If you are reading this I know it hurts. It’s been about 9 months since my wife of 20 years told me she wanted out. There was a point when I didn’t think I was going to make it….if you know what I mean. Yes, it changed my entire life and I’m not even sure if it’s good or bad at this point. I was just crying about it yesterday. All I know is I have to keep moving forward. For me it was triathlon. Constant training got me healthy and in shape. A committed race day gave me focus and a goal. Never, ever did I think I would or could do it….but I did! Now I’m training for my next one. If you are not sure what direction to go in life, pick one. Maybe it won’t be prefect but it beats standing still……keep moving forward! You will find yourself again.
In my 50s worked fifo for the past 25years to come home locks changed and given 7 days x a solicitor letter to remove my personal belongings. 25 years married two daughters financially secure well I was and it’s all gone and now she wants more. I am devastated looking at losing most of it. Car house wife finance my two staffies and lost my job post COVID making it all the more difficult to start over. How where what when do you start. Taking day x day and dealing with ongoing demands for money. Perhaps the most difficult thing to try and understand is that I don’t think I did anything wrong. No reason was given just go. Didn’t play up, gambling drugs violence money alcohol just your done and to top it off all communication with her and two daughters shut down.
@@wishes8737 yes that's been my main trouble. It's not time that helps, not for me anyway, I got stuck. Because I couldn't accept. I think acceptance is key, without it you get stuck down on the canvas
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If you are reading this I know it hurts. It’s been about 9 months since my wife of 20 years told me she wanted out. There was a point when I didn’t think I was going to make it….if you know what I mean. Yes, it changed my entire life and I’m not even sure if it’s good or bad at this point. I was just crying about it yesterday. All I know is I have to keep moving forward. For me it was triathlon. Constant training got me healthy and in shape. A committed race day gave me focus and a goal. Never, ever did I think I would or could do it….but I did! Now I’m training for my next one. If you are not sure what direction to go in life, pick one. Maybe it won’t be prefect but it beats standing still……keep moving forward! You will find yourself again.
Very helpful thank you.
“Some things in your life are going to stay broke .. you have to accept that.”
Yeah.
I feel you Nicole sorry it’s been years for me.
Hang in there - focus on what you want.
Mark Waite just don’t know what that is
What lights you up?
Mark Waite i dont know im trying to get over the injustice of everything im scared because i loved my life as a family and wife
Work through my 10 Bold Steps Playlist. I believe those videos will help you overcome the injustice.
In my 50s worked fifo for the past 25years to come home locks changed and given 7 days x a solicitor letter to remove my personal belongings. 25 years married two daughters financially secure well I was and it’s all gone and now she wants more. I am devastated looking at losing most of it. Car house wife finance my two staffies and lost my job post COVID making it all the more difficult to start over. How where what when do you start. Taking day x day and dealing with ongoing demands for money. Perhaps the most difficult thing to try and understand is that I don’t think I did anything wrong. No reason was given just go. Didn’t play up, gambling drugs violence money alcohol just your done and to top it off all communication with her and two daughters shut down.
we humans sometimes make life very hard for each other
We do - focus forward always.
Thank you Mark this is very good.
I personally don't believe time heals, it's acceptance
Yep very hard to accept
@@wishes8737 yes that's been my main trouble. It's not time that helps, not for me anyway, I got stuck. Because I couldn't accept. I think acceptance is key, without it you get stuck down on the canvas