Is Your Attraction to Toxic Love Keeping You from Marriage? | Dear Future Wifey Podcast S5, E508

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  • @ashleykennard74
    @ashleykennard74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    When she talked about crying over a guy she didn’t even like, but she felt rejection from him, that hit home for me. I recently went through a similar experience where I wanted this guy to like me, I wanted him to accept me, but he rejected me and it hurt so much. I even told him what I was feeling ( 🤦🏽‍♀️) but he did not care at all, he didn’t, which worsen the pain even more. Then during that same week, I went to a recovery meeting at my church and someone shared that God saved them from something they didn’t know what it was but he saved them from it and I received that message. If I have been accepted by this guy who didn’t see my true value, I would have experience a spiritual death. I thank God everyday for saving me by using that rejection as my protection.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I believe the rejection sometimes is God's protection.

    • @ashleykennard74
      @ashleykennard74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@DearFutureWifey Please elaborate on this statement. What other reasons could there be?

    • @atlantasfaithsmom
      @atlantasfaithsmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ashleykennard74 I don't know if Mr. LRW plans to respond, but here's my two cents: Have you always accepted every person (friend or romance) who's approached you? Probably not. Some people just aren't our type. Doesn't mean there was something wrong with them, per se. There were just attraction or compatibility issues. They weren't the right person for you. They may have felt YOUR rejection. Not that you didn't value them or see their value as a person. They just weren't for YOU. ❤️

    • @ashleykennard74
      @ashleykennard74 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@atlantasfaithsmom thank you for sharing your viewpoint! I think I tried to accept everybody into my life but I would try to fit them in a box and/or put myself in a box for them (mostly that’s the case to be frank). You’re right about not everyone is for me and I am not for everyone.

    • @jodysanders9435
      @jodysanders9435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen, the same happened to me. I was devastated at first but it was God protecting me, saving me for His best man.

  • @weldedubar937
    @weldedubar937 2 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    The Worship did it for me!!! Dating the Lord is helping me to prepare for my husband. You can’t go wrong with that I swear. What others struggle with in singlehood, I fly through. I told myself if God is my source and has been the best father for me why will I impulsively run into the arms of a man who doesn’t know me and valued me? They can barely provide for me mentally, physically, emotionally or spiritually. I decided to stick with God. Waiting May be hard especially with the urges, but 30 seconds or release is not worth losing a lifetime of peace.

    • @sylvietapos807
      @sylvietapos807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So well said, thank you!

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      The presence of the Lord was in the place

    • @roselanedasilva-miller639
      @roselanedasilva-miller639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I had the same thoughts last week!

    • @lasoniakelley2402
      @lasoniakelley2402 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen to that Sis! ❤️

    • @samuelegembah6975
      @samuelegembah6975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Straight up
      Be anxious for nothing Phil 4:6
      Gxd has the best ready to download let our prayers, worship, supplication speed up the transmission for this area of partnering as Gxd intended. IJN

  • @karenmcgee1869
    @karenmcgee1869 2 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    "I am enough and I deserve more than what I've been settling for!"~Shameka Dwight. All I have to say.

  • @Courie11e
    @Courie11e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    OMG!! I can relate to Shameka Dwight. I can share that "I am no good at love". I try to not be so negative or speak negativity, but it's definitely a journey that I'm documenting. ...I have not given up on Love, but I no longer trust myself when it comes to finding love. It definitely has to find me. I have surrender to God, given up on dating apps, and trusting God that He will unite me to the man He sees fit for me. LORD I NEEEEEED YOUR PRESENCE AS I WAIT!

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks for your transparency

    • @shedagirl1726
      @shedagirl1726 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yessss Sis!!!

    • @Missbusybee2010
      @Missbusybee2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@DearFutureWifey y’all looked particularly nice sitting next to each other…I don’t know sir…you might want to get to know her in a LIT way…

    • @nathaliasimone_
      @nathaliasimone_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      THIS ! THIS ! I need God to make my love story His before it becomes mine !! Thanks for sharing ! I so resonate with this and I’m asking Lord that You teach me to wait on you for ALL THINGS, INCLUDING MY HUSBAND AND ME BECOMING A WIFE (BEFORE MEETING MY MAN PROVERBS 18:22) AND LIVE LIFE IN EXPECTANCY OF THE JOY THAT WILL COME WITH ALL YOUR GREAT BLESSINGS TOWARDS ME AND YOUR PRESENCE , ENJOYING EACH DAY OF LIFE’S JOURNEY IN JESUS’S NAME I PRAY AMEN 😁🤍🙏🏾

    • @patbone8046
      @patbone8046 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Another great one Laterras!! This young woman took me to church, I love love her voice, she sings with so much feelings....God, please bless this young woman in every way possible, grant her & Laterras their individual heart desires....in Jesus name I pray!! Amen! I have never heard of her, so I had to look her up!! Am listening to her right now on TH-cam!! Continue doing a great job young man!! Blessings everyone in the comments!!

  • @nakitanewsome2924
    @nakitanewsome2924 2 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    I value my body for 2 reasons 1st because it honors God & 2nd because I enjoy not giving my body to a man who don’t value theirs. I’m celibate & will wait until marriage the way this world is setup. I know God will send the right man into my life that values waiting til marriage as well. I am healed, have no soul tie connection & Love Myself Fully Today!!

    • @shannongeter6641
      @shannongeter6641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes I am too abstinent. It is so freeing to not have soul ties! I too am waiting on God to find my husband! I won’t settle for anything less anymore. I know my worth IJN.

    • @lyndacesarcosplayer
      @lyndacesarcosplayer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow I never look at this way. A man who doesn't value their own body. That's also important too. They need to take care of themselves before becoming the head of the household.
      I am focusing on being the best version of myself now before being in a relationship to settle down.

  • @ranaebarker1443
    @ranaebarker1443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    I had to stop and pause this at 58:50. I went and searched her name on TH-cam to hear the full song. Because this little bit touched my soul. I watched the "Higher Ground" video and listened to the words.
    I cried.
    I forwarded to my 17 years old (and will again on her 18th bday July 23)
    I shared it in both side of my family group inboxes
    Plus I going to have someone to show me how to purchase it digitally, because I never have bought this way.
    This song is how I feel. My half a century Birthday is the 25th and I want this playing.
    Molestation, adulterous, single mom, cancer survival, obesity, high school graduate, wrong (many) loves, shame of facial birthmark, divorced from a preacher,, etc.... Will not follow me in my next half a century.
    I'm fixing my crown and accepting I deserve that higher ground. Higher than the one I have accepted for almost 50 years.
    🥺🥺🥺🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤🙏🏽

    • @sylvietapos807
      @sylvietapos807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      WOW, Thank you so much for sharing your testimony 🙏🏾

    • @dwillmayne5516
      @dwillmayne5516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Claim it in Jesus name !

    • @ranaebarker1443
      @ranaebarker1443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sylvietapos807 This podcast have helped me to grow and to realize I'm not along. We are all searching and growing . We "I" believed since friends and family weren't talking about it, they weren't going through it, or they would laugh or consider me a liar. Yet, I've accepted that they aren't ready to heal and because I'm healing their response to my truth no longer matter. God bless 🙏

    • @ranaebarker1443
      @ranaebarker1443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@dwillmayne5516 Yesss!!! I'm claiming by faith and walking in it.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Powerful

  • @shakitamoorer2053
    @shakitamoorer2053 2 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    That hit me, "I just want to be enough." I resonate with her beautifully articulated song and statement.

    • @lydiabeard6094
      @lydiabeard6094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am ENOUGH!!!!! THAT IS MY FAVORITE TEE SHIRT!

    • @beloved5079
      @beloved5079 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I used to want to be enough...but now I know I AM enough

  • @GODSFAVORITEDAUGTHER
    @GODSFAVORITEDAUGTHER 2 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    You need to bring Tabatha and her husband on your show they will be a great addition.

    • @TR-hn6qj
      @TR-hn6qj 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      His name is Chance

  • @Indigolily80
    @Indigolily80 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This line right here sums it up," Father drown my fears in Your Perfect Love." I love her dress.

    • @sylvietapos807
      @sylvietapos807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Her dress is beautiful.

    • @tifipaul5686
      @tifipaul5686 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love the dress too!

  • @kimberlymackall
    @kimberlymackall 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I so needed this 🙌🏾🙌🏾 When I questioned God what I missed about my ex, a broken engagement. He told me, You chose him from a broken place.” That word was a gift and pivotal to my healing journey.

    • @sunimills9793
      @sunimills9793 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can definitely relate to this

  • @takiyahchew5743
    @takiyahchew5743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Great chemistry here! The ability to really laugh with one another and hear one another....priceless!!!

    • @melyndayork765
      @melyndayork765 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I didn't want to say anything but, that's what I was thinking.

    • @tonishagill6570
      @tonishagill6570 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree❤

    • @Catherine-yy6pr
      @Catherine-yy6pr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow!! amazing episode. Loved it. The worship was so pure and you two were in such harmony. Beautiful lady.

  • @merrijohnson5033
    @merrijohnson5033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You two make sense. The beauty of the spirits intertwined. The communication, the laughter, the worship…Shameka Whitfield

    • @michellemyra6266
      @michellemyra6266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I came searching through the comments just to see if anyone else saw the chemistry between the two🤣🤣

    • @merrijohnson5033
      @merrijohnson5033 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@michellemyra6266 Yes I saw it, looks like you did as well😁

    • @graceforalways6445
      @graceforalways6445 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ikr! He definitely is in like lol...

  • @Missbusybee2010
    @Missbusybee2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She not playing…she brought a whole soundtrack and a prepared a performance…love it…that’s transparency for sure

  • @cshell75
    @cshell75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This is one of the best episodes. I predict a really high viewing. Ms Dwight is so authentic and transparent. We needed that from a single woman…just being raw and real.

  • @tiffanywilson6420
    @tiffanywilson6420 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    God sure knows how to show up and show out. The worship hit me to my core.
    Tears galore! 🙌🏾

  • @atlantasfaithsmom
    @atlantasfaithsmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Thanks for introducing me to beautiful, authentic Shameka and her anointed voice and music. We were blessed with a mini concert today! I loved it and have become an instant fan! 🙌🏽😍🙏🏽💐

  • @priscillaxsafi
    @priscillaxsafi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “The fear of being seen for real, insecurities, of who i am and what i have to offer! Due to childhood of having to put a face and not be vulnerable, so i’d get rid of you before you see me or leave me” THIS WAS ME!

    • @MzBombshell06
      @MzBombshell06 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg this is a word!!! 👏🏾

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The way she just stays ready and knew all the lyrics to all her songs and just performed it right on call....wow....a true artist AND performer. That is not easy to do. And, I applaud Laterra's for providing her a stage.

  • @HelloMsFe
    @HelloMsFe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    She is a treasure with a beautiful spirit and voice.. I relate to loves disappointments. I actually gave up on the idea of having a healed and faithfilled relationship. Often overlooked but its such a blessing to know im that im enough and worth it! All praise to the Most High God!

  • @terrabrown2188
    @terrabrown2188 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    “I just want to be enough”….This is SO real!! I can relate SO much to this statement…and I just found my favorite new artist! I already went and downloaded all your music!…Love your sound and vibe! Your dope girl! You ARE enough….you just have not met your match yet…but when you do…baby!! I can’t wait to hear that story!

  • @kiareed681
    @kiareed681 2 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I can completely relate to sabotaging relationships for the fear of "being seen". In fact, it reminds me of the song "Nothing has ever felt like this" by Rachelle Ferrell and Will Downing. There is a part in the song that stings with truth:
    "Oh Lord
    What did I do to deserve him
    Heaven knows
    I'm not like You I'm not perfect
    When he sees
    Will he leave
    Or will he stay anyway"
    I recognized a pattern of choosing emotionally unavailable men, because it safeguarded me from "being seen". It took a lot of self-reflection to understand the patterns that I perpetuated in relationships that had hindered me from giving, receiving and experiencing love.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow! So profound. Thank you for your self awareness.

  • @rosip2583
    @rosip2583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    One thing I would like to remind us all is that we (many, not all) must stop idolized marriage & learn how to be God's pure & beautiful bride 1st. Let's get married with Christ 1st ( commit to doing His will & loving Him as He deserves to be loved, with our all!). That's all I had to say... love you fam! Btw I la la la loovvee this podcast especially this 1 that ended with worship. When I tell you that I ended on the bathroom of my floor just weeping like a baby worshipping with ya... ALL glory be to God but this 1 right here was beautiful, receive ALL the glory ABBA, WEEE LOOOVE YOOOU!!!

  • @chosenbyheart1
    @chosenbyheart1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have been binge watching and listening to Dear Future Wifey this week just catching up on episodes I missed. This episode caused me to pause and realize it is not about a spouse. It is about God. God is drawing me closer. This worship at the end was what I needed to just sit and thank God for this time in my singleness. This is my time to serve God with my whole heart. Thank you for this beautiful ministry.

    • @jackiemarieadams7764
      @jackiemarieadams7764 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Chosen...very well said and Yes, it's about our relationship with God FIRST!

    • @beneiseoleinmheart5614
      @beneiseoleinmheart5614 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very beautiful thought from you. 😊. Often times a partner can distract our minds from being on God and putting Him first. Then following our husband under Christ's lead. JMO.

  • @melodybenites1861
    @melodybenites1861 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This episode 🎉with Shameka Dwight is OFF the CHAIN Beautiful!! FREEING!! Soul-Searching!! Self-reflecting!! Permission to be your AUTHENTIC SELF!! Thank you-Thank you- Thank you, LaTerras R Whitfield 🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🎉

  • @shanaoakes2108
    @shanaoakes2108 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m watching this interview for the first time and it is such a comfort to my soul. Over a year old….and every bit of it is relevant to my current state of mind. Thank you for this.

  • @kaywisseh
    @kaywisseh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You better preach Laterras!! The same grace that redeemed you is the same grace that redeemed her. Whewwwwww!!! They ain’t ready!!

  • @journeywithfaith_
    @journeywithfaith_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Watching this episode almost 2 years later, and it just resonated with me. The Worship session ar the end had me in tears. God is so amazing.

  • @michellesmith1521
    @michellesmith1521 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I loved Ms. Shameka when she said, I didn't even like him. I understand how it is to be open and honest and yet feel accepted by someone. I have neen told I am too honest by men because I am open to no secrets but, the truth. I don't have the time to pick and figure out secrets. I have always been this way so, I must wait on the man that GOD has for me for marriage. It's okay because I know what I don't want and have no time for games. So, I wait until it's time. Thank you all I enjoyed it like always!!

  • @nathaliasimone_
    @nathaliasimone_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Why does Shameka sound like me ??? COVID definitely did it for me 👌🏾🙏🏾! It allowed me to sit down with God and really get RAW with my thoughts , my mistakes, and persona, and allow God to teach me everything, especially relationally and spiritually. God showed me who I was, my patterns in dating, and my thought life that led me to pain, confusion, and hurt for myself and others in dating. Now me and God are going through the healing !!

    • @ShamekaDwight
      @ShamekaDwight 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love it!

    • @nathaliasimone_
      @nathaliasimone_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ShamekaDwight Thanks hunn! I just have to remember we are on this journey, and God's got us; God's got us ALL 😁👐🏽🙌🏾🙏🏾 ! God's blessings to you. Higher Ground is so beautiful 😁👐!! Thanks for creating it and allowing the Spirit to lead you to let the world hear the message to you that was healing you 🙌🤍🙏 !!

  • @amaragrace94
    @amaragrace94 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ok Laterras came through with the harmony. She has such a beautiful voice that just cuts through whatever shield you thought you could keep up. There's something about a man opening up and getting emotional that I truly love. You don't have to be this solid rock all the time. Let the spirit touch you and heal you and all listeners through her voice in Jesus name. ❤️

    • @beneiseoleinmheart5614
      @beneiseoleinmheart5614 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That's weird as soon as I was reading your comment while listening to the worship Laterras chimed in at the EXACT same time i was reading it. I said look at how on time Good is🎉🙏 you can't help but sing along her voice is so beautiful her spirit so humble. We serve a MIGHTY MIGHTY GOD. Thanks to both of you fi letting God use you.

  • @dominiqueconner1507
    @dominiqueconner1507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg!!😍😍 Her voice is soothing, and amazing!! She seems so nice,and down to earth! I need her to sing at my wedding whenever my husband come!❤️

    • @beneiseoleinmheart5614
      @beneiseoleinmheart5614 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He's already here bc of your faith❤blessing in the Name of Jesus Christ. AMEN. 👰 🤵

    • @dominiqueconner1507
      @dominiqueconner1507 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You absolutely right! I’m married now!❤️😍

  • @ericawoods2640
    @ericawoods2640 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Very POWERFUL!!! I will wear my 👑 and not comprise my worth because I’am FEARFULLY and WONDERFULLY made in the image of GOD!!! I’m glad that the HOLY SPIRIT lead me to listen and LORD I SURRENDER ALL to you🙌🏾

  • @lyttle1988
    @lyttle1988 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This episode was SUCH a blessing! Oh! Thank you so much. I’ll be honest, I started yesterday and found her transparency a bit overwhelming so took a break and continued the day after. But ooh at the end of it all did I appreciate her transparency oh how I appreciated her transparency at the end of it all. Aren’t we all human at the end of it all and oooh doesn’t he save us from all our filth and inequities. The pain was a part of the healing to serve a purpose. Thank you!

  • @kadianharris2733
    @kadianharris2733 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    🥺😔This was a experience ,it pierced my soul 😢This was my pray/cry this morning “God I’m tired of feeling like I’m not ENOUGH “ and when I heard Sameka said “I am enough” my heart dropped and I started tearing up like I needed to watch this podcast. That worship session was everything …everything, I am grateful for this podcast the level of Transparency,unfiltered word of god and healing in the room 😢ty

  • @danyaethomas6143
    @danyaethomas6143 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I travel back to the video when I feel overwhelmed and need to sit in Gods presence. The worship at the end blesses me!!!

  • @IAmMonicaDenise
    @IAmMonicaDenise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was the most healing ❤️‍🩹 episode for me personally! When Laterras prayed: “We exalt you above our fears, our frustrations, our insecurities, our anxiety, our time table and biological clock …” Those words were balm to a space in my soul that I didn’t know I needed‼️❤️🙌🏾🥲
    God is so intentional! I’d been listening to Shameka’s music just days before this podcast aired. Her gift is beautiful and will bring healing to many across the nations.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God is so intentional.

    • @IAmMonicaDenise
      @IAmMonicaDenise 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@DearFutureWifey Everytime! Thank you for your obedience.

  • @nikamoff5835
    @nikamoff5835 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I started watching this in bed early this morning and then it was time for my walk and talk with God so I got up left to walk and this Beautiful worship started so timely and perfect ♥️🥰🚶🏾‍♀️🙏🏽🎶🎶 God bless you both!!!

  • @sylvietapos807
    @sylvietapos807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This was another excellent episode. There are many things your guest said that resonated with me, thank you so much for having her on. That worship time this morning was something I didn’t even know I needed, thank you Laterras for that moment.
    There is a lot I need to reflect on, and so I will do that throughout the rest of the day, and throughout the week. Thank you both for blessing us today: with your conversation, and with leading worship. Have a wonderful rest of the week!

  • @francenesmith9782
    @francenesmith9782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This worship is so pure…i must sow into kingdom royale! This is more than a podcast…my day is lifted here My God thank you for the oil! This is not that…there are people who long for more of God!!!

  • @winfridahbanda5739
    @winfridahbanda5739 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow! Did I just tear up? I'm not even through to the end...
    She has a lovely voice. I've been blessed. Great episode.

  • @CrystalTDrakes-1
    @CrystalTDrakes-1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Let me tell you! This particular episode made me realize why I'm drawn to your ministry.
    Almost every episode I watched reflects me, my journey with God, my life experiences etc.
    God you're a Good Good father 🥺🥺🥺🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
    Worship is one of my love language. This is holy grounds🙌🏾. Thank you Holy Spirit
    You're anointed Queen❤.

  • @ElonWilson77
    @ElonWilson77 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m speechless on her voice ☺️ I got a feeling her voice is about to help through this season of choosing me. I look forward to your podcast. Thank you 🤎

  • @karenplater6350
    @karenplater6350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I loved the worship, Shameka's voice is angelic.

  • @DajaLatte
    @DajaLatte 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I had to share this with a good friend today. Listen, Shameka is my friend, okay?????? Girl, this interview/talk resonated with me….I used to be a savage!!!! Whew Chile, but healing helped me to prepare myself for my last love…. I could write a book but I’m just gonna compliment you on being you love! You have a good head on your shoulders. You’ll be ready for love WHEN it’s time!!!! Your voice is anointed❤️ Thank you for the worship portion of this episode🙌🏽

  • @moniquedependable3782
    @moniquedependable3782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I also love your subscribers LaTerras, because they are transparent in their healing (me too) and transparent in the help they (we) need. We talk one with another and it’s always (even in correction) done in uplifting love ❤️ and I so appreciate that! Especially from one woman to the other! Hugs 🤗 hugs 🤗 & hugs 🤗 and ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ to you and all of your subscribers and me to!

    • @sylvietapos807
      @sylvietapos807 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So beautifully said, thank you for writing that!

    • @moniquedependable3782
      @moniquedependable3782 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sylvietapos807 YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY WELCOME SIS. I love ❤️ you and God does too. We are healed/healing! Our’s is coming and/or has come but definitely OUR TIME! Just remember to invite me to the wedding

    • @macrolenciamakuwerere7593
      @macrolenciamakuwerere7593 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "We use the one who has brought us together to keep us close through expressing our adoration of him because he is intricately woven into every facet of our lives"
      Talk about relationship goals
      I felt that's

  • @heirtotheking1969
    @heirtotheking1969 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Umm. Umm. I’m actually speechless. I was not good at love and other’s not good at loving me. I have broke men and have been broken by men. I healed and waited a long time for real love and I THINK it has found me. Time will tell. But most importantly is the love of The LORD that has kept me and blessed me. May we all surrender to HIS will. This podcast is such a blessing! ❤️

  • @nicgee1367
    @nicgee1367 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This has blessed me on another level. I always know that Dear Future Wifey Podcast is going to have a moment and then some of what I need to hear. Thank you Lord for the next 100k subscribers that will come in contact with this TH-cam channel and share with others! ❤️🔥

  • @yolandawilliams236
    @yolandawilliams236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    WOW!!!! THIS IS EVERYTHING! I love this. It's also the dress for me!

  • @WordsPictures997
    @WordsPictures997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Laterras, thank you so much for sharing the story about your friend. Thank you for sharing an example of how I can love people well without compromising myself and Faith. I needed that. Thank you for loving your friend well. God bless you!
    And thank you so much for bringing Shameka on. This was such a deep, deep, real an raw interview. I'm still marinating on all of it.

  • @cynnamin05
    @cynnamin05 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This episode spoke directly to me and my current season that I am going through. Thank you so much for this♥️

  • @candycemingleton7870
    @candycemingleton7870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This was such a beautiful conversation. Congratulations on your subscribers!! Her voice is absolutely mesmerizing 💞

  • @behindcloseddoorsministries
    @behindcloseddoorsministries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Congratulations on your 100K + subscriber’s Laterras. God is so good! I loved Shameka’s testimonies and her music is so beautiful and uplifting to my soul.💕The worship music was right on time, I didn’t want it to end. This podcast is something special and unique. Thank you for your prayers. There’s something big in store here, what started out as your healing journey is literally helping us all heal! Blessings to you!💙

  • @chaneytam71
    @chaneytam71 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's the heartfelt worship that is so amazing for me on this episode! The worship was geniune and authentic and God alone was the audience!!!!! My goodness! What anointed vessels you both are!!!! I love how God is using you on this platform to remind us That He must always be chief in our lives above all our desires for mates/spouses! At 51 I have been on this Jesus journey for a long time and abstinent for 26 long years! I've been embarrassed sometimes by that because I had hoped to be married by now and if I am being completely honest there are times I have wondered if it's too late but something said on this episode reminded God is able even now to bring the right mate into my life. I'm truly glad that I am enough and I am loved by Him! I'm grateful also for not having the baggage of soul ties these 26 years that I have abstained!!

    • @kizzyharrison6906
      @kizzyharrison6906 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tammy thank you so much for sharing your story. You are a true example that long-term abstinence is and can be a reality.

  • @lerandabrewer3923
    @lerandabrewer3923 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was a dynamic interview and it was right on time.....just experiencing the ending of something that just broke something in me. After a long period of solitude and healing I opened myself up to someone who's represented pure love at first...then life's issues and fear took center stage and it came to an abrupt halt. My heart is so broken, but I'm determined to complete my healing journey because I'm learning that I'm enough....yall pray for me and him too. He's God's son and he deserves to be healed and whole too.

  • @realestatewithstefaniemars5354
    @realestatewithstefaniemars5354 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This worship is everything I needed this afternoon! Bless her, Lord.

  • @ranaebarker1443
    @ranaebarker1443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This will be my favorite episode. The worship at the end ushered me in and her songs touched me. Her ministry is great and when... it will be WOW, greater.
    God bless and keep her, you both.

  • @5MinuteswithKim
    @5MinuteswithKim 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I LOVED this episode!! The worship took me out!! Thank you for choosing to celebrate this way. God deserves all of the praise!

  • @kendramiller4901
    @kendramiller4901 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow.. Simply amazing. Her voice is everything🙌

  • @mischelldavis7617
    @mischelldavis7617 ปีที่แล้ว

    I surrender all!!! My favorite praise song. Giving all things to God and trusting him is the greatest peace. You elevated us all with this one!!! Amen

  • @leesyja4371
    @leesyja4371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What heavenly sound!!! Pure and raw. I’m in my healing and restoration path and this is soothing. I fully trust God.
    After my experience God had promised to restore me more than I lost. God bless you both.

  • @AndreaSylve
    @AndreaSylve 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Love the transparency of this episode. Girls are taught purity and boys are not. WOW.

  • @mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919
    @mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was a very touching and beautiful video today as always King Laterras!! Job well done!! 💯💯❤❤❤❤

  • @menyonthomas3930
    @menyonthomas3930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wowwwww...my soul was so filled by today's episode. It was great to be heard through her. I also feel like many women are taught to be married to have sex and not burn on hell or to look good enough to be picked by a man but we are not taught to be enough to ourselves so we can be able to love a husband without all of our baggage and shame. I really appreciated this episode especially both of you worshiping God because he is worthy🙌🏽. God bless❤

  • @Starlitebrite1
    @Starlitebrite1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shameka's energy follows through the screen like a little fairy. Your vibration is soulful and beautiful. Thank you for coming on the podcast and re-energising our mind, heart and soul. Thank you Laterras 🙏🏾 ❤

  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The masses need to hear this woman👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ttmonds
    @ttmonds 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Man of God. I love to see you worship. Nothing like seeing a young man pour his heart out to God freely. I love that. It’s what I pray for in a partner. Whoever God blessed me with MUST be a worshipper. It’s so important to me. 🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @denielladickenson1276
    @denielladickenson1276 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This podcast was it for me! The worship session, the word of encouragement that came through about being in the pruning season, THIS spoke to me in my season. God richly bless you both !

  • @mizzmil
    @mizzmil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Latteras for this podcast! There was such a sweet presence of God during the worship portion. Blessings!

  • @arthan06
    @arthan06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This conversation was needed and I got a moment worship I didn’t see coming 🙌🏾❤️

  • @ShantellReigns
    @ShantellReigns 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dear God... this reached me at the perfect time on the perfect day. God doesn't need permission to come and snatch up your soul! This video came on all by itself and when I read the title I almost fell out my chair. After being reconnected from two men of my past today, he allowed me to be able to compare the way each of them saw me. One as a wife and one of them with such a toxic, negative view of me. Yet I have spent 13 years creating space for change healing and growth for the one who doesn't see my value but not for the one who knows me and sees me and prayed with me! The entire time I needed growth and healing for myself. Watching this podcast has truly changed me in the past few months and has helped me recognize, see and hear God so much and so clearly. " Your goodness is running after me..." I literally just told the potential "kingdom spouse" God is the only man that is after my heart atm. I am unworthy yet so grateful for his grace mercy and love. My heart is full. God bless you LW and Shameka for doing the Lords work.❤

  • @meenameena-dd2zy
    @meenameena-dd2zy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I can listen to her sing all day long. Her voice is PHENOMENAL 😲😲😲

  • @mzktomp11
    @mzktomp11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This interview here!!!!! I listened with intent because Ms. Dwight spoke to me and my mindset. Thank you for this podcast, and thank you for having her on! Beautiful transparency, beautiful thoughtfulness it's so appreciated.

  • @rhondaparker2212
    @rhondaparker2212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wonderful Conversation! A Child of God is the most Powerful and Beautiful thing! Never Settle to be Comfortable.

  • @PeaceBeStill-
    @PeaceBeStill- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Wasn't expecting to get blessed with a whole worship service 😇🙏🏾🎶

  • @shalondriaficklin3098
    @shalondriaficklin3098 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Lord for this amazing podcast and this amazing episode. This really blessed me. I am a worshipper and this is my kinda carrin' on! I purchased an acoustic guitar at the beginning of the pandemic and I haven't learned to play it yet. I am a singer-songwriter (I sing to God) and this inspired me to pick up my pen and write some new songs. Thank you Shameka, just for being you, your voice is beautiful and so are you-inside and out. Laterras, thank you for taking us along the journey and for your obedience to God. I am happy to eavesdrop on your healing journey. 💛

  • @LadyKiwanda
    @LadyKiwanda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The worship! I needed this I've been running hiding from my God purpose. Just begin to worshipping realizing I miss communioning with Him. Thank you! This is the season he is preparing for my Husband, but he wants to be my model for a Husband so that I will recognize him when he comes.

  • @mabhayiintokazy5490
    @mabhayiintokazy5490 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She's so pretty and has such a beautiful voice. I should have paused when she started worshipping because I'm now a mess at work. These episodes keep getting better and better each time. Congratulations on 100k bro, now we are on the road to 200k💃💃💃💃💃💃

  • @audreasmithas
    @audreasmithas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is your wife…
    She Reflects you, your character and purpose. Watching you guys laughing and talking with intention, then worshiping together was Beautiful. Not to mention the creative energy and gifts of you’ all’s Artistry. It’s extremely apparent, how wonderful is God, that he would pair such souls!!!
    The Perfect Love. Corporate worship is Beautiful. God Bless❤️❤️

    • @stacijones6108
      @stacijones6108 ปีที่แล้ว

      Breeny is❤ I hope😬

    • @beneiseoleinmheart5614
      @beneiseoleinmheart5614 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No one knows his wife but God. Gods path and purpose is perfect. In time all things will work together for the glory of GOD& GOD only. The seraphims sing HOLY HOLY HOLY day and night. It is their job. 😊Blessing to all in the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

    • @liz10475
      @liz10475 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I felt the chemistry between them ❤️

  • @ElouisePashion
    @ElouisePashion 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This episode was wonderful! Every episode is so powerful! I love what God is doing with this channel! That encouraging message that you gave when she was playing was needed! Only God knows how much I needed to hear it. Also her singing makes me want to cry lol! I wasn't expecting this! It's too early in the morning 😭😂. Her voice is soooo beautiful and anointed! I'm so glad I watched this episode I was blessed by the whole thing!

  • @WendiWoods
    @WendiWoods ปีที่แล้ว

    I have been catching up on previous aired episodes. I SUBSCRIBED and began watching several months ago. I listen/watch as a make my way through my 45 minutes commute to work. I have so enjoyed so many episodes. However, there was something about this one that hit me so hard. This one spoke volumes to me of where I am on my journey and the path my journey has taken me. My spirit resonated with Shemeka and the musical and worship excerpts were just the icing on top. Thank you so much for your obedience to God in sharing and allowing us to walk this journey out with you, Mr. Whitfield.

  • @marlenapetty7561
    @marlenapetty7561 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Although I gain so much from this week's experience, the worship music towards the end was EVERYTHING!! Wow! Another blessing in the books. Holy spirit reminded me the ultimate blessings and gifts are (discovered)birthed from pain. Thank you lord,thank you 2! Godblessings Always ❣️ So grateful

  • @charismafranklin5175
    @charismafranklin5175 ปีที่แล้ว

    Replaying the worship over 3 times this morning!!!! Thank you Lord for using this platform to transform lives and providing a safe space for people to show Kingdom on Earth!!!!

  • @kristieriggins5772
    @kristieriggins5772 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love this episode. I appreciate their transparency in sharing their life experiences.

  • @bulelwasilwana1250
    @bulelwasilwana1250 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is by far my favorite episode. The way I relate to her, the dating stories 😀 , the way you both connected, the music, her voice, her aura, the worship! Wow. Also the timing! I am watching this at the time I needed it the most. Thank you both 🙏🏽🥹😊

  • @lebolove3715
    @lebolove3715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🙌🙌🙌😭😭😭 GOD is indeed intentional...Thank you for the worship and the entire podcast🥰

  • @conniec.1804
    @conniec.1804 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The most AWESOME show!!!! Y’all were a blessing together on this one!

  • @SusanitaEfe
    @SusanitaEfe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Early gang 🙌🏿 I can't wait to watch this episode. Her voice is amazing.

  • @joiperkins7243
    @joiperkins7243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This girl made me cry...Higher Ground beautiful. I know some would disagree but this was one of the best episodes, simply moving

  • @shellyseeker4246
    @shellyseeker4246 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love her story she has a beautiful voice her testimony is genuine. I'm a believer and I'm going through a hard time but I know God's sees me i believe His word thank you i was blessed by this worship songs

  • @The_MBI
    @The_MBI ปีที่แล้ว

    This episode was an absolute treat I tell you❤❤❤ To God Be The Glory. Not you doing the Lord's work and walking in your purpose Laterras. Shameka my dear Sis, what a blessing you are Sis🙏🙏🙏 Sending love and light from South Africa.❤❤❤

  • @latashakearse3567
    @latashakearse3567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Timing is everything! I love intentional moments! The God in Laterras and Shameka is very attractive! The anointing is very attractive!!

  • @slwalker02
    @slwalker02 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Let me just start by saying I love your channel, I love God’s intentionality with this channel, I love that you are obedient to the Father’s leading…there has been many videos that I have re-watched but this one right here with Shameka Dwight…her honesty, her transparency, her music…her worship mixed with your prayers I don’t even know if I can put into words how this has touched me…this was just simply amazing and even that is an understatement. Thank you 🥰🙌🏽👏🏽

  • @shescultivating
    @shescultivating 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This episode was different in a good way. Refreshing 💛

  • @brandywarrior
    @brandywarrior 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My God… it’s the first 60 seconds for me. Let me grab my tea and get ready to hear God speak 🫖🤎

  • @tanyachristine1183
    @tanyachristine1183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful Worship! Loved it! It truly blessed my soul! Thank you Shameka and Laterras. Blessings.

  • @103Precious
    @103Precious 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is definitely the best episode!!! Authentic conversation, funny moments and Worship 🙌🏾🙌🏾💛🙏🏾🎶

  • @glenholder75
    @glenholder75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I truly enjoyed this session....the worship segment was everything, my soul needed it.

  • @yvonnemcfarland3397
    @yvonnemcfarland3397 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVED the Worship experience! This was so unorthodox to draw all men unto Him. God is Faithful.

  • @MsFayt
    @MsFayt 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was lit, authentic and so real for me. "I just want to be enough", that's the whole story right there...

  • @patb9032
    @patb9032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Every time I watch your podcast, I'm reminded that this is HUGE (Heaven unleashing God's expectations). I was so blessed by this segment, it was food to my soul and set my soul free from the occasional, but fleeing pain of loneliness. I am a child of God, I am loved, valued and there is liberty in knowing my worth. Hallelujah !