My Entitled Father, Who Abandoned Me for His New Wife, Also His Affair Partne, Alienated Me from ...

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  • 00:00 1t otry:
    My [26F] father [55M] contacted me out of the blue yesterday after 13 years. He wants to reconnect. Is it worth even trying? (laurield in r/relationships)
    17:11 2nd story:
    AITAH for causing the miscarriage of my husband’s affair partner?(u/throwRAsadevilwife in r/AITAH)
    25:18 3rd story:
    AITAH for leaving home after my fiancé said I’m not his son’s real mom? (u/Possible-Gur3336 in r/AITAH)
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  • @Vikashar
    @Vikashar 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +92

    Dad sounds like an infuriating piece of trash, and this story hasn't even premiered yet. "It's all your fault, get over it"

  • @spheres0082
    @spheres0082 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +73

    Second story: Oh f*ck no. OP would be a massive AH to herself if she took him back. Seriously, it would just take an apology for her to forgive all the sh!t he did to her over a lie no less?

    • @n00bitaww
      @n00bitaww 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      if this is south asia, which I really think it is as I am from this region, then this is very common.

    • @kimsantos1893
      @kimsantos1893 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know right!!!! I wanted to jump through the screen and slap her into reality!!!! She needs to value, love and respect herself to leave him I pray she gets therapy and help to leave him because he already planned on taking her money and home once he will do it again.

  • @CyberweaverVT
    @CyberweaverVT 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    Story 2: Please for the love of all that is holy, for your own sake, do not take him back

    • @n00bitaww
      @n00bitaww 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      If my assumptions about OP being south asian are correct she will likely take him back.

    • @goodnightmyprince6734
      @goodnightmyprince6734 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@n00bitawwsad

  • @AllHopeIsLost1134
    @AllHopeIsLost1134 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +31

    1st. Really wish OP would've read the father's email in its entirety, BEFORE she interjected literally every sentence. That killed the pacing of the story completely for me.

    • @cheesycheese7100
      @cheesycheese7100 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Not just that. She interjected with a whole diatribe every sentence

    • @chinaking918
      @chinaking918 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Oh so that read back wasn’t a back and forth between them? I thought she was reading the dad email and her replies back to back. Damn that part confused me.

    • @shannellyman6511
      @shannellyman6511 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’m confused on you guys take on this story. Clearly the dad didnt want op in his life look how he kept saying he didnt want to pay child support he didnt care if op came over or not. Went back to court to reduce his child support. Then told grandma she was taking his money. Then the cherry on the cake didn’t tell op her grandma died. You you guys think she should have heard him out? 😂 place your self in her shoes for 13 years

    • @cheesycheese7100
      @cheesycheese7100 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@shannellyman6511 no our issue is that OP kept interjecting her own thoughts while reading the email, which is probably not so bad reading on reddit, but ends up being confusing and ruining the pacing of this video. Seeing what the email said was built up the whole post but was ruined by constant interruption

  • @vincentcleaver1925
    @vincentcleaver1925 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    No, OP #1, please for the love of God, no!

  • @heyyitsjanea
    @heyyitsjanea 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    story 2: you’re inclined to take him back?!?! why???

  • @gabinathan5499
    @gabinathan5499 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    LAST STORY
    HOPEFULLY THE
    LITTLE BOY JOE ACCEPTS
    HIS NEW 1/2 BROTHER /
    HALF SISTER NICELY+
    UNDERSTANDS THAT THERE IS PLEANTY OF
    LOVE TO GO ROUND
    FOR EVERY BODY.

  • @HauntedGalMars
    @HauntedGalMars 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Story 2... I'm single and I'm older than her. Id rather stay that way than be with a man like that

  • @jakevex4198
    @jakevex4198 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    First story sounds like my dad

  • @kiju_zeed
    @kiju_zeed 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Story 2
    So OP's husband having affair with cousin.. so mother side or father side family? If father side OP's husband mean it's harm lol

    • @l-l-l-l-l-l-l
      @l-l-l-l-l-l-l 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Did you mean "haram"? Because if you do so then you should know having extramarital relationship is haram regardless of familial relationship. OP's husband is just sprinkling shit over a pile of shit.

    • @kiju_zeed
      @kiju_zeed 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@l-l-l-l-l-l-l yes2 ... Tq for correcting me.. so... True

  • @banespeace9079
    @banespeace9079 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    5:40 no relationship is done no saving that

  • @cameron765
    @cameron765 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Story 2 is a great example of how people don't understand different cultures and religions

    • @jdavis7613
      @jdavis7613 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      How could you take back someone who cheated on you with a family member? To save face? To keep the peace? Because you don't want to be alone or divorced? He will do again, he'll just be better at hiding it. The "shame" "of being divorced is better than being a fool for keeping a cheater, who will sleep with a family member. That the husband can be forgiven and taken back. Being alone is not the end of the world. Show some self respect.

    • @cameron765
      @cameron765 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@jdavis7613
      In conservative and religious societies, like those in the East, middle-aged women facing divorce often endure severe social stigma, leading to isolation and limited romantic prospects. Most Men may avoid relationships with them, and other women and marry women may fear associating with them to do the social backlash. This societal rejection can deepen feelings of loneliness and depression for many middle-aged divorced women in these communities.
      You got to remember that majority of the world is not like the western world and just look at the small religious communities in the Western world they do the same thing the Middle East do when it comes to religion

    • @shells500tutubo
      @shells500tutubo 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@cameron765 Even in cultures like that, if the woman has money and/or social status not related to her husband, like her family, she will do fine being single. And not every woman is looking for a relationship, truly. That is a real fallacy, and it hurts the women who believe that they must have a man to be happy.

    • @cameron765
      @cameron765 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@shells500tutubo
      You are very ignorant to different religions and culture because what you just said only can happen in a Western type world where money is very easy to accessin the Eastern parts of the world money is not that easy to access and most family rely on reputation in their community to get by and unfortunately for women in these country their reputation matter way more than the man when it comes to a social aspect This is why most women in general who live in religious cultures or communities rarely get divorces because people in those community or cultures look down on divorce women especially divorced women with kids This is a fact not my opinion and to try to use the Western perspective on divorce in a religious community or highly religious culture they just plain ignorance
      And to make your argument look even more stupid first off most women do crave relationships what are you talking about women are very sociable and relationship oriented This is a biological sociological thing in furthermore it's very stupid to say it's sad for people to want to be in a relationship set of being single If you look at the demographic of women that are 35 and up the single they have the highest count of depression and on anxiety medication you can look this up This is not my opinion This is the fact

    • @cameron765
      @cameron765 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@shells500tutubo
      You seem to lack understanding of various religions and cultures, as your statements primarily apply to a Western context where money is more readily available. In Eastern parts of the world, access to money is more limited, and families often rely on their reputation within the community for survival. Unfortunately, in these regions, a woman's reputation holds greater significance than a man's in social interactions. In religious or highly religious societies, divorced women, especially those with children, face stigma and judgment, leading to fewer divorces among women in such communities. This is a factual observation and not a subjective opinion. It is important to recognize that using a Western viewpoint on divorce within these contexts displays ignorance.
      Furthermore, the claim that most women do not desire relationships is unfounded. Women are inherently social and inclined towards forming relationships due to biological and sociological factors. It is inaccurate to dismiss the desire for relationships and imply that seeking companionship is inferior to being single. Research shows that women aged 35 and above who are single often experience higher rates of depression and may use anxiety medication more frequently. This information is verifiable and not based on personal opinions.

  • @runthesehands4761
    @runthesehands4761 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    3rd op needs a spine transplant

  • @quad9238
    @quad9238 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    6:04 my brother leave a nasty message, and go NC.

  • @blue3532
    @blue3532 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Too many doormat

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739
    @develyntwocentshenderson5739 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    never ever get involved with childed people

  • @goatkiller666
    @goatkiller666 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    AiLady Dude,
    I went NC with my dad for about 10yrs, and was LC for another 5yrs. He died last month. I confirmed I had been disowned… he willed me a car he had already sold. No regrets. Cost me $40k to get 10-15yrs of peace. Cheap at twice the price.

  • @goatkiller666
    @goatkiller666 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Correlation does not equal causation. You had bad thoughts… that bad thing happened. To paraphrase a James acaster, ”One day, I’m going to marry that girl.” And I did. I figured if I said that about every girl I saw, sooner or later it’d come true.

  • @kanteannightmare
    @kanteannightmare 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    First story. Prevented then from saying anything? How?

  • @avaphynx
    @avaphynx 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Op 3 is a simp jfc. Her husband was cheating on her.

  • @shells500tutubo
    @shells500tutubo 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Last sory- Technically, she IS his real Mom.

  • @georgianawoods5215
    @georgianawoods5215 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They be uploading too fast it say "1s otry" in the first section of the vid😂

  • @goodnightmyprince6734
    @goodnightmyprince6734 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Girl divorce

  • @KcLee677
    @KcLee677 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    2nd story, honestly.. karma..

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739
    @develyntwocentshenderson5739 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    god's blessing my posterior

  • @radish6740
    @radish6740 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Op finally got the opportunity to say everything they wanted to say & all they could come up with was whinging & droning. Fckng waste.

  • @Emil_LLscpfan
    @Emil_LLscpfan 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Day 214 of commenting to help secretvoices

    • @SecretVoices25
      @SecretVoices25  14 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Day 214 of commenting thank you for your support❤️❤️❤️