Malvika Sitlani on Single Motherhood, Separation & Her Newest Relationship| Karishma Mehta | Ep 41
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 มิ.ย. 2024
- “Being a single mom is difficult… Navigating pregnancy and postpartum, without the comfort of my partner by my side was difficult… With the pregnancy scars and the bleeding, I was mending my broken heart too! And through it all, my mother was my partner and my co-parent! My best friends and my mother were literally holding me through this difficult phase… Single moms, if you have them by your side, trust me, you’ll sail through.”
A single mother now, Malvika’s journey has not always been the smoothest. From having her life turned upside down when her father left them to shouldering her family’s responsibilities and from choosing the unconventional career path of content creation to now embracing single motherhood, life has thrown one curveball after another in Malvika’s way. But in the face of all of it, she’s been resilient, and that’s what has got her to where she is today!
A prominent beauty influencer and entrepreneur renowned for her expertise in makeup and skincare, Malvika has carved a niche for herself in the beauty industry through her insightful content. And to add to it, her journey of navigating the complexities of motherhood and co-parenting has been a testament to her strength and determination..
Delve into a conversation that’s as candid as candid gets. Malvika talks to us about everything-from her growing up years to how she constantly reinvents herself and from dealing with separation from her partner while she was pregnant to the challenges and joys of single motherhood, and lots more.
This one’s for all young mothers out there-this will make you feel seen and understood. This conversation with Malvika is a must-watch… Do not miss it!
We also spoke about:
What fuelled her to work harder?
How did Malvika motivate herself despite the circumstances?
How does she deal with trolling and the negativity?
Dealing with pregnancy and postpartum without her partner by her side
Co-parenting
Dealing with mom guilt
Malvika and her mother
#humansofbombay #malvikasitlani #podcast
TIME STAMPS:
00:00- Precap
01:20- Welcoming Malvika Sitlani
01:39- How’s Malvika feeling?
02:18- Reinventing herself
04:27- Malvika’s growing-up years
07:02- What fuelled her work?
09:28- Beginning her content creation journey
12:13- What motivated Malvika during those tough times?
14:35- Dealing with trolling and negativity
17:50- Dealing with a separation during her pregnancy
22:09- How did she arrive at this difficult decision?
26:22- Challenges of pregnancy and motherhood
29:13- Dealing with postpartum without her partner
32:35- Unrealistic expectations new mothers face
33:37- How does co-parenting work?
34:22- Dealing with financial worries as a new mother
35:46- Dealing with mom guilt
37:26- Planning finances for her daughter
38:43- Why financial independence is important for women
39:19- A controversial tip from Malvika!
40:23- How Malvika’s relationship evolved with her mom
43:09- How will she have ‘the’ conversation with Abigail?
43:43- What does Malvika feel about love?
47:02- What advice would Malvika give about dealing with tough times?
51:18- Thank you
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Thank you for being so real & authentic. Loved this episode- you are an inspiration Malvika! ❤
Such an inspiration! 🙏🏻❤️
She truly is❤
But this is very weird that influencers openly share about their positive and good relationships but do not talk about what went wrong!
This needs to be mutual, if ex partner is not fine to share all this then they can't share.
she does n did speak about separation, unplanned pregnancy, single mom raising her etc in her channel. Don't be so quick to judge story with half baked info
Or is it all that u are interested in?
Why you are interested in other’s personal life? Social media is a place where people like to share their happiness.. some people don’t have any problem with sharing bad things but doesn’t expect this from everyone
I completely agree with you and for anyone saying that, why are you so interested in her personal life and half-baked knowledge and stuff like that... well.. Influencers who choose to share their personal life, and only good part of it are actually setting unrealistic expectations!!! It's very important to also share the grey areas just for people to understand that it's not all rosy. Because if you believe so much in the community you buit, don't just share happiness but also the sorrow!!!
I am a single mother. Went to the hospital all on my own, gave birth, was figuring out AirBnB and places to stay in the hospital after giving birth. Above all I had no family support system neither in the hospital nor after I was discharged. My father was involved in domestic abuse and my mother passed off when I was 7 due to this unhappy marriage. The loneliness and missing of warmth for not having anyone beside you in the hospital hits at a mental level. You crave for the comfort of warm cooked food instead of ordering on Swiggy and so many liitle things. My daughter and I grew from there and today she is going to be 3 years. For all the happiness she bought in my life , the pain of the past pales in front of her and I hope she doesnot breakdown when she gets to know her biological father abandoned us because he hid his marriage and was having multiple affairs.
All the power to you! 🙏🏻
I don't even know how to react or respond to this story I just read. First of all, I can't even believe it is real, when it is actually real !! Can there be anyone more powerful than you right now. I mean look at your strength!!! What a blessing amidst the trying times... from someone who didn't know how to interpret God to how I have learnt it now... all I can say is, PRAY. Whether you have faith or not, pray. Miracles will start to happen. From there your faith will grow stronger. 🙏❤🎉 May God bless you and your child and provide everything you both ever want. 🙏
Thank you for your encouraging words and your prayers.
@@humansofbombay2801- Thank you. Maybe you could conduct interview of people like us so that the masses and lesser privileged can also connect.
You are so brave and your daughter is lucky to have you ❤
@29:38 "i will never know what i never had" i felt so bad. I am a mother of a 3 yr old son. May we raise sons who respect women, not afraid of responsibilities and can be the man for her girl. Give yourself all the love you have girl. You deserve the world ❤🎉
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Yes this sentence is so hard to even hear
Cried multiple times while watching this....omg women have unreal strength
Agreee … Same
She was radiating through the whole show. She sounds like a superwoman❤
In interview with shivani, malvika was like its me first then my kid. Now as a mother one can see how her perspective has changed
malvika is a truest form of human on the internet ive seen. Thnak you for the lovely podcast .
Thank you for watching! ❤️
Lovely episode. Uplifting in so many ways. Been following Mals since almost a decade now and she never fails to inspire. Lots of love ❤🫶🏻
Couldn't agree more!❤️
Such a wonderful episode! Such an authentic one, it’s just mind blowing to watch the two favs! ❤ thank you for shooting this episode
@Malvika gives great advice, and listening to her always makes me feel better. I really hope she starts creating more podcast content so I can hear her more often.
Thank you for watching! 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you karishma for bringing her on the show❤
Thank you for watching! ❤️
Malz videos have always been so fun! The first Indian TH-camr I loved listening to and even now she is still so raw. More power to you♥️
When two authentic and beautiful women meet, it's a miraculous and an inspiring conversation
She's the sister I needed in life.. even if it's virtual .. I connect to her the most.. I'm so so happy you got her in the podcast. I love her energy ♥️ as PC says.. good girls do fine but bold girls make history🙌✨ 🧿
So true! Thank you for watching! ❤️
Mamma mals on the show..!!!always and truly admire her❤❤❤❤ lots of love, respect snd blessings to her❤🧿 i can go on for hours listening to her. Shez a virtual therapist and i connect with her so deeply
A conversation I really looked forward to.
Abby is clearly the best new relationship in Malvika’s life❤
Thank you for watching! 🙏🏻❤️
The amount of pain she went through and now looking at her standing all by herself feels so powerful but disheartening coz the girl like her deserved all the happiness in life!
thank you Karishma for brining Malvika, she is such a lovely being
Just love your personality and wordsss…. Looking for more conversations
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Wow her clarity of thoughts is amazing ❤️ More power to women!
No one spoke about post partum so honestly! Thanks for your authenticity
I'm just amazed at how clearly see speaks, how she connects with her audience . Just more & more power to her 💪✨ we're glad that you invited her to your podcast..!! I'm just inspired and motivated 🤍🤍
Well said Malvika! Thanks for being so authentic and real. You’re inspiring so many of us out here! 💜
Loved every bit of this convo❤️
Thank you for watching! ❤️
Awesome episode.... So much to learn from Malvika...she is a true inspiration for so many women..❤
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I always had a special love for Jenny aunty, Malz mom broke the chain of unhappy relationship and chose the right decision for her kids.. I wish that my mom was brave enough to do the same.. ❤❤
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Mals is an inspiration to me i have been following this superwoman and i can only and only feel happy for her as she is healing now💗💗💗💗💗
I have been waiting for this episode since forever!! ❤❤
We hope you like it. ❤️
Thank you for being so real and authentic. Loved this episode - you are an inspiration Malvika! ❤
Absolutely! ❤️
I can listen to Mals 24*7 dude .. i just love her .. ♥️♥️
Much needed ❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤ Girls thank you so much . U hv no clue! I hv been struggling at things and at a time where I thought I would never struggle. And I was really looking for answers. Karishma , watched the manifestation podcast, made notes , rewatching, relistening, implementing everything and it is absolutely working! And now this one . Man! Malvika God bless you. Love love love.
Maaallllssssss ❤❤❤❤ My heart is always for her. I wish all happiness, great health and wealth for Mals and Abby ❤ much much love to her ❤
Love! ❤️
There is so much love for Malvika!! ❤❤❤ you're an inspiration to so many people ✨️
She speaks so well .. fully understandable better than many celebrities.....
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Great podcast❤
Malvika - you are a true influencer. 🦋
Whenever i feel lost or low... I watch your videos
Such a great podcast! 😍 love Mals ❤!
Us too! ❤️
Two of my fav superwomen in one frame, cant be happier. You guys really inspired me in my life. Following malvika since last 6 years, its been a journey. Proud of her always, she is my therapist in my darkest time of life. thank you karishma, for bringing her on your podcast.
We’re so glad! Thank you for watching! 🙏🏻❤️
Reading the comments here really shows how many out there really need support and courage. Thanks for such authentic conversations ❤
Priyanka chopra, Sushmita Sen and Malvilka Sitlani. I can listen to these women for hours. 🙌
just loved this podcast ! more power to you Malvika ...shine on 🥰
True inspiration ❤
The most inspirational woman ever love her so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
We hope you enjoy the conversation. 🙏🏻❤️
Strong woman she is..❤❤️
Listening to mals is always therapeutic fr me♥️
First saw her in India's Top Model, and that time she was young and fun. It is amusing to see her being a mother!
Ever heard of evolution. Everyone evolves , what is so amusing
Did u mean amusing? 😮
All the power to her.Abby is such a happy child.
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I’m going through a lot.. Malz videos helped me a lot ❤❤❤ even last day I watched again her 4 episodes on self love❤️
All the strength to you! ❤️
There's so much you can learn from Malvika's journey❤❤
So true! 🙏🏻❤️
What an amazing episode 💯
Kudos to you Malvika❤️
Thank you for watching! ❤️
what a therapeutic ep❤
Being a single mother ....going thru similar struggle....cud related to her a lot ...and yes she gives amazing make up vids ...
*There is a famous saying,”Divorce starts in Bedroom and ends in Courtroom”.* ❤
All the influencers on one side, Malvika on other side..... I LOVE HER. How she expresses, How she puts her emotions forth. ❤❤❤❤
She is such a genuine person ☺️
Seriously malzzz i didnt utter a single wrong word against her ...u r such a strong personality ....m your loyal audience ...
Wow!! This is such a wholesome podcast 👏👏
Malz is so raw & relatable on every level ❤️❤️
Glad you enjoyed it! 🙏🏻❤️
What a brilliant podcast ❤
Thank you for watching! ❤️
So much power to you Mals!❤
Absolutely! ❤️
I can totally get how difficult life turns up to be. My husband passed away when i was 8months pregnant and now i have a 2 month old child.. life everyday is task to live in but iam trying to hard for myself and my baby. sometimes motivation videos life this helps. i would still say Abi has daddy to go to but my child just solely have me 😓. Just praying we become so strong that few things at least becomes easy for us to survive.
So much love and strength to you❤
You have killed the podcasts vibe like letting the podcast knowledgeable and very much of importance to public knowledge but you have now completely turned it into a personal like interview chat
You are an inspiration for so many people wish your beautiful daughter imbibe all these values from youuu …and when you have your girls u dont need anything
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She speaks with her heart ❤
She truly does! ❤️
she was a pleasure to listen to
I can empathize with you, when you are talking about birth.
It's truly truly true that no one's imagination can cover
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She's so strong❤
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When she said, “look, I’ll never know what I never had!” 💔
This sounds hard man.....like legit harddddd....
been a followers of malss for years and what a brilliant women she is
I hope god has all the happiness and love for her and Abi in store. :)
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She's so raw and transparent!!
Absolutely! ❤️
Mals have, has, still inspires me to love myself, be practical in life
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So soothing to listen to Mals ❤
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One of the most favourite person.. such a strong girl.. love ❤❤❤
So true! 🙏🏻
Mals is a Therapy ❤
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Love love love this duo
So do we! ❤️
Fav beauty and skin care influencer ❤
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She is very strong man
So proud of you mals!!!✨
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Malvika sitlani ❤❤
I am 64 years old and believe me I am actually impressed by her life story and her ability to communicate it all so well without any ill will and rancour towards anyone and with so much gratitude and humility!! God bless you ❤
Thank you so much for this! 🙏🏻❤️
Great role model for both men and women❤
great conversation regarding live's survivor ma'am 💪💪🙏🙏
Thank you! 🙏🏻
@@humansofbombay2801you are my best source of inspiration ma'am 🙏
Malz keeping god first in all the matters..that's the best part of her
Thanks Malvika for being so candid and honest. Really found this talk helpful 🙌🏻
So glad! ❤️
Malvika u are our inspiration ❤
Wow! ❤
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Malvika is the best!!!
She is! ❤️
Malvika is one of the strongest woman i know....she is the best example of a strong woman n i love her so much....from a woman to a woman she slayed ❤
We couldn’t agree more! ❤️
Malz is love❤
Amazing ❤
Thank you! ❤️
I LOVE THIS WOMAN 🫶🏼
Two of my most favourite women I look up to ❤❤
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My favourite person ❤
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Full proof powerpack! We adore malvika❤
So do we! ❤️
Never seen side before of mals ❤ thank you Karishma humans of Bombay
Thank you for watching! ❤️
Wait they already separated ?felt like few months before they married.
Waiting for boho girl and my happiness Komal interview
Mals ❤
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28:28 Mals being herself ❤