This reminds me of what happened in Date Lab recently. (A column in WaPo). Male dater gave female dater a 4.3 and said she had to " work to get the other .7" BOY did that backfire with the commenters! They tore him to pieces!
Forensic files, Cold Case files unsolved mysteries and Dr Grande's channel.. you definitely get it impressed in your conscience that you cannot trust a damn soul.......... Excuse me if I may be so BOLD!!!!!!
Why would Emil look for a "Wet Nurse" a week before the attempted Murder... that fact alone, shows me premeditation. My judgment proves he's 100 % guilty !!.
Loving the shirt Dr G! Is it just irony or a sign you discussed this topic when I was telling a friend today that when I visit them we could go skydiving 🤔😂
Victoria wrote a book called "I Survived". It was released August 2020. She is in a new relationship now. She no longer has any contact with him in prison. Seems she has decided he was guilty as charged after all.
People underestimate denial as a strong motivator. In this case, it means admitting to yourself that you were married to a psychopath, gave birth to his kids, and that you meant so little to this person that he was willing to kill you and your kids (the attempted gas explosion would have been when kids were in the house). That’s a lot of shame, humiliation, and terror to suddenly open the floodgates to. That is part of what is so insidious and grotesque about narcissism and domestic violence; it warps the partner into conspiring against their own self.
Therapy? You cannot fix stuck on stupid. She picked and didn't look into his life...or just accepted it...then after he tried to kill her....well...no hope. Bet he has a new sex club in Prison now.
@@bthomson Those six young children don't need that sick excuse of a father. Good thing he's going to the big house. He would be a terrible influence on them.
I don't jump anymore, but when I did I was always very careful about packing my own parachute and never letting it out of my sight. Paranoid? Maybe. I didn't think anyone was out to get me, I just wanted to make sure no stupid accidents happened.
This is hardly a comparison, but my ex tried to take out a life insurance policy on me out of nowhere. I was suspicious, and looked at his phone one night and found out he had been cheating on me for years. I feel lucky to this day that I looked at his phone. He was, and still is a narcissistic gaslighter.
Sadly, it is so common, if you said that they did, I would not have been surprised. I've seen tons that have, even when it makes zero sense...for example a stay at home partner having a huge amount taken out on them (without their knowledge) and later learning about the policies and signatures being forged, etc. Nothing about a full out NPD creature could possibly surprise many at this point.
Victoria was so manipulated, that he managed to persuade her to believe HIM!! She had just had a baby for christ sake!!!! What a monster he is!! I remember this case! The parachute club had a lot to do with the evidence - the way he acted and did things that day, taking the parachute into a toilet stall and then putting it into her locker, when the jump could not be done that day... Is a HUGE indicator that he was determined that she was the only one to use that parachute. Maybe she got a brain injury too!!! Because you need to be beyond stupid to stand up for someone who tried to kill you TWICE!!
This is one of those strangely familiar stories of a malignant narcissist who is willing to go to the next level to get thrills and validations at any costs. Everything and everyone is either a tool for gratification or an obstacle to be avoided, discarded or worse, destroyed. Horrific at all levels. 🤮
We can never underestimate the power of manipulation. Falling in love puts people in a fairly vulnerable position for manipulation. Regardless of intelligence, it can happen to anyone given the right circumstances. Dr. Grande, I hope you have a fantastic weekend! Who knows you will post one video instead of two this weekend?😁 I keep waiting for the day when you will give yourself a tiny break, at least on the weekends.😉 Lovely video as usual.❤️
Narcissism is charming and toxic dynamics can be addictive. I have met narcisists like him, they are extremely smooth talkers and master manipulators. It is hard to get away from their grip. Especially for people who grew up with traumatic childhoods, for whomst the abuse may feel as love
I was bullied by my Dad and it has caused me untold amounts of mental health problems for decades. I've told my Mum about this yet she still thinks the sun shines out of my Dad's arse and treats him like a hero. She witnessed everything that happened but "doesn't remember it". Some women just flatly refuse to see anything bad with their man.
He sounds like a vile, disgusting person to me as an outsider. But these types of men can be so seductive and manipulative towards their partners that unfortunately some women cannot see the danger or choose to accept him rather than lose him. These are very complicated dynamics that most people cannot understand unless they have been intimately involved with a psychopath or malignant narcissist.
It sounds awfully like you've been through that situation. I experienced a manipulative woman to whom I was blindly attracted. It wasn't until I realised that for her sex dominated all her waking thoughts, when I came home early to find her having sex with both my next door neighbours. Rather than be ashamed she suggested I joined in, which foolishly I did. After that male or female, couples or same sex partners were turning up on our doorstep. I stuck my heels in at first but eventually succumbed to the sexual lottery that became our lives. My wife contracted Cancer in 2006 and this curtailed her activities. But right to the very end she was eager for some kind of sexual act. I still don't know to be proud of her adventurous spirit or revile her for her perversion of love.
@@richardhoward4645 My ex wanted a threesome, he was pressing me and pushing. I left before that happened. He sucked in every possible area. He was a self-centered narc, who would give me all of sorts of back handed compliments. He was talking nonsense, that would confuse me and often make me wonder if there is something wrong with him, or with me. I didn't understand what he meant. After knowing him bit better I decided that there are a lot of things that are wrong with him and it was time to run, before he made me believe that there was something wrong with me. Sometimes it is just hard to see the mountain when you are standing on it. You need a distance to see it better.
I honestly don't understand people that can do things like this and just live with themselves and look in the mirror after. I'm glad that Victoria survived. I just don't understand how someone can kill their spouse for money or for ANY reason. No amount of money is more valuable than a loved one's life. If you don't want to be with someone THEN JUST LEAVE THEM.
Some people just dont have any emotions for other people. It's all simulation and sensation's seeking. I have a "friend" like that. He knows he is a psychopath. He is very rude. People are just tools for him.
Psychopaths are incredibly dangerous. You really need to be careful with people who seem too good to be true🤷♂️ They might be normal but they also might be psychopathic.
@@SueBoo2 I'm 70 years old; if I've made it this far, I think it's safe to say that no homicide will occur... 👵🏻 however... I do have a shirt that says, "Don't pi$$ off old people, the closer we get to death, the less 'life in prison' is a deterrent." 🤷🏼♀️
What a cruel way to try to kill someone! The person would have time in the air to contemplate their death and I imagine it's painful. Ice cold 🥺 mind blowing she survived that!! Some men are so entitled.. basically tried to kill her because he didn't get enough sex?! Wow. Just wow...
How about a speculative analysis on the 1984 kidnapping of Jody Plauche by Jeffery Doucett? What made the case famous is the reaction of Jody’s father, Gary Plauche. Very interesting and chock full of potential mental health factors. Either way please keep us the amazing work you are doing. We all enjoy your videos regardless of the topics you choose.
/the nile/ denial is not just a river in Egypt.... I'm sure it's beyond shocking and some simply cannot accept the double personality of a supposed loved one...someone who was supposed to be trusted and supportive...and not try to kill you ...that would be a lot to absorb
Narcissists manipulate others to the extent that they become too uncertain of their own thoughts to function logically. It happens to even intelligent clear thinking people sadly.
Tell me you attempted to kill your wife without telling us you attempted to kill your wife. “I have a high sex drive and Victoria has a low sex drive.”
I've never heard of this case, but I was sooo glad to hear that that narcissistic monster was convicted!! He actually tried to find a nursing mother for their baby before his wife's jump.... I don't understand why she would try to protect him? Another incredible video, Dr. Grande! I hope you have a great weekend! ♡
There’s a difference between a “high sex drive” and just being downright addicted to it and having commitment issues. That’s not a healthy level of enjoyment.
I was a skydiver some years ago when my ex-wife filed for divorce. Even though I had already packed my chute for my next jump I unpacked it and checked it carefully. I also had my reserve repacked before I made my next jump. I wasn't taking any chances!
There may not have been direct physical evidence of the fact that he sabotaged the parachutes but there was direct evidence that both parachutes were sabotaged which contradicts her testimony. And there was direct evidence that he was the one who caused the gas leak. There was overwhelming circumstantial evidence, of course, as well.
Not sure what shocks more, a woman surviving a 60 mph slam into a freshly plowed field or the same woman blindly lying for her obviously psychotic husband.
It's interesting how parasitic people can find partners that let them do that kind of harm and then defend them. It's a shame that wife couldn't be put in an intervention. If Emile could harm her so easily, their children could be at the same risk.
I'd like to see your analysis of how Ian Watkins, lead singer of Lost Prophets manipulated his partners into colluding with him in the abuse of their own children.
Theres no way you can just manipulate a mother into molesting and taking lewd pictures of their own children. He purposefully sought out equally evil women to commit those horrible acts with.
He got the outcome he deserved. The jury did not find her testimony credible. You are right about the crushing end. Glad the Crown recognized what he was. Thank you for another excellent analysis. ❤️
I'm an FAA senior parachute rigger and this is horrifying. Parachute sabotage is extremely rare, probably a few cases per decade worldwide. In rare cases when a jumper commits suicide, they either fail to deploy either chute, or remove the rig in free fall - they never sabotage their own. Reserve parachutes are sealed with tamper evident thread and a lead seal which bears the rigger's 3 digit code. It is not possible to pack a reserve with two soft links missing; this is the same as slicing half of the suspension lines. Sabotaging both parachutes in 10 minutes would require extensive planning and research for a non skydiver. The tampering described here would be obvious during the gear check we are supposed to do before every jump. Such a blatant disregard for human life, and with no effort to avoid discovery, is beyond words.
Yes , I married my junior medical Doctor when I was 18 years old. We had twin boys, who were to be born when I was 19year old, but they were four weeks early, after the twins, I had a daughter, I'm now eight months pregnant. My husband and I totally love each other, more than the day we got married. He is the love of my life, and he feels the same.
@@cottontails9003 This is SO WONDERFUL to get to hear your story a bit on this Cotton Tails, so how old are you now, or how many years married? This reminds me just a bit of my own story back at that age, my husband and I dated for about a year and a half and were so VERY MUCH in love, soul mates I would say- I was one year older than him, and I ended up getting pregnant when I was 18. I was a Freshman in college, he was still a senior in High School. We both grew up STRICTLY Mormon, so this was of course a VERY big "sin", we were both taught from birth that the only REAL form of Marriage is getting married in the Mormon Temple for all Eternity (not just for "time" or "life" as Mormons believe "Regular" marriage is) and now we were not worthy to Marry in the Temple, as I was pregnant. At the time this broke my heart, I actually had been a very good girl for the most part, but we were SO VERY IN LOVE and had already committed to each other for life, I had a promise ring, we just weren't old enough to get married yet and we made a few mistakes being so in love and together every single day. Our religious leaders told us the only path forward was to give the child up for adoption to a "worthy" couple who was established and had been married in the Temple, but there was NO WAY we were giving our baby away! So we got married just in a Church in a "regular" ceremony- to most our friends and family it was a sad occasion due to the circumstances and felt more like a funeral than a wedding, but we were so in love we didn't much care, we were just so happy to be able to finally be married. And we beat all the "odds", for a long time- I had my oldest son at age 19, (he is now 18), and we had a daughter 3 years later and a surprise baby boy 7 years after that (he is now 7). For the first decade of our marriage, it was incredible, more in love Everyday, so in sync, blissful marriage is all I could call it. My Husband's mother and 3 of his sisters are Bi-Polar, and around age 28 or so and the 10 year mark of our marriage, my husband began to change a LOT. He had always had the tiniest bit of a temper, nothing out of control though, and then that changed. I stood by him through so much for as LONG as I possibly could, for another 7 years trying EVERYTHING. Eventually for the sake of me and my children, I had absolutely no choice but to separate from him about a year ago. We still aren't divorced, and I still hold out Eternal hope he can and will get the real lasting help he needs, and we can come back together. I still believe COMPLETELY in the sanctity of marriage and commitment and soul mates, even after going through several types of Hell the past few years- that is how strongly I DO believe in it and fighting for the one you love!!! It WARMS MY HEART to hear your story, and I hope and pray it stays this way for you ALWAYS, and only grows in love and happiness with each passing year! Never listen to those who say you were "too young" or the nay-sayers- you, Beautiful soul and beautiful woman, YOU know what your love and bond is between you and your wonderful husband!! Wishing ALL the love and success this life has to offer hon!! 🤗🥰💖💖 Also, REALLY hope I didn't "over share" with my personal story and thoughts, I just loved when I found this comment by you and like I said, It warmed my ❤️ so much, thanks for sharing!!
Huh, this case makes the goose bombs run down my spine. I was once married to such a psycho.... Some people we meet during our lives, we simply have to turn out back and, never look back and, do so before it's too late..
I’m a scuba diver. My former husband removed weight from my rig at depth. Being under weighted, I started to rise to the surface. An uncontrolled ascent can result in depth. Luckily, I kept my wits about me and slowed my ascent. I yelled at him when we surfaced and silently vowed never to get back in the water with him. I still don’t know whether removing weight from my rig was an irresponsible, bone headed mistake or a murder attempt. It’s really hard to deal with evidence that someone you loved and trusted with your life would do something so horrible.
Was this the icing on the cake incident that made you file for divorce? So very sorry to hear your trust was shaken. That must have been a terrifying experience!
Two universal truths: love is blind and gravity has a 100% success rate%. Thank you for the intriguing speculation on what could have happened in this case. As always, your hard word is greatly appreciated.
"If a husband trying to murder his wife twice isnt enough to kill the romance...." wtf? LOVE your straightforward, measured delivery, Dr. Grande! I find it incredibly comforting.
If there was nothing wrong with her main chute, as she later claimed, then why cut it away? An error in judgment? No, she was far too experienced to make that mistake. If she wanted to protect her husband, she could have just claimed that she wanted to end her own life -- but she didn't say that, did she?
And if there was nothing wrong, why were there pieces missing on the main chute? Like she suffered brain damage in the fall. Maybe she was afraid for her children’s lives at the hand of their father if she didn’t defend him. 🤔
Hi Dr. Grande. He sounds like a typical psychonarc obviously. He's not worth worrying about. She didn't have enough self confidence. The best solution would have been to leave permanently and move on. Thanks for another good analysis Dr. G. Love and peace to you and your family, peace, Janine Smiley😀😎🤩😍🙂
Dr. Grande - I was surprised not to find an analysis of Leonard Lake and Charles Ng. I’m fascinated by serial killer teams and would love to get your take on their crimes and on serial killer pairs in general. Thanks!
And here, Victoria shows us multiple ways to take the fall for it. 😖 Thank you for continuing to help others identify narcissistic manipulation, Dr. G. It’s far too common a circumstance and only seems to get worse and farther-reaching as a narcissist proceeds through life unchallenged. Have a wonderful weekend! 🤗
Narcissistic manipulation to the extreme! These people sure are puzzling. Couldn't believe when he said to the two women, "OK, which one of you wants me?" WHAT? 🤯 I'd have slapped him Will Smith style, and left.....just for him saying that! People are strrrrange af!
If Victoria states SHE tampered with the gas, wouldn’t that pose a risk to her children? In that case, why was she allowed to keep her children. Why wasn’t a child protective agency not asked to evaluate both parents fitness to parent their children? I wonder if she would have continued to cover up the truth of the events if custody of her children was at stake. The big fail isn’t so much that she stopped cooperating to the point that she was helping him, but that certain actions weren’t taken to review the children’s home environment and safety.
Not anything to do with this story, (although there was a parachute involved!) but quite funny! Around 20 years ago, a man went up in a glider as a birthday present and after a while, the glider was hit by an unusually powerful bolt of lightning and the wing exploded! He got out OK and said afterwards, "I've always wanted to go on a trip in a glider and do a parachute jump, but not necessarily on the same day!
The things people do to people they have claimed to love is beyond me. I will wake up, decide I've had enough for whatever is going on and I'll walk away. This is why I don't have children, the things people will do in the name of their children are abhorrent.
? Are you saying Victoria's actions are abhorrent? Or that emil did this for his kids? No idea how this is your takeaway, this case seems to just show a highly manipulative and selfish man taking advantage of the infatuation people feel in the start of relationships. Care to.clarify?
I'm a little disappointed with this assessment because I think Victoria was horribly manipulated by this sociopath. Like many wives and girlfriends that choose not to press charges because they are either scared or manipulated.
His poor deluded wife Victoria. I hope he never gets out of prison. If he does, and if he has this high level of manipulative skills, he's going to be a danger to others.
This video is missing vital information. As detailed in her book she now feels that he did try to kill her and that he is a narcissistic psychopath who had her under his spell.
One of the few times the reasonable doubt is compelling; it's entirely plausible she was attempting to both end her own life and set him up over the misery he was causing. When she survived, she had a change of heart and tried to reverse course, but it ended up being too late. I DO believe he was actually guilty, because what she said about the parachutes made no sense compared to the analysis that was performed, but there's a lot to speculate on here.
I’m a grad student and I happened to be watching one of your statistics analysis videos as an aid w/my project, only to realize I was also listening to your true crime review on auto play. Love your videos! 😅
@@bthomson I need to go back and watch ALL of those, I've watched many of his older videos, but there are still many I haven't been able to get to yet- something to look forward to- maybe I'll try one older video each day along with the NEW video he posts each day, and EVENTUALLY I'll hit them all- I only discovered the good Dr. about 6 Weeks-2 months ago, so I do have a lot to catch up on! Thanks for making this GREAT suggestion to everyone B Thom.- my fellow GG 4 Life! Lol 😂🤗💖
Thanks for covering this. I remember when this case happened as it got a lot of coverage here in the UK. You filled in some missing gaps that weren't really explained at the time, rather just the facts were covered. Doing some further research Victoria now realises what this guy did. Must have been devastating for her. She is now rebuilding her life. These were her words taken from a newspaper interview freely available on the web "It took a lot for me to finally recognise that he must have done it. How could someone I'd married, loved and had children with have done something that despicable".
I have 5 sons and 4 daughters. My worst nightmare is one of them getting a partner like this guy and not having the self-esteem to give them the boot. Cheated on her, tried to murder her, and she still defended him in court. I'm not trying to judge her because I know these things are complicated, but honestly, sometimes you just need to cut a person loose. I'm 30 and I've been with my wife for 16 years. Don't get me wrong it hasn't always been easy but we've never tried to kill eachother at least. I've read and watched about loads of cases like this and it just makes me despair. When worst comes to worst the children should come first. Also, life insurance seems to play a massive role in a lot of these spousal murder conspiracies. At this point I'm thinking you'd probably be better off without it for Christ Sakes. I dunno, maybe I'm just lucky but it makes me feel incredibly blessed. Even though I'm not religious or anything. I guess this is why I watch this content if I'm being honest. Of course the analysis from an expert like Doc Grande is interesting but say me and my wife have an argument I'll watch a video like this and think: "Christ, at least we aren't these people" That probably sounds incredibly selfish but it is what it is. I feel bad for the victims and their families, but it makes me appreciate my life and how lucky I am so much more. It's one of those weird things where I feel sad for the victim but it also makes me appreciate what I've got.
@@AmyLSacks Nah, we didn't marry lol. We had kids at age 14. We were nearly 15 though. Her birthday is in April and mines in May. We only got properly married like 3 years ago haha. I always just called her my wife as a term of endearment. So we didn't "officially" marry until 3 years ago but she's always been my wife.
Yes, great case study, thank you. From personal experience, when under the control of an abusive narcissist for some time, it's extremely difficult to come to terms with the reality that one must "betray" their narcissistic, extremely dangerous partner and expose the truth. The loss of sense of self and the fear of exposure and then not actually being believed, combined with the fact that the stronghold is so great that all personal decisions are second guessed, and the reality that this would forever change what has been the norm, despite it not being healthy or safe, all of this control makes leaving and exposing the narcissist so challenging. Necessary all the same, but the moving forward part is brutal.
It's not against any legal rules to appeal to a jury's emotions. Many people are convicted on this basis when there is inadequate physical evidence linking the defendant to the crime. In fact, many times a jury will ignore physical evidence and make an emotional decision on its own. (Consider the jury in People vs. O.J. Simpson, which ignored highly reliable DNA evidence and let O.J. walk.) Regarding Emile Cilliers, I believe he was properly convicted.
Of course, Emile was a psychopath, but why do smart women fall for these characters? Emile gives me the creeps just looking at him. Of course, that doesn't make him guilty, but maybe you should do a session on "Why do women fall for these maniacs?"
Victoria may have been cognizant of the price she would pay later for any testimony against Emile. Hence, her changed testimony on the stand. Fortunately he is in prison, without any blame pointed toward her. She played it well. Never underestimate the level of retaliation these people are capable of, even from behind bars.
How could Victoria NOT know that Emile had had 2 sets of families already? She was way up and out of his league. What on earth? There is no man that fabulous. Sorry Victoria.
It's amazing how many women will try to cover up crimes committed by their husbands..Emile is a narcissistic selfish hedonist. I am glad that he was convicted and sentenced. Justice was served! ⚖
very interesting content !! as always .....please cover the Kimberly Proctor"s case from langford ...it is a very sad case ..with two horrible teens that murdered her for really no reason ..it touches on so many things that teens deal with and shows what happens when two psychopaths get together ...
There’s always “a reason” for anything anyone does. A “reason” is why people decide to do anything they do, every move one chooses to make is because of the “reason” behind it. Example: “Why did you decide to get out of bed?” “The “reason” was, because I had to get ready for work.” If people didn’t have a “reason,” they wouldn’t be able to decide things, they’d be sitting there like a rock. Those girls killed the other because of a “reason,” such as jealousy, etc.. There’s no such thing as “no reason.”
There was no reason to kill the first wife, so young and gullable, no reason to kill carly, she was still giving him what he wanted, no reason to kill the sex workers, no reason to kill Stephanie bc she was new, only one needed removed was Victoria who was probabaly the most financially well off and mist educated.
I strongly disagree with Dr. Grande. I think the evidence against him is very compelling. And I believe he is guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. This one is common sense to me.
Another great analysis Dr Grande. You are seriously educating me. I haven't got much formal education and had not heard of narcissism until recently except in the context of Narcissi, the Greek God (I think 🤔) who fell in love with his own reflection in a pool. There are so many facets to a personality - who knew 🤔! I seem to have found an unwelcome diagnosis for myself amongst them all. I think I am a bit of an avoidant personality type. People are downright scarey 😱!!
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In all seriousness, why would ANYONE answer positively to “which one of you wants me?”
This reminds me of what happened in Date Lab recently. (A column in WaPo). Male dater gave female dater a 4.3 and said she had to " work to get the other .7" BOY did that backfire with the commenters! They tore him to pieces!
Thank you! Heard that and **disc skips**
I know right 🤣
@@bthomson.7 inches
You don't know people.
What's with these sex-addicted people? Can't they just get involved in positive hobbies or a part time job?
Ikr the obsession is SO bloody boring!..I mean there's so much more to life!❤
That was funny!
Good afternoon Dr G,have a awesome weekend!!
Lost soul....don't worry, we have found you!! 🥰🤗💖
Oh Shay! You have a discerning heart! 💐
Forensic files, Cold Case files unsolved mysteries and Dr Grande's channel.. you definitely get it impressed in your conscience that you cannot trust a damn soul.......... Excuse me if I may be so BOLD!!!!!!
Why would Emil look for a "Wet Nurse" a week before the attempted Murder... that fact alone, shows me premeditation. My judgment proves he's 100 % guilty !!.
No sympathy for anyone in this case.
Loving the shirt Dr G! Is it just irony or a sign you discussed this topic when I was telling a friend today that when I visit them we could go skydiving 🤔😂
It's neither.
I was wondering when someone would talk about this!!! How horrific!!!!
Ps always nice to see my favorite Doc!
There's no doubt in this, let alone reasonable doubt.
"a local sex club"....wait, wha??
ETA "sex motivated multi tasking"... Best explanation of unfaithfulness, male or female, that I 've ever heard
Just a reminder I'm not diagnosing anybody in this video; only speculating about what could be happening when a parachute fails to open like this.
WAO 😂
@@laabogadadeldiablo_ hey thanks for the emote!
Always love your comments on here BigZebra, they often make me laugh or smile! Happy Friday! 😁
@@shayb413 Thank you for taking the time to say so! You are awesome!
Mutual admiration society!
Victoria wrote a book called "I Survived". It was released August 2020. She is in a new relationship now. She no longer has any contact with him in prison. Seems she has decided he was guilty as charged after all.
Good for her.
"I survived and i lied" would have been better
I know!
I would be scared to death to marry her,and to sleep in the same bed with her...
@@fevkaladeninfevkiI agree . She has serious issues
People underestimate denial as a strong motivator. In this case, it means admitting to yourself that you were married to a psychopath, gave birth to his kids, and that you meant so little to this person that he was willing to kill you and your kids (the attempted gas explosion would have been when kids were in the house). That’s a lot of shame, humiliation, and terror to suddenly open the floodgates to.
That is part of what is so insidious and grotesque about narcissism and domestic violence; it warps the partner into conspiring against their own self.
Very insightful comment!
This is a great comment 👍
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best explanation ever
" it warps the partner into conspiring against their own self" That's the best description of it that I've ever read!
The original jump was supposed to be in front of her friends and family, meaning he intended to have her die horribly in front of them. What a monster
"Sex motivated multi-tasking", this has to be an entry into either the Oxford English or a urban slang dictionary. 🤣
Both!
She has a Horrible Case of Denial!! Everything points to him!! Maybe Therapy would help her!
the way cult stuff works maybe....
Therapy? You cannot fix stuck on stupid. She picked and didn't look into his life...or just accepted it...then after he tried to kill her....well...no hope. Bet he has a new sex club in Prison now.
It wouldn’t help him, that psychopath.
@@bthomson Those six young children don't need that sick excuse of a father. Good thing he's going to the big house. He would be a terrible influence on them.
Maybe a brain would help her.
What kind of hold did he have on his wife to get her to agree to jump out of a plane 5 weeks after giving birth? Hell no!
Got to remember how many times she had done this on her own! She might even have been somewhat addicted?
I have to wonder about anyone who jumps out of a perfectly good airplane, sorry.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 As the guy in the video noted, it's not that dangerous. Over 2 million jumps, only one death, due to sabotage.
I don't jump anymore, but when I did I was always very careful about packing my own parachute and never letting it out of my sight. Paranoid? Maybe. I didn't think anyone was out to get me, I just wanted to make sure no stupid accidents happened.
This is hardly a comparison, but my ex tried to take out a life insurance policy on me out of nowhere. I was suspicious, and looked at his phone one night and found out he had been cheating on me for years. I feel lucky to this day that I looked at his phone. He was, and still is a narcissistic gaslighter.
Sadly, it is so common, if you said that they did, I would not have been surprised. I've seen tons that have, even when it makes zero sense...for example a stay at home partner having a huge amount taken out on them (without their knowledge) and later learning about the policies and signatures being forged, etc. Nothing about a full out NPD creature could possibly surprise many at this point.
Damn...thats interesting. A fake guy
Thank God you did!
I’m so glad you got out of that.
Bravo to you for trusting your instincts, confirming them, and getting out. Very smart. Glad you're with us.
Our instincts have never failed us. Good on you.
Victoria was so manipulated, that he managed to persuade her to believe HIM!! She had just had a baby for christ sake!!!! What a monster he is!! I remember this case! The parachute club had a lot to do with the evidence - the way he acted and did things that day, taking the parachute into a toilet stall and then putting it into her locker, when the jump could not be done that day... Is a HUGE indicator that he was determined that she was the only one to use that parachute. Maybe she got a brain injury too!!! Because you need to be beyond stupid to stand up for someone who tried to kill you TWICE!!
She chose him.
This is one of those strangely familiar stories of a malignant narcissist who is willing to go to the next level to get thrills and validations at any costs. Everything and everyone is either a tool for gratification or an obstacle to be avoided, discarded or worse, destroyed. Horrific at all levels. 🤮
Nice.
Brilliant comment!
I think guys like this who can charm so many women have demonic power.
@@joeking433 It's not just guys it's girls too.
@@vaskylark Definitely!
We can never underestimate the power of manipulation. Falling in love puts people in a fairly vulnerable position for manipulation. Regardless of intelligence, it can happen to anyone given the right circumstances.
Dr. Grande, I hope you have a fantastic weekend! Who knows you will post one video instead of two this weekend?😁 I keep waiting for the day when you will give yourself a tiny break, at least on the weekends.😉
Lovely video as usual.❤️
What has this man got that keeps women coming back to him? It’s not looks, honesty, or money
Narcissism is charming and toxic dynamics can be addictive. I have met narcisists like him, they are extremely smooth talkers and master manipulators. It is hard to get away from their grip. Especially for people who grew up with traumatic childhoods, for whomst the abuse may feel as love
I was thinking the same thing!
I was bullied by my Dad and it has caused me untold amounts of mental health problems for decades. I've told my Mum about this yet she still thinks the sun shines out of my Dad's arse and treats him like a hero. She witnessed everything that happened but "doesn't remember it". Some women just flatly refuse to see anything bad with their man.
Lack of self-esteem and needy people. If you are one and you cross a guy like this, you are screwed
He sounds like a vile, disgusting person to me as an outsider. But these types of men can be so seductive and manipulative towards their partners that unfortunately some women cannot see the danger or choose to accept him rather than lose him. These are very complicated dynamics that most people cannot understand unless they have been intimately involved with a psychopath or malignant narcissist.
Yup
Charm/ charisma is a red flag
It sounds awfully like you've been through that situation. I experienced a manipulative woman to whom I was blindly attracted. It wasn't until I realised that for her sex dominated all her waking thoughts, when I came home early to find her having sex with both my next door neighbours. Rather than be ashamed she suggested I joined in, which foolishly I did. After that male or female, couples or same sex partners were turning up on our doorstep. I stuck my heels in at first but eventually succumbed to the sexual lottery that became our lives. My wife contracted Cancer in 2006 and this curtailed her activities. But right to the very end she was eager for some kind of sexual act. I still don't know to be proud of her adventurous spirit or revile her for her perversion of love.
@@richardhoward4645 jesus christ my dude
@@richardhoward4645 My ex wanted a threesome, he was pressing me and pushing. I left before that happened. He sucked in every possible area. He was a self-centered narc, who would give me all of sorts of back handed compliments. He was talking nonsense, that would confuse me and often make me wonder if there is something wrong with him, or with me. I didn't understand what he meant. After knowing him bit better I decided that there are a lot of things that are wrong with him and it was time to run, before he made me believe that there was something wrong with me. Sometimes it is just hard to see the mountain when you are standing on it. You need a distance to see it better.
I honestly don't understand people that can do things like this and just live with themselves and look in the mirror after. I'm glad that Victoria survived. I just don't understand how someone can kill their spouse for money or for ANY reason. No amount of money is more valuable than a loved one's life. If you don't want to be with someone THEN JUST LEAVE THEM.
your candor feels like a song from all of our good hearts.
Poetic!
Some people just dont have any emotions for other people. It's all simulation and sensation's seeking. I have a "friend" like that. He knows he is a psychopath. He is very rude. People are just tools for him.
Truth.
His wife wasn't a "loved one" and supposedly it's easier to kill them than deal with divorce, child support, alimony, loss of half the assets, etc.
The things people do to each other will never cease to amaze me ....I can't imagine doing that to somebody
Psychopaths are incredibly dangerous. You really need to be careful with people who seem too good to be true🤷♂️ They might be normal but they also might be psychopathic.
EXACTLY
I can; I've imagined it many times (but I wouldn't actually do it)!
Neither do I … I mean … I swear the fridge and the TV set fall in her bath by accident
@@SueBoo2 I'm 70 years old; if I've made it this far, I think it's safe to say that no homicide will occur... 👵🏻
however... I do have a shirt that says, "Don't pi$$ off old people, the closer we get to death, the less 'life in prison' is a deterrent." 🤷🏼♀️
What a cruel way to try to kill someone! The person would have time in the air to contemplate their death and I imagine it's painful. Ice cold 🥺 mind blowing she survived that!! Some men are so entitled.. basically tried to kill her because he didn't get enough sex?! Wow. Just wow...
Those injuries will almost certainly (or have already!) cause pain and suffering! Later on she may come to regret her support of this monster!
@Lila Pearson just how he expected sex every night is alot .. he acted like it was his birthright and like it was her duty. 🙄
insurance money
Not just men that feel entitled. Plenty of us women can be too.
And he almost escaped justice, too! Glad he didn’t. Victoria needs someone to sit her down and explain the truth to her, poor thing.
How about a speculative analysis on the 1984 kidnapping of Jody Plauche by Jeffery Doucett? What made the case famous is the reaction of Jody’s father, Gary Plauche. Very interesting and chock full of potential mental health factors. Either way please keep us the amazing work you are doing. We all enjoy your videos regardless of the topics you choose.
I've barely started this video & I'm already looking up jody plauche the video titles are crazy
that’s a great suggestion, i’d love to see what the doc has to say about that one.
@@kastynm.9004 HorrorStories channel, you're welcome.
Boy, this guy, Emile, is a real prize.
He was a creepy person. There’s a documentary on this case. Thanks Dr.Grande.
what's it called
It is hard to believe that Victoria would defend him.
/the nile/ denial is not just a river in Egypt.... I'm sure it's beyond shocking and some simply cannot accept the double personality of a supposed loved one...someone who was supposed to be trusted and supportive...and not try to kill you ...that would be a lot to absorb
I truly don’t how these women can live in denial even if it ends up killing them.
Narcissists manipulate others to the extent that they become too uncertain of their own thoughts to function logically. It happens to even intelligent clear thinking people sadly.
Probably, men like him, know how to choose such women... They wouldn't dare to treat like this every woman, such men first test the waters.
Attractive man, womens brains switch off...
@@silvacleo329 You mean, "test" the water.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 Lol! Yeah, exactly.
Churning out a ton of content!! Always appreciated ☺️
Tell me you attempted to kill your wife without telling us you attempted to kill your wife.
“I have a high sex drive and Victoria has a low sex drive.”
Complete non sequitur.
I've never heard of this case, but I was sooo glad to hear that that narcissistic monster was convicted!!
He actually tried to find a nursing mother for their baby before his wife's jump.... I don't understand why she would try to protect him?
Another incredible video, Dr. Grande!
I hope you have a great weekend! ♡
There’s a difference between a “high sex drive” and just being downright addicted to it and having commitment issues. That’s not a healthy level of enjoyment.
I was a skydiver some years ago when my ex-wife filed for divorce. Even though I had already packed my chute for my next jump I unpacked it and checked it carefully. I also had my reserve repacked before I made my next jump. I wasn't taking any chances!
Wow, she must've been SOMETHING ELSE for you to even have had to be worried on such a level- YIKES!! Glad you're ok!! 🤗
You had a sense that you were sleeping with the enemy 👹
Yeah I know what you’re talking about… When my mother tells me she loves me…
I check the facts!!
Glad you landed on your feet!
That a mom makes her child feel like that is heartbreaking!
Hope you also took her off your life insurance as well. You were wise to be so cautious.
There may not have been direct physical evidence of the fact that he sabotaged the parachutes but there was direct evidence that both parachutes were sabotaged which contradicts her testimony. And there was direct evidence that he was the one who caused the gas leak. There was overwhelming circumstantial evidence, of course, as well.
Not sure what shocks more, a woman surviving a 60 mph slam into a freshly plowed field or the same woman blindly lying for her obviously psychotic husband.
It's interesting how parasitic people can find partners that let them do that kind of harm and then defend them.
It's a shame that wife couldn't be put in an intervention. If Emile could harm her so easily, their children could be at the same risk.
I'd like to see your analysis of how Ian Watkins, lead singer of Lost Prophets manipulated his partners into colluding with him in the abuse of their own children.
Theres no way you can just manipulate a mother into molesting and taking lewd pictures of their own children. He purposefully sought out equally evil women to commit those horrible acts with.
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He was also charged with animal pornography. WTFH? I didn't even know that was a thing
I think if your “significant other” has to say: “Which of you want me?”
The correct answer from both women is: “Not me.”
Thankfully one of us said thanks but no thanks
He got the outcome he deserved. The jury did not find her testimony credible. You are right about the crushing end. Glad the Crown recognized what he was. Thank you for another excellent analysis. ❤️
He would have killed one or many people if he hadn’t been convicted.
"the Crown" :)
Sheep.
I'm an FAA senior parachute rigger and this is horrifying. Parachute sabotage is extremely rare, probably a few cases per decade worldwide. In rare cases when a jumper commits suicide, they either fail to deploy either chute, or remove the rig in free fall - they never sabotage their own.
Reserve parachutes are sealed with tamper evident thread and a lead seal which bears the rigger's 3 digit code. It is not possible to pack a reserve with two soft links missing; this is the same as slicing half of the suspension lines. Sabotaging both parachutes in 10 minutes would require extensive planning and research for a non skydiver. The tampering described here would be obvious during the gear check we are supposed to do before every jump. Such a blatant disregard for human life, and with no effort to avoid discovery, is beyond words.
Not a religious man but, damn, does anyone believe in the sanctity of marriage anymore?
Hearing ALL these cases recently, it would seem the answer to that is NOOO. Hopefully there are still SOME who do!! 🤗❤️
Happily married 32 years.🤗
Probably not, considering the divorce rate.
Yes , I married my junior medical Doctor when I was 18 years old. We had twin boys, who were to be born when I was 19year old, but they were four weeks early, after the twins, I had a daughter, I'm now eight months pregnant. My husband and I totally love each other, more than the day we got married. He is the love of my life, and he feels the same.
@@cottontails9003 This is SO WONDERFUL to get to hear your story a bit on this Cotton Tails, so how old are you now, or how many years married? This reminds me just a bit of my own story back at that age, my husband and I dated for about a year and a half and were so VERY MUCH in love, soul mates I would say- I was one year older than him, and I ended up getting pregnant when I was 18. I was a Freshman in college, he was still a senior in High School. We both grew up STRICTLY Mormon, so this was of course a VERY big "sin", we were both taught from birth that the only REAL form of Marriage is getting married in the Mormon Temple for all Eternity (not just for "time" or "life" as Mormons believe "Regular" marriage is) and now we were not worthy to Marry in the Temple, as I was pregnant. At the time this broke my heart, I actually had been a very good girl for the most part, but we were SO VERY IN LOVE and had already committed to each other for life, I had a promise ring, we just weren't old enough to get married yet and we made a few mistakes being so in love and together every single day. Our religious leaders told us the only path forward was to give the child up for adoption to a "worthy" couple who was established and had been married in the Temple, but there was NO WAY we were giving our baby away! So we got married just in a Church in a "regular" ceremony- to most our friends and family it was a sad occasion due to the circumstances and felt more like a funeral than a wedding, but we were so in love we didn't much care, we were just so happy to be able to finally be married. And we beat all the "odds", for a long time- I had my oldest son at age 19, (he is now 18), and we had a daughter 3 years later and a surprise baby boy 7 years after that (he is now 7). For the first decade of our marriage, it was incredible, more in love Everyday, so in sync, blissful marriage is all I could call it. My Husband's mother and 3 of his sisters are Bi-Polar, and around age 28 or so and the 10 year mark of our marriage, my husband began to change a LOT. He had always had the tiniest bit of a temper, nothing out of control though, and then that changed. I stood by him through so much for as LONG as I possibly could, for another 7 years trying EVERYTHING. Eventually for the sake of me and my children, I had absolutely no choice but to separate from him about a year ago. We still aren't divorced, and I still hold out Eternal hope he can and will get the real lasting help he needs, and we can come back together. I still believe COMPLETELY in the sanctity of marriage and commitment and soul mates, even after going through several types of Hell the past few years- that is how strongly I DO believe in it and fighting for the one you love!!! It WARMS MY HEART to hear your story, and I hope and pray it stays this way for you ALWAYS, and only grows in love and happiness with each passing year! Never listen to those who say you were "too young" or the nay-sayers- you, Beautiful soul and beautiful woman, YOU know what your love and bond is between you and your wonderful husband!! Wishing ALL the love and success this life has to offer hon!! 🤗🥰💖💖 Also, REALLY hope I didn't "over share" with my personal story and thoughts, I just loved when I found this comment by you and like I said, It warmed my ❤️ so much, thanks for sharing!!
Huh, this case makes the goose bombs run down my spine.
I was once married to such a psycho....
Some people we meet during our lives, we simply have to turn out back and, never look back and, do so before it's too late..
Same. Sadly I didn't get out quite soon enough. Luckily survived but he's currently serving a 13 year prison sentence
I’m a scuba diver. My former husband removed weight from my rig at depth. Being under weighted, I started to rise to the surface. An uncontrolled ascent can result in depth. Luckily, I kept my wits about me and slowed my ascent.
I yelled at him when we surfaced and silently vowed never to get back in the water with him. I still don’t know whether removing weight from my rig was an irresponsible, bone headed mistake or a murder attempt. It’s really hard to deal with evidence that someone you loved and trusted with your life would do something so horrible.
Report it to the police. It might save another woman's life. Do you want that on your conscience?
What did he say immediately afterwards?
So glad you caught on to that. As a former diver I know how dangerous that can be. Nice to know you out witted that pos.
Was this the icing on the cake incident that made you file for divorce? So very sorry to hear your trust was shaken. That must have been a terrifying experience!
Was it life insurance
Why is it always these gross looking guys that do this? Good Lord, it's not worth it!
Two universal truths: love is blind and gravity has a 100% success rate%.
Thank you for the intriguing speculation on what could have happened in this case. As always, your hard word is greatly appreciated.
"If a husband trying to murder his wife twice isnt enough to kill the romance...." wtf?
LOVE your straightforward, measured delivery, Dr. Grande! I find it incredibly comforting.
If there was nothing wrong with her main chute, as she later claimed, then why cut it away? An error in judgment? No, she was far too experienced to make that mistake. If she wanted to protect her husband, she could have just claimed that she wanted to end her own life -- but she didn't say that, did she?
And if there was nothing wrong, why were there pieces missing on the main chute? Like she suffered brain damage in the fall. Maybe she was afraid for her children’s lives at the hand of their father if she didn’t defend him. 🤔
Hi Dr. Grande. He sounds like a typical psychonarc obviously. He's not worth worrying about. She didn't have enough self confidence. The best solution would have been to leave permanently and move on. Thanks for another good analysis Dr. G. Love and peace to you and your family, peace, Janine Smiley😀😎🤩😍🙂
Stuck at the hospital, so glad this just got posted! Now I have something great to watch and pass the time
Hope you’re okay!
Get well soon!
Please feel better VERY soon sweetness!! 🤧🤒😷💖💐🥣
Hope your okay.
Wishing you spicy food (if you like it🤔😇)!
Dr. Grande - I was surprised not to find an analysis of Leonard Lake and Charles Ng. I’m fascinated by serial killer teams and would love to get your take on their crimes and on serial killer pairs in general. Thanks!
Those two killers did horrific things, I remember that case! 💔
How can a guy have 6 children from three women and one on the way and not care about their well-being 🥴
It is just mind-boggling.
Heard Victoria being interviewed on Women's Hour, BBC radio 4 not long ago, she now acknowledges his guilt and that she was under his spell....
OMG, you are so right. My ex even try to tell me what to say in court at my divorce hearing.
I remember this case. Poor deluded Victoria, in thrall to a worthless predator. Glad to see you back in pink Dr Grande! 🇬🇧
And here, Victoria shows us multiple ways to take the fall for it. 😖 Thank you for continuing to help others identify narcissistic manipulation, Dr. G. It’s far too common a circumstance and only seems to get worse and farther-reaching as a narcissist proceeds through life unchallenged. Have a wonderful weekend! 🤗
Hi Anna. - Not nearly enough negative consequences had come his way for sure!😖
Narcissistic manipulation to the extreme! These people sure are puzzling. Couldn't believe when he said to the two women, "OK, which one of you wants me?" WHAT? 🤯 I'd have slapped him Will Smith style, and left.....just for him saying that! People are strrrrange af!
A woman should always feel that she has a way out whether it be a job or a savings account or her mom!
@@LDiamondz 🤣
@@epicmercury333👍 Both women should have slapped him. Really, who says that? SMH.
If Victoria states SHE tampered with the gas, wouldn’t that pose a risk to her children? In that case, why was she allowed to keep her children. Why wasn’t a child protective agency not asked to evaluate both parents fitness to parent their children? I wonder if she would have continued to cover up the truth of the events if custody of her children was at stake. The big fail isn’t so much that she stopped cooperating to the point that she was helping him, but that certain actions weren’t taken to review the children’s home environment and safety.
Sorry I'm late, guys: I got held up in traffic. Did he diagnose anyone?
🤔 Sex hungry?, I guess he tried to make a Emile out of every female relationship.
Not anything to do with this story, (although there was a parachute involved!) but quite funny! Around 20 years ago, a man went up in a glider as a birthday present and after a while, the glider was hit by an unusually powerful bolt of lightning and the wing exploded! He got out OK and said afterwards, "I've always wanted to go on a trip in a glider and do a parachute jump, but not necessarily on the same day!
Oxcart - Cute! 🎯
Thanks, Dr. Grande.
I've never heard of this case before.
Happy Friday! I hope you have a lovely weekend!!!
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Y'all, South Africans are good people! it's the Emiles of this world that ruins it for all of us!
And Oscar Pistorius.
It's not all ruined with nice people like you!💐
@@JFDA5458 do t get me started on that guy! My goodness!!!!!
@@bthomson you are sweeter than honey. Thanks :)
As Norm Macdonald would say: “this guy is a real jerk!“
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The things people do to people they have claimed to love is beyond me. I will wake up, decide I've had enough for whatever is going on and I'll walk away. This is why I don't have children, the things people will do in the name of their children are abhorrent.
? Are you saying Victoria's actions are abhorrent? Or that emil did this for his kids? No idea how this is your takeaway, this case seems to just show a highly manipulative and selfish man taking advantage of the infatuation people feel in the start of relationships. Care to.clarify?
I'm a little disappointed with this assessment because I think Victoria was horribly manipulated by this sociopath. Like many wives and girlfriends that choose not to press charges because they are either scared or manipulated.
His poor deluded wife Victoria. I hope he never gets out of prison. If he does, and if he has this high level of manipulative skills, he's going to be a danger to others.
Thanks for the continuously reasonable content!
This video is missing vital information. As detailed in her book she now feels that he did try to kill her and that he is a narcissistic psychopath who had her under his spell.
She completed 2,600 jumps? She would have to jump daily for over 7yrs..
One of the few times the reasonable doubt is compelling; it's entirely plausible she was attempting to both end her own life and set him up over the misery he was causing. When she survived, she had a change of heart and tried to reverse course, but it ended up being too late. I DO believe he was actually guilty, because what she said about the parachutes made no sense compared to the analysis that was performed, but there's a lot to speculate on here.
How many suicides have you ever heard of like this? Most women use pills.
Great timing! I'm just wearing my new Dr Grande T shirt! I'm the envy of everyone I meet! Huzzah! Happy Weekend Dr G and everyone.😊
I’m a grad student and I happened to be watching one of your statistics analysis videos as an aid w/my project, only to realize I was also listening to your true crime review on auto play. Love your videos! 😅
If anybody doesn't realize how many scholarly videos Dr. Grande has made, they should really check out his older work! Highly impressive!
@@bthomson I need to go back and watch ALL of those, I've watched many of his older videos, but there are still many I haven't been able to get to yet- something to look forward to- maybe I'll try one older video each day along with the NEW video he posts each day, and EVENTUALLY I'll hit them all- I only discovered the good Dr. about 6 Weeks-2 months ago, so I do have a lot to catch up on! Thanks for making this GREAT suggestion to everyone B Thom.- my fellow GG 4 Life! Lol 😂🤗💖
You have a treat in store!
More and more, I'm glad I live alone.
People are getting crazy.
Always interesting.
Thank you.
Peace 💕🇺🇲
MFR - Hope you have at least a pet? It is often nice to just do as you please!
@@bthomson
Thank you for thinking of my goodwill.
Yes, I have a little dog and a crazy cat.
Peace
Thanks for covering this. I remember when this case happened as it got a lot of coverage here in the UK. You filled in some missing gaps that weren't really explained at the time, rather just the facts were covered. Doing some further research Victoria now realises what this guy did. Must have been devastating for her. She is now rebuilding her life. These were her words taken from a newspaper interview freely available on the web "It took a lot for me to finally recognise that he must have done it. How could someone I'd married, loved and had children with have done something that despicable".
I have 5 sons and 4 daughters. My worst nightmare is one of them getting a partner like this guy and not having the self-esteem to give them the boot. Cheated on her, tried to murder her, and she still defended him in court. I'm not trying to judge her because I know these things are complicated, but honestly, sometimes you just need to cut a person loose. I'm 30 and I've been with my wife for 16 years. Don't get me wrong it hasn't always been easy but we've never tried to kill eachother at least. I've read and watched about loads of cases like this and it just makes me despair. When worst comes to worst the children should come first. Also, life insurance seems to play a massive role in a lot of these spousal murder conspiracies. At this point I'm thinking you'd probably be better off without it for Christ Sakes. I dunno, maybe I'm just lucky but it makes me feel incredibly blessed. Even though I'm not religious or anything. I guess this is why I watch this content if I'm being honest. Of course the analysis from an expert like Doc Grande is interesting but say me and my wife have an argument I'll watch a video like this and think: "Christ, at least we aren't these people" That probably sounds incredibly selfish but it is what it is. I feel bad for the victims and their families, but it makes me appreciate my life and how lucky I am so much more. It's one of those weird things where I feel sad for the victim but it also makes me appreciate what I've got.
Yet another important positive outcome of Dr. Grande's videos! At least we are not THOSE people!
You married at age 14 ?! o_0
@@AmyLSacks Nah, we didn't marry lol. We had kids at age 14. We were nearly 15 though. Her birthday is in April and mines in May. We only got properly married like 3 years ago haha. I always just called her my wife as a term of endearment. So we didn't "officially" marry until 3 years ago but she's always been my wife.
In the military (I was a US Army Airborne Combat Military Police Officer) we call parachutes "Aerial Delivery System".
He's not an alpha male.
Just cannot get people who defend their abusers.
whole story aside there is no way that other person in the UK who had their parachute sabotaged did it himself.
What makes you say that?
What a quote Dr. Grande! Their toxic relationship. It will be an exciting ride but the result will definitely have a definitive and crushing end.😆😭
Shame on you!
Shame on you!
@@caroleminke6116 🤣🤣 You obviously missed the joke. I'm not responsible of how you perceive something 😏
Yes, great case study, thank you. From personal experience, when under the control of an abusive narcissist for some time, it's extremely difficult to come to terms with the reality that one must "betray" their narcissistic, extremely dangerous partner and expose the truth. The loss of sense of self and the fear of exposure and then not actually being believed, combined with the fact that the stronghold is so great that all personal decisions are second guessed, and the reality that this would forever change what has been the norm, despite it not being healthy or safe, all of this control makes leaving and exposing the narcissist so challenging. Necessary all the same, but the moving forward part is brutal.
wow, that's a wonderful and almost poetic ending.
Good day, Dr. Grande!🙋🌵🪴🌵🪴🍀 How are you doing this sunny day? Very well, hopefully! Thank You! Hi, everybody!☺️🌞🌚🌝🌺🍀
@Jaclyn Ann VLOGS!💚💚 Aww thank you! pretty good!🌸💐🌛🌜♥️♥️♥️
It's not against any legal rules to appeal to a jury's emotions. Many people are convicted on this basis when there is inadequate physical evidence linking the defendant to the crime. In fact, many times a jury will ignore physical evidence and make an emotional decision on its own. (Consider the jury in People vs. O.J. Simpson, which ignored highly reliable DNA evidence and let O.J. walk.) Regarding Emile Cilliers, I believe he was properly convicted.
Guess she wasn't grounded in reality afterall.
Of course, Emile was a psychopath, but why do smart women fall for these characters? Emile gives me the creeps just looking at him. Of course, that doesn't make him guilty, but maybe you should do a session on "Why do women fall for these maniacs?"
Victoria may have been cognizant of the price she would pay later for any testimony against Emile. Hence, her changed testimony on the stand. Fortunately he is in prison, without any blame pointed toward her. She played it well.
Never underestimate the level of retaliation these people are capable of, even from behind bars.
How could Victoria NOT know that Emile had had 2 sets of families already? She was way up and out of his league. What on earth? There is no man that fabulous. Sorry Victoria.
" Passionate alpha male soldier and sex addict". 😅
Suggesting a woman should perform such an extreme sport just five weeks after giving birth is crazy, and a tell tale sign imo.
It's amazing how many women will try to cover up crimes committed by their husbands..Emile is a narcissistic selfish hedonist. I am glad that he was convicted and sentenced. Justice was served! ⚖
With the internet it is much more likely that the wrong doings of a person will become known to others they try to sweet talk and fool!
very interesting content !! as always .....please cover the Kimberly Proctor"s case from langford ...it is a very sad case ..with two horrible teens that murdered her for really no reason ..it touches on so many things that teens deal with and shows what happens when two psychopaths get together ...
Whats with the multiple periods after every sentence?......
@@richinyv1 I have a brain injury and I find it helps me get my thoughts down better when I am typing
@@griffin2263 I'm so sorry you've had to go through that!! Anything that helps you express yourself, more power to ya!! 🤗🥰💖
There’s always “a reason” for anything anyone does.
A “reason” is why people decide to do anything they do, every move one chooses to make is because of the “reason” behind it.
Example: “Why did you decide to get out of bed?” “The “reason” was, because I had to get ready for work.”
If people didn’t have a “reason,” they wouldn’t be able to decide things, they’d be sitting there like a rock.
Those girls killed the other because of a “reason,” such as jealousy, etc..
There’s no such thing as “no reason.”
More proof you shouldn't jump into a relationship with just anyone.
Haha, "JUMP" Into a relationship with just anyone- Good one William!! 🥰
Pun intended? Lol.
There was no reason to kill the first wife, so young and gullable, no reason to kill carly, she was still giving him what he wanted, no reason to kill the sex workers, no reason to kill Stephanie bc she was new, only one needed removed was Victoria who was probabaly the most financially well off and mist educated.
It is amazing to me that anyone at all would be attracted to Emile. Sorry, I just don't see why these women would have fallen for this putz.
I strongly disagree with Dr. Grande. I think the evidence against him is very compelling. And I believe he is guilty beyond a reasonable doubt. This one is common sense to me.
Another great analysis Dr Grande. You are seriously educating me. I haven't got much formal education and had not heard of narcissism until recently except in the context of Narcissi, the Greek God (I think 🤔) who fell in love with his own reflection in a pool. There are so many facets to a personality - who knew 🤔! I seem to have found an unwelcome diagnosis for myself amongst them all. I think I am a bit of an avoidant personality type. People are downright scarey 😱!!
HOWWWW does a person survive that drop??? I fall off a barn and die instantly, what the he||?