm not in the social position where I could presently meet Lil Nas X, and there's a fair chance I may never be.
@@gregvs.theworld451 No, it's literally what was stated. It's not about your social circle. We're talking about THE SAME women who didn't before, but now that you are famous/have money, they are all of a sudden "interested". The world does work this way, it's only natural for a woman to want to attach herself to a successful man, it's just in women's biology.
@@thelegacyofgaming2928 I'm sure some people will give other people a second look when they feel they can directly benefit from their newly found fame or money, but I know not everyone does that and saying it's in women's biology is just ridiculous and sounds like some red pill pick up artist type nonsense.
The one time this happened to me, I chased for a long time. It wasn't until I told my friends that if they got a chance they should take it that things changed. As soon as I stopped pursuing her, she started aggressively going after me. It was crazy.
I think it boils down the truism that "Nice" doesn't mean "Good", and that goes for both the boy and girl. Learning how to judge character and focus on finding someone who shares your value system is the best thing you can do in dating.
The number one thing to keep in mind when doing ANYTHING with ANYONE,( Or something in general to keep in mind with interactions)
Is that some people will just hate you for no reason or make up a reason, even if it's something that's really small.
The ultimate key is to practice self love and stop looking for this “thing” in other people. Start giving it to yourself. We’re all more than capable of loving ourselves
You just have to commit to it.
Ur a legend Swoozie !!! This is why I just stay in my own lane and focus on myself …. If girls come they come, doesn’t really bother me anymore 👍🏼 keep up the awesome videos man, ur the best !!
“Simping ain’t pimping”
~Swoozie, 2021
Swoozie stay giving morals with a flex. That's why we love him
One quote that really stuck with me was: "girls get with who they want, guys get with who they can."
That’s so stupid wtf
@@ivette8459 no it ain’t
@@ivette8459 Ssmrt
sadly
@@ivette8459..... it's true though....
So I'll add an extra step to it
"Women get with who they want,
Guys get with who they can,
& Men get with who they want"
(I'm talking men who got their shit & lives in order, ladies you know what kind of men I'm talking about)"
Me: Actually gets along with women just fine and be respectful to them to the point of being friends with them!
Other Dudes: OMFG!!! WHY DON'T SHE LIKE ME?!?!??!?!?!
Moral of the story: Don't be a wimpy simp, be someone who actually respects them in the first place! It is that simple!!
Who would have thought that respect would make you her friend 😂😂😂 guys now a days a so dumb
Bf material
@@tinymegazell6060 I know, right? Right back at you, my dude! Nice to meet you! How are you today? I am just here to spread the message! :D
@@sirmoony5633 I'm doing decent. Hope you have a good day 😊🎩
Why would i wanna be friends if i’m tryna be her date…. if she doesn’t want me then i’m ghosting her and leaving her on delivered
LOL so true. When my man and I started posting our relationship on social media a girl he used to talk to liked all our stuff and then privately hit him up for "casual online gaming". I was annoyed he played a few hours with her - super oblivious as to what was going on and wouldn't believe me. So the second time she asked him to play I joined in the party to play with them. She played 1-2 rounds and suddenly had to leave and never messaged him again.
Bro even if there is a rumor about me dating someone girls come out the woodwork
@Jesus Gonzalez king
@deej yt If you're implying we have a toxic relationship - nah, we do great and we've been together over 4 years now plus we always game together anyhow so me joining the party was nothing new. If you mean the girl was toxic, from what I understand she dropped him for some guy she married, had a baby with, and divorced all within 2 years. She was a freshly divorced single mom too when she starting messaging him.
@deej yt 🤦🏽♂️
Guys: Why doesn't she like me
Me: yeah, why doesn't he like me
Swoozie's answer: *I don't know*
I died😂
'yall, i felt so crunchy'
this man.
everything he says lmaoooo
Swoozie makes my favorite videos on the internet. Straight facts, dope animations, and a good sense of humor.
"some people like being the object of desire. They have no intention of building with you" basically Everytime I like someone 💀
I'm sitting here watching old swoozie videos like,
"I wonder when he's gonna upload a new vi- OH SNAP"
I really needed to hear this. I have just gotten off spending the last two weeks trying to get with a girl at work. Although I am still really into her, after I accepted the fact that it just wasn't happening, life got a lot more enjoyable. We still work together and get along just fine, and could even be considered friends, but now I don't have to worry about trying to impress her, I just do me.
Look up how to beast
Yup I like guys that be themselves
Love how this pops up on my recommendations
New comment lmao
Mine Too
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swoozie just has that emotional intelligence ty for teaching us your ways 🙏
Very well said.
My man out here dropping the quality content we need. Mad respect
If a girl rejects u and sees that u doing good for yourself she'll come running back 👌🏽😭
Yeah that’s why I date men 👨❤️💋👨💦😹
And vice versa
“When she doesn’t like you back”
Me: You mean all the time?😂😂😭😭
Holy crap, I watched this channel way back and you look like you’ve never aged a bit.
He’s back on a roll, guys!
Yessir btw I be makin entertaining vids like Swoozie . 100% it’ll make u laugh. If not u can come to tell me
I make lit Funny And Entertaining content u might like if you don’t tell me what to improve on your support helps ❤️🙏🏾
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Oh, yes he is man!
You just gotta rock with someone who rocks with you. Be yourself if someone you like dont like you back just be friends but keep it platonic, no favors or spending too much time together. You'll find some one eventually just make sure your happy.
girl: "drive over an hour multiple times just to play games"
boys: "why do we always gotta make the first move u_u;;;;"
Yo be fair he did get curved so like
Except, he did make the first move. Then the years went by and she meets the next. So he did make the first move. Did you and I watch the same video, or did I just click on another Swoozie video by accident?
@@HK47_115 Just chill. I'm teasing about how guys always say they have to make the first move even if girls go to lots of trouble, none of it counts. And she did say later that didn't happen so you're right she could straight up be lying but also he could've misread the situation. Either way I'm just joking about it.
She also gave him her number unsolicited lol I have no idea why she rejected him. Maybe she wasn't ready for a kiss yet, but she did like him. Either way COMMUINICATE.
Why is your timing so perfect bro??? I literally got broken up with a month ago 😭
Though this definitely helped tysm man :)
sWooZie i started watching you about 5 days ago and i have already watched all your videos and i cant wait for more videos to come out, keep up the great work my guy SIMPIN AINT PIMPIN
If she doesn’t like you that way, she wasn’t meant for you and you weren’t meant for her.
It’s that simple honestly.
Edit: on a side note, don’t change/act like someone else for some girl. Your relationship will go down HARD if you gotta keep up an act all the time.
Nah it just means you don’t have enough money, or look like an NBA player..bet that if she found out you win the lottery, she’d be “interested” all of a sudden
@@PlatinumHustle
Lad… who hurt you?
I’m a girl, and I’m quite happy with a stay at home hubby who can raise my children right (and wants a future similar to mine).
It’s not our fault you’ve only fallen for women like that, there are a lot of gals who would go for someone’s personality over all else, you’ve just had a bad experience (I’m guessing).
If you still think all women are gold diggers who don’t like you just because you aren’t rich/extremely good looking, you’re probably a r/niceguy
@@Delilah_Anne lmao y’all women say the dumbest stuff and expect us men to believe it..I’ve been with hella women since I started dating and they all say the same things, but then actions will prove otherwise 🤣🤦🏾♂️🙄
@@PlatinumHustle Incel tears
@@luisvaldes5206 nah it’s called the truth. How am I an incel when I smash hella chicks? Just learn about female nature and stop catching feelings for them. These women do not care about you, they have a lineup of men thanks to social media
The second you mentioned "if a girl is not into you, there's a chance she'll never be into you" I just felt like "someone said it omg"
I can only speak for myself but personally- it feels crappy. It feels bad when someone just seems to think at some point you'll be into them. . .even if your pretty sure you won't be. I had a guy like this where no matter how many times I denied his confession, he just. . .kept going. As if believing at some point I'd be interested. I wasn't. I was getting uncomfortable. I was feeling guilty about the rejections cause he looked like a kicked puppy. And I felt guilty because this dude would love to get me gifts. He was starting to just make me overall uncomfortable because he also seemed to, in my eyes, get clingy to me. It just overall felt like the very idea that I just wouldn't be into him wasn't possible. I mean, that's my own experience with a guy seeming to think at some point I'd be into him, but it just. . .felt bad overall. I ended up cutting ties with him because of it. For me, it feels like if you keep kind of pushing for that person to like you, even if they made it clear they aren't interested, it feels like your being ignored and that doesn't really make things good. Like, yeah, things can change but continuing to pursue after they arent showing interest ain't the way-
if its alright with you, would you mind telling me why you werent interested in him in the first place? that is, before he started getting pushy?
i bet if you heard he got rich you'd all of a sudden find yourself magically attracted to him lol smh
Swoozie, blessing us with his Tuesday Preachings.
“Simpin aim pimpin” perfect line. When I heard that I had to think back for a second honestly. “Sometimes you gotta let the conversation die and let her hit you up for a change.” Yeah well what if she doesn’t like to start conversations. Well do you want someone who can’t start a conversation? Do you want someone you constantly have to micro manage?
this man is the type of person to be a good friend. so good he can make someone's relation ship into a good relation ship