That person tried to contact me after 15 years no contact. Never will they get the privilege of hearing my voice again. Healing was like getting out of some dirty clothes, taking a shower and wearing a brand new outfit. And I love love love my brand new outfit ❤
Narcissists are soul snatchers. They seek to take over your mind, will and emotions. They want your agency. It’s a spiritual war. Thank you Terrell. ♥️
Your words resonated with me so deeply. People who have not experienced this type of abuse have no idea. Thank you for educating us. We are the special ones...we are the ones who bring light and joy to a world of chaos. I am back to being that person. Healing each and everyday..hope you are too! Thank you!
I most certainly don’t care because I know for a fact that she’s the next victim! I pray for each and every woman he has been with, past,present, and future!
Yesssss, these narcs are good actors/Actresses!!!! I said the same thing as you: if they're REALLY happy, they shouldn't spend so much time trying to prove or convince other people of it. Truth is, WE stay in their head and constantly on their minds. In most cases they're OBSESSED.
A lot of people don’t understand narcissistic abuse. Even people who are going through it don’t really know what’s happening. Your videos are so informative and very accurate. Thank you for educating people like myself. I was in an eleven year relationship with my ex narc. It takes a lot of time to heal. Six months post relationship and I have learned so much about all the abuse. I put up with a lot from my ex narc. He was constantly accusing me of cheating on him, projecting onto me the things he was guilty of. It was draining my energy and my soul. He even accused me and cursed at me in front of my sick elderly father. That was the near end for me. But I decided to give him another chance and to pay close attention to what was really happening in the relationship and few months later I caught him cheating. He had no remorse for anything he had done. I damaged his car and he pressed charges on me for it. Narcissistic people are extremely evil, miserable, unhappy fuckers. You are right, that is their karma.
I broke up with him, and immediately my life start changing for better, but I miss him so much! Then I asked myself what is it, that you missed the lies that was not him think about all the cruel stuff he has said to me in the past, how I put up with all the insults, all the gaslight, all the manipulation, and it hurting so bad and when I think of the stuff that he did to me, gives me strength and power that I know when I’m missing him I’m not missing him
When I heard you say "cerebral revenge" ... I had to run it back. You're soft spoken but the knowledge and anointing that comes out of you speaks VOLUMES ‼️ Like, I always say : keep 'em comin'. 💯
Thank you for sharing your experience. That’s me…. I cut off supply to me. I’m expecting him to just show up out of the blue. I’m working on my healing journey.. I know the signs now and I WILL NOT SELL MY SOUL TO THE DEVIL 😈
When you start using your mind instead of emotions you see shit clearly. That’s real talk. I didn’t and could not think right when I was emotionally invested until one day after everything I saw it for what it really was and I got MAD at myself!. For allowing it to go as long as it did.
Im the same damm way bro I can't forgive myself for allowing it to go on for 10 miserable yrs!! My love, my energy, and my time all on a chick with no intention of reciprocating that love but I am hard on myself like u and one thing i say is we love hard and there's always going to be that one we let get away with more then we should of but that's over n we must move on like they no longer exist sad to say but it's not our fault we gave them the real us not a fake manipulating version just us n they chose to do us like they did for that I say good riddance!!
It definitely is sad,but don’t make it your responsibility to save them they won’t even understand it you’ll have to let them self destruct or they’ll destroy you too
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 absolutely! I know I wouldn't even be able to connect. It's too deep plus it's who they are 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ and I love my life and myself. I feel so blessed to have found u! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 I see the whole set up and what it was meant to be. The silver lining is that I don't EVER want to play with these types ever again! It's not a game
This video just set me free. Thank you!!! I have been stuck...just ruminating, more than I would ever admit to anyone I know....in my own head. Omg!!! I got it now. These are some SAD people. Like, even if u have a human moment, it's still apart of the scams/programming. We all have witnessed someone going thru their own hell on earth but in survival mode. They don't even know it. They think that's what the world is
And for me my daughter :) despite her mothers fuckery my daughter is a great kid because I raised her with a lot of love and instilled values and always apologize when I have a bad day or mess up. She unfortunately saw me cry a lot when we were both discarded (usually did it on the bathroom floor but sometimes broke down around her), she would hug me so tight and tell me "its ok daddy everything will be ok" 😢 I'm doing much better now, but idk if I would have made it thru those first few months without her. She's a very strong kid
It's taken me 6 years for the trauma bond to heal and for the worst of the mental distress to leave me. I was with a narcissist for 10 years. I couldn't care less what he's doing now. Not at all but it's lovely to watch these videos Terrell because it affirms and reminds me that I'm doing well now. There is no contact and he's blocked. I'm not on any social media. He lives 4 hours away. He can't watch me. It's freedom and it's great. I too write and perform music which is related to the effects of abuse. It's healing.
I had to keep busy...my family was happy that I finally left him. I too was feeling relieved. His mom made me feel bad for leaving them. I said i matter more.
Thank you for your time and for making this channel. I was only connected for 30 days and so much happened during that time. I experienced a myriad of emotions. I don't think anyone in my life will ever understand. They feel since it was such a short time why should I care. You are truly speaking to the hearts of many who are constantly feeling the same thing.
"THE DEVIL IS A LIE!!!....I will no longer let this Narc be in my power field....NOT TODAY SATAN!!! THIS MESSAGE BLESSED ME BROTHER, GOD BLESS YOUR HEART💙💙💙💙💙 SHOUT OUT FROM CT
I ran into my ex narc in court when I got out of rehab after 7 months last year. The guy you call your ex is a 🤥 fake. The person he is _now_ is the real him. He stole everything he is trying to remake himself into over again from you because he DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING OF HIS OWN. Your revenge is that he's still attached to you, posting to get your attention, trying to make the new supply into you, and now you're onto him. Keep away from him and don't give him any pieces of you to get gleeful and evil with. Trust me, they HATE that crash they get when they realize AGAIN that they haven't broken their cycle because the problem is them, and not the new supply. They are always chasing the perfect slave that lets them do whatever they want to them and always says it's ok. Don't let it be you: if you don't answer or respond, he'll get mad and take it out on this new supply he's with now and crash and burn sooner than you think. I found out my ex narc had wrecked his Jeep a month after I left him; messing with the radio because he's always blasting music to keep from falling asleep at the wheel when he runs out/sells his Adderall. Karma NEVER loses an address, hon.
This MAN....U HAVE A GIFT FOR PRESENTING THIS "LIFE TOPIC"...STRONG...POWERFUL. INSIGHTFUL..AUTHENTIC... HUMBLE ...ALL AT THE SAME TIME...WOW!...AND YOU NEVER MAJORED IN SOCIAL SCIENCES/PSYCHOLOGY 2023?....LIFE EXPERIENCE 2023...CLASS IS IN SESSION.. GOD BLESS U, PROFESSOR!!!
Out of 5 years, I only had maybe 2 months of the good time, this is probably why I didn’t go through so much of it, he made me more independent because I worked 2 jobs to stay the hell away from around him!
Thank you for sharing and dropping this wisdom!! All true, especially the part of emotional regulation! Energy vampires! Also the part regarding witnessing karma is so true!! I certainly believe in them getting karma, it's definitely about the healing process in the end!👏
The decoders ..part 1..2..ext.. or the discarding..like helping us understand what's really going on helps so much Cas u know we end up scrambled eggs for self love ..dignity. ext..Thanks for vids!!
(She discarded me late November came back about a week ago)I’m all happy thinking she’d wanna see me n we could rekindle but nope , push pull hot n cold leaving me on delivered till next morning. Back to feeling shitty I told her I was blocking her and I ain’t wanna be friends no more She said “Okay” Smh
You gotta block her and keep her blocked bro it’s gonna hurt but it’s going to hurt worse if you keep holding on she’s non chalant because she knows she can have you when she wants show her she cant
IT IS AN UNFORTUNATE CIRCUMSTANCE THAT THIS IS A "PHENOMENON" RIGHT NOW...SIGN OF THE TIMES....NO...."WE" ARE NOT ALONE....THESE PEOPLE ARE USING "THE DEVIL'S PLAY BOOK" BUT GOD WILL HANDLE AND KNOWS THE FINAL SCORE...BELIEVE IT OR NOT...I AM "GLAD" THAT I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS BEEN AFFECTED AND INFECTED...HELP IS WHAT IS NEEDED TO KEEP STANDING AND LOOKING UP TO GOD....
She done hit me with the holiday Hoover via email, didn’t read it. Straight delete and block. I feel like all hell is about to break loose for her dude now lol.
Ok I’m running low on your videos because I’m positive that I watched this already 🤔 but I’ve pretty much binged most of your videos as it’s healing for my soul. I look forward to more content (but only in your time 🙂) Thanks again ❤️🩹
Brother, God Bless you. You are being used as a vessel to help free some many of us..I went through the pain and now that I can see, it's hard to have feelings for a narcissist. I will forever stay in no contact regardless. If I seen this lady in a store, I would literally keep moving on about my business. I'm better now and I have clear visions...
I was discarded 1week after New Years. I spent 300 $ on our date. We were together for 3 months. He showed up at my store like he didn't know I was working 🙄. He had a big knot on his face. I didn't feel sorry for him at all. I have educated myself. He didn't have any effect on me
I am new to your channel but thank you for revealing this it's so good for men to express what they are going through because if they don't they become the abusers because of the deception they rather hurt then heal
Them living with themselves how they are is their karma. Them not being able to feel and give the love you give/gave is their karma. PS this is my 3 video I’m a new subbie
Man out of all the videos I've e watched on this subject from so so so many people , you are the only person who spoke from your heart, unscripted, straight and honest. Mate, never ever in my wildest dream thought I would ever meet a Nar, and I did and it broke me, broke me to a point where I felt my soul left my body. I cannot put down in words what I went through emotionally and more than that what I went through spiritually. Listening to you man, you answered so many of the questions I had. I had so many Why's... Thank you so much man. I hope more people can listen to you 🙏
I just want to thank you for bringing this knowledge the way you do from your own personal experience. Although I'm just now having to get educated due to my own recent experience with this phenomenon I can relate on many levels. You're a pioneer brother
Incredibly intelligent. I’m on almost 6 months since the discard and I think your channel has been one of the most helpful. The information you provide is able to help me affirm that I’m not going crazy and this is real. Thank you very much 👌🏻🤘🏻
Yup after I found out about the affair I blocked almost immediately. First, I spoke to an Attorney to see where I stood. I remained adamant that I didn’t want to see my now ex during the divorce, I felt traumatized not broken hearted. I watched TH-cam videos and educated myself that’s where I learned my now ex was a covert narc! Wow they are the sneakiest!!!! So during the first few weeks we were separated but after the second week I found out about the affair I called my Attorney and filed for divorce! My now ex was actually surprised when the paperwork came through email! Long story short I played friedemy until the last asset was sold (our New boat) then I went completely NO contact, blocked every social media! That’s the only way to really heal from these entities!!!! You have to have a smart plan or they will manipulate you until there’s nothing left of you!
I can appreciate every detail that you gave cuz you was right on you nailed it but next video speak up a little louder because I couldn't really hear you thank you for the content
Yeah, Bro…I knew I wasn’t the only one being torn up by music-but man certain songs that played-I still be going down the freeway crying like a baby. I’m a dumb ass.
You know what's this story fable about that lady that used to spin straw into gold. I Don't remember really how it goes but something like that. I like that you're able to take something bad that happened to you and spin it into beautiful art aka gold. But most importantly you're possibly helping other people with your gift. You are not alone.. Music is so healing and so is laughter.. I always try to use my sense of humor..
At least we are past the phase in battleing to leave the narcissist. You know you can't stay that's a given, but at the same time, you are hoping they realize what God has truly blessed them with. That you & that person can move forward. Unfortunately, they are who they are. Light & darkness will not ever be able to occupy the same space. I tell anyone through experience. I don't care how much you miss that narcissist. Don't ever go back for round 2!! Whether you go back to them on your own or if they ask you back. I started fighting their demonic spirit on a daily basis once I left him. The healing process starting back over again is twice as hard as the first time. I wanted to destroy him for him to feel my pain. I paid the price for it. God tells us vengeance is his not ours. Some people are paying the price today of bad seeds the sowed 10 yrs ago. They don't realize it because they felt they got away with it. As the old saying of truth goes. What goes around always comes back around again.
Man u been helping so I been hurting over how I was treated but I went no contact because I refused to be second to anyone and I just couldn't take the abuse anymore they have tried to call me multiple times but I ignored the calls but it still hurts so bad.😢😢😢
Never mind I got my answer to my question I ask in the other video. You look like a rapper because of your passion of how you feel and express yourself. You giving Gemini energy ( jack of all trades) I’m enjoying your content I’m more in my own phase of healed but still healing. And taking accountability for everyone or thing I give access to my life. Healing is not easy but trust how you feel and don’t live in an illusion. Trust the reality of everything that you feel.
I’m actually an Aquarius and yes originally I am a rapper but I do do more pop music now and yes healing is not easy but neither is hurting for the rest of your life just to feel “safe”
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 After watching 40 plus of your videos in about 2 days. I found out you are an Aquarius😂, I watched your older videos to present. You are a very interesting person and your resilience is remarkable. I agree with you but I also think that’s when the illusion comes into play when we think we’re safe staying in a toxic relationship. Because no one that cares about you would ever put a person through that depth of mental distress. Denial is better than reality it took me 7 years to leave my narcissistic relationship 13 years ago. But the emotional scars are still present in some aspects. That’s why it’s important to go no contact and do the work that is needed to heal because it’s vital for the health of your life.
Revenge is the Lord's. OUR fight Is I ln the invisible realm. 6 years old ,good Bible scholars taught us that. Most died to know how much help this once a boy now a man may need such lessons. Your vid. Thank u T.A.
You can't be heartbroken for looking at your own mirror! It's an illusion! The Narcissist is like an evil magician!
That person tried to contact me after 15 years no contact. Never will they get the privilege of hearing my voice again.
Healing was like getting out of some dirty clothes, taking a shower and wearing a brand new outfit. And I love love love my brand new outfit ❤
I LOVE your analogy! Very true how it feels 😊👍
15 years! 😮
@@marilynmonheaux yeah that’s crazy!!
You’re a gift to all of us who are trying to process this heartbreak
Thank you glad I was able to help🧡
For sure!
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 An ASTONISHING GIFT.
He truly is
"They being who they are is Karma." Damn that bell rang loud!🙌🙌🙌
It’s true🙌🏾
Narcissists are soul snatchers. They seek to take over your mind, will and emotions. They want your agency. It’s a spiritual war. Thank you Terrell. ♥️
A Narcissist really try to make you think they have control over you😂people need prayers for real💯🌟✨
Damn right bro 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Your words resonated with me so deeply. People who have not experienced this type of abuse have no idea. Thank you for educating us. We are the special ones...we are the ones who bring light and joy to a world of chaos. I am back to being that person. Healing each and everyday..hope you are too! Thank you!
Thank you so much for listening and happy healing 🧡
So grateful for you and this community. There’s no way anyone can understand this unless you have gone through it
I most certainly don’t care because I know for a fact that she’s the next victim! I pray for each and every woman he has been with, past,present, and future!
Yesssss, these narcs are good actors/Actresses!!!! I said the same thing as you: if they're REALLY happy, they shouldn't spend so much time trying to prove or convince other people of it. Truth is, WE stay in their head and constantly on their minds. In most cases they're OBSESSED.
Until the end of time
I feel like I was played the whole time
But I know greater is coming
Thank u
You’re welcome and true 🧡
Don’t worry dear.🍀
A lot of people don’t understand narcissistic abuse. Even people who are going through it don’t really know what’s happening. Your videos are so informative and very accurate. Thank you for educating people like myself. I was in an eleven year relationship with my ex narc. It takes a lot of time to heal. Six months post relationship and I have learned so much about all the abuse. I put up with a lot from my ex narc. He was constantly accusing me of cheating on him, projecting onto me the things he was guilty of. It was draining my energy and my soul. He even accused me and cursed at me in front of my sick elderly father. That was the near end for me. But I decided to give him another chance and to pay close attention to what was really happening in the relationship and few months later I caught him cheating. He had no remorse for anything he had done. I damaged his car and he pressed charges on me for it. Narcissistic people are extremely evil, miserable, unhappy fuckers. You are right, that is their karma.
Definitely glad to have you and glad I was able to help 🧡
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 🙏🏼🧡
Your way of explaining is just like finding that sweet spot. I just found your channel and I can’t thank you enough.
You’re definitely welcome and I’m glad I was able to help🧡
Same here Summermoon, I'm glad I found this channel 🙌🏾
Yep.
The key to being manipulated by someone is the manipulated has to believe they need the manipulator and the manipulator validates them in some way.
Exactly 💯
I broke up with him, and immediately my life start changing for better, but I miss him so much! Then I asked myself what is it, that you missed the lies that was not him think about all the cruel stuff he has said to me in the past, how I put up with all the insults, all the gaslight, all the manipulation, and it hurting so bad and when I think of the stuff that he did to me, gives me strength and power that I know when I’m missing him I’m not missing him
Seems yre yet to heal u don't miss him its trauma bond maybe look at ele foundation on yuutube
It’s ok dear…you have good vibrations and everything will be fine.🍀
Thank you again for your page Let's all heal together God bless every one in the comments safe Journey ..@ peace not in pieces❤️
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When I heard you say "cerebral revenge" ... I had to run it back. You're soft spoken but the knowledge and anointing that comes out of you speaks VOLUMES ‼️
Like, I always say : keep 'em comin'. 💯
Thank you so much🧡
I enjoy the timbre of your voice too.🎼
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Thank you for sharing your experience. That’s me…. I cut off supply to me. I’m expecting him to just show up out of the blue. I’m working on my healing journey.. I know the signs now and I WILL NOT SELL MY SOUL TO THE DEVIL 😈
Amen🧡
When you start using your mind instead of emotions you see shit clearly. That’s real talk. I didn’t and could not think right when I was emotionally invested until one day after everything I saw it for what it really was and I got MAD at myself!. For allowing it to go as long as it did.
It’s not your fault 🧡
Im the same damm way bro I can't forgive myself for allowing it to go on for 10 miserable yrs!! My love, my energy, and my time all on a chick with no intention of reciprocating that love but I am hard on myself like u and one thing i say is we love hard and there's always going to be that one we let get away with more then we should of but that's over n we must move on like they no longer exist sad to say but it's not our fault we gave them the real us not a fake manipulating version just us n they chose to do us like they did for that I say good riddance!!
You are the only one that knows what happened to me and how isolated I now am.
Logic and emotions can not operate together with out one being compromised 🤔
It’s not possible
I know it’s hard to find things to talk ab some days… but please never stop making these videos. You’re my new favorite!! ❤😂
Thank you so much
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 so thankful I’ve discovered your content!
@@NEBSpecialEdition thank you and welcome to the families 🧡
Wow. Great video. They’re not human . Just Aliens 👽.
They are definitely not completely human
Demon's.
@@Noname-oo9gn yep
hit the like button, people come on help this man out
Thanks man I really appreciate that💪🏾
wow this one is mind blowing...brought me to tears...just wow.. absolutely agree ❤️❤️❤️ thank you ♥️♥️♥️
You are so welcome
I really enjoyed content
One thing I would advise
Stop saying my narc
My is ownership
And that devil don’t belong to us
Hello somebody
Amen you’re right🧡
I Loss All Contact With That Demon Thank God
Amen 🙏🏾
Now I know I was laying next to the DEVIL himself.
One of his children
Clever channel name. Love your soothing voice and your solid advice. You’re right up there with Dr. Ramani. Keep goingggg
Thank you so much!🧡
I concur with you.🍀
You are correct. The bruises healed fast, within a month. But the memories exist years after the relationship is long gone.
Omg. It's something about how you're explaining it .for the first time, I actually feel really sad for them! I get it and it's so disparaging
It definitely is sad,but don’t make it your responsibility to save them they won’t even understand it you’ll have to let them self destruct or they’ll destroy you too
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 absolutely! I know I wouldn't even be able to connect. It's too deep plus it's who they are 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ and I love my life and myself. I feel so blessed to have found u! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 I see the whole set up and what it was meant to be. The silver lining is that I don't EVER want to play with these types ever again! It's not a game
@@come_on_barbie_123 thank you so much keep up the good work 🧡
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 Absolute truth...out sorrow is their ammunition!!!
This video just set me free. Thank you!!! I have been stuck...just ruminating, more than I would ever admit to anyone I know....in my own head. Omg!!! I got it now. These are some SAD people. Like, even if u have a human moment, it's still apart of the scams/programming. We all have witnessed someone going thru their own hell on earth but in survival mode. They don't even know it. They think that's what the world is
Glad it was helpful!
The best thing out of the relationship was my son. I love him so much!!!❤️
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And for me my daughter :) despite her mothers fuckery my daughter is a great kid because I raised her with a lot of love and instilled values and always apologize when I have a bad day or mess up. She unfortunately saw me cry a lot when we were both discarded (usually did it on the bathroom floor but sometimes broke down around her), she would hug me so tight and tell me "its ok daddy everything will be ok" 😢
I'm doing much better now, but idk if I would have made it thru those first few months without her. She's a very strong kid
@@HorizonHipHop Sorry, you and your daughter had to go through that, thank God you’re better now! Brighter days ahead🙌🏾
@@lilmama2628 thank you
@@HorizonHipHop You’re welcome :)
Thank you so much! I take notes when you talk. So please keep talking to us!!
You are so welcome!🧡 and I got you 🙏🏾
I appreciate you…be kind to yourself and take care. You are a cool dude with a clean heart.🙏
Thank you my friend 🙌🏾
Energy vampires
It's taken me 6 years for the trauma bond to heal and for the worst of the mental distress to leave me. I was with a narcissist for 10 years. I couldn't care less what he's doing now. Not at all but it's lovely to watch these videos Terrell because it affirms and reminds me that I'm doing well now.
There is no contact and he's blocked. I'm not on any social media. He lives 4 hours away. He can't watch me. It's freedom and it's great. I too write and perform music which is related to the effects of abuse. It's healing.
I had to keep busy...my family was happy that I finally left him. I too was feeling relieved. His mom made me feel bad for leaving them. I said i matter more.
Never go back 🧡
Thank you for your time and for making this channel. I was only connected for 30 days and so much happened during that time. I experienced a myriad of emotions. I don't think anyone in my life will ever understand. They feel since it was such a short time why should I care. You are truly speaking to the hearts of many who are constantly feeling the same thing.
"THE DEVIL IS A LIE!!!....I will no longer let this Narc be in my power field....NOT TODAY SATAN!!! THIS MESSAGE BLESSED ME BROTHER, GOD BLESS YOUR HEART💙💙💙💙💙 SHOUT OUT FROM CT
Thank you 🧡
You’re a good brother man thank you for doing these videos I’m with you❤
Thank you my friend 🧡
My ex started posting about his new female. They went to the same places we went to. Discusting...
I ran into my ex narc in court when I got out of rehab after 7 months last year. The guy you call your ex is a 🤥 fake. The person he is _now_ is the real him. He stole everything he is trying to remake himself into over again from you because he DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING OF HIS OWN. Your revenge is that he's still attached to you, posting to get your attention, trying to make the new supply into you, and now you're onto him. Keep away from him and don't give him any pieces of you to get gleeful and evil with. Trust me, they HATE that crash they get when they realize AGAIN that they haven't broken their cycle because the problem is them, and not the new supply. They are always chasing the perfect slave that lets them do whatever they want to them and always says it's ok. Don't let it be you: if you don't answer or respond, he'll get mad and take it out on this new supply he's with now and crash and burn sooner than you think. I found out my ex narc had wrecked his Jeep a month after
I left him; messing with the radio because he's always blasting music to keep from falling asleep at the wheel when he runs out/sells his Adderall. Karma NEVER loses an address, hon.
I love your videos. I've been listening to them all weekend. So much wisdom! Thanks for letting God use you in this capacity.
Glad you like them! And welcome to the family 🧡
This MAN....U HAVE A GIFT FOR PRESENTING THIS "LIFE TOPIC"...STRONG...POWERFUL. INSIGHTFUL..AUTHENTIC... HUMBLE ...ALL AT THE SAME TIME...WOW!...AND YOU NEVER MAJORED IN SOCIAL SCIENCES/PSYCHOLOGY 2023?....LIFE EXPERIENCE 2023...CLASS IS IN SESSION.. GOD BLESS U, PROFESSOR!!!
Thank you! And I did take sociology and psychology but it was in high school
Out of 5 years, I only had maybe 2 months of the good time, this is probably why I didn’t go through so much of it, he made me more independent because I worked 2 jobs to stay the hell away from around him!
Thank you for sharing and dropping this wisdom!! All true, especially the part of emotional regulation! Energy vampires!
Also the part regarding witnessing karma is so true!! I certainly believe in them getting karma, it's definitely about the healing process in the end!👏
You’re definitely welcome
What do you mean
The decoders ..part 1..2..ext.. or the discarding..like helping us understand what's really going on helps so much Cas u know we end up scrambled eggs for self love ..dignity. ext..Thanks for vids!!
Bro this is my first time, with a narcissist thank you for leading me out of dark
(She discarded me late November came back about a week ago)I’m all happy thinking she’d wanna see me n we could rekindle but nope , push pull hot n cold leaving me on delivered till next morning. Back to feeling shitty
I told her I was blocking her and I ain’t wanna be friends no more
She said
“Okay”
Smh
You gotta block her and keep her blocked bro it’s gonna hurt but it’s going to hurt worse if you keep holding on she’s non chalant because she knows she can have you when she wants show her she cant
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 thanks for the advice brother I will sted fast
Man you spoke to me... I thought I was the only one going through this .. thank you for making this video and sharing 🙏
You are so welcome
IT IS AN UNFORTUNATE CIRCUMSTANCE THAT THIS IS A "PHENOMENON" RIGHT NOW...SIGN OF THE TIMES....NO...."WE" ARE NOT ALONE....THESE PEOPLE ARE USING "THE DEVIL'S PLAY BOOK" BUT GOD WILL HANDLE AND KNOWS THE FINAL SCORE...BELIEVE IT OR NOT...I AM "GLAD" THAT I AM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS BEEN AFFECTED AND INFECTED...HELP IS WHAT IS NEEDED TO KEEP STANDING AND LOOKING UP TO GOD....
Thanking God for you young man ♥️🙏🏾♥️
Jewels 💎 verified king
I needed to hear this today! Thank you! 💔 God bless you
Thank you same to you 🧡
She done hit me with the holiday Hoover via email, didn’t read it. Straight delete and block.
I feel like all hell is about to break loose for her dude now lol.
You better believe it😂
They hoover all the time
I'm heartbroken over my dog pasing away! He was my true buddy!
Wowwwww, You hit the hammer right on the nail, that's crazy!!! Appreciate you👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You are so welcome
Ok I’m running low on your videos because I’m positive that I watched this already 🤔 but I’ve pretty much binged most of your videos as it’s healing for my soul. I look forward to more content (but only in your time 🙂) Thanks again ❤️🩹
Thank you so much and I got you 🧡
Brother, God Bless you. You are being used as a vessel to help free some many of us..I went through the pain and now that I can see, it's hard to have feelings for a narcissist. I will forever stay in no contact regardless. If I seen this lady in a store, I would literally keep moving on about my business. I'm better now and I have clear visions...
Thank my friend blessing to you too and yea once you realize who they are game over
I was discarded 1week after New Years. I spent 300 $ on our date. We were together for 3 months. He showed up at my store like he didn't know I was working 🙄. He had a big knot on his face. I didn't feel sorry for him at all. I have educated myself. He didn't have any effect on me
I am new to your channel but thank you for revealing this it's so good for men to express what they are going through because if they don't they become the abusers because of the deception they rather hurt then heal
Definitely a lot of people think only men are narcissists and don’t understand we get abused too
Them living with themselves how they are is their karma. Them not being able to feel and give the love you give/gave is their karma.
PS this is my 3 video I’m a new subbie
Thank you for subscribing and I’m definitely glad you’re here
Man out of all the videos I've e watched on this subject from so so so many people , you are the only person who spoke from your heart, unscripted, straight and honest. Mate, never ever in my wildest dream thought I would ever meet a Nar, and I did and it broke me, broke me to a point where I felt my soul left my body. I cannot put down in words what I went through emotionally and more than that what I went through spiritually. Listening to you man, you answered so many of the questions I had. I had so many Why's... Thank you so much man. I hope more people can listen to you 🙏
Thank you so much my friend and I’m glad I was able to help
King, hijacked that was the word I was looking for. 🙏🏽
Most definitely 🙏🏾
I just want to thank you for bringing this knowledge the way you do from your own personal experience. Although I'm just now having to get educated due to my own recent experience with this phenomenon I can relate on many levels. You're a pioneer brother
Incredibly intelligent. I’m on almost 6 months since the discard and I think your channel has been one of the most helpful. The information you provide is able to help me affirm that I’m not going crazy and this is real. Thank you very much 👌🏻🤘🏻
You’re welcome 🙌🏾
Keep doing what you do
Thank you
Your videos truly strengthen me and gives me the mental clarity ive been seeking
So much time in my day on days I had victories was in pain due to their toxic behavior. I end up w low self esteem. OCD w the pain
brother you speaking truth because when you said you always see them with alot of people because that was some knowledge
Yessir sent it with my own eyes
Remember who and what you are.
I must tell you about my experience….it could really be a best seller…
Go 🧡
I want to stop ruminating and I want my life back. I cannot wait until the day when I am completely unbothered. I can’t wait until the thoughts stop.
Everytime I want to “contact” that individual I come right back to your channel and listen😊
Love that!thank you and welcome to the family 🧡
U need ro hesl ur trauma bond
Cool
Damm once again you hit it on the head, places, songs certain things you hear. Yeah it knocks you down to a point where its hard to recover at times
Truth but it’s definitely possible my friend ✅
Exactly, ne and my ex narc blocked each other immediately!!!
Good job 🧡
Yes music is spot on never heard music like that your on to something
Thank you I appreciate it 🙏🏾
Yup after I found out about the affair I blocked almost immediately. First, I spoke to an Attorney to see where I stood. I remained adamant that I didn’t want to see my now ex during the divorce, I felt traumatized not broken hearted. I watched TH-cam videos and educated myself that’s where I learned my now ex was a covert narc! Wow they are the sneakiest!!!! So during the first few weeks we were separated but after the second week I found out about the affair I called my Attorney and filed for divorce! My now ex was actually surprised when the paperwork came through email! Long story short I played friedemy until the last asset was sold (our New boat) then I went completely NO contact, blocked every social media! That’s the only way to really heal from these entities!!!! You have to have a smart plan or they will manipulate you until there’s nothing left of you!
Yep and never tell them your future plans or goals.🍀
Thank you 🙏🏼
You’re welcome
I can appreciate every detail that you gave cuz you was right on you nailed it but next video speak up a little louder because I couldn't really hear you thank you for the content
Got ya
True revenge is of the lord ❤
🙏🏾 amen
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 I just inther rythem down Don’t blowout my candle Tom Mc Move over new man on board 🥰
Yep.
Yeah, Bro…I knew I wasn’t the only one being torn up by music-but man certain songs that played-I still be going down the freeway crying like a baby. I’m a dumb ass.
You know what's this story fable about that lady that used to spin straw into gold. I Don't remember really how it goes but something like that. I like that you're able to take something bad that happened to you and spin it into beautiful art aka gold. But most importantly you're possibly helping other people with your gift. You are not alone.. Music is so healing and so is laughter.. I always try to use my sense of humor..
🎯😔🤦🏾♀️❤️✨🕊️ SALUTE 🦾💯.
Thank you 🧡
Congratulations on your channel growth! Thriving is surviving. Be blessed.
Thanks so much 🧡 you as well
At least we are past the phase in battleing to leave the narcissist. You know you can't stay that's a given, but at the same time, you are hoping they realize what God has truly blessed them with. That you & that person can move forward. Unfortunately, they are who they are. Light & darkness will not ever be able to occupy the same space. I tell anyone through experience. I don't care how much you miss that narcissist. Don't ever go back for round 2!! Whether you go back to them on your own or if they ask you back. I started fighting their demonic spirit on a daily basis once I left him. The healing process starting back over again is twice as hard as the first time. I wanted to destroy him for him to feel my pain. I paid the price for it. God tells us vengeance is his not ours. Some people are paying the price today of bad seeds the sowed 10 yrs ago. They don't realize it because they felt they got away with it. As the old saying of truth goes. What goes around always comes back around again.
You are definitely right 🧡
I love your channel ❤❤❤❤you are very uplifting glad I subscribed 😊Thank you
You’re definitely welcome 🧡
Hello your content is very well needed .let's stay strong during these holiday hoovers. .
Thank you and same to you
Nicely put as your words of support and compassion are going directly into our hearts. An incredible talent thank you Terrell
You’re definitely welcome 🧡
Man u been helping so I been hurting over how I was treated but I went no contact because I refused to be second to anyone and I just couldn't take the abuse anymore they have tried to call me multiple times but I ignored the calls but it still hurts so bad.😢😢😢
Thank you sooooo much 😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I needed alllll of this and the way you said it. I’m sending love to everyone who is going through this! 💜💜💜💜💜🥰
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Another helpful video. Thank you.
You're welcome!
Never mind I got my answer to my question I ask in the other video. You look like a rapper because of your passion of how you feel and express yourself. You giving Gemini energy ( jack of all trades)
I’m enjoying your content I’m more in my own phase of healed but still healing. And taking accountability for everyone or thing I give access to my life. Healing is not easy but trust how you feel and don’t live in an illusion. Trust the reality of everything that you feel.
I’m actually an Aquarius and yes originally I am a rapper but I do do more pop music now and yes healing is not easy but neither is hurting for the rest of your life just to feel “safe”
@@operationnarcnemesis2383 After watching 40 plus of your videos in about 2 days. I found out you are an Aquarius😂, I watched your older videos to present. You are a very interesting person and your resilience is remarkable. I agree with you but I also think that’s when the illusion comes into play when we think we’re safe staying in a toxic relationship. Because no one that cares about you would ever put a person through that depth of mental distress. Denial is better than reality it took me 7 years to leave my narcissistic relationship 13 years ago. But the emotional scars are still present in some aspects. That’s why it’s important to go no contact and do the work that is needed to heal because it’s vital for the health of your life.
Terrell I will check you out!
you blowing up, on point thats why
Thanks man💯
Revenge is the Lord's. OUR fight Is I ln the invisible realm. 6 years old ,good Bible scholars taught us that. Most died to know how much help this once a boy now a man may need such lessons. Your vid. Thank u T.A.
So True.
I just subscribed to your channel love the way you break it down thanks so much
Much needed! ❤️❤️❤️
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Good message thanks..
You’re welcome
Thanks!