Brely Evans Reveals the Pain and Journey of Her Failed Marriage | Dear Future Wifey Podcast

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  • Join us for an emotional and revealing conversation as actress Brely Evans, for the first time ever, opens up about the pain and journey of her failed marriage. In this exclusive episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Brely shares her story of overcoming shame, healing, and finding her true self after divorce.
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  • @Raynell_Monique
    @Raynell_Monique ปีที่แล้ว +552

    My mother watched this episode and asked me to leave a comment on her behalf: " Brely's timing for being on the show was perfect! Many will be blessed by her testimony; it surely blessed me." - Mary

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Tell your mom that I said, "Hello."

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Please stop what your doing and go hug and kiss Mama Mary for me!

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​@Book Brely so sweet!

    • @msroro3127
      @msroro3127 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@iambrelyevans , THANK YOU for your openness, honesty and vulnerability. I will listen to this multiple times. This was a message for me. Also, thank you for representing us curvy women. You are my inspiration for me loving my curves.

    • @wmenofdestiny
      @wmenofdestiny ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@iambrelyevans sis when I said I look forward to’s, I thought I was listening to myself. I was just like you looking forward to what I could get. Even though I was a giver anyway now though I’m also just filled up so much with what I want to give even MORE than what I already did in the past. My situation didn’t make me bitter or scared but Holy Spirit in me said no you’re going to go above and beyond what you’ve ever done. So now I can’t wait for HIM to bring my king because I have a TON to pour into him. My vision will match his as I’ve already been shown so it will be a perfect harmony and we
      going to saturate the Kingdom with what Godly love looks like among other things He has given to us. Thank you for being vulnerable and I love your humor. Kept me laughing. 1:11:27

  • @MzMel-2023
    @MzMel-2023 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    Ex-hubby knew exactly what he was doing regarding his marriage choices and the divorce process. THANK GOD FOR DEVINE INTERVENTION!!!🙌🙇🏽‍♀️🙌

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Im sooo grateful God sees all!

    • @anitracoleman5977
      @anitracoleman5977 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      THAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANK YOU JESUS

    • @Meepsavage
      @Meepsavage ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello I don’t understand your comment?

    • @Meepsavage
      @Meepsavage ปีที่แล้ว

      Mz Mel

    • @stephaniel6867
      @stephaniel6867 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@New Beginnings she's saying the ex husband knew what he was doing throughout the entire process including the divorce proceedings. He purposely didn't disclose the children he had and kept secrets. The only reason the marriage was able to be annulled was because he didn't disclose. He likely wasn't aware of that part affecting his plan. His intentions weren't pure.

  • @famtee
    @famtee ปีที่แล้ว +155

    She's walked through fire and came out not smelling of smoke.
    When we let God be... We come out victorious.
    Our pasts are what shape us, without them there are no testimonies.
    Love her story.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Absolutely GOD will not be mocked! We always WIN

    • @nathifablanchfield8925
      @nathifablanchfield8925 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Praise God! That’s what my thought was!

  • @shamillapennington976
    @shamillapennington976 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I admire and salute Brely truth and strength. I saw myself in her story and her giving nature and kindness. God has the real deal coming for her 🙏🏾

  • @portiaeaster2622
    @portiaeaster2622 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I am a wife!!! “I know there’s a King for me” this show has blessed me.

  • @dawnmouton6910
    @dawnmouton6910 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    My God she is so right. The verbal abuse is worse than the bruises sometimes. A bruise will eventually disappear, The comments stick.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I wish we talked about that more....I guess God is putting me on notice to START the CONVO!

    • @edenise07
      @edenise07 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is why the Bible is the Word of Life when it says life and death is in the power of the tongue and we have to be careful about what we say because of the power of our words.

    • @jvaughn132
      @jvaughn132 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Emotional scared lastvitvseems forever been there done that.

    • @danelladecoteau4841
      @danelladecoteau4841 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So true......been there.....its terrifying. My ex succeeded in transforming me from a strong confident woman to a wimp of a woman. Even after the divorce he wasnt even around me and I would hear his criticisms every time I made a choice. Be it if I was driving, cooking, whatever it was I would hear him berating me. I'm only now slowly healing from that.

    • @Rita-cy3qw
      @Rita-cy3qw ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danelladecoteau4841it’s the Jezebel spirit….it’s truly evil…

  • @shantemoore6265
    @shantemoore6265 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Oh my, what a morning! Laterras, you brought Brely on the show for ME!
    21:08 🔥 What a testimony, so similar to mine...I prayed and fasted, saw the magenta, pink and off white flags but allowed myself and other people explain them away!
    I also thank God for the experience because I am being renewed, restored by the Lord with a purpose for the Lord!

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aweee thank you sooo much for sharing that!!

  • @shajones1490
    @shajones1490 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    She is a natural born Sagittarius. Her story is so relatable. Thank you for being so transparent ❤

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appreciate you watching

    • @shajones1490
      @shajones1490 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sagittarius Sis, I saw my own story through you and realized that I was looking in the mirror ❤️

  • @donnastclair2883
    @donnastclair2883 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    "If you don't value me, I must've shown you that I was invaluable." That right there will preach! What a💡moment for me. This journey called life although difficult at times has made me the person that I am. Thanks for another amazing podcast. #bentnotbroken

  • @HRL.
    @HRL. ปีที่แล้ว +11

    First week of marriage, and the ring isn't on his finger!
    That's a tone of a statement he's telling without words..the excitement of he being married is gone before it started.

  • @breeskilove4817
    @breeskilove4817 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I also got out after one year. The last straw was when my husband refused to show up when I had to bury my Father. I’m not going to spend 20 years trying to convince someone to honor God by honoring his vows and me. Nope Deuces

  • @ladiesofiron
    @ladiesofiron ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I Love how Brely is STILL covering the man she said “yes “ to, it speaks volumes to her character and who she is! KEEP GOING SIS!!!

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +21

      He is Gods son so my brother at the end of the day! God bless him and all his parts where ever he is! I pray he is healed too!

    • @ladiesofiron
      @ladiesofiron ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@iambrelyevans Amen Sis!

    • @shamillapennington976
      @shamillapennington976 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes, I peeped that her integrity to still leave him with some dignity in his indignant behavior towards her speaks volumes, and that is what God is well pleased with.

  • @bunkeepitmovingjoseph
    @bunkeepitmovingjoseph ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Miss B said "I said Yes to someone".🤣😂 I love her spirit and transparency. You live and you learn, especially when your a Giver (like us)...but it takes a looooonnnng time, for the penny to drop🤷🏾‍♀️. I LOVE HER😇

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I love you toooooo! I cant wait to know what a husband is LIKE!

  • @cealy6669
    @cealy6669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are one of the best interviewers on the tube. You are engaged, ask good questions, but also allow your guests to run on.

  • @MzMel-2023
    @MzMel-2023 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Can't say that many of our choices are ordained by GOD, but HE allows free will. The Spirit Realm is past, present, and future with no time. GOD knows all that is, was and will be...so, ALL THINGS WILL WORK TOGETHER FOR OUR GOOD!!!💯❤️📖❤️💯

  • @linnettehill2708
    @linnettehill2708 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Thank you Brely for sharing your story, which is liberating and lends hope. Hang in there, for greater is coming!-

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I sooo believe that ...thank youuu

  • @princizzraven2000
    @princizzraven2000 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I love how she tells her story and can make light of it. It’s clear she’s taken the lessons from her experience and it’s only going to make her new path and future relationships stronger, brighter, and better. Wishing many blessings for Brely!

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I receive that Raven thank you sooo much!

  • @christiesmith5109
    @christiesmith5109 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was my favourite one! I am so emotional because I can relate to this in so many ways!!! 😢😭. I was told so many red flags from my ex and still married the man! 🤦🏽‍♀️ Lord! Lord! Thank God for grace and mercy 🙌🏽🙏🏽. I'm celebate and working on myself. I'm getting ready for my "Dear Future Hubby" 🙌🏽🙏🏽😍❤️. God bless you Brely Evans. Thank you for sharing your story. Love from Freeport and Andros, The Bahamas 🙌🏽🙏🏽😍❤️🇧🇸💯

  • @Tiffanyw2911
    @Tiffanyw2911 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I watched this episode while doing my hair and was just smiling, laughing and filled with joy because of your testimony! You are truly a light that this world needs, Ms. Brely! And your king is coming, sis! God bless you! 🫶🏾💕😌

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Tiffany!! Girlllllll took me 2 years

    • @Tiffanyw2911
      @Tiffanyw2911 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iambrelyevans you’re so welcome!!💕💕

  • @girlmeetskingdom
    @girlmeetskingdom ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Idk why grown people that are supposed to be believers in Christ talk about zodiac signs. I’m sorry, God is Not blessing that witchcraft mess. Nothing about that is biblical. We can quote scriptures, but then quoting zodiac signs. We talk about praying and the Lord said this… but then talking about my zodiac and horoscope said this. Like come on people of God. Do better! Love you Laterras, but I had to leave after that zodiac comment. I’ll be back for the next video❤

    • @Whisperwarrior
      @Whisperwarrior ปีที่แล้ว

      Your comment is not very Christian like!

    • @girlmeetskingdom
      @girlmeetskingdom ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@Whisperwarrior I don’t care about being “Christian like”… whatever that means. I care about being a follower of Christ and not of this world. You should be upset about the things that anger God. That is what’s wrong with this world. We care more about feelings and culture than God.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I apologize for turning you OFF from my testimony ....I will represent the Kingdom not the world. Your comment helps me sharpen WHO I AM! Im fa sho THE MOST HIGH GODS daughter! I pray you got something meaningful for the time you did listen. God gets all the GLORY either way! Be blessed Sis!

    • @Whisperwarrior
      @Whisperwarrior ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iambrelyevans period !!!!!!!!!

    • @girlmeetskingdom
      @girlmeetskingdom ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@iambrelyevans I can respect this.

  • @terimanning6237
    @terimanning6237 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This was such a great episode! I hate she had to experience that type of trauma, but her best is yet to come! I'm in my waiting season as well and this episode was right on time. Your wish and prayer for her will be mine also. I love to give and I've yet to meet anyone that can out love, out give, out support me. But I'm looking forward to it. Thank you Brelyn for being so open and vulnerable, allowing. He may think he won, but truth is he lost more than he realized. I'm so glad that experience didn't make you bitter. Heading over to Amazon to purchase the book. Take care and come back to share your true love story.❤️🙌

    • @glennaantoine6132
      @glennaantoine6132 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God always make a way out of things that is difficult. He's so good

  • @ajwriter5699
    @ajwriter5699 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love to see this healed and empowered version of Brely. She’s hilarious. The old version of her is a classic example of how women want to be married so, so bad that they ignore the magenta/off white flags And rationalize unacceptable behavior in the name of God. In hindsight, I believe a lot of us divorced women can really speak to the importance of working on ourselves and chasing after God’s purpose for our lives, instead of a fairy tale romance delusion. This is another powerful episode. Purchasing the ABCs now!

  • @DeidraAnn
    @DeidraAnn ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Brely is me and I am Brely....lawd have mercy. When she was talking about not being able to receive and giving too much. This is a good episode and I'm not even half way through.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We are going to get that RIGHT this year This MONTH!!! thanks for watching!

    • @DeidraAnn
      @DeidraAnn ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@iambrelyevans Absolutely!! Definitely working on it.

    • @bunkeepitmovingjoseph
      @bunkeepitmovingjoseph ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too🙋🏾‍♀️...but I'm learning...OUR God has given us Discernment for a reason, so I'm riding on that thang.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bunkeepitmovingjoseph Yesss He loves us!!

  • @diamondunicorn2421
    @diamondunicorn2421 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Laterreas. We would if you haven’t already! Interview Tabitha brown and her husband! Loving this video so far ❤

  • @roea7846
    @roea7846 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for sharing this story. It's funny how she thought God told her he was the one, but she also had friends, and the first lady tell her he wasn't the one. God also uses others to let us know if they are or aren't the one. Sometimes, we can want something so much that we want to believe God told us.

  • @fredessawilliams4454
    @fredessawilliams4454 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It was me the whole time!!!! That needs to be your next book sis!! God was showing you that you were living beneath His standard for you!! Excuse me while I run across this house🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️. Thank you for your transparency ❤

  • @NikibaRichards
    @NikibaRichards ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for sharing your story! Honestly you have no idea what I have been through in recent years. Again, thank you, you all have given me the hope and strength to keep on going.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yessssss this the only reason I said yes FOR YOU!!! Please KEEP GOING....you Purpose Partner is already here so get READY!

  • @michellemonts1240
    @michellemonts1240 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is my story, almost to the T. God bless you for sharing!!!❤ I've had 2 others share this with me asking if I've heard her story (my story) God is amazing! Congratulations on your triumphs, Brely!

  • @wandamoore9582
    @wandamoore9582 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I loved this episode with Brely! Just like the live last week, I really enjoyed Brely sharing her life and being her authentic self! This conversation was so refreshing! Thank you Laterras for having Brely on the DFW Podcast! Way To Go!!!🎉🎉

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I was running from him forever....but never be embarrassed by the experience GOD trust you with was my lesson!

    • @MzMel-2023
      @MzMel-2023 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@iambrelyevans ...so true we all have personal testimonials about our journey and how GOD allowed/allows our choices and experiences to be our COME TO JESUS AWAKENING or our RUNNING STRAIGHT TO HELL & D🔥N'T CARE result (yep, you read right😶). 😳🫣🤔🙏📖💃📖🙏

  • @jewelministry7142
    @jewelministry7142 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This is one of the best Future Wifey Podcast. So many Jewels of Wisdom, The Tree without Fruit, The Mangeta Flags. So much. Thank you for your transparency.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I pray it adds light to your journey!

  • @bongiwengwenya6808
    @bongiwengwenya6808 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This is probably my favorite episode 😭 Pink flags be overlooked 💗 I almost broke down when she spoke about being proposed to without a ring 💍 😢

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +15

      God bless you! Please take my experience and LEARN from it! You dont have to go through whaat Ive been through! I love YOU!

  • @karene3493
    @karene3493 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love her and am a fan but clearly that marriage wasn't ordained by God, not when other ppl knew beforehand it was a mistake (first lady, friends, etc.) That said I wish this beautiful woman the best moving forward!!!

  • @loisbanks4030
    @loisbanks4030 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    God gave a warning through the First Lady that the man was not ready.
    God gives His people warnings.
    I enjoyed the interview.

  • @Babycakesj
    @Babycakesj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And this is why it’s important for people to take their time and not rush. There is very scary trend of people bragging on social media about meeting, proposing and marrying in such a short space of time. It reeks of desperation and can draw a person with ill intentions. When you wait, truly take your time and get married for the right reasons, you can see things more clear. I’m glad she learned the lesson and she cab take the lessons, move on and find the RIGHT person.

  • @sweetcoca52
    @sweetcoca52 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was a great episode! Thank you for sharing your story & teaching warning signs with laughter along the way!! I wish her great success on her love journey & career.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TO God be the Glory!! Thank you sooo much!

  • @thisnaturalgirlislocd
    @thisnaturalgirlislocd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I recently subscribed to this channel based on a recommendation of the first interview with Essence Atkins. This platform is Amazing and Necessary! For Ms. Brely Evans... Thank you for sharing and in your experience to display encouragement, faith, gems of knowledge, and support! Wasn’t aware of your book but its on my Amazon list for books to read for November. Continued Blessings and Success Queen!

  • @nikkiwilson9581
    @nikkiwilson9581 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Listen. This was goood. Brely, I love you even more now. Thank you for sharing. As a 49 yr old lady who is widowed and almost 4 yrs later now dating a wonderful man now, I can not tell you how invaluable getting to know yourself and your worth is!!! Ladies, please please stop putting so much value on how a man looks and how tall he is!!!!! You can be missing your blessing and your husband who just happens to be short in stature but big in character and ...... be everything you want emotionally and spiritually and what you didn't know you needed!! TRUST GOD. PERIODT!

  • @crobinson8971
    @crobinson8971 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a wonder episode....and oh how I wish I was in your area to work or volunteer with Kingdom Royale!

  • @AlegnaAjai
    @AlegnaAjai ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I'm 50 and never married and I still felt this message!

    • @stephf4175
      @stephf4175 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      SAME!!! "But God..." Stay Blessed and Faithful...

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤❤

    • @RealLadi228
      @RealLadi228 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @59
      Same Sis...

    • @yolandabacon3662
      @yolandabacon3662 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @ 54. Blessed as ever. I enjoyed singleness too.

  • @patricesledge4564
    @patricesledge4564 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Brely this has blessed ME! My marriage definitely was a teaching moment 🤞🏾‼️🙏🏾

  • @sophia4christ
    @sophia4christ ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This man married her to get access to her wealth. Such wickedness! Smh

  • @erickars2442
    @erickars2442 ปีที่แล้ว

    I asked God to show me something about a current relationship and as always He came through. Thank you God for always coming through and using this platform on my healing and growth journey. I had that "mirror" for 2 years and it's just confirmation because my daughter told me the same thing very early on. Thank you God! The way He works and chooses to show us things is amazing even if it's difficulty that we go through in it. His strength is definitely made perfectly in our weakness.

  • @savagebull9183
    @savagebull9183 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Don't forget Just Wright! "All I hear is Courtside tickets coming my way"

  • @ChandraVanZandt
    @ChandraVanZandt ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG!! This spoke volume! My experience was so similar that I felt like she was actually telling my story. God is good!

  • @carolynfrink5569
    @carolynfrink5569 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I am so encouraged by this story. I went through divorce nine years ago and like Brely, I was private, no posting, and I only spoke to my counselor and support group. Nine years later, I am living in healing, pursuing purpose and looking forward to my husband, wherever he is. I thank God for this show because it reminds me that living God's way is the only way 🙏🏿

  • @LoveJonesFam
    @LoveJonesFam ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The whole interview was amazing! Congratulations on Kingdom Royale!! I love this and thank you for making a safe place for our young black men!! I will donate. ❤

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    People got to stop using mom and dad as an example. Whether your parents were married 25 years or never married doesn't mean your marriage will succeed or fail. You got to do your own work.

    • @Whisperwarrior
      @Whisperwarrior ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love this ❤

    • @Rashaadthegr8
      @Rashaadthegr8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Whisperwarrior ty

    • @octaviakf
      @octaviakf ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed ppl use parents as excuses a lot for a lot of things

    • @mrssamuel1332
      @mrssamuel1332 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree someone else failure or success of anything is not your. You got to do your own work.

  • @Aliateachfirst
    @Aliateachfirst ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This spoke to my spirit. Praise Yah! Thank you SO much for your transparency in testimony, sis! This was food for my soul.

  • @TarasStar
    @TarasStar ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I respect her transparency. This conversation should be included in singles and courting counseling. Plenty of people need this type of shoot-from-the-hip facts. In wanting what we want, we ignore the truth, often. My go-to statement is, "the truth is always on display, full circle.". I've recommended this channel to every single and married person I know.

  • @phoebyoriedi9301
    @phoebyoriedi9301 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I believe that i didn't bump into this podcast by mistake,ive learnt/still learning alot about so much,thank you LATTERAS for this 🙏

  • @winniejean-pierre9605
    @winniejean-pierre9605 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love this woman’s energy and honesty! I can relate to parts of her story!

  • @Courie11e
    @Courie11e ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brely reminds me of myself when it comes to not having kids out of wedlock! I've always thought she was so beautiful with a beautiful spirit.

  • @akilahbatyah6505
    @akilahbatyah6505 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I think something spiritual happens when a woman gives a man her money. And it’s not good. Glad she didn’t do it.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +8

      iT never worked out well for me!! Its a BIG NO NO Im talking more details in my new Dont Date Down Book!

    • @lf3554
      @lf3554 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iambrelyevans How long till the book comes out? Hopefully soon. Bless you.

  • @sheswhoiam
    @sheswhoiam ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Listen, Laterras, you batting a thousand. I needed Brely story. It echos mine but she got out sooner than me. It is encouraging to see what's waiting on the other side.💕💕💕

  • @pamelamalatji244
    @pamelamalatji244 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm not convinced thus far into the interview. I feel like she chose what she thought was good for her. She had a father. Why was it difficult for her to choose right if she was raised well by her daddy?.... I'm not convinced

    • @Sirchingsince
      @Sirchingsince ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She married him for his looks.

  • @cherylmoore4954
    @cherylmoore4954 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was an incredible story. She went through some things with the person she said I do to that would have broken 1:11:13 down most people. Laterras you gave her a space to be vulnerable and safe. Thanks for being transparent and sharing your story Sis. We’re proud of you!! Your King is coming.

  • @MyHeart128
    @MyHeart128 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I’m glad I’ve started watching your podcast in this time of my storm right now🙏🏾 My husband is wanting a divorce and I’ve came across your podcast and watched just about every last one of them and been blessed and healing and learning🙏🏾 Thank you

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @rondas7772
      @rondas7772 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whatever decision you make, please don't beg him to stay with you

    • @tiffythefashionslayer449
      @tiffythefashionslayer449 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@rondas7772 came to read @myheart128 comment and see yours and says wow! I feel like this is what I’m doing and your comment just told me to stop

  • @josannebritto6898
    @josannebritto6898 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brely u story is a blessing to me and others,I got married with out a Ring😑 and wen he left the country to come back which he never came back. He got himself a Ring. My word Lord as yuh live yuh learn. U said a lot of things I would of done myself. Saying No is for me,us,we some men/women real advantageous. Lovely podcast L,blessings to u and your family 👏🏿🥰

  • @chanellsmith3204
    @chanellsmith3204 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm right there with you, daddy's girl ❤. I was dating someone and wasn't convinced and my daddy confirmed some things. I knew and ended the relationship!! Best decision for me (us). Praise God 🤸💃. She is so beautiful and praying for her 💞🥰🙏

  • @menaj2954
    @menaj2954 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Firstly this woman is 50 according to her wiki page. How is this possible not only is she a beauty she is so youthful. One thing that stood out to me is her strong desire to be married correlated to the man she choose. I have learned to quiet that anxiety in myself because it leads to soul ties and heart break. It's hard when you feel ready and its taking forever but I have decided to keep busy stay feminine and wait until God brings him my way. I pray a deserving man finds her and all the beautiful ladies who are waiting. Stay blessed❤❤❤

  • @kayfleming5180
    @kayfleming5180 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When Brely talked about not being proposed to properly with a ring, in a way that showed submissiveness to GOD & to her, I felt that!!! My ex proposed to me with a doggone leaf 🍂 cause I was mad at him. Like a young fool, I said yes. There was never an official proposal. Our marriage was about as flimsy as that leaf 🍂😂🤦🏽‍♀️. There was never a solid foundation. Pay attention to the little things. They truly give you a glimpse into the future. Great interview. I simply love Ms. Brely! ❤

    • @kyrianjoseph1403
      @kyrianjoseph1403 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not a leaf😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kayfleming5180
      @kayfleming5180 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kyrianjoseph1403 a whole leaf from the ground, Sis!! 😂😂 Joker could’ve at least picked a fresh one from a tree. 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

    • @nolabae
      @nolabae ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣 I should not have laughed, but the visual lol. What episode and what show did this happen on??

    • @kayfleming5180
      @kayfleming5180 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nolabae the leaf incident is my own story, unfortunately.🙄

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im so sorry I laughed OUT LOUD when you said LEAF sis nawwwwww

  • @tinarochelle8033
    @tinarochelle8033 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello, my name is Tina from Dallas. I just watched my first Dear Future Wifey podcast and I am definitely going to keep watching. My cousin has been telling me I need to watch but I thought it was going to be one of those shows that leaves me in tears and wishing I had a special someone in my life when I'm currently happy where I am and not dwelling on what I don't have. Not so.. I did cry with you on you podcast about the women whom you Loved who was not ready for you. I sulute you in your transparency and honesty. I too was badly hurt in the past. Abusive now x husband, abusive father to my mom, depression, motherless, abusive to myself attempting to end my life. But God! I'm now a product of what God's grace, mercy, and Love. I'm happier than I ever been in my singleness loving God and myself. I will continue to listen and learn from your willingness to hold open much needed discussion and views from men and women🙏🏾

  • @girlmeetskingdom
    @girlmeetskingdom ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She’s beautiful

  • @happy33yw
    @happy33yw ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m over here taking notes, recalling my own mistakes in my last relationship and cracking the heck up.

  • @JustUdoro
    @JustUdoro ปีที่แล้ว +25

    BRELY!!!! My goodness…how such a familiar face lends such a familiar story and journey. Wow…may God continue to do what God does best for His own. This was such a needed listen…my children were listening as well…very important for my children to hear about healing as they see ours unfold daily. Thank you for yet another healing and healthy dose of a lovingly shared space. 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +3

      OH WOW!! It blesses me that you trusted your children to hear from meeeeee! WOW GOD! Thank you !!!

    • @MsLady-gb3gy
      @MsLady-gb3gy ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@iambrelyevans ❤❤

  • @indiasmith4074
    @indiasmith4074 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was just….. Thank you for sharing! Lord knows I needed this word! A definite confirmation for me!!!

  • @meshawilson7591
    @meshawilson7591 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved this episode. Brely is so cool and her personality is contagious. As always, thanks for sharing these experiences so we can all learn and grow ❤

  • @rrnn6472
    @rrnn6472 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So glad she has been able to work through her pain. Yes to a passport being a requirement!

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว

      Girllllllll Fruit on the TREE IS NOW A requirement !LOL

  • @Tanisha255
    @Tanisha255 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It takes a strong woman of God to be obedient to the call! It’s so hard to willingly give God a YES after you experience heartbreak and especially divorce. This was so good!! Brely, girl you had me crying😂

  • @rwallace0110
    @rwallace0110 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Friend this sounds like my life way too much. Ex husband. Married no ring didn’t go on his knees, verbal abuse, kids not claimed, moved in. Smh. Jesus take the wheel. I had to really do the work. Jesus heeled my brokenness.

  • @justvibinwithtaneshapeace
    @justvibinwithtaneshapeace ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow this episode is so on time.. i went through this but exactly but the abuse mean .... Barely is such an inspiration....God is a restorer..God is faithful

  • @keepthefaithwithtori
    @keepthefaithwithtori ปีที่แล้ว +37

    This is why I love her soooooooooo much.... Her heart is sooooooooooooo pure!!

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I appreciate you Tori!! God Bless YOU!

    • @keepthefaithwithtori
      @keepthefaithwithtori ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iambrelyevans You know I Love You BFF 💖💖💖

  • @candacebrock1514
    @candacebrock1514 ปีที่แล้ว

    Her relationship with he parents sound like mine❤ They're divorced now, but when something is wrong with my sister or I, that takes priority and we're 34 and 36.
    As beautiful, genuine, sweet, and talented that Brely is, I hate she married this pretender. It sounds as if he wanted her to take care of him and not vice versa. She will find her king in God's timing. Wishing you all the best Brely❤

  • @blessbeloved
    @blessbeloved ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Brely is one of those actor's I know by her voice... I could be in a whole nother room. Love her work. This was an amazing interview... She is hilarious. This felt like a conversation with a good friend. Thank you for bringing so many awesome people on your show!

  • @pamelamalatji244
    @pamelamalatji244 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She was mistaken. God didn't tell her anything. Having similar names doesn't give you a sign to marry someone. She was sadly mistaken.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was making it work for what I wanted Sis just a HOT MESS

    • @pamelamalatji244
      @pamelamalatji244 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iambrelyevans Thanks 🙏 for responding to my comment. I think in life we need to take the time to pray for our purpose partners. No matter how handsome they look, take that handsomeness to God and ask if he is the one and wait on God to get the definite answer. His never wrong about what is permanently ours that will give us peace, joy, love, protection, provision, guidance, vision for the relationship leading to marriage. If I could tell you my story of how I manifested my husband you'll get confirmed again that GOD IS WHO HE SAYS HE IS. FAITHFUL AND TRUE. A FATHER WHO PROVIDES AND WILL GIVE YOU YOUR HEARTS DESIRES🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏.

  • @linetterobinson5736
    @linetterobinson5736 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    She’s telling the absolute truth! Hind sight is always 20/20. Believe what you see! They are showing you!

  • @Yourhealth-caretoolbox
    @Yourhealth-caretoolbox ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I truly enjoyed this episode. I also enjoyed talking with you during this interview, because I AM HER!!!!! 😂Jesus!!!
    It was so eye opening for me to hear how we attract who we are. When I broke up with my last guy friend, I remember riding home and saying, “Thank you God for showing me, ME!” And from that point on, I have been on this healing journey. This episode blessed me. Thank you. 😊

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are soooo welcome your comment helps me know I did the right thing by sitting on that yellow sofa! LOL

  • @kela_bee
    @kela_bee ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When kings speak, queens listen!!!

  • @gladysjonah1804
    @gladysjonah1804 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Laterras, thank you so much for this. Brely came at the right time, I'm currently in a valley of decision with a man who's displaying most of these traits Brely is talking about, and I'm thinking to myself "will someone else love me?" "Why don't I just settle with this person, since I'll be 40 soon". But with this episode, I now know better not to settle into a marriage that I won't be happy in. I'm truly blessed by this. Thank you all.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ms. Gladys this episode was FOR YOU!! If I can help save ONE then TO GOD BE THE GLORY! God will send you someone who YOU KNOW IS SENT BY HIM! Please trust GOD to send the RIGHT ONE! Its not worth the pain! This is your sign! I love you!

    • @gladysjonah1804
      @gladysjonah1804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iambrelyevans Thanks so much Sis..I love you too

  • @MzMel-2023
    @MzMel-2023 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Both the man and woman must understand that GOD must be first. The marriage is to be a HELP MEET to each other as you vow to do what it takes to complete each other's purpose in life.
    👑❤️📖❤️👑

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thats the REAL reason to get married! Im glad I know that now!

  • @reginajackson1489
    @reginajackson1489 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIR. MAY GOD BLESSED YOU

  • @quackdracular7610
    @quackdracular7610 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I posted this comment in a short of this interview but it bears repeating.
    Her story convinces me even more that you should run a background check on someone you are considering for marriage. I don't care if you've known them from childhood, introduced by trusted friends and family (as in her case), endorsed by your parents /pastor, etc. People are very good at presenting what they want you see and know. You get caught up in the emotions and don't see the magenta flags (her words, red if you ask me).
    Also the results of a background check can be used as a barometer on the person's accountability when confronted with conflicting information. Do they freely admit or try to minimize or excuse their behavior? Although, never acknowledged children would be a hard stop for me no matter what explanation. Sexual assault /domestic violence of any kind as well.
    I love Brely but her story is a cautionary tale, especially for more mature women who feel compelled by the biological and/or societal clock.
    You got to protect yourself in these times.

  • @prazup49
    @prazup49 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love your testimony. Thanks for being open and honest! Blessings…

  • @JustCoraSharice
    @JustCoraSharice ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Whoa! Im so happy God delivered her out of that marriage.

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Cora!!! God is soooo Good!

    • @JustCoraSharice
      @JustCoraSharice ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Book Brely OMG!!!!!!! Yes He is!!!! I hope to meet you one day, you're such an inspiration. Maybe we'll get booked to be in a major film or Broadway production together, and I will share with you how your testimony of faith and resilience helped me to get through a tough time in my marriage 😉

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JustCoraSharice Well lets say see you soon on set in 2023!

  • @deidreej
    @deidreej ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you surrender your ALL to GOD! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🖤🖤🖤🖤 He will never leave you nor forsake you! Thank you for sharing 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @missj9879
    @missj9879 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel God is going to allow her next marriage to be miraculously magical. I believe that for real!

  • @ReignH2o_kd
    @ReignH2o_kd 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This resonates so much with my own experience,

  • @farahj.3361
    @farahj.3361 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Brely is so honest, strong and funny. Thank you for sharing your story and all your advice.

  • @fredriekamichael8107
    @fredriekamichael8107 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is sooo good thank you Sister for this to God be the glory.
    Thank You God 🙏

  • @theelesliejean
    @theelesliejean ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The fig tree being cursed took me OUT… ladies and gents this is what happens when you are disobedient and DON’T WAIT. Smh. Lord have mercy please.

  • @brendawest2650
    @brendawest2650 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for the experience

  • @jerlynnghee207
    @jerlynnghee207 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I see myself in parts of Brely. I'm a giver and hold myself back because I don't receive. I want to reciprocate. I couldn't stop listening once I started. Awesome talk!

  • @YouGotMeOnSpeaker
    @YouGotMeOnSpeaker ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed this I’m currently going through a trial that I feel like I’m drowning in. I needed this 🙌🏾

  • @AnalystAyi
    @AnalystAyi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This woman maybe your wife Laterras!!!!😅

  • @Bestchoice2008
    @Bestchoice2008 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sometimes we want things so badly we turn magenta flags green. After listening, those flags were not magenta they were BRIGHT RED. This man showed he wasn't a provider, leader, or mature enough to be a husband. These flags were signs from God that this was not the one but be very aware that our desires can deceive us. We think it's God when it's our desires giving us the greenlight. God gives perfect gifts and he has planned a future and a hope for us Jer. 29:11. God would not walk you into an abusive marriage, he WILL redeem you from one though. We walk into fire, he walks is through it without smelling my smoke.

  • @herfamiller139
    @herfamiller139 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This queen keeps it LIT!! Your husband is coming sis, you have declared it & believed it by faith now watch just how everything is going to fall in place. Thanks again Latteras another job well executed. God bless you.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @cheriej211
    @cheriej211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, her story is so similar to mine.

  • @MzMel-2023
    @MzMel-2023 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Kids don't ask to be here and I too went through a miscarriage. I knew then that (although I would have loved that child like the three I birth) the relationship with his or her father was not/would not be good in MANY areas...especially parenthood. I have peace in knowing that I will see my child in heaven. 📖💯📖

    • @iambrelyevans
      @iambrelyevans ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen. God knows our hearts desires! Thanks for watching

  • @AhemItsApril
    @AhemItsApril ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He needed what he thought was that little bit of leverage/ power when he " put you out" of his RENTAL😂. SMH

  • @shamillapennington976
    @shamillapennington976 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your man has to HAVE the vision 🤞🏽