HOW TO THINK BEFORE YOU HIT FIRST!

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  • @timporter8886
    @timporter8886 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    This is brilliant! So many hard skills posts on the internet, and hardly any dealing with pre-contact discipline or mental capacities. Such an amazing channel, and this guy is a fantastic instructor and role model!

    • @schoolofselfprotection
      @schoolofselfprotection  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you for the kindness! Much appreciated 🙏🏻

  • @logosrising865
    @logosrising865 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Had a discussion with a social worker. She told me that you always have a choice during a confrontation.
    I dropped the subject because there's no talking to these people.
    These are the same people who will blame you for defending yourself and will defend the attacker.
    They seem to believe bad things only happen to bad people. So if you put someone in hospital defending yourself, you must have provoked it.
    Weird but hey, this is the world we live in.

    • @DavidBatchelor-pz1xk
      @DavidBatchelor-pz1xk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You got right friend,been there done that,spent 23 hours in cell for my trouble,irony is the guy was trying to extort money off me,mad mad world bro 😂

    • @florianadolf2256
      @florianadolf2256 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That little word "always" is indeed problematic. Sometimes you may have a choice... but saying that you always have a choice amounts to ignoring human nature, ignoring reality...

    • @DavidBatchelor-pz1xk
      @DavidBatchelor-pz1xk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      So true friend,people so easily say you always have a choice,well sometimes you don’t,you just have to take action,there would be much point calling police when you’ve been stabbed to death,if you get my point !!!☠️

    • @m3photo726
      @m3photo726 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sideline refereeing is typical in those with no practical experience.

    • @DavidBatchelor-pz1xk
      @DavidBatchelor-pz1xk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ain’t that the truth m8 ! ☠️

  • @LoversRfighters
    @LoversRfighters 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    That's what my martial arts mentor meant when he used to say don't worry about what he's going to do just do what you're going to do.

  • @spiritualtaurus7942
    @spiritualtaurus7942 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    This guy is right! Your not a bad person for doing what you have too/need to. It's about protecting and saving yourself. In krav we are taught not to think or hesitate. Take the fear out so you don't think or panic, Great video sir. Even I still have this thinking issue sometimes, we aren't able to think with all this programming around us in society. Laws cannot protect you and you aren't always going to have a way out of a situation, you have to deal with it yourself.🙏🏻

  • @hb9145
    @hb9145 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Yes, some people can't be talked to, and you can't get away. I was confronted by a guy at a party many years ago. I had not seen him or done anything to him. He must have been some 10 kilos heavier. He pushed me into a wall for no reason, and had one hand of each side pushed against the wall. As I tried to walk away, he pushed me into the wall again and blocked my path, still holding one hand on either side. I then pushed him a little and suddenly hit him with a straight right to the face (I had trained a little boxing and karate at the time), opening a cut on his upper lip, and his nose started bleeding.
    Then he swayed a little, and he gave me this look of utter surprise and confusion. Some people intervened at this point, so that was that. He told everyone that he would press charges, but I never heard anything after that.

  • @theadjuster151
    @theadjuster151 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So instead of of just absorbing the realization that you just got hit you just ignore it and keep fighting? Perfect! Thanks Mike!

  • @brockvenator2299
    @brockvenator2299 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Applying what I have learned from UC : I would swap anger, fear and ego in that situation for righteous indignation, which is distinguished from anger and other mental chaos because it delivers the clarity you mention here. It's funny how it gives you loads of energy, even when tired.

  • @waltherwagner9711
    @waltherwagner9711 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    One of the hardest parts of a fight is the moment right before the violence starts. That moment of possible selfdoubt and fear. Also to pull the switch for violence when you get surprised

  • @AN-zl9rq
    @AN-zl9rq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are a warrior even when you are talking. The way you move and talk... Explosive in every way. Thanks, I love your videos

  • @bernardpiraux1411
    @bernardpiraux1411 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Michiel 🙏 Fighting techniques are one thing but the state of mind and mental is the most important .
    From Belgium 🖐️

  • @DavidBatchelor-pz1xk
    @DavidBatchelor-pz1xk 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sound wisdom,truthfully and real,great stuff !!!

  • @RickBrocious
    @RickBrocious 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very great teaching

    • @Dhejdjskd
      @Dhejdjskd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A bit of a rambler. Could have had his thoughts better organized. Probably too many hits to the head.

  • @firstfighter7037
    @firstfighter7037 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you. Very usefull!!!!

    • @schoolofselfprotection
      @schoolofselfprotection  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @firstfighter7037
      @firstfighter7037 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@schoolofselfprotection I'm a Caoch for Wing Chun & MMA, but i'm 57 Years old and from my point of view, i'm getting a little bit soft. When i watch your Vids, i remember my "good times" when i was a little bit harder. I know that fights on the streets are harder than fights in Doyo (no Rules, no mercy!)
      Thank you for that!
      Best Regards from Cologne, Germany

  • @cheyennerafterq
    @cheyennerafterq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Outstanding reminder!

  • @louise5906
    @louise5906 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thankyou 🦘

  • @bu5h1d0m7
    @bu5h1d0m7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A wonderful explanation of the processes in our psyche and how to control them before and during a fight! I haven't seen a better video of this until now!
    Keep up the good work and take care! 🙏

    • @schoolofselfprotection
      @schoolofselfprotection  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You're very welcome! I appreciate this kind comment!

  • @Һагараӏъ
    @Һагараӏъ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In other words:
    you choose what to be - pray or predator - and this is achieved by reaching the necessary state of mind, and this takes time and training and experience.
    Instead of being the aggressive, non-lethal, loud pray, be the silent, lethal, warrior/predator!

  • @bastardator6229
    @bastardator6229 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you!! I dont think this is bs... Now I understand better the feelings that I had back in the days... Thank you and god bless you!! 👍

  • @troyb.9864
    @troyb.9864 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me, it’s the ability to release the flow of energy to connect back after being hit. Lol no pain until after the fight.

  • @kompletternoob8046
    @kompletternoob8046 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thx for sharing a small part of your knowledge with us - and even if it gets boring - i keep on saying: great work as always ! :)

    • @schoolofselfprotection
      @schoolofselfprotection  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks. This is not the most spectacular video 😂 but I hope it gives you something.

    • @kompletternoob8046
      @kompletternoob8046 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@schoolofselfprotection it does for sure ! in my opinion these aspects are as important as the knowledge how to strike and to move

  • @arcturus475
    @arcturus475 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Quality content

  • @wimlokate5297
    @wimlokate5297 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great information!

  • @jerfootpath3774
    @jerfootpath3774 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    great respect for what you do so well, interesting to listen to you re car crash and how you found yourself just as an observer there but not there, totally get that. You also mention the inner dialogue which is mostly conditioning in a non helpful way not to trust is as the inner voice that true gut feeling. What is your view not only on how to deal with violence if its presented to you as you demonstrate so well but more how to eliminate it early so it cannot flower and cause havoc. much respect.

  • @philipbentley9850
    @philipbentley9850 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    An interesting mix of most all of the areas I've explored myself, karate 53 yrs ago I started. 11yrs training/sparring. Left it, never stopped the interest. Doing and trying various. Your site has great clarity, builds behind the body bulk that most complicated part that determines all the elements of situations and outcome. Needs more words than I command. Needless to say follow closely and benefit from your sense of direction. Highly impressed. Cheers !

  • @MrCleon22
    @MrCleon22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love your channel. Hope to train with you one day coach

  • @donaldduck2801
    @donaldduck2801 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That guy knows it all. Great wisdom. I recognise it ..a lot people think to much as " what if".. and that makes insecure and give fear of failing...
    And then you will fail. Same situation if you see a the woman you secretley love, you dont dare to aproge because you think too much.
    In danger situation its better to get angry than scare.

    • @hb9145
      @hb9145 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Using your brain instead of just dishing out may be a good idea to avoid prison.

  • @MAXTHALOS
    @MAXTHALOS 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don't thing...feeeeel...💯

  • @JustaNobody008
    @JustaNobody008 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Best Teacher and friend, fo all people willing to learn to defent themselves should take a course.

  • @алексшеф-б5ш
    @алексшеф-б5ш 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Как всегда на высшем уровне🔥

  • @frankmorris2603
    @frankmorris2603 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always on point in strategy and mindset.
    Benchmark street combat philosophy always.

  • @SnakeBitBob1982
    @SnakeBitBob1982 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    One of the most instructive videos you have ever put out. Thanks

  • @thewhistlehasbeenblown
    @thewhistlehasbeenblown หลายเดือนก่อน

    For those of you saying it's not possible to live your regular daily life in one way, and then switch into an aggressive mental state for a moment in order to handle a threat, I guarantee you do switch your mental state regularly already!
    Take me for example I wake up freely expressing myself in the morning at home
    Then I go to work, and I switch into professional mode, where I handle meetings, make more of an effort to articulate things well, act very formal etc.
    Then I go home and relax again saying "Fuckin ell, glad to be home, that meeting earlier was bullshit, can't wait to have dinner"
    Then I see my little baby and pick them up and turn into a squishy soft, baby talking, playful, completely goofy silly man.
    So I switch states all the time.
    In this same way, if I hear a smash from downstairs in the middle of the night when I'm sleeping, my heart rate will go up, my adrenaline will begin to release and I will grab my weapon and become a hyper-aggressive and hyper-protective nutcase of a man.

  • @roadwarrior7401
    @roadwarrior7401 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    always different angles of thought ! .............................................also found the car crash talk v interesting , thanks for sharing ...

  • @salparadise5448
    @salparadise5448 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Best no nonsense channel on Krav Maga. Thank you Sir! Even this mindset part is absolutely appreciated as it is key in surviving

    • @JustSomeGuy69420
      @JustSomeGuy69420 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not Krav. It's Urban Combatives from Lee Morrison. Krav is a joke compared to UC.

  • @georgeheorhii2084
    @georgeheorhii2084 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Hello! You have such great videos. I really appreciate this content. You are cool!
    I have a question for you and even an idea for a video.
    I am from Ukraine, and it is possible that I may have to go to the army. Please give me some advice on how to work with other team members and handle everything in a male company.
    Greetings from Ukraine. Thanks again!"

  • @bogse
    @bogse 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like these mentality in a fight or possible coming fight videos since they teach much more than technique videos. Predator idea is very good philosophy. Thank you.

  • @simonsays9447
    @simonsays9447 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Makes total sence

  • @zachariaswulk8558
    @zachariaswulk8558 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thats Right💪

  • @Bralor89
    @Bralor89 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome Information as always. One question: I Just saw a Video on Keysi and some elements remind me of UC. So what are your thoughts on Keysi?
    Best wishes

  • @yakfzJKA
    @yakfzJKA 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me attack is the defense no matter what

  • @taomahNEGEV
    @taomahNEGEV 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Empty your mind and apply the UC tactics learnt and practiced.

  • @shoto3619
    @shoto3619 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do you have any tips or a video on how to train this mindset? The dojo cannot reflect reality. You are exposed to real situations. But for someone who has never experienced a real situation, how can you train/prepare for it?

    • @hb9145
      @hb9145 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A few MMA/Boxing/Muay Thai fights?

  • @TheRealRomansThirteen
    @TheRealRomansThirteen 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In my country you got to think about the legal stuff.

    • @schoolofselfprotection
      @schoolofselfprotection  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Don’t hide behind the law. Nobody is going to help you. In my country we have the same rules. You still have to do what’s reasonable and necessary. And yes..sometimes you going first is necessary and reasonable.

    • @barefoot2478
      @barefoot2478 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Legal in hospital ?

    • @hb9145
      @hb9145 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't think you necessarily disagree with him: If a fight can't be avoided(!) *and* you fear serious harm, do what you have to do to get away.
      I know a national boxing champion who beat up five people at once, and a former MMA champion who did the same. They both got away with it, because, essentially, they didn't have a choice.

    • @hb9145
      @hb9145 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @TCCTTWH If you are in prison, that kind of makes you the bad guy.

    • @hb9145
      @hb9145 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @TCCTTWH This sounds like a false dichotomy. If you maim anyone trying to stab you, or if you are in fear for your life, that's OK - everywhere. If you pre-emptively poke someone's eye out with a sharp pencil without thinking because the guy gave you a funny look, you *are* the bad guy, and you will go to prison.

  • @thewiseaspect
    @thewiseaspect 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It is just close to impossible to be somebody 24 hours and try to be someone else when it requires to be that's why you need kind of imagination thought process to make yourself think over other thing

    • @schoolofselfprotection
      @schoolofselfprotection  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is possible..you are doing it already in your daily life..you are a different person at your workplace, home or talking to an animal or child . The objective is to create one who can deal with a violent situation.

  • @Delio74
    @Delio74 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    👍💪

  • @saelrepresentativite1180
    @saelrepresentativite1180 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    huge

  • @OldBadger1
    @OldBadger1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you

  • @uchenwokedi6812
    @uchenwokedi6812 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My guy!

  • @JGH1708
    @JGH1708 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does your shirt also come in mens?

    • @schoolofselfprotection
      @schoolofselfprotection  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do you need men’s? You don’t need that. Now move on with your “awesome” behavior. Go eat your twinky and stop being so extremely funny. You legend. Stay Flabby.

    • @JGH1708
      @JGH1708 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@schoolofselfprotection it's almost cutting your circulation off its so small. Does it come with matching spiderman shorts? 🤡

  • @bluesquidny
    @bluesquidny 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Guy needs to fight his wife and have her buy him a larger shirt.

    • @schoolofselfprotection
      @schoolofselfprotection  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ahhh typical comment for a specific human being. Keep up the amazing work.👍🏻

    • @bluesquidny
      @bluesquidny 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@schoolofselfprotection Typical for a funny guy? just a joke. I liked your content, but the shirt was a bit distracting.

    • @schoolofselfprotection
      @schoolofselfprotection  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@bluesquidny I will wear even tighter shirts just to irritate you. So from now on understand I wear this shirt only to make you frustrated. You’re welcome.