Sorry but had to disagree. If you're made for to be a good motivator or teacher. Then your silence will beat the whole purpose of your existence. #Existentialism
@@TheOpinionGuyy exactly. This video is a guy talking. Without conversation you have zero influence. Being silent is usually for sneaky people. And thinking people know not to trust them.
1) 00:16 Stand above (stand out) 2) 00:47 Hide your intention (people can make you on disadvantage position) 3) 01:44 Action Over Argument (don't waste time) 4) 02:15 Speak less (get more respect, no pointless mistake) 5) 03:00 Be Confident 6) 03:38 Hide you Enemies 7) 04:18 People are selfish 8) 04:53 avoid commit 9) 05:25 Play yourself down (make people feel smart, confident so they can do our favor) 10) 06:00 Support your superior (they can help you in the future) 11) 06:42 Stay concentrated ( focus on 1 things ) 12) 07:27 Play down Achievement (make people seem it easy) 13) 07:58The giant shadow 14) 08:37 set anger aside ( stay clam) 15) 09:19 The times rush (have a plan stay on time) 16) 10:02 Calculated Value
"Believe it can be done. When you believe something can be done, really believe, your mind will find the ways to do it. Believing a solution paves the way to solution."
It’s not believing something can be done that gets it done. Relentless determination (backed by the belief that you won’t give up until it’s completed) is how goals are achieved.
⌚ Timestamps 00:16 #01 Stand above 00:47 #02 Hide your intentions. 01:44 #03 Actions over arguments 02:15 #04 Mind your words 03:00 #05 Cultivate confidence 03:38 #06 Hire your enemies 04:18 #07 People are selfish 04:53 #08 Avoid unnecessary commitments 05:25 #09 Play yourself down. 06:00 #10 Support your superiors 06:42 #11 Stay concentrated 07:27 #12 Effortless achievement 07:58 #13 The giant shadows 08:37 #14 Set anger aside 09:19 #15 The calm rush. 10:02 #16 Calculated value.
I almost forgot what it's like to work for a company where everything revolves around having a successful career. But damn I’m so glad I chose a different path. Relationships with people should be based on kindness. It's fucking toxic to work in an environment where everyone's choices are based on (long term) self profit.
Shortcut. 1. Stand out... 2.hide ur intentions. 3.actions over arguments. 4.mind ur words. 5.cultivate confidence. 6.hire ur enemies. 7.people are selfish. 8.avoid commitments. 9.play ur self down. 10.support ur superiors. 11.stay concentrated. 12.effortless achievement. 13.the giant shadows. 14.set anger aside. 15.the calm rush. 16.calculated value. See the full video.. This is just for a quick peek...😊
Thinking is like the biggest fool. Only a wise man understands in the state of presence or being is the only way to create anything in life. Thinking exists only in past and the future, thinking does not exist in present. In present only creativity exists.
This is an excellent list. I highly agree with: #1 for getting promoted in corporate America, #2 for any negotiations you should never show your true intentions #3 not sure why people try to convince others they are wrong. People are stubborn and they get offended. However sometimes for your children and employees you need to stop them from taking the wrong path. #7 is absolutely true. Whether it is in business or even friends if you want someone to do something there must be an incentive. #15 Time management/critical is absolutely important to success. #16 Pay for success, which I believe alludes to paying to trainers, tutors, education and support staff to help you reach your goals. However I highly disagree with #6. Is the only alternative to not hiring friends/family is to hire enemies? Just hire the most qualified people with the best attitudes.
don't agree with number 1. Simply put, ur quite literally putting urself at the top of a wetworks kill squad. And you can take that fact to the bank. I urge you please to watch an interview with william pawalec watch and listen to what hes seen, knows and what happened to his best friend who had "something hot" as Mr Pawalec says. No no my friend. Honestly even if you watch it for half an hour......its only on for an hour and was only to be released after his passing. See what you think. thank you for reading.
I like to just understand the other persons side to see if they see something I don’t see and maybe I’ll learn something new. I always like to say oh I never thought about it that way and then say what I believe so what I say they can digest it with an open heart and not on a arguing type of emotion.
Yeah I completely disagree when you argue your point effectively people observing the argument will see that you're right and if you can troll your enemy into making themselves look foolish it serves your purpose even better trust me I know
@@redtree4140 yes. but if your boss always scream over you and stuff like that you have to stand up for your rights and fight. you got to support your boss ONLY if this kind of attitude will bring something more to you
The key things are being assertive, direct, strong willed (heart), honest/loyal, humble, and don't take shit from no one always keep your feelings to yourself and most importantly have your ducks in a row staying on top of your responsibilities whatever it is.
I appreciate the diversity of topics you cover related to mental health. Your channel is a comprehensive resource for anyone looking to improve their well-being.
Things are worth paying, set you anger, put a lot of effort on developing one direction, develop your confidence, make sure that the others think about them smarter than they are, support your boss, be kind to those who are lower than you and so on. Thanks for your advice. It literally conveys the better way to develop confidence and self-power
I like this statement "Let the small successes empower your self worth. Let each victory give you the courage to overcome your next obstacle." Very quotable or maybe it can be make as wallpaper or lock screen :)
It is insane because I learned to do all this my self. Still have to check my self from time to time but as long as you never give up you can make it far.
There's always a value that I can reflect on when it comes to reviewing mind-set videos. I feel like I can watch these types of videos countless amount of times and I still am able to reflect upon my actions and perspectives and see that there is always one that I can improve on.
Ur lucky...I can barely remember to put these suggestions into practice. Like I was taught honesty to the point of being detrimental to my self and it's become very habitual. I probably need to be hypnotized to regain my boundaries.
@@jodisherland5335 I can really relate to what you’re saying. As a kid with ADHD and a form of autism, I experienced a lot of negative behavior towards me, even though I always tried to be nice. At some point I figured out that changing my behavior from what I considered normal, to what other people considered normal was beneficial to the way I got treated. This eventually made me a people’s pleaser. Sure, people sometimes recognize and appreciate my loyalty and friendliness. But sometimes I feel like the more I adapt, the less people adapt to me. The more I care for the other, the less the others tend to care for me. I already know I just need to stay more true to myself. But I’m at a point where I have no idea how to be myself, put myself first, without becoming the socially handicapped person I was as a kid. Guess awareness is step 1. This is probably something nobody can teach you. You’ll know when you know.
@@Klementoso it's like our experiences are very similar. We must be some sort of mirror of each other or another way to look at it is i am part u and u are part me. This could be the begining of a new understanding if I or we are able to fully comprehend this concept. It's interesting I've just recently begun to understand or think of life as 9ne body and everything making up life as essential parts 9f that body and t9 see there is no differentiating between myself and another. It's still a very new perception and my old perception pops up habitually however I'm spending more n more time with tue new perception.
This is my favorite youtube video... I watch this EVERY morning on the way to work and at night . I listen to dave ramsey daily and invest consistently .. I live below my means and on a budget every month ... I’m only 21 .... APPLY yourself guys... APPLY yourself ... He said “Ambivalence is a far greater punishment than Anger” 🙏🏽‼️ One of my favorite parts
Somebody has to be king, it may as well be you. If you act like you're in charge, if you talk like you're in charge, if you dress like you're in charge, people will be inclined to believe you, actually, are in charge. It's good to be king. EVERYONE is afraid of something... everyone. Your self confidence is just sitting there, waiting to take charge. Do it. Ordinary is easy, everyone is doing it. Be spectacular, change the world.
If I follow these suggestions I’ll stop being myself and become someone else. and probably end up being alone most of the time. Life isn’t actually so instrumental. However, I appreciate the speaking less and reducing commitments part.
@@so_dumbshu hide your intentions, people are selfish….really? You think people are dumb if they don’t agree with this? 😆 you can be smart, straightforward and successful at the same time. I agree with most of these points but not all of them….different people have different strategies towards achieving success and moreover career success is not everything in life.
@matejme this video is based on the book the 48 laws of power by robert greene. i dont reccomend reading it because if you follow its teachings you will become miserable always trying to gain psychological power over others. instead i reccomend the laws of human nature by robert greene. Same author but this book explains why people are the way they are, including yourself, (irrational, narcissistic, envy, etc.) and how to deal with the many variations of people in order for you to understand your own emotions as well as others.
@@notjocky7354 have you read 48 laws of power? im thinking about reading it quite soon but im a very calm and collected person and ill use the laws in a sensible way + i have lots of self control and i wont let it take over my mind because i know if i start to envy power ill become miserable as i wont have it since im only 14. Do you think I should still read it.. I will also read the laws of human nature and maybe master, arts of seduction. Well do you think i should still read 48 laws of power? Im asking you because you seem like you understand this more than me
America teaches you to get over on others, its hard for kind-hearted, and honest people to be just that because dishonest people exploit these characteristics
This is generally a thing everywhere. Idk what it has to do with America. capitalism maybe but competition is literally in every aspect of life and in every human. You can be honest and competitive, strong and gracious.
Psychological power comes from showing others you are independent and can get on without them yet still care for them. If you walk four miles everyday back and forth to work and someone offers you a ride say “no thank you I am fine walking thanks” they shows them you are not afraid of discomfort and will not just change your life for a simple minute ride. Psychological power comes from doing what others can’t and willingly. When people see you will do what everyone else would in a heartbeat to avoid a little effort they know you will give in to all the weaknesses of regular people. Step outside your comfort zone and people will take notice. Psychological power is not control it’s direct integrity and independent will. Think for yourself and do not do what is the common human nature.
best video I have watched ever on youtube. These 16 rules motivate me to get myself out of the pit hole I was in for almost 9 months after a failure. This video is the only thing I wanted to hear to get myself moving again. thanks to the creator
Probably the odd one out here, but this is a grand list of living from the ego. Which surprises me considering Mr. Greene’s connection to Ryan Holiday. I appreciate them both and a lot of good can come from living from your heart. Much more power than that of the mind🙏
I do all these things on the daily but I’m glad I ran into this video because sometimes they can be discouraging as the benefits don’t come so quickly. But now I feel as if I can act on them with more confidence thanks :)
I do the majority of these things mostly and I think it depends on the person at the time. If I don't know a person well or have a doubt even if it's a close one, I do these things, I hide my real intentions, act as I don't care, and don't speak too much and don't act like I know anything. After that they stop being too careful with their actions and stop seeing you as a threat. So your work becomes easier and they start to show their real face. They put the fake shame aside and their inside shows up on the outside.
Most importantly: think and process information yourself, don't just eat it up. The thing about not commiting here is i think problematic in some ways. Sure, you want to be flexible in different situations and not have tunnel vision sometimes, but commiting to things is absolutely essential at certain points in life. Real growth comes from friction and from struggle and if you never commit to anything and instead just dangle around all day every day you will be sort of liked by everyone but loved by no one and you won't really have a healthy self image i think.
I don't like how this discourages loyalty and compassion completely. While such strategies may be successful they are driven by pure egotistic motivation without any humane aspects.
I understand your perspective as you make a relevant point, but I’m sure an individual who has motivation without ego , who understands the true concept of Love like you and I would understand the sentiment but would use different examples and words to demonstrate. I see an opportunity to collaborate and change the status quo (16) ✨
i like to think that when someone gets mad in a conversation/argument that means you lost then youre much more aware and try to not get anyone mad this includes youreself
- Stand out and get recognized, hard work alone won't guarantee power and success. - Hide your intentions to keep power in an exchange. - Actions speak louder than arguments, use behavior to win people over. - Speak less to increase the power of your words. - Cultivate confidence, it's an important part of psychological power. - Hire enemies for clear-headed objectivity. - People are selfish, appeal to their self-interest when asking for a favor. - Avoid commitment to stay open to multiple perspectives. - Mind your reputation, it's the sum of people's perceptions of you. - Practice charisma, it's a valuable tool to have in social situations.
1. Stand above 2. Hide your intentions 3. Actions over arguments 4. Mind your words 5. Cultivate confidence 6. Play yourself down 7. Support your superiors 8.
You don't HAVE to be money rich to have psychological power boiz! Money is necessary and all but you also gotta be wisdom rich! Prime example of psychological power is Jesus Christ. Full of gratitude, kindness, selflessness, relentless dedication to the common good, honest, and full of divine wisdom. What every man should be! The man was ridiculed all of his life by "high priests" and people believed in Jesus because his actions spoke louder than their deadening words. God bless you all! Have a blessed Sunday!
Altruism is compassion, selflessness and helping others without wanting anything in return. Altruism is the principle and moral practice of concern for happiness of other human beings, resulting in a quality of life both material and spiritual. Altruism often includes generosity, self-sacrifice, helping people in need and voluntarily giving in to someone else's will in conflict with one's own. Altruism includes both the psychological will to these actions, the conscience and the behavior that comes from the will. It is about emotional compassion and the psychological understanding of the needs of others. Empathic ability is closely linked to altruistic behaviors ❤️
This video is amazing. I'm skeptical about some of the points like downplaying my achievements and all but I'll try that with smaller things and see how it goes. I stumbled on this at the right time. Great job. Keep it up. 👍👍
from this video the main point is SUCCESSSSSS, and mainly success at work....and what if I don't care about success at work, what if following this aim doesn't make me happy at all....why the hell should I doubt at my friends? This video would only bring you on the path of living alone aiming for something worthless..... Good luck to all walking on that path....world needs you, somebody should work and become very reach......
If you’re in an environment where the people are arrogant, power crazy, untrustworthy cretins, not saying a lot will only get you treated like you’re an idiot, no matter how intelligent you are. There are plenty powerful highly intelligent people but I remain most impressed by those who have the wisdom to value kindness, gentleness, honesty and patience more than any of their transient power.
"Support your boss be their right hand man". This depends on what you're made of. I've meet more sociopaths disguised as bosses than I can count. To think that I could ever become their right hand and the kind of asshole I would then be, has been enough for me to choose a different path. No matter how "good" a job may seem to be. Being an asshole isn't mentioned in the video, but should be a no-no to every self-respecting person.
We love this content, thank you for always having an answer for us ~ honestly whenever I want to learn something new, I jump on TH-cam and go straight to topthink, never a disappointment 👏
I dont credit the book to this, but taking steps like this is how I feel I turned my life around..There life lessons you learn through constant mistakes..It will get better.
"Focusing" too much on people in the hood can *also* be life threatening! 😕 Case in point: many people on both sides in 2020; the focuser, and the focusee!
@@denellwest the hoodfolk, aka hoodlums, have hoods, "and" masks now, I only hope one group's masks & hoods aren't bright white, because THAT there would be a very weird standoff! 😅😅
Nothing better than discernment sit back observe play dumb and watch people play them self right before your eyes when you play dumb or a bit lost people will feel Like they have the upper hand in the game soon or later you will see their true colors a smart man is one that plays dumb when necessary
Avoid commitments doesn’t seem to be a good thing on this list. It actually is a good thing to commit to a goal. Just keep it to yourself. Avoid committing “publicly”, not privately.
I believe the message is to be as flexible for yourself as possible and avoid needlessly painting yourself into a corner with commitments with others that aren't necessary.
1. Stand Above 2. Hide Intentions 3. Action over Arguments 4. Mind your Words 5. Cultivate Confidence 6. Hire Enemies 7. People are Selfish 8. Avoid Commitments 9. Play yourself Down 10. Support Superior 11. Stay Concentrated 12. Effortless Achievements 13. The Giant shadows 14. Set Anger Aside 15. The calm Rush
Some people have something to say others need to say something. You can move mountains in people with words like “I was wrong I am sorry” and “please tell me why your upset” or “yes I did say that and I am sorry” You can yak all you want it’s not until you face the issue and talk from the heart that you show great self and mind.
It’s crazy to know i mastered all this psychological powers by every single time I fucked up in life…. But I don’t regret none of those moments. I loved this video but thumps up
I found this to be more of guide then a rule, a couple are spot on and some are subjective. On the other hand, some go against what I believe the most important of all, to be trusted, relied upon and respected... It's up to you, the individual and the moment, to figure out what is the best method to use in the given circumstance, AND, who you are interacting with. Human interaction is not this simple.
@@imagnotv Ah the irony in your comment, you just lost phycological power because of your tedious nature to feel the need to correct, therefore feel superior. You must be an insecure soul and I feel bad for you now.
@@imagnotv We all did, about you. Thank you for your lesson in arrogance and the need for attention, teach us more. I digress.... this is the decent into how not to deal with conflict. It is however a great example of the conflict with the challenge in addressing young souls.
@@cedricwade926 The Old Testament was written in Hebrew & the New Testament was written in Koine Greek. Yeshua is our Lord's precious name in Hebrew & Iesous in Greek. JESUS is the English translation of His name.
"You'll only make enemies by proving your intelligence."
The most truth out of all 16.
You can make some decent cash along the way as well
this video should b called how to b dwight howard
"I don't have ennemies" is probably more intelligent than this
Yeah
SO FUCKING TRUE ... and I cannot play dumb enough apparently
"Talk less. Smile more. Don't let them know what you're against or what you're for."
Exact don’t act like we’re competing against eachother only then will people be more easygoing with u
that last bit is a bit questionable, where has honesty gone?
Sorry but had to disagree. If you're made for to be a good motivator or teacher. Then your silence will beat the whole purpose of your existence. #Existentialism
@@TheOpinionGuyy exactly. This video is a guy talking. Without conversation you have zero influence. Being silent is usually for sneaky people. And thinking people know not to trust them.
Narcissistic
It's quite shocking how few people know about the forbidden book The manipulation enigma
"If you wanna climb the ladder, you gotta respect the ladder"
I really like this one
whos holding the ladder?
i’m the ladder😩💦
.......and you'll need a rope too
A wise man once said "Chaos is a ladder"
@@jzanolla7419 God 😇
1) 00:16 Stand above (stand out)
2) 00:47 Hide your intention (people can make you on disadvantage position)
3) 01:44 Action Over Argument (don't waste time)
4) 02:15 Speak less (get more respect, no pointless mistake)
5) 03:00 Be Confident
6) 03:38 Hide you Enemies
7) 04:18 People are selfish
8) 04:53 avoid commit
9) 05:25 Play yourself down (make people feel smart, confident so they can do our favor)
10) 06:00 Support your superior (they can help you in the future)
11) 06:42 Stay concentrated ( focus on 1 things )
12) 07:27 Play down Achievement (make people seem it easy)
13) 07:58The giant shadow
14) 08:37 set anger aside ( stay clam)
15) 09:19 The times rush (have a plan stay on time)
16) 10:02 Calculated Value
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*15) The calm rush
"Believe it can be done. When you believe something can be done, really believe, your mind will find the ways to do it. Believing a solution paves the way to solution."
I will become a cow someday, i believe it
@@RandomVideos-yd7rw 😂😂😂
Believe me, you already are
It’s not believing something can be done that gets it done. Relentless determination (backed by the belief that you won’t give up until it’s completed) is how goals are achieved.
@@offgridliving1196 God bless you, my dear.
Maybe someone needs to hear this:
“Success is the sum of small efforts repeated day-in and day-out!!
Just like in boxing and MMA, nobody becomes a champion overnight. 💯
Indeed man, indeed
Excellent.
Atomic habit
HABITS
⌚ Timestamps
00:16 #01 Stand above
00:47 #02 Hide your intentions.
01:44 #03 Actions over arguments
02:15 #04 Mind your words
03:00 #05 Cultivate confidence
03:38 #06 Hire your enemies
04:18 #07 People are selfish
04:53 #08 Avoid unnecessary commitments
05:25 #09 Play yourself down.
06:00 #10 Support your superiors
06:42 #11 Stay concentrated
07:27 #12 Effortless achievement
07:58 #13 The giant shadows
08:37 #14 Set anger aside
09:19 #15 The calm rush.
10:02 #16 Calculated value.
This guy gets it.
I don't need to skip a second in this video lol 😂
I will definitely put that advice use
Thank you
i was looking for this comment
I almost forgot what it's like to work for a company where everything revolves around having a successful career. But damn I’m so glad I chose a different path. Relationships with people should be based on kindness. It's fucking toxic to work in an environment where everyone's choices are based on (long term) self profit.
❤️🙏
Shortcut. 1. Stand out...
2.hide ur intentions.
3.actions over arguments.
4.mind ur words.
5.cultivate confidence.
6.hire ur enemies.
7.people are selfish.
8.avoid commitments.
9.play ur self down.
10.support ur superiors.
11.stay concentrated.
12.effortless achievement.
13.the giant shadows.
14.set anger aside.
15.the calm rush.
16.calculated value.
See the full video.. This is just for a quick peek...😊
Sounds like their describing an aquarius woman I know.🤔
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*8: avoid commitments
"Comments" is differ from "commitment", number 8
@@otepsan1753 😂
A thinking person will always stand above the rest.
Ain't we all thinking tho?
Thinking is like the biggest fool. Only a wise man understands in the state of presence or being is the only way to create anything in life. Thinking exists only in past and the future, thinking does not exist in present. In present only creativity exists.
@@choudhuryz7281 ...
@@Deezwjfioskg you just overthinking our thought process
@@choudhuryz7281 zzzz
"Most people don't care how intelligent you are!"
True
Unless they think you are more intelligent. Then... oh boy!...
😅
Unless ur Einstein and people with study about you
I've had a lot of women state that they find "intelligence to be attractive".
Be tolerant with others and strict with yourself.
- Marcus Aurelius
A valuable Stoic saying my friend.
This is an excellent list.
I highly agree with:
#1 for getting promoted in corporate America,
#2 for any negotiations you should never show your true intentions
#3 not sure why people try to convince others they are wrong. People are stubborn and they get offended. However sometimes for your children and employees you need to stop them from taking the wrong path.
#7 is absolutely true. Whether it is in business or even friends if you want someone to do something there must be an incentive.
#15 Time management/critical is absolutely important to success.
#16 Pay for success, which I believe alludes to paying to trainers, tutors, education and support staff to help you reach your goals.
However I highly disagree with #6. Is the only alternative to not hiring friends/family is to hire enemies? Just hire the most qualified people with the best attitudes.
don't agree with number 1. Simply put, ur quite literally putting urself at the top of a wetworks kill squad. And you can take that fact to the bank. I urge you please to watch an interview with william pawalec watch and listen to what hes seen, knows and what happened to his best friend who had "something hot" as Mr Pawalec says. No no my friend. Honestly even if you watch it for half an hour......its only on for an hour and was only to be released after his passing. See what you think. thank you for reading.
Never argue with anyone coz winning over an argument won't get you anywhere.
I like to just understand the other persons side to see if they see something I don’t see and maybe I’ll learn something new. I always like to say oh I never thought about it that way and then say what I believe so what I say they can digest it with an open heart and not on a arguing type of emotion.
Except in a law Court.
Yeah I completely disagree when you argue your point effectively people observing the argument will see that you're right and if you can troll your enemy into making themselves look foolish it serves your purpose even better trust me I know
The only way, to win an argument is to avoid an argument.
@@redtree4140 yes. but if your boss always scream over you and stuff like that you have to stand up for your rights and fight. you got to support your boss ONLY if this kind of attitude will bring something more to you
The key things are being assertive, direct, strong willed (heart), honest/loyal, humble, and don't take shit from no one always keep your feelings to yourself and most importantly have your ducks in a row staying on top of your responsibilities whatever it is.
"Among us" made me realize most people don't care how intelligent you are and how raising voice will get you in trouble!!
Yeah.I reported an imposter and everyone thought it was me 😂😂😂
True...!
"Among us" made me realize most people don't care how intelligent you are and how raising voice will get you in trouble!!
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@@lomtimer349 "Among us" made me realize most people don't care how intelligent you are and how raising voice will get you in trouble!!
I appreciate the diversity of topics you cover related to mental health. Your channel is a comprehensive resource for anyone looking to improve their well-being.
Things are worth paying, set you anger, put a lot of effort on developing one direction, develop your confidence, make sure that the others think about them smarter than they are, support your boss, be kind to those who are lower than you and so on. Thanks for your advice. It literally conveys the better way to develop confidence and self-power
My uncle told me once as a kid, “don’t take short cuts because you will get cut short” just because I was too good at sonic riders. 😂
Nice music bro
Mjol ninja lol thank you! 😄
🤣
Play some music
Bruh I miss that game. The race for Babylon
Best said below "Sociopathy is the best indicator of executive success"
I like this statement "Let the small successes empower your self worth. Let each victory give you the courage to overcome your next obstacle." Very quotable or maybe it can be make as wallpaper or lock screen :)
It is insane because I learned to do all this my self. Still have to check my self from time to time but as long as you never give up you can make it far.
“The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love.” - Henry Miller
There's always a value that I can reflect on when it comes to reviewing mind-set videos. I feel like I can watch these types of videos countless amount of times and I still am able to reflect upon my actions and perspectives and see that there is always one that I can improve on.
Ur lucky...I can barely remember to put these suggestions into practice. Like I was taught honesty to the point of being detrimental to my self and it's become very habitual. I probably need to be hypnotized to regain my boundaries.
@@jodisherland5335 I can really relate to what you’re saying. As a kid with ADHD and a form of autism, I experienced a lot of negative behavior towards me, even though I always tried to be nice.
At some point I figured out that changing my behavior from what I considered normal, to what other people considered normal was beneficial to the way I got treated.
This eventually made me a people’s pleaser. Sure, people sometimes recognize and appreciate my loyalty and friendliness. But sometimes I feel like the more I adapt, the less people adapt to me. The more I care for the other, the less the others tend to care for me.
I already know I just need to stay more true to myself. But I’m at a point where I have no idea how to be myself, put myself first, without becoming the socially handicapped person I was as a kid.
Guess awareness is step 1. This is probably something nobody can teach you. You’ll know when you know.
@@Klementoso it's like our experiences are very similar. We must be some sort of mirror of each other or another way to look at it is i am part u and u are part me. This could be the begining of a new understanding if I or we are able to fully comprehend this concept. It's interesting I've just recently begun to understand or think of life as 9ne body and everything making up life as essential parts 9f that body and t9 see there is no differentiating between myself and another. It's still a very new perception and my old perception pops up habitually however I'm spending more n more time with tue new perception.
For those who are obsessed with being successful, this is the video for you. the rest of us, just be you.
Everyone should have an abmition to be successful
Wth. Everyone should wish being successful
Loser mentality
For the rest of you, enjoy being stepped on and oppressed by the successful…
They dnt understand you.
This is my favorite youtube video... I watch this EVERY morning on the way to work and at night . I listen to dave ramsey daily and invest consistently .. I live below my means and on a budget every month ... I’m only 21 .... APPLY yourself guys... APPLY yourself ... He said “Ambivalence is a far greater punishment than Anger” 🙏🏽‼️ One of my favorite parts
have you murdered anyone yet? good lord thats one scary response
@@charlesnelthorpe9252 meaning turning your cheek to the argument is a far greater punishment than giving a response
Hide your intentions is very important. This is an AWESOME video thanks for sharing
Somebody has to be king, it may as well be you. If you act like you're in charge, if you talk like you're in charge, if you dress like you're in charge, people will be inclined to believe you, actually, are in charge. It's good to be king. EVERYONE is afraid of something... everyone. Your self confidence is just sitting there, waiting to take charge. Do it. Ordinary is easy, everyone is doing it. Be spectacular, change the world.
"Lazy is the greatest rival in our life"
Couldn’t agree more
I’ve watched many, many TT videos and this is seriously the best one you guys have ever produced!
"Speak less to speak more" appeals to me most.
If I follow these suggestions I’ll stop being myself and become someone else. and probably end up being alone most of the time. Life isn’t actually so instrumental. However, I appreciate the speaking less and reducing commitments part.
no you wont, running after success sacrificing a dumb part of yourself is worth paying for.
@@so_dumbshu hide your intentions, people are selfish….really? You think people are dumb if they don’t agree with this? 😆 you can be smart, straightforward and successful at the same time. I agree with most of these points but not all of them….different people have different strategies towards achieving success and moreover career success is not everything in life.
@@riadhridoy7861 Everyone has a diff pov in life and I respect it. Have a good day sir.
"actions speak louder than words"
me:starts beating the person im fighting with
Me smashing the person I'm trying to educate!!
Tips:
1. Read the Atomic Habits
2. Follow the 48 laws but never turn yourself into a psycho
3. Stay committed and never let it all fade over time
matejme of power
@matejme a book by greene
But doesn't this say to avoid commitment??
@matejme this video is based on the book the 48 laws of power by robert greene. i dont reccomend reading it because if you follow its teachings you will become miserable always trying to gain psychological power over others. instead i reccomend the laws of human nature by robert greene. Same author but this book explains why people are the way they are, including yourself, (irrational, narcissistic, envy, etc.) and how to deal with the many variations of people in order for you to understand your own emotions as well as others.
@@notjocky7354 have you read 48 laws of power? im thinking about reading it quite soon but im a very calm and collected person and ill use the laws in a sensible way + i have lots of self control and i wont let it take over my mind because i know if i start to envy power ill become miserable as i wont have it since im only 14. Do you think I should still read it.. I will also read the laws of human nature and maybe master, arts of seduction. Well do you think i should still read 48 laws of power? Im asking you because you seem like you understand this more than me
*1.stand out.*
*2.hide ur intentions.*
*3.actions over arguments.*
*4.mind ur words.*
*5.cultivate confidence.*
*6.hire ur enemies.*
*7.people are selfish.*
*8.avoid comments.*
*9.play** ur self down.*
*10.support** ur superiors.*
*11.stay concentrated.*
*12.effortless achievement.*
*13.the giant shadows.*
*14.set anger aside.*
*15.the calm rush.*
*16.calculated value.*
🔑🔑🔑
Thanks for listing the 16 Laws! Small correction on number 8: avoid commitments
Thanks
yes thanks
We need people like you in each and every video
America teaches you to get over on others, its hard for kind-hearted, and honest people to be just that because dishonest people exploit these characteristics
Exactly
It’s hard to understand but sadly true
@@ventrum5552 makes perfect sense to me
_CHINA IS JUST LIKE THIS, LIVED THERE 14 YEARS_
This is generally a thing everywhere. Idk what it has to do with America. capitalism maybe but competition is literally in every aspect of life and in every human. You can be honest and competitive, strong and gracious.
These are the laws of the world of Human nature. I wish I knew this years ago but I can explore my potential fully, now. Thank you.. Robert G.
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
Psychological power comes from showing others you are independent and can get on without them yet still care for them.
If you walk four miles everyday back and forth to work and someone offers you a ride say “no thank you I am fine walking thanks” they shows them you are not afraid of discomfort and will not just change your life for a simple minute ride.
Psychological power comes from doing what others can’t and willingly.
When people see you will do what everyone else would in a heartbeat to avoid a little effort they know you will give in to all the weaknesses of regular people.
Step outside your comfort zone and people will take notice.
Psychological power is not control it’s direct integrity and independent will.
Think for yourself and do not do what is the common human nature.
best video I have watched ever on youtube. These 16 rules motivate me to get myself out of the pit hole I was in for almost 9 months after a failure. This video is the only thing I wanted to hear to get myself moving again. thanks to the creator
Probably the odd one out here, but this is a grand list of living from the ego. Which surprises me considering Mr. Greene’s connection to Ryan Holiday. I appreciate them both and a lot of good can come from living from your heart. Much more power than that of the mind🙏
I can get with the comment that you have made, I feel the same way about the the comments that was made myself.
I do all these things on the daily but I’m glad I ran into this video because sometimes they can be discouraging as the benefits don’t come so quickly. But now I feel as if I can act on them with more confidence thanks :)
Same here🕺🏽
The benefits are always quick.
These are so amazing. Way to come up with a fresh and current advice!
I do the majority of these things mostly and I think it depends on the person at the time. If I don't know a person well or have a doubt even if it's a close one, I do these things, I hide my real intentions, act as I don't care, and don't speak too much and don't act like I know anything. After that they stop being too careful with their actions and stop seeing you as a threat. So your work becomes easier and they start to show their real face. They put the fake shame aside and their inside shows up on the outside.
Most importantly: think and process information yourself, don't just eat it up. The thing about not commiting here is i think problematic in some ways. Sure, you want to be flexible in different situations and not have tunnel vision sometimes, but commiting to things is absolutely essential at certain points in life. Real growth comes from friction and from struggle and if you never commit to anything and instead just dangle around all day every day you will be sort of liked by everyone but loved by no one and you won't really have a healthy self image i think.
I don't like how this discourages loyalty and compassion completely. While such strategies may be successful they are driven by pure egotistic motivation without any humane aspects.
This teaches how to manipulate people to your will
@@omaresquivel8331 to win the rat race.
To be quite honest many empathetic ppl could use this advice to learn to set boundaries with ppl and stand up for themselves
I understand your perspective as you make a relevant point, but I’m sure an individual who has motivation without ego , who understands the true concept of Love like you and I would understand the sentiment but would use different examples and words to demonstrate.
I see an opportunity to collaborate and change the status quo (16) ✨
totally agree. this is very manipulative
"Keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer"
Damn son
“The enemy of my enemy is my friend.”
i like to think that when someone gets mad in a conversation/argument that means you lost then youre much more aware and try to not get anyone mad this includes youreself
- Stand out and get recognized, hard work alone won't guarantee power and success.
- Hide your intentions to keep power in an exchange.
- Actions speak louder than arguments, use behavior to win people over.
- Speak less to increase the power of your words.
- Cultivate confidence, it's an important part of psychological power.
- Hire enemies for clear-headed objectivity.
- People are selfish, appeal to their self-interest when asking for a favor.
- Avoid commitment to stay open to multiple perspectives.
- Mind your reputation, it's the sum of people's perceptions of you.
- Practice charisma, it's a valuable tool to have in social situations.
That's why I always read his book "The 48 laws of power" even if I already finish it
"speak when necessary, so they learn to take you more seriously" now I know why they always take my jokes seriously. D:
This is 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
Ok
Yea it's crazy how they just stole the shit n re-wrote it lol. But clearly he inspired them tho
It's crazy how the title LITERALLY SAYS "16 Laws of Psychological Power (Inspired by Robert Greene)"
@@sammythebull5300 I don’t think it said that when I first watched this video. I’m glad they finally gave credit to him.
@@dorothyrmrz Oh okay
1. Stand above
2. Hide your intentions
3. Actions over arguments
4. Mind your words
5. Cultivate confidence
6. Play yourself down
7. Support your superiors
8.
My guiding philosophy is "Always expect the unexpected". "Don't ever let them see you coming"...🙏🙏🙏
@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?
Psychological power, being very rich and not giving a toss. That's number one.
Finally someone that knows what thier talking about
🤣🤣🤣🤣...FACTUAL
You don't HAVE to be money rich to have psychological power boiz!
Money is necessary and all but you also gotta be wisdom rich!
Prime example of psychological power is Jesus Christ.
Full of gratitude, kindness, selflessness, relentless dedication to the common good, honest, and full of divine wisdom. What every man should be!
The man was ridiculed all of his life by "high priests" and people believed in Jesus because his actions spoke louder than their deadening words.
God bless you all!
Have a blessed Sunday!
@J J
For the message about the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.
1 Cor 1:18
@J J
Have a good day, I love you brotha!
We disagree but we agree to disagree,
don't make a wedge brotha.
God is about love mate!
Excellent synopsis! Just be prepared to walk over many bodies on your way to the top 🙂
That's right dear
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”- Buddha
Altruism is compassion, selflessness and helping others without wanting anything in return. Altruism is the principle and moral practice of concern for happiness of other human beings, resulting in a quality of life both material and spiritual.
Altruism often includes generosity, self-sacrifice, helping people in need and voluntarily giving in to someone else's will in conflict with one's own.
Altruism includes both the psychological will to these actions, the conscience and the behavior that comes from the will. It is about emotional compassion and the psychological understanding of the needs of others. Empathic ability is closely linked to altruistic behaviors ❤️
This video is amazing. I'm skeptical about some of the points like downplaying my achievements and all but I'll try that with smaller things and see how it goes. I stumbled on this at the right time. Great job. Keep it up. 👍👍
Nope.
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I am just reading this book and it changed my life. I am glad you have done review on this book. 48 laws of power❤
where do you buy this book
Robert Greene’s books are amazing
Except 48 laws of power, which one do you recommend?
@@shedrachobafemi9148 Mastery
You can say that again
@@shedrachobafemi9148 art of seduction, 33 strategies of war , mastery.
Shedrach Obafemi laws of human nature & then the rest of them as well im currently reading the 33 strategies of war so far im liking it
from this video the main point is SUCCESSSSSS, and mainly success at work....and what if I don't care about success at work, what if following this aim doesn't make me happy at all....why the hell should I doubt at my friends?
This video would only bring you on the path of living alone aiming for something worthless.....
Good luck to all walking on that path....world needs you, somebody should work and become very reach......
Never out shine the master,hide true intentions etc basic tatics to help one succeed
Always always ask yourself "how can I improve myself today?"and ACT on it.
I assure you, YOU are the only one that CAN!!!
From🌺 Determined to Rise
Love you..
From India
Thanks for your love and support ❤️
“Never let them know everything you know”
Especially, if they're female
I feel that,but because ? ?
@@ZFlyingVLover why she will me manipulate ???
I find that encouraging words help to build people's self-esteem
especially when it comes from friends and family
Thanks for your love and support ❤️
If you’re in an environment where the people are arrogant, power crazy, untrustworthy cretins, not saying a lot will only get you treated like you’re an idiot, no matter how intelligent you are. There are plenty powerful highly intelligent people but I remain most impressed by those who have the wisdom to value kindness, gentleness, honesty and patience more than any of their transient power.
In my many years of school it's only today that I got what I need..thanks
The 48 laws of power (by Robert Green). Great book
If you’re working excessive hours that could be an indicator of counter productivity.
🎯
Absolutely right
"Support your boss be their right hand man". This depends on what you're made of. I've meet more sociopaths disguised as bosses than I can count. To think that I could ever become their right hand and the kind of asshole I would then be, has been enough for me to choose a different path. No matter how "good" a job may seem to be. Being an asshole isn't mentioned in the video, but should be a no-no to every self-respecting person.
GREAT VIDEO, LOVE THE CONTENT, AND THANKS FOR MOTIVATING ME TO CREATE SOMETHING SIMILAR.
"If in doubt, stroke one out"
Wise words indeed!
My cousin lost an eye with this kind of influence.
Amazing advice! A great Bible for power: 48 laws of power!
We love this content, thank you for always having an answer for us ~ honestly whenever I want to learn something new, I jump on TH-cam and go straight to topthink, never a disappointment 👏
I wish these were taught at schools and colleges.
Powerful people don't want that.
This is a very good taste of what The 48 Laws Of Power by Robert Greene is like
I dont credit the book to this, but taking steps like this is how I feel I turned my life around..There life lessons you learn through constant mistakes..It will get better.
Ignoring people in the hood can be life threatening.
"Focusing" too much on people in the hood can *also* be life threatening! 😕
Case in point: many people on both sides in 2020; the focuser, and the focusee!
@@ojibwayne2896 It's a Mexican standoff.
@@denellwest the hoodfolk, aka hoodlums, have hoods, "and" masks now, I only hope one group's masks & hoods aren't bright white, because THAT there would be a very weird standoff! 😅😅
@@ojibwayne2896 If so, I won't be there to witness it.
🏃🏽♂️
Nothing better than discernment sit back observe play dumb and watch people play them self right before your eyes when you play dumb or a bit lost people will feel
Like they have the upper hand in the game soon or later you will see their true colors a smart man is one that plays dumb when necessary
Avoid commitments doesn’t seem to be a good thing on this list.
It actually is a good thing to commit to a goal. Just keep it to yourself.
Avoid committing “publicly”, not privately.
He means with people so u don’t have to owe any favors
@@lucaslomonaco9114 "Despise the free lunch"
I believe the message is to be as flexible for yourself as possible and avoid needlessly painting yourself into a corner with commitments with others that aren't necessary.
1. Stand Above
2. Hide Intentions
3. Action over Arguments
4. Mind your Words
5. Cultivate Confidence
6. Hire Enemies
7. People are Selfish
8. Avoid Commitments
9. Play yourself Down
10. Support Superior
11. Stay Concentrated
12. Effortless Achievements
13. The Giant shadows
14. Set Anger Aside
15. The calm Rush
Nice work 👏
Some people have something to say others need to say something.
You can move mountains in people with words like “I was wrong I am sorry” and “please tell me why your upset” or “yes I did say that and I am sorry”
You can yak all you want it’s not until you face the issue and talk from the heart that you show great self and mind.
It’s crazy to know i mastered all this psychological powers by every single time I fucked up in life…. But I don’t regret none of those moments. I loved this video but thumps up
Read his book. 48 Laws of Power, the first time I read it, I immediately felt intimidated.
If you have to do half of these things, you’re at the wrong company. The right place values you the right way.
Dude, I'm baffled by the vid, its almost all negative shit assuming everyone is evil.
I found this to be more of guide then a rule, a couple are spot on and some are subjective. On the other hand, some go against what I believe the most important of all, to be trusted, relied upon and respected... It's up to you, the individual and the moment, to figure out what is the best method to use in the given circumstance, AND, who you are interacting with. Human interaction is not this simple.
*than a rule. I'm only correcting you because no one else did. I think it's important to know the difference between then and than.
@@imagnotv Ah the irony in your comment, you just lost phycological power because of your tedious nature to feel the need to correct, therefore feel superior. You must be an insecure soul and I feel bad for you now.
@@Brutalgruve you learned something today. You're welcome.
@@imagnotv We all did, about you. Thank you for your lesson in arrogance and the need for attention, teach us more.
I digress.... this is the decent into how not to deal with conflict. It is however a great example of the conflict with the challenge in addressing young souls.
Both of you are arrogant.
about the 4th law, I use words not very often because im naturally quiet though still confident, when I do speak people listen a lot more and nicer
you are really helpful bro i courage in your carrier on youtube good luck and thank you for the interesting video
Everything on this list is facts I’ve implemented them all in my life & they all work 💯
@matejme
It’s simple , have discernment & you’ll be alright ✅
1 Peter 5:7 “Turn all your anxiety over to God because he cares for you.” Jesus loves you dont give up on him!❤!❤
Amen
Amen!
Jesus is a Latin name
@@cedricwade926 The Old Testament was written in Hebrew & the New Testament was written in Koine Greek. Yeshua is our Lord's precious name in Hebrew & Iesous in Greek. JESUS is the English translation of His name.
@@KTF_7 says?? Y'all so brainwashed by these white people books SMH keep making these pastors rich I can't knock the hustle
So this is a little bit of the 48 Laws power basically summon some of it up 👍
Successful people are goal-oriented people, very disciplined and abide by cosmic laws that create everything.
So much effort placed and the video is so in there cause it telss a lot bout psychological thinking about nd emotions
Ahhhhh. The key 🔑 to success is in this video! Thank you 🙏🏿
17)Be always your truth honest yourself🤗
Thanks for your love and support ❤️❤️
This video is pretty much a recipe on "How to become a full blown Narcisistic Psycopath". Well done! ;-)
It is but I’m guessing you’re not supposed to use these in day to day life
Whoever is reading this may that your talent never
waste and so will your helper never rest until he or
she finds you
Best Advices Bro Best explains with Visualisation keep it Up 👍🏻
I like to gush over something only to shrug and walk away when the salesperson starts to ply their game. So fun!
Be yourself and relax! Life is too short to take it serious.