What Happens When Kids Don’t Feel Loved and Accepted? Dr. Gabor Maté's Powerful Message | Must Watch
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- What Happens When Kids Don’t Feel Loved and Accepted? Dr. Gabor Maté's Powerful Message | Must Watch. Discover the Secrets to Positive Parenting with Dr. Gabor Maté. Watch Dr. Gabor Maté's powerful message on what happens when kids don't feel loved and accepted. Learn about effective discipline strategies and the importance of positive nurturing parenting for emotional development. A must-watch for parents and caregivers!
Are you struggling with effective discipline strategies for your child? In this eye-opening video, we delve into the importance of a loving relationship in discipline, guided by the wisdom of Dr. Gabor Maté. Learn why traditional authoritarian methods like time-outs can harm the parent-child bond and how to nurture a healthy connection instead.
Key Topics Covered:
00:01 🌱 The importance of relationship in discipline: Understand why children thrive in environments where they feel accepted and valued.
1:00 🧠 The critical role of early years in parenting: Discover how the first three years lay the foundation for your child's emotional and psychological development.
03:48 🤝 The importance of attachment in child development: Explore why children need nurturing adults for healthy growth and the risks of peer attachment due to parental absence.
05:24 ⚖️ Discipline vs. punishment: Learn the difference between effective discipline and punishment, and why nurturing a child's desire to belong is key to their development.
Dr. Gabor Maté shares his expert insights on creating a secure, loving, and disciplined environment that fosters emotional and psychological well-being. Whether you're a new parent or looking to improve your parenting techniques, this video is a must-watch!
A very special thanks to the speakers, Dr. Gabor Mate and Brian Rose, for sharing their knowledge with us.
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When i was a child I was told a lot that I was evil and going to hell. In adolescence it was..."I can't wait until you are out of here!" When I was moving out it was..."And don't think you are ever coming back!" And then as an adult my mom wondered why I didn't want to call or visit. NO emotions were OK ..we were just supposed to pretend to be OK. Even joy was punished as we were "too loud". My mom once threatened to take away my horse figurine collection because she "thought I loved them more than God". I haven't seen my mom since 1995. I'm 62 now and still afraid of her.
I'm sorry to hear about the difficult experiences you've had with your mom. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and mental health.
@@yourinnerchildmatters Thank you.
you might like this audio book "Complex PTSD from surviving to thriving "
helped me a lot
@@Sky10811 Thank you. Maybe the audio version would be easier for me. I do have that book on my "pile". I just find it difficult to focus long enough to get through a book. I will make the effort on that one.
@@abbykoop5363 yes, audio version i listened on Audible: very soothing and calming voice indeed.
it s heavy topic but easy audiobook, if you know what i mean
"Children should be seen and not heard"
Warning chanted @ me growing up.... I became louder as a result. LOL
Thanks for sharing your experience, it made me smile!
This should be a compulsory component in all levels of education and correctional institutions and more imo , were not all born into a world where our caregivers know this information unfortunately
Absolutely crucial for changing our under resourced mental health services that are themselves crushed under the enormous weight that frankly our governments put last on the list yet costs everyone so so much more than money IMHO
Thank you for highlighting this important issue. Mental health services definitely need more support.
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Dr. Gabor Maté shares a powerful message on what happens when kids don't feel loved and accepted. Learn about nurturing parenting, effective discipline strategies, and the importance of emotional development in this must-watch video. #PositiveParenting, #DrGaborMaté, #ChildDiscipline, #ParentingTips, #EarlyChildhoodDevelopment, #ParentChildBonding, #AttachmentParenting, #AuthoritarianParenting, #TimeOutsHarm,
My parents screwed it up. I, got it right with my son ☺️😊. He was such a happy little boy. Every thing he drew, had a smile…every sun, cloud, bug, worm, personal in every drawing had a smile. We now have an awesome relationship. With his father……nothing but disrespect 😩😢💔
It's wonderful to hear that you have a great relationship with your son! Building strong bonds with our children is so important.
@9 minutes and 22 seconds...WELL WORTH EVERY MILLISECOND! THANKS DR. GABOR MATE!!🎉👍🖖
Thank you for watching and appreciating the content!
I love you Dr Mate , with all my unconditional heart . You are saving lives ! You have given me closure and a new perspective on life, past present and future! You speak such truth and gid meant for you to be the messenger of such sound perspective 🎉ty
Thank you so much for watching!
I have so much remorse for the things I did not know. My heart hurts in remorse.
Thank you for sharing your feelings. It's never too late to learn from and grow from our past mistakes.
Great video. Just one thing, the breaks in between for the text feels a bit distracting. The music also stops at that time. Perhaps there's a smoother way to design this?
I'm glad you enjoyed the video! Your input on the text breaks is noted, and I'll look into making it smoother.
Doesn’t matter. I was so loved as a child..I just assumed everybody would love me..left me totally unprepared for abusive people. 😊❤
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's important to remember that you deserve love and respect, and it's not your fault if others treat you poorly.
@@yourinnerchildmatters
Thank You! I had to learn the hard way..but I have learned!
Thankyou xo
Thank you so much for watching!
Amen
I appreciate your comment, thank you!
Discipline, should correct bad behavior. And it should be fair. It shouldn’t make you feel as though you broke a major law. If my son did something he shouldn’t have, but didn’t know any better, I’d explain the what he should’ve done and the reasons why and see how it goes next time. I didn’t punish or hit him for it. For me, it was different, and love was ABSOLUTELY conditional. I was bad, not my behavior. I was made to feel like I was evil…I was actually the scapegoat in a narcissistic family so everything wrong was my fault. I couldn’t do anything right.
It's important to approach discipline in a fair and understanding manner. I'm sorry to hear about your difficult experiences, and I hope you find healing and peace.
Hold on to your child! Read it, share it, gift it!
Thank you for watching!
What happens when parents dont feel loved by their children
Authoritative rather than authoritarian. Make them grow on their own happiness and authenticity.
Thanks for sharing your insight! It's important to nurture happiness and authenticity.
Gabor Mate MD PhD CM ❤
Thank you for watching the video!