Totally agree about finding your people I'm the first in my family ever to go through a divorce at 32 and no one understands me especially navigating family parents is challenging Only those who understand will be able to support you in the way you need
I made the mistake of telling too many people close to me. Nobody could really help. I got varying degrees of "Lets have tea and cookies and talk about it" "It's ok not to be ok and there's lots of help out there" "it's good to talk" "maybe the doctor could help" "Go to the doctor cause you're ill and he will make you better"" "Lots of people separate from their partner" "Lots of people lose their kids" "Lots of people lose their career and job" "lots of people are mentally ill" and all these people told others my personals and what happened and what state I was in and their summary of why it all happened. It's not enough to just go to a someone close who has life working well. many of those folk will care but won't give much though to your situation.
I’m currently sitting in my truck ..3 days after getting my knock out delivered. I have been working almost non stop the past 18 months on building a new custom building for my long time GF and her/our new business venture to be told she’s not happy and wants me to move out. Totally blindsided with this …after we’ve build a beautiful new home and now this new business on the same property…. And conveniently when it’s near 100% completed. I quit my own business to do this with her and supported her on a career change and this new business venture. Now I have lost my gf of going on 7 years . No home no work and not a penny in my pocket cause I worked on her dream building for the lAst 16-18 months. I’m not just on the canvas Mark…I’m feeling like I’m 6 ft under the ground that the boxing ring sits on. Trying to absorb your positive words on your channel…I do appreciate the content you share. But wow. It’s so hard thou to feel like I can get up after this knock out.
You've already got the right fighting attitude brother. Keep that attitude NO MATTER WHAT! I'm 4.5 years in the courts already, on the ugliest divorce journey that you can imagine, with 2 minor children, that I love more than anything in this world (that she's used in the worst way to try and hurt me). It's been the worst hell I've ever been through, and I've been through many extremely difficult journeys in my life. Brace yourself and keep yourself on guard and ready for anything that could come your way, especially given the business situation. No matter what, be 100% determined that you're going to fight for yourself and that you're going to win.
@@tjgallo Thank you for your encouragement brother…I’m sorry to hear about your sitch…it’s especially difficult when children are involved… I feel for ya TJ. Thanks again for taking the time to send those positive words. I hope your mess gets resolved soon. That’s a long time to be involved in the courts… cheers brother 💪
@@kevinvandusen7094 you bet my man! We've got to stick together in this space, and help each other out. I know it's really tough for you right now, but after almost 4 years of "hell", I can tell you that it's been my attitude to win that's been the most important thing of every technique and tactic. You've clearly got that... NEVER let it go!! 👍💪💪👍
I am facing restarting my life at age 71. Its scary and sometimes i doubt my abilities with a torn Achilles tendon on my future but at least i know i have a future
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Totally agree about finding your people I'm the first in my family ever to go through a divorce at 32 and no one understands me especially navigating family parents is challenging
Only those who understand will be able to support you in the way you need
Thank you!
I made the mistake of telling too many people close to me.
Nobody could really help.
I got varying degrees of
"Lets have tea and cookies and talk about it"
"It's ok not to be ok and there's lots of help out there"
"it's good to talk"
"maybe the doctor could help"
"Go to the doctor cause you're ill and he will make you better""
"Lots of people separate from their partner"
"Lots of people lose their kids"
"Lots of people lose their career and job"
"lots of people are mentally ill"
and all these people told others my personals and what happened and what state I was in and their summary of why it all happened.
It's not enough to just go to a someone close who has life working well. many of those folk will care but won't give much though to your situation.
I’m currently sitting in my truck ..3 days after getting my knock out delivered. I have been working almost non stop the past 18 months on building a new custom building for my long time GF and her/our new business venture to be told she’s not happy and wants me to move out. Totally blindsided with this …after we’ve build a beautiful new home and now this new business on the same property…. And conveniently when it’s near 100% completed. I quit my own business to do this with her and supported her on a career change and this new business venture. Now I have lost my gf of going on 7 years . No home no work and not a penny in my pocket cause I worked on her dream building for the lAst 16-18 months. I’m not just on the canvas Mark…I’m feeling like I’m 6 ft under the ground that the boxing ring sits on. Trying to absorb your positive words on your channel…I do appreciate the content you share. But wow. It’s so hard thou to feel like I can get up after this knock out.
You've already got the right fighting attitude brother. Keep that attitude NO MATTER WHAT!
I'm 4.5 years in the courts already, on the ugliest divorce journey that you can imagine, with 2 minor children, that I love more than anything in this world (that she's used in the worst way to try and hurt me). It's been the worst hell I've ever been through, and I've been through many extremely difficult journeys in my life. Brace yourself and keep yourself on guard and ready for anything that could come your way, especially given the business situation. No matter what, be 100% determined that you're going to fight for yourself and that you're going to win.
@@tjgallo Thank you for your encouragement brother…I’m sorry to hear about your sitch…it’s especially difficult when children are involved… I feel for ya TJ. Thanks again for taking the time to send those positive words. I hope your mess gets resolved soon. That’s a long time to be involved in the courts… cheers brother 💪
@@kevinvandusen7094 you bet my man! We've got to stick together in this space, and help each other out. I know it's really tough for you right now, but after almost 4 years of "hell", I can tell you that it's been my attitude to win that's been the most important thing of every technique and tactic. You've clearly got that... NEVER let it go!! 👍💪💪👍
Reach out anytime Kevin. My Details in the description panel.
Thank you for doing this, Mark. I'm going through it right now and your videos help. It's nice seeing you on the other side.
Thank you. Glad they help.
It's really nice to have someone who's legitimately experienced,
Thank you for this I need to hear this I'm feeling devastated
I am facing restarting my life at age 71. Its scary and sometimes i doubt my abilities with a torn Achilles tendon on my future but at least i know i have a future
Thank you sir, I'm honored
I'm going through it too guys. Hopefully this can help me get out of the gutter
❤️❤️👌