Ignore her. If you were able to have these kinds of feelings for someone who doesnt want you imagine how great it will feel when you do find that special person who reciprocates your feeling!
That's why you keep it short less than 2min otp or around 2-3 txts rule of thumb u offer to see her twice if she doesn't act enthusiastic you never ask again. And you keep keeping conversation short. She'll either A.offer to see you or B.stop contacting u bc ur not validating her anymore. Either way u don't care bc your life is moving on with or without her.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient.
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
Damn, stay strong, become successful and make her regret all her life for what she did. I was in relationship for 2 years and left me immediately after met new people in work. They really become ruthless, but they will regret everything soon or later
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Your advice is really helping me Girl I was talking to went from being flirty, wanting to see me, over night switched to seeing me as friend Fault is mine I gave her too much time and attention
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
It happened to me last feb. Same thing, 5 yrs, sudden turn and then text break/ghost. When your in it like you are it feels like hell but it does get better. It took 8 most to find out what really happened which was there was somebody else for some time prior to the break. Its harsh and its wrong but some people are straight cowards. You tried to save it but got no response same as i did. You will find out the truth eventually and even if its painful it will still be closure. Your conceance is clean brother, you will heal. People that do these things get theyre karma in the end.
She used to reply to my message in 6-12 hrs, i pointed it & she told she will improve as she is not active on social media & barely uses phone. Last time i messaged she replied after 3 days Obviously i didnt replied, as i felt insulted, but i was hoping if she will message me again i will reply its been 3 weeks, its like absolutely no contact. Idk what to do, sometimes i feel if i played my cards right i still have a chance 😭 Talked to 2 more girls in meantime but still hooked to her. I know very little hope but i still want her to come back 😢😢
Just scrolling to channels I subscribed to and found ya.. It's been 6 months since she left me.. And I feel at peace now.. A new guy. Thank you very much for everything Christine! 🤗 Lots of love from 🇵🇭..
No contact has to be forever. It’s easy to forget that it isn’t just a ploy to get someone back - you need to remind the hurt part of your psyche that you respect yourself enough to stay away. Putting up with disrespect and begging for the bare minimum reinforces that little voice that’s afraid it isnt worth love.
I just had this happen. Asked her out, got an enthusiastic yes, but then she ghosted me for 2 weeks. After those 2 weeks she reached out asking when I was free only to ghost me again
Don’t block. Just live your life and keep trying to “be the best version of yourself”. Women notice a mile away when a man is going upwards on their trajectory. Other women will come into mix and I wouldn’t even worry about the ex.
@@Jerry11011 the girl was not even my ex she kept on giving me fake promises that she’ll come into an relationship with me but i wasted my 2 years behind her im emotionally attached it’s like i don’t know where i stand her in life ,she keeps ghosting me or ignoring me and cries for other boys or ex in front of me , that’s what my question is should i block her ? and what if she reaches out
@@b4mchickuop127if you constantly feel the urge to check her social media then you should In my case she always play with breadcrumb once in a while eventho she is already with someone so i just block her
@@b4mchickuop127 block and if she comes back, ask her to make her intentions clear. Being friends with someone you like can be difficult, its a sacrifice you don't need to make. You first. (not in the selfish sense but in the selfcare sense, you first)
I used to have hope that she will comeback but now l don't care anymore l been hitting the gym hard , planning my trips to the United States and England . Learning Spanish.
NoNothing Personal. But you Britts need to learn English yourselves. Lol. Once your Cogney kicks in. We Americans need a Britt interpreter to understand your garble. 😅
Our relationship felt real and deep, but it ended in betrayal. She cheated on me due to unresolved feelings for her ex and then blocked me when I found out, leaving me without answers. I believe she cared deeply, but her guilt and avoidant tendencies kept her from facing the truth. I wanted to work things out, but she chose to run instead of confronting what we had. Now, I’m focused on healing and growth, but part of me still hopes she reflects on what happened and finds the strength to make things right.
@@matthewnorris203 Familiar? She could be familiar with Cupid brother I wouldn’t take a woman’s advice on how to be with women. Nor a singular man that has no kids and isn’t happily married. Corey Wayne is a sham. I bought one of his audiobooks when I was lost. He is selling you sin upon sin and so is this lady.
Thank you Christine I have supported a girl a lot financially and emotionally, she stopped valuing me and started taking me for granted and disrespected me. i am on no contact with her. its very difficult because i am emotionally attached and still care alot.
Good on you for not taking disrespect. My tip is to focus on yourself and what youre doing. Start a project or get in shape and find something to look forward to.
This is exactly what happened to me. I also started doing NO CONTACT and it's been 2 and a half months. It is very difficult in the beginning but it get's better afterwards. And it gets worse. But then it gets better. And better. And better. And then you are free. Stay strong my friend.
There is no one answer. This no contact crap just feels like you're both playing games. There may be a specific reason you aren't contacted. You're not always going to be the most important thing in life. If that's what you want, get a dog and stop looking for a relationship or connection.
😂😂😂 i am so crazy for past few months i was watching tarot card reading today i realise if she wants me she makes things obvious and easy for me thank u so much
Thanks for this. I met a girl Sunday before last (9 days ago as of typing this message). She seemed receptive, but after our initial messaging she didn't reply to my message, despite me leaving a few questions for her to respond to. I left it a day, re-engaged and again we chatted over the course of a day, but same thing: Left my last message on read, no reply. That was last Thursday, and today I've unfriended her and deleted the chat. Not going to waste my time.
Treat online contacts just like that random attractive stranger you encountered on the subway. Be kind. Flirt. But you will probably never see him/her again if they didn't even talk to you! Expect the same online. Accept that. Wait for the next train, it won't be long!
As Gordon lightfoot once put it “ the feelings gone and I just can’t get it back “. Yes, I am done. There will be no further communication. It’s much too late for that now. I tried and I failed. Failures happen. It’s part of life and of death, it seems.
@xxczerxx No, I'm done. It has to be 50/50 with me because I have too much self respect to chase anyone. Also, it's a known fact that most of us have our cell phones close to us 99% of the time, so I know she sees my texts. People make time for those whom they wish to.
i blocked 2 of my ex numbers, and she decided to get new number just for me to ignored it when she reached out, she randomly showed up in front my shop the next day, i tried to be nice just for customer level When she left my shop i block her 3rd number lol, blocked every social media and make my account private Every choices have consequences and some are final
Assuming you already know them in some way: if they are interested in you, many women initiate things by coincidence or "accidentally". Such as reason to run into you somewhere or a reason to get close to you physically.
@@mickwous2795 i wish everyone can come to their sense after all this slap in the face comment, clearly they are struggle with self esteem I mean how do you hope someone will give you respect if you can't even respect yourself
I recently had the situation, were I (after 5 years without any relationship or dating) went on a couple of dates with a beautiful woman. After the last date, which went pretty good, we didnt really text that much and then she hit me with the "I didnt feel the spark". I told her that I appreciate her honesty, thanked her for the cozy dates and wished her a nice vacation and birthday party. Havent spoken to or texted with her ever since. Now I'm just sitting here, thinking: Yeah, I'll never hear from her again 🗿
Initially you can double message as women get so many messages she could have over looked it, however after a date i would suggest not double messaging.
I just had no idea after being a responsible man and trying to have something in life that I would have to carry my mentality ALL THE WAY BACK TO ELEMENTARY SCHOOL to play back and forth games. I have had several women in my Rolodex and the All knew about each other and that ALWAYS balances out relationships. I would rather be single and not waste time in elementary school (i have my own self pride and dignity)
My current gf got me through no contact. She always loved me .. 6 months of her not messaging me made me appreciate her. Shes jusr too nice. Ive been with her for 3 years now. We first dated 6y ago. I made her wait 3y.
This isnincredible ❤ I feel like I ám only Amadé for her..I know IT In my soul that she is mine, yet we are at a disagreement, we didn't speak for 2 months Now.. I Miss hrr so much I wish we could talk, but I cant váll őr text her...cause I cannot humiliate myself .......but youth story gives meg hope, I hope you giys live your lives together and have a nice life ❤ Take care
@georgealexander3642 Thanks freind. Yes be strong. She will feel that strength. You can only have her heart if you are strong enough to walk away and never look back. That is your superior masculine polarity. This coacj borrows from coach Corey Wayne.. he is the best but I love both. I also have another girl that I want for 3some relationship. She also always message back but I make mistakes but something always keeps her to message after some time. Keep your options open though bro. As you improve, so do your options.
Assuming you're getting responses already, just use text to set up physical contact.... People think texting is a substitute for anything meaningful....it isn't.
So what is the plan when you apply the no contact rule to her to see if she really likes you, but she interprets your no contact rule as YOUR desire to no longer be contacted by her, and she doesn’t contact you? Couldnt the very no contact rule to test her be the message she interprets from you for her to no longer contact you?
If she never returns, then she never was yours...so move on. If she really ever cared for you, then it's reasonable to think that she would reach out to you somehow. If she does make a timid attempt, it's just a temperature check to get you to reach out completely to reestablish contact. Don t do it!! If she wants to reestablish contact, then she'll need to make it completely obvious and expose her intentions openly.
If she really doesn’t show that much interest perhaps after you did the cards , flowers , lunches , dinners … she responds .. but only in a general way … might as well back out .
set perfect goals sounds good but what if you lost all your motivation, desire and hope and you just wanna lock yourself up in a room and stay in silence
It's kinda different if meeting her in person is unavoidable, plus there is no reason why you can't have closure after time apart and then talk to her to see how she is. Breaking up doesn't mean she didn't care for you and showed you her affection in fact the crush could be mutual but because she's already in a relationship, it gets awkward and one ends up running away from each other because they have butterflies. Months go by without contact, but eventually you both start to settle down and be brave to be able to talk. When you both care about one another, it's tough. With enough time, you will find someone similar but this time you'll have the patience and time to find someone that wants you, in fact with the confidence you've developed, you may find women are coming up to you from different directions because they see the confidence. Combine that with a good body, athletic build and nice smile and women will come to you, including those who are married or are in a relationship, but that's where things will get tricky. For the sake of your heart try and be with those who are genuine and free.
If you are aiming towards not putting in any effort to chase the women at all you are really going nowhere. It is all up to you and it is all in your hands. Rather triple your luck by actually chase a little. Most women nowadays have a lot of options; there needs to be a strong reason for them to choose you - instead of someone else, and that is barely about look or if you have a pretty smile. It is mostly about chemistry and where you are in life, career, what future goals you have, could you be a good father etc. Think of it this way; why should they put in effort on someone that is behind themselves in life when it comes to career and life goals? They want the most benefit out of this life that they only get one chance at, like the rest of us. Of course they want someone that can match them at least close to equally or better when it comes to a career and goals in general. Look for the most part will help with the first impression - higher chance of getting an interaction. But a book with a beautiful cover may still be an empty book.
@@grandiosa86 If you don't look the part and take care of yourself, dress well, have nice teeth, don't smoke meaning you don't look old / wrinkly or unhealthy, and being fit from the outset then the likelihood is that a woman won't bat an eyelid at you. How do I know this, well I'm hit on by women half my age or younger. My point is that, looks matter unless you're being hit on by someone with lower standards than normal, has a drug / alcohol or severe weight issue. There is someone out there for everybody, but if you don't take care of yourself, you're chances are vastly minimised. It is indeed about chemistry, but chemistry is also about attraction. People can be so focused about their career also, and this can be detrimental to any relationship because they don't spend enough time with them, or show them enough care. Also don't forget what women are primarily looking for in a man, the key attributes, be that physical or mental linked to any children they may have or are able to provide in their upbringing. It's all about physical compatibility and acceptability for each others life and situation whatever that may be as one learns more about the person they are intertest in. That's my perspective.
I ignored my exs messages from 2 different numbers, she randomly showed up at my store, i tried to be nice but only business related... She asked for help but i told her "you should ask your bf instead" she looked dowm with sad face, when she wanted to leave she asked me to reach out to her once i already get stuff which eventualy sold out in my store i suggested her to get it somewhere else. When she left my store i blocked her from every social media and every number she has. If she wanted to see you realy bad, she will find every reason to do so, but don't get your hope up because their intention sometime is unclear that's why i blocked her instead because if i wanna play, i'd rather spend time with my xbox
Yeah but wouldn’t some people think it’s a waste of their time and just stop trying to talk to you if you’re are doing no contact towards them? Like they can be perfect for you but you could possibly lose that person if you do it and they don’t find it respectful. I think everyone’s different no matter how much I agree with no contact. I’m always afraid I’ll do it to the wrong person and they just give up since they may think you’re playing texting games.
I just hit the 30 day mark after reaching out once to check in after 10 days of no contact. Got a response back but it didn't go anywhere. Should I remove her from my social medias as the next step?
There should be no time set for no contact. It’s not to try to get her back, it’s to move on and focus on you. If she comes back, great, but most likely you’ll get to a point where you don’t want her because you will have levelled yourself up.
Why would you want to close the door for good? Just leave her in your social media, since she never decided to remove you from hers. You never know what might happen in the future, and use your broken heart as a motivation to keep growing as a person and achieving all of your goals.
Ain’t even a feminine thing, normalize blocking bread crumbing narcs before they actually do get the one up on you in your darkest hr. Been completely sober since I fell for a hoover about 3 years ago when I was inebriated. Take 0 chances, leave no hope.
I just was texting a woman last week she seem like she may be interested. But she have not text me in a week im not chasing anything. If she don't text im not texting she better ask someone how I get down lol.
I loved a girl when I was younger and ruined it. She told me, "if you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours." Since that day, I have never messaged her again. I felt she deserved better than myself at that current state. 15 years later, I'm better and about to try and get the love of my life back
Im haveing the problem were i got engaged me and her and then she when back to being gay. And we got in agurement about things after few weeks from breaking up and i been trying get away from her bec i dont see me and her being friends but i miss her and all the fun times. And she saids shes not being gay with another women she just going to church now and being single. Soooo she tells me you could be my brother or friend 😂 im like hell no!! Likeeeee idk what to do. I keep trying get away from her and then she asks for her stuff back and she never picks up her stuff from my house. Like i she just keep ignoring her more? She hasnt really message as much now. Soo i need maybe just block her online and take off?
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Nobody is more busy than the person who is not into you.
@@sanjeevgig8918 so true !!!!! I agree
This goes for friends as well
FACTS! People make time for who they want to be around!
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Facts. That busy person don’t give af bout u no matter how much they say they “busy” the don’t make u a priority
Ignore her. If you were able to have these kinds of feelings for someone who doesnt want you imagine how great it will feel when you do find that special person who reciprocates your feeling!
What century is that going to occur?
Sometimes they keep reaching out for their dose of attention. beware guys.
Yup
Yeah
That's why you keep it short less than 2min otp or around 2-3 txts rule of thumb u offer to see her twice if she doesn't act enthusiastic you never ask again. And you keep keeping conversation short. She'll either A.offer to see you or B.stop contacting u bc ur not validating her anymore.
Either way u don't care bc your life is moving on with or without her.
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient.
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
In 2024, the best relationship is the “no relationship”, and being respectful to women is to keep a respectful distance.
Man Bro, WELL SAID 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Broke up after 5 years. She jumped into a rebound, i disappeared forever. She continues to call but will never receive a reply. Ever
Damn, stay strong, become successful and make her regret all her life for what she did. I was in relationship for 2 years and left me immediately after met new people in work. They really become ruthless, but they will regret everything soon or later
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Your advice is really helping me
Girl I was talking to went from being flirty, wanting to see me, over night switched to seeing me as friend
Fault is mine I gave her too much time and attention
Are you kidding? She saved you from yourself lol. Perfect for a one night stand but not a keeper obviously, right?
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
It happened to me last feb. Same thing, 5 yrs, sudden turn and then text break/ghost. When your in it like you are it feels like hell but it does get better. It took 8 most to find out what really happened which was there was somebody else for some time prior to the break. Its harsh and its wrong but some people are straight cowards. You tried to save it but got no response same as i did. You will find out the truth eventually and even if its painful it will still be closure. Your conceance is clean brother, you will heal. People that do these things get theyre karma in the end.
She used to reply to my message in 6-12 hrs, i pointed it & she told she will improve as she is not active on social media & barely uses phone.
Last time i messaged she replied after 3 days
Obviously i didnt replied, as i felt insulted, but i was hoping if she will message me again i will reply
its been 3 weeks, its like absolutely no contact. Idk what to do, sometimes i feel if i played my cards right i still have a chance 😭
Talked to 2 more girls in meantime but still hooked to her. I know very little hope but i still want her to come back 😢😢
Just scrolling to channels I subscribed to and found ya..
It's been 6 months since she left me.. And I feel at peace now.. A new guy.
Thank you very much for everything Christine! 🤗 Lots of love from 🇵🇭..
Amazing. It always passes, focus on you and an abundance mindset. Sky is the limit moving forward :)
Thank you for this simple wisdom!
No contact has to be forever. It’s easy to forget that it isn’t just a ploy to get someone back - you need to remind the hurt part of your psyche that you respect yourself enough to stay away. Putting up with disrespect and begging for the bare minimum reinforces that little voice that’s afraid it isnt worth love.
Bare minimum beats nothing
Nothing worse than one-sided relationships.
crazy how nobody is talking about books from Lentlish, your relationship life will turn 180 after reading their works
Ok fine, Christine. We can date.
Thats my homie 😂😂😂😂😂
She likes women, silly😂😂
She married lol
You’d treat me good baby. I need you
Silly Billy 😀
I just had this happen. Asked her out, got an enthusiastic yes, but then she ghosted me for 2 weeks.
After those 2 weeks she reached out asking when I was free only to ghost me again
She's playing games. Ignore her next time she reaches out. Wait for a couple days to reply back, and when you reply give her one word answers.
@@djcaly84 That's weak, insecure and needy behavior. Secure person would just walk away and never look back. Abundance mindset.
@@muffemod Only if it bothers you it's weak for you to stay. If it doesn't, she can do whatever, you wouldn't care anyway.
She just needed her daily allowance of attention. Ignore ignore ignore.
Bro just block her for the sake of your self respect and your well being
this video hurts so bad on a personal level but it is the truth i needed to here and came at the perfect time. thank you
Unfollow her. Delete her number
should i block her ?
Don’t block. Just live your life and keep trying to “be the best version of yourself”. Women notice a mile away when a man is going upwards on their trajectory. Other women will come into mix and I wouldn’t even worry about the ex.
@@Jerry11011 the girl was not even my ex she kept on giving me fake promises that she’ll come into an relationship with me but i wasted my 2 years behind her im emotionally attached it’s like i don’t know where i stand her in life ,she keeps ghosting me or ignoring me and cries for other boys or ex in front of me , that’s what my question is should i block her ? and what if she reaches out
@@b4mchickuop127if you constantly feel the urge to check her social media then you should
In my case she always play with breadcrumb once in a while eventho she is already with someone so i just block her
@@b4mchickuop127 block and if she comes back, ask her to make her intentions clear. Being friends with someone you like can be difficult, its a sacrifice you don't need to make. You first. (not in the selfish sense but in the selfcare sense, you first)
I truly love your wisdom. Thanks for the help
I used to have hope that she will comeback but now l don't care anymore l been hitting the gym hard , planning my trips to the United States and England . Learning Spanish.
NoNothing Personal. But you Britts need to learn English yourselves. Lol. Once your Cogney kicks in. We Americans need a Britt interpreter to understand your garble. 😅
Our relationship felt real and deep, but it ended in betrayal. She cheated on me due to unresolved feelings for her ex and then blocked me when I found out, leaving me without answers. I believe she cared deeply, but her guilt and avoidant tendencies kept her from facing the truth. I wanted to work things out, but she chose to run instead of confronting what we had. Now, I’m focused on healing and growth, but part of me still hopes she reflects on what happened and finds the strength to make things right.
The medium is the message. She did not care deeply for you. Ghost her and move on. Her message is her actions.
Yeah bro he's right she was out right cold for what she did to you move on let go and let live may the next woman satisfy you in every way you please
Bro move on. Date other women. She had zero respect for you. She did you a favor
Never get fishing advice from the fish.
😂😂😂😂
@ I’m serious
Or a Lilly lint licker...omg.
She’s familiar with Coach Corey Wayne - it’s the only reason why I’ll listen to her.
@@matthewnorris203 Familiar? She could be familiar with Cupid brother I wouldn’t take a woman’s advice on how to be with women. Nor a singular man that has no kids and isn’t happily married. Corey Wayne is a sham. I bought one of his audiobooks when I was lost. He is selling you sin upon sin and so is this lady.
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Thank you Christine
I have supported a girl a lot financially and emotionally, she stopped valuing me and started taking me for granted and disrespected me.
i am on no contact with her. its very difficult because i am emotionally attached and still care alot.
Know what you mean. But now you have to stay strong!
U did the first GREAT step for YOUR future!
Good on you for not taking disrespect. My tip is to focus on yourself and what youre doing. Start a project or get in shape and find something to look forward to.
This is exactly what happened to me.
I also started doing NO CONTACT and it's been 2 and a half months.
It is very difficult in the beginning but it get's better afterwards. And it gets worse. But then it gets better. And better. And better. And then you are free.
Stay strong my friend.
There is no one answer. This no contact crap just feels like you're both playing games. There may be a specific reason you aren't contacted. You're not always going to be the most important thing in life. If that's what you want, get a dog and stop looking for a relationship or connection.
You need to build new emotional attachments. You’re not a priority for her. Move on. You’re being used as a crutch.
😂😂😂 i am so crazy for past few months i was watching tarot card reading today i realise if she wants me she makes things obvious and easy for me thank u so much
Thanks for this. I met a girl Sunday before last (9 days ago as of typing this message). She seemed receptive, but after our initial messaging she didn't reply to my message, despite me leaving a few questions for her to respond to. I left it a day, re-engaged and again we chatted over the course of a day, but same thing: Left my last message on read, no reply. That was last Thursday, and today I've unfriended her and deleted the chat. Not going to waste my time.
Treat online contacts just like that random attractive stranger you encountered on the subway. Be kind. Flirt. But you will probably never see him/her again if they didn't even talk to you! Expect the same online. Accept that. Wait for the next train, it won't be long!
As Gordon lightfoot once put it “ the feelings gone and I just can’t get it back “. Yes, I am done. There will be no further communication. It’s much too late for that now. I tried and I failed. Failures happen. It’s part of life and of death, it seems.
Just deleted a female's number this week! I text her, and it took 2 days before she responded! I don't have time for this kind of BS.
May I suggest minimising text convos in the future to just setup dates
@xxczerxx No, I'm done. It has to be 50/50 with me because I have too much self respect to chase anyone. Also, it's a known fact that most of us have our cell phones close to us 99% of the time, so I know she sees my texts. People make time for those whom they wish to.
@@manofsteel3396Very true.
Texting tech will drive people crazy. Thank you for this video. I'll watch more of you. 👍
I never txt any women.
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What if the person of interest is a fearful avoidant attachment style as a possible explanation for a pull back etc?
if a girl wants to see you, will they initiate contact even when you are not following each other on socials?
i blocked 2 of my ex numbers, and she decided to get new number just for me to ignored it when she reached out, she randomly showed up in front my shop the next day, i tried to be nice just for customer level
When she left my shop i block her 3rd number lol, blocked every social media and make my account private
Every choices have consequences and some are final
What a ridiculous question. Look at how brainwashed you are for even thinking that way
Assuming you already know them in some way: if they are interested in you, many women initiate things by coincidence or "accidentally". Such as reason to run into you somewhere or a reason to get close to you physically.
@@mickwous2795 i wish everyone can come to their sense after all this slap in the face comment, clearly they are struggle with self esteem
I mean how do you hope someone will give you respect if you can't even respect yourself
@@AnJing-kl9hi I mean what she did to you for you to not even wanting to see her again and block her everytime she tries to reach out?
I recently had the situation, were I (after 5 years without any relationship or dating) went on a couple of dates with a beautiful woman.
After the last date, which went pretty good, we didnt really text that much and then she hit me with the "I didnt feel the spark".
I told her that I appreciate her honesty, thanked her for the cozy dates and wished her a nice vacation and birthday party.
Havent spoken to or texted with her ever since.
Now I'm just sitting here, thinking: Yeah, I'll never hear from her again 🗿
Initially you can double message as women get so many messages she could have over looked it, however after a date i would suggest not double messaging.
I just had no idea after being a responsible man and trying to have something in life that I would have to carry my mentality ALL THE WAY BACK TO ELEMENTARY SCHOOL to play back and forth games.
I have had several women in my Rolodex and the All knew about each other and that ALWAYS balances out relationships.
I would rather be single and not waste time in elementary school (i have my own self pride and dignity)
My current gf got me through no contact. She always loved me .. 6 months of her not messaging me made me appreciate her. Shes jusr too nice. Ive been with her for 3 years now. We first dated 6y ago. I made her wait 3y.
This isnincredible ❤ I feel like I ám only Amadé for her..I know IT In my soul that she is mine, yet we are at a disagreement, we didn't speak for 2 months Now.. I Miss hrr so much
I wish we could talk, but I cant váll őr text her...cause I cannot humiliate myself .......but youth story gives meg hope, I hope you giys live your lives together and have a nice life ❤
Take care
@georgealexander3642 Thanks freind. Yes be strong. She will feel that strength. You can only have her heart if you are strong enough to walk away and never look back. That is your superior masculine polarity. This coacj borrows from coach Corey Wayne.. he is the best but I love both. I also have another girl that I want for 3some relationship. She also always message back but I make mistakes but something always keeps her to message after some time. Keep your options open though bro. As you improve, so do your options.
I live by the philosophy of never messaging her at all.
Assuming you're getting responses already, just use text to set up physical contact.... People think texting is a substitute for anything meaningful....it isn't.
So what is the plan when you apply the no contact rule to her to see if she really likes you, but she interprets your no contact rule as YOUR desire to no longer be contacted by her, and she doesn’t contact you? Couldnt the very no contact rule to test her be the message she interprets from you for her to no longer contact you?
If she never returns, then she never was yours...so move on. If she really ever cared for you, then it's reasonable to think that she would reach out to you somehow. If she does make a timid attempt, it's just a temperature check to get you to reach out completely to reestablish contact. Don t do it!! If she wants to reestablish contact, then she'll need to make it completely obvious and expose her intentions openly.
If she really doesn’t show that much interest perhaps after you did the cards , flowers , lunches , dinners … she responds .. but only in a general way … might as well back out .
set perfect goals sounds good but what if you lost all your motivation, desire and hope and you just wanna lock yourself up in a room and stay in silence
💯 facts!
It's kinda different if meeting her in person is unavoidable, plus there is no reason why you can't have closure after time apart and then talk to her to see how she is. Breaking up doesn't mean she didn't care for you and showed you her affection in fact the crush could be mutual but because she's already in a relationship, it gets awkward and one ends up running away from each other because they have butterflies. Months go by without contact, but eventually you both start to settle down and be brave to be able to talk. When you both care about one another, it's tough. With enough time, you will find someone similar but this time you'll have the patience and time to find someone that wants you, in fact with the confidence you've developed, you may find women are coming up to you from different directions because they see the confidence. Combine that with a good body, athletic build and nice smile and women will come to you, including those who are married or are in a relationship, but that's where things will get tricky. For the sake of your heart try and be with those who are genuine and free.
If you are aiming towards not putting in any effort to chase the women at all you are really going nowhere. It is all up to you and it is all in your hands. Rather triple your luck by actually chase a little. Most women nowadays have a lot of options; there needs to be a strong reason for them to choose you - instead of someone else, and that is barely about look or if you have a pretty smile. It is mostly about chemistry and where you are in life, career, what future goals you have, could you be a good father etc.
Think of it this way; why should they put in effort on someone that is behind themselves in life when it comes to career and life goals? They want the most benefit out of this life that they only get one chance at, like the rest of us. Of course they want someone that can match them at least close to equally or better when it comes to a career and goals in general.
Look for the most part will help with the first impression - higher chance of getting an interaction. But a book with a beautiful cover may still be an empty book.
@@theintrancer1910 closure doesn't work .. Girls change thier mind anyway
@@grandiosa86 If you don't look the part and take care of yourself, dress well, have nice teeth, don't smoke meaning you don't look old / wrinkly or unhealthy, and being fit from the outset then the likelihood is that a woman won't bat an eyelid at you. How do I know this, well I'm hit on by women half my age or younger. My point is that, looks matter unless you're being hit on by someone with lower standards than normal, has a drug / alcohol or severe weight issue. There is someone out there for everybody, but if you don't take care of yourself, you're chances are vastly minimised. It is indeed about chemistry, but chemistry is also about attraction. People can be so focused about their career also, and this can be detrimental to any relationship because they don't spend enough time with them, or show them enough care. Also don't forget what women are primarily looking for in a man, the key attributes, be that physical or mental linked to any children they may have or are able to provide in their upbringing. It's all about physical compatibility and acceptability for each others life and situation whatever that may be as one learns more about the person they are intertest in. That's my perspective.
@@theintrancer1910 yeah, naturally as a man if we doesn't have a big beer belly hanging over that more women will look at us.
perfect timing
It's true.. she mesaaged me back when she missed me. I never thought she would but it's the only things that works.
Should i block her completely from every social media?
Yes
don’t do that, it shows your pained and your too weak as a man
If you are finished with the relationship. If you're hoping to hear by blocking you've already closed the door.
I would mute her and not like, watch, or react to her posts. Unfollow if you need to.
don't block, just mute her. Blocking means you're in your feelings which is a female thing
What if she reached out two Fridays in a row at 2 am? She left no voicemail or message and no one has said anything about it at all. Still in NC
I ignored my exs messages from 2 different numbers, she randomly showed up at my store, i tried to be nice but only business related... She asked for help but i told her "you should ask your bf instead" she looked dowm with sad face, when she wanted to leave she asked me to reach out to her once i already get stuff which eventualy sold out in my store i suggested her to get it somewhere else. When she left my store i blocked her from every social media and every number she has.
If she wanted to see you realy bad, she will find every reason to do so, but don't get your hope up because their intention sometime is unclear that's why i blocked her instead because if i wanna play, i'd rather spend time with my xbox
She wants attention, validation, and sex. Take the bait, if you want, but you'll likely end up heart broken and rejected once she gets her fix.
Probably wanted attention from her attention sponge. If she cared she would have messaged you by now.
Prob after she'd been piped by Chad. Leave her to it, find a quality woman
Yeah but wouldn’t some people think it’s a waste of their time and just stop trying to talk to you if you’re are doing no contact towards them? Like they can be perfect for you but you could possibly lose that person if you do it and they don’t find it respectful. I think everyone’s different no matter how much I agree with no contact. I’m always afraid I’ll do it to the wrong person and they just give up since they may think you’re playing texting games.
I just hit the 30 day mark after reaching out once to check in after 10 days of no contact. Got a response back but it didn't go anywhere. Should I remove her from my social medias as the next step?
There should be no time set for no contact. It’s not to try to get her back, it’s to move on and focus on you. If she comes back, great, but most likely you’ll get to a point where you don’t want her because you will have levelled yourself up.
Why would you want to close the door for good? Just leave her in your social media, since she never decided to remove you from hers. You never know what might happen in the future, and use your broken heart as a motivation to keep growing as a person and achieving all of your goals.
@@ralyman2 fair enough. You never know
Thank You!
lol.. comment section is borderline harassment zone, i see (yikes!)
Ain’t even a feminine thing, normalize blocking bread crumbing narcs before they actually do get the one up on you in your darkest hr. Been completely sober since I fell for a hoover about 3 years ago when I was inebriated. Take 0 chances, leave no hope.
That's so true!
I learn from comments more than videos 😂😂
You’re probably the only female I’ll listen to about dating. Why? Because you know Corey Wayne’s material
Question is..what to say when she text back after few months?
What if she is messaging me alot? I just feel like ignoring her is weird. I figure I won't message her, unless she messages me???
I just was texting a woman last week she seem like she may be interested. But she have not text me in a week im not chasing anything. If she don't text im not texting she better ask someone how I get down lol.
Right attitude.l
On god lol
Great Video! 🎉
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Its cause she is in a rebound
Lets make no contact Forever
Its spent of 10 days to 12 days to come back ,
Dont chase
I loved a girl when I was younger and ruined it. She told me, "if you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours." Since that day, I have never messaged her again. I felt she deserved better than myself at that current state. 15 years later, I'm better and about to try and get the love of my life back
@@SpaceRanger9840 good luck
@mixedcryptoarts3579 thanks, if it doesn't work out, I'll finally have closure
Godspeed
Well, if IT comes back, it is yours. If she never messaged you all this time, that means that she is not interested in you.
@User-jr7vf very well could be and I'm prepared for that. Mentally mature enough to handle it at this point. I have to at least try for my sake
What if no one is important to you or cares?
I'll never message her , instead just watch you , you are very cute :)
she likes women though so no matter the amount of compliments she wo n't be tu rned on
Christine kinda fine…she’s low key a baddie… Never really noticed how attractive she is until this video… Hmmnnnn…Interesting…
She has a nice voice. Whisper in my ear at night kinda voice.
Looks like you have a lot of knowlage
Cute girl makes super basic redpill video and gets thousands of views. You guys are getting manipulated. Go watch a man's content. This is milk toast.
Bingo
Remember guys - even this TH-camr is using your attention by making content to prey on lonely men.. Just saying - be careful out there folks...
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Wish you was my gf
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What a loser!
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I haven’t heard from her in 2 years 😂
Im haveing the problem were i got engaged me and her and then she when back to being gay. And we got in agurement about things after few weeks from breaking up and i been trying get away from her bec i dont see me and her being friends but i miss her and all the fun times. And she saids shes not being gay with another women she just going to church now and being single. Soooo she tells me you could be my brother or friend 😂 im like hell no!! Likeeeee idk what to do. I keep trying get away from her and then she asks for her stuff back and she never picks up her stuff from my house. Like i she just keep ignoring her more? She hasnt really message as much now. Soo i need maybe just block her online and take off?
Christine I am one of your fans, can i get your number or fb account
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