Woah wait it’s a verified person Anyway lol imagine being in a relationship (Edit... so uhhh guess who turned out in a relationship 1 month later... lmao)
Two whole people make a healthy relationship. Never try to be made whole in another person, it’s to much pressure. No one is your other half. You are a whole and you choose to love people because you want to not because you need to. ❤️🙏🏻🔥
1. You don't accept yourself 1:03 2. You feel unseen by your partner 1:28 3. You feel like your relationship is in limbo 1:57 4. You don't trust your partner 2:30 5. You struggle with intimacy, emotional regulation and communication 2:59 6. You compare yourself to their exes 3:33 7. Your partner always has to reassure you 4:03 8. You experience jealousy, paranoia and disbelief 4:27 9. You avoid confrontation and fear of rejection 4:58 I hope I could help! :)
I just got into a relationship with my long time best friend and really when you date after a very strong friendship, your relationship is much much more healthier. I'm not afraid of being judged by her, nor am I afraid of setting boundaries or being vulnerable to her.
The main reason why I haven't dated yet is because of my insecurities. I have too many of them that I don't want to put on another person. I also have a hard time trusting myself and my decisions, so I know I'd be telling myself a lot of bad stuff if I dated someone now.
I constantly compare myself to everyone my boyfriend dated before me and I never feel like I’m good enough for him even though he doesn’t make me feel this way.
I agree with this 100%. It hurts because he was an awesome and caring and loving guy but because of my internal problems, I ruined what we had and probably led him to having internal problems too. He needed the support from me because he is going through some tough time with work and family but my insecurities get the best of me. He broke up with me with the reason he want to fix himself mentally and physically but wants to remain friends. At first I agreed but my mental health was deteriorating so i am currently focusing on loving myself and trying my best to be better.
Intimacy is honestly super scary for me. Like I want intimacy but I'm also scared of it at the same time because I constantly think I'm going to be left and hurt :(
I feel like I need constant reassurance and without it I feel insufficient and unloved. I expect she will leave me because others have done so or cheated on me. I hate it 😔
I found myself reflecting and realizing that i was insecure in my last relationship. For no reason. It’s Time for me to work on these insecurities and move on with my life
I found your channel last night and I've watched less than 15 videos and you've helped me understand myself better more than i could since i was 15, thats when my depression started. Im 21 now and these videos are helping me alot already so much that it makes me want to shed a tear, thank you.
All of these signs speak to me. I didn't know my insecurity has reached that point until now. At that time when it's the hardest for me to endure it, I asked my fiance to break up with me because I felt like I was and will be a burden to him. Hearing people said that it's hard to live with a depressed partner, made me feel guilty from time to time. I must have hurt him in our past relationship. I didn't even realize that my insecurity hurt him too. I know that we can not be together anymore. I don't have the courage to ask him to wait until I recovered. I love him and I know he still loves me too, but we're both tortured in our relationship, so I just need to accept that not every love deserves to be fought for. I hope I can recover fast and move on with my life.
Ugh.. I'm so embarrassed.. I've spent the last 5 years avoiding relationships because I show pretty much all of these signs and after deep introspection and psychological retraining I still have the majority of these problems. I'm already 32 and I'm so scared I missed my shot to be happy in a lifelong relationship and I'll never be worthy of love.
To be ever be in a relationship requires real love. Real love happens rarely, or even once. For real love to happen, two parts have to be vulnerable, and open. When there is real love, insecurities should not occur.
I feel insecurities are always bound to happen. No one is perfect being insecure from time to time is only human. Especially if you have a history of abuse
I first want to say your videos helped me get through a terrible break up with the love of my life. He has narcissistic tendencies... everything but cheating. I know weird. It's been over a year now and he just started seeing someone. Anyway the relationship I'm in now, he is so insecure because of his ex, it's all taken out on me. Claims he caught me talking to other guys. Never ever sexually or in any disrespectful way. He constantly accuses me of doing secret things on my phone but won't look at it? I've become quite miserable.. I love him but these things have ruined us and of course he says, " ok I'll just forget everything I went through in the past" I never said that BUT I'm not your ex she did them NOT me.. 😢
Interesting observation about "stalking" your boyfriends social media. Technology has been wonderful in so many ways but it has also provided a potential for insecurity! In many ways there are relationships damaged by too much doubt driven by social media contacts.
Literally cant stop watching your videos. Wish I had someone who can talk to me with the way you speak and help me to forget all my issues and fall asleep happy for once. Thanks for the videos, keeps me a bit calm, ty.
*Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you minslegend*
i was going through this signs, and my boyfriend and i broke up when all i wanted was to open up my feelings... it didn’t end up well.. and now he likes someone else when we just broke up 4 days ago.. 💔
I just want to thank the crew of this channel cause they give the phcycologic help which it's nessesery for everybody in so easy way especially for who can't reach this thing like who are in poor countries Thanks alot I wish goodluck for you
I just wanted to talk about something. I’ve been watching Psych2go for 1 year, and I was in a really bad part of my life. This channel and it’s advice on life has really helped me to become a much happier person. I’m no longer depressed or sad, and I’m working on myself to be better every day. Still watching tho cuz I like the content lol
Ow that last one got me good. I do this even in friendships and it's really hard, especially since I did it to survive as a kid in an abusive household. If you're doing the hard work to be better, keep going, it'll be worth it!!
I swear I used to not meet most of these, but after hearing her talk about her ex for 16 years I'm feeling them all. Your significant other might not have a complex about your ex now, but keep talking about your ex and every detail about your past relationship, and I guarantee they will.
I was scared to talk abt this with my bf of 3 months bc I was scared he would leave me or dismiss my feelings altogether. But he completely understood that I have major relationship anxiety and he said he wants me to always feel secure. That he loves and cares for me. Please talk to your partner if you have these issues! If they truly love you, they will stay and help you out. If you leave it and don’t confront them bc you know they will leave, then they shouldn’t be with you. It hurts to let someone go, but in the end it is better for both people in the relationship to end the toxicity.💕
Hands down this dude will be recognized as a goat.. this dude has literally saved my life..listening to his work and job I can relate to it.. *minslegend* keep it up and thank you for your talent... 💯
Went through #3 four times in 2 weeks and I had to walk away. The relationship was short, 2 months but the constant canceling and even no call no show was too much. I do have my own insecurities but I also know my worth.
I was very fearful of vulnerability, fearing of not feeling good enough to measure up to her previous exs, feeling that dating is competitive, etc. I disclosed a dark story a few weeks ago and what lead to the things I felt insecure about, and it was met with positive reactions and support! Took me a few days to recover, but in time, few more who I'm close with will know.
I feel like I've been on both sides of this coin before. I've been with an insecure partner and I've also been the insecure one at a time of sadness and grief. That got me insecure and attached to the comfort that partner's company brought me at that time. As of recently, I'm enjoying myself but also I've opened up to a crush and I'm trying to just be happy and have fun. Hopefully no one is insecure this time around. I also hope to hear them and to be heard by them on whatever issues may come along.
Whenever I get into relationships, I remember all of my past ones and get anxious that things will turn out that way. I also feel like I need to dump then so I can be single again. It’s like a relationship is a stress on me and idk why. Help please ? :(
Try to talk through with your partner. I'm sure they'll understand. And of course if you need a break, take one until you feel ready. And if all else fails, you could contact a therapist. Best of luck!
Having a insecurity about your body may seem small to other people that have nothing really wrong with them, But when your born with a congenial disorder that involves your body to be deformed, how can you escape that insecurity. And then add a literal LIFETIME of nothing but trauma of being bullied about my body and how I look. Just Not being normal. Always feeling like I’m never good enough. Always feeling incomplete. My mind is always attacking me with negative things. I’m always at war with myself because I try not to think of the bad things but I’m always hit with my reality. I can’t escape my mind and I’m always causing problems in my relationship that almost breaks us up. Sometimes I feel helpless and wanna leave so he can be happy with someone else that doesn’t live with these problems. I constantly feel like I will end up alone in the long run. I have a very sensitive soul since I was a baby, and everything that has ever happened to me, traumatically, has broke me and messed me up mentally since I was little. It’s a huge pile of weight on my shoulders that I can’t get rid of and it’s constantly pulling me down. I don’t know what my future looks like, I just wish I can one day really feel like I’m enough. And That I’m worth it. And that I’m beautiful.
Flexibility hasn't really worked for me, it just confirms im not important enough for them to make room for us, and our plans just get pushed amd pushed
3:29 relates to me deeply. Talking about her ex and comparing me to her ex. Felt so insecure...never trust me. And left me when i was stressed out from school.
In my previous relationship with my first ex-boyfriend, when I looking back from that moment there had anxiety and when he said “ I don’t care how long we’re together”. And that gave me anxiety and insecurities including insomnia and one time, he was in a confused and frustrated state willing to adapt to a life-changing plan, and even though I have birth condition and changing plan of life trigger me badly.
My Gf is constantly like this I already explained her soon things will end if she not slow down and she will learn the hard way how it feels to loose someone that both love each other
I’m insecure about everything 😌☺️ so I stopped dating. It’s been almost 3 years and I feel so relaxed and happy after all (and I also found out that I’m demisexual🧚🏼♀️)
Close to first! This channel is one of my favorites (even though I rarely watch the videos anymore-) Because it helps me with my sorrows (not gonna say depression it isn’t diagnosed!!!!)
Relationships: become overly complicated and fragile Robots: allow us to introduce ourselves Lonely men: adopt robotic companions Media: lonely men look for comfort in strange places, most women affected.
I mean, i used to relate to the more jealous ones in the start of our relationship but I'm a lot less so now. I struggle with however the first one, the one about needing reassurance and the conflict one, although me and my partner tmdo approach things as more of a discussion than an argument. The other 2 can be chalked down to my anxiety (suspected ocd but unsure as of yet) especially the constant need for reassurance, my bad relationship with my father and my bad past relationships. I am working on these but it's hard when you feel like a bad person due to mental illness.
also i think there were always be insecurities, the world is ever changing, so before anyone jumps down my throat, reminding you this was just a feeling/opinion
My ex friend broke down crying because she couldn't give her partner a child like his first baby mama and that she "wasn't measuring up". They were together for only 2 years at the time... She cheated on him before their kid even turned 1 and asked for a poly relationship the same day he found out she cheated.
We are not even into an official relationship but I still feel all insecurities cause she lives at the other side of the city and Idk what can I do to stop having this kind of feelings :(
Unclench your jaw Take a cleansing breath in Exhale what no longer serves This is a positive sign. You are beautiful. You are brilliant. You are worthy of the love of your dreams. May your worries wash away and you find pockets of peace throughout your day 💗 Dr. Liz
I only relate to the last one luckily but it's such a problem...I am so scared of being left when I say something that "wasn't right" or disagree and this all from my past trauma, idk how to stop feeling this way but I need to stop...
I'm extremely insecure about relationships. I just met a girl through a Dating app but shes not really online so I'm not sure if she's in to me, I want to get to know her better but I fear she doesn't want me. Her profile said "Just looking for friends rn" but I really hope she and I can become more, though we haven't talked much due to the previous lack of being online thing.
Oh wow it's me
Woah wait it’s a verified person
Anyway lol imagine being in a relationship
(Edit... so uhhh guess who turned out in a relationship 1 month later... lmao)
A verified person omg wow
@@joelmokwenxuan4817 okay
Oh wow it's me
Wow = Wonderwoman
Helloooouuuu owo
It’s ok if you relate to any of these signs. The first step to getting better is acknowledging there is room for growth 👌🏽
I just subscribed to your channel ☮️ ☮️
True,
Two whole people make a healthy relationship. Never try to be made whole in another person, it’s to much pressure. No one is your other half. You are a whole and you choose to love people because you want to not because you need to. ❤️🙏🏻🔥
I agree your so right 😊
Thank you 💘
True..
"you love cuz u want to" aaaaaah so I dont *have* to love anyone u say~
-I can tell im the villan xDD-
Yes the moment you need someone to complete you, that's where if they leave or don't treat you properly you become hurt etc even depressed
Me, who has no relationship:
Interesting
Well maybe you can prepare yourself :)
facts😂
😔 yeah...😅
Me, who doesn’t have a boyfriend anymore but still watches just in case😭☺️
Yeah I never been in relationship before but there is nothing wrong with learning about this stuff so you could be prepared if you want one
Insecurity and ego destroys a beautiful relationship
Yes
I was about to sleep. But nope. “Insecure about your relationship” we better click on that
Feel you🤣🤣
literally me rn:
Lmao yes 😂
1. You don't accept yourself 1:03
2. You feel unseen by your partner 1:28
3. You feel like your relationship is in limbo 1:57
4. You don't trust your partner 2:30
5. You struggle with intimacy, emotional regulation and communication 2:59
6. You compare yourself to their exes 3:33
7. Your partner always has to reassure you 4:03
8. You experience jealousy, paranoia and disbelief 4:27
9. You avoid confrontation and fear of rejection 4:58
I hope I could help! :)
How can you comment that 2 months ago
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@@cat90yearsago58 how can you comment that 89 years ago
@@nakshatramusic21 lol I am the godess of em all
Just comunication. Even the worst insecurities can be cure with love and comunication. Nice video ❤️
The dude is just not fakeing . The finishes of the goals. Beautiful. Magisterial. Love you *Minslegend!.* .🙏🏼
I choose the happiness of this moment, over the pain of the past.
🔥
I just got into a relationship with my long time best friend and really when you date after a very strong friendship, your relationship is much much more healthier. I'm not afraid of being judged by her, nor am I afraid of setting boundaries or being vulnerable to her.
All the best
What I have always wanted.
The main reason why I haven't dated yet is because of my insecurities. I have too many of them that I don't want to put on another person. I also have a hard time trusting myself and my decisions, so I know I'd be telling myself a lot of bad stuff if I dated someone now.
I'm so sorry to hear that you feel that way about yourself. It'll all work out soon take care!
@@anonymouswanderer2479 thanks! I do have hope. I've been trying to work through things and get to a better place in my life.
At least you know yourself, so it's getting the help now. Cause that mode of thinking and feeling can be tormentous
Having insecurity even in friendship is actually normal for me
I constantly compare myself to everyone my boyfriend dated before me and I never feel like I’m good enough for him even though he doesn’t make me feel this way.
same
I agree with this 100%. It hurts because he was an awesome and caring and loving guy but because of my internal problems, I ruined what we had and probably led him to having internal problems too. He needed the support from me because he is going through some tough time with work and family but my insecurities get the best of me. He broke up with me with the reason he want to fix himself mentally and physically but wants to remain friends. At first I agreed but my mental health was deteriorating so i am currently focusing on loving myself and trying my best to be better.
Intimacy is honestly super scary for me. Like I want intimacy but I'm also scared of it at the same time because I constantly think I'm going to be left and hurt :(
Attachment anxiety or/and closeness issues
@@sametoyoutoo8509 yea I’m working on it
Bpd does that for me
I feel like I need constant reassurance and without it I feel insufficient and unloved. I expect she will leave me because others have done so or cheated on me. I hate it 😔
Could you make a "how not to be insecure in your relationship" next?🥺 because this video was so helpful 💓
PERFECT TIMING - I was literally just wondering about this 😭
Me too 😭💯‼
Me too!!! 💔
Same
Same here 😭😭
Me too :(
I found myself reflecting and realizing that i was insecure in my last relationship. For no reason. It’s Time for me to work on these insecurities and move on with my life
I found your channel last night and I've watched less than 15 videos and you've helped me understand myself better more than i could since i was 15, thats when my depression started. Im 21 now and these videos are helping me alot already so much that it makes me want to shed a tear, thank you.
Love is a complicated thing, working on yourself is the key!
All of these signs speak to me. I didn't know my insecurity has reached that point until now. At that time when it's the hardest for me to endure it, I asked my fiance to break up with me because I felt like I was and will be a burden to him.
Hearing people said that it's hard to live with a depressed partner, made me feel guilty from time to time. I must have hurt him in our past relationship. I didn't even realize that my insecurity hurt him too.
I know that we can not be together anymore. I don't have the courage to ask him to wait until I recovered.
I love him and I know he still loves me too, but we're both tortured in our relationship, so I just need to accept that not every love deserves to be fought for.
I hope I can recover fast and move on with my life.
Ugh.. I'm so embarrassed.. I've spent the last 5 years avoiding relationships because I show pretty much all of these signs and after deep introspection and psychological retraining I still have the majority of these problems. I'm already 32 and I'm so scared I missed my shot to be happy in a lifelong relationship and I'll never be worthy of love.
Ohh sorry for that
May Yu find ur love now
Yeah, this is me. It is very draining and I am sure it played a part in my failed past relationships but they also cheated on me real bad.
this is exactly how i'm feeling right now- psych2go, are ya'll fortune tellers or something? 🔮
I just wanted to say I think the fact that you are making psychology and mental health more accessible is amazing and very inspiring
and to say hello
To be ever be in a relationship requires real love. Real love happens rarely, or even once. For real love to happen, two parts have to be vulnerable, and open. When there is real love, insecurities should not occur.
I feel insecurities are always bound to happen. No one is perfect being insecure from time to time is only human. Especially if you have a history of abuse
I first want to say your videos helped me get through a terrible break up with the love of my life. He has narcissistic tendencies... everything but cheating. I know weird. It's been over a year now and he just started seeing someone. Anyway the relationship I'm in now, he is so insecure because of his ex, it's all taken out on me. Claims he caught me talking to other guys. Never ever sexually or in any disrespectful way. He constantly accuses me of doing secret things on my phone but won't look at it? I've become quite miserable.. I love him but these things have ruined us and of course he says, " ok I'll just forget everything I went through in the past" I never said that BUT I'm not your ex she did them NOT me.. 😢
Interesting observation about "stalking" your boyfriends social media. Technology has been wonderful in so many ways but it has also provided a potential for insecurity! In many ways there are relationships damaged by too much doubt driven by social media contacts.
I was insecure about my relationship... turns out it was justified. Let’s hope that doesn’t scar too bad
i already know i’m insecure about it so i’m just supporting your channel at this point
I hope everyone is alright. Remember that Psych2go is here for you.
Yes! 😊
Yup
Ducks can help too if you know where to find them
no
Screw my imagination
Thank you
Literally cant stop watching your videos. Wish I had someone who can talk to me with the way you speak and help me to forget all my issues and fall asleep happy for once. Thanks for the videos, keeps me a bit calm, ty.
We're so happy to help you in some way!! We hope this video helped you. You got this :D
@@Psych2go Thank you. The girl that speaks makes it even better, thank you.
*Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you minslegend*
thx i send this to my friend since he keeps saying “no im not perfect for her at all i think i always make her cry” so thx again
i was going through this signs, and my boyfriend and i broke up when all i wanted was to open up my feelings... it didn’t end up well.. and now he likes someone else when we just broke up 4 days ago.. 💔
I just want to thank the crew of this channel cause they give the phcycologic help which it's nessesery for everybody in so easy way especially for who can't reach this thing like who are in poor countries
Thanks alot I wish goodluck for you
So true
I just wanted to talk about something.
I’ve been watching Psych2go for 1 year, and I was in a really bad part of my life. This channel and it’s advice on life has really helped me to become a much happier person. I’m no longer depressed or sad, and I’m working on myself to be better every day. Still watching tho cuz I like the content lol
Ow that last one got me good. I do this even in friendships and it's really hard, especially since I did it to survive as a kid in an abusive household.
If you're doing the hard work to be better, keep going, it'll be worth it!!
hello dear do you need any help I can help you out it worked for me WhatsApp me let's chat better.
Message me on WhatsApp
@@stephaniephilip8995 no? I'm in therapy for it.
👏Choose people who lift you up.
I swear I used to not meet most of these, but after hearing her talk about her ex for 16 years I'm feeling them all.
Your significant other might not have a complex about your ex now, but keep talking about your ex and every detail about your past relationship, and I guarantee they will.
I was scared to talk abt this with my bf of 3 months bc I was scared he would leave me or dismiss my feelings altogether. But he completely understood that I have major relationship anxiety and he said he wants me to always feel secure. That he loves and cares for me. Please talk to your partner if you have these issues! If they truly love you, they will stay and help you out. If you leave it and don’t confront them bc you know they will leave, then they shouldn’t be with you. It hurts to let someone go, but in the end it is better for both people in the relationship to end the toxicity.💕
Aha! Finally a issue that I do NOT have 😀💕 I've worked hard on this 😁
Yesssss!!!
Hands down this dude will be recognized as a goat.. this dude has literally saved my life..listening to his work and job I can relate to it.. *minslegend* keep it up and thank you for your talent... 💯
Went through #3 four times in 2 weeks and I had to walk away. The relationship was short, 2 months but the constant canceling and even no call no show was too much. I do have my own insecurities but I also know my worth.
I was very fearful of vulnerability, fearing of not feeling good enough to measure up to her previous exs, feeling that dating is competitive, etc. I disclosed a dark story a few weeks ago and what lead to the things I felt insecure about, and it was met with positive reactions and support! Took me a few days to recover, but in time, few more who I'm close with will know.
I feel like I've been on both sides of this coin before. I've been with an insecure partner and I've also been the insecure one at a time of sadness and grief. That got me insecure and attached to the comfort that partner's company brought me at that time.
As of recently, I'm enjoying myself but also I've opened up to a crush and I'm trying to just be happy and have fun. Hopefully no one is insecure this time around. I also hope to hear them and to be heard by them on whatever issues may come along.
I have a avoiding problem where I stay away like the plague. Sometimes it also feels like I don't reach out unless necessary
Guilty. But i’ll stop it with the insecurity. I love him too much. 🙂😌🤍
Whenever I get into relationships, I remember all of my past ones and get anxious that things will turn out that way. I also feel like I need to dump then so I can be single again. It’s like a relationship is a stress on me and idk why. Help please ? :(
Try to talk through with your partner. I'm sure they'll understand. And of course if you need a break, take one until you feel ready. And if all else fails, you could contact a therapist. Best of luck!
Take time to love yourself 💓
same
@@anonymouswanderer2479 I’m seeing a therapist and have a good relationship now with someone who understands me and is patient with me ☺️
when you have all the signs💀 sometimes i become toxic and then i feel so guilty :(( even more when you have difficult controlling your emotions
Having a insecurity about your body may seem small to other people that have nothing really wrong with them, But when your born with a congenial disorder that involves your body to be deformed, how can you escape that insecurity. And then add a literal LIFETIME of nothing but trauma of being bullied about my body and how I look.
Just Not being normal. Always feeling like I’m never good enough. Always feeling incomplete. My mind is always attacking me with negative things. I’m always at war with myself because I try not to think of the bad things but I’m always hit with my reality. I can’t escape my mind and I’m always causing problems in my relationship that almost breaks us up. Sometimes I feel helpless and wanna leave so he can be happy with someone else that doesn’t live with these problems. I constantly feel like I will end up alone in the long run. I have a very sensitive soul since I was a baby, and everything that has ever happened to me, traumatically, has broke me and messed me up mentally since I was little. It’s a huge pile of weight on my shoulders that I can’t get rid of and it’s constantly pulling me down. I don’t know what my future looks like, I just wish I can one day really feel like I’m enough. And That I’m worth it. And that I’m beautiful.
Woah! I finally found the secret to time travelling
Hi time traveler
H o w
Actually thats how u time travel:
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Hi
Omg I got a heart from one of my fav TH-camrs
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You’re first to comment 🙃
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Hello :3
i just got in a relationship a couple days ago
Flexibility hasn't really worked for me, it just confirms im not important enough for them to make room for us, and our plans just get pushed amd pushed
3:29 relates to me deeply. Talking about her ex and comparing me to her ex. Felt so insecure...never trust me. And left me when i was stressed out from school.
In my previous relationship with my first ex-boyfriend, when I looking back from that moment there had anxiety and when he said “ I don’t care how long we’re together”. And that gave me anxiety and insecurities including insomnia and one time, he was in a confused and frustrated state willing to adapt to a life-changing plan, and even though I have birth condition and changing plan of life trigger me badly.
This video is so true and helps me a lot.
Why is this like 2 months ago...
@@cat90yearsago58 well i thought u posted the comment 89 years ago but then i saw it was your username 😅
Can someone be insecure in a relationship due to the shitty stuff your partner would do to jeopardize the relationship? Or is it independent of that
My Gf is constantly like this I already explained her soon things will end if she not slow down and she will learn the hard way how it feels to loose someone that both love each other
Love makes me stronger. Thanks, Isolde, Chione and Renee.
To everyone who's reading this: I hope you're doing fine. Have a good day/night.
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@@kardelen369 np :)
Thanksss same to you!!
@@anonymouswanderer2479 np :)
Your voice is so soothing I love it🥺
I literally just had a break down five minutes ago cause he hasn’t texted me since yesterday :’)
+1
i hope you're okay
@@____-ft6ys thank you, and yes I’m doing better, just needed a good cry lol. I hope you’re doing well
Aww thats sad well hope your okay maybe have a cup of coffee or do some yoga;)
Hmm i guess im the only one in this place where i dont experience any pain emotionally or physically.........
This Is exactly I was thinking about and TH-cam recommended this to me :(
Me, who has never been in a relationship: interesting
I like watching your videos, I can reflect on myself and can stay positive. Plus I feel relaxed whenever I hear your voice
I’m insecure about everything 😌☺️ so I stopped dating. It’s been almost 3 years and I feel so relaxed and happy after all (and I also found out that I’m demisexual🧚🏼♀️)
Thankyou for what you did cuz the first time i feel wrong i saw this and i know what im going to and now i feel a bit better
All of the above. He still out there in the world.
Close to first!
This channel is one of my favorites (even though I rarely watch the videos anymore-)
Because it helps me with my sorrows (not gonna say depression it isn’t diagnosed!!!!)
There are comments from 2 months ago I-
@@cat90yearsago58 i meant from this video being posted to the public-
@@kazuhabutkel9677 oh okie :)
I feel like I’ll have a lot of problems and insecurities if I get into a relationship. If I even find someone who I like that likes me back.
At this point, I am not even trying to turn someone on. I just want to be happy and healthy, physically and ofcourse mentally.
I'm so grateful, I can learn to be better by watching many videos from this channel. This channel is really helpful ❤️
You're so welcome! :) We're so happy to help. Did you relate to this video?
Thank you for making this video 😊
Tbh this channel has helped me so much i really appreciate you guys 💕
I always love your uploads
Its always very helpful 💗
Glad you like them! Did you relate to any of these signs?
I'm so lucky I found a channel like this! I really like these vids :D
This is me 😭 it sure gets the better of me.
Relationships: become overly complicated and fragile
Robots: allow us to introduce ourselves
Lonely men: adopt robotic companions
Media: lonely men look for comfort in strange places, most women affected.
Well said
Mhm
I mean, i used to relate to the more jealous ones in the start of our relationship but I'm a lot less so now. I struggle with however the first one, the one about needing reassurance and the conflict one, although me and my partner tmdo approach things as more of a discussion than an argument. The other 2 can be chalked down to my anxiety (suspected ocd but unsure as of yet) especially the constant need for reassurance, my bad relationship with my father and my bad past relationships. I am working on these but it's hard when you feel like a bad person due to mental illness.
I feel only I were in a relationship...they all end horribly for somebody reason:,)
Yup im the only one here who doesnt experience pain both emotional or physical
Could this apply when it comes to friends? cuz some of these feel similar to people I've known
Of course. It applies to any relationship.
Nice video, thanks ✌️
She makes me feel so safe on this channel
This channel is so calming,, so your voice is... thank you for making these videos. 😇😇
You’re very welcome 😊 - Cindy
@@Psych2go thanks a lot again for these videos Cindy.. 😇
Thank you Psch2go. You saved my sanity. Love your work.👏👍🇦🇺💖
also i think there were always be insecurities, the world is ever changing, so before anyone jumps down my throat, reminding you this was just a feeling/opinion
I feel so disheartened as all those signs are observable in me😥😥
My ex friend broke down crying because she couldn't give her partner a child like his first baby mama and that she "wasn't measuring up". They were together for only 2 years at the time...
She cheated on him before their kid even turned 1 and asked for a poly relationship the same day he found out she cheated.
We are not even into an official relationship but I still feel all insecurities cause she lives at the other side of the city and Idk what can I do to stop having this kind of feelings :(
Laughs in anxious attachment style
Unclench your jaw
Take a cleansing breath in
Exhale what no longer serves
This is a positive sign.
You are beautiful. You are brilliant. You are worthy of the love of your dreams. May your worries wash away and you find pockets of peace throughout your day 💗 Dr. Liz
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Thank you Dr.Liz 🙏🏽
Definitely not me in the moments of things but i know who i am and am not going to apologize for being real with others 😅
I only relate to the last one luckily but it's such a problem...I am so scared of being left when I say something that "wasn't right" or disagree and this all from my past trauma, idk how to stop feeling this way but I need to stop...
OMG THE WAY I GASPED CAUSE ALL OF THIS IS REALLY ME WITH MY EX. I REALLY LOVE HIM
I'm extremely insecure about relationships. I just met a girl through a Dating app but shes not really online so I'm not sure if she's in to me, I want to get to know her better but I fear she doesn't want me. Her profile said "Just looking for friends rn" but I really hope she and I can become more, though we haven't talked much due to the previous lack of being online thing.