HOW I STOPPED MY EXCESSIVE BREAKAGE ON MY RELAXED HAIR
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- Stop breakage on relaxed hair. How to stop shedding and breakage on relaxed hair and grow hair long.
How to take care of relaxed hair and make it grow. Hair breakage from perm. Stop breakage on perm damaged hair. Stop breakage on black hair African American hair. In this video I talk about protein treatment for relaxed hair at home as well as olaplex treatments for repairing damaged relaxed hair for reduced breakage. How to fix over processed relaxed hair. How to repair hair after relaxer damage, to repair damaged relaxed hair without cutting it. How to grow damaged relaxed hair. Black hair perm breakage and solutions.
Link to the study mentioned:
www.cosmeticsa...
My instagram: / seunokimi
![[Live] ศึกมหึมันส์มวยไทยสังเวียนเดือด เวทีมวยชั่วคราวสวนสยาม | จันทร์ 30 กันยายน 2567](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/pM1k6f7JXUc/mqdefault.jpg)
A few things that have helped to control my hairfall include: (1) I discontinued wearing hair ties because it leds to tension breakage. (2) I started massaging my scalp twice a week with liitleextra cocoonnion hair oil while leaning forward & holding my head inverted to allow blood flow to the scalp. (3) Protecting my head while moving out to protect my hair from dust and pollution. (4) Using gentle shampoo again from liittleextra only to cleanse my hair.
I've been using this Cocoonioon shampoo over the last 5 months. Some shampoos make the scalp dry and itchy, but I didn’t experience that with this one. Hair loss has reduced somewhat. Overall, it’s a good product.
ughh I hate that we literally have to put our way away to prevent breakage and retain length. like dang I want to wear it out.
Exactly that's why I went natural but them they saying the same thing. So now what?!
It’s because the “growing long hair” has gone rampant,people have forgotten to just enjoy their hair 🙄
@@misschissybudget1656 That’s just what our hair requires, not to just grow longer but also remain healthy. It requires low manipulation. Nobody “forgot” about enjoying their hair. I’ve never heard of that. You probably just don’t want to keep your hair in protective styles all the time. But I mean you can do what you want. It ain’t my hair.
@@misschissybudget1656 i agree with you, it has grown rampant. But I understand some people have the goal of growing long hair. I try to find the medium of wearing my hair out half the time and half protective styling because like you said, it's important to just enjoy our hair.
It’s not fair 😩 why did we have to be the only race that has to do that 😩
"Prevention is better than cure" - Every Nigerian Mother's Phrase 😂💖
😂
It’s gotta be an African thing because I grew up hearing it in Zambia too 😂
Ain't that a word!
I love that pase girl 😊
And jamaican mothers lol
My hair isn't relaxed but I'm still gonna watch this🌚
😊😊
Same! 😬
4
same
Me too
When you said “how are you handling your hair when you take it down?” I started laughing because I had war flashbacks of me ripping through kinks 💀
When you go to the hair salon they are so rough combing your hair 🙄
Yea. Better just do it at home.
my hair stylist is good.. just find a new month
I pretended to have a headache so that she could take it easy. Because they want listen. 🤷♀️And I love the way my hair comes out.
Just have to hang in there 😆 🤣
Now, that the whole truth. That's why I do my own hair
I've been following what you do almost to a tee. My hair has always been pretty healthy but it has never been longer than it is now. You're great!
Thant makes me really happy to know
Hola, como hago para traducir el vídeo al español latino, no entiendo el inglés, ayuda por favor.
@@yadiramp2687 Hola Yadira. Esto es lo que encontré en Google. Espero que esto te ayude.
Traduce tus subtítulos de TH-cam al español:
Haga clic en el ícono "Configuración", seleccione "Subtítulos/CC" y luego haga clic en "Traducción automática". Se mostrará una lista de idiomas a los que puede traducir. Seleccione "Español".
Verás que los subtítulos se han traducido automáticamente al español.
@@commentterry2672 así hice yo ayer pero pero no aparece para subtítulos en español, solamente en inglés.
happy valentine to all singles and taken people
To you too!!! Sending lots of love(:
@@SeunOkimi Hi Seun, i wanted to know if you relax your hair yourself and can you make a video on the process of relaxing your new growth ?
Your health is also very important. You could be doing all these great things outwardly but if your health is out of whack then those internal problems can cause breakage and shedding.
Very good point...iron deficiency, hormonal imbalance and thyroid issues are contributing factors to excessive hair breakage/shedding.
True, pcos took mine, didn’t know at the time it was pcos making my hair fall off, I tried everything, nothing worked. It’s was so frustrating.
Thank you for that information 😉
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Some other things that were affecting my hair loss was I was very deficient in Vitamin D and B12 which are very necessary for hair growth. I would recommend that people get blood work done with their doctors to see if that's the case.
What I learned is that I have to take care of relaxed hair just as much as natural. I think my hair was breaking because I would relax then just forget about it
I like you! You have a happy spirit that comes through the phone
Or laptop or tablet or desktop lol
I have relaxed my hair after six years of being natural, now I regret it lol my hair is breaking so bad and that’s my reason for coming on TH-cam
Mines too 😩 did you find a solution?
Me too
Same
It's the type of relaxer being used on you, it's probably too strong. Also, are you doing weekly deep conditions and keeping your relaxed hair moisturized?
Girl me too I want to cry I was natural for 8 years, permed my hair and waited 6 months for a touch up and now my hair is breaking idk what to do 😭😭
Hey, please try a white shirt next time so that I can see your hair better
Watching after she went natural😂❤️
Love your channel ❤ 💕 ♥ I relax my hair every 8 weeks. I noticed when I stretched them i had more breakage at the demarcation line..I wash every 2 weeks and moisture and seal every 2 days. I leave my hair in a low bun daily and a silk lined cap as I work outside. My hair has thrived in less then a years time!! Ohhh and no heat!
I got my hair relaxed and
1. The volume increased
2. Breaks less than when it was natural
3. The washing part is challenging, I have to wash it every week otherwise I get uncomfortable
4. I wash leave in conditioner, oil it...
How comes your relaxed hair got more volume?
@@swisdom9117 yeah it would have less volume
@@swisdom9117
Coz a blowdrier will pluck out more hairs than a relaxer. The comb attachment is a hair stealer.
Also protective styling can really accelerate shedding.
@@digitallocations1423 Comb attachments/blow dryers don't pluck out hair. Plus, how do you know they used one? Protective styles do not accelerate shedding you just see the hair you normally shed at once if you leave your hair alone for a long time.
@@swisdom9117 she likely means that after having relaxed hair for a while, it grew in volume. Not instantly
I’ve been in my relaxed hair journey for 4 years. My growth has been sporadic, I have been deep conditioning and doing everything right. 6 months ago I decided to start self relaxing and tucking my hair away. And YES! Seun is right, you need to leave your hair alone, can’t stress this enough. I have seen so much growth and I can wait to share in my next video.
Thank you Seun.
We love to hear it!!
My hair is not relaxed it's natural it won't grow .
@@nomawethumtshengu5012 moisturise,, deep condition it would help
@@SeunOkimiqqqs
Makes sense, relax... wear your hair... after a month install a 3 month protective style and relax again.
Yes doing this makes my hair grow
Help me out please, what's a 3mths protective style
So probably we are just growing our hair without really enjoying it by wearing protective style. So sad...
So true
I know 😩 it’s not fair.
Ikr sad
I just see it as a #tailbonelengthchallenge .... change your perspective. Make it fun and beautiful. Your mindset is the only thing blocking you from enjoying the journey. We don't have a sob story. We have an opportunity to show the most self love, the most creativity, the most resilience. African hair follicles are oval and that shape needs the most care. Fragile, yes. It is what it is. I am in a growth challenge of wearing zero braid hair or crochets. I change up my cornrows but all I do most days is wear headwraps, u-part wigs, or faux bangs for zoom. I've been consistent for 2 years. I have 3 more years to go and I hope to be swinging my hair down to my butt while listening to similar complaints. We are the lucky ones because it's an opportunity to delve into the sciences about our hair, play with sexy accessories, and once we reach our goal be the most exotic thing in the room.. Don't let "them" trick you into rushing the process. A little sacrifice now will pay off later!
@Mila Mila EXACTLY! And BSL is pretty long!
U look like Gabrielle Union
I used to relax my hair once a month!! Seriously, what was I thinking!! 💀💀💀💀
Ugh applying some of these tips are gonna be sooo hard for me to do 😩
I have a pixie cut 🤦🏽♀️
My hair is short too! ....... even the tiniest bit of new growth changes the ENTIRE look and I wanna relax immediately
Thank you Seun. I love your TH-cam channel! Prevention is better than cure, and education aids prevention 😊. Btw, gorgeous relaxed hair 😍
thank you😊
Hi, my daughter got her hair relaxed back in February and since then she has terrible breakage. So i came on here looking for ideas/ways on how i can help protect her hair and avoid so much breakage. I watched your video and I'll definitely try it and hopefully i can see some great results. Thanks much..
I agree with you on holding out as long as you can on relaxing..also for some reason braids don't protect my hair,it damages it..just took some braids out about 3mths ago and I had alot of breakages,had nothing to do with being to tight or dry..braids just isn't the protective style for my hair..🤷🏾♀️plus the longest time I can go without a relaxer is about 7wkss before my hair begins breaking..so yeah we have to just to study our hair and maintain it this best of our ability..protective dues always works for my hair in length!! Thanks!!
When my hair was mid back length all I remember doing was wearing it up for 2 weeks then wash condition and up it went never combed for the 2 weeks. I wasn't even thinking about growing my hair long. It happened without me knowing that I was doing it. I never seen my hair because I was going to a salon. Every 2 weeks. So I was surprised that it had grew from shoulder length to mid back once I finally had it flat ironed.
Watching your videos convinced me to go back to relaxers after being natural for 5 years! It’s been 5 months and I had growth after only 1 touch up. Your tips really help, and now I need to learn how to do protective styles on myself 😩
😃 now she's done the big chop and gone natural. 😋😉😉
@@chidinque 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is me 😂literally relaxed today
I wish I could relax my hair again, but relaxers give me migraines and cause my edges to fall out. Your hair is so beautiful.
I didn't know her hair was relaxed !!!! Lovely
Thanks Seun for the ORS olive oil lotion reccomendation, it's the only moisturizer that allows my new growth slippage for days. I had been on the hunt using Elastsa QP, Motions, Silk Elements, Mane Choice, Mizani you name it! None of them worked on my 4c matte prone hair. Thank you Thank you!!!
Did anybody use Softsheen Carson Optimum Nourishing creme in the 90's before it was discontinued? It was great!! My hair was never the same after I could no longer find it in stock. I've learned if a product works buy it in stock!
I love this channel! Can you do a video about handling/ preventing dandruff with relaxed hair . I don't know if it's just me but I struggle with dandruff and itchy scalp mostly in the front and towards the center. I literally don't know what to do! 😣
Same here! It's so irritating. I've tried a few things but I think I might just go to a dermatologist. I just hope it's not too pricey.
Same here! And my hair can't last a month without looking like I have had it for 1 year because of how itchy it is
I think she has done something like that and she said we should use Tea tree oil, search on her channel
Same here. My hair is natural, but I hope it works for me too.
@@chimdinduuchime8865 Sis! I feel you. My scalp is terrible right now. I don't even know what to do anymore.
I swim so I need to wash my hair weekly, and sometimes twice a week. So I deep condition at least once a week, air dry over night (wrapped) and in the morning pull back into a not too tight bun. Imagine years ago - I’d be applying heat every single wash day👀🤦🏾♀️. I hardly use a hair dryer nowadays!
Great tips 🤩
I was so confused by the photo lol, like "Why is he doing all of this" 😂
What do you think about doing African threading on relaxed hair as a protective style
Your hair is BEAUTIFUL Ms. Seun. God Bless!
I have long relaxed hair too, MANIPULATION IS THE ENEMY.... PUT IT UP..... DONT PLAY WITH YOUR HAIR. Wear it down occasionally only..... PLEAAAAASE DON'T MESS WIHT THE EDGES.... Sometimes edges can be laid down with water, yes water and a little oil I use castor oil and water for my edges then use my fingers to lay down, then hands off.
So what style should I wear it in? Y’all keep saying don’t manipulate leave it alone. What style can I wear?
I enjoy consuming your content because the results of your regimen are fabulous ❤ I have waist-length relaxed hair, but my issue was excessive full strands shedding for the past 8 months. No rhyme or reason why it started. The only one of your tips that worked for me was handling the hair with leave-in but not any leave-in, an anti-hair loss one. Took approx. 5 weeks to stop the excessive shedding and my hair is rebounding nicely even though it's on the thin side for now. Like you, I want to encourage everyone to find what works for them. Don't be discouraged when someone else's complete regimen doesn't work for you too.
How is your hair now?
hi seun. i noticed my hair has been weak. it has been breaking too! so frustrating! i just realised that i've been using wash off conditionner(ors replenishing conditionner) as a leave-in. please what do you advise me to do.
it has been really frustrating. i do long term protective styling, handle my hair in sections and i do not use heat on my hair. abeg help me😭😭
Your hair is beautiful and I would love to reach your length one day
I really needed this video, I've got full and shoulder length hair and the kinda breakage I get is crazy, like really crazy and it's just shortened my hair making it not grow past my shoulders...
Been trying protective styling for some months now and whilst I've seen some growth, I still have lots of breakage so I really needed this video..
Thanks Seun ❤
Thank you so much for this, your hair looks beautiful! I have a question, do you think that certain tools (e.g. brushes with ball tips vs seamless brushes and combs) makes a difference in preventing breakage?
Very informative. 😫😫♥️♥️ didn't know overprocessing was a thing💀💀
Hello Seun, I have a question. When your hair is in twist or box braids and you change the way its worn does that still count as manipulation. For example you go from wearing your braid or twist down, then into a bun, then half up half down.
No it is not because it is already in its protective style
I am earlyyyy, Happy Valentine’s 💞, great and very informative
You too!!
Great tips! I could have used these tips when my hair was relaxed. These tips are useful, even with my natural hair. Great information! Thank you so much. 💛
I'm so glad!
Why is your hair short on some videos and this video is extremely long. Maybe I am missing something
My hair is so dry no matter what I do. Any suggestions?
I think you need a new camera. It does not focus well and it looks kinda foggy. But other than that I like your video
Ive been following your videos and decided to relax my hair after 6 years of being natural. Ive had my hair in protective styles for 3 months at a time and have seen really good growth. I didnt think my hair could grow past certain length. You are so right about low manipulation! Ive seen results. Ive now noticed breakage despite careful take down etc and I believe ive stretched my relaxer too long. 7 months at this point. The relaxed hair is breaking off so in future il consider re-touching the new growth at say 4/5 months. I was planning to stretch to 1 year but I realise it is causing breakage for me. You are right about not over stretching the relaxer too. Love your chanel.
I have a question. If I relaxed my naturally thick 4b/4c afro am I able to cut it in a month or two? Or would I have to leave the relaxed hair in for a while and trim it every few weeks?
I don't agree with the "don't comb your hair when its wet"
If I don't wet my hair and comb, I experience breakage
She’s saying you shouldn’t comb it when it’s dripping wet. She also mentioned that you shouldn’t comb your hair when it’s so dry that it has no product or moisture in it because that also leads to breakage
When you’re natural you wet to comb when you’re relaxed it’s the opposite
I can not do my hair when it is not wet 😅 my head is sensitive when I’m trying to do it & it’s not wet
A comb can't get in my hair if it isn't wet lol
The picture of that comb brought me here, because just three days ago, my comb looked exactly like that. 😟
She probably took several wash days of shedding to put in the comb for the thumbnail. if your comb looks like this then you need jesus and a detangling brush
@@ellie5373 ...Jesus too? 😟😂
@@reece1929 lmaoo girl for the prayers you'll need to say when combing your hair. I be praying every wash day too girl
@@ellie5373 i think i need Jesus because my hair look like that every wash day 😔 i feel to just cut off my hair because the middle of the back break out
I have that bad habit aswell. I do my hair so often to the point of obsession. 1/2 of my hair is damaged, so it's easier to compare what is wrong with the right side
I’ve heard a lot about chebe powder. So many mixed reviews. Can you do a video about that? Bc they say that you have to reapply it every so often. But that is manipulating your hair again, which from the into you provided, causes more breakage. I trust the info you provide in your videos so I’m hoping you can do a video on that. Thanks much!
Wrapping it too much causes breakage too
Hey Sean, I love your videos!!! Also your birthday is the same day as mine, July 19th !!! Wow!!
Wow! I've never thought of it this way! Now I feel excited to try it out and maybe add some of my usual way to take care of my hair. And I hope it works and if it does I will share! Thank you very much 😁😁
How are you suppose to deep condition hair every week with a protective hairstyle??
Tying it up EVERY night is big one too. Omg when I fail to tie my hair up it get dry and breaks a lot too
So sisi can u do a wash day step-by-step plz cause i need to understand, shampooing conditioner, deep conditioner,moisturizer and oils all dat staff😊❤
My hair is relaxed and coarse type, how often do u have to relax my hair??
So we should wear protective style as much as we can.. but what is the point to have it long? I really have hard time to understand it bc it makes no sense for me.. hi from 🇧🇷
Great tips Seun , I totally Agree 💯
Love your Hair 💕
Thank you!😊
Yeahhhhhhh, done reading 💃 💃 Time to watch your video
🎉🎉🎉
I have just discovered your channel. I have started relaxing my own hair since the pandemic and it's going fine. My old hair stylist used to drag the brush through my hair when it was wet and my hair used to come out a lot. I wonder whether she likes long hair? Anyway, thanks for the heads up. I look forward to watching your other videos.
Same here. This year am going to atted my hair .. their are heartless humanbeings yet we pay the service
Hair dressers damages our hair. After wash they start dragging the comb to the wet hair. Aaaàah
Happy Valentine’s 💞
You too❤️❤️
What Are You Talk in About tell me how to stop fall out hair. if you not About That Shut UP. ,🥪🍿🥤🍔🍔🍔🥗🍅
.
I Did My Relaxer In 10 Mins Start To Finish, I Think Some Parts Are Underprocessed
Thanks for the tips . I’m in the process of stretching I recently relaxed I usually relax every three months . Going to try to stretch the relaxer to June .
8:00
Good info bad quality blurry video
Do you do the same if you dyed it and it’s breaking ??😭
I really struggle with growing my relaxed hair, I've tried alot, I've used natural remedies and I've tried hair protective styles which I usually keep for 2 to 3 months. Can you try to recommend something ♡
I’d suggest you visit a doctor because sometimes it depends on your health. I did some research on this some time ago, hope this helps 😀
Right. But she did it right by waiting until she had a nice healthy long lushous natural hair. I hope it doesn't break off. She was my natural hair inspiration ❤
I want to relax my hair but only if its gonna end up looking this good cause I dont wanna relax it and then it is stiff or something idk 😭
Great video Queen. I had to sub to ur channel it was very informative. I just uploaded a video on my channel on my relaxed hair too I stretched to 13 weeks. How long did u stretch for doll?
Is shedding the same as breakage. Will these tips help reduce excessive shedding?
I wish she would answer this too
* First Thought* I Relaxed My Hair To Wear It Out🥺🥺🥺
NOW THIS... is the video I needed 👏🏾🙌🏾
Thanks Seun for the ORS olive oil lotion reccomendation, it's the only moisturizer that allows my new growth slippage for days. I had been on the hunt using Elastsa QP, Motions, Silk Elements, Mane Choice, Mizani you name it! None of them worked on my low porosity 4C matte prone new growth. Thank you Thank you!!!
Did anybody use Softsheen Carson Optimum Nourishing creme in the 90's before it was discontinued? It was great!! My hair was never the same after I could no longer find it in stock. I've learned if a product works buy it in bulk!
Thank you for the motivation❤️💜💛
You are very welcome!😊
hi, i hope you would reply this question. when i am relaxing my hair, i shouldnt apply the relaxer to my entire hair? just on my new growth? i would greatly appreciate if you could reply💗
Do hair vitamins help shedding ?
So you're beautiful 😍... please what do you mean by being manipulative plus what's your hair type and the relaxer you use girl ?
I broke my hair growth plateau by using deep conditioners. Never even knew I needed them growing up I was never taught.
Thank you👍
No problem(:
This is really a nice video. But i have been having some tiny wound scars on my hair like the ones you get when your hair gets burnt while relaxing it then it keeps on spreading.I am scared and my hair loss is massive now and itchy
What’s a good leave in
What protective styling do you do to last 3months?
Happy Valentine’s beautiful 🤩 love everything you do 🤗🤗🤗🤗
Okay this convinced me not to relax because the way my hair can easily shed two days after a protective style isn’t normal
This is a good video. Thank you for uploading. The captions should be removed. It is not reflecting what you are saying in the video. I see this alot. People make great videos then someone does a caption for the video with all the wrong words
I started watching your videos a long time ago, because my hair was always wild & unruly. My family didn't know how to take care of my hair so I didn't learn... they don't even teach these things in multicultural cosmetology school! I've been doing my best to follow your advice and my hair is SO much healthier now! It's growing and is actually very soft and shiny. I'd honestly be lost without your informative videos. Thank you so much!!!
Aw, I'm so glad!
Eh mama I love u more than I
I've never had a relaxer before your hair is pretty
Thank you.
This video really helped. Been combing my hair in the shower and lose soo much hair while doing that.
I'm really glad it was helpful!!❤️
Hey, i just want to ask a question. I like to have my hair out most of the time, i hardly ever have in protective styles. I therefore relax my hair approximately every 2 months sometimes after a month and half and by that time the new growth gets extremely hard to a point where i literally can not run a bomb through it. Is it normal? If not, is there a way that i can atleast keep it a little soft so that i can atleast comb it? I don't know if it's also because i dont wash it during that 2 months (between my relaxing appointments) can you also advice me on how often i should wash it?
Seun talks about using QRS olive oil lotion. That was a game changer for the manageability of my new growth. I would use the moisturizer first then seal with Jamaican castor oil mixed with a lighter hair oil.
Check out Seun's video" how I grew my hair long"
I relaxed my hair in January and relaxed it again in July and wow was I pleased. i just wish I did more protective styles last year
My hair is only one inch and it still breaks.
I used to have a relaxer and my hair grew and I never had any problems with it, but I decided to go natural because the chemicals are not good. Do you ever think about going natural?
I was but its too stressful
Presently am natural... Its a lot of work
HAPPY VALENTINES
To you tooo!😊😊
I get braids done most of the time at least every month and a half with a two week break to leave my hair out. I wash before getting a new style down. Is this too much manipulation
thanks for info about overlap
When I take out my protective styles I loose so much hair is there any suggestions for this ?
It's completely normal to lose a lot of hair after protective styles especially if you leave them in for a long time because you lose about 100 strands of hair a day so when have protective styles in for weeks or months all that sheded hair is just sitting on your head so when you take them out you may see a lot of shedding I don't think you have anything to worry about unless your losing so much to were it's not normal
@Amirical Webb: Start doing protein treatments, followed up by a good deep conditioning.