It’s nice that they gave a bit of time for her to say “It’s not a phase. It IS a disorder” because I think a lot of people would see it as just a phase
being unaware a situation exists isn't a mistake. he did acknowledge that he had hurt her feelings with that comment, i think it hurt him learning that he had cause her pain. notice that at the end of the show she said that same thing that he said so many times before.
@@SO-rj3pe it was not his mistake. It is not his fault she’s bald. She did not have to go into the salon bald. She was looking for sympathy. That comment he made he makes to every bride.
AWW.. 8c The look on Randy's face when he realized something he said had hurt a young woman so deeply, was painful. You can see on his face the horror of realization. This man is so genuine and sweet. He just wants everyone to feel beautiful and the star of their wedding no matter what.
Ridiculous and very dramatic. It wasn’t even that bad. She knows he says it to everyone and yet she wants to be offended. Ridiculous. Just someone playing the pitty game.
I know this is all about the bride, but Randy's reaction to realising the damage his words had done.... What a humble, genuine man. Green flags are flying.
Ridiculous. It wasn’t even that bad. She knows he says it to everyone and yet she wants to be offended. Ridiculous. Just someone playing the pitty game.
To unnecessarily hurt people is wrong, like this subject on hand. Sometimes, it is necessary to hurt someone when the lines of right and wrong are crossed.
When he said that it HIT so hard, you could TELL he really meant it, and that he felt hurt himself for accidentally hurting someone even if he didn't realize it at the time.
My momma used to tell me that Beauty comes from within! We were told "Pretty is as pretty does! Act like a lady and you'll feel like a lady!" I miss my mom so much!!❤
It truly hurts my heart that this woman thinks that she is anything less than immaculately beautiful because of one unique aspect of her appearance. She should not be questioning herself, she is absolutely stunning, and has already found that person who sees it.
It's because of how warped our society has become. Anything less than physical perfection is now a criticism against the woman. It's insane, and it must stop, because there is all kinds of "beautiful" in the world.
Not only is she beautiful on the outside, she seems like such a lovely person to chat with. I'd love to sit down and have a cup of coffee with her. She is a rare beauty, both gorgeous inside and out.
as someone who was diagnosed with trichotillomania at age 7, i can vouch for her when she says "it's not a habit, it's an actual disorder." the amount of times i (and no doubt other people) have been told to simply stop and think about my future, it just feels so dehumanizing. she looks absolutely gorgeous in her dress, and it gives me hope that myself and others with trich can get through our difficult times
I was a Kleinfeld bride over 30 years ago, and have seen hundreds of Say Yes episodes. This was my all time favorite! Rachel is extraordinarily beautiful and I know she’ll be an inspiration to many.
The first dress she tried on is my dream dress! It’s called the Bentley dress! Seeing it on somebody who’s not the model makes it ten times more beautiful! The bow in the back, the A-line skirt, the ruffles, the way it flows and bounces! She looks beautiful in it! She looks beautiful in it!
Aw I honestly love how both the dress and the veil they went with actually emphasized her baldness rather than distract from or hide it. She was so anxious about it but now it's really part of what makes her look like HER and how beautiful she is as the bride of her dreams.
The realization of his regularly said phrase bringing someone pain because of a condition she has no control over was tear jerking Also she looked ethereal with the veil to finish off her look!
Are we sure they are really disorders or a cry for help? This day in age now everybody wants to say behaviors are disorders. I really think unless it's something that's been around for decades I think it's just behavior problems. But that's just me but either way this lady sure is beautiful
@@tonyajones1463 Friend of mine had a "disorder" (stress/anxiety) and pulled out her eyelashes and eyebrows, but not her hair. Yes, hers was a cry for help, but back then we just "sucked it up". She moved away from her parents and, what do you know, she stopped doing it. This woman has been diagnosed with Trichotillomania. Not the same thing, but both are "disorders." One was temporary and went away once the stressors were taken out of the picture. And yes, the bride to be is very beautiful!
I have trichotillamania too and it’s such a hard disorder to stop. It’s just so tempting that you do it without thinking most times ☹️ She’s has so much self confidence and would look beautiful in any dress because of it! ✨🙌👏
@@MsDF936medication can sometimes help, but it depends on the person. The issue is, there's no medication to treat TTM specifically, only to treat potential underlying issues (depression, OCD, GAD). There's also Cognitive Behavioural Therapy which can also help to break the habit little by little.
I have trichotillomania, but I break my hair, I don’t pull out. My son did it short term in 4th grade because he was being bullied but it’s been years since he did that.
Agree! I thought Burka when they first put it on. I already had the idea of a band around the forehead with a little classy bling so maybe this veil with that band will give her a pretty look. She is gorgeous and with her attitude she can carry it off very well.
It's going to need a headband or something, or it's going to fall off when her new husband lifts the veil to kiss her. I'd probably go with a nice sparkly blinged-out elastic headband so the veil can be flipped back. I'd love to see how she looks on her wedding day- and the look on her new husband's face when she first appears.
I’ve got the same disorder as her. I managed to keep my hair via a variety of medications and workarounds, but it’s still there. Trich is a mess, and I had such an awful time feeling like myself with it. I’m so happy she was able to feel so happy and live her dream like she always wanted. Congratulations
I have the skin picking version of this, dermatillomania. There's support groups online to help others not feel so alone, I'd highly recommend to anyone suffering from such a disorder.
2:16 She is a beautiful young woman. The pride I heard in her voice saying that she doesn't wear wigs. She is show me the world that a man loves you and not what you look like.
I loved her honesty in regards to how the sentence about the vail hurt her. He reacted properly once he realised how it could be hurtful. And then they still made it work but also were very accommodating about it, that it's fine no matter what she chooses. A bride is a bride, even without white dress or vail ;)
i can't believe they are talking about this on TV!!! i am so grateful this disorder is receiving more publicity and awareness. it is very difficult to control, uncontrollable in some cases, and it is very tough to live with. thank you, say yes to the dress, for showing tricho to the world. and so much gratitude to this woman and her strength to show her true self and i hope she has an amazing wedding!!!
She looks gorgeous!!! WOW!! I love her dress and the veil. So many women buy wedding dresses that become the showcase of their day when the bride herself should be the showcase. Rachel chose a stunning dress where her beauty is showcased.
As a cosplayer who has had to learn a ton of different hair and makeup techniques to achieve specific looks, I got at least 5 different ideas of how to make a veil for you in the span of this video😅 so for people out there in her position, don't be afraid to reach out to a maker commissioner and ask for exactly what you want, i promise you someone out there can make your idea a reality(or close to it 😅) ❤
Her dress is so similar to the one I picked but couldn’t afford. The buttons all the way down the back, simple, and stunning. The only difference was mine was a high collar due to scars on my chest. It worked out in the end, because my mom made my dress for me and included pieces from her wedding dress into it. Now it’s one of my most treasured items. I’m sure the veil and dress will be treasured by this bride. 💜
I would say a simple floral wreath over this veil. The veil itself looks lovely, so that's okay, but I think a touch of flowers with the simple dress would make the look.
I feel soooo bad for her, she's so gorgeous. I loved how Randy's "why?" was so genuine. He really didn't understand why it'd be an issue because he only sees her as a beautiful bride.
She is beautiful. Inside and out. The coping mechanisms we develop as kids may not make sense to others, but they are there to protect us as we try to learn to cope with life and it's struggles. I am sorry it resulted in her losing her hair, which is a sensitive topic for many women, but she is lovely. I wish the best for her in her marriage and life. I hope it is full of joy. 😊
I also battle with Trichotillomania, though it’s mild for me. I find this bride (and all bald women) to be extremely beautiful! Without hair as a distraction, I feel more drawn to her eyes and expression. I have suffered from severe hair loss due to a more severe illness and understand the pain of losing such a treasured part of yourself. Still, when I see a hairless woman, I am generally in awe. Illness isn’t the first thing that comes to mind. She is lovely!
I teared when she was putting on the dress. She looks SO beautiful in that dress. And the solution for the veil being connected to the dress so that it is a smooth transition from on and off!!
She looks STUNNING!! The shape of the dress really highlights the veil and the bride’s bust shot, and she could easily pull this off with some slightly fancier jewelry. This is one of those cases where simple is truly better. ❤
This is very sweet, I’m sitting at my table crying. I could also see some kind of delicate crown or wrapped wreath like Julius Cesar to hold it in place, but with crystals or rind stones.
It’s nice that they gave a bit of time for her to say “It’s not a phase. It IS a disorder” because I think a lot of people would see it as just a phase
I have everyone around me telling me that this is just a phase
The only person who doesn’t is my best friend who also has trichotillomania
I’m glad he acknowledged his mistake about the veil and felt bad and humbled himself.
I was touched seeing Randy's reaction
being unaware a situation exists isn't a mistake. he did acknowledge that he had hurt her feelings with that comment, i think it hurt him learning that he had cause her pain. notice that at the end of the show she said that same thing that he said so many times before.
@@SO-rj3pe
it was not his mistake. It is not his fault she’s bald. She did not have to go into the salon bald. She was looking for sympathy. That comment he made he makes to every bride.
@@samueljaramillo4221 Are you seriously shaming her for being bald?
@@Carl_Is_Tired
Yes, she could do something about it. Like purchasing a wig,instead of blaming someone else for her misfortune.
AWW.. 8c
The look on Randy's face when he realized something he said had hurt a young woman so deeply, was painful. You can see on his face the horror of realization.
This man is so genuine and sweet. He just wants everyone to feel beautiful and the star of their wedding no matter what.
He looked devistated I'm happy he tried his best to fix his mistake not everyone can admit they did wrong and try to fix it
Ridiculous and very dramatic. It wasn’t even that bad. She knows he says it to everyone and yet she wants to be offended. Ridiculous. Just someone playing the pitty game.
He is a class act
I know this is all about the bride, but Randy's reaction to realising the damage his words had done.... What a humble, genuine man. Green flags are flying.
Ridiculous. It wasn’t even that bad. She knows he says it to everyone and yet she wants to be offended. Ridiculous. Just someone playing the pitty game.
His tone made me start crying 😭
1:52 “I mean that’s like the biggest no no you don’t wanna hurt other people” if only everyone could understand that
Totally agree!
I agree. but there are sick humans saying sick things to people which is so WRONG!
To unnecessarily hurt people is wrong, like this subject on hand. Sometimes, it is necessary to hurt someone when the lines of right and wrong are crossed.
When he said that it HIT so hard, you could TELL he really meant it, and that he felt hurt himself for accidentally hurting someone even if he didn't realize it at the time.
With or without hair, that is a beautiful young lady. And here I am crying like a baby.
Are their onions in the air
Me too! 😭
Same here. I noticed her gorgeous face before I noticed no hair.
Me too, and I've never even watched this show!
Why do i always cry like a moomoo. She's so gorgeous.
Veil or no veil, she's SO PRETTY.
Right?! Having no hair suits her! The veil being used as an actual veil was just a bonus, it looked ethereal.
@@CongiaryIKR! She looked like a Greek Statue of a GODDESS!!
My momma used to tell me that Beauty comes from within! We were told "Pretty is as pretty does! Act like a lady and you'll feel like a lady!" I miss my mom so much!!❤
This is a real man, one who makes mistakes and is mature enough and kind enough to own up to it and humble himself to make it right.
My mom always says that.... "Unless you walked in their shoes...."
Don't judge and your mum was right.
U cost
@@lululogical ??????
True ❤❤❤
You are a beautiful girl...❤❤❤
It truly hurts my heart that this woman thinks that she is anything less than immaculately beautiful because of one unique aspect of her appearance. She should not be questioning herself, she is absolutely stunning, and has already found that person who sees it.
It's because of how warped our society has become. Anything less than physical perfection is now a criticism against the woman. It's insane, and it must stop, because there is all kinds of "beautiful" in the world.
Not only is she beautiful on the outside, she seems like such a lovely person to chat with. I'd love to sit down and have a cup of coffee with her. She is a rare beauty, both gorgeous inside and out.
as someone who was diagnosed with trichotillomania at age 7, i can vouch for her when she says "it's not a habit, it's an actual disorder." the amount of times i (and no doubt other people) have been told to simply stop and think about my future, it just feels so dehumanizing. she looks absolutely gorgeous in her dress, and it gives me hope that myself and others with trich can get through our difficult times
I was a Kleinfeld bride over 30 years ago, and have seen hundreds of Say Yes episodes. This was my all time favorite! Rachel is extraordinarily beautiful and I know she’ll be an inspiration to many.
As well as showing the world that a man will want to marry her and not what she looks like
She's a Beautiful Bride ❤
The first dress she tried on is my dream dress! It’s called the Bentley dress! Seeing it on somebody who’s not the model makes it ten times more beautiful! The bow in the back, the A-line skirt, the ruffles, the way it flows and bounces! She looks beautiful in it! She looks beautiful in it!
That dress was so beautiful! It flows so nicely! The top is so elegant! The bow is just perfect!
Yes, that one was my favourite! So beautiful
That dress is absolutely gorgeous on her. She rocks her style, and the clean, elegant, silk look just set off everything else.
Aw I honestly love how both the dress and the veil they went with actually emphasized her baldness rather than distract from or hide it. She was so anxious about it but now it's really part of what makes her look like HER and how beautiful she is as the bride of her dreams.
The realization of his regularly said phrase bringing someone pain because of a condition she has no control over was tear jerking
Also she looked ethereal with the veil to finish off her look!
This hit me hard because My granddaughter also suffered from the same disorder. Luckily with time and help she no longer pulls her hair out.
Are we sure they are really disorders or a cry for help? This day in age now everybody wants to say behaviors are disorders. I really think unless it's something that's been around for decades I think it's just behavior problems. But that's just me but either way this lady sure is beautiful
@@tonyajones1463 rude.
@@tonyajones1463 Friend of mine had a "disorder" (stress/anxiety) and pulled out her eyelashes and eyebrows, but not her hair. Yes, hers was a cry for help, but back then we just "sucked it up". She moved away from her parents and, what do you know, she stopped doing it. This woman has been diagnosed with Trichotillomania. Not the same thing, but both are "disorders." One was temporary and went away once the stressors were taken out of the picture. And yes, the bride to be is very beautiful!
@tonyajones1463 it's been around for a long time but an official diagnostic term wasn't made until recently
I haven't yet seen the whole episode; did the young lady mention whether she ever wears a hairpiece?
With the veil, she looked like an ethereal guardian spirit
I have trichotillamania too and it’s such a hard disorder to stop. It’s just so tempting that you do it without thinking most times ☹️
She’s has so much self confidence and would look beautiful in any dress because of it! ✨🙌👏
Does medication help at all?
@@MsDF936No it doesn’t, for some people it’s something that just happens without them even noticing, their hands just move completely on their own
@@MsDF936medication can sometimes help, but it depends on the person. The issue is, there's no medication to treat TTM specifically, only to treat potential underlying issues (depression, OCD, GAD). There's also Cognitive Behavioural Therapy which can also help to break the habit little by little.
I have trichotillomania, but I break my hair, I don’t pull out.
My son did it short term in 4th grade because he was being bullied but it’s been years since he did that.
I would put the veil like they did, shorter in the front, put on a crown or round band, and flip the front of the veil over the crown or band.
Exactly what I would have done too!😊
Agree! I thought Burka when they first put it on. I already had the idea of a band around the forehead with a little classy bling so maybe this veil with that band will give her a pretty look. She is gorgeous and with her attitude she can carry it off very well.
I was thinking the exact same thing, if she felt comfortable doing so....but she was stunning without a veil as well.
That’s what I was expecting honestly
It's going to need a headband or something, or it's going to fall off when her new husband lifts the veil to kiss her. I'd probably go with a nice sparkly blinged-out elastic headband so the veil can be flipped back. I'd love to see how she looks on her wedding day- and the look on her new husband's face when she first appears.
I’ve got the same disorder as her. I managed to keep my hair via a variety of medications and workarounds, but it’s still there. Trich is a mess, and I had such an awful time feeling like myself with it. I’m so happy she was able to feel so happy and live her dream like she always wanted. Congratulations
Being a man I never watch this show. I have a soft spot for those who are not afraid to be themselves and live their real life. She is extrordinary!
I love how much he genuinely cared, it's so refreshing
She is so gorgeous! She looked amazing in everything.
She is beautiful true butterflies pretty
I have the skin picking version of this, dermatillomania. There's support groups online to help others not feel so alone, I'd highly recommend to anyone suffering from such a disorder.
2:16 She is a beautiful young woman. The pride I heard in her voice saying that she doesn't wear wigs. She is show me the world that a man loves you and not what you look like.
Her disorder may run in the family. A friend, her sisters and her son have the same disorder.
@@tesskansaswith friends it wouldn’t run in the family
This bride proves that women dont need hair to feel or be absolutely beautiful.
She is beautiful both inside and out
I loved her honesty in regards to how the sentence about the vail hurt her. He reacted properly once he realised how it could be hurtful. And then they still made it work but also were very accommodating about it, that it's fine no matter what she chooses. A bride is a bride, even without white dress or vail ;)
i can't believe they are talking about this on TV!!! i am so grateful this disorder is receiving more publicity and awareness. it is very difficult to control, uncontrollable in some cases, and it is very tough to live with. thank you, say yes to the dress, for showing tricho to the world. and so much gratitude to this woman and her strength to show her true self and i hope she has an amazing wedding!!!
I like how they did with the veil
Didn't expect that, but it fits so to her and the dress
She looks gorgeous!!! WOW!! I love her dress and the veil. So many women buy wedding dresses that become the showcase of their day when the bride herself should be the showcase. Rachel chose a stunning dress where her beauty is showcased.
To me She’s beautiful in all of the dresses. Making me cry.
As a cosplayer who has had to learn a ton of different hair and makeup techniques to achieve specific looks, I got at least 5 different ideas of how to make a veil for you in the span of this video😅 so for people out there in her position, don't be afraid to reach out to a maker commissioner and ask for exactly what you want, i promise you someone out there can make your idea a reality(or close to it 😅) ❤
I've always loved this show. But I love this episode. I love the vulnerability, accountability, and overall positive vibes
She is so lovely. She will be a gorgeous bride.
I started doing that around 8 years old and when my mom noticed, I got help. Still struggle with it, this video hits me hard.
why not a headband with veil attached
I was thinking the same thing. A jeweled ribbon headband that can tie in the back
Me too
@@tempestates13headbands can be uncomfortable at least for me.
I think this bride is more comfortable in the clean lines of her scalp. I love what they did. But that would be an option for someone else
Or even a cape, I always say a cape is a great alternative to a veil
She's naturally stunning! She seems like a very sweet young lady. I'm so glad she found a dress and veil to make her happy..
This is by far my favourite episode. It's not superficial and only the girl and her happiness matter here. No dress, no designer. Only her.
Her dress is so similar to the one I picked but couldn’t afford. The buttons all the way down the back, simple, and stunning. The only difference was mine was a high collar due to scars on my chest. It worked out in the end, because my mom made my dress for me and included pieces from her wedding dress into it. Now it’s one of my most treasured items. I’m sure the veil and dress will be treasured by this bride. 💜
She is absolutely gorgeous with or without the veil!!❤😊
I love how the first dress complimented her body and face so well! ☺️
Bless her she's gorgeous in all those dresses
Wonderful. This will leave a beautiful and lasting impression on whomever watches this or attends Rachel's wedding. She truly looked stunning.
I really love that the mom was not being fussy and just follow the flow.
She is BEAUTIFUL! She wears it so well. ❤
Maybe just a floral wreath or nothing at all!! You are going to be a gorgeous bride!!!!! You are a beautiful lady!!!
I would say a simple floral wreath over this veil. The veil itself looks lovely, so that's okay, but I think a touch of flowers with the simple dress would make the look.
She is so beautiful.
She’s absolutely beautiful, veil or no veil. She’s going to be a stunning bride❤❤
I feel soooo bad for her, she's so gorgeous. I loved how Randy's "why?" was so genuine. He really didn't understand why it'd be an issue because he only sees her as a beautiful bride.
That Vail looked so beautiful on her, WOW!
dress 1 is gorgeous; it just flows. And, before I even get to any veil part, that's an easy fix with a veiled headband, hat, or soft crown.
She is beautiful. Inside and out. The coping mechanisms we develop as kids may not make sense to others, but they are there to protect us as we try to learn to cope with life and it's struggles. I am sorry it resulted in her losing her hair, which is a sensitive topic for many women, but she is lovely. I wish the best for her in her marriage and life. I hope it is full of joy. 😊
Not me crying this whole video ❤❤❤ she looks gorgeous
That third dress is so perfect for her , it make her more beautiful
We need many more Randys in this world.
Honestly, this is one of my favorites bride, wedding dress, veil and beyond.
Simply gorgeous!
Beautiful bride, beautiful story.
I’m so happy she was able to get her veil, she looked so stunning in it.
Brought tears to my eyes. Beautiful bride
She is absolutely stunning. Adding that veil was perfection
This woman is so beautiful!
The moment I saw the 3rd dress, even before the lady adjusted it on her, I was stunned
She looked even more beautiful ❤
She looks beautiful in all the dresses
I also battle with Trichotillomania, though it’s mild for me. I find this bride (and all bald women) to be extremely beautiful! Without hair as a distraction, I feel more drawn to her eyes and expression. I have suffered from severe hair loss due to a more severe illness and understand the pain of losing such a treasured part of yourself. Still, when I see a hairless woman, I am generally in awe. Illness isn’t the first thing that comes to mind. She is lovely!
She's so pretty even without hair. She's gorgeous!!
My veil was on a hairband. Made it myself, put flowers on band with veil attacked to it. With the help of a friend
She was a beautiful inside and out.
I teared when she was putting on the dress. She looks SO beautiful in that dress. And the solution for the veil being connected to the dress so that it is a smooth transition from on and off!!
She looks absolutely beautiful with the veil! Stunning bride! 🥹👏🏽
i have trich, and this made me cry 😢❤
I don’t think I’ve ever seen a veil look so beautiful and elegant
She looked stunning in EVERY dress!😮
I also have Trich since I was 8 years old. I feel her.
She is STUNNING!
I’m happy that she embraces her baldness. I think she’s a gorgeous woman with or without hair ❤
She looks STUNNING!! The shape of the dress really highlights the veil and the bride’s bust shot, and she could easily pull this off with some slightly fancier jewelry. This is one of those cases where simple is truly better. ❤
4:07 WOW GORGEOUS
Shes gorgeous in every dress!
That dress was made for her, she looks stunning
He is the sweetest
She’s beautiful
Essence of Australia is so sophisticated and simple. They know how to style women in every shape
She looks stunning. Congratulations Rachel.
I think she’s absolutely beautiful. And I only just started watching the video. She’s so pretty
Beautiful episode. They make dreams come true, Indeed...
She’s stunning
She looks amazing in the dress she picked.
She’s so beautiful.
She is gorgeous. Beautiful.
With the veil she looks like a beautiful goddess. Wonderful. You deserve to be happy girl! ❤
She looks absolutely beautiful in her dress.🥹🥹🥹
She could not be more beautiful with any hair than she is just as she is.
Bald, yes. Beautiful - absolutely
Rachel is beautiful! I'm so happy for her.
she looks almost to beautiful to be real, like a artwork or a dream 😍
Beautiful lady…..beautiful skin….beautiful spirit!
Have watched this many, many times. It is always a marvelous revelation each time
I watched for the first time about a week ago, and I keep coming back 😊
She's a stunner
This is very sweet, I’m sitting at my table crying. I could also see some kind of delicate crown or wrapped wreath like Julius Cesar to hold it in place, but with crystals or rind stones.