I recently embarked on getting rid of makeup and weave. It took a while but my hair is finally healthy and my skin is clearing up and I’m feeling more comfy in my own skin. My next step is wearing skirts and dresses. I just don’t have the money for a new wardrobe right now but I’m hoping to put together a few things before the end of the year 😌 Update: it’s January of 2024 and I’ve been able to get a few staple pieces of skirts and dresses that I really love So excited glory to God.🥰🥰
I'm so glad that you were able to achieve this. Staples are great building blocks for wardrobes to flourish and expand slowly. Buying off season and classic pieces will help extend it as well. Resale shows are great way to locate affordable sustainable pieces too. the best of luck to you.
You have no idea how much this video means to me. Your approach to this topic is so calm and not judgmental and I really appreciate that. Please make more Christian related videos 🙏🏾maybe about make up and hair and the likes
All your clothes is stunningly elegant. It's so classic and and lots of fashion and color. I really enjoyed the combinations and pieces. Very visually attractive and it showed your figure to a degree, but it did not cross any of the lines you defined as gateways and worked beautifully like I've never seen presented so lovely. It was like looking at a Royal. I have been wearing tank tops this summer and have really felt God pulling me into videos on modesty to redefine my wardrobe. This video really has given me the final desire to up my dress to this standard. THanks so very much for this. I see now how immodest my tank tops are and the elegance is lost.
Wow, that’s great! I am happy to know that this video has been a blessing. I pray the Lord will perfect your desire for modesty within and without. Thank you for watching.
Thank you so much for this video . God is working on me and I’m so glad He led me to this video. I’m a Christian and I’ve struggled with wearing clothes that are on the more revealing side . I recently started changing my style to dress more modest and this helped me so much . Thank you .
Mrs. Charity, you have done such a beautiful job of explaining modesty here, thank you with all my heart. Most of the videos I have seen on TH-cam claiming to be about a Christian modesty are actually about fashion, and about vanity and "Here's how I do what I want to do while advertising how Christian I am". They want to claim a Christian identity, but want to look like the world God has called His children out of. They are like a bad driver trying to see how very close she can drive to the edge of the road without slipping off into the ditch. Your modesty video is actually about true modesty and pleasing God. May His blessings be upon you 💓
I love how you choose your words in this video. It doesn't feel indefinite, or shameful to others who don't, it simply informs those who wish to be modest for the Lord, and no one else.
You explain everything so clearly (i'm french and i didn't find a video like this one in my language ) and i wanted to see a video on christian modesty with advices about what we need to cover and why we have to do that. Thank you so much . all Glory to God.
Bojour! May I ask, as a Christian woman how has it been covering your hair in public? Especially given France's banning hijab? Thank you fri a Christian sister. X
Wow, I thank God for giving you this revelation 🙏❤️ It is so edifying for the Church as this topic is so debatable... You presented it in a crystal clear way ❤️ I also understood I have nothing to wear now in summer 😅😂 Praise the Lord, sister and keep the good work!
You are modest in a very beautiful way. Sometimes I am scared of modesty because people do not look youthfull anymore. But you are modest in a way that inspires to honor God in every single detail !
My goodness, what a lovely video. You brought up points I never even considered before. You literally glow with the Spirit 😊 "beauty coupled with humility."
I was so so convicted about this for a while but i fell away..... but ive been feeling the desire and pull to be modest again in more than one way. Thank you for this my beautiful sister in Christ.
I was so brazen in dress when younger and have repented but I still can improve but the Holy Spirit has changed me so much. It is His aim for me to be woman of virtue!
You are so beautiful! 🤍 this video is the reason I subscribed, you are an example of Christ and I am so proud that you share his message! I am very modest dressing and I believe in the gateways you are talking about but I had a hard time trying to explain it to non-believers. Your video has helped me a lot. God bless you and you will be in my prayers 🙏❤
From one Charity to another, keep up the godly work! You have truly been gifted to teach modesty to women and young girls and I pray for your continued success in leading us back to standard! God Bless❤️
Thank you so much for this video I wish everyone calling themselves women God, had these standards I remember growing up, how the women would wear slips, girdle, pantylines were non existent women actually looked in the mirror and turned completely around in the mirror before they left the house, today modesty has been replaced by sensuality and downright shear and revealing clothing, low cut tops, dresses that cling to their hips and thighs accentuating the size shape of body parts, such clothing actually tells you where they are in their spiritual development, meaning they enjoy the attention while believer's with discernment can see a jezabel spirit, especially if this is they come to church and have been dressing like that for years, as a single man I find it disturbing, that none of the older sisters in the congregation says anything to them, but I don't know some of the women who dress this way are older and know better,and others are new Christians and haven't learned yet while others are quite content showing themselves.. at first when I was just coming back to the lord I thought it was cool, but as you grow in the lord you realize thats the devil, and the old person doesn't want to give up old Habits and ways but when there is godly change your wardrobe is supposed to change too.
I appreciate this information and you taking the time to be concise. Please continue to upload content. We need more of this. As a fellow Bible-believing Christian and RN, I like your channel and what it offers.
Wow nobody actually explained it to me like that and now that I know, I will be sure to use that advice to my advantage the next time I buy clothes and cardigans!
Love your speech!! Of course the content also but you have a beautiful way of expressing your thoughts! Such a dignified woman of the Lord! I’m so glad I found this video!
I am a Muslim and find your video very useful. That's why we Muslim women are told in the Quran to cover. I wear hijab and full long loose clothes. Looks simple yet very elegant and I feel very comfortable and modest in it. It covers our whole body, and makes me feel like a woman.
How you explain everything is very clear and convincing, and as someone who is reading the bible everyday especially where Paul was writing letters to Corinthians, Ephesians etc, i have learnt a lot and it's why i can clearly get your message! I pray God helps me financially to change my wardrobe because almost every outfit i have is wrong😂😂😂
Thank you! Just found your TH-cam! What a blessing for a better understanding of why we dress the way we do as a child of God. Not because we're told to. Will share with our sisters. Continue to allow God to use you.
😃Praise God! You’re very welcome to the channel! Thank you for subscribing. I pray that you are continually edified through this channel. Do share with others. Thank you 🙏🏽 .
Aw! Thank you so much. I subscribed to your channel as well! I found you on the ‘Reel mums’ platform on Instagram and enjoyed your content, thanks for sharing! God bless you and your family. So nice to be connected with you on here❤️.
wow i just stumbled on your channel , we are friends on facebook . You don't know how i admire you and your familly .very beautiful family , I love your family
I often get asked in the summer "Aren't you hot?" But I wear light weight fabrics on my arms so I don't think it makes a huge difference heat wise. I feel like I draw unnecessary attention in the summer though. It is easier to be modest in the other 3 seasons.
This is an excellent video and God bless you for sharing this. It is very helpful sister.( I just realised I had commented before, well this shows how good the teaching is😊)
We should be careful about telling others about these body gateways when they’re not specifically listed in the Bible. I am a modest dressing Christian. I wear dresses only- but I don’t believe that dresses are required from scripture. In my body type, and daily activity, it’s much more modest for me to not be in pants. My church sisters dress modestly, but often are in pants, or short sleeves. They’re just careful to make sure everything fits well that their shirts are long so everything is covered. We have freedom in Christ and that is why we should be careful to say that shoulders down are naked. I truly enjoyed your video!
An d to be honest with with you as a Christian man you speak the truth and and a lot of women need to hear this and ask themselves and not leading godly men to lust and other things
And to be honest I like to be with a godly women that is godly and loves Jesus Christ and loves me for me and pray for that he will send the right women who is godly and modesty
@@otaviousmckenzie9297 God is able to exceed your desires. You need only to trust Him. Ensure that you have a solid relationship with God. Let prayer be the tool that you use to dig out of God’s courts the godly woman that you desire for who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies Proverbs 31:10. God bless you.
It is always inspiring to see Christian women who live their lives according to God’s desire for us to dress modestly. As a Christian man, I feel that God does not want women to freely show off intimate parts of their body to other people in public. A woman’s beautiful body should only be for her husband to enjoy. Another thing to note is that women do not need to be overly obsessed with the need to have extremely beautiful bodies like nice breasts and hips. Those things are not of any concern to a man who desires to marry you because he obviously knows how to appreciate every part of you as being beautifully created by God for his pleasure.
Amen dear sister you have blessed me abundantly with how to dress in holiness am from Kenya I wouldn't mind if you send me the headgear black in colour tell me how much I should pay
Aw! I wish I could send you the head gear. I do not sell the head gear but I know someone who sells similar one. You may follow her on Instagram @msogracious.
Great presentation my dear sister Charity... GOD bless you abundantly for this bold and calming exposition without being judgemental... Many thanks dear... Do you have a video presentation on how to care for our natural hair please?
I recently embarked on getting rid of makeup and weave. It took a while but my hair is finally healthy and my skin is clearing up and I’m feeling more comfy in my own skin. My next step is wearing skirts and dresses. I just don’t have the money for a new wardrobe right now but I’m hoping to put together a few things before the end of the year 😌
Update: it’s January of 2024 and I’ve been able to get a few staple pieces of skirts and dresses that I really love So excited glory to God.🥰🥰
I'm so glad that you were able to achieve this. Staples are great building blocks for wardrobes to flourish and expand slowly. Buying off season and classic pieces will help extend it as well. Resale shows are great way to locate affordable sustainable pieces too. the best of luck to you.
Hi! I know someone when she started wearing skirts she cut her pants into skirts. You can try that to have more outfits 😊
I'm definitely gonna try that 🤔@@ijl8636
Can I follow you on Facebook cause I also want to change my wardrobe. I want some inspiration
Very proud of you
Modesty is Beautiful.
I watched this last year. I feel like God is dealing with me on the subject of modesty so I watched it again. Determined to please God in this area
Amen!
God is talking to me...
Ann me too. =)
You have no idea how much this video means to me. Your approach to this topic is so calm and not judgmental and I really appreciate that. Please make more Christian related videos 🙏🏾maybe about make up and hair and the likes
So glad to read your message. I plan to share my conviction about makeup in the future. Thank you so much for watching the video 🙏🏽.
All your clothes is stunningly elegant. It's so classic and and lots of fashion and color. I really enjoyed the combinations and pieces. Very visually attractive and it showed your figure to a degree, but it did not cross any of the lines you defined as gateways and worked beautifully like I've never seen presented so lovely. It was like looking at a Royal. I have been wearing tank tops this summer and have really felt God pulling me into videos on modesty to redefine my wardrobe. This video really has given me the final desire to up my dress to this standard. THanks so very much for this. I see now how immodest my tank tops are and the elegance is lost.
Wow, that’s great! I am happy to know that this video has been a blessing. I pray the Lord will perfect your desire for modesty within and without. Thank you for watching.
Woe woman...our generation needs u😭🔥♥️👑
Your gentleness is just amazing. I really appreciate how you speak about this topic. Thank you
Thank you so much for this video . God is working on me and I’m so glad He led me to this video. I’m a Christian and I’ve struggled with wearing clothes that are on the more revealing side . I recently started changing my style to dress more modest and this helped me so much . Thank you .
Aw! Praise God! So glad to read this. May the Lord uphold you and solidify your faith and conviction.
Mrs. Charity, you have done such a beautiful job of explaining modesty here, thank you with all my heart. Most of the videos I have seen on TH-cam claiming to be about a Christian modesty are actually about fashion, and about vanity and "Here's how I do what I want to do while advertising how Christian I am". They want to claim a Christian identity, but want to look like the world God has called His children out of. They are like a bad driver trying to see how very close she can drive to the edge of the road without slipping off into the ditch. Your modesty video is actually about true modesty and pleasing God. May His blessings be upon you 💓
Praise God! Amen. Thank you for watching.
I love how you choose your words in this video. It doesn't feel indefinite, or shameful to others who don't, it simply informs those who wish to be modest for the Lord, and no one else.
"The Narrow Gate" channel is an excellent resource to all those who believe or want to begin to walk in holiness.
You explain everything so clearly (i'm french and i didn't find a video like this one in my language ) and i wanted to see a video on christian modesty with advices about what we need to cover and why we have to do that. Thank you so much . all Glory to God.
Praise God! Thank you for watching!
Bojour! May I ask, as a Christian woman how has it been covering your hair in public? Especially given France's banning hijab? Thank you fri a Christian sister. X
Wow, I thank God for giving you this revelation 🙏❤️ It is so edifying for the Church as this topic is so debatable... You presented it in a crystal clear way ❤️ I also understood I have nothing to wear now in summer 😅😂 Praise the Lord, sister and keep the good work!
As a Christian woman I love you for this video. I love your clothes beautiful combinations.
You are modest in a very beautiful way. Sometimes I am scared of modesty because people do not look youthfull anymore. But you are modest in a way that inspires to honor God in every single detail !
My goodness, what a lovely video. You brought up points I never even considered before. You literally glow with the Spirit 😊 "beauty coupled with humility."
Praise God! Thank you for watching 😃🙏.
Great video. Things I needed a reminder about. Thank you. Currently doing a wardrobe upgrade. God bless you.
Thank you, thank you and thank you on repeat!❤
You are an amazing young wom an being used by God. Thank you for your obedience beloved. God Bless you.
Praise God! Amen! Thank you so much for watching 🙏🏽.
Amen
I was so so convicted about this for a while but i fell away..... but ive been feeling the desire and pull to be modest again in more than one way. Thank you for this my beautiful sister in Christ.
I was so brazen in dress when younger and have repented but I still can improve but the Holy Spirit has changed me so much.
It is His aim for me to be woman of virtue!
Thank you for sharing...you articulated that well’
Thank you for this video. I appreciate how you explained proper covering for women of God.
You are so beautiful! 🤍 this video is the reason I subscribed, you are an example of Christ and I am so proud that you share his message! I am very modest dressing and I believe in the gateways you are talking about but I had a hard time trying to explain it to non-believers. Your video has helped me a lot. God bless you and you will be in my prayers 🙏❤
From one Charity to another, keep up the godly work! You have truly been gifted to teach modesty to women and young girls and I pray for your continued success in leading us back to standard!
God Bless❤️
Amen, praise God! Thank you for watching!😊🙏🏽
Thank you so much for this video I wish everyone calling themselves women God, had these standards I remember growing up, how the women would wear slips, girdle, pantylines were non existent women actually looked in the mirror and turned completely around in the mirror before they left the house, today modesty has been replaced by sensuality and downright shear and revealing clothing, low cut tops, dresses that cling to their hips and thighs accentuating the size shape of body parts, such clothing actually tells you where they are in their spiritual development, meaning they enjoy the attention while believer's with discernment can see a jezabel spirit, especially if this is they come to church and have been dressing like that for years, as a single man I find it disturbing, that none of the older sisters in the congregation says anything to them, but I don't know some of the women who dress this way are older and know better,and others are new Christians and haven't learned yet while others are quite content showing themselves.. at first when I was just coming back to the lord
I thought it was cool, but as you grow in the lord you realize thats the devil, and the old person doesn't want to give up old Habits and ways but when there is godly change your wardrobe is supposed to change too.
I appreciate this information and you taking the time to be concise. Please continue to upload content. We need more of this. As a fellow Bible-believing Christian and RN, I like your channel and what it offers.
Maria Fleming oh praise God! Nice to connect with you on here, Maria!😃
@@MrsCharityUmar Yes, praise God. 😊
Ru a Christian my sister
@Carlton Williams, Yes I am. Are you?
@@mariafleming7734 am a sda which church u go to an where are you
Wow nobody actually explained it to me like that and now that I know, I will be sure to use that advice to my advantage the next time I buy clothes and cardigans!
Thank you for sharing this video! Your voice is so soothing and I appreciate the message 😌🤍
Thank you and thank you for watching!😊
You are so beautiful ,I'm inspired, I've made a decision to be more descent and modest
Aw, praise God! The Lord will uphold in your decision in Jesus’ name. Abide in him and keep your gaze on Christ only!
It's very relieving and encouraging that you put this out. I pray for more grace. Well done Ma
Love your speech!! Of course the content also but you have a beautiful way of expressing your thoughts! Such a dignified woman of the Lord! I’m so glad I found this video!
Good information .God bless you.
Thank you Sis for sharing this, our inner holiness should always manifest in our outward appearance. God bless you 🙏
Wonderful. Love your examples in pictures. They were beautiful and elegant. The Lord continue to bless you Charity🙂
B.T praise God! Amen. Thank you for watching 🙏🏽.
Excellent teaching and biblical wisdom! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️✝️❤️✝️
Praise God! You’re very welcome. Thank you for watching 😊🙏🏽.
Thank you so much , this is so helpful . It has been a journey I'm having with modesty
You are so welcome! Thank you for watching!
Well put! You explained everything so perfectly ❤️💕❤️
Praise God for clarity! Thank you for watching 😊.
Good morning dear ♥ thanks for the update;
God bless you.
BigTime Eater you’re very welcome!
Wow, this is deep, one of the best lecture I have heard and seen on true modesty. Very thorough. Thank you sister.
Wow, thank you!
God bless you this video. The analogy of gates are Very simple to understand too. Even for child. Wonderful.
Amen! Thank you for watching 🙏🏽.
Thank you for this video, I will be sharing this with my two grandchildren.
Aw! Thank you so much for watching and for sharing! God bless you!😊
You are blessed your family endorse and embrace this. It's a big river to many to cross...family acceptancewise
Beautiful! 🙌🏽
Amen 👏 🙏 sister I'am also a Christian ✝️ I agree they call me old fashion because the way I dress I also don't wear pants.
Wow beautiful video sister❤
Back to basics. We thank you Lord Jesus for continuously pruning us according to your original plan🙌🏽🙌🏽
Thank you my sister very helpful message.
Thanks for sharing, beautiful
I am a Muslim and find your video very useful. That's why we Muslim women are told in the Quran to cover. I wear hijab and full long loose clothes. Looks simple yet very elegant and I feel very comfortable and modest in it. It covers our whole body, and makes me feel like a woman.
Awesome! Thank you for watching. You’re welcome here 😊.
great teaching, sister God bless you
I just watched this video and I was really blessed, sincerely these are powerful principles, the Lord will uphold you ma
Thanks for sharing..
Amen! Praise God! Glad you have been blessed by the video😊.
Ru a Christian my sister
God bless you sister. We needed this .May the Lord continue to use you for His Glory in Jesus name of Nazareth.
I love this, so insightful 👏 God bless you for sharing ❤
Lwazi Ncube praise God! Amen🙏🏽.
Wow this is beautiful. Thank God for you
This really changed my way of dressing
Glory to God
Praise God!
How you explain everything is very clear and convincing, and as someone who is reading the bible everyday especially where Paul was writing letters to Corinthians, Ephesians etc, i have learnt a lot and it's why i can clearly get your message! I pray God helps me financially to change my wardrobe because almost every outfit i have is wrong😂😂😂
Praise God! The Lord is faithful to provide all that you need to please Him in your attire. Keep trusting Him. Thank you for watching.
This was so well done! Thank you sister for the wise words and kindness.
Thank you! Just found your TH-cam! What a blessing for a better understanding of why we dress the way we do as a child of God. Not because we're told to. Will share with our sisters. Continue to allow God to use you.
I've learnt a lot. God bless you Ma.
ifunanya ukonu glad to know that. Thank you for watching. Amen🙏🏽.
Thank you very much for bringing out the truth I appreciate it
Thank you for speaking biblical truth. I am a new subscriber and look forward to watching more videos.
😃Praise God! You’re very welcome to the channel! Thank you for subscribing. I pray that you are continually edified through this channel. Do share with others. Thank you 🙏🏽 .
Thank you so much I think this video was made for me
I love this video I watch it every time.
May God bless you sis.i really appreciate this video .from Haiti
Praise God! Thank you for watching!
Just subscribed!! Love your channel!! So nice to meet you!
Aw! Thank you so much. I subscribed to your channel as well! I found you on the ‘Reel mums’ platform on Instagram and enjoyed your content, thanks for sharing! God bless you and your family. So nice to be connected with you on here❤️.
Thank you so much. I really needed this video. You are a blessing🙏❤
You’re welcome. Amen, praise God. Thank you for watching 🙏🏽.
Thank you so much for sharing what the Lord has presented to you ❤️☺️May God bless you forever and ever in Jesus name Amen!
Amen and amen! Thank you for watching!😊🙏
Second time watching this. Such a blessing!!
wow i just stumbled on your channel , we are friends on facebook . You don't know how i admire you and your familly .very beautiful family , I love your family
May God bless you and make you to motivate others Christians women and men.
Thank you so much for this vidéo.❤ god bless you.
You are wise ma'am. May God bless you.
Modesty is beautiful. God wants to protect us even by the way we dress. He is good!
THANK YOU for this video!😃💕
You’re very welcome! Thank you for watching 😊🙏.
Amen sister. Truly appreciate your sharing 🙋
Praise God. Your very welcome.
❤❤❤Awesome. God bless. So good to see this.
Love you sis you are very true and bless you 🙏
Awesome video😁❤ I am growing in my Christian walk with God, thank you for your advice and sharing😃 God is good💖
I often get asked in the summer "Aren't you hot?" But I wear light weight fabrics on my arms so I don't think it makes a huge difference heat wise. I feel like I draw unnecessary attention in the summer though. It is easier to be modest in the other 3 seasons.
This is an excellent video and God bless you for sharing this. It is very helpful sister.( I just realised I had commented before, well this shows how good the teaching is😊)
😊🙏
Thank you for this video. It really empowered me.
Praise God!😊 Thank you for watching!🙏🏽
We should be careful about telling others about these body gateways when they’re not specifically listed in the Bible. I am a modest dressing Christian. I wear dresses only- but I don’t believe that dresses are required from scripture. In my body type, and daily activity, it’s much more modest for me to not be in pants. My church sisters dress modestly, but often are in pants, or short sleeves. They’re just careful to make sure everything fits well that their shirts are long so everything is covered.
We have freedom in Christ and that is why we should be careful to say that shoulders down are naked.
I truly enjoyed your video!
Such a great video and much needed. When you meet Jesus things change.
Awesome video! I am still a bit confused how our underarms are nakedness can you explain this to me with the Bible? Thank you!
I like skirts and dresses that come in-between my knee and my ankle cuz that way is long enough when I sit down cuz I have a big backside.
Thank you!
Best modesty video I have seen.😊❤
Love this; thank you
Thank you ❤❤❤
An d to be honest with with you as a Christian man you speak the truth and and a lot of women need to hear this and ask themselves and not leading godly men to lust and other things
Praise God! Thank you for watching. Please share the video to help others. Thank you 🙏🏽.
And to be honest I like to be with a godly women that is godly and loves Jesus Christ and loves me for me and pray for that he will send the right women who is godly and modesty
@@otaviousmckenzie9297 God is able to exceed your desires. You need only to trust Him. Ensure that you have a solid relationship with God. Let prayer be the tool that you use to dig out of God’s courts the godly woman that you desire for who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies Proverbs 31:10. God bless you.
It is always inspiring to see Christian women who live their lives according to God’s desire for us to dress modestly. As a Christian man, I feel that God does not want women to freely show off intimate parts of their body to other people in public. A woman’s beautiful body should only be for her husband to enjoy. Another thing to note is that women do not need to be overly obsessed with the need to have extremely beautiful bodies like nice breasts and hips. Those things are not of any concern to a man who desires to marry you because he obviously knows how to appreciate every part of you as being beautifully created by God for his pleasure.
You are so beautiful My Sis. Keep up the great work!
Thank you so much 😊🙏🏽.
True talk. God bless you dear sister
I love all your hats.
where do you buy them?
Thank you - i get some online and some offline.
I’m still working on it!!
Am blessed with the guidance🙏🏽🙏🏽
Ru a Christian my sister an where are you from
God bless you sister
Amen dear sister you have blessed me abundantly with how to dress in holiness am from Kenya I wouldn't mind if you send me the headgear black in colour tell me how much I should pay
Aw! I wish I could send you the head gear. I do not sell the head gear but I know someone who sells similar one. You may follow her on Instagram @msogracious.
Great presentation my dear sister Charity... GOD bless you abundantly for this bold and calming exposition without being judgemental... Many thanks dear... Do you have a video presentation on how to care for our natural hair please?
Here’s a helpful video: th-cam.com/video/zvYyYBGpxvA/w-d-xo.html
God richly bless you 🙏
You look very beautiful ❤Mme. I just love your dresses