Repent and trust in Jesus. We all deserve Hell for our sins, such as lying lusting coveting and more. We can't save ourselves, but Jesus can save us. He died on the cross to save us for our sins and rose from the grave defeating death and Hell. You must put your faith in him only. He is the only way to Heaven. Repent and trust in Jesus. Romans 6:23 John 3:16❤😊
Anybody else more scared of making them uncomfortable rather than getting rejected. God I'm hopeless. Shout Out to everybody else. Y'all are impressive.
Cold approaches Makes a Woman uneasy Sometimes....If She's Attracted to you that's Different But of course you won't Know until the Flirting without words Start👍
Meet a girl Get to know her Invite her to something interesting, not a date just a casual invite ( hey I’m going there i like talking to you you can join if you want) She will give her number Have fun before you know it you’ll be inside her, if she flakes you’ll still have fun on the place you would go anyways don’t go for her, she will go for you
Stupid advise 1) Meet the girl 2) Ask her out 3) Inspect the girl for any oral STD’s 4) Date and do other recreational activities for a couple of weeks or months to get to know the girl 5) Inspect the woman again for any STD’s orally and in her private parts this time 6) Fuck
That's good. Goes both ways, especially with these newer generations, both girls and guys flake out. That doesn't mean stop trying. Dating and relationships take work, for both men and women, and there is no formula for being successful. Fortitude wins the day. 💪 😊
Women are also welcome to make the first move. We live in an age where a guy can ruin his reputation simply by asking a girl out, and then being labeled a stalker. We can handle rejection, it's the freaks who make us out to be creeps that we're afraid of.
@@phabeondominguez5971 never tell them you like them of you have a crush on them. Just ask them out for doing something together and don't call it a date. This will help to gauge the girls level of interest in you. If she says yes, that means she's interested in you as a person atleast. When you go out with her for the first time, then make her comfortable, get to know her more, share personal stories and try to find out of she it already dating anyone or not if you are in a doubt. If this whole interaction went well, ask her out again but as a date stating the fact that you liked being with her once and would like to know if she is interested as well. If your first unofficial date went well and she is single, chances are high that she'll say yes.
No thanks I don’t want to end up on somebody’s social media or rejected. Guys, please stop thinking that you have to go approach women. I fee like a lot of men feel pressured into seeking a relationship and things like this only set men up to fail a majority of the time. Ladies your success rate is WAY higher than a mans so please don’t hesitate making moves
Thank you for this; it’s very difficult because some of us aren’t the jerks who ruined the dating game. The most difficult situations for me are long conversations where it appears interest is building for say 15-30 min between myself and someone and then I don’t ask because I already “know”she has a bf. How do I think like this at 29 yet was more successful when I was younger ?
Don't bother unless you get choosing signals first. I've asked out plenty of women and the answer is always no unless she hinted she was interested to begin with. You are better off self improving instead (especially your looks) so you get more choosing signals than facing rejection after rejection. Constant rejection can really mess a guy up.
Times have changed, and this applies to both genders now. According to research, women may not approach men because they fear rejection, but we are not so different. You can’t expect gender equality in only selected areas; that’s just silly…Feminist woman had ruined modern dating scene for good.
I had a friend who liked a girl but never actually asked a girl out on a date before. So I took him down to the mall once and him and I would approach girls so that he got over the fear of being rejected and surprisingly he ended up getting two girls numbers from that day. I’ve never seen him that happy because of he reliving his fear.
We was never friends, became single. Asked her out. And like a volcano she blew up - got mad and crazy, how absurd I am, chill the ff down, I am a jerk and inappropiate. I said "okay, no problem" and walked away. Then she got even more upset, that how immature I am and what a total dumb I am and she never ever was interested in me in the first place like that, how do I dare to assume she is interested, whats wrong with me, and now me being even more immature that I got offended. I am like: "what? offended?" and then she yelling at me and goes on and on and on. When finished I told her: "look, i expressed my genuine interest. You said no, great! We know where we stand, why should I apologize being honest? Now I see it would not work out anyway. Take care!"
@arsiarskila School is your best bet to find a GF. Especially for people who have no friend groups around girl. I am 22 and I have only asked 2 girls out but the first one was on high school and I don't regret it.
@@Mcgee833 Nope, I got rejected in both cases. Both, not in the best way (but far from the worst from what I see other experiences online) I could have been which would be a clear, honest "I don't like you".
@@Mcgee833imo school/college is the best place to find a gf and potentially a wife too due to endless options of girls being around you. I've had the most dates in school alone than I've had my entire life due to being around more girls than your normal everyday life. Once you get old you don't have enough time and women around 20s have unrealistic standards which makes it harder for men in general to even get a date
You really helped me a lot. There was this girl I had a crush on for a month and I didn’t really talk to her. So I listened to what you said and I just sent it. Her friends ended up telling me that she had a huge crush on me since the first day of school. So it all worked out! Thanks!!
Unfortunately relatable. I would have small talk with someone and have a phase for a week where they are all I think about. It’s not in a weird way but it sucks when you find that you have completely made up this fairytale idea of someone you have only met a few times.
I feel it’s more of a gender roles thing. The men are supposed to be the ones to take charge in the relationship and lead the family to a better tomorrow.
@magnusrylander You do have a point. Although in this day and many women are saying they can do anything men can, and many women are trying to prove it and trying to be treated "equally," But you still raise up a good point.
Brother, people make it seem like it’s easy to talk to girls, it’s not. You have to train yourself each and every chance that you can, the hard part is girls change to nice one day and then harsh the next. That’s why on there nice days you have to make some conversation add in a few compliments, and make sure they are liking the conversation don’t ask if they are but get the signs that they don’t want you talking to them but if they do want to talk to you make sure to get some type of contact etc. And finally don’t show your nervousness but really it depends on the girl. Make sure before you talk to them get to know subjects they’d like. Hope this helps!
They were just looking for attention and validation. It used to happen to me that girls would send me a plethora of choosing signals, obvious flirting, my Friends and coworkers realising it, asking them about me whether I had a gf and so on, and when I took the trouble of asking them out, they said yes, then changed their mind. Not once, but at least 5 times. They're women who just like to think "ok, so if I attract this guy maybe I can attract one even better, so I'll reject him just in case". Or to boost up their ego if they're feeling down. You've to understand that most women think this way, but still don't give up, since from time to time you run into someone who's genuinely into you and is not playing games.
fr heres a funny story that is actually happening like in the past few weeks, so a girl at my school rly likes me apparently, I like her a little but its mostly just her tbh, her friends want me to ask her out because im the guy, even tho she likes me, and now shes pissed that i havent, even though i have made it clear i dont want a relationship just yet, they are like "why havent u asked her out yet???" like bruh she is the one who likes me, shouldnt she make the first move if she wants a relationship, like i might actually consider it if she did, but im not the one dying for the relationship :l
I've never in my entire life asked a woman out. They ask me. The way I see it, if a woman wants me, she needs to come up to me. Some would say I lost opportunities with woman because of my point of view. I'm a "glass half full" type man. I don't "miss opportunities" they miss me. I'm not rich, or exceedingly attractive. I dress well and am very fit. I don't pay attention to women, or anyone for that matter. Its the way I've always been. It works for me. Perhaps another reason its so easy for me is because i NEVER feel lonely. God is with me every single moment of my life so why should I EVER feel lonely.
So true and relatable, I really liked this girl and still do to this day and lost the chance to tell her how I feel because I was too shy and scared to. I was always the quiet kid in class in High School so I never knew how to communicate well unless it was my family. If you really like a girl you tell her because you might never get that chance again. Don’t make the same mistake I did because trust me you will regret it.
Walking up to a girl these days is difficult because she gets offended, scared, and frightened by men walking up to them. After the ME TOO movement the world changed. Women are frightened of men and don’t want to be asked out
How to get a girl to say yes and not leave you Just be real, loyal, caring, give her attention… And keep your hair attached. (That last one is the most important) Bonus: be semi attractive and don’t be icky Real Both in literal and metaphorical sense. Be honest with her and tell her abt your feelings. Tell her how you feel abt her and be relatable. Don’t try and make urself seem like a big cool tough guy. Loyalty Please don’t go cheat on her or talk to other girls at the same time. It’s not that hard bro. If you wanna talk to this other girl, break up with your girl first. If you don’t and one of them find out… ur cooked. Caring Call your girl babe or baby. Tell her good morning and goodnight. Tell her you love her. Listen to her stories and rants, empathize with her. If she’s on her period chocolate and a stuffed animal or flowers is perfect. Even the little things count tho Attention Don’t leave her on read, text her everyday but not ALWAYS first. Say hi to her when you see her and feed the female craving for attention. Hair Just don’t shave it off. Keeping a nice length and keep it neat. It’s not that hard bro. Cut off a normal amount, not all of it PLEASE!!! KEEP IT ATTACHED like if you have an ice cream scoop there is a group that likes you, fluffy hair (especially curly) you have a HUGE group that wants you, short hair boys have a group of girls that love them. Buzz cut boys on the other hand… just no. If you are cutting your hair and have a gf and are worried about her leaving you, ask her first. Bonus Be semi attractive like if you’re popular and workout a little or are tall you have a good chance, same if you aren’t icky. If you give a girl an ick… expect to have no more girl the next second. It’s rlly not that hard boys.
This doesn't sound at that bad. One problem. In my case, I live in an area where there's literally no women my age. No 19 years old. It sucks in that regard. But I may move on day, so my chances might increase.
@@isamekailmahmud9302 And you think most women want to be caught by most men? 95% of them are all screwing the same 5% of guys. Better to ask those guys how they got in the top 5%. Because they don't have to chase girls, they order them like a pizza on the dating apps.
9 times outta 10, she does not care about you. There’s a long line of men she can choose from. It’s just your turn. Good luck! But she most likely doesn’t care.
Guys is it ok to ask a girl out if I know she s seeing a guy who s in a different country? ( they are in a long distance relationship and he s a foreigner) We are cool with each other and admitted that we may see each other in the future someday, yet I just really wanna have one date with her. Don’t wanna come across as needy, so I’m just conveying a cool lifestyle through insta stories and I’m willing to wait 1-1.5 motnhs but jeez I wanna see her. Should I make a move? At best case, I’ll see her, at worst - will look needy and reduce my chances of future meet ups with her if her current thing would break up.
I think the goal is to get regected. But make it count, ask the ones waaaaaaay out of your league, the ones that could be fit for movie stars or millionaires , high class gals.. keep asking till you get one.
This is a weak mentality. Yes, it is true that a chad tyrone whatever can have a greater advantage, but at least there is nothing wrong with asking out. You shouldn't ask immediately because that seems desperate, and you should know her a little bit more, but once you know here some, have the courage to ask her out, and if she says "no", or mocks you, don't let it bother you. Also, a "no" does not mean "never" unless she specifies you that, otherwise, you can try again later. We may not be Chad, but we have value, and there is nothing wrong in taking a risk.
you dont know its scary because youve never done it, it also doesnt show confidence if your not confident you just get rejected ! ive asked loads of women out underconfidently and they allsay no, even if they really liked you !
@@nolifezay4636 does it matter? you like her like a friend just ask her man even if she reject better for you, you already know it that she dont like you and why you want to stay as afriend with her while u simping for? my sincere thought
@@bekimxhaferi4139I get what this guy is saying, personally I wouldn't wanna lose someone as a friend cause I love hanging out with people as lovers or as friends I wouldn't wanna lose contact with someone I love because of that.
I remember not feeling any sort of fear asking for my ex's number at the time. I just remember liking her and wanting her to be with me at an event. When I asked for her number I remember her smiling from ear to ear trying to hold it back, definitely boosted my confidence that day
Already tried that. They don't like it b.c they don't know you very well. And b.c you're not making them laugh, entertaining them, or CONSTANTLY talking to them about...anything. And I gotta compete with a thousand other dating apps
It's not easy asking girls out for regular guys most of the time. They'll either get rejected, embarrassed or called a creep & face legal consequences.
Holy shit, what she's saying is 100% true. I'm a man, haven't always been insanely attractive, but I started taking care of myself after waiting a year to ask the girl that I loved out and having it end 2 years later anyways. I've asked plenty of girls out since then and hardly get rejected if at all. Going to the gym isn't going to get you the love of your life, faking your personality isn't going to, a skincare routine won't, and "looksmaxxing" isn't going to. Putting yourself out there and making your intentions known will. COMMUNICATION. It's just simply the key to success in general.
Bettering yourself will only widen your range of options. As long as you ask out a girl on your level, maybe even a bit below, in terms of attractiveness, you'll find that you have a great success rate. Stop being bitches.
that perspective is the one that makes many her fellow women stays single. they just waiting for guys to ask them out. this should apply to any sexes : if you like somebody, EXPRESS IT CLEARLY so there will be no miscommunications. better yet, SAY IT to them. for both men and women, dont act like you have a boyfriend/girlfriend but then signal flirting . it will only gives you bad scores with the people you are signalling. romance is not a battle. you dont COMPETE with your object of passion. if you do that, meaning you are the wrong person.
honestly its not the fact that i am scared of being rejected because I'm not i just don't have the time anymore to ask anyone out because mostly its just a waste of time and energy just for that girl to say no and make you feel less confident in yourself so just focus on yourself and make sure that your in good health because at the end of the day girls have a better success rate of getting a partner plus they can also ask boys out instead of waiting for a prince charming stay safe kings think like a giga chad
Yeah but no women are telling you what bait they prefer some like squid some will eat anything it's all about perception just act on your gut instinct.
I agree, but at the end of the day there's no magic formula. Most guys must approach if they want sth, women only approach to really attractive, most of the times pre-selected guys. Otherwise you get some flirting, choosing signals at most. That said, during an interaction they must also put in the effort. If I approached her, and we spend some minutes talking with good vibes, I expect her to suggest meeting up again, or exchanging phone numbers. Otherwise I assume she's not interested, which it's usually true. When a woman is interested she takes risks too, unless she's really insecure, which doesnt matter, since one should avoid insecure girls.
It’s true boys. I once grew a pair and asked out the most beautiful, precious woman I’ve ever seen. Fast forward fifteen years and we have twelve kids and are living an incredible life.
Embarrassment is much much better than regret. Just say fk it and go for it, I was the same when I was in my early teens but I eventually started approaching girls and it worked out greatly in my favor even though I got rejected sometimes. What worked for me was the 321 rule where I count from 3 till 1 and I just go do it without thinking about it. This thing alone helped me in so many different aspects of my life whether its related to dating, gym, studying, business, decision making etc
What you really want to do is just ask her to hang out. If you just ask her out, that’s a lot of pressure on her and will make the girl most likely unsure of if she wants to spend the future with you or not. She’ll probably say “I don’t know” and will end up in a bad relationship. You want to slowly get her attention towards you while still keeping it a secret so then the chances are much more likely for her to say yes. Hope This Helps!
Not if it gets me labeled a creep by all her friends, the internet. or worse, reported for “harrassment”. Woulda been a lot better not to try than fail in this not-so-unrealistic instance.
I asked about 10 girls to go out since begining of this year and they all said no... LOL... So I am done asking anyone out for time being... Ill try again next year 😂
10 girls is nothin, and it also depends a lot on how you did it, such as in a proper social context, approaching the right type of girl... I tell you that I have approached so far this year around 70 girls, and I had around 25 dates. Beyond this point I am also hopeless, since I barely had second dates. I really suck at dating jajaja
@@alejandrop.s.3942 i could have picked up easy girls who fuck everybody....But i find those kind of girls disqusting.I only approach hot but nice girls
@@alejandrop.s.3942.Naaah.....Im done.Its actually freeing and liberating not to think about getting a girlfriend and live a normal productive life.Trying to get a girlfriend is like a part time job.Too time consuming for no gain JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE AND IF SOMETHING HAPPENS IT HAPPENES.Never intetionally look for it
Aight, walk me thru it. Me and shorty keep doing the eye dance and she is now smiling at me when we see each other.. what's my play here? Normally not an issue for me, but this one is special and she smoking!!
@@phabeondominguez5971treat her the same as you did the less attractive girls, so you’re more comfortable. remember girls don’t like to see your true feelings, so don’t be thirsty. If it doesn’t work out just do a prostitute so you won’t be called an incel, you wanted to bang but got rejected, no worries you can pay for a guarantee bang.
@@phabeondominguez5971Wish I could say ask her out but I’ve been in those situations and I’ve realized the eyes and the laughter from them are bullshit but I also give up too quick so…get her
Not scared to ask a girl out… I’m more scared she’ll play games like flaking on the first date last minute, making excuses as to why she’s unavailable, give a counter offer date or not make it priority to see see you.
Don’t take Dating Advice from Women these Days, Women who want you to approach them, are not searching for a Husband but a walking ATM, if a Girl really likes you, she will give you choosing Signals, by looking at you over a long time period or putting herself in close proximity to you.
Step. 1 Grab a note book and write about the person u like Step. 2 Make her notic u writing but dont make it ovius Step. 3 Ingage conversación Step 4 Ask her out some time Maybe every weekend
Trust me, you dont have forever. If you keep putting it off, you'll lose your chance, and the regret from that hurts 10 times worse than her rejecting you.
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I alredy asked her lkke 3-5 times she said no😐
@@Proxy_YT1then stop
@@Proxy_YT1no means no
@@Proxy_YT1you arent helping yourself
Repent and trust in Jesus. We all deserve Hell for our sins, such as lying lusting coveting and more. We can't save ourselves, but Jesus can save us. He died on the cross to save us for our sins and rose from the grave defeating death and Hell. You must put your faith in him only. He is the only way to Heaven. Repent and trust in Jesus.
Romans 6:23
John 3:16❤😊
Anybody else more scared of making them uncomfortable rather than getting rejected. God I'm hopeless. Shout Out to everybody else. Y'all are impressive.
Real alphas (which is what women want ) don’t care that much about how you would make her feel just assume she likes you already
Don’t look at her. It’s assault.
I hate making eye contact.
Fr
Cold approaches Makes a Woman uneasy Sometimes....If She's Attracted to you that's Different But of course you won't Know until the Flirting without words Start👍
Women can ask men out too last I remember
Some women just prefer men to ask them out.
@cyclo_baz3842 yea but expect a no cause that what happen to me for the fifth time
sounds nice but it's fucking weird when it happens to you.
Yeah time to woman up
It’s been 11 months has she asked you bro?
Meet a girl: check
Get to know the girl: check
Ask for her number: check
Ask her out: check
Go on date: *flakes*
Meet a girl
Get to know her
Invite her to something interesting, not a date just a casual invite ( hey I’m going there i like talking to you you can join if you want)
She will give her number
Have fun before you know it you’ll be inside her, if she flakes you’ll still have fun on the place you would go anyways don’t go for her, she will go for you
@@alexg6849cope
Stupid advise
1) Meet the girl
2) Ask her out
3) Inspect the girl for any oral STD’s
4) Date and do other recreational activities for a couple of weeks or months to get to know the girl
5) Inspect the woman again for any STD’s orally and in her private parts this time
6) Fuck
@@alexg6849”inside her” bro what
That's good. Goes both ways, especially with these newer generations, both girls and guys flake out. That doesn't mean stop trying.
Dating and relationships take work, for both men and women, and there is no formula for being successful. Fortitude wins the day. 💪 😊
Women are also welcome to make the first move. We live in an age where a guy can ruin his reputation simply by asking a girl out, and then being labeled a stalker. We can handle rejection, it's the freaks who make us out to be creeps that we're afraid of.
As a man are you serious? Do you want a flower also when she would ask you out? Come on
@@Zack13245 🤣🤣
Exactely this.
Well said.
I am preatty tired about always pretending men to make the hard work part.
Women should approach too.
I just asked her out and she basically said no but im so happy I did it so I dont really care anymore😂
Rejection is better than regretting being a pussy
What was yo exact approach?
@@phabeondominguez5971 never tell them you like them of you have a crush on them. Just ask them out for doing something together and don't call it a date. This will help to gauge the girls level of interest in you. If she says yes, that means she's interested in you as a person atleast. When you go out with her for the first time, then make her comfortable, get to know her more, share personal stories and try to find out of she it already dating anyone or not if you are in a doubt. If this whole interaction went well, ask her out again but as a date stating the fact that you liked being with her once and would like to know if she is interested as well. If your first unofficial date went well and she is single, chances are high that she'll say yes.
Same
@@yobitch4569 spot on, been using this approach and STG results have doubled for me!! Many thanks for your input and response. Be easy, PEACE
I stole man’s girl and now people call me the rizzard of oz
Man you win 😂
You should feel ashamed of yourself. Plus if she can abandon him so easily the same could be done to you
@@onepunchflan3071 I was the one that broke up with her cuz she ruined my life
What did she do @Cheezeburger_Official
@@Cheezeburger_Officialwhat happened
Thanks for the advice, I now have a date. A date with HR.
Lol 😂
Bro I'm a kid and I got forced to do it and I got rejected it😢 but everyone was making me not nervous and cheering for me😊
Lmao
Savage to date your HR, usually really hot girls there 😜
Well everybody's got to do their taxes
No thanks I don’t want to end up on somebody’s social media or rejected. Guys, please stop thinking that you have to go approach women. I fee like a lot of men feel pressured into seeking a relationship and things like this only set men up to fail a majority of the time. Ladies your success rate is WAY higher than a mans so please don’t hesitate making moves
Thank you for this; it’s very difficult because some of us aren’t the jerks who ruined the dating game. The most difficult situations for me are long conversations where it appears interest is building for say 15-30 min between myself and someone and then I don’t ask because I already “know”she has a bf. How do I think like this at 29 yet was more successful when I was younger ?
True ❤ thanks for the comment
True.
Don't bother unless you get choosing signals first. I've asked out plenty of women and the answer is always no unless she hinted she was interested to begin with.
You are better off self improving instead (especially your looks) so you get more choosing signals than facing rejection after rejection. Constant rejection can really mess a guy up.
Idk man, im 6’4, ripped, handsome, and i always do cold approaches and get their number 80% of the time🤪
@@HOTSHTMAN53Duh you got multiple attractive traits
@@HOTSHTMAN53 Ok Chad
@@HOTSHTMAN53 Ok mr. big dick.
@@HOTSHTMAN53well if thats true good for you man :D wish you the best
Times have changed, and this applies to both genders now. According to research, women may not approach men because they fear rejection, but we are not so different. You can’t expect gender equality in only selected areas; that’s just silly…Feminist woman had ruined modern dating scene for good.
Amen
Amen, well said.
They want men to make the hard work part.
I had a friend who liked a girl but never actually asked a girl out on a date before. So I took him down to the mall once and him and I would approach girls so that he got over the fear of being rejected and surprisingly he ended up getting two girls numbers from that day. I’ve never seen him that happy because of he reliving his fear.
Good exercise
You are a great friend. Bless you.
I need a friend like u
How did you ask them out?
Same i need a freind like u because almost every one at my school in my grade hates me
We was never friends, became single. Asked her out. And like a volcano she blew up - got mad and crazy, how absurd I am, chill the ff down, I am a jerk and inappropiate. I said "okay, no problem" and walked away.
Then she got even more upset, that how immature I am and what a total dumb I am and she never ever was interested in me in the first place like that, how do I dare to assume she is interested, whats wrong with me, and now me being even more immature that I got offended. I am like: "what? offended?" and then she yelling at me and goes on and on and on. When finished I told her: "look, i expressed my genuine interest. You said no, great! We know where we stand, why should I apologize being honest? Now I see it would not work out anyway. Take care!"
This is gaslighing from a very immature person, I would add. You dodged a bullet, my friend.
My friend did this and got rejected and it totally ruined his respect at school
Are you in high school?
@arsiarskila School is your best bet to find a GF. Especially for people who have no friend groups around girl. I am 22 and I have only asked 2 girls out but the first one was on high school and I don't regret it.
@@godnyx117you don’t regret it because you didn’t get rejected?
@@Mcgee833 Nope, I got rejected in both cases. Both, not in the best way (but far from the worst from what I see other experiences online) I could have been which would be a clear, honest "I don't like you".
@@Mcgee833imo school/college is the best place to find a gf and potentially a wife too due to endless options of girls being around you.
I've had the most dates in school alone than I've had my entire life due to being around more girls than your normal everyday life. Once you get old you don't have enough time and women around 20s have unrealistic standards which makes it harder for men in general to even get a date
You really helped me a lot. There was this girl I had a crush on for a month and I didn’t really talk to her. So I listened to what you said and I just sent it. Her friends ended up telling me that she had a huge crush on me since the first day of school. So it all worked out! Thanks!!
Congratulations man!
Congrat bro hope it would a happy relationship!
Sent what?
My problem is that.. I have a crush on any pretty girl I see so☠️😂
Hahaha, same bro
😂😂😂😂 same here dawg
Unfortunately relatable. I would have small talk with someone and have a phase for a week where they are all I think about. It’s not in a weird way but it sucks when you find that you have completely made up this fairytale idea of someone you have only met a few times.
I was the same way in my early teens. Yall will grow out of that shit at some point 😂
@@aidey8mph605 ez solution, say thst they are buetiful, ask their names. Get to know them and then ask to take them on a date.
I actually really needed this
No, you did not.
Remind me again why girls can't ask guys out?
lol exactly. I dont wanna hear another wprd out of these womens mouth till they experience rejection after rejection
@@heythere9371a taste of their own stuff. See how they can handle rejection upon rejection
I feel it’s more of a gender roles thing. The men are supposed to be the ones to take charge in the relationship and lead the family to a better tomorrow.
@magnusrylander You do have a point. Although in this day and many women are saying they can do anything men can, and many women are trying to prove it and trying to be treated "equally,"
But you still raise up a good point.
@armaggon5920 Why don't they fight for equality for fricking jobs Bru 😭🤣
“It’s not that I don’t want a girlfriend, or that ladies don’t like me….. it’s because I’m scared.” - GBILLZ
I hear you bro what do you have to lose though besides rejection or acception it's your choice.
I did it twice reccently. They both said no, they both flirted beforehand and i have no clue what im doing wrong
Brother, people make it seem like it’s easy to talk to girls, it’s not. You have to train yourself each and every chance that you can, the hard part is girls change to nice one day and then harsh the next. That’s why on there nice days you have to make some conversation add in a few compliments, and make sure they are liking the conversation don’t ask if they are but get the signs that they don’t want you talking to them but if they do want to talk to you make sure to get some type of contact etc. And finally don’t show your nervousness but really it depends on the girl. Make sure before you talk to them get to know subjects they’d like. Hope this helps!
@@FDBD777 thank mate that helps
@@FDBD777 I mean it's never been hard for me atleast for the most part
They were just looking for attention and validation. It used to happen to me that girls would send me a plethora of choosing signals, obvious flirting, my Friends and coworkers realising it, asking them about me whether I had a gf and so on, and when I took the trouble of asking them out, they said yes, then changed their mind.
Not once, but at least 5 times. They're women who just like to think "ok, so if I attract this guy maybe I can attract one even better, so I'll reject him just in case". Or to boost up their ego if they're feeling down.
You've to understand that most women think this way, but still don't give up, since from time to time you run into someone who's genuinely into you and is not playing games.
Omg. I just did that and she said yes!! Because she’s usually the type of girl to not like me but I’m suprised she said yes! Thanks so much!!!!!!
I can‘t, I just can‘t
You have to brother. Or you never will
@@josephfeliciano6415 I did do it
@arsiarskila it was, because she actually said yes
@arsiarskila oh no, she lied
@arsiarskila thanks bro❤️
Thank you so so much I have not been able to work up the courage but you just gave me it
Good luck bro 🫡
Yeah, I did that, and she said no, but when I asked her, I kid you not, that was the 2nd scariest thing in my life
Even though she said no you're one step closer to the one that will say yes
Easier said than done. It’s not as simple as it sounds. Sure someone can approach if they want to, but tread accordingly.
Don't fall to this trap.
They say this because they want to leave to men the hard work part.
Funny how women give this advice yet they don’t have the guts to go and ask their crush out.
fr heres a funny story that is actually happening like in the past few weeks, so a girl at my school rly likes me apparently, I like her a little but its mostly just her tbh, her friends want me to ask her out because im the guy, even tho she likes me, and now shes pissed that i havent, even though i have made it clear i dont want a relationship just yet, they are like "why havent u asked her out yet???" like bruh she is the one who likes me, shouldnt she make the first move if she wants a relationship, like i might actually consider it if she did, but im not the one dying for the relationship :l
oh also she is the extravert, and im the shy asf introvert
Girls aren't supposed to ask the guy out. And this is coming from a guy who sucks at asking Girls out.
@@markholton4663 - That’s not the point. I’ve always asked women out but she can’t sit here and talk about asking women out when she has no idea
@@markholton4663 it shouldnt be a who is supposed to thing, cause you cant just expect someone to ask you out
Same thing for women they need to man up and do the same if they like a guy and not just wait around.
I agree, I see the same in women that give me that "I like him stare" but if they apporch me I be quick to date them
I've never in my entire life asked a woman out. They ask me. The way I see it, if a woman wants me, she needs to come up to me. Some would say I lost opportunities with woman because of my point of view. I'm a "glass half full" type man. I don't "miss opportunities" they miss me. I'm not rich, or exceedingly attractive. I dress well and am very fit.
I don't pay attention to women, or anyone for that matter. Its the way I've always been. It works for me. Perhaps another reason its so easy for me is because i NEVER feel lonely. God is with me every single moment of my life so why should I EVER feel lonely.
Damn
I'm finding God, too. He keeps me from complete loneliness.
Thank you, i now have a date because of this
Why don't women approach men? Where the gender equality at 😂
So true and relatable, I really liked this girl and still do to this day and lost the chance to tell her how I feel because I was too shy and scared to. I was always the quiet kid in class in High School so I never knew how to communicate well unless it was my family. If you really like a girl you tell her because you might never get that chance again. Don’t make the same mistake I did because trust me you will regret it.
I did the same thing I regret it to
Walking up to a girl these days is difficult because she gets offended, scared, and frightened by men walking up to them. After the ME TOO movement the world changed. Women are frightened of men and don’t want to be asked out
I don't give a shit about that
Honestly
I just want sex
I agree that things are really fcked up. But still it's possible to get away with it approaching. Actually, it's still my main source of dates.
Equal Opportunity; You Want Something…. GO Get It! That Shows Confidence and being Genuine.
How to get a girl to say yes and not leave you
Just be real, loyal, caring, give her attention… And keep your hair attached. (That last one is the most important)
Bonus: be semi attractive and don’t be icky
Real
Both in literal and metaphorical sense. Be honest with her and tell her abt your feelings. Tell her how you feel abt her and be relatable. Don’t try and make urself seem like a big cool tough guy.
Loyalty
Please don’t go cheat on her or talk to other girls at the same time. It’s not that hard bro. If you wanna talk to this other girl, break up with your girl first. If you don’t and one of them find out… ur cooked.
Caring
Call your girl babe or baby. Tell her good morning and goodnight. Tell her you love her. Listen to her stories and rants, empathize with her. If she’s on her period chocolate and a stuffed animal or flowers is perfect. Even the little things count tho
Attention
Don’t leave her on read, text her everyday but not ALWAYS first. Say hi to her when you see her and feed the female craving for attention.
Hair
Just don’t shave it off. Keeping a nice length and keep it neat. It’s not that hard bro. Cut off a normal amount, not all of it PLEASE!!! KEEP IT ATTACHED like if you have an ice cream scoop there is a group that likes you, fluffy hair (especially curly) you have a HUGE group that wants you, short hair boys have a group of girls that love them. Buzz cut boys on the other hand… just no. If you are cutting your hair and have a gf and are worried about her leaving you, ask her first.
Bonus
Be semi attractive like if you’re popular and workout a little or are tall you have a good chance, same if you aren’t icky. If you give a girl an ick… expect to have no more girl the next second.
It’s rlly not that hard boys.
This doesn't sound at that bad. One problem. In my case, I live in an area where there's literally no women my age. No 19 years old. It sucks in that regard. But I may move on day, so my chances might increase.
Don't take dating advise from a woman.
fr they’ve never faced rejection in their life
😮 excuse me whattttttt?
@@Relyk-fr damn straight they can reject you then never talk to you again and your name will never cross their mind again.
Advice*
Boys don’t listen to this woman you don’t ask a fish on how to get a fish you ask the fisherman
That's a bad metaphor the fish don't want to be caught
@@isamekailmahmud9302😂😂
@@isamekailmahmud9302 And you think most women want to be caught by most men? 95% of them are all screwing the same 5% of guys. Better to ask those guys how they got in the top 5%. Because they don't have to chase girls, they order them like a pizza on the dating apps.
@@isamekailmahmud9302exactly the point
@@demitri2461 you can make the argument women have high standards but alot of them do want relationships
Why most men don’t make the first move anymore:
*Asks crush out*
*crush laughs and leaves*
*tells her friends, now everyone making fun of you*
Another problem for most men
9 times outta 10, she does not care about you. There’s a long line of men she can choose from. It’s just your turn.
Good luck! But she most likely doesn’t care.
“Because guys can be dangerous” chooses the charming liar.😂
Guys is it ok to ask a girl out if I know she s seeing a guy who s in a different country?
( they are in a long distance relationship and he s a foreigner)
We are cool with each other and admitted that we may see each other in the future someday, yet I just really wanna have one date with her. Don’t wanna come across as needy, so I’m just conveying a cool lifestyle through insta stories and I’m willing to wait 1-1.5 motnhs but jeez I wanna see her.
Should I make a move?
At best case, I’ll see her, at worst - will look needy and reduce my chances of future meet ups with her if her current thing would break up.
All of that shit just for her to say no is too much to handle
The amount of energy, time and effort spent all for a woman to say no. But anyway I'd rather pass.
I think the goal is to get regected. But make it count, ask the ones waaaaaaay out of your league, the ones that could be fit for movie stars or millionaires , high class gals.. keep asking till you get one.
you're weak lol
lmafo i got arrested 💀💀 fck this modern world. dont even bother plz
This only works if you are chad/tyrone/mohammed.
😂😂😂
then you better start working to become chad Tyrone and Mohamed
exactly
@@ForwardFilms121 nah im not finna look like someone else
This is a weak mentality. Yes, it is true that a chad tyrone whatever can have a greater advantage, but at least there is nothing wrong with asking out. You shouldn't ask immediately because that seems desperate, and you should know her a little bit more, but once you know here some, have the courage to ask her out, and if she says "no", or mocks you, don't let it bother you. Also, a "no" does not mean "never" unless she specifies you that, otherwise, you can try again later. We may not be Chad, but we have value, and there is nothing wrong in taking a risk.
you dont know its scary because youve never done it, it also doesnt show confidence if your not confident you just get rejected ! ive asked loads of women out underconfidently and they allsay no, even if they really liked you !
it's pure terror
It is, crazy isn’t it!?
I needed this 😭
Its not scary. I just dont wanna be yelled at in public or arrested and have my life destroyed because i ask someone out.
never going to happen get out your own head
@@theblueprint2001what if she doesn’t stay my friend if she says no?
@@nolifezay4636 does it matter? you like her like a friend just ask her man even if she reject better for you, you already know it that she dont like you and why you want to stay as afriend with her while u simping for?
my sincere thought
What are you talking about?
@@bekimxhaferi4139I get what this guy is saying, personally I wouldn't wanna lose someone as a friend cause I love hanging out with people as lovers or as friends I wouldn't wanna lose contact with someone I love because of that.
Cheers Girl I did this and now she thinks I’m a total freek don’t ask her out she’ll just get uncomfortable and ghost you
I remember not feeling any sort of fear asking for my ex's number at the time. I just remember liking her and wanting her to be with me at an event. When I asked for her number I remember her smiling from ear to ear trying to hold it back, definitely boosted my confidence that day
You miss her any ?
@@Ash-x9m yeah, yeah I do, she was an amazing woman to me.
@@Ash-x9m Everyday, there's something I want to share with her but then I forget we are no longer in each other's lives. Sad but that's life
Already tried that. They don't like it b.c they don't know you very well. And b.c you're not making them laugh, entertaining them, or CONSTANTLY talking to them about...anything.
And I gotta compete with a thousand other dating apps
Women don't have to deal with women in the way men have, so very little of what she'll ever say will be useful
Yeah bro, jus give up on em, leave them all for me who doesn't care and will just ask em out, if they say no, oh well, on to the next..
You don't ask customers how to become successful in sales. You ask a salesperson. You don't ask fish for fishing advice.
As a teen girl i can say this is true. Have enough confidence to ask her out. But don’t over do it and act like ur all that, it’s an immediate ick
Nah I am good I am not even close to confident
It's not easy asking girls out for regular guys most of the time. They'll either get rejected, embarrassed or called a creep & face legal consequences.
You should be teaching women girls how to become good woman and how to appreciate a good man
She says this like it’s the 3am motivation hitting bro it’s not that easy
yes it is
REJECTION instantly for me😞
Holy shit, what she's saying is 100% true. I'm a man, haven't always been insanely attractive, but I started taking care of myself after waiting a year to ask the girl that I loved out and having it end 2 years later anyways. I've asked plenty of girls out since then and hardly get rejected if at all. Going to the gym isn't going to get you the love of your life, faking your personality isn't going to, a skincare routine won't, and "looksmaxxing" isn't going to. Putting yourself out there and making your intentions known will. COMMUNICATION. It's just simply the key to success in general.
Bettering yourself will only widen your range of options. As long as you ask out a girl on your level, maybe even a bit below, in terms of attractiveness, you'll find that you have a great success rate. Stop being bitches.
How do you start the conversation of asking them for their number ?
Two of my friends have been banned from stores for approaching women.
that perspective is the one that makes many her fellow women stays single. they just waiting for guys to ask them out. this should apply to any sexes : if you like somebody, EXPRESS IT CLEARLY so there will be no miscommunications. better yet, SAY IT to them. for both men and women, dont act like you have a boyfriend/girlfriend but then signal flirting . it will only gives you bad scores with the people you are signalling. romance is not a battle. you dont COMPETE with your object of passion. if you do that, meaning you are the wrong person.
Don't ask a fish, how to catch a fish, better ask a fisherman
honestly its not the fact that i am scared of being rejected because I'm not i just don't have the time anymore to ask anyone out because mostly its just a waste of time and energy just for that girl to say no and make you feel less confident in yourself so just focus on yourself and make sure that your in good health because at the end of the day girls have a better success rate of getting a partner plus they can also ask boys out instead of waiting for a prince charming stay safe kings think like a giga chad
This is true but, how many people have you asked out honey?
It not the job for a woman to ask a dude out. Who's got the balls? Even though men like when they do. Just how the world works brother
@@josephfeliciano6415A women can be a prostitute but can’t ask a man out that she likes on a date.😂😂
@@josephfeliciano6415Not anymore. Times have changed. Man have adapted to these changes and women have to also step up their game.
@@josephfeliciano6415 Gender equality. You can’t expect gender equality in only selected areas. Just "woman up" and ask the guy out, if you like him.
Womens 'job' is whatever WE say it is now
There is no fair play anymore
Yall act like enemies and deserve to be treated as such
This message is for anybody, man, woman, or other
If you see someone, and you like them, go for it; it's better than wishing you had
Not always better / j saying
Bet she never dated someone who’s 5’2 Mexican dude, and she will never will.
Women like to give lectures to men eight days a week, but in the end it's all about face, height, race, and then status maybe.
Everybody listen up! FACTS ARE BEING SPOKEN
Never take advice from a girl about women
All they say is I don't speak with strangers!!!
DO NOT listen to dating advice from women guys. That's like taking advice from a fish on how best to catch it...
Yeah but no women are telling you what bait they prefer some like squid some will eat anything it's all about perception just act on your gut instinct.
You can't catch a shark on prawns lol you have to know what bait they prefer than only then will you get them catch my drift.
I agree, but at the end of the day there's no magic formula. Most guys must approach if they want sth, women only approach to really attractive, most of the times pre-selected guys. Otherwise you get some flirting, choosing signals at most.
That said, during an interaction they must also put in the effort. If I approached her, and we spend some minutes talking with good vibes, I expect her to suggest meeting up again, or exchanging phone numbers. Otherwise I assume she's not interested, which it's usually true. When a woman is interested she takes risks too, unless she's really insecure, which doesnt matter, since one should avoid insecure girls.
You all say the same dumb crap
Wheres your channel at?
Oh yeah, youre nobody too
It’s true boys. I once grew a pair and asked out the most beautiful, precious woman I’ve ever seen. Fast forward fifteen years and we have twelve kids and are living an incredible life.
Damn, give her some rest, stallion.
12?! 😳
Nowadays, most women like money, that is why!😢 being single is the only way to avoid drama and heartbreaking sh...ts .😊
Fr
Thank you I have Ben liking this girl and she’s really nice but I just don’t know how to ask her and this helped me thank you so much
Fuck that my fear of rejection is too strong
I hear you bro but if you never take the risk you will never know the outcome just go for it I say.
Embarrassment is much much better than regret. Just say fk it and go for it, I was the same when I was in my early teens but I eventually started approaching girls and it worked out greatly in my favor even though I got rejected sometimes. What worked for me was the 321 rule where I count from 3 till 1 and I just go do it without thinking about it. This thing alone helped me in so many different aspects of my life whether its related to dating, gym, studying, business, decision making etc
@@Ahmedd105 it helps with self confidence just go for it I say !!!
Ok brother but what should i say to girl when i approach her@@Ahmedd105
What you really want to do is just ask her to hang out. If you just ask her out, that’s a lot of pressure on her and will make the girl most likely unsure of if she wants to spend the future with you or not. She’ll probably say “I don’t know” and will end up in a bad relationship. You want to slowly get her attention towards you while still keeping it a secret so then the chances are much more likely for her to say yes. Hope This Helps!
Just asked out my crush 😀
How did it go?
She said no
It’s been 8 months, how’d it go?
On RuneScape
Great advice, maybe people will try and finally find out that there is more to life then getting a girlfriend.
Usually don’t take dating advice from women as a man but she is right on this topic.
Na this advice ass its a beta maker
True
How is she right?
I don’t even know if I like her. I got to figure that out. But you don’t figure it out without approaching her.
I'm fat and bald it gets me in jail
Do what you can control. Dont be fat anymore, start going to the gym bro
Im bald and fit
Get on my lvl m80
*Failing is better than not trying*.
Not if it gets me labeled a creep by all her friends, the internet. or worse, reported for “harrassment”. Woulda been a lot better not to try than fail in this not-so-unrealistic instance.
Unless she’s preselected you, you’ve got very little chance.
This person doesn’t know though how it feels to get rejected publicly and trying to build ur self back up from that
It's not worth it.
But for real I genuinely recommend all men visit Thailand. Experience that for just a acouple weeks.
Isn't the running gag that it's mostly “ladyboys" in Thailand? You couldn't pay me to risk it there.
I asked out my crush and now we’re dating lol
I asked about 10 girls to go out since begining of this year and they all said no... LOL... So I am done asking anyone out for time being... Ill try again next year 😂
10 girls is nothin, and it also depends a lot on how you did it, such as in a proper social context, approaching the right type of girl...
I tell you that I have approached so far this year around 70 girls, and I had around 25 dates. Beyond this point I am also hopeless, since I barely had second dates. I really suck at dating jajaja
@@alejandrop.s.3942 i could have picked up easy girls who fuck everybody....But i find those kind of girls disqusting.I only approach hot but nice girls
@@alejandrop.s.3942.Naaah.....Im done.Its actually freeing and liberating not to think about getting a girlfriend and live a normal productive life.Trying to get a girlfriend is like a part time job.Too time consuming for no gain
JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE AND IF SOMETHING HAPPENS IT HAPPENES.Never intetionally look for it
@@alejandrop.s.3942shut up
Sometimes all you need to do is ask, and it can lead to all your dreams coming true.
Nah save the trouble and money.
Yea she’s right. Ask her out, and that will let you know how she really feel unless she cool with free meals then idk
I dunno about farther, but it def gets me farting
Thank you so much I really like this girl and I’ve been scared to ask her out so I’m just gonna man up
Come on creepers, you need to step your game and ask them out.
Aight, walk me thru it. Me and shorty keep doing the eye dance and she is now smiling at me when we see each other.. what's my play here? Normally not an issue for me, but this one is special and she smoking!!
@@phabeondominguez5971treat her the same as you did the less attractive girls, so you’re more comfortable. remember girls don’t like to see your true feelings, so don’t be thirsty. If it doesn’t work out just do a prostitute so you won’t be called an incel, you wanted to bang but got rejected, no worries you can pay for a guarantee bang.
@@phabeondominguez5971Wish I could say ask her out but I’ve been in those situations and I’ve realized the eyes and the laughter from them are bullshit but I also give up too quick so…get her
Dude just keep calm act on instincts that's how I have successfully caught tail.
Not scared to ask a girl out… I’m more scared she’ll play games like flaking on the first date last minute, making excuses as to why she’s unavailable, give a counter offer date or not make it priority to see see you.
Don’t take Dating Advice from Women these Days, Women who want you to approach them, are not searching for a Husband but a walking ATM, if a Girl really likes you, she will give you choosing Signals, by looking at you over a long time period or putting herself in close proximity to you.
Being straightforward gets way more results man trust me it works just be a man it’s so simple
I love how women are telling men they need to be more confident.
well men are getting less confident over time so it needs to be said
@@jordyhittywomen are just as bad as men right now though.
@@jordyhittyblame feminism
She should take her own advice, woman up and make the first move. Times have changed.
snap back to reality
Ope there goes gravity
Step. 1
Grab a note book and write about the person u like
Step. 2
Make her notic u writing but dont make it ovius
Step. 3
Ingage conversación
Step 4
Ask her out some time
Maybe every weekend
Lmao she thinks she knows what its like for men. She really doesnt have any right to say all that 😂
If they want to go out with you then they will let you know. All this advice helps is shy girls who are too timid to flirt. It won’t help you…….
Trust me, you dont have forever. If you keep putting it off, you'll lose your chance, and the regret from that hurts 10 times worse than her rejecting you.
Her eyes are very wide apart.
😂😂😂😂😂
I'd fit a quarry dumper truck in between them eyes
True she could be looking at you and another hubby she likes simultaneously 😂😂
You start to feel a lot better about yourself afterwards. Then your mind starts to clear up and that’s where the confidence comes from.
After rejection lol 😂
Casey I'm scared and really like you, let me take you out
@arsiarskila no one asked
@arsiarskila no one asked you to ask that someone asked
I agree! I want people to know that I receive pushback and bullying for it, the culture be DAMNED!!!