OWNING YOUR INSECURITIES AS A MAN! (This Changes Everything...)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 พ.ค. 2020
- Hey guys, welcome back to another video! In this one I speak of owning your insecurities as man. What to do and how to do it. I hope this video can be of resource to you guys out there & with said I will catch you all in the next one, cheers! :)
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DAY ONE OF NO FAP HARD MODE
this is my first time trying hard mode wish me luck!!!
"face it to fix it to feature it" 🙌
brilliant muchacho ☺️
"Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you."
-Tyrion Lannister
Pretty much sums it up.
I was diagnosed with cerebral palsy and born 28 weeks premature. I guess could say I’ve been a “lone wolf” pretty much my whole life. I’m 25 now. I’m 5’4” and so my whole life I’ve been pretty insecure; it’s even worse when people would point out said insecurities whether that was in high school or in a public setting. I discovered the NoFap/semen retention community this year and I’ve struggled with PMO and an underlying addiction since I was 13. I started meditating late 2019 and have struggled with letting things go and relapses. I’ve struggled with loving and accepting myself for so many years that I’ve basically dug myself in a hole. I’ve been trying for years to accept myself. I was bullied a bit in school, I got rejected a lot by girls, you name it. Emotions are pouring out as I write this because all I’ve wanted was unconditional love and support. And so ever since I found your channel I’ve been trying to come to terms with supporting myself and loving myself unconditionally. Thank you for being here for me David; for all of us! I’m really trying here man.
Pedro’s Private Platoon that’s it man. Focus on what you can control. Build yourself up in all areas and watch blessings blossom. ❤️👊
"There's a time for everything" Keep going bro. Don't always stay low. 💪
I m 5 3 man and 19 and i can relate.. I ve been fucking insecure about my height as well.. i never realised i was short till my gf started pointing it out so that I may do some exercises ti increase my chances of growing up.. but i just sunk myself in pity and the last two or three years i ve been the worst of myself.. and honestly man, being insecure is a much worse attraction killer than being short, there are many under 5 feet girls out there, but if you find one and wanna keep it you gotta let go of insecurity...my gf broke up with me cause me being insecure about my height and whining about it to her in general killed the attraction she had for me, I ve learned my lesson, no one will ever truly love you as long as you dont love yourself, do nofap,be confident ,have dreams,eat healthy, drink plenty of water like this guy.. cause that's the shit that matters
Don’t try change parts of yourself that make you, You. Work on areas that can be improved, and that can make you feel fulfilled. Focus on your own well-being and everyday face challenges with an open mind so you can learn the most of out those experiences. You’re killing it bro, keep up the great work 💕
you got it bro!!! i pray for happiness to come your way!!
Everyone made fun of my nose growing up and this helps a ton
My insecurity is that I’m quiet and awkward in conversations with new people, even people I know too. Everyone I know doesn’t have this problem.
I have this man.. And I'm 21 years old.. Im trying to overcome it from 2019...I still feel awkward and can't carry a long conversation with people..
@@nayanjyoti3012 sammme. But like who cares right
Im pretty much the same, but when im with a good friend group i can let myself out of my bubble and be sociable, unlike when im with people i dont really know, then i just go into the bubble .
The best things about your videos are: The coffee sips, the “to bring it to full circle” and lastly your realistic and no bullshit perspective. Continue doing your thing David
One thing I’ve always dealt with growing up is having a shy bladder. Most people don’t know what that is but it has affected my life in many ways. I’ve always accepted it and only a few people in my life know about it. Watching this video made me feel at ease and made me realize I could have a lot worse problems. I won’t let it hold me back anymore!
I let my ex slip away because I wasn’t taking care of my insecurities. I’m focusing on myself to be a better person now. It’s time I take my life back.
Yeah, I'm watching you every day at 8:30pm between my driving theory courses and evening workout. Your videos keep me in good mood, since they're not red-pilling unmotivating bullshit, but simple and positive explanation of social processes that I was always interested in (and as a sigma-like man, it's kinda fascinating that I agree with 80-90% of things you say). Thanks bro for such a good content! 💪
Greetings from Poland :D
Self-realization and acceptance is HUGE for self-confidence and beating insecurities. You were crafted in the image of God and you are perfect in your own way.
Solid perspective. Never looked at it like that.
"You guys must understand"
I’m working on at least accepting my insecurities, especially the ones I can’t control, and working on changing what I can. Ex. (Working out for better physique) This guy is awesome, not only improving himself always, but also helping so many of us do the same
"Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you."
- Tyrion Lannister
Had a rough night yesterday contemplating my own insecurities and feeling hopeless. This video couldn't have been timed any better🙏
If yourself is a mystery to yourself then get to know thyself so you can discover what and whom you are Not. It's a gradual process, be patient, forgiving and accepting while getting acquainted with yourself.
I’m 19 and my biggest insecurity is that I’m a virgin. I don’t have issues talking to chicks. I talk to many but I’ve never ended up in bed with someone. I know it will happen one day but it’s just annoying for some reason.
If you talk to some girls over text, drop subtle hints so that they get the picture. Works for me. Although, don’t feel bad for being a virgin at all, not a bad thing even though you think it is.
DA BIG D 100%. Love girls that don’t give it up to anybody and everybody. HIGHLY respectable.
Dw bro you shouldn't be insecure about that bro you should be proud man. just find a virgin too man. Just dont fap it aye 💪👍
Jason Wohl was the same homie, lost it at 20, I was always scared but I just did it, it’s not special or anything but yeah I know what you mean when you say you don’t want to be one because of social expectations
bro I wish I was still a virgin because not having a developed father figure who understood how sexual energy can work meant I made some bad decisions myself and it held me back until I learned about nofap and more spiritual practices so study up and you can have amazing experiences when the time is right :) if i was you I would take it as a blessing to being able to set up healthy boundaries before exchanging energy with a woman
Thanks for this man. Finding a way to accept my self more. Flipping those insecurities and featuring them. Being positive and changing what I have the power to change.
It’s crazy how I really needed this video at this time. Thank you David for the words and perspective!🙏🏽💪🏽
Take in a lot of your advice and use it in my daily life. Appreciate you. Have a blessed day.
What you're saying at 5:45 is exactly what im telling alot of my trusted friends right now, as i've been struggling with alot of insecurities for my whole life and allways hid them. This video really helped me. You got yourself a new sub.
Absolutely love you man I needed this today I've had a difficult time this does change everything thank you 🙏
Loved it man, perfect for the evening, going to head to bed soon. Thanks man, have a good day.
You nailed it with one of the first steps being self acceptance. Something im currently learning myself is to also have a higher understanding of where the insecurity came from, which 90% of the time it comes from childhood wounds. Once you can find the root cause then it is easier for you to fix it, while learning to embrace it and most importantly accepting yourself for who you are. Love your video's David, keep spreading the positivity 😊
And I am reminded again why i am subscribed to this channel... You have no idea how you have helped me man to become more as a man and who i am! keep this content coming!
I literally watch your videos everyday. Been a week since I discovered your channel keep it up man. 🤟
Exactly what I need. Thanks David 🙌🏻
2:30am here in Perth, Straya but up for these videos keep them up man
Bro much love and respect!👊 listening to you daily and you speaking the truth, im telling my friends that this guy can help everybody
Killer video man!
Your videos are very relaxing to wach after long day of school!
You've got such a sweet vibe to you. Really love your content, so empowering. I hope you make it big brother. Criminally underated!
Navi Hydriex 😊🙏🤟
You're truly amazing . ....your voice was made to touch people's soul's . ....so glad I found you!
Danielle bardot 🙏🙏
Damn it's like you know what I'm going through . Thanks for this!
I just discover today your very informative and educational channel Bro. David. Thank you for the tips. You helped us to have a positive outlook in our daily life. More power to your channel! 🙌
Please keep it up, David! Your videos are usually the first videos on my feed, and they are saving lives 🙏
christian panaguiton glad to hear it man. Many more coming. 👊❤️
This channel is the stuff!
You know, I always thought men like me didn’t have insecurities but now as time I realized we do. Because I would always get depressed about my body because I’m too skinny! I would always compare myself to other guys body. Like why can’t have that chest, or those legs, or those abs. I barely realized that I need to be happy with myself and basically told myself to work out! And that’s what I’m doing, I’m fixing the problem and getting the body I want. Instead of complaining and comparing myself to other guys. This video was very helpful. Can’t wait to see my results later on in the year!
I get your videos every day at 10 am...I'm frome the Caribbean loving your vids yoo
10:00 am in Brazil bro! Keep rocking
All of his content topic falls on 1 specific message. the name of his channel . very collected and precise , and very realistic and solid contents . keep doing what you do bro ! you do it best.
Shout out to TH-cam algorithms for suggesting this video. Something I really needed to hear.
Dope! Tyler would be proud
Love your vids!!
Glad i found this channel and youre blowing up my dude, best of luck
Aladin Mofo appreciate you! 👊💯
Namaste from India!! Great help bro!! Really needed this 🍻💯🗽⚡
Excellent advice.
I like this topic brother thank for helping kings out. Kings of kings
Thank you sooo much!!! especially I was insecure of my height and its as if you saw me where I am in south Africa that I wear timberland boots and insecure of my hair so I wear a cap...so it really helped me out that I'm not alone and I can do it...in bettering my self as a man as David Mabaso
Hi David, I believe a lot of us come here with relationship problems. Could you please do a video about “how to identify whether a break up is permanent or temporary?” And “How to reconcile with your ex girlfriend after doing no contact for a couple months?”. Im going through a break up since April and it is ten times worse because of the stay home order and quarantine. I have been watching all your videos because they carry a lot of values and lessons. Thank you very much David!
Great content, keep it up!
Piotr Król cheers! 👊💯
2:37 is so true, i have thin and fine hair naturally and am always insecured about my hairstyle that is flat af. However after asking a girl about it, she said that she didn't even notice any flaws w my hair and even thinks that my hair looks good on me
Weird i was eating Tacos And said i need a David Video.Inspiring channel.I started Working out again Thank you for Inspiring me.
thanks for consistently posting real valuable shit! Keep it up.
Zach Jawhar love bro! Glad it can help! 👊💯
your advice is real advice...
hope god bless u on ur journey..
You learn very tuff lessons or you struggle your life I don't know👍 you tell very truth words really you blessed 👍thanks to share it friend 👍
You look ten years younger than me, but oh so much wiser. Chapeau!
Excellent vid David, thought I'd mention to anyone who is taking this seriously. Read the book "the simple art of not giving a fuck" it's a great book that pretty much goes over what you said. To own your insecurities and accept yourself.
Keep up the vids man!
Love you man!
Jano Losardo 🙏❤️
To realize I had all my shit together and I was my best version, met someone and instantly made every single mistake more so because I lost who I had been. These few days have just been so so so much learning and thinking and reflecting. I've always been way too determined, I never know when to give up, it feels like everything I know already because I took all these years of being alone in my childhood to think every single chance I had from every perspective I could. It's hard to be back at the start sorta but if I did it once it's going to be fine.
I'm insecure because, i have a samsung and when the teacher says that i have to give the phone i say it's at home.
I want a i phone 11
Lmao
@@alvekcdeshton4085 OH YEAH YEAH
😂😂😂
This is BS.
@@imthebmf23 😂😂
Oh gawd. I have many. I am built on countless flaws but I'm quite happy. I'll just leave it at that. 😊
Listening to you working out
Thank you for the videos you have really helped me out
DUZIgoneWILD ! 🙏🙏💯
You're doing great bro ❤
From India 🇮🇳
People doesn't perceive us like the way, we do in front of mirror.....
It's true tho, watching u is very relaxing 😂👍🏼
Watching all the way from Sri Lanka yo! At night 😊
Damn dude! Again. Thanks.
1:30 made my morning 😂😂 good video!
This is honestly the most helpful channel for men I've ever come across. Basically a laid back Alpha M. 🤣
My first girlfriend loved my smile. I wasn't satisfied with my smile after braces and was lightly insecure about it. She made me realise we overthink alot of shit really.
Also I'm 5'5 and I don't give a fook I love it for working out. I'm so light I do calisthenics and live life with finesse. :)
Thanks bro I need this. I have insecurities with a lot of things. I guess i have to embrace it aye. It's morning here bro 10am. Sydney.
Cheers
Falze Faxt cheers my man hope it can help! 👊💯
I’m insecure about my gap in my teeth, al of my teeth are perfectly straight but the lil gap in between my top middle two always made me insecure. Though every female I asked if I should get braces or something told me they liked my gap and it made me who I was
'But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.'
2 Corinthians 12:9-10
Great inside on insecurities for men, almost no one on talks about does this kinds for men.
le xiang yes sir 🙏💯
Thanks a lot
from India
Love it I agree
everytime I get get insecure of myself or hurt myself, I would always have a way to bounce back twice as much than how I hurt myself, I don't know what that means but It just happens naturally for me.
Hi David. I loved the video thanks. Please can you make a video on how to meditate. It will really help us.
Kakam Kluivert already have search it back on the channel! About 5-6 months ago! ☺️
@@imdavidhammond thanks
Hey David, I noticed that you tend to point out changes in the scene/background (e.g lighting). Out of curiosity, is there a reason, or is it just a habit? Btw I appreciate your content.
Richie D I’m a photographer/videographer so I notice very slight changes in lighting which I fix in editing so you guys don’t see in the final product :) and cheers man! 👊
I am insecure of my looks . Actually my brown skin colour.Although I feel ashamed of having this insecurity but major reason is this is because what people used to say .
Thanks a lot
Tim Horton's mug! Greetings from Buffalo
nice one
I have insecurity about body hair even tho I am not hairy hairy, certain places I don't like, but I will get rid of it once I come to terms with it once I am comfortable with it there and who I am. Removing is my option since it doesn't bother me anymore. Removing is mask, is a different story. Yea and I realized the comparing and contrast a while ago but it's hard to accept but it's a process.
You are the best
Brother I m insecure about my height... But I m 19 and Many people I know have grown up afterwards,so I m working on stretching exercises, supplement pills etc to just increase my chances on a potential growth spurt, but I think trying to change this is also making me insecure about it...how can I find the balance??
I recently read an article about tge Spartans that was historically accurate. Not sure if you know this, but they were raised to be chaste at all times, until they were permitted to marry at the age of 20, and even then they would only be allowed to be with their wives every month or so until they were 30. The weirdest thing I read though was that they had a specific set of strict guidelines for what they put in there body. The lawmaker of Sparta outlawed Coffee, Tea, Alcohol, Tobacco, and even meat and eggs, as he said it "insighted lustful passions" and "decreased overall vitality". Then it gets stranger as they started giving quotes from medical knowledge back then claiming that all these things actually irritate the sex glands and cause them to lose out on there "phosphorus rich secretions". Pretty bizarre, but then I found out the fucking gladiators were also all about vegetables. Anyway, I've definitely decided to quit all the caffeine and alcohol, but I may also begin to gravitate towards a more vegetable heavy diet, and lay off the meat and eggs so much as I continue my journey. I just thought I'd share that with y'all
Tobacco in ancient Sparta? No. Tobacco is native to the Americas and was unknown in The Old World until after the time of Columbus.
I dont hide insecurities. I fight them.
Man, I am 165 cm tall (should be 5.4 feet). When I was 19 I absolutely hated him, I wore boots and everything you can imagine to get a few cm. Then I started training calisthenics where shorter is better. Now my height is one of my strengths. 🔥
I was always insecure about my ethnicity and culture growing up in a predominantly white conservative school especially post 9/11. I am a proud Muslim and arab and love correcting people’s false assumptions developed from the fox/cnn news narrative
yo where do you buy these shirts
Just a question, what makes you a guru in advice? U give good advice man, just wondering no disrespect at all
David 'you must understand' Hammond
Lawrence Yeh 👊😂
I've been insecure about my relationship with my sister and her constantly treating me like trash because of the fact that I'm trapped in her house during this period and our area is on lockdown. If things ease up, is it ok if I never want to see her again because I associate her with negative emotions?
Joshua Muhuthia temporarily yes
Tim Hortons cup .. amazing .. assuming your Canadian?
volvo ripper north medin yes sir! 😎🔥
Self acceptance & self love where the it lies
smeefy zeus yes sir! 👊💯
Where would I find a good guide on meditating for beginners?
I would start with sitting quietly and watching your thoughts without jumping into them.
If a set focused, guided meditation is useful for you, I find Isha Kriya by sadhguru to be really good and time efficient.
@@busybecomingmyself appreciate the information man
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David she's coming in hot, make your move bro