Engelbert Humperdinck - Love Is The Reason Live.wmv

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  • @Dreamernastefan0000
    @Dreamernastefan0000 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Acest duet nu îl mai văzusem.Mulțumesc!
    Credibilă prestația celor doi!

  • @ccarillo8757
    @ccarillo8757 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Timeless. Classic. Never tired of listening to this very beautiful song.

  • @louisecaissie1102
    @louisecaissie1102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I cry each time when listening to this special song. Can't hear it enough. Applies to my life.

  • @joantraylor9888
    @joantraylor9888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Englebert and Christine beautiful song plus a loving duet. I could listen 1000 times. Thank you both

  • @loraschultz772
    @loraschultz772 9 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This was a great duet and I felt they had a special thing there. I love Englebert 's singing.

    • @francimuller1715
      @francimuller1715  9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +lora callender Thank you for your nice comment.

  • @loraschultz772
    @loraschultz772 9 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Every time I see this you can see the magic in their eyes

    • @francimuller1715
      @francimuller1715  9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +lora Schultz Hi Iora! Thanks for the comment. Yes I agree. :)

    • @louisecaissie1102
      @louisecaissie1102 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@francimuller1715 So do I.

    • @sarahnewcomb738
      @sarahnewcomb738 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You can see more than magic going on

  • @trishdiacos1172
    @trishdiacos1172 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    another great performance !!...how many hearts has he broken ??

    • @MTknitter22
      @MTknitter22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      A bunch I bet she was melting there onstage

  • @taresajenner4438
    @taresajenner4438 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God give you plenty of love hun! You make the world happy always with sellout concerts ❤ well done my darling ❤️ ♥️

  • @donatellagiorio9997
    @donatellagiorio9997 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    wow fantastico...che grande Emozione..ti Amo Engelbert 💖

  • @brendabest
    @brendabest 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The people who wrote this are awesome !

  • @elsiebutler1248
    @elsiebutler1248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is a beautiful duet I love it so romantic and tender 🌹

  • @Sandra10105
    @Sandra10105 10 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank You Franci Muller. Lovely song!

  • @rosebadame2104
    @rosebadame2104 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I always felt something was going on with them from watching this video. Anyway, he looks so handsome here, it amazes me how many changes he went through with his looks. The late 80’s & 90’s he looked especially handsome ❤️❤️

  • @camilledoddridge9930
    @camilledoddridge9930 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Especially romantic and beautiful duet.. Engelbert Humperdinck, King of Romance. .❤

  • @irenenene4057
    @irenenene4057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank for this song also for me Love is the reason of my Life

    • @joantraylor2411
      @joantraylor2411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful song...takes my breathe away!🤗

  • @Manujones27
    @Manujones27 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Two great voices beautiful song too, lovely duet.. greatings from France.

  • @lostinmyspace4910
    @lostinmyspace4910 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Kristina Nicholls (with a K) was a backup singer for Englebert at the Birmingham Hippodrome

  • @lindasumaden4714
    @lindasumaden4714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Beautiful duets love your voice both

  • @anndurcan9540
    @anndurcan9540 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He is a ladies man..superb singer,and handsome .
    Lovely duet,and song.

  • @ElżbietaWiśniewska-z5l
    @ElżbietaWiśniewska-z5l ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Piękna odsłona piosenki ,śpiewana w duecie. Dziękuję.

  • @valeriemelling5410
    @valeriemelling5410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this. Beautiful duet❤️

  • @francimuller1715
    @francimuller1715  9 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Perfect song and duet. I love. ♥

  • @candyhillreicks4398
    @candyhillreicks4398 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So beautiful 🎶🎵❤️🎶🎵👏👏👏

  • @corneliapopescu52
    @corneliapopescu52 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MAGNIFIQUE vidéo, vue et revue plusieurs fois depuis des années !
    Merci Franci,bisous d'amitié, NELLY, BELGIQUE.

    • @francimuller1715
      @francimuller1715  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Nelly. Yes I agree. Kisses my friend. 🙏🎼🎵🎶🌹❤️😘

  • @manuelafernandez5537
    @manuelafernandez5537 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Precioso dueto y preciosa canción dos voces expectaculares sobre todo la de mi ***ENGELBER***a quien adoro y del que no puedo pasar un día sin escucharlo durante horas, un saludó cariñoso para FRANCI MULLER y gracias por el vídeo desde España 🇪🇸🎸🎶🎼🎹🎤❤️

    • @miriancantieriantunesbolog3039
      @miriancantieriantunesbolog3039 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Puro Don que Deus deu Parabéns para os dois amo suas músicas escuto o dia todo maravilhoso. 😍 😘

  • @jackiecooley5937
    @jackiecooley5937 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Definitely some chemistry there.

    • @MTknitter22
      @MTknitter22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Jackie Cooley EH had that magic onstage with women

    • @jackiecooley5937
      @jackiecooley5937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@MTknitter22 "Magic" indeed! And what "eye candy" he was and is on stage!!!

    • @jackiecooley5937
      @jackiecooley5937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      " For ever and ever and ever and ever he' ll be the one that shines on us till eternity" :)

  • @ehnat0502
    @ehnat0502 11 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wonderful! Thank you E, Franci and YT XOXO

  • @rosendagenetiano8326
    @rosendagenetiano8326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nice duet, & song great entertainer.....

  • @benniewright875
    @benniewright875 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW! What a beautiful song.🌹🌹🌷

  • @ehnat0502
    @ehnat0502 10 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you for posting this beautiful song and video! Love your channel with all the ENGE videos! All of them extraordinary xoxoxo

  • @consuelovallejo5665
    @consuelovallejo5665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Desde mi juventud siguiendo a este gran cantante y aun canta precioso siempre romantico.

    • @ritanorscia1903
      @ritanorscia1903 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sempre intramontabile,,,,,lo adoro 😍

  • @annieham56
    @annieham56 13 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Franci, Another fantastic post Dear Friend. Thankyou. Love Annie. xxx

  • @laurastone6578
    @laurastone6578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like the way he holds their hands together close to his body! ~sigh~

  • @carolkarchmarlytz3510
    @carolkarchmarlytz3510 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I sincerely feel from what I could tell in this duet--that the two of them had a secret special thing going on between them..Saw it in their shining eyes and body language

    • @carolkarchmarlytz3510
      @carolkarchmarlytz3510 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love the song...BEAUTIFUL!!! Engleberts voice is absolutely gorgeous and one of a kind beyond compare and Christina Nichols has a lovely voice here...

    • @zahramokhtar6727
      @zahramokhtar6727 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @carol karchmar
      I have a feeling, he was banging her, back in those days.

    • @SqueakRelief
      @SqueakRelief 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      From Liz - that was my feeling the first time I saw them sing together.

    • @SqueakRelief
      @SqueakRelief 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      From Liz - I totally agree with you. I don't think I've ever seen him 'sparkle' with any other singer.

    • @GabbyGirl73
      @GabbyGirl73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I just saw this video for the first time and that was my first thought ~ They're sleeping together! Engelbert seems to be very into this singer. My second thought was, what must his poor wife think if she saw this video and the two of them together? Very sad, indeed! Does anyone know what year this was and where this concert was?

  • @mariaweingertner8291
    @mariaweingertner8291 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    very sweet performance! I love it Enge

  • @rosendagenetiano8326
    @rosendagenetiano8326 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wow!!!!! nice duet...

  • @garysaraceno30
    @garysaraceno30 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    this is real "Class" and Romance.. gone-today sad but "TRUE.

  • @germainehines9645
    @germainehines9645 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You got me started here.....so many great videos, Franci......yours are so good.

  • @zjngd1
    @zjngd1 10 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Beautiful! Love it!

  • @spanisheyes4092
    @spanisheyes4092 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    hello franci,its been awhile since I left the message.my is is diane,im from Canada.and your very welcome.nice to know that im not alone to love this man,and I had the previlage to see engelbert here in Ottawa may 5,2013,ill never forget it as long as I live.see you around,my friend(s).bless you(s).

  • @kathyjohns7680
    @kathyjohns7680 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great “Blast from the past” - 👏👍

  • @vegascindy
    @vegascindy 9 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Beautiful Franci just love your work.

    • @francimuller1715
      @francimuller1715  9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Cindy Simmons Thanks Cindy. You're very kind. I'm glad you liked.

  • @prayzification
    @prayzification 11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you franci.....I hope you are well! Love this video....Colleen

  • @cristinafuenzalida140
    @cristinafuenzalida140 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Engelbe, linda canción es una interpretación fantástica .Con Christina Nicholls . Maravillosas voces . Me encanta🤗🇪🇦❤️🌹

  • @mariasioos8474
    @mariasioos8474 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Draga Franci mindig boldog vagyok egy szep szerelmes dal hallata minden O.K hello F.M. from Hungary ,

    • @francimuller1715
      @francimuller1715  8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for the comment. One Hello from Brasil also.

  • @MargaretBrown-k4d
    @MargaretBrown-k4d ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So Romantic so sweet beautiful song sweet duet sang by Eng. You the best i love you thanks for sharing ❤❤

    • @francimuller1715
      @francimuller1715  ปีที่แล้ว

      You're welcome. 🙏🎼🎶🎵🌹❤️

  • @patriciachernicki6378
    @patriciachernicki6378 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very sweet, nice song.

  • @ehnat0502
    @ehnat0502 13 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Franci aka maemuller! Your video's are all wonderful! You always do everything beautifully! xoxo Nathalie Ellington

  • @oraflores9739
    @oraflores9739 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Dear Franci..❤️

  • @editzeher5005
    @editzeher5005 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    NICE song duet 😊

  • @karolyneszepvolgyi559
    @karolyneszepvolgyi559 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Csodálatos, nagyon tetszett, köszönettel
    Klára Szépvölgyi

  • @mikeguay4587
    @mikeguay4587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    NEED MORE OF CHRISTINA AND ENGELBERT

    • @sylviakozel877
      @sylviakozel877 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who is the lady? Christina ???

    • @sylviakozel877
      @sylviakozel877 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love the duets he performs; all of which are wonderful!

  • @karolyneszepvolgyi559
    @karolyneszepvolgyi559 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Köszönöm gyönyörű volt.
    Üdvözlettel Klára Szépvölgyi Budapestről.

  • @marialuisa816
    @marialuisa816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    hermoso tema ❤❤👏👏

  • @editzeher5005
    @editzeher5005 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you very Good SONGS 👍

    • @francimuller1715
      @francimuller1715  8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Edit Zeher You're welcome. Thank you. :)

  • @mjesusalonso3211
    @mjesusalonso3211 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    ME HA ENCANTADO ESTA CANCION, HA SIDO MUY BONITA Y SOBRE TODO ESTA CANTADA CON MUCHA COMPLICIDAD. GRACIAS ENGELBERT.

  • @taresajenner4438
    @taresajenner4438 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So beautiful

  • @onassisaengelberta
    @onassisaengelberta 13 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank you maemuller for posting

  • @Mika-zd1ou
    @Mika-zd1ou 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She has a beautiful and powerful voice, great compliment

    • @alenarainova1478
      @alenarainova1478 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you know her name? She is great. Thank you.

    • @zahramokhtar6727
      @zahramokhtar6727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@alenarainova1478 Her name is Kristina Nicholls
      Dec. 1, 2019

    • @alenarainova1478
      @alenarainova1478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zahramokhtar6727 Thank you very much!😀

  • @margueritepaull8643
    @margueritepaull8643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful

  • @mariadimarco2971
    @mariadimarco2971 ปีที่แล้ว

    BIUTIFUL. Deut we LOVE you ❤❤❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷😢🤗💋💋💋HAG AND KISSES FROM TORONTO CANADA 🌹🌹🌹🌹🇨🇦

  • @mariannemamone9643
    @mariannemamone9643 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Will always love Enge and we are certainly loyal fans but we all know his behavior in the earlier years.
    It's so obvious in this video by his body language that there had to be something special between them.
    He can't stop touching her!
    He may have come to his senses when he got older but I always think about the stress he put his wife, Patricia, through for years.
    Can you imagine her wondering who he was sleeping with on any given night!!??
    Sorry, just had to say what we all know.
    Doesn't change the fact I'm still crazy about him!♥️ ♥️♥️

    • @GabbyGirl73
      @GabbyGirl73 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree with everything you said about Enge Marianne, and there's definitely something going on with these two because Enge can't keep his hands off of her! I love his singing and in his younger years he was so very handsome, but he was so brazen with his affairs even admitting in his autobiography he had slept with over 3,000 women! I have no idea why his wife put up with his despicable behavior! You said what I've thought about saying for a while. Enge's excuse of "that was part of growing up" is no excuse for his behavior! His wife and family deserved better than that from him and although I, too, love him, I have absolutely no respect for him as a husband! Even though he may (or may not have stopped having affairs in his older years) there's no excuse for all those affairs whenever they happened. His wife had to know every time he was on the road doing concerts he was sleeping with someone else! Terrible and stressful for sure and really awful in my opinion for any married man with children! God rest her soul, she's a better woman than I am because I couldn't live with a man like that, not even Engelbert Humperdinck!

    • @ПенкаКарачорова
      @ПенкаКарачорова 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Да не съдим хората, за да не бъдем съдени,е казано в светото писание.

  • @ladyquin4922
    @ladyquin4922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh yeaaaaa. That is a connection

  • @irenenene4057
    @irenenene4057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    YES it is a reason good Music

  • @SqueakRelief
    @SqueakRelief 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I noticed in his eyes and his touching what a special relationship they had - from Liz.

  • @sabrinaponnet6182
    @sabrinaponnet6182 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    very nice song is beautiful words

  • @marutamurmane6250
    @marutamurmane6250 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤Ser Engelbert ❤Thank you ❤Wonderfull ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @dodocauchon4460
    @dodocauchon4460 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love 🥰

  • @totallyamazing36
    @totallyamazing36 13 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Franci, Another amazing posting. These are so the best....beautiful, just beautiful!
    What a Special treat....Thank YOu so much again.....I love it.....
    Marilyn xoxoxo

  • @miklosnejonyer5075
    @miklosnejonyer5075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    IMÁDOM!!

  • @Klaudiart
    @Klaudiart 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lovely

  • @garysaraceno30
    @garysaraceno30 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Beautiful times 10

  • @ИринаЧеркасова-д4ц
    @ИринаЧеркасова-д4ц ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Я тоже его очень люблю, и спасибо ему за его творчество.

  • @ГалинаКуликова-у7з
    @ГалинаКуликова-у7з 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Энгельберт ты великий бабник, но все равно ты Супер МАЧО.Люблю тебя.

  • @lolahumphrey6207
    @lolahumphrey6207 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bom demais! Adorei!

    • @francimuller1715
      @francimuller1715  8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Aurea Pacheco Obrigado Aurea. Fico feliz por voce gostar.

  • @ginettebertrand7414
    @ginettebertrand7414 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤love u Engie beautiful song Gigi Montreal

  • @villalospimientos9411
    @villalospimientos9411 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please uploading the lyrics, thanks from Chile.

  • @erikabalazs746
    @erikabalazs746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ⚘👼🕊Frenetikus🕊👼⚘

  • @krystynawojcik6777
    @krystynawojcik6777 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @nelitaconcepcion5910
    @nelitaconcepcion5910 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ilove her voice verymach.

  • @YunaWolf
    @YunaWolf 11 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    HONEY, one word = WONDERFUL !!!!

  • @irenenene4057
    @irenenene4057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    TO ALL MY FAR FRIEND WITH LOVE

    • @irenenene4057
      @irenenene4057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TO ALL MY FAR FRIENDS WE ARE TOGHETER AT ONCE

  • @cecyliakrl5623
    @cecyliakrl5623 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wanda Król piękne przesłanie tak wspaniałej piosenki klasyka dziękuję za piękno w duecie wielkie brawa za piękno Gratulacje dziękuję pozdrawiam z Poland dziękuję pięknie ❤❤❤🕊🍀🕊🌹🌹🌹🏆🌏

  • @yengewkwok8456
    @yengewkwok8456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    我同你選是冇錯、老友弟弟、你靚找番女、你好好珍珍惜她、愛她、ok、是我最開心看到你弟弟這日?·
    ❤❤❤❤😘😘👌❤✌

  • @margueritepaull8643
    @margueritepaull8643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How sweet this is.

    • @Галина-в6й4р
      @Галина-в6й4р ปีที่แล้ว

      Pobre Patricia, soportar todo esto tantos años, cuantas mujeres el ha besado recuerdan el beso que dio a la rubia cuando cantaba sobre sus pans delante del todo el publico?

  • @joannekarcher9645
    @joannekarcher9645 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really don't know how fans could condone this behaviour on stage with this women. It wasn't an act for the song, it was real. Total disrespect for his Patricia. He should've kissed the ground Patricia walked on. N the bragging plus laughter he spoke about all the one nite stands n many women he slept with. Paternity suits, I won't even go there.
    God Bless Patricia, she deserves all good things God has n will Bless are with, especially Eternal life.

    • @annareynolds5713
      @annareynolds5713 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I totally agree. I think Patricia was a wonderful wife to stand by him through all this

    • @zahramokhtar6727
      @zahramokhtar6727 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He gave his heart to only one woman and that was his wife, Patricia, but he gave his body to lots of women. Yes, he always did laugh and smirk about his affairs.

    • @annareynolds5713
      @annareynolds5713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I only pray that he asked God for forgiveness and change his ways because he is an old man now. I will always love him though. Marie from South Africa

    • @louisecaissie1102
      @louisecaissie1102 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eternal life, only if she had JESUS Christ as her personal LORD and Savior.

    • @louisecaissie1102
      @louisecaissie1102 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alludes to his late wife, Patricia.

  • @sarahnewcomb738
    @sarahnewcomb738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There is more than singing going on...

    • @lindasperoni7807
      @lindasperoni7807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wonder if his wife likes this

    • @lindasperoni7807
      @lindasperoni7807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She looks like she just got out of bed comb your hair

  • @SqueakRelief
    @SqueakRelief 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    from Liz - they were involved?

  • @yengewkwok8456
    @yengewkwok8456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    好弟弟最聒話、聒我話冇介紹錯、好靚女是嗎?祝福兩位美好生活、好弟弟好好照顧她、ok?❤❤❤❤😘😘😘👌🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘✌✌✌✌👍❤❤

  • @rosamariamagallanes6064
    @rosamariamagallanes6064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So gorgeous you will really fall in love

  • @elainegomez1117
    @elainegomez1117 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love you

  • @rosalindjackson4232
    @rosalindjackson4232 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dang. Their hot

  • @irenenene4057
    @irenenene4057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A poem

  • @denisestout3193
    @denisestout3193 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Adorable.. except maybe his wife would not of found this to be so cute... Glad this was not on here while his wife could still be hurt by it.... I wonder if these people ever feel guilt or have any regrets!!

    • @barbarabellettiere4136
      @barbarabellettiere4136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This video was on here for nine years.

    • @graca767
      @graca767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@barbarabellettiere4136 OMG and the performance much more than that. Perhaps Enge was in his 50's or 60's.

  • @yengewkwok8456
    @yengewkwok8456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    是誰好、放心了、是真的呀?結婚嗎??❤👌✌

  • @angelinesmeseguer56
    @angelinesmeseguer56 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ella estaba como un flan y no me estraña

  • @georgeafrimkourie8916
    @georgeafrimkourie8916 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Engelbert kommer från himlen

  • @kathleenweppler8067
    @kathleenweppler8067 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who is she ?

  • @cleusagabriel4476
    @cleusagabriel4476 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Por favor yotub tradição música interpretada por Engelbert para o português. GRATA !

  • @garysaraceno30
    @garysaraceno30 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I thought i had "that" in my once-marriage But