How to Safely Date a White Man

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  • @missycocoa875
    @missycocoa875 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I'm a black woman who has dated and married a white man. Best decision ever! I got the most horrible experience with black men...one almost killed me when I ended the relationship 😢

    • @MiscellaneousMeMe
      @MiscellaneousMeMe 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m so sorry to hear about your experience with black men. Sounds like you was in hell and now you found your heaven ❤

    • @ChaparritaMami-hp6hw
      @ChaparritaMami-hp6hw 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I almost went to jail, so yes, BM no thanks

  • @t.f.6297
    @t.f.6297 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    I've dated them and have received the best treatment out of all types of men I ever dated.❤ And I attract them a lot. I still vett every man the same. And when I'm out with them we always get compliments like, "You are such a beautiful couple" ironically never felt or got negativity.

    • @MultiCountrygrl
      @MultiCountrygrl หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sorry but I've always heard if a person has to brag, they usually have nothing to brag about ..All I see in your comments that you are bragging about how all these WM want you, but yet I don't read any commitment from these men.

    • @MinnieMouse-q5g
      @MinnieMouse-q5g หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@MultiCountrygrlSounds like you are envious. Could it be no man wants you at all.

    • @FleurRebelle
      @FleurRebelle 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@MultiCountrygrloh hush up hater

  • @TrulyMademoizelle
    @TrulyMademoizelle หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    My white man calls me his queen every day and thinks I'm beautiful no matter what color or style I do my hair ❤ One month in and he was ready to marry me and have 2 kids and a house! And he came with his own swag and money. Get you one. They don't come to play! 👏🏾

  • @roses4me451
    @roses4me451 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Anwar, I can't thank you enough for this podcast. The only option for a BW is to exercise her options, and date & marry men of other races. They have been taught that a BM is the only man for her. Meanwhile, BM are dating every woman EXCEPT a BW.
    There are over 9 BILLION men in the world, and there is somebody for everybody. Life is too short. Ladies, be with a man who truly loves you, and wants to make you a WIFE, not a "side chick" or "baby mama" living in "Struggleville".

    • @katherinebraxton5068
      @katherinebraxton5068 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Honey and I fully agree with that message.

  • @Thegeekponygirl
    @Thegeekponygirl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Omg i JUST got into a relationship with a redheaded man you are an expert in this fr fr

  • @TransformwithNadia
    @TransformwithNadia หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    When he introduces you to the only black "friends" he has.... 🚩🚩🚩

  • @bedinabebe4521
    @bedinabebe4521 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Your objective tone is refreshing. This would have been so helpful when an Italian man tried to approach Me, but taken aback I kept myself out of bounds later to reflect and feel flattered by his interest, an attractive man of similar age who’d greeted Me with genteel respect. Shyness has cost Me several romantic opportunities.

  • @Pathtopros
    @Pathtopros 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    I was flirting with a white older gentleman at a bar. He was very touchy feely. Which honestly didn’t bother me. He did just enough. But my issue was when I said some things I like to do he would say “Yum!” after each thing I said which made it weird. I couldn’t keep going after that. It was a turn off! Not that he was white but he came off like a dirty, nasty old man that was getting off of what I was saying. 🥴😅

    • @Fearlessly-Kristen
      @Fearlessly-Kristen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      Old men can be too much regardless of the race. So sorry he made you uncomfortable.

    • @ItsQuila280
      @ItsQuila280 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      💀💀💀

    • @SandungaLuna
      @SandungaLuna 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      This made me laugh.. 🤣 I would do the same and not continue.

    • @TrulyMademoizelle
      @TrulyMademoizelle หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some have a fetish, look out for those

    • @sharersale6480
      @sharersale6480 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can't get back from an ick.😅

  • @katherinebraxton5068
    @katherinebraxton5068 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You killed me with "Get Out" the prequel. 😂😂

  • @ndumi-light
    @ndumi-light 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    I agree...Europeans especially Germans they are hot for us. Another awesome episode, Anwar! ❤

    • @HiNinqi
      @HiNinqi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Germans aren't chivalrous and believe strongly in 50/50. How'd you overcome that cultural difference with them?

  • @stephr126
    @stephr126 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I’ve date dated a Hispanic man before and NEVER again. He had a lot of BM mannerisms and treated me badly. He made me not want to date Hispanic men again. I’ve always been curious about WM and I’m very open to dating them and Asian men also have my interest because I’m so over dating BM. And the “Gingers” OMG! ❤

    • @NamasteInYourLane
      @NamasteInYourLane 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I personally don't date Puerto Ricans because they often act like black men and I don't do Dominican men because they're often extremely colorist. I would date a Mexican guy but I feel like they cheat a lot lol and cuban men are also colorists.
      I prefer European and Asian men too.

  • @ddddddno24
    @ddddddno24 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The nerds have great jobs and are intelligent

  • @TiannaEss
    @TiannaEss 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    My former coworker is a gay red head from Ireland. He has quite a few friends who are jamaican women lol so working with him was amazing. We were a team!

  • @QueenZsWorld
    @QueenZsWorld 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    A Bronx Tale is my favourite movie. you're the first other person I've heard reference it ❤
    also, David Bowie was married to the legendary Iman

  • @salsasoul4112
    @salsasoul4112 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Thank you, Anwar! I got emotional with you at the end. Thank you for being here for us. Love from New York City ♥️

  • @breejones8945
    @breejones8945 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Leprechaun lucky gurl ! this was informative and hilarious 🫶🏼

  • @TheGoodLifeStarterPack
    @TheGoodLifeStarterPack 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    You are doing the work of the lord! God bless and thank you.✨✨✨

  • @friedgreentomatoes5054
    @friedgreentomatoes5054 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Thanks for sending out this information it is most definitely is necessary.

  • @VirgosGroove3
    @VirgosGroove3 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I’m excited to listen to this one 😊

  • @cloudlesscliche9508
    @cloudlesscliche9508 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Not ONE LIE has been told in this video ohhhh my godddd❤❤ ❤

  • @providenceartdesign
    @providenceartdesign 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The only white guy ive met so far in my life that i was into was Jewish but married with several little girls. Hopefully Ill meet someone that fits.

  • @themodestgoddess1645
    @themodestgoddess1645 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Aaaaawww, Thank You, Brother Anwar, Boo! 🥰That Last Two Minutes had me AAALLL in my feels! 😌❤️🖤💚🤎

  • @sandradawson8201
    @sandradawson8201 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you. Your kind, uplifting words to us is like warm water.❤

  • @katherinebraxton5068
    @katherinebraxton5068 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🎉So I'm on an interratial dating site on FB and I asked them about the phrase"Ginger." The admin stated it was an offensive phrase. Personally I love Prince Harry pre and post marriage to Megan Markel.❤❤

  • @ddddddno24
    @ddddddno24 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Does he hide you....only taking u out of the city/country? Flag, flag, flags.

  • @215aharris
    @215aharris 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love this message❤

  • @215aharris
    @215aharris 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Love this as a single BW..im looking for a WM❤

  • @kimberlylee5815
    @kimberlylee5815 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I 'm BW sorry I didn't have no luck good dating with WM. They didn't treated me right. Maybe I dated wrong white men

    • @TiannaEss
      @TiannaEss 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Keep trying!

    • @lifeisfunny6486
      @lifeisfunny6486 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Vet the man not the race

  • @allthingsloveone4584
    @allthingsloveone4584 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    What about Latinos? No one really talks about them. Especially the carribean Latinos. Some are white and some are Meztizo

    • @AuthenticLifeful
      @AuthenticLifeful 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      They’re very similar to black African American men

    • @stephr126
      @stephr126 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AuthenticLifefulYes girl. I’ve dated one and NEVER again. Hispanic men turn me off now. I don’t even find them attractive anymore. They treat you just like BM.

    • @stephr126
      @stephr126 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Don’t do it. They’ll treat you just like BM. I will NEVER date them ever again.

  • @providenceartdesign
    @providenceartdesign 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good video friend, cause I feel women are hitting these points ir they are women i cannot relate to, much less take interracial dating advice

  • @TrueLove-e7m
    @TrueLove-e7m 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I have been watching and listening to you for a short time, I live in London UK.
    My personal opinion is that I wouldn't go there, but each to Own, but that's not a problem in London, they always talk to me and have deep conversation but I'm not interested in them, but keep up the good work though 👍🏾
    Even today a White man stopped his car got out and started having a conversation 🤷🏽‍♀️ with me.

    • @ladyfitness67
      @ladyfitness67 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I too live in London, but I find it strange that you felt the need to share your thoughts. “If the shoe doesn’t fit, don’t wear it” 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @TrueLove-e7m
      @TrueLove-e7m 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @ladyfitness67 that's not your business though is it, it's called freedom of speech. I can come say what the hell I like. Mind your Business, KMDFT

    • @blakerobinson5084
      @blakerobinson5084 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I have been living in London for 3 years and English men are extremely passive in comparison to American or European men. They might be polite and friendly but if you are looking for a masculine man I would not suggest a British one. My man is Lithuanias and it’s the best treatment I’ve ever experienced.

    • @TrueLove-e7m
      @TrueLove-e7m 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ladyfitness67 BedWench.

  • @JB4C89
    @JB4C89 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He is soo touchy feely 😢😢 it’s annoying

  • @chandaplatt9404
    @chandaplatt9404 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What about Mexican and Hispanic men

    • @karishajohnson6537
      @karishajohnson6537 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      From my experience, they’re not serious about dating BM. They’re attracted to BW but ultimately they’d date within their own ethnicity or white women.
      This goes for Asian men too.
      There are some good ones for sure, but you will need to discern if they will take you seriously.

    • @cyandlinawebb4582
      @cyandlinawebb4582 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Take my advice with a grain of salt, I'm young and stupid for liking this man anyway. But in my experience, they're pretty horrible. No better than a black dude. TW for SA.
      My ex, a Hispanic Mexican-American man, was a sex pest that saw me as a vessel for pleasure, and prioritized his comfort and family over dates (being seen in public) with me. He avoided Valentines and birthday plans by making excuses on the day of on why he can't come, or he'd text hours apart when making plans. He never told his family about me, and invited me over for Christmas just to hide me away from the world (again, no dates) and SA me. My happiness and pleasure never mattered as long as his needs were being met. In hindsight, he had a huge thing for white women and only dated me because I was around and we've known each other for a long time. They'll never take you seriously unless you're white or one of their own.
      They tend to be big babies/losers, and need mothering. They are attached to their family and use them as a shield from the world and growing up. Everyone else is a source of sex/other things they can't get out of their family. Stay away from them.

  • @themodestgoddess1645
    @themodestgoddess1645 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    16:20 George Lucas

  • @willierivers2070
    @willierivers2070 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    White woman I mean

  • @EveofPyrite
    @EveofPyrite 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I dont want to end up dismembered like Sade. Im not interested in white men at all, but for all you ladies who are be careful and be safe ❤️ also always tell men you know where you will be.

    • @stephr126
      @stephr126 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel you girl. Majority of serial killers are WM. What happened to Sade, Lauren Smith-Fields and other BW that lost their lives to WM will scare us and BM and the media made sure that we stay scared. Those young ladies didn’t use decrement because men of all races have unalive women of all races. But, I will say, research has showed and we see it everyday on the news and on social media that BM unalive BW at a far greater rate, every 4 hours. It’s best to be aware of all men. If your going to only date BM because girl, I was the same way and it left me battered, heart broken, a single mom, and lied to. I’m NOT saying that non-black men are right at all, it’s just that I’m tied of the BS from BM. And yes, I’ve dated both the “good” and “bad” ones, they both are the same and treated me the same. I deserve better. If research shows that non-black men values relationships, family and their community, why not go after that because I also value that. Just make sure that you have standards, boundaries and expectations. Good luck and hope you find your Black man.

    • @HiNinqi
      @HiNinqi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hear you ❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭
      This has been happening to us here ever since they landed on our shores. Its not a new thing that creep did; we can't forget anything like this. She's forever in my heart, that sweetie did not deserve anything like that and I hope all vengeance is reaped.

    • @SandungaLuna
      @SandungaLuna 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      OMG just read about Sade Robinson… that is scary and yep keep safety in mind

    • @karishajohnson6537
      @karishajohnson6537 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Majority of the men who kill Black women are Black men, usually their boyfriends, exes, or husbands.
      But this tends to be the case for all groups, the victim and murderer usually share the same race.
      Be careful, pray, but go outside girl lol

    • @MinnieMouse-q5g
      @MinnieMouse-q5g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your talking like black men don't beat, mame and kill Black Women.