Feeling Lost in Life Was the Best Thing That Happened to Me

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  • @tayyabhamdani5015
    @tayyabhamdani5015 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    honestly u put it in the best way possible "Wandering doesn't mean your lost , it just means your exploring "

  • @drecornel
    @drecornel 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So true. When I was 21, I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life. I was working part-time at the airport and taking classes at a local school after quiting as a carpenter I was just trying to figure things out. Three years later, everything changed: I found the love of my life and got accepted into architecture school in the same summer. Now, at 30, I’ve traveled the world, I’m living with my woman, and I’m working as an architect.
    Life can change so quickly, but you have to go after it. Nothing comes for free-you’ve got to work hard for the things you truly want.

    • @karolzawislak2064
      @karolzawislak2064 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sounds like a route I’m going down 20. Just about to quit as a carpenter and pursue another trade in construction… for 6 months been feeling completely lost and unfulfilled I have decided a change is needed. It’s scary leaving a comfortable position

    • @drecornel
      @drecornel 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ I don’t regret a second quiting as a carpenter. Take with you the experience you have gained and start a new chapter. Had so much fun and freedom in school after i quit. Financially not so much, but money comes and goes.

  • @user-f863
    @user-f863 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    I’m currently at rock bottom.
    I’m 21, in college, broke, and just lost my first love…the girl I thought I’d be with forever. Your videos speak to me and remind me that life doesn’t always go as planned-and that’s okay. Thank you for giving me hope when I needed it most! :)

    • @CollinMeCrazy
      @CollinMeCrazy 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Keep your head up my man, get that degree and opportunities will come to you. Reach the end of the fog and you'll have a clearer view of where you're at

    • @juice4588
      @juice4588 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I'm another 21 year old, not in college even though I wish I was, never had my first love. Trust me man you're describing a spot I'd rather experience.

    • @EuropeanAmericanGenZ_1999
      @EuropeanAmericanGenZ_1999 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Keep trucking. I’m 24 now, but 21 was an awesome time. Drink responsibly and avoid having a blackout moment. Enjoy ur last years of college bro

    • @user-f863
      @user-f863 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@CollinMeCrazy thank you man I appreciate your advice :) I’ll def be keeping my head up

    • @alexvollmar7778
      @alexvollmar7778 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Only way is forward brother keep pushing

  • @raydavis8045
    @raydavis8045 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    I remember 402thunder made the video why new Cod youtubers couldn't make it, but I'm glad to see you're channel succeeding

    • @whylearntech
      @whylearntech  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      we most certainly can make it!!

  • @Morphxeus
    @Morphxeus 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    'Being lost is part of evolving'
    Excellently said.
    I moved to a new city without a job lined up first. Finally decided to live with my girlfriend. With 6x the amount of people as my hometown, it was hard to adjust at first. I also went through thousands of dollars and cut through most of my savings like crazy within a few weeks. Got into a job after a month, but absolutely hated the people there and the work. It was extremely toxic. I quit after 5 months, was unemployed for a while and got back into a way better work environment after 4 months. It was an extremely difficult process and I'm still feeling lost, yet wandering helps alleviate stagnation.
    I used to clean/mop floors and do brutal labor intensive work until my back hurt, my hands were bleeding all while working outside in the Florida heat. I worked many different jobs in various industries and business settings.
    Now I work with engineers and other professionals on fuel system technologies (mainly explosive-proof computer terminals used on refineries and fueling stations.) Some days I'd never thought I'd make it out.
    Taking the huge chance is always worth it. Trusting the process is key.
    Don't ever give up.

  • @benl9776
    @benl9776 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Listening to you feels like listening to a friend that went through similar phases in life like me. Also I loved your videos talking about nostalgia. Consider yourself kind of like a therapist for me because you made me realise that through gaming in my 20s I was always searching for those sweet hits of nostalgia without even realising it.
    Like you said, nostalgia can be great, but permanently looking for it just leads to being stuck in the past.
    It works like a drug for me. If you take it sometimes to feel good/have a good time when you're down it can be great but using it too much just hinders you in moving forward in life and you end up wasting precious time.
    Im really contemplating uninstalling all games from my pc and buying an Xbox series just for MW2 so I can go back in the rare times that I need myself some nostalgia because I feel down.
    Stay safe I'm always looking forward to new videos from you!

    • @whylearntech
      @whylearntech  21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks for supporting me! Gaming can be a healthy outlet and nostalgia isn't always a bad thing

  • @fenderstrat2017
    @fenderstrat2017 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I feel like this came into my life at the right time.
    I’m almost 26…I majored in finance but had a quarter life crisis and decided to become a pilot after college. I was scared of the 9-5 cubicle life and my family owns a small Cessna. I’m working and doing flight school and it feels good to know that I’m not alone in this wandering period. Thanks:)

  • @SleazyReem
    @SleazyReem 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My god I MEAN THIS VIDEO IS PURE GOLD I LOVE YOUR CONTENT this message was much needed much love and blessings everyone ❤

  • @varietygifts
    @varietygifts 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Nice message. I’d like to hear more about your travels. The Caribbean sounds beautiful!

    • @whylearntech
      @whylearntech  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I will explore more in a future video about traveling that I've been working on!

  • @CollinMeCrazy
    @CollinMeCrazy 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    That's a very reassuring way to look at things and I whole heartedly agree. Wandering can lead you to things you never would've found if you were content with where you were to begin with. I also think living in the now is super important, taking in things as they come and not harping so much on the past and future

  • @NotMadara2
    @NotMadara2 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love all the small imperfections in the commentary (like a stutter here and there, your speaking skills are great). Really gives the old school COD commentary feel since a lot of people back then did little editing and left all their speaking mishaps in their videos

  • @nkk8888
    @nkk8888 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Man this hit. Feeling completely stuck in my current situation as if nothing is improving. Good job as swe, net worth higher than ever, good social life. Mainly the same people I grew up with or met in college, not complaining.
    But constantly feeling like I need a huge change. Something difficult, out of my comfort zone. Hard to leave family and friends, that's what has been keeping me here, but maaan.
    Thinking a big move once my lease is up. Throw me into a situation where I don't know anyone, and challenge myself to meet new people while doing my hobbies. Idk, I'll try to comment if that happens. Cheers from Minneapolis btw 🍻

  • @Anonymous-th6mq
    @Anonymous-th6mq 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This deserves far more views

  • @ponker.s3822
    @ponker.s3822 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    this is definitely the most relatable video for me right now because i do feel like im in a sort of limbo waiting for a big discovery or a change that will send me down a totally different path. my current chapter of life just ended and now im not sure what the next chapter is or when it will begin or how long itll be. The only thing holding me up right now is knowing that it will all be worth it and whatever my life's plan is, its going in the right direction.

    • @whylearntech
      @whylearntech  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My advice would be to stop waiting and go make the change happen. You have the power to change your own path! I've been loving the videos, keep up the good work :) it'll all fall into place

    • @ponker.s3822
      @ponker.s3822 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @whylearntech if only I knew what the change is😅 I'm really hoping that my TH-cam does take off but only time can tell and other than that I just don't know what will change or what the big discovery is. Just praying that it'll be a good one. Thanks for the support it really means a lot!!

  • @Xirvortz
    @Xirvortz 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks man, really good vibes 🙌

  • @Kyleforthe3SIKE
    @Kyleforthe3SIKE 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    NEVER attach your purpose to a woman. Christ what a mistake I made this year doing that lmao
    She never really liked me and I knew it, we made it about 7 months before I got dumped. Back in a limbo but have been in the gym all year. We are pressing on but lost once again.

  • @alexvollmar7778
    @alexvollmar7778 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video man you never miss

  • @NcK_146
    @NcK_146 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    No one lives on this planet without hitting a rock bottom point in their life, you are either are the tortoise or the hare.
    You are the tortoise get it early and slog through it and come out the end ahead learning so much to become bullet proof for the rest of your life, or you are the hare, you get privileged early and bolt past the competition to later face darkness and see your competition has become bullet proof and now its your turn.

    • @NcK_146
      @NcK_146 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@DXR4488 Same here

  • @jimjamjerry
    @jimjamjerry 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I feel very lost at 23 haha, I moved to a new town and know nobody here. It is tough when everyone around you has completed college and you’re still getting started

  • @TheDokterKokosnoot
    @TheDokterKokosnoot 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this video :), I really needed it

  • @helioh
    @helioh 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “the clearest clarity comes from the fog” 🗣️

  • @elliefawnx
    @elliefawnx 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this video, I'm in my last year of University and it's kinda dawned on me that I don't know what I'll be doing next and I'm kinda terrified, but this is reassuring :)

  • @AmaryxGamesYT
    @AmaryxGamesYT 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Right now I've been feeling a little lost. Currently in between jobs but I feel things are coming together and it's good to take a risk!

    • @whylearntech
      @whylearntech  21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Risks can lead to great things! good luck and I've been loving your commentary channel, keep up the good work and videos!

    • @AmaryxGamesYT
      @AmaryxGamesYT 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@whylearntechThanks man! That means a lot! You really brought back a nostalgic part of my childhood and it's been a blast! I gladly will!

  • @FreyCloud
    @FreyCloud 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks man, have a good day

  • @pauley9046
    @pauley9046 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    love these vids. wish that ladder stall woulda hit for giggles

  • @Parqo
    @Parqo 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Love this brother!!

  • @Verlassis
    @Verlassis 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This sounded like
    It came from the heart

  • @TheVexuri
    @TheVexuri 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm really feeling a lot of this lately. I started a new job about 3 months ago after leaving one I was content with and I think I'm really regretting it. However, maybe I would've regretted it even more if I stayed at my old one and didn't take this opportunity? Or maybe I just need to give it more time? I'm still pretty young, so maybe I just need to give the 9-5 life more time. There are so many uncertainties about the future where it's so hard to know what is right for me and what is wrong...not only that, but the expectations people have for me, my WORST fear is disappointing others. I really hope I'm not overreacting and people share the same or a similar sentiment...

  • @alexphang3026
    @alexphang3026 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm 35 and incredibly stuck, underperformed, and have no support network and resources. It's probably too late for me to be lost now lol but I get what you're trying to say.

    • @austincadle7685
      @austincadle7685 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s never too late. Focus on what you want in your life. You’re doing better than you think.

  • @mhajile
    @mhajile 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Valuable words bro

  • @MichaelDeLaRosa
    @MichaelDeLaRosa 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have this but I think I’m going to find my purpose soon
    Even though I have a seasonal business that does well. It still isn’t what I want to do and be my identity. but soon I’m taking the step to get my first house , then life really begins .
    Putting the pressure on myself

  • @smrp7108
    @smrp7108 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “What makes me happy and fulfilled”

  • @noelkristensson5755
    @noelkristensson5755 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for the video i love youre Chanel😁
    im batteling with depression and ocd for 4 years now i just want to be the old me again so the old me love to dance so i did that today and it made me happy 😁
    so im doing stuff that I love and if I dident get depression i wudent find my new passion tattos i love tattos so im gonna get some like my favorit flower sunflower🌻 kepp it upp with the videos seading love from sweden ❤

  • @jev9204
    @jev9204 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What xbox are you on and what do you record with? These gameplays look crisp!

  • @daniel-ss1rk
    @daniel-ss1rk 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hey by any chance does anyone know how I can play the original mw2 without modders?

  • @aquaviii
    @aquaviii 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Kamala Harris?? Wtf 😂

  • @redinterceptor8355
    @redinterceptor8355 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you’re lost. Join the military.

  • @lovelyDannyify
    @lovelyDannyify 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I enjoy your videos a lot, but the Kamala Harris remark definitely threw me off. On your black ops 1 video, you noted that 2010 was a time before people made politics their entire personality.

    • @scottlobonojr9451
      @scottlobonojr9451 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      One comment is making his entire personality about politics? Let it go

    • @lovelyDannyify
      @lovelyDannyify 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@scottlobonojr9451 It proves my point. He engaged in the exact type of behavior he condemned.

  • @maxhall7832
    @maxhall7832 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Brother why are you using a snapchat avatar as your profile pic be a little creative

    • @antxcipxtion1744
      @antxcipxtion1744 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ???

    • @maxhall7832
      @maxhall7832 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ what are you confused about gang?