my best friend keeps posting vid about all her friends and about how she loves them but she never talked about me that way i think she is starting to hate me and im starting to hate her to but i also cant lose her
It's gonna be fine, I promise. Just keep it going! If they can't see you for who you are, I can! You are wonderful person who has a whole life ahead of them! Don't give up!❤️ I'm always here for anyone who needs it! Everyone is amazing, you are all perfect in my eyes!❤️
I know how you feel :( a few weeks ago my best friend met someone online wich became her online bf, but for some reason the guy hated me and started talking crap behind my back. And not to long ago my bestie dumped me because of him
I feel like my best friend doesn’t enjoy my company anymore She always acts different in front of this other girl in my class and she looks so much more happy with her I’ve done so much for her but I guess it was all for nothing, huh…
I’m finding that recently I’m the one falling back, I’m the second option, Im no longer her favorite. It hurts. So bad. I can’t help but cry every time I think of all of the memories we have had together, and she’s out there creating new once’s with someone else.
Btw I know this was 3 months ago but... Relatable. I've been her bestie for 8 years. And them we changed schools(we both changed to the SAME SCHOOL, luckily..) We met some nice ppl there and they are our friends now. But this was only 4 months ago.... How could she replace me with someone she met literally 4 months ago????!!! I'm never the first person they are gonna talk to yk? I'm just the second one... Nobody rlly talks to me. Now everyone has a bestie except me....
having this weird moment in your life when you feel like they dont love you as much anymore because of small things and theyre going to find someone else who will fill in those small things. im always afraid ill never been enough and that other person has everything i already am and... more..and is better.. Update: They left me for someone else. Some times I wish my intuition wasn’t so right.
That's too relatable. Your Intuition tells you "something wrong. It's too good to be real. They're pretending. They'll change their opinion about you. They're using you. They'll leave you " And you give yourself a benefit of a doubt, but eventually intuition was right, and you're left with nothing but disappointment, sorrow, pain and dread.
1st song- Me and the Birds by Duster 2nd song- Jealous by Eyedress 3rd song- Rises the Moon by Liana Flores 4th song- Young by Vacations 5th song- Stars will Fall by Duster 6th song- Washing Machine Heart by Mitski 7th song- ARE WE STILL FRIENDS? by Tyler, the Creator 8th song- Just Take My Wallet by Jack Stauber's Micropop
The fear of being replaced by the people you hold dear the most 💔 especially if it happend before. Or them simply losing interrest, getting bored of you, or finding better people, forgetting you.... To everyone feeling the same atm, you are not alone. And those who replace you are the ones losing. Don't let people who don't deserve your company ruin your mood. You'll find the people that actually care. Untill then stay strong, you'll be alright. Vent all you want here if it makes you feel any better
to the person reading this, It’s been hard for you, I know, and it makes me sad that you don’t see yourself in the way I see you. Sometimes they are things in life that cause us to lose ourselves, and the way you have is so unimaginable painful. I miss your smile, the way your eyes light up the whole room just by the sound of your laughter. I miss the way you accepted the way you look in the mirror without cursing yourself out about how ugly you look. I miss the way you didn’t think of yourself as a failure because everyone makes mistakes, we all have flaws and we all aren’t perfect. It’s painful to see that no one around you seems to see the pain through your eyes, but, stranger, I do, I see how heavy your heart is and how comforting the sadness for you might be, how afraid your heart is of happiness because it disappears in the end, right? You don’t know how much impact you have in this world and it’s sad to see that your demons fight against you and want to take over you. Because you do make a change, it’s something so simple and little that brightens up someone’s whole world, it can be a small smile from your lips, the way you look at things you’re passionate about, the way you make yourself eat even though it’s been hard for you lately, the way you zoom out and go in your own world, you brighten up my world by reading this, it means a lot to me that you’re here, existing, but I don’t want you to just exist, you deserve to feel alive. You deserve to get up in the morning and feel good about yourself. You deserve to feel something- to feel every damn second alive in this lifetime. It’s heartbreaking that you think you’re not capable of being loved because you are, I love you through all my words and I hope you let it happen in your heart. Love is scary, I know, maybe your heart had been broken once and since then you wanted to be rather numb than feel ever again, it hurts me how you punish yourself, does it not deserve love? Because YOU DO deserve love, please forgive yourself, it’s not your fault that the demons want to take over your beautiful heart. You’re not a bad person for distancing yourself from others, but you deserve someone to talk to, you deserve someone to listen. I am listening, you can tell me what’s wrong. It’s everything, isn’t it? There’s something pulling your heartstrings on the ground and no one seems to understand how misunderstood you feel, it’s heartbreaking to know that I am behind the screen and can’t give you a hug, that’s why I will give you a big warm virtual hug and send you lots of love :). You matter. You are worthy. You are loved. You deserve good things. You deserve someone to listen. You deserve to eat and drink. You deserve to feel good and alive. You deserve to smile. You deserve a hug. You deserve to be all the things you want to be because you deserve to have and feel good things happening to you and have a fulfilled life. I know I might not know you personally but I care about you so much, I write this because I want you to stay here with me, I want you to hold on a little longer because you matter so much to me, because I will not let you give up on yourself. I want you to see that you should not give up on yourself because you DESERVE GOOD THINGS. I want you to look back on the time when you were a kid, you didn’t give up when you tried to swim for the first time, you didn’t give up when you tried to walk for the first time and fell, you never gave up on yourself, you always kept on pushing forwards, so why can’t you now? I know it’s tiring, your mentally tired, but don't your younger self deserve good things? look back at your eyes that used to be full of hope, look back on those dreams. Don’t let yourself fall, you deserve better. We will both fight, I will fight for you. I won’t let those demons get to you. You can hold on to me, I won’t let you down :). Whenever you feel lonely, then look at the sky, I always look at it and think about you. Yes, you, because it makes me happy that there’s someone looking right back, maybe we can’t see each other but I can feel your presence here with me and that’s enough for me because I am glad your heart is beating and you’re still fighting. You’re so much stronger thank you think, you didn’t leave your spot on this earth even if you wanted to, you belong here, even though it doesn’t feel like it when you don’t feel like belonging then build your own home here, put all your love in it and dreams. Think of you as a star when you feel alone, you shine because your heart is good, no matter what mistake you made, no matter about the past you had, you’re one of the stars that shine bright in the universe because you’re heart is beautiful, that’s why the demons in your mind want to have it. As one of the stars you see other stars, maybe they have felt the same way as you do at some point in their life, but they lighten up the universe with each other’s presence. You’re a star for me, maybe you don’t see it yourself but I can see it, you’re beautiful from inside and out, your body is beautiful the way it is. You make me happy by reading this, you make me feel something by your presence, and when you can make me feel that way then you also make other people feel that way about you too. I hope you stay for yourself and don’t let your story get written by others but by yourself, it’s your story, not theirs. As you can see, I say a lot of “I hope” because I have hope for you even if you don’t have it for yourself, I see hope in you even though you might want to give up. That’s why I hope you won’t see the world in darkness and will see it colorful again, I hope I will give you a glimpse of hope and make the world you see a bit colorful for today. My favorite color is yellow, and I hope the next time you see the color yellow you will think about my words. If someone left you then don’t blame yourself, don’t think you weren’t enough, don’t lower yourself for someone who couldn’t see the awesomeness in you. If you lost someone I am so sorry for your loss, they want you happy, I hope you don’t feel guilty or regret because you were there, you spend enough time with them, they want you to be happy. They are in a good and safe place now. If someone broke your heart then I am so sorry that they couldn’t see the way you look so beautiful because of the heart you have. Anyone who gets to be with you doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they are :). If you aren’t accepted at home or in general then I am so sorry that you have to deal with someone/ something you shouldn’t be ashamed of, I accept you and support you, I accept you as a human being no matter what race, religion, nationality, skin color, or sexuality you have. You’re safe here with me :). You’re not useless, you’re not a burden to anyone. You’re not a problem, you’re human and your feelings are valid. You’re not being dramatic. Please don’t starve yourself, you deserve food and to drink, I know it’s hard. It hurts to see that you’re in so much pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I am sorry no one is noticing, I wish /hope I could take your pain away for today or even for a moment while you’re reading this. If no one told you, I am so proud of you, you’re reading this and it’s enough for me to be proud of you because you’re here and that’s all that matters to me. If it’s the night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s the day for you, don’t start it with such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such a mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water every day in the morning, and so on. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s the evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course, you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self-care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re so strong for breathing despite the pain, I know you will make it :) I believe in you. All I want for you is to stay here, I really mean all my words, even if there is a lot of unsaid things I want to tell u and my text is getting longer and longer, I want you here. I hope one day your smile will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. You can let go for today, I got you, you can cry your heart out as much as you want, but don’t let it tear you down and let your emotions control you by giving up. Crying is not a weakness. If you still feel alone I dedicate you to a song as your friend. “Dusk till Dawn- Zayn feat. Sia (I prefer the slow version)” I hope you can think of me and will remind yourself of my words, I will for sure think of you. In case no one told you and you’re unsure yourself, you’re a good person and I am so happy you’re here. So please don't give up. I hope this is enough to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. Enough with beating yourself up for today, okay? Life for those who couldn’t smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug-like it's your last one. If you read all of it, until tomorrow my friend :) have a good day and a great year.
it’s been a lil tough time, and Jesus Christ you know your lonely when a random message from the internet gets you to cry and smile 💀 Thank you so much for this tho, this truly means a lot. Your a wonderful person for this
everyone in my family loves her more, i used to be the favorite but they like her more. she’s done so many rude things to me in front of my whole family and they still like her.
I'm starting to feel somewhat like I'm getting replaced by one of my other friends over the past few weeks. I used to always feel so happy and comfortable with my group of friends but now it just feels like I'm just there and barely even getting people's attention/intrest. Not to mention I'm starting to feel really insecure of myself because of this and like I'm nothing but someone they'll eventually just toss aside.
I was always the one people were talking to and then she came along and literally became the new me of that makes since.. she has the same name but every time someone says it its always “oh sorry I was talking to her”
thisss. we all game together, but i’m quiet the whole time while i listen to them all laugh. it hurt when they said “i forgot we were in squads” because i was so quiet, they were just so consumed in how happy all three of them were together that they forgot about me.
Just those moments when you can feel the person whom you trusted with your life slowly slipping away. When you know they've found someone better. And all the pain from knowing that maybe, you were never enough. You were never enough for them. How the hour long calls turn to barely a text to complete silence. But after everything, you still love them, because you don't know what you'll do if you don't. The scars that turn to walls so high, you'd jump before they fall. And then they come back to you, only to hurt you again. All without realizing. But can you ever say no? You still love them after after all.
"But after everything, you still love them, because you dont know what you'll do if you dont" has tears streaming down my face. Its such a beautifly simple way to perfectly express such a complex emotion
//vent, swearing (im sorry i just rlly wanted to talk abt this somewhere) i had this best friend in 2021 (lets call her 'g'), we were like super close. we had 6 hour calls everyday and we shared inside jokes, and i loved her so much (platonically, of course). one day i start talking to this guy in class and she decides to befriend him too. obv i had no issues w that, until they started becoming super close. they had thousands of messages after just talking for a few days. it made me jealous, and after that, we were never rlly the same anymore. we invited him to our friend grp (consisting of 7 excluding him) and he became close w my ex best friend in that friend grp too. after a while, my mental health started to decline, and only two people in that friend grp helped me: my partner, and the friend grp creator (lets call him 'd'). tbh, i did not like the creator at first. i found him rlly annoying. but i think i misjudged him, bcs he was rlly sweet and understanding abt my entire situation. he treated me way better than she did. i helped him through a breakup from a toxic relationship throughout the summer, and as classes resumed, he fell for some girl in the batch who i was friends with. she treated him badly when they got into the relationship, and his mental health was... really bad. i didn't know how to help s, im just awful at comfort. so he apparently asked help from g. and now they are so close, and me and d don't talk anymore. i find it rlly sad, i shared such good memories with both of them, and i cared abt them so much, but i couldn't do much to help them bcs i was struggling too, and i didn't know what to do. im happy for d, g is such a great friend to him. but i hate her so much. ppl always and i mean ALWAYS pick her over me, and they blatantly say they prefer her. what made me hate her the most was that during nov 2021, when i cared abt her SO MUCH and admired her as a friend, she went "best friend" hunting in the batch because she was getting tired of me. THE TIME I TRUSTED HER MORE THAN ANYONE. all those vents and rants... i trusted her... she said i could tell her anything... but it was apparently too annoying for her?? shes so popular and pretty and shes student council, and it pisses me off how when i vented to d on how i hated how ppl always favored her, he promised me he would never be like those ppl, but here we are now. and its all my fault. im a shitty best friend and a shitty person in general. i wish i could fix my past errors, but there's nothing i can do now. i hope d is happier, but for g... fuck you.
My best friend and me have been like glue for almost three years. She went to a camp that I could not go to bc it was too much money, but she met this girl and now they are calling like every night having fun.And now it never seems to be just me and her. I miss you vivi
I want to disappear. I can’t take it anymore. My closest friend has replaced me with my ex friend (who was very mean to me.) and now I have no one. He was always there for me, I told him everything. If only I could disappear. Maybe everyone will be happier. Happy that a burden like me is gone. Why am so lonely..What have I done..? I did nothing wrong. I just want someone who can listen to my thoughts. Why do I always get replaced..?
Sorry for lill vent(love the playlist): Ever since she's in a different class from me she's been avoiding me..I waited for her in the entrance of our school but she just waved at me and goes to her *other* friends. Her face doesn't even shows like a hello to me when she waved at me. 4 years for this? Sure I did see your new friend has a better taste than me sometimes I just don't want to talk to you sometimes I don't even want to wait to walk with you anymore after school I just wished we never met before most times yes I want your attention I want to share everything to you to spent every minutes with you to do everything with you but you just not there even. Are we "best friends" or just "friend"? Or even "strangers" again at this point? I don't wanna lose you I want every single bit of attention you have for me. I need to stop being too loyal and protective at this point
Vent. My bestfriend past away a year ago and I found never replace him. But I ended up self isolating myself. I've become a stranger to my friend group and my family and I dont get along. I'm doing a little better now tho, I've been making friends online and we've been playing minecraft and stuff but I feel empty still. I'm currently sleeping in my car because of the whole family thing and mentally it feels like a load off my shoulders to be out of that house.
I’m so sorry that happened one of my friends died and it was so hard on me so I can understand to a piont but I will never get it fully I hope you have an amazing life
I love her too much, man we were matching and everything and now she’s matching with another boy, and that’s fine, it’s my fault for being jealous even tho she’s not mine and she’s aromatic, but man I just feel like I’m getting replaced, idk if it’s me but she speaks more to another boy and I don’t get fast replies anymore, she kinda ignores half the shit I say and she sends all the stuff she would send to me to another boy, and maybe I thought I was special to her but maybe I’m not and that’s how she treats everyone, man this world is just a bunch of bullshit why won’t I stop falling in love with everyone I see, I don’t want that, I’d love to be just friends, I’m just jealous and when people treat me too nice I fall in love because I think that’s what they mean by being nice to me, is this caused by anything? Cause I asked for help and they told me to take a break from her, but I’m scared she won’t text me and she’ll just become more close with the other boy, and I’ll be forgotten, yk? I just wish times could go back in time when we were close and there was no one between us. Is it me? I have a feeling it is, please help. I’m literally going insane.
(sorry for my English, it's not my first language). We've been best friends for 14 years. She left me for my own birthday. She used to often tell me a lot of bad things about me, but I tried not to pay attention to it. but after she took my friends away on my birthday, making me the third extra (I don't know the reason, but it seems to me that she secretly hated me and only pretended to be my friend...), and replaced me with her friend, who she has known for only 3 years (because this “new friend” has rich parents who paid for my friend's trip to another country...), I don't even know how I feel. hatred, resentment, pity? I don't understand when I firstly listened to this playlist, I didn't even think it would happen….. I can't believe it.
Imagine your best friend who you’ve known for almost 7 years, starts talking to more people, making more friends, befriending your *enemy*.. and before you know it, sending texts about wanting space, and from that, ignoring me, and not doing a thing with me, getting mad for distracting him while he turns back to you and messes around with other friends. Talking to your crush (I know this isn’t bad it just makes me jealous), and now? Your just the substitute friend. You always will be.
the first time i got replaced by my friend that we knew each other’s like 4 years replaced me because i just don’t like to play that game with them so they just find new friend who want to play that game with them in that time i feel so mf bad because that is first time I got replaced and the second time we know each other like 1 year so I didn’t care really much it still feel bad well THAT TIME MAKE ME SO ANGRY BECAUSE THEY JUST COME AND TALKED TO ME LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED AND JUST ASKING ABOUT THE HOMEWORK so i just “nah why don’t you ask your BEST FRIENDS “just like that it’s make me feel so good If u guys have story like mine in your life,I know it hard to forget about them but you can just let it go well i not good at make people feeling better but I hope u guys have the best life that u guys ask for (I’m not good at English sorry if make me look like idiot )
We have been friend since the womb, just recently introduced her to my other friend and they started talking….than talking more without me…..then just stopped inviting me to everything….yeah…great…
Thank you for this video now I don't feel alone my close friend is stealing my best friend and now I know it's not just me feeling horrible witch sucks becuse I trust her more than anyone she knows everything including my weaknesses. It hurts, and I feel replaced by both of them because they found new better friends, and now I feel like it's hard to love me. It really toughened me up. I'm glad I don't cry anymore, but I've also been hurt too much to cry, and it doesn't help. Sorry for the long vent. Thank you for reading this. You are loved, and if you need to vent to me, I am here, and I will respond as fast as I can. I love you, and you are not alone in this journey.❤
dude, try to get out of that friendship. you aren't being as cared for as much as they say that they do. find people who actually place effort into a bond with you.
i hate her sometimes can't even realize that she's being used yet she still picks her now she sometimes acts like I'm not there when she is around, it's hard. Update she unfriended me and when I asked why she just said idk
Vent: I've always hated my parents. They were never there for me. :( I vent to a really close friend of mine and my lover. (Their genderfluid) God, I love them both so much. They've always been there for me. I always vent to them and they comfort me and tell me how they're proud of me for not commiting and making it so far in life. I've always hated my body. If I tell my parents I've got three more disorders, I'm gonna have to go to more therapy. I hate talking to strangers. So I can't trust my parents anymore. I'm a huge crybaby. My life is a huge mess. I'm just trying not to sh anymore. I almost starved myself. I'm fine tho! :( No one notices except for those two people. They actually CARE.. My family is transphobic and homophobic so uh, I can't talk about my relationship
Everyone i know is slowly drifting away from me a i just want one person i can talk to and has time for me, i feel like im the problem in everyone lives and nobody wants to hangout or talk to me. And everyone that is close they act like its a chore and none of my friends seem to like me but only make fun of me and i have been creating a fake profile of my self and i was happy with it but i have realized its to late and i will never be able to connect with anyone i want to and i feel like im just spiraling down into nothingness and having no point in living i just want one friend, one person i can open up to, one person that will make time for me, one person that asks me to do stuff, i just want a…… friend
honestly advice for this would be so appreciated, basically my best friend for around a year and a half who has made me feel so much more confident etc got introduced to my old bsf, now at first i had no problems with them except for the fact that all of this started ON MY BIRTHDAY. i had them both over yk. they would ignore everyone else that day and just hang out together and lets know that my old bsf had a habit of becoming very close to people i held dear and pushing me away from them hence why i dont consider her close anymore. As of recently ive talked to my bsf about it and she knows that i dont want to be pushed away, i know i cant control her and im honestly scared to do anything about it incase she thinks i come off as controlling again which to be fair i was being really loose and not caring about any of her negative actions at the time she called me controlling blocked me and claimed she had done it as a joke. she makes me feel so loved though and she has a tough life so i dont want to leave her. anyway old bsf doesnt know about any of this but continues to leech onto bsf and i CANNOT get bsf alone unless were in class. they rub eachothers presence in my face such as like "You do realise we talk EVERY DAY right?" (Those were said to me by old bsf) and "Oh yeah i was with (----) all weekend! Let me tell you how fun it was" it hurts alot. Ive sat there for continuous nights sobbing and rethinking my decisions and hating them both for what they make me feel and my family knows, they try to support me but its really alot. my bsf sh and im worried to leave her if i have to and i KNOW old bsf will turn on her and i dont want to see her get hurt but its not a fun situation. ive given up alot for bsf. ive never EVER hated anyone as much as i hate old bsf in my entire life and its sad to me because when old bsf wasnt popular she got bullied and i was the one who stuck by her and stood up for her. now shes a pickme, liar and turncoat so, any and all advice is SO welcome. Sorry for the vent
hey, i hope you’re doing better, but if not, heres some advice thats probably not good, but i feel really bad for you. is there anyone you trust that you can talk to about it? if there is, definitely do, but make sure they are trust worthy and care. cause when a similar situation happened to me, i went around and told a lot of people that i shouldnt and it turned into an even bigger issue. so please, try and find someone who you can talk to about it. work on yourself as well. spend time for yourself and try to feel better by caring for yourself. if you can, reach out to other friends or people in your class that you may talk to and try and get closer with them. the more people you have the better, you dont have to be tight with them but as long as you at least have a few people that you can talk to really helps a lot. if not, try and make some friends but dont get too attached to them. if you cant do any of this- i think you said your family is supportive- talk to them, or ask them for a therapist or a guidance counselor or someone that can just listen to your problems. and at one point, too, you have to confront both your bsf and ur old bsf- but separately. just know it does get better, and i believe in you. :)
Vent: To keep this short I am very emotionally attached to my best friend and she says she is too. But recently she started hanging out with another friend of mine alone, and they never ask me if I want to come, but when they hang out with me alone they immediately ask if the other can come. I have been best friends with her since ages, and I lashed out at her a couple of times but she forgave me and did the same. Now I just feel hurt, they are replacing me with each other and I don't what to do. No matter how many times I talk with her, she promises to change but doesn't god, I hate this.
I've been friends with this person for 2 years and now they're at a diff school and they made a new friend 1 week ago who is perfect for them....i'm slowly being left out and forgotten about :]
My friend straight up told me how she was getting close with her in a short amount of time than me and how she trust her more than me. Idk why shes telling me. My bff and i have been friends for 5 years but after i introduced her to my bff she doesn't talk to me anymore. Makes me wonder if i am really that easy to replace
My childhood and my only closest friends are leaving me for a random girl that we've known for only 3 years. What happened to us, I wish I can go back in time to save those precious moments...
My best friend just told me we’re done there’s nothing I can do to fix it it hurts the most especially when you’ve been friends for more than half of your life
I’m being replaced by a girl , she’s more outgoing then me, not so sensitive around grief like me. Mentally well, but no my best friend dosent want me anymore , it’s very clear she;she dosent even hang with me anymore, she’s now constantly making jokes about my dad dying more than usual. Calling me a lesbian for no reason at all. “You feeling cutie today (my name)” , like you can obviously see I’m struggling and when you go and replace me with someone you’ve know for a couple months..? It’s like I’m not even there anymore, the talker into the listener.
Hey, Same here. Once the school year started my friend group went to one school and I went to another. They replaced me with a girl who looks like me, has almost the same name as me and had my fun personality. I’m a gc with all of them (including the girl) and I don’t talk much it in. Heck they don’t even realize I’m there. They only text me separately when they need someone to vent to or everyone else is busy. It’s sad because I thought these people were my forever people
My only best friend,the one who makes my day worth it at school and outside the building is replacing me,I think. This girl,let’s call her C.She is very pretty and perfect looking girl.They became best friends,they eat together,hold hands,make homework together,laugh together ecc.. Now,i’m not saying that I don’t want my best friend to have other friends but it’s just that she stopped talking to me.She does sometime but it lasts 2-5 seconds at least?We don’t go out that much as before,I try to talk to her but she just finishes the conversation saying ‘yeah ok bye’ then she walks to C.I remember when one day I kept a free chair for her to sit next me while we listened to our theatre teacher but she looked away and smiled at C and then she sat next to her… The only thing that I miss it’s my best friend.
time stamps 0:00 me and the birds = duster 1:33 jealous = eyedress 3:35 rises the moon = liana flores 6:17 young = vacations 9:25 stars will fall = duster 11:21 washing machine heart =mistki 13:30 are we still friends = tyler the creator 17:56 just pass my wallet = jack stauber bye bye
!Vent! Recently i had to leave my old friendship group purely because of 1 person.I do still speak to 4 of the people from said friendship group however my new group consists of me,a new girl,someone from old friend group and someone who we had a mutual hate for each other.im perfectly fine with being friends with my new group aside from the fact i feel like im being pushed away by all of them.current it feels like my only friend is my cat i had another friend but theyre more interested in their partner than talking to me.I understand i am a sensitive and genuinely soft person but they clearly dont realise that.they meake fun off me and then claim its a joke with people who clearly dont like me due to the fact they told me to kms ect.i dont mean to talk about stuff like this online but i have nobody else to go to. my mother stopped paying for therapy and all my friends have found other friends. at school i just sit on the benches with my headphones on.i got told i ate like a pig so i stopped that too.im just so tired of everything...
He told me he isnt into me romantically anymore and that the feeling just kind of faded but that we'll always be best friends. Now he's hanging out with my longest friend who ive known since i was like 6, doing all the things we did with eachother before. He stays up talking to him after he's already said goodnight to me. He talks to me only when my other friend isnt around. He's in the clearest possible way replacing me and neither of them will admit it. Nothing feels worth it anymore. I dont feel much of anything at all. I miss being happy so much.
I don’t want them to know that I hate them. I just want them to know that I’ve got alot happening, and sometimes I can’t always have full-conversations or moments like before. But slowly they got tired, and is now better off with other more better friends than I was. i still think of you as my closest friend even if we don’t talk much anymore. I’m sorry for not always being there.
Mine started talking to this guy and now she has replaced me with him and it hurts watching it , it hurts knowing she replaced me after I’ve been there for her for so long , so many years of friendship gone…
my best friend is my friend from 6 years old then when i turn to 8 she leave my school for 3 years then when i turn to 11 i got to her class when i saw her i got surprised then i found her with another friend 😞😞😞 i cry when i writed this 😭😭😭😭
it sucks getting replaced my depression got worse and well my best friend was there at the start but after a while she started to be more distant and know i guess im kinda just there in the background it hurts she started to hang out with another person and know i just watch them it hurts
I'm so sorry that your best friend is starting to get distant with you. Please stay strong and remember that you're an amazing person. I hope that you find some new friends who treat you with the respect that you deserve and make you feel like you are loved and important. (How you should feel because I just know people love and care about you. And you are very important.) I hope that your depression gets better because you don't deserve to feel such pain. I know you're a good person and you try your very best. I'm sorry you're going through being betrayed. Just know you are wonderful. You are perfect just the way you are and don't let these fake friends change you. This world can be very cold hearted and cruel. Please take care of yourself! Though my words might not make you at least feel a bit better I just want you to know I'm here for you and you can trust me. I've always wanted to help such and amazing person like you. And I would like you to know one day you will find the most amazing person that will make your life better. You don't deserve to feel this sadness. (I know some of this might not even make sense but I'm not a very smart 11 year old so that's why lol.) You got this! I just know you can get through your hard times! And if you don't think you can I believe in you.
vent: i was in a friend-group of 4 people, 2 people got distant and they went to their other friends, now they’re in a friend-group, me and the person left were bestfriends, she has gotten really distant, and now is in a bigger friend-group, she told me that i’m a part of it but i never get invited to anything, she’s always just sending me voice messages and stuff talking about how fun it was, and when i asked if she wants to hang out she said she’s probably going to be with them, i asked if i can come because i’m a part of the friend-group and her response was that one of the girls there don’t like me so i can’t come
In my class, I'm the class clown, all people likes my personality and more. But now I cannot handle my bipolar personality disorder. My mood get changes very easily. I am no longer everyone's favourite for now. Because of that mental illness . I feel jealous with her. Because, look she is gorgeous and also funnier than me. All people likes her, I feel jealous but I ignored it. I got replaced, I'm now the second choice. Oh how to be like her. She is an Angel. I'm insecure with my face. I hate myself. I hate my life. I hate her. I hate my friends. I hate school. I hate everyone. I hate people. I hate everything .
I’m in a trio and.. I just got in a fight with my ex bestie and friend. after 3 years of relationship.. was saying “could you keep it down” that bad? They were TEAMING against me. I had no one else. My other best friend just moved, she was the only one that cared about me after 8 YEARS of relationship. was I that bad? I wish I never existed. Humans are pain in the chest. One day I felt lonely and let’s just say they didn’t care. I miss you best friend
My friends always post videos abt there stupid relationships and they’re irl friends BUT THEY DONT WITH ME.. i hate it I hate it I hate it Then they say that there favorite person “is there gf” or “her bff” BUT I WAS HER BFF. WE TALK EVERY NIGHT. WE PLAY ROBLOX. I CHECK MY NOTIFICATIONS EVERY MORNING THINKING “did they comment/reply??, I have to check there posts and videos” BUT ITS ALWAYS ABT THERE STUPID FREAKING RELATIONSHIP OR SOME VIDEOS THEY FOUND OR THERE THING WITH RUKI IVE BEEN FEELING LIKE THIS FOR SO LONG.. I HATE IT SO MUCH. I WANT TO BE IN THE VIDEOS WITH THEM. I WANT THEM TO THINK ABT ME AND THERE GF AT SCHOOL. Not just her.. 💔 I’m so jealous
I got betrayed before.. and it was the worst thing that could ever happen to me, it literally changed me into the worst person possible, but now that won’t happen again. I will make sure of that. Edit: BTW- Thanks for the playlist ✨
After a friendship of three years… my best friend wanted to stop talking to me only for a couple ‘weeks’. It was over a bit of drama. I knew that after we stop talking things would never be the same. And I wasn’t wrong. I was quickly replaced, and she has seemed so much happier without me… she video calls with her new friends very often now and post in on social media. It hurts to know I put in all my energy to make her happy but she didn’t even want to continue the friendship. I feel like it’s my fault. I also noticed she copies me sometimes… I don’t know why. I wish things were back to normal. It makes it worst to know I have to see her 1-2 times a week because of religion. It’s not to bad but because I have horrible anxiety every time I see her I over think and end up crying in a corner. Every time I go I see her with her other friends, she sits with them and has a good time. And every time we walk past eachother she doesn’t even bother to acknowledge me.. or the fact that we were In a friendship together. After this, I just don’t trust that anyone will stay anymore. I feel like a mistake. During our friendship I always felt left out, and every time me and her would have the smallest misunderstanding she would talk about me to her peers, specifically her mom, sister, etc.. I always made the effort to make her feel important and loved, but she never put in the same effort. It sucks because even if the friendship was toxic I.. miss it? It just makes me sad to know all of the heart I put into her and trying to make her feel happy has gone to waste, and she has not given anything in return. I feel bad but at the same time upset. I don’t even know if we’re still friends or not.. I don’t think so. We went through so much together.. and I said one little thing that ticked her off.. and we aren’t talking anymore. It’s my fault.
Darling it's not your fault some people just change... dont beat yourself down its going to be okay remember sometimes you have to put yourself first .
My parents got a divorce when I was 8,im 11 now,my mom has problems with my brother(13yo) and my dad got a new girlfriend that moved in,she has two daughters,one 13 year old that visits and another one that is 7 and she lives here,my dad has been loving her more than me,I’m not trying to be selfish but it’s like I’m being replaced and I hate it so much..
Vent: We knew each other for 4 years, and he was the first boy best friend I ever had, we got along so well, there was nothing wrong it was a genuine friendship. But over the years we haven’t had any classes together, except for this year, 1 class but we only have it every other day. Whenever I get on Roblox I always see, let’s call him I, playing with this girl M, they play together every second of the day, games that he said didn’t look interesting, they play, and it’s all the time, every time I get on it’s a constant reminder that I’m not good enough, I’m also I’s back up friend, any other person he can talk to, he’ll talk to, I’m never his first option anymore, they always get paired together and I also see them talking together in the halls, at lunch they always sit isolated from the rest of the friend group, do you really need that much space? Is it such a big deal that you guys have to have your own space anyway from everyone? It really sucks because it’s not everyday you have an actually boy best friend, and I had one, but I lost him…it’s not like we were distant when we didn’t have classes together, we would wave and talk, but this year I’ve noticed that he’s actually avoiding me more than talking to me, and for these past couple days I’ve tried caring less and less, like not starting conversations and not talking to him much so I can distance myself and get over it soon, but it always pops up in my mind. I’ve been replaced before, but all friendships were fake from the start, this was a true friendship and to see it slowly being destroyed is so horrible, imagine looking back with all good memories but then you look in front of you and you see them talking, you see yourself getting replaced and wonder where it all went wrong… Update: At my school if you come early you go to the cafeteria and he sat near me (we have to sit 2 seats apart from people so we dont talk) and abt a min later this other girl comes we’ll call her C she comes and they talk all the time until we’re dismissed. And at the end of the day at dismissal ig my friend jokingly said to him that we weren’t his friends and he wants to be with other people, no response, then she said « No response? Wow I guess we aren’t your friends then » Also as a joke and all he said was « No, not really, you guys are my friends » But really awkwardly more like he was forced to say it… UPD 2: So one of my friends was telling a story and asked, « Do you know _____? » I, my friend and him are in the same friend group, we’re so distant know people don’t know we’re friends…we talk at dismissal sometimes but barely because my other friends are there, so I talk to them and if he mentions something I sometimes comment on it. This weekend I had a sleepover with my girl best friend and she invited the girl who he is replacing me with (I didn’t tell my girl best friend yet) but she is nice, and I’ve always known that, she’s just nothing like me…she also told us who her crush is, and it’s not him, so it’s not a crush type of relationship but a best friend one…also I don’t remember if I mentioned it before but I unfriended them on roblox 5 days ago, they haven’t noticed but on friday he said that he plays roblox everyday, so I’m sure he noticed…that’s all for this update 😐 Update 3: I’m getting replaced by a pick me. I know I said she’s nice, but she’s a pick me. Other people say it, it’s not just me. And honestly if his type of best friend is a pick me, hell no. I’m not changing myself into a pick me. If it was something doable I would, I’ve changed for people multiple times, I can do it again, but not to be a pick me. Anyway that’s it fr fr UPD 4: So I got asked again if I know _____ 😐 But at dismissal I was talking to my friends and he was talking to another friend and we didn’t talk the whole time. I’ve been kind of « ignoring » him but like that’s never happened before…if you have any suggestions on what to do or you think the ignoring thing is right lmk cause im very lost rn 😭 UPD 5: So nothing has really happened irl but more like mentally…so honestly I might like him…which is rlly weird ik, I feel butterflies and I have also dreamed about him every night for about the past week. Now this will never work for two reasons, 1. Our current relationship 2. I promised and swore I would never like him. I did that bc he used to like this one girl and she liked im back but they didn’t want to date just yet. But he doesn’t like her anymore and now I can’t rlly tell anyone since I literally promised and said id kms if I ever did…but when I had my first dream abt him I went to school and looked at him not as the bald person I knew four years ago, but as a normal person, and holy shi- 😳 He fine…🤭 But now we don’t even talk, and idk how im supposed to get us talking again, i mean i could ease into it again…idek I need help 😭😭 UPD 6: So on Friday at dismissal I talked to him and he was like, “I thought you were mad at me” 1. HE CARED ENOUGH TO NOTICE?? 2. HE CARED ENOUGH TO ASK?? 3. HE WAS THINKING ABT ME??? Well anyway yeah I also friended him back on rblx saying it was an accident, honestly things are def better then they were before, gotta talk to people and boom it all works out 🤯 (This MAY be the last update but honestly I didn’t even expect 1 reply and to me it feels like 700 people replied to this comment lol) UPD 7: It’s been a while but we barely talk and he talked to me today and asked why I text him a bunch (i dont even think i text him a lot) and never talk to him irl, but it was js yesterday when he ignored me, and ngl he ignores me a lot 😭 and i realized it’s not my fault that we’ve grown away, on the first day of school he asked if i could come early so we can talk, but after that once he had classes with M he acted differently abt me, and almost never talks to me…but i think thats it…
They found a new man just a week or so after we broke up and told me about it, then after a few months of no communication, come back asking if we can be friends again. Turns out their new relationship didn't work out so I guess they thought it'd be okay to show up in my life again and remind me of our breakup just when I was finally moving on. Now I can't bring myself to tell them I don't want to be friends, because I still care about them, it hurts.
He said that he loved me, he said that he would never hurt me and that I was beautiful Then why did he leave me for somebody else? Why did he ignored me for 5 days? Why doesn't he care about me anymore? He knew the power that he had over me and he used it to hurt me now I can't trust anybody, I feel like everyone lies when they say "i love you".
I used to be the center of attention in my friend group then the next year my friends slowly started hanging out with this other new person and the third person in the group who would only sometimes come with us is getting the seats next to my friends at lunch more and more until they just left me behind them after I was in such a rush everyday to sit next to them
All my friends start to bully me hitting me and saying that i am boring and annoying and a i am a cry baby and way too more things ,and they replaced me with my twin sis saying that she is better then me and my twin sis believe them and she start bully me too
VENT: I just feel like I'm being replaced. My best friend understands me has the same interests, and knows me well. They're having so much fun when they aren't around me. But they just seem so... Dull to me. Sure, I've made mistakes, but I don't know if they love me anymore. I had a crush on them, and when I lost interest, they seemed so dull around me. I know I shouldn't blame them, they have a rougher life than I do but I just feel so numb now. They don't love me, they have so much more fun with their other friends, idk if I can go on now. They're the only person keeping me afloat. I just don't know if I can keep going anymore
I had a best friend who i met 4 years agi at first i didn't talk to her cause she was popular and all and i hated getting involved in all those stuff but the next year we somehow became best friends. Everyone thought how close we were and even we thought that too but gradually we both became more distant cause she always used to hang out with big bros and sis while i used to spend my time with my ols friends who i was friends with for almost 7 years. She started to felt jealous cause i spent my times with them so i started to spend less time with them because no matter what they were my friends too and i cant just stop talking with them cause she felt jealous. Now after i did that she started to spend times wuth my another friend who was my friend for 7 years nowbi wouldn't really mind it that much but when she got with that friend she technically started to completely ignore me i no longer existed to her... Finally after a long while she wrote a letter to me saying she wanted to break our friendship cause she was insecure and i reassured her but ig i should have done that because after that she not only ignored me but neglected me like we made few promises to do and while i was ready for all those and getting excited about it she choose to go with her and do it right in front of me. After that i also wrote a letter to her and asked if she wanted to be friends or not but no matter how many times i asked hse never replied.
Srry for the vent in advance My best friend(I'll call her M) and I have been friends since kindergarten and around a year and a half ago they met a different friend(I'll call her T). Over the course of this year, M has been replacing me with T. M and T go off and do their own thing during lunch instead of hanging out with the rest of our friend group. I also haven't hung out with M on the weekends, as they constantly only hang out with T. (There have been a lot more instances of stuff like this happening but I won't waste ur time) I know I can't control who M is friends with, but it hurts knowing my best friend since kindergarten would rather hang out with someone else than so much as invite me over. The thing is, it's hard to be mad at T bcz they are one of the sweetest people I know and T would never intentionally replace me so I haven't confronted either of them abt it. Srry abt the vent but I just don't know what to do
i know you said this a month ago but if youre still stuck in it i think you should take a step back and focus on friendships that affect you positively until you figure out your next steps, do not act on your emotions
Vent TW ⚠️ (Also sorry if i spell bad) Im isz [non binary] she/them So i had this girlfriend i really loved and am still friends with. (Lets call her J) she was my online friend but we were the same age. I even face reavled with her later on. she was my everything, and even when i felt like nothing she gave me hope. It was one of the happiest times of my life. She was the one. Shortly after, on chirstmas, i was about to tell her something all lovey dovey but before i could say anything she said she needed to talk with me. She broke up with me on Christmas. I was fine with it but a little sad. A few day later my ex friend (who ill call M) told her parents that i was dating a 65 year old man online. Her parents told the school, and i met with the guidance counselor the next day. I got my phone taken away for a week, luckily my parent's didnt find anything. I cried for days after that. Every night. But did anyone care? No. No one even asked if i was okay. M apologized to me a day or two later but i told her that sorry didnt fix anything. She then said "well i told them because you weee actkng different." ... what. I then told her since i hadn't seen her in about a year i changed and that was mostly for the better. She refused to belive me. I then blocked her and or unfriended her on anything and everything. When she walked past me in the hall or something i wouldnt even make eye contact with her. She is now a school bully, and is still ruining peoples lives. During that time when J broke up with me, i was kinda broken. She even got a boyfriend like 2 weeks later, completely forgeting about me. She broke up with him 2 months after that! I helped her get out of that. I was there when no ine else answered. And now she just gets new feiends like i dont exist. Its not her fault, im not saying its her fault, i still love her. But i feel like im not good enough for her anymore. I dont wanna be me. Heck, i barely wanted to live a few weeks ago. But my head uust cabt wrap around the fact that i need to let go. Im still not good enough. I probably never will be. "Atleast i still have my friends" They've all mostly stopped talking to me. Maybe an occasional "goodnight" or "i need help with this" text but other that. Nothing. I dont wanna be here anymore. Why am i like this? Oh good, im crying now. Im so sensitive. Ill save you some of your time. Maybe ill update, maybe i wont. Im sorry i wasted your time, im a waste of space i get it. Sorrry again, bye for now.
My best friend it slowly drifting away with me and is so much closer with her other friends than me and treats them so much better than me and always asks them to do things and gives them stuff and I hate it nd I'm slowly realizing she's turning me into a bad person but I can't lose her if I lose her I lose everything. And her new friend is just making it even worse and I always like it's okay but I really hate it 😓
Currently just Hoping im not right. But they ahve been talking with someone lately and they seem so much happier with them then if i am with them and i just dont know what to do
!!vent!! my very best friend since third grade. She got a new boyfriend. I only talk to her twice at school now. It used to be 24/7. Another best bud since kindergarten. Left me for a group of girls and became popular. Also about the first best friend, I have another one and we a little trio of best friends. The newer one replaced me for therapist of the group, and I don’t know if I feel good or bad about it. Sorry for the vent. Kinda just wanted to let it out here. Everyone make sure to take care of yourselves.
I know she wouldn't replace me because she loves me and I love her. I just can't shake the feeling that she might leave me for the person I really don't like who's trying to become her best friend. It's happened before and I can't lose her
I used yo have this great groups of best friends...one day they just stopped being friends with me because I started getting into Dnd and getting closer w/ my family...my bestest best friend replaced me with my ex who she used to hate.... They ruined my birthday last year...and here i am... crying about them a year later before my birthday weekend...
I always ask my friend to call and talk to Mr but they always say they can't and then later when they know I've been waiting all day to call with them, they call with someone else who they get to see everyday at school but since I do online school I barely get to talk to people or see my friend
Man. I feel like I’m becoming unneeded or even annoying to my younger sister sense they have a boyfriend now and she won’t stop talking about him even though she knows I’m still recovering from my breakup a few months ago
I’m not trying to do anything with anyone at this point. Me and my friend used to be so connected, so together, but then someone new and better came around. Now they don’t even talk to be without me starting the conversation. The conversations always end quickly anyway. I don’t get why I still convince myself there’s hope.
he took it off just for her, he shoved it in my face, he dragged me, he hurt me, he likes her more, it looks weird on me and looks perfect on her. how do emotions work again?
I have no one to vent so I am going to say it here : Honestly perfect for the moment , at church I had gotten replace many times and i Low key fee left out all the time.and today was the peak of it . And then people wonder why young people stopped going to church 🤷♀️
My best friend is literally my only friend. Because I'm home schooled now. But I met up with her today and she acted off. Like she treats a normal friend. Because we are each other around each other. But today she just was off. And I notice she didn't like me anymore when she side hugged me. I could feel it. She also got this new friend. Ever since then we haven't talked. Not even on Snapchat where we talk all the time. Honestly I have to see her tomorrow but in just going to try to ignore her so I stop hurting myself so much. My other cousins will be there so I will just try to hang with them as much as I can. Honestly I don't even think we were best friends after 2022. Now it just feels like Im being used for advice. I helped her get to hang out with her crush and other stuff. But that's all we talk about her crush. Our relationship just turn from best friend to friend who will give advice. But honestly I think I'm just jealous. Probably. That would explain a lot lol.
We were best friends , we were so close that year. But i guess it *is* another year. Things change. I only *did* introduce them to eachother this year.. I get this feeling in my stomach. Jealousy? Disappointment? Hatred? I think to myself.. That , Im so selfish. She calls out to her *INSTEAD* of me , her best friend. She walks with them like shes known them for so long. WE were the best friend group. Not her.. Me. After school is the moment i enjoy most , while i walk with my friends to the exit. But no. That used to be us , she only greets me a couple times but asked *HER* to join her and her friends to walk to the exit. Why not me? Did I do something? Did we grow apart? Was I annoying? Im so sorry. My friend. It just seems.. You prefer *her.* Its funny.. She feels bad for *me*. She feels bad i have to walk alone. Stay alone in the classrooms. Stay alone during activities. You've taking every fucking friend away from me. I feel bad that.. I could not be more social . Aah.. Perhaps Im not just selfish. Im not jealous. I dont hate her. Im disappointed my friendship wasnt strong enough as yours and your new best buddy.
I had enough, it hurts to be replaced slowly by my two friends. I thought it was because trios dont always work but it was just a me problem. I wasn't enough for them. They slowly replaced me with another girl. And it hurts that they dont notice me anymore in the morning or when they go to the restroom or get snacks from the canteen. I cried the other day when they saved a seat for her but not for me. I know it sounds petty of me but I did everything and I gave everything. I even gave an expensive gift and so much more because I really wanted them to be my friends for a very long time. I feel like I'm gonna break that they dont hang out with me anymore. Why do I have to experience this? What did I do to be replaced. I wish I was gullible enough not to notice. I dont know anymore, I wish the school year ended faster. I'm sorry I just want to be in a friend group..I just want to be the first choice for once.
One time my own friend even called me too sensitive with her. I guess nobody cares anymore. They act like they still want to talk to me then ditch me to talk to her again. I have nobody to talk to
I feel like My best friend of 3 years whom I’ve told almost everything too is trying to replace me with a new girl and even tho we’ve recently had some arguments oven some really dumb things and I was mad I don’t wanna lose him
Vent Warning: I'm in a trio. Things were going pretty well, we had inside jokes, we did silly things together. We hung out all the time, then she came along. Dont get me wrong i have nothing against her but after finding out she existed and the reason the two were never available sometimes I couldnt help but feel hurt. I knew the girl, we got along pretty well, shes very sweet. Theyre all very nice people and id like to believe that they dont mean to do this to me but i just feel an indescribable amount of pain everytime i see her profile. The three of them match pfps, without me ofc. The three of them added each other on every app i only have the two on one or two apps. One has an account they go on when they wanna be away from people and only be around certain people they like, the other two have that account added. I did, but i was removed a while ago. But i powered through the pain, because i love them so so very much. They have calls without me, they took our inside jokes, made their own that they use in front of me that i dont get. Its uncomfortabke but i love my friends, ill withstand the pain. I can feel myself slowly breaking im not sure how much longer i can take this. I couldve sworn my heart broke after finding out the three of them recreated OUR thing without me, with the other girl in my place, where i shouldve been. They made excuses for it, it hurts. They say theyd feel the same way if they were in my shoes, but why the fuck did i have to find out the way i did then, they had no intention of telling me. It hurts so bad, it fucking hurts, i cant do this anymore but i cant lose them. Theyre all i have. As much as it hurts me to stay their friends with this pain continually stabbing me everytime i see them together, the pain from the emptiness id feel without them would kill me sooner.
I relate to your situation, everything was fine, until my ex friend appeared. They matched users and stuff. Without me. This was last year, then my best friend did a great decision, dump them, because my ex friend was manipulative and mean to me. But recently…she came back and she is now matching names AND bios with my best friend. Now I just want to disappear. My best friend is one of the only people I can trust, I told them everything. Everything. But then SHE came along and ruined everything. Now I feel alone. Forever.
@@shootingsmilla1239 Im so sorry about your situation. It really sucks that these things have to happen, you don't deserve to have gone through that, and I understand your struggle. But keep going, you'll find people who cherish you and enjoy your company. You may feel alone now and I completely understand that, but It'll never be forever and I wish you happiness in the near future. :)))
I went to a friend's sleep over,we went to a fair and she got me gifts and was all flirty and I genuinely thought we would be a thing,but then I stayed a second night and she called a friend of mine and she started flirting with him and got really distant with me and I feel upset even though we weren't really dating but she posted me for national gf day and everything and I feel like she led me on
Idk why I'm like this but isolated myself from all my friends and my bestie bc idk why whenever I'm around people I'm very close with and i talk to them i think about it when I'm alone it my head hurts so bad i constantly think about everything i say and shouldn't have said and how much it would have hurt them.......... I don't talk to them and my head feels so good and healthy but...... My bsf she is really sad about it ik she asked me yesterday why I'm being weird and seriously i really don't have any answer idk how long I'm going to be like this all my friends are probably gone no body would want to wait for a messy person like me who is sick in head and everyone else has to go thru it huh!😮💨
To whoever reads this, i love you i love your smile i love your laugh i love your personality i love your hair (or lack thereof) i love your insecurities i love your accomplishments i love your failures i love your eyes i love your beauty i love your handwriting (or the way you communicate) i love the way you dance i love you on your happy days i love you on your sad days i love you on the days you feel lonely i love you on the days you feel helpless i love you on the days you feel like no one cares i love you on the days you feel forgotten i love you on the days you feel unmotivated i love you on the days you feel loved i love you on the days you feel sick i love you on the days you feel motivated i love you on the days you feel depressed i love you on the days you feel stresses i love you on the days you feel crazy i love you on the days you feel hopeful i love you on the days you feel cuddly i love you on the days you feel clingy i love you on the days you feel amazing i love you on the days you feel beautiful i love you on the days you feel like a failure i love you on the days you feel angry i love you on the days you feel aggressive i love you on the days you feel horrible i love you on the days you feel safe i love you on the days you feel unsafe i love you on the days you feel vulnerable i love you on the days you feel weird i love you on the days you feel ok i love you when you're healthy i love how you sing (or hum or feel the music) i love your taste in music i love your taste in movies i love your taste in tv shows i love the way you move i love the way you act i love you when you cry i love you when you're kind i love you when you're mean i love you when you're alone i love you when you can't feel i love you when you feel too much i love you when you can't take life anymore i love you when you feel like it's too much i love you when you're asleep i love you when you have nightmares i love you when you have dreams i love how you believe i love you when you believe in yourself i love you when you don't believe in yourself i love you when you hate yourself i love you when you love yourself i love the way you think i love you problems i love your solutions i love how you support i love you when you're in pain i love you when you're hurt i love your promises i love your secrets i love your attitude i love you sass i love your creativity i love your voice (or lack thereof) i love you hand gestures i love your stories i love your wounds i love your scars i love your face i love your past i love your future i love your present i love your outfits i love your style i love your art i love your honesty i love you when you lie i love you when you're tired i love you when you're energetic i love how you look i love how you cook i love you when you're adventurous i love you when you're scared i love your imperfections i love your perfections i love you when you worry i love you when you talk (or communicate) i love your opinions i love you when you have a headache i love you when you have a stomach ache i love you when you help others i love you when you need help i love you when you're mature i love you when you're immature i love you in the hard times i love you in the easy times i love you when life is meh i love you when you're responsible i love you when you're irresponsible i love you when you fight i love you in your darkest moments i love you in your brightest moments i love your heart i love you in the day i love you in the night i love you at midnight i love you at 3 am i love you at all times i love you at your best i love you at your worst i love the little things you do i love all of you i love you when you're you i love 𝙮𝙤𝙪. From the stranger on the internet who loves you :)
my best friend said we need a break and I am self-centered always bragging and I never talk to her, I feel horrible, I am horrible. And I feel like giving up. I lost my mother at the age of 7 and watched it happen, a year later lost my grandpa uncle and great grandma, then I became the way I am my dad never cares I’m always helping my siblings, toxic relationships, bullying ,getting told I’m a horrible person on a daily basis, having no friends left, hopes of a yt channel failed, lost all my friends, cooped up in my room, my grades dropping, skipping school, being the therapist friend when I’m the one who needs it. Always being left behind, siblings starting to hate me, AirPods in 24/7. I’m drifting away. And I’m at a horrible mental state, I can’t do this anymore. And if you never see me again. I’m gone, Goodnight.
My friend and i were haging out for 6 months now and i met a new friend that i introduced to her and the next thing i know they're facetiming everyday and my friend doesn't even reply to my texts in other words she changed.. Didn't know i could be replaced.. I tried to move on but, i still wonder does she even consider me as a friend? It hurst a lot knowing she'll leave me anytime soon....
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my best friend keeps posting vid about all her friends and about how she loves them but she never talked about me that way i think she is starting to hate me and im starting to hate her to but i also cant lose her
It's gonna be fine, I promise. Just keep it going! If they can't see you for who you are, I can! You are wonderful person who has a whole life ahead of them! Don't give up!❤️
I'm always here for anyone who needs it! Everyone is amazing, you are all perfect in my eyes!❤️
I know how you feel :( a few weeks ago my best friend met someone online wich became her online bf, but for some reason the guy hated me and started talking crap behind my back. And not to long ago my bestie dumped me because of him
That happen to me too
I know exactly how you feel, im in the same position rn, I wish the best to you stranger
My best friend just left me after 7 years and she knew I was at my lowest and replaced me so Ik how u feel
I feel like my best friend doesn’t enjoy my company anymore
She always acts different in front of this other girl in my class and she looks so much more happy with her
I’ve done so much for her but I guess it was all for nothing, huh…
I’m so sorry it happened
I’m finding that recently I’m the one falling back, I’m the second option, Im no longer her favorite. It hurts. So bad. I can’t help but cry every time I think of all of the memories we have had together, and she’s out there creating new once’s with someone else.
Btw I know this was 3 months ago but...
Relatable.
I've been her bestie for 8 years.
And them we changed schools(we both changed to the SAME SCHOOL, luckily..)
We met some nice ppl there and they are our friends now.
But this was only 4 months ago....
How could she replace me with someone she met literally 4 months ago????!!!
I'm never the first person they are gonna talk to yk? I'm just the second one... Nobody rlly talks to me. Now everyone has a bestie except me....
im sorry my love:(
I totally understand, im so sorry you're going through that :( sending a big hug your way
same but mine is a he.
Same
having this weird moment in your life when you feel like they dont love you as much anymore because of small things and theyre going to find someone else who will fill in those small things. im always afraid ill never been enough and that other person has everything i already am and... more..and is better..
Update:
They left me for someone else. Some times I wish my intuition wasn’t so right.
I relate heavily...
I am sorry this happened. You deserve better. I relate to this, and it's hard, but you WILL get through this, and i believe in you❤
That's too relatable. Your Intuition tells you "something wrong. It's too good to be real. They're pretending. They'll change their opinion about you. They're using you. They'll leave you "
And you give yourself a benefit of a doubt, but eventually intuition was right, and you're left with nothing but disappointment, sorrow, pain and dread.
Bmf? You deserve love (friendly) :)
ahh i completely forgor about this comment i made ,, sure! id love to my life has defo gotten alot better
A playlist for when you realize you never meant anything and your completely replaceable
I’m not getting slowly replaced….
I’ve been replaced the hole time….
But it wasn’t slowly
It was immediately……
Whole*
So true we mean nothing
1st song- Me and the Birds by Duster
2nd song- Jealous by Eyedress
3rd song- Rises the Moon by Liana Flores
4th song- Young by Vacations
5th song- Stars will Fall by Duster
6th song- Washing Machine Heart by Mitski
7th song- ARE WE STILL FRIENDS? by Tyler, the Creator
8th song- Just Take My Wallet by Jack Stauber's Micropop
This deserves to get pinned
The fear of being replaced by the people you hold dear the most 💔 especially if it happend before. Or them simply losing interrest, getting bored of you, or finding better people, forgetting you....
To everyone feeling the same atm, you are not alone. And those who replace you are the ones losing. Don't let people who don't deserve your company ruin your mood. You'll find the people that actually care. Untill then stay strong, you'll be alright. Vent all you want here if it makes you feel any better
to the person reading this,
It’s been hard for you, I know, and it makes me sad that you don’t see yourself in the way I see you. Sometimes they are things in life that cause us to lose ourselves, and the way you have is so unimaginable painful. I miss your smile, the way your eyes light up the whole room just by the sound of your laughter. I miss the way you accepted the way you look in the mirror without cursing yourself out about how ugly you look. I miss the way you didn’t think of yourself as a failure because everyone makes mistakes, we all have flaws and we all aren’t perfect. It’s painful to see that no one around you seems to see the pain through your eyes, but, stranger, I do, I see how heavy your heart is and how comforting the sadness for you might be, how afraid your heart is of happiness because it disappears in the end, right? You don’t know how much impact you have in this world and it’s sad to see that your demons fight against you and want to take over you. Because you do make a change, it’s something so simple and little that brightens up someone’s whole world, it can be a small smile from your lips, the way you look at things you’re passionate about, the way you make yourself eat even though it’s been hard for you lately, the way you zoom out and go in your own world, you brighten up my world by reading this, it means a lot to me that you’re here, existing, but I don’t want you to just exist, you deserve to feel alive. You deserve to get up in the morning and feel good about yourself. You deserve to feel something- to feel every damn second alive in this lifetime. It’s heartbreaking that you think you’re not capable of being loved because you are, I love you through all my words and I hope you let it happen in your heart. Love is scary, I know, maybe your heart had been broken once and since then you wanted to be rather numb than feel ever again, it hurts me how you punish yourself, does it not deserve love? Because YOU DO deserve love, please forgive yourself, it’s not your fault that the demons want to take over your beautiful heart. You’re not a bad person for distancing yourself from others, but you deserve someone to talk to, you deserve someone to listen. I am listening, you can tell me what’s wrong. It’s everything, isn’t it? There’s something pulling your heartstrings on the ground and no one seems to understand how misunderstood you feel, it’s heartbreaking to know that I am behind the screen and can’t give you a hug, that’s why I will give you a big warm virtual hug and send you lots of love :). You matter. You are worthy. You are loved. You deserve good things. You deserve someone to listen. You deserve to eat and drink. You deserve to feel good and alive. You deserve to smile. You deserve a hug. You deserve to be all the things you want to be because you deserve to have and feel good things happening to you and have a fulfilled life. I know I might not know you personally but I care about you so much, I write this because I want you to stay here with me, I want you to hold on a little longer because you matter so much to me, because I will not let you give up on yourself. I want you to see that you should not give up on yourself because you DESERVE GOOD THINGS. I want you to look back on the time when you were a kid, you didn’t give up when you tried to swim for the first time, you didn’t give up when you tried to walk for the first time and fell, you never gave up on yourself, you always kept on pushing forwards, so why can’t you now? I know it’s tiring, your mentally tired, but don't your younger self deserve good things? look back at your eyes that used to be full of hope, look back on those dreams. Don’t let yourself fall, you deserve better. We will both fight, I will fight for you. I won’t let those demons get to you. You can hold on to me, I won’t let you down :). Whenever you feel lonely, then look at the sky, I always look at it and think about you. Yes, you, because it makes me happy that there’s someone looking right back, maybe we can’t see each other but I can feel your presence here with me and that’s enough for me because I am glad your heart is beating and you’re still fighting. You’re so much stronger thank you think, you didn’t leave your spot on this earth even if you wanted to, you belong here, even though it doesn’t feel like it when you don’t feel like belonging then build your own home here, put all your love in it and dreams. Think of you as a star when you feel alone, you shine because your heart is good, no matter what mistake you made, no matter about the past you had, you’re one of the stars that shine bright in the universe because you’re heart is beautiful, that’s why the demons in your mind want to have it. As one of the stars you see other stars, maybe they have felt the same way as you do at some point in their life, but they lighten up the universe with each other’s presence. You’re a star for me, maybe you don’t see it yourself but I can see it, you’re beautiful from inside and out, your body is beautiful the way it is. You make me happy by reading this, you make me feel something by your presence, and when you can make me feel that way then you also make other people feel that way about you too. I hope you stay for yourself and don’t let your story get written by others but by yourself, it’s your story, not theirs. As you can see, I say a lot of “I hope” because I have hope for you even if you don’t have it for yourself, I see hope in you even though you might want to give up. That’s why I hope you won’t see the world in darkness and will see it colorful again, I hope I will give you a glimpse of hope and make the world you see a bit colorful for today. My favorite color is yellow, and I hope the next time you see the color yellow you will think about my words. If someone left you then don’t blame yourself, don’t think you weren’t enough, don’t lower yourself for someone who couldn’t see the awesomeness in you. If you lost someone I am so sorry for your loss, they want you happy, I hope you don’t feel guilty or regret because you were there, you spend enough time with them, they want you to be happy. They are in a good and safe place now. If someone broke your heart then I am so sorry that they couldn’t see the way you look so beautiful because of the heart you have. Anyone who gets to be with you doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they are :). If you aren’t accepted at home or in general then I am so sorry that you have to deal with someone/ something you shouldn’t be ashamed of, I accept you and support you, I accept you as a human being no matter what race, religion, nationality, skin color, or sexuality you have. You’re safe here with me :). You’re not useless, you’re not a burden to anyone. You’re not a problem, you’re human and your feelings are valid. You’re not being dramatic. Please don’t starve yourself, you deserve food and to drink, I know it’s hard. It hurts to see that you’re in so much pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I am sorry no one is noticing, I wish /hope I could take your pain away for today or even for a moment while you’re reading this. If no one told you, I am so proud of you, you’re reading this and it’s enough for me to be proud of you because you’re here and that’s all that matters to me. If it’s the night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s the day for you, don’t start it with such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such a mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water every day in the morning, and so on. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s the evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course, you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self-care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed.
And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re so strong for breathing despite the pain, I know you will make it :) I believe in you. All I want for you is to stay here, I really mean all my words, even if there is a lot of unsaid things I want to tell u and my text is getting longer and longer, I want you here.
I hope one day your smile will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world.
You can let go for today, I got you, you can cry your heart out as much as you want, but don’t let it tear you down and let your emotions control you by giving up. Crying is not a weakness. If you still feel alone I dedicate you to a song as your friend.
“Dusk till Dawn- Zayn feat. Sia (I prefer the slow version)” I hope you can think of me and will remind yourself of my words, I will for sure think of you.
In case no one told you and you’re unsure yourself, you’re a good person and I am so happy you’re here. So please don't give up.
I hope this is enough to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. Enough with beating yourself up for today, okay?
Life for those who couldn’t smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug-like it's your last one.
If you read all of it, until tomorrow my friend :)
have a good day and a great year.
i love you for this. you really r a great person
it’s been a lil tough time, and Jesus Christ you know your lonely when a random message from the internet gets you to cry and smile 💀
Thank you so much for this tho, this truly means a lot. Your a wonderful person for this
Thank you
Thanks so much . ❤❤ I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart. Love U
God will be with me but gods always there not her that’s why she’s special…
everyone in my family loves her more, i used to be the favorite but they like her more. she’s done so many rude things to me in front of my whole family and they still like her.
Ur not the only one
I'm starting to feel somewhat like I'm getting replaced by one of my other friends over the past few weeks. I used to always feel so happy and comfortable with my group of friends but now it just feels like I'm just there and barely even getting people's attention/intrest. Not to mention I'm starting to feel really insecure of myself because of this and like I'm nothing but someone they'll eventually just toss aside.
I was always the one people were talking to and then she came along and literally became the new me of that makes since.. she has the same name but every time someone says it its always “oh sorry I was talking to her”
thisss. we all game together, but i’m quiet the whole time while i listen to them all laugh. it hurt when they said “i forgot we were in squads” because i was so quiet, they were just so consumed in how happy all three of them were together that they forgot about me.
Just those moments when you can feel the person whom you trusted with your life slowly slipping away. When you know they've found someone better. And all the pain from knowing that maybe, you were never enough. You were never enough for them. How the hour long calls turn to barely a text to complete silence. But after everything, you still love them, because you don't know what you'll do if you don't. The scars that turn to walls so high, you'd jump before they fall.
And then they come back to you, only to hurt you again. All without realizing. But can you ever say no? You still love them after after all.
"But after everything, you still love them, because you dont know what you'll do if you dont" has tears streaming down my face. Its such a beautifly simple way to perfectly express such a complex emotion
She’s great with everyone but me.
//vent, swearing (im sorry i just rlly wanted to talk abt this somewhere)
i had this best friend in 2021 (lets call her 'g'), we were like super close. we had 6 hour calls everyday and we shared inside jokes, and i loved her so much (platonically, of course). one day i start talking to this guy in class and she decides to befriend him too. obv i had no issues w that, until they started becoming super close. they had thousands of messages after just talking for a few days. it made me jealous, and after that, we were never rlly the same anymore. we invited him to our friend grp (consisting of 7 excluding him) and he became close w my ex best friend in that friend grp too. after a while, my mental health started to decline, and only two people in that friend grp helped me: my partner, and the friend grp creator (lets call him 'd'). tbh, i did not like the creator at first. i found him rlly annoying. but i think i misjudged him, bcs he was rlly sweet and understanding abt my entire situation. he treated me way better than she did. i helped him through a breakup from a toxic relationship throughout the summer, and as classes resumed, he fell for some girl in the batch who i was friends with. she treated him badly when they got into the relationship, and his mental health was... really bad. i didn't know how to help s, im just awful at comfort. so he apparently asked help from g. and now they are so close, and me and d don't talk anymore. i find it rlly sad, i shared such good memories with both of them, and i cared abt them so much, but i couldn't do much to help them bcs i was struggling too, and i didn't know what to do. im happy for d, g is such a great friend to him. but i hate her so much. ppl always and i mean ALWAYS pick her over me, and they blatantly say they prefer her. what made me hate her the most was that during nov 2021, when i cared abt her SO MUCH and admired her as a friend, she went "best friend" hunting in the batch because she was getting tired of me. THE TIME I TRUSTED HER MORE THAN ANYONE. all those vents and rants... i trusted her... she said i could tell her anything... but it was apparently too annoying for her?? shes so popular and pretty and shes student council, and it pisses me off how when i vented to d on how i hated how ppl always favored her, he promised me he would never be like those ppl, but here we are now. and its all my fault. im a shitty best friend and a shitty person in general. i wish i could fix my past errors, but there's nothing i can do now. i hope d is happier, but for g... fuck you.
nah bruv, you just deserve someone better (sorry for the late reply 💀), anyways, how r you rn?
idk what i’m doing man i don’t feel too good rn every friendship i’ve had they find someone better than me i want to end it
My best friend and me have been like glue for almost three years. She went to a camp that I could not go to bc it was too much money, but she met this girl and now they are calling like every night having fun.And now it never seems to be just me and her. I miss you vivi
I want to disappear. I can’t take it anymore. My closest friend has replaced me with my ex friend (who was very mean to me.) and now I have no one. He was always there for me, I told him everything. If only I could disappear. Maybe everyone will be happier. Happy that a burden like me is gone. Why am so lonely..What have I done..? I did nothing wrong. I just want someone who can listen to my thoughts. Why do I always get replaced..?
Sorry for lill vent(love the playlist):
Ever since she's in a different class from me she's been avoiding me..I waited for her in the entrance of our school but she just waved at me and goes to her *other* friends. Her face doesn't even shows like a hello to me when she waved at me. 4 years for this? Sure I did see your new friend has a better taste than me sometimes I just don't want to talk to you sometimes I don't even want to wait to walk with you anymore after school I just wished we never met before most times yes I want your attention I want to share everything to you to spent every minutes with you to do everything with you but you just not there even. Are we "best friends" or just "friend"? Or even "strangers" again at this point? I don't wanna lose you I want every single bit of attention you have for me. I need to stop being too loyal and protective at this point
Vent. My bestfriend past away a year ago and I found never replace him. But I ended up self isolating myself. I've become a stranger to my friend group and my family and I dont get along. I'm doing a little better now tho, I've been making friends online and we've been playing minecraft and stuff but I feel empty still. I'm currently sleeping in my car because of the whole family thing and mentally it feels like a load off my shoulders to be out of that house.
I’m so sorry that happened one of my friends died and it was so hard on me so I can understand to a piont but I will never get it fully I hope you have an amazing life
I love her too much, man we were matching and everything and now she’s matching with another boy, and that’s fine, it’s my fault for being jealous even tho she’s not mine and she’s aromatic, but man I just feel like I’m getting replaced, idk if it’s me but she speaks more to another boy and I don’t get fast replies anymore, she kinda ignores half the shit I say and she sends all the stuff she would send to me to another boy, and maybe I thought I was special to her but maybe I’m not and that’s how she treats everyone, man this world is just a bunch of bullshit why won’t I stop falling in love with everyone I see, I don’t want that, I’d love to be just friends, I’m just jealous and when people treat me too nice I fall in love because I think that’s what they mean by being nice to me, is this caused by anything? Cause I asked for help and they told me to take a break from her, but I’m scared she won’t text me and she’ll just become more close with the other boy, and I’ll be forgotten, yk? I just wish times could go back in time when we were close and there was no one between us. Is it me? I have a feeling it is, please help. I’m literally going insane.
vent:
i lowkey feel like im getting replaced just because I'm moving next year and it just seems like the generly don't care
i wrote every thing i wanted to think and tell and now im crying while writing about my every single piece i felt............
I need a hug but I’m to scared to hug someone
Don't scary anything. you are strongest in the world
Well..I don't have anyone to hug. 🤷🥲🫠
@taniskakutty961 the one person I needed a hug from left 😭😭😭 so relatable. Wanna be hug buds? >T^T>
(sorry for my English, it's not my first language). We've been best friends for 14 years. She left me for my own birthday. She used to often tell me a lot of bad things about me, but I tried not to pay attention to it. but after she took my friends away on my birthday, making me the third extra (I don't know the reason, but it seems to me that she secretly hated me and only pretended to be my friend...), and replaced me with her friend, who she has known for only 3 years (because this “new friend” has rich parents who paid for my friend's trip to another country...), I don't even know how I feel. hatred, resentment, pity? I don't understand
when I firstly listened to this playlist, I didn't even think it would happen….. I can't believe it.
Imagine your best friend who you’ve known for almost 7 years, starts talking to more people, making more friends, befriending your *enemy*.. and before you know it, sending texts about wanting space, and from that, ignoring me, and not doing a thing with me, getting mad for distracting him while he turns back to you and messes around with other friends. Talking to your crush (I know this isn’t bad it just makes me jealous), and now? Your just the substitute friend.
You always will be.
the first time i got replaced by my friend that we knew each other’s like 4 years replaced me because i just don’t like to play that game with them so they just find new friend who want to play that game with them in that time i feel so mf bad because that is first time I got replaced and the second time we know each other like 1 year so I didn’t care really much it still feel bad well THAT TIME MAKE ME SO ANGRY BECAUSE THEY JUST COME AND TALKED TO ME LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED AND JUST ASKING ABOUT THE HOMEWORK so i just “nah why don’t you ask your BEST FRIENDS “just like that it’s make me feel so good
If u guys have story like mine in your life,I know it hard to forget about them but you can just let it go well i not good at make people feeling better but I hope u guys have the best life that u guys ask for
(I’m not good at English sorry if make me look like idiot )
We have been friend since the womb, just recently introduced her to my other friend and they started talking….than talking more without me…..then just stopped inviting me to everything….yeah…great…
Thank you for this video now I don't feel alone my close friend is stealing my best friend and now I know it's not just me feeling horrible witch sucks becuse I trust her more than anyone she knows everything including my weaknesses. It hurts, and I feel replaced by both of them because they found new better friends, and now I feel like it's hard to love me. It really toughened me up. I'm glad I don't cry anymore, but I've also been hurt too much to cry, and it doesn't help. Sorry for the long vent. Thank you for reading this. You are loved, and if you need to vent to me, I am here, and I will respond as fast as I can. I love you, and you are not alone in this journey.❤
My friend has another friend and they literally do everything together. He says I'm his favorite but it obviously a lie.
dude, try to get out of that friendship. you aren't being as cared for as much as they say that they do.
find people who actually place effort into a bond with you.
you see this is why i love breaking ba
i hate her sometimes can't even realize that she's being used yet she still picks her now she sometimes acts like I'm not there when she is around, it's hard.
Update she unfriended me and when I asked why she just said idk
Vent: I've always hated my parents. They were never there for me. :( I vent to a really close friend of mine and my lover. (Their genderfluid) God, I love them both so much. They've always been there for me. I always vent to them and they comfort me and tell me how they're proud of me for not commiting and making it so far in life. I've always hated my body. If I tell my parents I've got three more disorders, I'm gonna have to go to more therapy. I hate talking to strangers. So I can't trust my parents anymore.
I'm a huge crybaby. My life is a huge mess. I'm just trying not to sh anymore. I almost starved myself. I'm fine tho! :(
No one notices except for those two people. They actually CARE..
My family is transphobic and homophobic so uh, I can't talk about my relationship
I know how it feels, hopes you get it better😢. (Btw sorry for my bad english.)
Everyone i know is slowly drifting away from me a i just want one person i can talk to and has time for me, i feel like im the problem in everyone lives and nobody wants to hangout or talk to me. And everyone that is close they act like its a chore and none of my friends seem to like me but only make fun of me and i have been creating a fake profile of my self and i was happy with it but i have realized its to late and i will never be able to connect with anyone i want to and i feel like im just spiraling down into nothingness and having no point in living
i just want one friend, one person i can open up to, one person that will make time for me, one person that asks me to do stuff, i just want a…… friend
honestly advice for this would be so appreciated,
basically my best friend for around a year and a half who has made me feel so much more confident etc got introduced to my old bsf, now at first i had no problems with them except for the fact that all of this started ON MY BIRTHDAY. i had them both over yk. they would ignore everyone else that day and just hang out together and lets know that my old bsf had a habit of becoming very close to people i held dear and pushing me away from them hence why i dont consider her close anymore. As of recently ive talked to my bsf about it and she knows that i dont want to be pushed away, i know i cant control her and im honestly scared to do anything about it incase she thinks i come off as controlling again which to be fair i was being really loose and not caring about any of her negative actions at the time she called me controlling blocked me and claimed she had done it as a joke. she makes me feel so loved though and she has a tough life so i dont want to leave her. anyway old bsf doesnt know about any of this but continues to leech onto bsf and i CANNOT get bsf alone unless were in class. they rub eachothers presence in my face such as like "You do realise we talk EVERY DAY right?" (Those were said to me by old bsf) and "Oh yeah i was with (----) all weekend! Let me tell you how fun it was" it hurts alot. Ive sat there for continuous nights sobbing and rethinking my decisions and hating them both for what they make me feel and my family knows, they try to support me but its really alot. my bsf sh and im worried to leave her if i have to and i KNOW old bsf will turn on her and i dont want to see her get hurt but its not a fun situation. ive given up alot for bsf. ive never EVER hated anyone as much as i hate old bsf in my entire life and its sad to me because when old bsf wasnt popular she got bullied and i was the one who stuck by her and stood up for her. now shes a pickme, liar and turncoat so, any and all advice is SO welcome. Sorry for the vent
hey, i hope you’re doing better, but if not, heres some advice thats probably not good, but i feel really bad for you. is there anyone you trust that you can talk to about it? if there is, definitely do, but make sure they are trust worthy and care. cause when a similar situation happened to me, i went around and told a lot of people that i shouldnt and it turned into an even bigger issue. so please, try and find someone who you can talk to about it. work on yourself as well. spend time for yourself and try to feel better by caring for yourself. if you can, reach out to other friends or people in your class that you may talk to and try and get closer with them. the more people you have the better, you dont have to be tight with them but as long as you at least have a few people that you can talk to really helps a lot. if not, try and make some friends but dont get too attached to them. if you cant do any of this- i think you said your family is supportive- talk to them, or ask them for a therapist or a guidance counselor or someone that can just listen to your problems. and at one point, too, you have to confront both your bsf and ur old bsf- but separately. just know it does get better, and i believe in you. :)
Vent: To keep this short I am very emotionally attached to my best friend and she says she is too. But recently she started hanging out with another friend of mine alone, and they never ask me if I want to come, but when they hang out with me alone they immediately ask if the other can come. I have been best friends with her since ages, and I lashed out at her a couple of times but she forgave me and did the same. Now I just feel hurt, they are replacing me with each other and I don't what to do. No matter how many times I talk with her, she promises to change but doesn't god, I hate this.
first I was replaced with M by a bsf. now I feel like my bsf I’ve been bsfs with since I was like three is slowly replacing me. I pray to god not.
I've been friends with this person for 2 years and now they're at a diff school and they made a new friend 1 week ago who is perfect for them....i'm slowly being left out and forgotten about :]
My friend straight up told me how she was getting close with her in a short amount of time than me and how she trust her more than me. Idk why shes telling me. My bff and i have been friends for 5 years but after i introduced her to my bff she doesn't talk to me anymore. Makes me wonder if i am really that easy to replace
My childhood and my only closest friends are leaving me for a random girl that we've known for only 3 years. What happened to us, I wish I can go back in time to save those precious moments...
My best friend just told me we’re done there’s nothing I can do to fix it it hurts the most especially when you’ve been friends for more than half of your life
I’m being replaced by a girl , she’s more outgoing then me, not so sensitive around grief like me. Mentally well, but no my best friend dosent want me anymore , it’s very clear she;she dosent even hang with me anymore, she’s now constantly making jokes about my dad dying more than usual. Calling me a lesbian for no reason at all. “You feeling cutie today (my name)” , like you can obviously see I’m struggling and when you go and replace me with someone you’ve know for a couple months..? It’s like I’m not even there anymore, the talker into the listener.
Hey, Same here. Once the school year started my friend group went to one school and I went to another. They replaced me with a girl who looks like me, has almost the same name as me and had my fun personality. I’m a gc with all of them (including the girl) and I don’t talk much it in. Heck they don’t even realize I’m there. They only text me separately when they need someone to vent to or everyone else is busy. It’s sad because I thought these people were my forever people
My only best friend,the one who makes my day worth it at school and outside the building is replacing me,I think.
This girl,let’s call her C.She is very pretty and perfect looking girl.They became best friends,they eat together,hold hands,make homework together,laugh together ecc..
Now,i’m not saying that I don’t want my best friend to have other friends but it’s just that she stopped talking to me.She does sometime but it lasts 2-5 seconds at least?We don’t go out that much as before,I try to talk to her but she just finishes the conversation saying ‘yeah ok bye’ then she walks to C.I remember when one day I kept a free chair for her to sit next me while we listened to our theatre teacher but she looked away and smiled at C and then she sat next to her…
The only thing that I miss it’s my best friend.
time stamps
0:00 me and the birds = duster
1:33 jealous = eyedress
3:35 rises the moon = liana flores
6:17 young = vacations
9:25 stars will fall = duster
11:21 washing machine heart =mistki
13:30 are we still friends = tyler the creator
17:56 just pass my wallet = jack stauber
bye bye
!Vent! Recently i had to leave my old friendship group purely because of 1 person.I do still speak to 4 of the people from said friendship group however my new group consists of me,a new girl,someone from old friend group and someone who we had a mutual hate for each other.im perfectly fine with being friends with my new group aside from the fact i feel like im being pushed away by all of them.current it feels like my only friend is my cat i had another friend but theyre more interested in their partner than talking to me.I understand i am a sensitive and genuinely soft person but they clearly dont realise that.they meake fun off me and then claim its a joke with people who clearly dont like me due to the fact they told me to kms ect.i dont mean to talk about stuff like this online but i have nobody else to go to. my mother stopped paying for therapy and all my friends have found other friends. at school i just sit on the benches with my headphones on.i got told i ate like a pig so i stopped that too.im just so tired of everything...
is u ok? happy new years btw
He told me he isnt into me romantically anymore and that the feeling just kind of faded but that we'll always be best friends. Now he's hanging out with my longest friend who ive known since i was like 6, doing all the things we did with eachother before. He stays up talking to him after he's already said goodnight to me. He talks to me only when my other friend isnt around. He's in the clearest possible way replacing me and neither of them will admit it. Nothing feels worth it anymore. I dont feel much of anything at all. I miss being happy so much.
No one talks to me anymore lol
I don’t want them to know that I hate them.
I just want them to know that I’ve got alot happening, and sometimes I can’t always have full-conversations or moments like before.
But slowly they got tired, and is now better off with other more better friends than I was.
i still think of you as my closest friend even if we don’t talk much anymore.
I’m sorry for not always being there.
Mine started talking to this guy and now she has replaced me with him and it hurts watching it , it hurts knowing she replaced me after I’ve been there for her for so long , so many years of friendship gone…
my best friend is my friend from 6 years old then when i turn to 8 she leave my school for 3 years then when i turn to 11 i got to her class when i saw her i got surprised then i found her with another friend 😞😞😞 i cry when i writed this 😭😭😭😭
it sucks getting replaced my depression got worse and well my best friend was there at the start but after a while she started to be more distant and know i guess im kinda just there in the background it hurts she started to hang out with another person and know i just watch them it hurts
I'm so sorry that your best friend is starting to get distant with you. Please stay strong and remember that you're an amazing person. I hope that you find some new friends who treat you with the respect that you deserve and make you feel like you are loved and important. (How you should feel because I just know people love and care about you. And you are very important.) I hope that your depression gets better because you don't deserve to feel such pain. I know you're a good person and you try your very best. I'm sorry you're going through being betrayed. Just know you are wonderful. You are perfect just the way you are and don't let these fake friends change you. This world can be very cold hearted and cruel. Please take care of yourself! Though my words might not make you at least feel a bit better I just want you to know I'm here for you and you can trust me. I've always wanted to help such and amazing person like you. And I would like you to know one day you will find the most amazing person that will make your life better. You don't deserve to feel this sadness. (I know some of this might not even make sense but I'm not a very smart 11 year old so that's why lol.) You got this! I just know you can get through your hard times! And if you don't think you can I believe in you.
vent: i was in a friend-group of 4 people, 2 people got distant and they went to their other friends, now they’re in a friend-group, me and the person left were bestfriends, she has gotten really distant, and now is in a bigger friend-group, she told me that i’m a part of it but i never get invited to anything, she’s always just sending me voice messages and stuff talking about how fun it was, and when i asked if she wants to hang out she said she’s probably going to be with them, i asked if i can come because i’m a part of the friend-group and her response was that one of the girls there don’t like me so i can’t come
@Shade idk, she always says some shit about me, i always ignore her but she never ignores me, she has something to say. thanks, you too!
In my class, I'm the class clown, all people likes my personality and more. But now I cannot handle my bipolar personality disorder. My mood get changes very easily. I am no longer everyone's favourite for now. Because of that mental illness . I feel jealous with her. Because, look she is gorgeous and also funnier than me. All people likes her, I feel jealous but I ignored it. I got replaced, I'm now the second choice. Oh how to be like her. She is an Angel. I'm insecure with my face. I hate myself. I hate my life. I hate her. I hate my friends. I hate school. I hate everyone. I hate people. I hate everything .
I’m in a trio and.. I just got in a fight with my ex bestie and friend. after 3 years of relationship.. was saying “could you keep it down” that bad? They were TEAMING against me. I had no one else. My other best friend just moved, she was the only one that cared about me after 8 YEARS of relationship. was I that bad? I wish I never existed. Humans are pain in the chest. One day I felt lonely and let’s just say they didn’t care. I miss you best friend
I haven’t been talking to my best friend and I hate myself for it. I don’t really wanna be here anymore tbh.
My friends always post videos abt there stupid relationships and they’re irl friends BUT THEY DONT WITH ME.. i hate it I hate it I hate it
Then they say that there favorite person “is there gf” or “her bff” BUT I WAS HER BFF. WE TALK EVERY NIGHT. WE PLAY ROBLOX. I CHECK MY NOTIFICATIONS EVERY MORNING THINKING “did they comment/reply??, I have to check there posts and videos” BUT ITS ALWAYS ABT THERE STUPID FREAKING RELATIONSHIP OR SOME VIDEOS THEY FOUND OR THERE THING WITH RUKI
IVE BEEN FEELING LIKE THIS FOR SO LONG..
I HATE IT SO MUCH. I WANT TO BE IN THE VIDEOS WITH THEM. I WANT THEM TO THINK ABT ME AND THERE GF AT SCHOOL. Not just her.. 💔 I’m so jealous
I got betrayed before.. and it was the worst thing that could ever happen to me, it literally changed me into the worst person possible, but now that won’t happen again. I will make sure of that.
Edit: BTW- Thanks for the playlist ✨
i miss my online bsf of 8 years. idk why she replaced me but. thanks this playlist helped :)
After a friendship of three years… my best friend wanted to stop talking to me only for a couple ‘weeks’. It was over a bit of drama. I knew that after we stop talking things would never be the same. And I wasn’t wrong. I was quickly replaced, and she has seemed so much happier without me… she video calls with her new friends very often now and post in on social media. It hurts to know I put in all my energy to make her happy but she didn’t even want to continue the friendship. I feel like it’s my fault. I also noticed she copies me sometimes… I don’t know why. I wish things were back to normal. It makes it worst to know I have to see her 1-2 times a week because of religion. It’s not to bad but because I have horrible anxiety every time I see her I over think and end up crying in a corner. Every time I go I see her with her other friends, she sits with them and has a good time. And every time we walk past eachother she doesn’t even bother to acknowledge me.. or the fact that we were In a friendship together. After this, I just don’t trust that anyone will stay anymore. I feel like a mistake. During our friendship I always felt left out, and every time me and her would have the smallest misunderstanding she would talk about me to her peers, specifically her mom, sister, etc.. I always made the effort to make her feel important and loved, but she never put in the same effort. It sucks because even if the friendship was toxic I.. miss it? It just makes me sad to know all of the heart I put into her and trying to make her feel happy has gone to waste, and she has not given anything in return. I feel bad but at the same time upset. I don’t even know if we’re still friends or not.. I don’t think so. We went through so much together.. and I said one little thing that ticked her off.. and we aren’t talking anymore. It’s my fault.
Darling it's not your fault some people just change... dont beat yourself down its going to be okay remember sometimes you have to put yourself first .
I just lost a relationship of two years, I wanted it to last forever
u have good tasted of depression songs..❤
My parents got a divorce when I was 8,im 11 now,my mom has problems with my brother(13yo) and my dad got a new girlfriend that moved in,she has two daughters,one 13 year old that visits and another one that is 7 and she lives here,my dad has been loving her more than me,I’m not trying to be selfish but it’s like I’m being replaced and I hate it so much..
Vent:
We knew each other for 4 years, and he was the first boy best friend I ever had, we got along so well, there was nothing wrong it was a genuine friendship. But over the years we haven’t had any classes together, except for this year, 1 class but we only have it every other day. Whenever I get on Roblox I always see, let’s call him I, playing with this girl M, they play together every second of the day, games that he said didn’t look interesting, they play, and it’s all the time, every time I get on it’s a constant reminder that I’m not good enough, I’m also I’s back up friend, any other person he can talk to, he’ll talk to, I’m never his first option anymore, they always get paired together and I also see them talking together in the halls, at lunch they always sit isolated from the rest of the friend group, do you really need that much space? Is it such a big deal that you guys have to have your own space anyway from everyone? It really sucks because it’s not everyday you have an actually boy best friend, and I had one, but I lost him…it’s not like we were distant when we didn’t have classes together, we would wave and talk, but this year I’ve noticed that he’s actually avoiding me more than talking to me, and for these past couple days I’ve tried caring less and less, like not starting conversations and not talking to him much so I can distance myself and get over it soon, but it always pops up in my mind. I’ve been replaced before, but all friendships were fake from the start, this was a true friendship and to see it slowly being destroyed is so horrible, imagine looking back with all good memories but then you look in front of you and you see them talking, you see yourself getting replaced and wonder where it all went wrong…
Update: At my school if you come early you go to the cafeteria and he sat near me (we have to sit 2 seats apart from people so we dont talk) and abt a min later this other girl comes we’ll call her C she comes and they talk all the time until we’re dismissed. And at the end of the day at dismissal ig my friend jokingly said to him that we weren’t his friends and he wants to be with other people, no response, then she said « No response? Wow I guess we aren’t your friends then » Also as a joke and all he said was « No, not really, you guys are my friends » But really awkwardly more like he was forced to say it…
UPD 2:
So one of my friends was telling a story and asked, « Do you know _____? » I, my friend and him are in the same friend group, we’re so distant know people don’t know we’re friends…we talk at dismissal sometimes but barely because my other friends are there, so I talk to them and if he mentions something I sometimes comment on it. This weekend I had a sleepover with my girl best friend and she invited the girl who he is replacing me with (I didn’t tell my girl best friend yet) but she is nice, and I’ve always known that, she’s just nothing like me…she also told us who her crush is, and it’s not him, so it’s not a crush type of relationship but a best friend one…also I don’t remember if I mentioned it before but I unfriended them on roblox 5 days ago, they haven’t noticed but on friday he said that he plays roblox everyday, so I’m sure he noticed…that’s all for this update 😐
Update 3: I’m getting replaced by a pick me. I know I said she’s nice, but she’s a pick me. Other people say it, it’s not just me. And honestly if his type of best friend is a pick me, hell no. I’m not changing myself into a pick me. If it was something doable I would, I’ve changed for people multiple times, I can do it again, but not to be a pick me. Anyway that’s it fr fr
UPD 4: So I got asked again if I know _____ 😐 But at dismissal I was talking to my friends and he was talking to another friend and we didn’t talk the whole time. I’ve been kind of « ignoring » him but like that’s never happened before…if you have any suggestions on what to do or you think the ignoring thing is right lmk cause im very lost rn 😭
UPD 5: So nothing has really happened irl but more like mentally…so honestly I might like him…which is rlly weird ik, I feel butterflies and I have also dreamed about him every night for about the past week. Now this will never work for two reasons, 1. Our current relationship 2. I promised and swore I would never like him. I did that bc he used to like this one girl and she liked im back but they didn’t want to date just yet. But he doesn’t like her anymore and now I can’t rlly tell anyone since I literally promised and said id kms if I ever did…but when I had my first dream abt him I went to school and looked at him not as the bald person I knew four years ago, but as a normal person, and holy shi- 😳 He fine…🤭 But now we don’t even talk, and idk how im supposed to get us talking again, i mean i could ease into it again…idek I need help 😭😭
UPD 6: So on Friday at dismissal I talked to him and he was like, “I thought you were mad at me” 1. HE CARED ENOUGH TO NOTICE?? 2. HE CARED ENOUGH TO ASK?? 3. HE WAS THINKING ABT ME??? Well anyway yeah I also friended him back on rblx saying it was an accident, honestly things are def better then they were before, gotta talk to people and boom it all works out 🤯 (This MAY be the last update but honestly I didn’t even expect 1 reply and to me it feels like 700 people replied to this comment lol)
UPD 7: It’s been a while but we barely talk and he talked to me today and asked why I text him a bunch (i dont even think i text him a lot) and never talk to him irl, but it was js yesterday when he ignored me, and ngl he ignores me a lot 😭 and i realized it’s not my fault that we’ve grown away, on the first day of school he asked if i could come early so we can talk, but after that once he had classes with M he acted differently abt me, and almost never talks to me…but i think thats it…
Ik it must be hard for you, i hope everything gets better for you :)
@@aayushisme21 Aw thank you, I’m going to do an update a little later
@@danii._.mellï okayy :))
@@danii._.mellï I hope ur friendship gets better with ur best friend
@@aayushisme21 Ty I also updated it if you want to read it
They found a new man just a week or so after we broke up and told me about it, then after a few months of no communication, come back asking if we can be friends again. Turns out their new relationship didn't work out so I guess they thought it'd be okay to show up in my life again and remind me of our breakup just when I was finally moving on. Now I can't bring myself to tell them I don't want to be friends, because I still care about them, it hurts.
He said that he loved me, he said that he would never hurt me and that I was beautiful
Then
why did he leave me for somebody else?
Why did he ignored me for 5 days?
Why doesn't he care about me anymore?
He knew the power that he had over me and he used it to hurt me
now I can't trust anybody, I feel like everyone lies when they say "i love you".
I used to be the center of attention in my friend group then the next year my friends slowly started hanging out with this other new person and the third person in the group who would only sometimes come with us is getting the seats next to my friends at lunch more and more until they just left me behind them after I was in such a rush everyday to sit next to them
All my friends start to bully me hitting me and saying that i am boring and annoying and a i am a cry baby and way too more things ,and they replaced me with my twin sis saying that she is better then me and my twin sis believe them and she start bully me too
VENT:
I just feel like I'm being replaced. My best friend understands me has the same interests, and knows me well. They're having so much fun when they aren't around me. But they just seem so... Dull to me. Sure, I've made mistakes, but I don't know if they love me anymore. I had a crush on them, and when I lost interest, they seemed so dull around me. I know I shouldn't blame them, they have a rougher life than I do but I just feel so numb now. They don't love me, they have so much more fun with their other friends, idk if I can go on now. They're the only person keeping me afloat. I just don't know if I can keep going anymore
I had a best friend who i met 4 years agi at first i didn't talk to her cause she was popular and all and i hated getting involved in all those stuff but the next year we somehow became best friends. Everyone thought how close we were and even we thought that too but gradually we both became more distant cause she always used to hang out with big bros and sis while i used to spend my time with my ols friends who i was friends with for almost 7 years. She started to felt jealous cause i spent my times with them so i started to spend less time with them because no matter what they were my friends too and i cant just stop talking with them cause she felt jealous. Now after i did that she started to spend times wuth my another friend who was my friend for 7 years nowbi wouldn't really mind it that much but when she got with that friend she technically started to completely ignore me i no longer existed to her... Finally after a long while she wrote a letter to me saying she wanted to break our friendship cause she was insecure and i reassured her but ig i should have done that because after that she not only ignored me but neglected me like we made few promises to do and while i was ready for all those and getting excited about it she choose to go with her and do it right in front of me. After that i also wrote a letter to her and asked if she wanted to be friends or not but no matter how many times i asked hse never replied.
Srry for the vent in advance
My best friend(I'll call her M) and I have been friends since kindergarten and around a year and a half ago they met a different friend(I'll call her T). Over the course of this year, M has been replacing me with T. M and T go off and do their own thing during lunch instead of hanging out with the rest of our friend group. I also haven't hung out with M on the weekends, as they constantly only hang out with T. (There have been a lot more instances of stuff like this happening but I won't waste ur time) I know I can't control who M is friends with, but it hurts knowing my best friend since kindergarten would rather hang out with someone else than so much as invite me over. The thing is, it's hard to be mad at T bcz they are one of the sweetest people I know and T would never intentionally replace me so I haven't confronted either of them abt it.
Srry abt the vent but I just don't know what to do
hey, I hope you are okay ❤. I wish you luck in these hard pandemic and friend stuggle times.
i know you said this a month ago but if youre still stuck in it i think you should take a step back and focus on friendships that affect you positively until you figure out your next steps, do not act on your emotions
HOW TF DID YOU DESCRIBE MY LIFE?!
The only difference is that my M replaced me with someone we met 4 months ago.
Vent TW ⚠️
(Also sorry if i spell bad)
Im isz [non binary] she/them
So i had this girlfriend i really loved and am still friends with. (Lets call her J) she was my online friend but we were the same age. I even face reavled with her later on. she was my everything, and even when i felt like nothing she gave me hope. It was one of the happiest times of my life. She was the one. Shortly after, on chirstmas, i was about to tell her something all lovey dovey but before i could say anything she said she needed to talk with me. She broke up with me on Christmas. I was fine with it but a little sad. A few day later my ex friend (who ill call M) told her parents that i was dating a 65 year old man online. Her parents told the school, and i met with the guidance counselor the next day. I got my phone taken away for a week, luckily my parent's didnt find anything. I cried for days after that. Every night. But did anyone care? No. No one even asked if i was okay. M apologized to me a day or two later but i told her that sorry didnt fix anything. She then said "well i told them because you weee actkng different."
... what.
I then told her since i hadn't seen her in about a year i changed and that was mostly for the better. She refused to belive me. I then blocked her and or unfriended her on anything and everything. When she walked past me in the hall or something i wouldnt even make eye contact with her. She is now a school bully, and is still ruining peoples lives.
During that time when J broke up with me, i was kinda broken. She even got a boyfriend like 2 weeks later, completely forgeting about me. She broke up with him 2 months after that! I helped her get out of that. I was there when no ine else answered. And now she just gets new feiends like i dont exist. Its not her fault, im not saying its her fault, i still love her. But i feel like im not good enough for her anymore. I dont wanna be me. Heck, i barely wanted to live a few weeks ago. But my head uust cabt wrap around the fact that i need to let go. Im still not good enough. I probably never will be.
"Atleast i still have my friends"
They've all mostly stopped talking to me. Maybe an occasional "goodnight" or "i need help with this" text but other that. Nothing. I dont wanna be here anymore. Why am i like this?
Oh good, im crying now. Im so sensitive. Ill save you some of your time. Maybe ill update, maybe i wont.
Im sorry i wasted your time, im a waste of space i get it. Sorrry again, bye for now.
My best friend it slowly drifting away with me and is so much closer with her other friends than me and treats them so much better than me and always asks them to do things and gives them stuff and I hate it nd I'm slowly realizing she's turning me into a bad person but I can't lose her if I lose her I lose everything. And her new friend is just making it even worse and I always like it's okay but I really hate it 😓
Currently just Hoping im not right. But they ahve been talking with someone lately and they seem so much happier with them then if i am with them and i just dont know what to do
!!vent!!
my very best friend since third grade. She got a new boyfriend. I only talk to her twice at school now. It used to be 24/7. Another best bud since kindergarten. Left me for a group of girls and became popular. Also about the first best friend, I have another one and we a little trio of best friends. The newer one replaced me for therapist of the group, and I don’t know if I feel good or bad about it. Sorry for the vent. Kinda just wanted to let it out here. Everyone make sure to take care of yourselves.
I know she wouldn't replace me because she loves me and I love her. I just can't shake the feeling that she might leave me for the person I really don't like who's trying to become her best friend. It's happened before and I can't lose her
Me and my best friend had the strongest bond in my whole entire lifetime never knowing she’d find someone else.
I used yo have this great groups of best friends...one day they just stopped being friends with me because I started getting into Dnd and getting closer w/ my family...my bestest best friend replaced me with my ex who she used to hate....
They ruined my birthday last year...and here i am... crying about them a year later before my birthday weekend...
I always ask my friend to call and talk to Mr but they always say they can't and then later when they know I've been waiting all day to call with them, they call with someone else who they get to see everyday at school but since I do online school I barely get to talk to people or see my friend
My partner got another partner 9 months into our relationship and now I feel like my friends are replacing me with her
Man. I feel like I’m becoming unneeded or even annoying to my younger sister sense they have a boyfriend now and she won’t stop talking about him even though she knows I’m still recovering from my breakup a few months ago
I’m not trying to do anything with anyone at this point. Me and my friend used to be so connected, so together, but then someone new and better came around. Now they don’t even talk to be without me starting the conversation. The conversations always end quickly anyway. I don’t get why I still convince myself there’s hope.
he took it off just for her, he shoved it in my face, he dragged me, he hurt me, he likes her more, it looks weird on me and looks perfect on her. how do emotions work again?
I have no one to vent so I am going to say it here : Honestly perfect for the moment , at church I had gotten replace many times and i Low key fee left out all the time.and today was the peak of it . And then people wonder why young people stopped going to church 🤷♀️
My best friend is literally my only friend. Because I'm home schooled now. But I met up with her today and she acted off. Like she treats a normal friend. Because we are each other around each other. But today she just was off. And I notice she didn't like me anymore when she side hugged me. I could feel it. She also got this new friend. Ever since then we haven't talked. Not even on Snapchat where we talk all the time. Honestly I have to see her tomorrow but in just going to try to ignore her so I stop hurting myself so much. My other cousins will be there so I will just try to hang with them as much as I can. Honestly I don't even think we were best friends after 2022. Now it just feels like Im being used for advice. I helped her get to hang out with her crush and other stuff. But that's all we talk about her crush. Our relationship just turn from best friend to friend who will give advice. But honestly I think I'm just jealous. Probably. That would explain a lot lol.
Ive been replaced before but now its my "best friend" and my girlfriend
And damn that shit hurt
We were best friends , we were so close that year. But i guess it *is* another year. Things change. I only *did* introduce them to eachother this year.. I get this feeling in my stomach. Jealousy? Disappointment? Hatred? I think to myself..
That , Im so selfish. She calls out to her *INSTEAD* of me , her best friend. She walks with them like shes known them for so long.
WE were the best friend group. Not her.. Me. After school is the moment i enjoy most , while i walk with my friends to the exit. But no. That used to be us , she only greets me a couple times but asked *HER* to join her and her friends to walk to the exit. Why not me? Did I do something? Did we grow apart? Was I annoying? Im so sorry. My friend. It just seems.. You prefer *her.*
Its funny.. She feels bad for *me*. She feels bad i have to walk alone. Stay alone in the classrooms. Stay alone during activities. You've taking every fucking friend away from me. I feel bad that.. I could not be more social .
Aah.. Perhaps Im not just selfish. Im not jealous. I dont hate her. Im disappointed my friendship wasnt strong enough as yours and your new best buddy.
I was replaced by my stepsister..i lost my childhood friends..i was the only one for them..
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I had enough, it hurts to be replaced slowly by my two friends. I thought it was because trios dont always work but it was just a me problem. I wasn't enough for them. They slowly replaced me with another girl. And it hurts that they dont notice me anymore in the morning or when they go to the restroom or get snacks from the canteen. I cried the other day when they saved a seat for her but not for me. I know it sounds petty of me but I did everything and I gave everything. I even gave an expensive gift and so much more because I really wanted them to be my friends for a very long time. I feel like I'm gonna break that they dont hang out with me anymore. Why do I have to experience this? What did I do to be replaced. I wish I was gullible enough not to notice. I dont know anymore, I wish the school year ended faster. I'm sorry I just want to be in a friend group..I just want to be the first choice for once.
One time my own friend even called me too sensitive with her. I guess nobody cares anymore. They act like they still want to talk to me then ditch me to talk to her again. I have nobody to talk to
I feel like My best friend of 3 years whom I’ve told almost everything too is trying to replace me with a new girl and even tho we’ve recently had some arguments oven some really dumb things and I was mad I don’t wanna lose him
realizing my bf gets happier when my bffs around and then he said what if we do the thing where we all date....
POV: You will always be the second option
Vent Warning:
I'm in a trio. Things were going pretty well, we had inside jokes, we did silly things together.
We hung out all the time, then she came along. Dont get me wrong i have nothing against her but after finding out she existed and the reason the two were never available sometimes I couldnt help but feel hurt. I knew the girl, we got along pretty well, shes very sweet. Theyre all very nice people and id like to believe that they dont mean to do this to me but i just feel an indescribable amount of pain everytime i see her profile. The three of them match pfps, without me ofc. The three of them added each other on every app i only have the two on one or two apps. One has an account they go on when they wanna be away from people and only be around certain people they like, the other two have that account added. I did, but i was removed a while ago. But i powered through the pain, because i love them so so very much. They have calls without me, they took our inside jokes, made their own that they use in front of me that i dont get. Its uncomfortabke but i love my friends, ill withstand the pain. I can feel myself slowly breaking im not sure how much longer i can take this. I couldve sworn my heart broke after finding out the three of them recreated OUR thing without me, with the other girl in my place, where i shouldve been. They made excuses for it, it hurts. They say theyd feel the same way if they were in my shoes, but why the fuck did i have to find out the way i did then, they had no intention of telling me. It hurts so bad, it fucking hurts, i cant do this anymore but i cant lose them. Theyre all i have. As much as it hurts me to stay their friends with this pain continually stabbing me everytime i see them together, the pain from the emptiness id feel without them would kill me sooner.
I relate to your situation, everything was fine, until my ex friend appeared. They matched users and stuff. Without me. This was last year, then my best friend did a great decision, dump them, because my ex friend was manipulative and mean to me. But recently…she came back and she is now matching names AND bios with my best friend. Now I just want to disappear. My best friend is one of the only people I can trust, I told them everything. Everything. But then SHE came along and ruined everything. Now I feel alone. Forever.
@@shootingsmilla1239 Im so sorry about your situation. It really sucks that these things have to happen, you don't deserve to have gone through that, and I understand your struggle. But keep going, you'll find people who cherish you and enjoy your company. You may feel alone now and I completely understand that, but It'll never be forever and I wish you happiness in the near future. :)))
I went to a friend's sleep over,we went to a fair and she got me gifts and was all flirty and I genuinely thought we would be a thing,but then I stayed a second night and she called a friend of mine and she started flirting with him and got really distant with me and I feel upset even though we weren't really dating but she posted me for national gf day and everything and I feel like she led me on
He never loved me . He cheated on me . He said he wants to be friends stilll but he makes me cry myself to sleep to this day
Idk why I'm like this but isolated myself from all my friends and my bestie bc idk why whenever I'm around people I'm very close with and i talk to them i think about it when I'm alone it my head hurts so bad i constantly think about everything i say and shouldn't have said and how much it would have hurt them..........
I don't talk to them and my head feels so good and healthy but...... My bsf she is really sad about it ik she asked me yesterday why I'm being weird and seriously i really don't have any answer idk how long I'm going to be like this all my friends are probably gone no body would want to wait for a messy person like me who is sick in head and everyone else has to go thru it huh!😮💨
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my best friend said we need a break and I am self-centered always bragging and I never talk to her, I feel horrible, I am horrible. And I feel like giving up. I lost my mother at the age of 7 and watched it happen, a year later lost my grandpa uncle and great grandma, then I became the way I am my dad never cares I’m always helping my siblings, toxic relationships, bullying ,getting told I’m a horrible person on a daily basis, having no friends left, hopes of a yt channel failed, lost all my friends, cooped up in my room, my grades dropping, skipping school, being the therapist friend when I’m the one who needs it. Always being left behind, siblings starting to hate me, AirPods in 24/7. I’m drifting away. And I’m at a horrible mental state, I can’t do this anymore. And if you never see me again. I’m gone, Goodnight.
My friend and i were haging out for 6 months now and i met a new friend that i introduced to her and the next thing i know they're facetiming everyday and my friend doesn't even reply to my texts in other words she changed.. Didn't know i could be replaced.. I tried to move on but, i still wonder does she even consider me as a friend?
It hurst a lot knowing she'll leave me anytime soon....