How Our Parents Feel About Our Music Careers ft. Eric Nam I GET REAL Ep. #9 Highlight

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  • Eric, BM, Peniel, and Ashley talk about how their parents feel about their careers in music.
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  • @kriskafle0130
    @kriskafle0130 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1254

    Peniel is a smart "air head". He speaks with a very casual tone but his insights is so right on. Just the comment about the Asian parents bragging rights is funny but so spot on.

    • @hera0621
      @hera0621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So on point about that tho! And I meant Peniel is on point about the Asian parent bragging right thing.

    • @vocaleader2993
      @vocaleader2993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      so true!

    • @AZ-ob7yi
      @AZ-ob7yi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      There’s specific people like that. People who undervalues their own intelligence to live out a certain lifestyle that they desire

    • @darrylmalonzo2124
      @darrylmalonzo2124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@AZ-ob7yi I think understate is a better word than undervalue. He knows he is smart but he feels he doesn't need to show it because of his lifestyle image. It's kind of like skater boys here in the US they talk a certain way which makes them seem unintelligent like "newb, rad, stoked, etc." but they are probably deeper than that.

    • @RavenXCI
      @RavenXCI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Himbo lolol

  • @daniaefe2192
    @daniaefe2192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +540

    I couldnt stop focusing on BM he looks amazing with blonde hair

  • @minnieegg363
    @minnieegg363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +578

    ASIAN PARENTS love their children as long as they get their BRAGGING RIGHTS - who can relate ughhhh

  • @dreampinkreel
    @dreampinkreel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    I like Peniel’s way of explaining things so much, I think he’s really witty and funny

    • @leenah1287
      @leenah1287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same!

    • @nadungbagoy7145
      @nadungbagoy7145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But he changes once he speaks korean lol he becomes pure innocent n cute around BTOB tho

  • @catbus3258
    @catbus3258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    Why nobody is talking about how caring Ashley is 😢 ily gurl💘

    • @TLAKMS
      @TLAKMS 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What group is she in?

    • @khoiruliaferdiani101
      @khoiruliaferdiani101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TLAKMS ladies code!

    • @walnut5203
      @walnut5203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ferdiani was* they disbanded like 8 or 9 months ago I think

  • @itsonlyjulian
    @itsonlyjulian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    Im so happy to hear that Ashely is enjoying life right now !! she brings such a wonderful calming humble side to things. I really wish her the best in life, and hoping for the day to hear her sing again !!!!! a music collab with all 4 of them would be epic !!!!!

    • @hafsachaudhry369
      @hafsachaudhry369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What is ashely is she a singer?

    • @mooli7667
      @mooli7667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@hafsachaudhry369 yes she is a member of a group called ladies code.

    • @itsonlyjulian
      @itsonlyjulian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hafsachaudhry369 an AMAZING SINGER !!! she was in Ladies Code and they have some amazing songs !! "I hate you", "so wonderful", "Set me Free" are great songs check them out !!!

  • @hera0621
    @hera0621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Lmao the way BM straight up was like "Hell NO!" Haha and then he's like ooop. Haha it was just so funny. And aww I wish my mom would kinda be like that with me like Ashley's mom changed. #asianprobs

  • @jhukaychannel
    @jhukaychannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    "That's like the worst nightmare for an asian parent" 😂😂 oh my gad ahahah so trueeee

    • @fightfannerd2078
      @fightfannerd2078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eric was making great I was shocked he did

  • @kristina1195
    @kristina1195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +232

    I looove this conversations, because things you guys talk about don't affect only certain group of people. All parents love their bragging rights and all kids want to get to that point in life where their parents don't have to work anymore, It's just natural.

  • @roses7659
    @roses7659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    My professor once said if you want to scare your parents, be an Art Major. 😂

  • @aneisap7517
    @aneisap7517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I swear Eric was like if they want him he'll go and there he is...😂😂

  • @yangzeysherpa5595
    @yangzeysherpa5595 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Relatable mostly Ashley at 3:23
    Asian parents and Asian Kids we just don't know how to express our emotions, towards eachother that's what I feel

  • @julyjuly7613
    @julyjuly7613 3 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    Wow never been this fast.

  • @dorijanagecan3931
    @dorijanagecan3931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    This was deep. And honestly super important and needed to talk about. Me myself, i have huge plans for my life that take a huge risk. I don't even share my plan with people cuz im on my own there. Leveling my self up as Eric said.

    • @anee7558
      @anee7558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i hope you get to achieve all your plans!!

    • @ewaokes
      @ewaokes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Goodluck!

  • @boingboing4152
    @boingboing4152 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    ok but like BM looks really gooooood here

  • @callmema14
    @callmema14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love how introspective and real these podcast have been! It's the most honesty I've heard from idols in a while!

  • @iluvmugglenet2564
    @iluvmugglenet2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When Peniel said now everyone knows Eric Nam as a singer that hit me in the feels😭

  • @seokguk7071
    @seokguk7071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    yes very important sunject BUT BM'S HAIR PLZ OHMYGOD he looks Gooo00000o00O000oooOOOOD

  • @samriddhijain1651
    @samriddhijain1651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Ahh either I'm reading into this too much or Eric was seriously thinking about his own stance on marriage while talking with Ashley in the end.

    • @NikkaVim
      @NikkaVim 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      HAHAHAH same

    • @DB-ww9zg
      @DB-ww9zg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      soo curious about that we should ask him

  • @dominique2o06
    @dominique2o06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Eric is on the perfect episode if your Nam Nation you know what to expect already ... I see many idols either brought their family back to Korea or some just rather live overseas Ashely I hope your parents move back if it's what they want ❤

  • @Nimbusstar17
    @Nimbusstar17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just fyi, eric got into one of the big 4 accounting firms

  • @lisanhuang526
    @lisanhuang526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Eric’s mum reminds me of my own mum at 1:23, those whispers to quit because she sees how stressful and difficult my job was. Aww~

  • @felicechen5485
    @felicechen5485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ashley is so lucky to have a mom like that... MY mom is constantly reminding me I'm not married yet and when I will and start a family. Like I'm ready and she knows it but my boyfriend of 5 YEARS still "isn't ready". He himself doesn't know why he "isn't ready".

  • @janelledonayre3931
    @janelledonayre3931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ashleys parents resembles my parents and i feel ashley very well.. the more they didn't pressure me to help.. the more i think about the things i want to do for them

  • @oniisenpai2497
    @oniisenpai2497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    i think eric did the right choice from being silent office worker to famous singer. He is not supposed to be someone who have to do office work silently for all his year. He is born with to be known popular and respected by other people. No korean american person can beat his great personality and popularity. He is popular for being himself. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @ArtisticMary
    @ArtisticMary 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My parents are not Asians but I can totally relate! Especially that pressure that Ashley was talking about. So true!

  • @jennytam9704
    @jennytam9704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I'm living for this podcast

  • @katherinleon
    @katherinleon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Eric, thank you so much for following your dream and becoming a beautiful voice that sings really great songs in my life.

  • @v.madisonford6083
    @v.madisonford6083 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't wait for the whole episode!!

  • @meghanpartap9785
    @meghanpartap9785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can’t believe I was so excited to watch this podcast and I just started listening like less than a month ago. It’s super good..!!!

  • @jrt2394
    @jrt2394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love how insightful this discussion is! also really happy to see eric nam as a guest in this program with the 3 👌🏻

  • @pensuberry3103
    @pensuberry3103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    i love how raw get real podcasts are. it’s so refreshing and makes you realise the point of view of these artists. great job peniel, ash and bm! you too eric 💕

  • @karaxxii
    @karaxxii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My parents are just like Ashley's! Gawd, I am so thankful for them everyday, and what she said is true. It is a natural pressure, especially for the oldest child, and a single one at that, to make sure that your parents are okay and they are in good health and living their life comfortably.

  • @btslivevids8389
    @btslivevids8389 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the best episode so far

  • @milkmysiNZ
    @milkmysiNZ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    These four are honestly the best podcasters out. Although their sessions are really long they make it entertaining and really gives us entails on how their lives were of how their brains work and all. Loving them 💜💜

  • @ClintAndrie
    @ClintAndrie 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm really glad these kind of episodes exist, knowing that the struggles of artists are practically universal

  • @ComedyGlor
    @ComedyGlor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “My BrAgGinG RiGhTs” 😂😂😂😂 ily peniel

  • @kpkafle
    @kpkafle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I don't know what their current status is separately but I really ship Eric and Ashley. Their personalities seem to mesh and they're both cute.

    • @NikkaVim
      @NikkaVim 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ♥♥♥

    • @Finalleigh
      @Finalleigh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too . I was searching for this comment.

  • @AS-rg5wc
    @AS-rg5wc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love listening to them talk so much

  • @TheRaySauce
    @TheRaySauce 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    And look at how you've all come so far, achieving your goals and making visions come alive. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @iluvmugglenet2564
    @iluvmugglenet2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This has to be my most fav ep from #GetReal so so relatable ❤️

  • @alishbakhan7178
    @alishbakhan7178 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh im so excited

  • @eshap731
    @eshap731 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honestly tho I’m so glad that they speak out about it cause like nobody does

  • @neha3544
    @neha3544 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Peniel seems so chill and laid back I love him

  • @TheArtosLP
    @TheArtosLP 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    new episode lets go

  • @auroramarixx
    @auroramarixx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how ashley’s heart is so soft for her parents 😭

  • @zareen6690
    @zareen6690 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    even i did'nt know that eric was a singer I first saw him at AC but then i saw a video of him and jackson he was there to promote his album or something like that then after that i started listening to him.

  • @sarahnada4277
    @sarahnada4277 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can relate. My cousin and I are always talking about this topic.

  • @iluvmugglenet2564
    @iluvmugglenet2564 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It never fails to amaze me how much Eric had to strive to make his dream possible.. 🥺 it's so hard to go against parents let alone Asian parents!

  • @lyka9973
    @lyka9973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    eric i wanna give u a hug

  • @yalazha
    @yalazha 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ashley's mom is so sweet!

  • @heyxjay
    @heyxjay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I’m sorry but y’all need some new mics cause the audio kind of sounds weird

    • @LMChavez980
      @LMChavez980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think there’s a lot of reverb, might be a matter of just adjusting the audio

  • @shinta1172
    @shinta1172 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This conversation was so deep, this is what happen to me rn, when you get older you just wanna make more money and make your parents happy

  • @nini0673
    @nini0673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so of proud of Eric Nam.

  • @mahrukhbatool3447
    @mahrukhbatool3447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    0:47 relatable 😂😂😂😂

  • @chandanavanam1123
    @chandanavanam1123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ashley I feel you yess u got supporting parents just be happy

  • @cathyzhang6933
    @cathyzhang6933 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like these conversations

  • @luciapalacios6913
    @luciapalacios6913 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you guys

  • @samiraulfath6290
    @samiraulfath6290 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ashley is soo precious

  • @misskatmille
    @misskatmille 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Lowkey Eric n Ashley sitting next to one another is a pairing I never knew I needed LMFAO

  • @YanKenPon
    @YanKenPon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Esto se va a descontrolar!

  • @blahwhatever4162
    @blahwhatever4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why do I feel so early, yet so late

  • @eajparkian1446
    @eajparkian1446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mini reunion of *"HWAITING"* 🥺🥺

  • @happyquokka4242
    @happyquokka4242 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ashley's hair looks soooooo pretty

  • @ogabugabedj1977
    @ogabugabedj1977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lowkey got a crush on Ashley

  • @gealeco93
    @gealeco93 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's a great video!

  • @YukinaHawmie
    @YukinaHawmie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    damn how much i can relate to hahahaha i'm a bachelor in English Literature, but currently i'm working as a craft artist. i used to work as a freelance translator for about 3-4 years before i decided to become a full-time independent craft artist. until this day, my mom still proudly tell people (i'm from a very small town where you can still see monkeys or wild pigs crossing the road in broad daylight--the bragging rights hahaha) that i'm working as a translator and a writer even though i have changed job completely XDXD

  • @jsanlovely8880
    @jsanlovely8880 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Real Talk it is 💯

  • @mivamoon8264
    @mivamoon8264 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yo i need tablo in this podcast

    • @avelye5200
      @avelye5200 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miva Moon agreed. It would add a notch of interesting. But I read Tablo’s parents supported him.

  • @blahwhatever4162
    @blahwhatever4162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Every Asian can relate to this to some extent ✊

  • @namjooning5503
    @namjooning5503 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    jesus it's literally 5AM in here but nvm I loved them

  • @snowiiesan
    @snowiiesan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn i can relate so much.. but i still chose to give up on my dream and just work in an office... sigh.. regrets.

  • @magicscoolbus3834
    @magicscoolbus3834 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    FACTS Ashley!!!👏👏👏👏

  • @gadis6532
    @gadis6532 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh wow "i dont know if i want to get married", that thought slowly came to my mind hahaha

  • @samriddhijain1651
    @samriddhijain1651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is so true tho, everybody is working for and just wants a good life for themselves and their family. To make enough money so that it is no longer a huge differentiator in your life and happiness.

  • @echizen531
    @echizen531 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Peniel sounds so cool..

  • @brxnd1s
    @brxnd1s 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    totally not related but I got kards gunshot mv as an ad 🤩

  • @budingz
    @budingz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    To Ashley's Mom: You're nice. Keep going! 👌

  • @suna_rintarouweneedmemorie4639
    @suna_rintarouweneedmemorie4639 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "my bragging rights.." lmaoo, why can i hear my mom saying that😂 sorry mom I'm trying to be ur straight A+ student!!

  • @diladila2176
    @diladila2176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "my bragging rights!" kill me :'''DDDD

  • @ComedyGlor
    @ComedyGlor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Any chance you could put the full episode up? I’m excited about Eric being here 🥺

    • @HungDuong-od2rv
      @HungDuong-od2rv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      they probably will upload the full episode on their second channel tmr

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hung Duong what second channel?

    • @HungDuong-od2rv
      @HungDuong-od2rv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      it’s called Dive Studios Podcasts

    • @ComedyGlor
      @ComedyGlor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hung Duong ah okay. I hope they upload it soon 🤞🏽

    • @HungDuong-od2rv
      @HungDuong-od2rv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glox Ali they just did go check it out

  • @kimberleyfan4559
    @kimberleyfan4559 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    dam eric respect to you dood

  • @innocentsouluwu1157
    @innocentsouluwu1157 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ive never been this early omgggg

  • @pancakeonarabbit
    @pancakeonarabbit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    many asian kids are forced to play instruments but they're not supposed to enjoy it.
    you have to play out of obligation and that's the only music-contact they'll get.

    • @ewaokes
      @ewaokes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Smh

  • @anjalichhawchharia8108
    @anjalichhawchharia8108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "The worst nightmare for Asian parents"😂😂😂😂

  • @lesipapo7876
    @lesipapo7876 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Peniel be so funny hahahaha

  • @marianabarreiro2957
    @marianabarreiro2957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    can we have jackson on the podcast....it would be so fun

  • @VeronicaEtcetera
    @VeronicaEtcetera 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    How my mum and all of ours can relate to the bragging rights. Sorry Mum, xoxo

  • @astriyustinakambu2812
    @astriyustinakambu2812 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Full episode please... 🇮🇩

  • @shilviath1611
    @shilviath1611 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Woww ashley parents are very supportive...im 26 and my parents started giving signal to get married bcoz u know they believe if i didnt marry b4 30 thn i wouldnt b able to conceive it will b too late blah blah blah

  • @horsesthatfliesareunicorns7105
    @horsesthatfliesareunicorns7105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can we have eaJ onboard next please?

  • @bodresaint3223
    @bodresaint3223 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm super pressured to get married and have some kids from my parents. For sure they are worried about me (Especially my age) and looking forward to their grand kids. Someday my mum said, "Don't hurry honey. Your life is not mine so enjoy your life. Don't think too much of marriage." I don't know what changed her mind hahaha I'm kinda confused.

  • @n_z_a
    @n_z_a 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Where is the full episode?

  • @rydachaudhary
    @rydachaudhary 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    👏🏼

  • @2_vi_52
    @2_vi_52 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hope we can get mark got7 here...

  • @habsyahfitri9685
    @habsyahfitri9685 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We r millenials a.k.a sandwich generation. No matter if its parents, society or ourselves, we always put a pressure and busyness with our life. I'm so glad these four ppl are mature enough to get back to the core which is love themselves

  • @itzmayy
    @itzmayy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    They can understand me 😹😂

  • @katekate7576
    @katekate7576 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    BM'S HAIR OHMYGOD I RELEASED SOME CERTAIN KIND OF LIQUID

  • @moonchildbruh8565
    @moonchildbruh8565 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    We knew eric was gonna be on this episode, parents opposing careers? Eric said you called me ? Lmao