Girl rejects 100s of men request to hangout - then proceeds to complain online how "Chad" won't hangout with her. Everything a girl says is always prefaced with "her perfect dream Chad man" doesn't do xyz.
Yeop and this is where men fail. They think if they do what she is saying they will have a chance. They dont know EVERYTHING is prefaced by "the guy I want doesnt want me".
And that is why I have zero sympathy for women who complain that they get used and abused... They're literally asking to be used and abused. Any other way and they lose interest and stick the guy in the friendzone. I personally refuse to play that game and have chosen to focus on myself.
I observed this years ago with a girl who friend-zoned me. She got out of an abusive relationship with an a-hole, while using me as an emotional tampon throughout that relationship and beyond. I (a caring person who listened to her problems) was what she _said_ she wanted. Just when I thought we were getting closer, she saw a guy at a party lash out emotionally about something and started punching the walls until his knuckles bled. She was fixated on him for the rest of the night and was subsequently all about him. They wound up hooking up eventually but never got in a relationship. I remember looking at her gushing over this guy and realizing _that's_ the type of guy she desired. It was obvious. I wish I'd learned I was being a simp earlier in life, though. The men (or women) in my early life never gave me the kind of advice I've learned in recent years. Experience is always the best teacher, though.
Girls complain online about things that guys don't do XYZ, but when in reality guys are doing exactly what she says, and the guy still gets rejected/ghosted. LOL!
What's going on is you're stuck in this prison about what women want vs what you think you are. And. The two never align so it makes you depressed. You get out of this prison by simply treating other how you want to be treated and stop caring about these games.
Me neither im confused no contact dont work these days bc women got 30-50+ dudes they are talking to on a regular basis and these are the “good” ones not the OF girls we cooked fellaz
I'll make it very simple for her. Whomever you're referring to as far as men who won't hang out with you, they put it to you one time and realize you are not worth the hassle. Have a good day.
Bruh! I’m a Christian who’s been celibate for years and there are few available women in church so dealing with women who aren’t Christians this is EXACTLY how I feel If you tell them you’re a Christian up front it’s awkward Avoiding the sexual minefield is awkward Not wanting to get too deep but being interested Not sure what to do or how to play it It’s so much of a headache that I mostly just check out Women want sex or it’s the friend zone for you while she pursues other options Most guys out of their twenties MUST be married in the church They put it all on the man while women are awful on every level and given a pass no matter what This is why so many single men don’t go to church
Im there with you. Hopeful but not naive. I think i really have to accept the fact that i need to show romantic interest and ask them on a date very early on, even if I'm not sure about her, IN ORDER TO figure out if i want to consider a relationship with her. They do not want to get to know you without sexual tension. This Is how we have to play the game
Dont worry brother, dont let your heart be troubled. God has all under control and if all these women dont care about you, you should stop caring about them too. He will bring "right" woman into your life sooner or later, may God leads you to right place right time to meet the right person, you will be in peace and joy with appointed wife.
I've taken the practice of just finding women to be pen pals with and see where it goes from there. I've formed amazing connections already. And if it leads to dates then cool. If not I don't care. I just want something real and I'm so tired of the minefield myself
It's always like that, don't focus too much on texting. Real chemistry with woman is made face to face. If you have anxiety around pretty women and you don't know what to say, or when to say stuff, you should check out some guides. Read some books bro... my suggestion is to check out 'First Date Playbook: A step by step guide to a great start'.
You got it wrong. It doesn't matter how you talk to a woman, real chemistry can be built anywhere. I've had amazing conversations over text. But yeah you want the face to face experience too. And as far as talking to girls goes. Literally just act how you want to act. Don't even try to be anyone but who you want to be. Just be kind, good, and playful. Be authentic and stop thinking about what women want. Treat her the way you wish she'd treat you. And don't stop looking until you find someone who does what you want. Audition every woman and vet her hard. Don't ever settle
This is cope, if a woman likes you she will text you all the time and talk to you about everything, you saying this sort of crap proves you don't really have women interested in you.
Avoidants are the absolute worst. They basically want to completely control the relationship without saying anything. She probably had insinuated hanging out but has never said anything directly. She probably started the relationship with sex hoping for a romantic fantasy where all of the things she wants just magically happen… and if you don’t get the guessing game just right then you have to realize that her pull back is your sign to just disappear. She won’t even properly dump you but breadcrumb you instead while she tries the same thing with your replacement. Dating avoidants ain’t for the weak, but keep your ears open, she is telling you exactly what’s wrong with you.
If only people had theme music playing that reflects what kind of person they were as someone engages them in conversation, people might have a better idea whether they’d wanna pursue them further or have a moment of clarity and RUN.
Hangout being used as another word for sex is kinda insane. Because sometimes its just hanging out, but other times its bending her over and hanging out all over the kitchen table. On top of that confusion, she expects you to lead and claim all responsibility for whichever of the two happens
I ain’t gonna lie though, I know more guys that fall in love with their fwb than girls. I know only one girl that caught feelings for her fwb but I know at least 6 guys that caught feelings for their fwb
Women now days are ran through mate their ability to pair bond is shattered, meaning they wont develop feelings and you dont catch feelings it is not an illness even the whole language used really shows something is wrong.
4:47 so i am correct, what has happened to her is the Chad & Tyrone options she had have dried up. She is no longer attractive to them, now her options are Mark & Brad who are not used to females like her and are playing it safe looking for a more clear sign of interest from her that they understand as her being interested in whatever.
*Women are drawn to guys who have their own lives and don’t feel the need to be glued to their phones. By not texting all the time, you show that you’re confident and not desperate for attention, which is incredibly attractive.*
They want it to be your fault that sex happened, which is now a major risk thanks to false rape and other accusations that women seem to get away with these days. Men have realised this and have backed off, which is understandable.
I've completely stopped watching these types of videos. They're just for clickbait. This one says don't text her. Other's say text THIS to make her interested. One say NEVER BE VULNERABLE. Others say be vulnerable in the right way at the right time. It's just so dumb. There is no 1 way to do things. Because guess what (redpill youtubers HATE THIS FACT) WOMEN.. are just normal people like you and I. And some women like X type of guys other like Y type of guys..
@Drikkerbadevand I completely agree. I do acknowledge that what I learned from these videos was very helpful but it takes alot of failing and trying to figure out what actually works for you. At the end of the day, women are just people.
because she is used goods, that part she wont admit to. Chad & Tyrone got better and fresh options. So now she is left with Brad who is not used to female nature, especially one like hers.
Being clear about what you want is not messing your image and position. Whatever happens afterwards from your side was clear enough if you did that. So you can not be blamed for not mentioning what you wanted all along and everything that includes anything else in that.
Women should be doing 70-80% of texting/pursuing/calling first. If it's less than that, especially if it's 50/50 or less, she will be turned off and lose attraction.
Everything is just a game to women today, they are on a power trip today to boost there own ego's, there is no building a relationship and settling down with a girl anymore, once they've used you and had there fun, they move on to the next man, sounds harsh, but it's the reality, I can't play these games anymore so for my own piece of mind I stay single.
I actively avoid hookups because I know I'm not interested in them long term and I don't want them to get attached. If they're a woman I'm highly attracted to I'd love to spend a lot of time and hookup with them. And I do actually collect women like Pokémon just to talk to. Usually women that don't live near me though.
@@007ColdFire Oh, you are highly mistaken. If they're highly attracted to you and you do well in the bedroom they can absolutely get attached. Keep in mind the women I'm referring to are women that have been watching me from afar for a while before I was single.
Girl rejects 100s of men request to hangout - then proceeds to complain online how "Chad" won't hangout with her. Everything a girl says is always prefaced with "her perfect dream Chad man" doesn't do xyz.
Yeop and this is where men fail. They think if they do what she is saying they will have a chance. They dont know EVERYTHING is prefaced by "the guy I want doesnt want me".
And when perfect Chad does what she wants she loses interest. Hypergamy at its best
And that is why I have zero sympathy for women who complain that they get used and abused... They're literally asking to be used and abused.
Any other way and they lose interest and stick the guy in the friendzone.
I personally refuse to play that game and have chosen to focus on myself.
moNKMOde!
Women want new, better and different
It’s all to stimulate their emotions bc they are slaves to them
Is interesting because I do Play the game. But I wish I did not have to. But they literally train me to do it.
Can you train me how to play the game😂@@BF-non
I observed this years ago with a girl who friend-zoned me. She got out of an abusive relationship with an a-hole, while using me as an emotional tampon throughout that relationship and beyond. I (a caring person who listened to her problems) was what she _said_ she wanted. Just when I thought we were getting closer, she saw a guy at a party lash out emotionally about something and started punching the walls until his knuckles bled. She was fixated on him for the rest of the night and was subsequently all about him. They wound up hooking up eventually but never got in a relationship. I remember looking at her gushing over this guy and realizing _that's_ the type of guy she desired. It was obvious. I wish I'd learned I was being a simp earlier in life, though. The men (or women) in my early life never gave me the kind of advice I've learned in recent years. Experience is always the best teacher, though.
I don’t even know what’s going on anymore
Girls complain online about things that guys don't do XYZ, but when in reality guys are doing exactly what she says, and the guy still gets rejected/ghosted. LOL!
Bruh 😂
What's going on is you're stuck in this prison about what women want vs what you think you are. And. The two never align so it makes you depressed. You get out of this prison by simply treating other how you want to be treated and stop caring about these games.
Me neither im confused no contact dont work these days bc women got 30-50+ dudes they are talking to on a regular basis and these are the “good” ones not the OF girls we cooked fellaz
No contact is more for exs from long term relationships not for trying to hook up
I'll make it very simple for her. Whomever you're referring to as far as men who won't hang out with you, they put it to you one time and realize you are not worth the hassle. Have a good day.
I would not say that men have been feminized, but rather dont wanna play dumb guessing games,
Men have been feminized dude 44% of men voted for Kamala and 80% of black men.
He definitely missed that
I won’t return. Why should I expose myself to another certain social exclusion? I’m happy by myself and my peace & quiet.
Bruh! I’m a Christian who’s been celibate for years and there are few available women in church so dealing with women who aren’t Christians this is EXACTLY how I feel
If you tell them you’re a Christian up front it’s awkward
Avoiding the sexual minefield is awkward
Not wanting to get too deep but being interested
Not sure what to do or how to play it
It’s so much of a headache that I mostly just check out
Women want sex or it’s the friend zone for you while she pursues other options
Most guys out of their twenties MUST be married in the church
They put it all on the man while women are awful on every level and given a pass no matter what
This is why so many single men don’t go to church
The few times I have been to church a lot of the available women had tattoos, were single moms, and wore hot pants to Sunday Service. Yikes...
Im there with you. Hopeful but not naive. I think i really have to accept the fact that i need to show romantic interest and ask them on a date very early on, even if I'm not sure about her, IN ORDER TO figure out if i want to consider a relationship with her. They do not want to get to know you without sexual tension. This Is how we have to play the game
forget marriage altogether
Dont worry brother, dont let your heart be troubled. God has all under control and if all these women dont care about you, you should stop caring about them too. He will bring "right" woman into your life sooner or later, may God leads you to right place right time to meet the right person, you will be in peace and joy with appointed wife.
I've taken the practice of just finding women to be pen pals with and see where it goes from there. I've formed amazing connections already. And if it leads to dates then cool. If not I don't care. I just want something real and I'm so tired of the minefield myself
Anyone who writes a letter with pen on paper has class. And if you use a dip pen, then I tip my hat to you, sir.
It's always like that, don't focus too much on texting. Real chemistry with woman is made face to face. If you have anxiety around pretty women and you don't know what to say, or when to say stuff, you should check out some guides. Read some books bro... my suggestion is to check out 'First Date Playbook: A step by step guide to a great start'.
Tom Torero's: Street Hustle
Nick Krauser's: Daygame Mastery
You got it wrong. It doesn't matter how you talk to a woman, real chemistry can be built anywhere. I've had amazing conversations over text. But yeah you want the face to face experience too. And as far as talking to girls goes. Literally just act how you want to act. Don't even try to be anyone but who you want to be. Just be kind, good, and playful. Be authentic and stop thinking about what women want. Treat her the way you wish she'd treat you. And don't stop looking until you find someone who does what you want. Audition every woman and vet her hard. Don't ever settle
This is cope, if a woman likes you she will text you all the time and talk to you about everything, you saying this sort of crap proves you don't really have women interested in you.
@@bolt-dbtfg Nope, I suggest Mastering The First Impression by casanova- reads
Avoidants are the absolute worst. They basically want to completely control the relationship without saying anything. She probably had insinuated hanging out but has never said anything directly. She probably started the relationship with sex hoping for a romantic fantasy where all of the things she wants just magically happen… and if you don’t get the guessing game just right then you have to realize that her pull back is your sign to just disappear. She won’t even properly dump you but breadcrumb you instead while she tries the same thing with your replacement. Dating avoidants ain’t for the weak, but keep your ears open, she is telling you exactly what’s wrong with you.
If only people had theme music playing that reflects what kind of person they were as someone engages them in conversation, people might have a better idea whether they’d wanna pursue them further or have a moment of clarity and RUN.
No we'lljust see deflecting questions like:
"Why do all the guys that abuse me have Dark Souls boss music? Can't they change their theme?"
Hangout being used as another word for sex is kinda insane. Because sometimes its just hanging out, but other times its bending her over and hanging out all over the kitchen table. On top of that confusion, she expects you to lead and claim all responsibility for whichever of the two happens
Looking forward to your book man!
I ain’t gonna lie though, I know more guys that fall in love with their fwb than girls. I know only one girl that caught feelings for her fwb but I know at least 6 guys that caught feelings for their fwb
Yep. I think he's greatly underestimating how many guys fall easily for women.
Women now days are ran through mate their ability to pair bond is shattered, meaning they wont develop feelings and you dont catch feelings it is not an illness even the whole language used really shows something is wrong.
Women catch feelings for every guy they also with. The reason they glitch is because they are raised to act like men.
@@Daire-x6r yep. I think that's a big part of it. Absolutely.
After sex with some after 3 times at least , dudes will catch feelings . Women are different ..
4:47 so i am correct, what has happened to her is the Chad & Tyrone options she had have dried up. She is no longer attractive to them, now her options are Mark & Brad who are not used to females like her and are playing it safe looking for a more clear sign of interest from her that they understand as her being interested in whatever.
*Women are drawn to guys who have their own lives and don’t feel the need to be glued to their phones. By not texting all the time, you show that you’re confident and not desperate for attention, which is incredibly attractive.*
Walk away gentlemen WALK AWAY…
All this plus the additional risk that if she gets pregnant, she gets to be the one to decide whether the kid is kept.
Sex is riskier for men
They want it to be your fault that sex happened, which is now a major risk thanks to false rape and other accusations that women seem to get away with these days. Men have realised this and have backed off, which is understandable.
woww, this guy just broke the code wtf
3:38 this girl far too much in masculine energy, but ya, far too many men in feminine energy too.
as a man, these are the games you have to play when you deal with liberal women... MAGA 🇺🇸
and how is that different with conservative women?
Facts
Lol hypergamy doesn’t care ab politics big bro
The nice thing about being "MAGA" is, you don't have to worry about women being attracted to you... 🤷♂️
@@gkniffen Maga means a witch in latin
Very true but if you don't make any move nothing will happen and you might lose some girls that take more convincing.
I've completely stopped watching these types of videos. They're just for clickbait. This one says don't text her. Other's say text THIS to make her interested. One say NEVER BE VULNERABLE. Others say be vulnerable in the right way at the right time. It's just so dumb.
There is no 1 way to do things. Because guess what (redpill youtubers HATE THIS FACT) WOMEN.. are just normal people like you and I. And some women like X type of guys other like Y type of guys..
@Drikkerbadevand I completely agree. I do acknowledge that what I learned from these videos was very helpful but it takes alot of failing and trying to figure out what actually works for you. At the end of the day, women are just people.
the key is not giving af about missing out. they missed out on YOU. your mindset is that THEY are the prize. with that mindset you'll lose every time.
@@Drikkerbadevand beta.
@@Drikkerbadevand Maximum amounts of copium
The only men that she’s referring to are the Chad’s and the Tyrone’s. They are the ones that don’t want to hang out anymore.
because she is used goods, that part she wont admit to. Chad & Tyrone got better and fresh options. So now she is left with Brad who is not used to female nature, especially one like hers.
Chads and Tyrones are mythical creatures who don't exist.
These people voted for Kamala remember that
This is really good
I used to text women and try to have a phone call with them before hanging out to make sure that we could actually have a conversation
Being clear about what you want is not messing your image and position. Whatever happens afterwards from your side was clear enough if you did that. So you can not be blamed for not mentioning what you wanted all along and everything that includes anything else in that.
Women should be doing 70-80% of texting/pursuing/calling first. If it's less than that, especially if it's 50/50 or less, she will be turned off and lose attraction.
I like what you said from 1:50 to 2:30. Gotta learn how to read between the lines and set up the situation for s*x to happen if thats what you want.
Guys think they have perpetual options because of dating apps and won't commit to hanging out when they think they have 10 other options.
You do know what percentage of guys get lots of matches right?
???
@@distinguishedliving 20%
Everything is just a game to women today, they are on a power trip today to boost there own ego's, there is no building a relationship and settling down with a girl anymore, once they've used you and had there fun, they move on to the next man, sounds harsh, but it's the reality, I can't play these games anymore so for my own piece of mind I stay single.
If i had a nickle... Id still be broke but i would not have been playing stupid games only to win stupid prizes in the end😅🎉
I can't have a partner with history with other people.
This used to be the norm. I am the same. I do have them but is casual.
@BF-non legend bro
Good luck with that
@@LEGOAgenda thank you, I'll probably die still searching 😂😂
“Keeps happening to me” is a sign that something’s wrong with you jordstac and not with those guys. They’re all picking up on some red flag in her
Arguably women that play stupid games are just time bombs
I actively avoid hookups because I know I'm not interested in them long term and I don't want them to get attached.
If they're a woman I'm highly attracted to I'd love to spend a lot of time and hookup with them.
And I do actually collect women like Pokémon just to talk to. Usually women that don't live near me though.
Same lol. And i dont think thats wrong at all, you dont need to fuck another girl every 2 weeks
If you're being honest, direct and stating your intentions in the beginning, You dont have to worry about them getting attached
@@007ColdFire Oh, you are highly mistaken. If they're highly attracted to you and you do well in the bedroom they can absolutely get attached.
Keep in mind the women I'm referring to are women that have been watching me from afar for a while before I was single.
Having a sister helps I’m sure
Truth😂
were muslims right? holy fuck were the muslims right?
Stop going for American women. Guys the answer is that simple. Ffs
The only men that she’s referring to are the Chad’s and the Tyrone’s. They are the ones that don’t want to hang out anymore.
Walk away gentlemen WALK AWAY…
Walk away gentlemen WALK AWAY…