EW: How to Respect Our Husbands: Practical Advice
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 มิ.ย. 2024
- The sin of Eve leads us to think we are smarter, quicker, and more competent than our husbands, which leads to disrespect. In this video we are chatting about how easily we let disrespect slip in and three ways we can practice having a more respectful marriage. Ladies, the more we respect our husbands and live a rightly ordered marriage, the more they shower us with love!
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Respect Playlist by Coach Carol (YT): • Respect
Video "Stay on Your Paper": • EW: Get Off His Paper!...
Video "Oops ... Safety": • EW: I Made an "Oops" ....
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Fantastic video. Thank you, Laura!
Thanks! Glad you found value in it.
I'm improving too Laura....lovely to hear that I'm not the only one who fails from time to time too! Thank you for sharing 😊 ❤
Oh yes, it's so hard at times. Duct taping has helped! :)
@@bloominginthelight I must get myself a virtual role 😄
Amen, well said Laura 🙏
Love this ! Duct tape 😂
I find the more I'm quiet the more 1. I was making assumptions about him that were wrong and 2. things blow over. I also am a safer wife when I can simply listen.
Love the video!
Thanks! Respect is probably something I could comment on daily, either with wins or oops. haha
I very seriously considering working with Coach Carol. She seems wonderful, and I’m grateful that you have recommended her and so many other helpful resources related to marriage. I wanted to get your opinion on what would be the best way to start with Coach Carol if on a very limited budget. I saw she has a course for $197 or 2 phone calls for $300. If you had to choose between the course or the phone calls which one of those would you choose first?
First off, she has a free assessment call. I would always suggest starting there bc 1. it's free, and 2. she gets to know you a bit. Second, the least expensive option is her monthly group coaching: $47/month gets you three group coaching sessions (1 hour each) plus the private FB group.
The course will be incredibly beneficial, on top of any coaching, to understand the basics and the mindset work.
The individual calls move the needle quickly.
She will explain it all in the free assessment. I have personally done her RENEW program (not offered often), individual calls, and I'm in her monthly group program.
@@bloominginthelight thank you for that info!
Thank you for this. I really struggle with this. My husband has been incredibly verbally abusive toward myself and my kids and frequently goes through periods of constantly insulting me. He has a really stressful job which is what brings it on. His job also keeps him away most of the week until Sunday (before sunrise til at least 9 pm every night). He does have good intentions many times. But he drinks heavily, smokes, and doesn’t always lead us spiritually. I’m really at a point of distrust and frustration. I’m just so tired of our children seeing this. So I know I’m guilty of the things you’re saying but it’s so hard with his behavior being so bad. I want our children to know that hurtful behavior is not ok. Any advice? I am looking for a Christian therapist. I have asked him to go to marriage counseling for a long time. He refuses. We have a Catholic marriage and I don’t believe in divorce but what if you feel like you might’ve made a mistake? I love him but it gets so bad sometimes and it’s been going on for so long. Been married almost 14 years.
Just hurts to hear this because I want an amazing marriage so badly.
I hear your pain. I REALLY suggest reading The Empowered Wife and practicing the skills asap. You get your eyes off of him and onto "your paper" because you can only control yourself. If you need inspiration, check out the Empowered Wife podcast by Laura Doyle as well we Coach Carol's TH-cam channel. You don't need marriage counseling. You just need to work the skills. Feeling like you made a mistake is natural, and untrue. I'll keep you in my prayers. Please touch base again after reading the book. I KNOW you can do this and things WILL get better. You can find your joy and light no matter how he is acting, and once you become safe and respectful, things may shift. Yet, with the skills, you can find your joy either way!
@@bloominginthelight how is it possible though when he is abusive and violent and cussing and just not really safe. He’s constantly angry. It’s really so bad. He isn’t able to get along or communicate well with anyone. I believe he’s a narcissist because he views everyone as incompetent and that he is perfect, which is crazy because he’s so hurtful and out of control most of the time. I do appreciate it but it’s hard to hear that I should learn to be happy with abuse.i have tried all the things in the video. He’s a very self destructive person, I don’t think he’s able to love anyone well because he doesn’t love himself. I do get what you’re saying but not sure how my behavior will help that.
“Sins of Eve.”