I left my last relationship with a narcissist and since I have become celibate, I, too, have focused on my relationship with God, my son, and myself and have never been happier. ❤
Wow you are going through exactly what I'm going through I've been in a relationship for 13 years with a narcissist! Going through a divorce right now, I have been celibate since November 12th 2023! I'm happy!
I slept with the wrong person and my body literally turned against me. I got flu like symptoms and severe period cramps which never happened to me. Your body and spirit knows if you sleep with the wrong person. I just came to this realization.
We let the wrong men syphon from our portal and wonder why we look older than what we are. Thanks for this video. 😂😂 Dry dry. Crazy we woman put ourselves through dry spells meanwhile most men hate that😂
Im 39 and still a virgin. I'm waiting until i marry.Watching this makes me feel even better about being celibate. I experienced sexual negativity that made me feel bad,im fortunate i didn't become a part of it, in a way that I would end up with regrets.
Been celibate for over a decade and I wouldn't say it cured my depression or helped my attachment style. I'm just now learning how to not obsess over someone. I will say it's empowering, especially when you start looking for more than sex in someone. People you were dying to have look your way, finally do, and you find out that you're not attracted to them at all. That what you felt was lust, and nothing more. It does help you focus more on you and your goals. And once you've done without sex for so long, you're less willing to put up with certain things. You're able to decipher between someone talking shit to you rather than hanging on their every word. It doesn't mean you're not tempted frequently, especially after 13 years. 😄 And it doesn't mean you've healed either. I could very easily jump back into old patterns, and put up with whatever because of loneliness. I'm just less likely to. Something about holding on to it makes me less inclined to give it up just so. I made it to 13 years knowing that tomorrow I could jump straight into someone's bed depending on how I feel about myself. Somehow, I haven't yet. I've done without it this long, I'll be fine without it. I haven't experienced the deeper connection with someone else yet.
Oh yes...the girl at 13:42 said it...I weigh being with someone and how concerned I was with what they thought of me and how they treated me with not being in a relationship and having the freedom to be who I am, do what I want without anyone telling me who I'm supposed to be, expecting anything from them, caring if they're sleeping with anyone or whether they're lying. And especially when I watch these men on the internet nowadays or hear bullshit from the men in my day to day, it's such a relief when I remember that I don't have to put up with that. I don't have to have that in my ears or life if I don't want it.
@@vanessamillwood9710 If you’re masturbating you won’t see a relief in depression because you’re still depleting your life force energy. Take that out of the equation and you will heal your depression
Im 7 years into celibacy, straight after the divorce from my ex. I just dont want to go back to the life I live before celibacy. I'm just not phased anymore and I considered myself highly sexual.
I've been celibate for 5 years after a 13 year long relationship. After all this time, you can return back to old patterns but you also recognize that you've come so far with raised standards, self-love, self-worth. And the peace is so gratifying. Im still healing my inner child, wounds, attachment style but I'm not the same woman.
@@vanessamillwood9710the biggest problem with most women is at the core they are not good people, they are of bad/poor character & they are very selfish & abusive. I like what you said. Most of these people are celebrate out of rejection not because they simply just aren't attracted to the opposite sex. Again the loud mouths use social media to attack. Listen to there word choice. They are all feminist & 99% of feminist are Christians. It's more of the same. Be but be quietly not loudly
You can do it. Self love is necessary. Take yourself on dates if you like. Get with your family and true friends and have fun. Go on vacation. Heal, focus on your relationship with God.
Celibacy becomes easier when you realize just because you have sex with some doesn't mean they will be loyal to you. My confidence has grown more since embracing this journey. I don't seek validation from other people as much. Your discernment is clearer by not having sex
When she said “I can tell if you were sent by God or if you were sent by the Devil” I FEEL THAT. After being celibate for 1.5 years I have that discernment too and it’s a blessing but also freaks me out when I know a guy is sent by the devil to attack me.
8 years celibate has been the most amazing choice in my life. During this time I have had the opportunity to heal from past traumas, and now I know who I am. Celibacy is beyond getting closer to God, but you are at peace and not allowing different energies in your life.
February 2024, it has been 10 years, I have gain so much confidence and clarity in self and I know what I am worth. Ive learned so much about myself, I am a year and half from finishing my Bachelors Degree.
Been 2 years Celibate after the end of a 17 marriage to a narcissist and I have never been more at peace. A part of me is like, “well that’s cause you haven’t healed yet” because women are trained to believe that we are supposed to be in a relationships. But the idea of having to accommodate some man’s wants, needs, rules and behaviors honestly makes me dryer than the Sahara desert 😆 I never want to wash some men’s underwear again. My sons are 17 and I refuse to even handle theirs. I’m so over it 😅
@@tanishawinston6127 for me, it just feels creepy and I feel the void after I climax so it makes it worse. Pray about it! I don't even have the urge for that anymore!
Abstinence usually refers to the decision not to have penetrative sex. It's typically limited to a specific period of time, such as until marriage. Celibacy is a vow to remain abstinent over an extended period of time. For some, this may mean their entire life.
Yes Celibate is more than merely abstinent. It's no sex at all. Total celibacy means you can't even with yourself. Basically nothing with the word sex in it and hands of another and thrusting yourself with someone in order to get off. Some forms of celibacy people think about sex ECT... Just nothing with anyone else.
IMHO, culture in America has been hypersexualized for far too long. Advertisements, movies, even little girls clothes has been designed for "the male gaze". And as a result, men have gone overboard on objectifying women, and even children. 😞 It's so tiring. And as a result, men have become all about their egos and trying to control women's bodies. But I think now the pendulum is starting to fall back the other way. Women want more balance in life, and most women don't want everything to center around sex and women's appearances, and instead of just going along with it as they did in the past, women have decided to put their OWN futures and their OWN needs first. And it's a good thing. With men/patriarchy in charge, you get wars, commercialism and competition, SA of children, sx trafficking, high crimes, and way too much focus on sx and objectifying of females. With women doing their own thing, you get cooperation, more creativity, more focus on raising children correctly, and many other positives. I'm glad women are figuring this out, and playing our OWN game, instead of the men's game. Not all men, but most men are usually out to benefit mostly THEMSELVES in any given situation. Women are becoming more aware of all that, and doing what's right for THEMSELVES, as well.
Asexual who’s pansexual here! By default I don’t think of someone I’m attracted to in a sexual manner even if I’m admiring their physical appearance. Therefore, I’m excited to encounter more brain/souls connection than only surface level/materialistic connections so I appreciate to know celibacy is becoming more common and encouraged compared to the hookup culture. ✨
Was celibate for 13 years! Broke it and regretted it immediately, don’t want anyone to touch me! 2 years celibate now and I don’t think I will ever let another touch me again! 🤢
Girl I’ve been celibate my whole lifeeeee and I feel liek it’s given me more perspective because I listen to almost everybody talk about who they’re with and how they hookup. But now I feel more confident in who I want to actually be with me haha
Something just clicked one day, I looked up 11 months later with a clearer mind and understanding of myself to get back out into the world. Its not a fix all though so people, don't just run with this thinking all your worldly problems are fixed. Yes, you can grow closer to your higher power, if you want to. Not everyone takes that energy and puts it into religion, but you do have a clearer thought process on things and value yourself more. It does scare away the little boys who don't understand, they will most definitely still try you.
I have been celibate for 4 years now, feel good. I take my power and control to myself, tired of humanity’s trauma and dysfunctions. Detected to everything and anyone, this is the only way we get out of pain and suffer other human can cause to me.
Western society looks down on celibacy and focuses so much on sex it’s ridiculous. So much media gives people the wrong idea about what sex is. I felt like even from my parents I was not taught the right things. It almost makes me feel silly for not caring or thinking about how important it is to BUILD something first before letting someone be intimate with you. With anything else you wouldn’t let someone touch belongings or other things for the matter unless you trust them why is this any different? I feel like things are so ass backwards
Yes- our daughters and granddaughters need to see women living our lives on our own terms, happy, independent, and free. Then they know what's possible for their own future, and that they have options that society will not necessarily tell them about. Society will automatically become healthier and more balanced. Men will lose whatever control they have over women, especially what we choose to do with our own bodies, and women will move more under their own power. And men will fight it tooth and nail, but it is going to happen anyway, and that's a good thing. 😊
5 years.. n my expectations of men r high.. I've realized there r too many boys, ones I would have been attracted to for all the wrong reasons... I don't waste my time or deal with toxic crap. I enjoy me and raising my daughter
I like seeing this. I had a long run and then relapsed HARD. It was downhill from there. Physically/mentally felt sluggish and in a fog. Back on it strong this time, and although its been a month.. I already feel my vitality increasing. Its a wonderful thing. Also go out and get some sun.
I've been celibate for 30 years (I'm 30) never found anyone I loved enough to give my body..I'm an attractive girl and have had multiple opportunities. I passed. Y give my body to Jacob from English 101???? Nah I'm waiting for the man (or woman) who's soul meets mine
I relate to this. So I get it. I was in a similar situation, only I'm asexual. I think you might've mistaken the word abstinence for celibacy. There's a slight difference. Abstinence is more along the lines of virginity where the person is abstaining from sex entirely for however long they decide, without ever having had sex before. Whereas celibacy is when someone has previously engaged in sexual activity but they're now choosing to refrain from sex for however long they choose.
Going on almost 7 years of celibacy. I didn't think I would ever do this, but the peace I feel is amazing. No more abusive men in my life. I never found a man who could please me enough to put up with the BS lying and cheating
I agree that my type in men have DEFINITELY changed since being celibate lol. I also find myself very disgusted by my previous choices like wth was I thinking 🤣🤣🤣
You will find yourself and your worth and purposes ! And have a better relationship with God Our Heavenly Father! It's like fasting some what ! Self Control is everything! ❤💗💜🇧🇿
It’s been about 5months now it is crazy the clarity and mental eases I feel now compared to a year ago I feel like my outter world became more real than always in my inner world
I’ve been celibate for 8+ years. It wasn’t on purpose it just happened. I think my fear of dating has a lot to do with it and the fact that I have no time to focus on myself. So all of those tied into it.
Going on 9 years, and haven't looked back. The energy expended was way more than the pay off. It's just disappointing, every time. So nothing lost on my end of it. I've had the room and energy for so much else in my life that men only burned up my time from. I'm not tempted in any way to go back.
I feel the second girl regarding attraction..I rarely see anyone I'm attracted to. I see very attractive men. However, I can now pick up a mile away if they are F boys or will be on some BS. Its just a spirit they have on them that I can now see.
I love being celibate. I feel like I'm in control of my mind,my body and my soul. I hold the key. I've been celibate for a number of years- my choice. I didn't know how rewarding it was until i realized i was having sex because everyone else was doing it. I have matured into a godly woman. I don't feel dirty from being with someone just because they wanted to. Im proud of who i have become.
My goal is three years . Im at two . I slipped up ONCE in five years or id be down to four allready . The hard part of being celebate and at peace now ..is I dont know how to NOT be single now.
I know you will have Men and women that will find this attractive🤫 you haven’t been run-through🤔 and it’s very respect worth😮 I will treat you differently, you respect yourself and to me it’s also worth the wait😇
And what makes you think she couldn't be lying to you? I personally wouldn't lie and say I'm a virgin because it's kind of rare and difficult to keep men from trying to sleep with me for that long without being hit on at least once or twice..but if that's really all men wanted us to do is lie to them then they should have just said that and I would have said I was a 24 year old virgin swimsuit model too. You can't exactly run through women anyways because it was a woman that created you. He's the one being passed around here if we're really being honest.
Damn. No wonder im mid 30s and still single bc I've been celibate and intentionally abstaining since forever. Finding a partner is difficult for me bc i look for someone whoms character compliments mine and not only focusing on sex and feeling good in heat. Im extremely proud of myself but i hope i meet him soon. Don't want to get too old bc I'd like to start a family.
Celibate for 5 years. The amount of growth, healing, and inner peace I achieved is beyond anything I could’ve ever asked for. My only regret is not doing it earlier in life.
As an asexual, aromatic person who's been abstinent (*not celibate. Yes, there's a difference*) since birth, I'm glad I've never experienced that issue before. I don't find men (*nor women*) favorable. I never have. Sure, I had the occasional celebrity crush, however, I never saw the appeal in sex. The bodily fluid swapping, fellatio (🤢🤮), the bdsm/cnc style sex (*🤢🤮 which I find to be disgusting, reprehensible, revolting and dangerous! Something I'm NOT into and NEVER will be! I KNOW my body VERY WELL and what I like and dislike! I KNOW my trauma and triggers!*) - I simply never saw the need, the point, nor the obsession with it! I remember being shamed for being abstinent! If I'm not asked if its religion based (*its not btw. I'm NOT religious at all and I don't believe in marriage! Marriage benefits men more than women and I don't want any parts of that, ESPECIALLY not without a prenup in place! I believe in pre-marital sex ONLY if there's protection, consent, safety, comfortability, freedom and seriousness!*) - it becomes assumed that its religious based. Maybe when I was younger, my being abstinent might've started off as happenstance but the older I got, the more of a choice it became. I'm in my late 20s and I don't need (*nor want*) anything to do with intercourse! 🤢 I don't trust men! I never have, ever since I was a young girl and I never will! Maybe its because I was bullied, maybe its because I was abused, maybe its because I was catcalled and even invited to go to this nasty-ass dude's apartment when I was 15! Maybe its all of the above! All & all, I don't like men! I don't feel safe with them and I don't find them attractive, nor favorable! You know how when you're kid and you think that the opposite sexes/genders have "cooties"???? Well, that's how I still feel even as an adult! Only "cooties" comes in the form of STDs/STIs and HIV! All of which I'm trying to avoid!
I think a lot of people might've mistaken the word abstinence for celibacy. From what I've been told before, there's a slight difference between the two. Abstinence is more along the lines of virginity. Where the person is abstaining from sex entirely for however long they decide, without ever having had sex before. Celibacy on the other hand is when someone has previously engaged in sexual activity before but they're now choosing to refrain from sex for however long they choose. That's the definition I was given. I'm not sure if that's changed over time or not.
Bishop R.C. Blakes said, "Never give or lay your body to a man that won't lay his life down for you." 🎤 drop
Oooooh my!!
Sex creates soul ties and many more issues. I don't want anyone that doesn't want me and ACTIONS must speak louder than words.
Ive been celibate for 6 months now, after a 13 year relationship with a narcissist, i have never felt better, now im focusing on myself and my kids
I've got a similar experience. Situationship was over middle of February and I'm much happier now.
What about masterbation, do you abstain from that, I need to know please❤❤❤
I left my last relationship with a narcissist and since I have become celibate, I, too, have focused on my relationship with God, my son, and myself and have never been happier. ❤
Wow you are going through exactly what I'm going through I've been in a relationship for 13 years with a narcissist! Going through a divorce right now, I have been celibate since November 12th 2023! I'm happy!
You've been ABSTINENT not Celibate
Single, Sexy & abstinent as hell for over 18 months now. I 💜 it here. Ladies, protect your peace. #ManSober
#mansober I love that lol!! About 18 months of celibacy for me at this point and I've NEVER been happier!
@@cyndihunter6022 And I 💜 that 4 U.
I slept with the wrong person and my body literally turned against me. I got flu like symptoms and severe period cramps which never happened to me. Your body and spirit knows if you sleep with the wrong person. I just came to this realization.
It's giving "once I stopped eating maggots, my health improved!"
Yes 🙌
😂 I love this!
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Hahahaha 🤣
12 years single, 5 years celibate, and Ive gotten so in tune with myself. You can definetly see the weeds from the flowers.
We let the wrong men syphon from our portal and wonder why we look older than what we are.
Thanks for this video.
😂😂 Dry dry.
Crazy we woman put ourselves through dry spells meanwhile most men hate that😂
8 years for me!! One of the best things ever
Same for me !!!! The happiest I've ever been in my life 💖
How do you deal with masterbation ❤❤❤
*10 years for me*
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@@tanishawinston6127masturbation isn’t part of celibacy, you can still have sex with yourself 😁
Im 39 and still a virgin. I'm waiting until i marry.Watching this makes me feel even better about being celibate. I experienced sexual negativity that made me feel bad,im fortunate i didn't become a part of it, in a way that I would end up with regrets.
Am glad you loved it
Thank you for watching ❤️
Been celibate for over a decade and I wouldn't say it cured my depression or helped my attachment style. I'm just now learning how to not obsess over someone. I will say it's empowering, especially when you start looking for more than sex in someone. People you were dying to have look your way, finally do, and you find out that you're not attracted to them at all. That what you felt was lust, and nothing more. It does help you focus more on you and your goals. And once you've done without sex for so long, you're less willing to put up with certain things. You're able to decipher between someone talking shit to you rather than hanging on their every word. It doesn't mean you're not tempted frequently, especially after 13 years. 😄 And it doesn't mean you've healed either. I could very easily jump back into old patterns, and put up with whatever because of loneliness. I'm just less likely to. Something about holding on to it makes me less inclined to give it up just so. I made it to 13 years knowing that tomorrow I could jump straight into someone's bed depending on how I feel about myself. Somehow, I haven't yet. I've done without it this long, I'll be fine without it. I haven't experienced the deeper connection with someone else yet.
Oh yes...the girl at 13:42 said it...I weigh being with someone and how concerned I was with what they thought of me and how they treated me with not being in a relationship and having the freedom to be who I am, do what I want without anyone telling me who I'm supposed to be, expecting anything from them, caring if they're sleeping with anyone or whether they're lying. And especially when I watch these men on the internet nowadays or hear bullshit from the men in my day to day, it's such a relief when I remember that I don't have to put up with that. I don't have to have that in my ears or life if I don't want it.
@@vanessamillwood9710 If you’re masturbating you won’t see a relief in depression because you’re still depleting your life force energy. Take that out of the equation and you will heal your depression
Im 7 years into celibacy, straight after the divorce from my ex. I just dont want to go back to the life I live before celibacy. I'm just not phased anymore and I considered myself highly sexual.
I've been celibate for 5 years after a 13 year long relationship. After all this time, you can return back to old patterns but you also recognize that you've come so far with raised standards, self-love, self-worth. And the peace is so gratifying. Im still healing my inner child, wounds, attachment style but I'm not the same woman.
@@vanessamillwood9710the biggest problem with most women is at the core they are not good people, they are of bad/poor character & they are very selfish & abusive. I like what you said. Most of these people are celebrate out of rejection not because they simply just aren't attracted to the opposite sex.
Again the loud mouths use social media to attack. Listen to there word choice. They are all feminist & 99% of feminist are Christians. It's more of the same.
Be but be quietly not loudly
I just left an abusive relationship last week. I'm dedicating myself to working on me ❤ this is one of my goals
You can do it. Self love is necessary. Take yourself on dates if you like. Get with your family and true friends and have fun. Go on vacation. Heal, focus on your relationship with God.
If you want to stay focus on upgrading yourself, dealing with insecurities, focusing on a new carrer paths, then Celibacy will help you🥰
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It's called being disciplined
Almost 2 years feeling my best ❤
Celibacy becomes easier when you realize just because you have sex with some doesn't mean they will be loyal to you. My confidence has grown more since embracing this journey. I don't seek validation from other people as much. Your discernment is clearer by not having sex
True!
Thank you for watching ❤️
It's been 4 years for me, and I love every bit of it. ❤
When she said “I can tell if you were sent by God or if you were sent by the Devil” I FEEL THAT. After being celibate for 1.5 years I have that discernment too and it’s a blessing but also freaks me out when I know a guy is sent by the devil to attack me.
8 years celibate has been the most amazing choice in my life. During this time I have had the opportunity to heal from past traumas, and now I know who I am. Celibacy is beyond getting closer to God, but you are at peace and not allowing different energies in your life.
I had no idea about exchange of sexual energies !!! No one told me, til the ladies here !! Thank you !! In my 30s learning now
Thank you for watching ❤️
February 2024, it has been 10 years, I have gain so much confidence and clarity in self and I know what I am worth. Ive learned so much about myself, I am a year and half from finishing my Bachelors Degree.
GREAT! Work it girl! 😁💖
I Love to see this 💯
Been 2 years Celibate after the end of a 17 marriage to a narcissist and I have never been more at peace. A part of me is like, “well that’s cause you haven’t healed yet” because women are trained to believe that we are supposed to be in a relationships.
But the idea of having to accommodate some man’s wants, needs, rules and behaviors honestly makes me dryer than the Sahara desert 😆
I never want to wash some men’s underwear again. My sons are 17 and I refuse to even handle theirs. I’m so over it 😅
😂Love this for you!
Keep going Queen
Almost a year celibate! 🥳🙌🏽
Congratulations ❤️❤️& hey thank you for watching
Get a birthday cake girl you deserve it!!!
I'm 3. I've done it before. I think it's no going back. These men are a absolute nightmare!
I'm a year celibate but can you tell me how to deal with masturbation please❤❤❤❤
@@tanishawinston6127 for me, it just feels creepy and I feel the void after I climax so it makes it worse. Pray about it! I don't even have the urge for that anymore!
Can be Detrimental to your wholistic health is true. And your taste is changing to more conscious partners. So peaceful.
Abstinence usually refers to the decision not to have penetrative sex. It's typically limited to a specific period of time, such as until marriage. Celibacy is a vow to remain abstinent over an extended period of time. For some, this may mean their entire life.
Yes Celibate is more than merely abstinent. It's no sex at all. Total celibacy means you can't even with yourself. Basically nothing with the word sex in it and hands of another and thrusting yourself with someone in order to get off. Some forms of celibacy people think about sex ECT... Just nothing with anyone else.
IMHO, culture in America has been hypersexualized for far too long. Advertisements, movies, even little girls clothes has been designed for "the male gaze". And as a result, men have gone overboard on objectifying women, and even children. 😞 It's so tiring. And as a result, men have become all about their egos and trying to control women's bodies. But I think now the pendulum is starting to fall back the other way. Women want more balance in life, and most women don't want everything to center around sex and women's appearances, and instead of just going along with it as they did in the past, women have decided to put their OWN futures and their OWN needs first. And it's a good thing. With men/patriarchy in charge, you get wars, commercialism and competition, SA of children, sx trafficking, high crimes, and way too much focus on sx and objectifying of females. With women doing their own thing, you get cooperation, more creativity, more focus on raising children correctly, and many other positives. I'm glad women are figuring this out, and playing our OWN game, instead of the men's game. Not all men, but most men are usually out to benefit mostly THEMSELVES in any given situation. Women are becoming more aware of all that, and doing what's right for THEMSELVES, as well.
Abstinence ❤
Thank you for watching ❤️
I been on the celibacy path for 4yrs and 8months very proud of my self I love this topic
Love this for you ❤️
Been celibate for 3 years now for a better relationship Jesus. Best decision of my life💗 APTTMH🕊🙏🏻🕊
Oh wow
Congratulations on your journey
This is big
Thank you for watching ❤️
@@Chommikenya Thank you so much!! Of course I love your channel!!💗
Celebrate and my kundalini Awakening put me on a whole different frequency . I💕and appreciate this message. 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾🙏🏾✌️
Thank you for watching ❤️
This is so true! I am the happiest I've ever been.
I have been celibate since the day I was born and looking at how this world turned out, I am proud Ive never laid up with anyone or never married.
So proud 😊
This is something to be proud of 🥰
The redhead girl was so on point ❤
Asexual who’s pansexual here! By default I don’t think of someone I’m attracted to in a sexual manner even if I’m admiring their physical appearance. Therefore, I’m excited to encounter more brain/souls connection than only surface level/materialistic connections so I appreciate to know celibacy is becoming more common and encouraged compared to the hookup culture. ✨
1:32 I relate to her completely. I’m soooo particular since becoming celibate
Love it for you 😍
Beensince 22' and Im quite good with it. Happily 4B now. Schmeggs is nice, but overrated.
This was an EXCELLENT video and message. I wholeheartedly agree. More people need to hear this message.
9 years and ALL the creators are speaking truth.❤
Thank you for watching ❤️
I've been celibate for 1yr and 8months and it feels amazing.. especially with me being spiritually intuned
Was celibate for 13 years! Broke it and regretted it immediately, don’t want anyone to touch me! 2 years celibate now and I don’t think I will ever let another touch me again! 🤢
Everybody who breaks it regrets it!
Girl I’ve been celibate my whole lifeeeee and I feel liek it’s given me more perspective because I listen to almost everybody talk about who they’re with and how they hookup. But now I feel more confident in who I want to actually be with me haha
Focus on ur health God ur money and ur sanity 🙏💕💕🙏🙏
If you only focus on God, all of those other things fall into place through Him🙏🏻
Something just clicked one day, I looked up 11 months later with a clearer mind and understanding of myself to get back out into the world. Its not a fix all though so people, don't just run with this thinking all your worldly problems are fixed. Yes, you can grow closer to your higher power, if you want to. Not everyone takes that energy and puts it into religion, but you do have a clearer thought process on things and value yourself more. It does scare away the little boys who don't understand, they will most definitely still try you.
After I ended my relationship, I stop pursuing people and focus on myself. 3 years and still going.
❤. I will be remaining this way hopefully for the rest of my life.
Same 😁💖
Green Cali shirt woman.....shes giving goddess vibes. YES! She SPOKE to me.
I love that!!
Thank you for watching ❤️
@@Chommikenya thank you so much for this video. It is very empowering and timely with my life situation.
When that lady said CLEAN AND CLEAR AND UNDA CONTROL!!! BABY, IM MOTIVATED 🎉😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤
😂😂
Thank you for watching ❤️
I have been celibate for 4 years now, feel good. I take my power and control to myself, tired of humanity’s trauma and dysfunctions. Detected to everything and anyone, this is the only way we get out of pain and suffer other human can cause to me.
41 months celibate thus far❤️🌹🙌🏾I can think clearly; very focused.
Western society looks down on celibacy and focuses so much on sex it’s ridiculous. So much media gives people the wrong idea about what sex is.
I felt like even from my parents I was not taught the right things.
It almost makes me feel silly for not caring or thinking about how important it is to BUILD something first before letting someone be intimate with you.
With anything else you wouldn’t let someone touch belongings or other things for the matter unless you trust them why is this any different? I feel like things are so ass backwards
My body is a temple and it is holy. No sex before marriage. 🇨🇦
Thank you 😊
17 YEARS NOW have not touched a man.I'm so freaking happy. My daughter is 17 YEARS OLD
How do you do it
This is Magical
I am so proud of you really 💪💞
Yes- our daughters and granddaughters need to see women living our lives on our own terms, happy, independent, and free. Then they know what's possible for their own future, and that they have options that society will not necessarily tell them about. Society will automatically become healthier and more balanced. Men will lose whatever control they have over women, especially what we choose to do with our own bodies, and women will move more under their own power. And men will fight it tooth and nail, but it is going to happen anyway, and that's a good thing. 😊
I needed to see this video i was really thinking about not continuing my journey 🤯
You keep going 💪💯
I'm so glad I ran into this video, thank you Lord 🙏❤ I got say thank you Lord I can focus on myself and love the Lord.❤😊
Thank you for watching ❤️☺️
5 years.. n my expectations of men r high.. I've realized there r too many boys, ones I would have been attracted to for all the wrong reasons... I don't waste my time or deal with toxic crap. I enjoy me and raising my daughter
7 years now and Im at peace with it all.
I am 37 and got told I look like a kid recently. That felt so good to hear.
Love that for you 🤩🥰
Thank you for watching ❤️
I like seeing this. I had a long run and then relapsed HARD. It was downhill from there. Physically/mentally felt sluggish and in a fog. Back on it strong this time, and although its been a month.. I already feel my vitality increasing. Its a wonderful thing. Also go out and get some sun.
Truth. 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
15:35 Her eyes are beautiful.
They really are
5 years next month
This is beautiful ❤️😍
Thank you for watching ❤️
I've been celibate for 30 years (I'm 30) never found anyone I loved enough to give my body..I'm an attractive girl and have had multiple opportunities. I passed. Y give my body to Jacob from English 101???? Nah I'm waiting for the man (or woman) who's soul meets mine
I relate to this. So I get it. I was in a similar situation, only I'm asexual.
I think you might've mistaken the word abstinence for celibacy. There's a slight difference. Abstinence is more along the lines of virginity where the person is abstaining from sex entirely for however long they decide, without ever having had sex before. Whereas celibacy is when someone has previously engaged in sexual activity but they're now choosing to refrain from sex for however long they choose.
Benefits of Celibacy: sixth sense
And not having monkey pox
😂😭True
Going on almost 7 years of celibacy. I didn't think I would ever do this, but the peace I feel is amazing. No more abusive men in my life. I never found a man who could please me enough to put up with the BS lying and cheating
Thank you for this message.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are so welcome
LOVE. LOVE. LOVE this!!! ❤
Thank you for watching ❤️
I agree that my type in men have DEFINITELY changed since being celibate lol. I also find myself very disgusted by my previous choices like wth was I thinking 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂I know the feeling
Thank you for watching ❤️😊
You will find yourself and your worth and purposes ! And have a better relationship with God Our Heavenly Father! It's like fasting some what ! Self Control is everything! ❤💗💜🇧🇿
Love it ❤️
It took me a while to get this, now that I am here it’s peaceful here and I can focus on my business, kids and self! #gainsallaround
celibate for 7 years! Thank you God.
Congratulations this is great!!!
7 years?! Wow! Love that for you
It’s been about 5months now it is crazy the clarity and mental eases I feel now compared to a year ago I feel like my outter world became more real than always in my inner world
I’ve been celibate for 8+ years. It wasn’t on purpose it just happened. I think my fear of dating has a lot to do with it and the fact that I have no time to focus on myself. So all of those tied into it.
Going on 9 years, and haven't looked back. The energy expended was way more than the pay off. It's just disappointing, every time. So nothing lost on my end of it. I've had the room and energy for so much else in my life that men only burned up my time from. I'm not tempted in any way to go back.
9 years?! This is Big
I must say this is exceptional 💞
So proud of you
@@Chommikenya thank You
I feel the second girl regarding attraction..I rarely see anyone I'm attracted to. I see very attractive men. However, I can now pick up a mile away if they are F boys or will be on some BS. Its just a spirit they have on them that I can now see.
Wow that's something I look forward to!!
8.5 years for me im happy
You will change your frequency Vibration. 💯💜👑
Yes! Thank you!
I absolutely love it! 😃
Thank you for watching ❤️
I love being celibate. I feel like I'm in control of my mind,my body and my soul. I hold the key. I've been celibate for a number of years- my choice. I didn't know how rewarding it was until i realized i was having sex because everyone else was doing it. I have matured into a godly woman. I don't feel dirty from being with someone just because they wanted to. Im proud of who i have become.
I'm impressed ❤❤❤
Thank you for watching ❤️
I’m married so I don’t think this applies to me lol but it’s interesting to listen to.
My goal is three years . Im at two . I slipped up ONCE in five years or id be down to four allready . The hard part of being celebate and at peace now ..is I dont know how to NOT be single now.
10 yrs 🙌🏾
Powerful ❤❤❤
I know you will have Men and women that will find this attractive🤫 you haven’t been run-through🤔 and it’s very respect worth😮 I will treat you differently, you respect yourself and to me it’s also worth the wait😇
But what do you have that's worth their time.
You're only talking about yourself
And what makes you think she couldn't be lying to you?
I personally wouldn't lie and say I'm a virgin because it's kind of rare and difficult to keep men from trying to sleep with me for that long without being hit on at least once or twice..but if that's really all men wanted us to do is lie to them then they should have just said that and I would have said I was a 24 year old virgin swimsuit model too. You can't exactly run through women anyways because it was a woman that created you.
He's the one being passed around here if we're really being honest.
It's been 3 yrs🎉...I'm not in no rush either...some ppl passing around so much shit😂
True!
Congratulations on the 3 years ❤️
@@Chommikenya Thanksss🥰
Bramahcharya ❤!
On my journey...afte 8 years being faithful .😢💯
Damn. No wonder im mid 30s and still single bc I've been celibate and intentionally abstaining since forever. Finding a partner is difficult for me bc i look for someone whoms character compliments mine and not only focusing on sex and feeling good in heat. Im extremely proud of myself but i hope i meet him soon. Don't want to get too old bc I'd like to start a family.
I’m tired of celibacy being confused with abstinence but otherwise a really good video.😊
Thank you for watching ❤️
You could also enlighten us about it if you don't mind
I've been celibate 25 years (I'm a virgin). God has me on speed dial.
Celibate for 5 years. The amount of growth, healing, and inner peace I achieved is beyond anything I could’ve ever asked for. My only regret is not doing it earlier in life.
Love that for you 💝
As an asexual, aromatic person who's been abstinent (*not celibate. Yes, there's a difference*) since birth, I'm glad I've never experienced that issue before.
I don't find men (*nor women*) favorable. I never have. Sure, I had the occasional celebrity crush, however, I never saw the appeal in sex. The bodily fluid swapping, fellatio (🤢🤮), the bdsm/cnc style sex (*🤢🤮 which I find to be disgusting, reprehensible, revolting and dangerous! Something I'm NOT into and NEVER will be! I KNOW my body VERY WELL and what I like and dislike! I KNOW my trauma and triggers!*) - I simply never saw the need, the point, nor the obsession with it!
I remember being shamed for being abstinent! If I'm not asked if its religion based (*its not btw. I'm NOT religious at all and I don't believe in marriage! Marriage benefits men more than women and I don't want any parts of that, ESPECIALLY not without a prenup in place! I believe in pre-marital sex ONLY if there's protection, consent, safety, comfortability, freedom and seriousness!*) - it becomes assumed that its religious based.
Maybe when I was younger, my being abstinent might've started off as happenstance but the older I got, the more of a choice it became. I'm in my late 20s and I don't need (*nor want*) anything to do with intercourse! 🤢
I don't trust men! I never have, ever since I was a young girl and I never will! Maybe its because I was bullied, maybe its because I was abused, maybe its because I was catcalled and even invited to go to this nasty-ass dude's apartment when I was 15! Maybe its all of the above! All & all, I don't like men! I don't feel safe with them and I don't find them attractive, nor favorable!
You know how when you're kid and you think that the opposite sexes/genders have "cooties"???? Well, that's how I still feel even as an adult! Only "cooties" comes in the form of STDs/STIs and HIV! All of which I'm trying to avoid!
I love this!!
Someone somewhere needed to see this
Thank you for watching ❤️
don't let anyone throw your ph balance off
Period!
After a 17 year marriage,Divorced for 2.5 years and celibate. I feel better about myself became healthier.
Thank you for sharing ❤️
2015. No biggie. Thanks ladies. So many of you made it much easier.......
It improves Your relationship with God the LORD Jesus Christ
I think a lot of people might've mistaken the word abstinence for celibacy. From what I've been told before, there's a slight difference between the two. Abstinence is more along the lines of virginity. Where the person is abstaining from sex entirely for however long they decide, without ever having had sex before. Celibacy on the other hand is when someone has previously engaged in sexual activity before but they're now choosing to refrain from sex for however long they choose.
That's the definition I was given. I'm not sure if that's changed over time or not.
Thank you for the input ☺️
Going on 24 years now…🇨🇦
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Thank you for watching ❤️
9:40 listen to him. You have to do this to see who people really are.
6 years for me. 🎉
I love celibacy and self-love. I love me so much. ❤😊
I love the energy ❤️
Yezzz ❤❤❤😊
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