The Best Coach ever… 1-Bad Hygiene 2-Selfish in the bedroom. 3-Lack of manner 4-Unwarranted flirting 5- Terrible conversation 6- constantly interruptions 7-pushing her to drink more 8-cheap or broke 9-lack of ambitions and lazy 10- insecurities and neediness
If a man passes all those except number 8 he fails the test . If a man fails all those and passes number 8 . He passes the test . This is the playing field in which women have set the rules . Doubt they want to date a 43 old Uber driver on food stamps lol and on Medicaid 😂 never married and no kids
Dating and relationships have become like idolatry. Life shouldn't be full of codes and strange strategies. Be yourself, attract the right person, cut off the wrong person, focus on your purpose and faith in God....... and keep moving.
I don’t think we as a human race should even date or have relationship on romantic levels anymore since we are only the top species on the Animal kingdom . We should all be assigned a mate like in Avatar 😂
I agree if two people like each other and are attracted, no play book or rules will solidify the relationship. She makes this sound like a job interview.
Ya the point about the being "cheap" by complaining about parking was a good point. It sorta reveals to another person that you complain to much or just truly being cheap and cant handle situations (date or not).
So even though the dude was a jerk the first date...that woman still went on a second date with him. Yet if she had a low level of attraction or he was a nice guy… she wouldn’t have probably even have given him a first date. She even said it continued to get worse and worse… implying she was giving him many chances. I always find it interesting… because simply… attraction cuts through everything. Good video.
Speech Interruption is a BIG RED in all forms of convers Interactions. It shows clear and Blatant disregard for your background in light of their movement. Good Highlight.
When you brought up a woman telling you once that she knew she shouldn't go out with the guy who has terrible manners, but far too many women put up with these type of behaviors if the guy is hot, very masculine, or has other traits that are irresistible to women. Unfortunately, if a guy is attractive or turns or woman on, he can get away with poor manners and personalities. Maybe not in the long run, but he can definitely get away with it better than an average guy.
Is your girl / fiancé supposed to leave you after four years, when you lose your job after budget cuts? I asked her for support. She said she doesn't know how. I think that's a red flag. I keep working on forgetting the past, her, etc. she did more that I can post here. I am back on my feet, professional like before. Thanks to God. Peace and love to all.
U know what appolonia u keeping it real is god send u have more then helped me not in just relationships but my self as well Great video 📹 u make people see from different prospectives Value in our self Value in people And purpose for u and ya partner
"Terrible conversationalist" usually means "I'm too controlled by my limbic system and my primitive brain to respond to any kind of intelligent conversation other than the kind that validates me and makes me feel good about myself. "
Inwas thinking I'm all good until the neediness one came up. Putting too much responsibility and weight on partner. And it just took 1 out of 1o things leading to break up. Ugggh
I understand where the valet date is coming from. I agree he was over the top and shouldve figured out himself and not involved u so much but i also dont want other ppl driving my car lol
Very well presented. Thoughts (1) This is just common sense. You should do this everyday, why stop when your going on a date. (2) It's best to take the emphasis of your pleasure and put all the effort in to pleasing her. Remember sex is very cerebral for women. Focus on seducing her mind. You can handle your own pleasure later. If you do a good job you might get asked back. (3) Once again, this is just common sense. Treat others with respect. Just like how you would want to be treated. Pretty easy if you were taught right when you were young. (4) Just show interest in her. Don't compliment her physical appearance. Find things you like about her other than her body. Nothing you can say will help you become more intimate with her. She decided 30 seconds into your date whether or not there was a chance she might be intimate with you at some point. Smile and keep eye contact. Don't touch and don't expect to see any "signs" she is attracted to you. A mistake in reading the "signs" here is a death sentence. Also could result in legal actions if she feels she made a bad choice. That means on the date or even the day after. (5) The conversation will be your responsibility. Keep things lively and ask open ended questions. Repeat her answer and follow up with statements about the answer. DO NOT talk about yourself unless asked. Keep the conversation about her. It's a date, not an interview. You both know what the weather is like. (6) If you do a good job listening to comprehend. Interrupting shouldn't be a problem. This is more common knowledge. Let her talk about herself with you only commenting occasionally. Don't be afraid to have some silence. (7) Let her decide if she wants to drink and how many. Never recommend her to drink more. See the later part of (4). (8) Make plans for your date within your budget. An initial expensive first date may set a precedence for any other date. Very few coffee houses have valet parking. Keep it simple. (9) Know and understand hypergamy. A women has to know you have something going for you and that your moving forward with a PLAN for your life. A broke man is like a broken hand. You can't do anything with it. She will feel the same about you. (10) This point kind of blends in with (9) She needs to know you are good standing alone. That you can handle anything that comes your way. If you are secure with who you are this shows her you don't need her. But would like to have her in your world to complement it. Not be it. If she thinks you have no choices, she will know she can run over you at will. To end this. Remember you are always being tested on whether or not you are worthy of her time. Decide to do this work or stay out of the dating scene. It's a game were the rules can change based on emotions, feelings and hormones. There is never a clear prize if you win the game. If you happen to loose the game, the cost could be your hard earned resources. Good luck and take a chance. Ask her out.
If you are parked behind where your ex’s sister works at a solarium and it closes at 7, however you are in the car park at 11 and your ex drives past you literally, and then stops for ten seconds before turning onto the next available street. Is it a coincidence or on purpose ? (Two months of strict no contact)
The Best Coach ever…
1-Bad Hygiene
2-Selfish in the bedroom.
3-Lack of manner
4-Unwarranted flirting
5- Terrible conversation
6- constantly interruptions
7-pushing her to drink more
8-cheap or broke
9-lack of ambitions and lazy
10- insecurities and neediness
That is a good list
Actually... Its endless list
coach lee is better. dudes should not take dating advice from women.
Number 8 , is probably the only red flag 🚩 that matters lol 😂 to women that is
If a man passes all those except number 8 he fails the test . If a man fails all those and passes number 8 . He passes the test . This is the playing field in which women have set the rules . Doubt they want to date a 43 old Uber driver on food stamps lol and on Medicaid 😂 never married and no kids
Dating and relationships have become like idolatry. Life shouldn't be full of codes and strange strategies. Be yourself, attract the right person, cut off the wrong person, focus on your purpose and faith in God....... and keep moving.
That's right 👍
yes that i wants too,but people will never learn
This is the best paragraph for me
I don’t think we as a human race should even date or have relationship on romantic levels anymore since we are only the top species on the Animal kingdom . We should all be assigned a mate like in Avatar 😂
I agree if two people like each other and are attracted, no play book or rules will solidify the relationship. She makes this sound like a job interview.
Great video Apollonia and this goes both ways to regardless of gender. You have the voice of a person who can be on the radio 🎙📻
Thank you so much for the support John!
Totally agree
Ya the point about the being "cheap" by complaining about parking was a good point. It sorta reveals to another person that you complain to much or just truly being cheap and cant handle situations (date or not).
Women can also contribute in dating or relationship… If it’s paid parking, the women should pay for it cause the man is gonna pay for everything else…
I've got to say you've helped me in my current relationship in so many ways it's improving on a daily basis. Just wanted to stop by and say thank you.
Thank you so much for these kind words, Mark! I'm always happy to help you with the content I put on TH-cam. Thank you so much for your support!
So even though the dude was a jerk the first date...that woman still went on a second date with him. Yet if she had a low level of attraction or he was a nice guy… she wouldn’t have probably even have given him a first date. She even said it continued to get worse and worse… implying she was giving him many chances.
I always find it interesting… because simply… attraction cuts through everything.
Good video.
.... I think going out on a date with you Appolonia would be fun! You seem like you dont take yourself soooo seriously.
Speech Interruption is a BIG RED in all forms of convers Interactions. It shows clear and Blatant disregard for your background in light of their movement.
Good Highlight.
I’ve recently made the mistake with questioning
Happens alot to me friend
Just start will small talk get to know the lady more and there's always a time for everything be the alpha man
Love your advice always!
Fantastic video 👍🏿
Thank you Miss Ponte for another amazing video. God bless.
You are so welcome!
When you brought up a woman telling you once that she knew she shouldn't go out with the guy who has terrible manners, but far too many women put up with these type of behaviors if the guy is hot, very masculine, or has other traits that are irresistible to women. Unfortunately, if a guy is attractive or turns or woman on, he can get away with poor manners and personalities. Maybe not in the long run, but he can definitely get away with it better than an average guy.
Very great & Specific Tips on Red Flags...
Also found the free story parking hilarious 😂
Glad you liked it!
Is your girl / fiancé supposed to leave you after four years, when you lose your job after budget cuts? I asked her for support. She said she doesn't know how. I think that's a red flag. I keep working on forgetting the past, her, etc. she did more that I can post here. I am back on my feet, professional like before. Thanks to God. Peace and love to all.
The last guy...😳🤔If u don't have 5 bucks.Or don't want to spend 5 bucks.You shouldn't be dating.I would feel embarrassed.
Same goes for women.
Thanks for timestamps for the adhd people 🙏
Excellent presentation and well delivered. Then you for all your investment to bring us this
Thank you so much for your support Craig!
Apollonia is so Beautiful 😍. But thanks for this video
Wow, thanks so much!
Thanks for the information, very useful…BTW I like your painted nails….
Thank you so much for your support!
U know what appolonia u keeping it real is god send u have more then helped me not in just relationships but my self as well
Great video 📹 u make people see from different prospectives
Value in our self
Value in people
And purpose for u and ya partner
Thank you so much for watching and for your support Jermaine!
Great point 👍👍👍
Glad you think so!
"Terrible conversationalist" usually means "I'm too controlled by my limbic system and my primitive brain to respond to any kind of intelligent conversation other than the kind that validates me and makes me feel good about myself. "
Inwas thinking I'm all good until the neediness one came up. Putting too much responsibility and weight on partner. And it just took 1 out of 1o things leading to break up. Ugggh
I understand where the valet date is coming from. I agree he was over the top and shouldve figured out himself and not involved u so much but i also dont want other ppl driving my car lol
Very well presented. Thoughts (1) This is just common sense. You should do this everyday, why stop when your going on a date. (2) It's best to take the emphasis of your pleasure and put all the effort in to pleasing her. Remember sex is very cerebral for women. Focus on seducing her mind. You can handle your own pleasure later. If you do a good job you might get asked back. (3) Once again, this is just common sense. Treat others with respect. Just like how you would want to be treated. Pretty easy if you were taught right when you were young. (4) Just show interest in her. Don't compliment her physical appearance. Find things you like about her other than her body. Nothing you can say will help you become more intimate with her. She decided 30 seconds into your date whether or not there was a chance she might be intimate with you at some point. Smile and keep eye contact. Don't touch and don't expect to see any "signs" she is attracted to you. A mistake in reading the "signs" here is a death sentence. Also could result in legal actions if she feels she made a bad choice. That means on the date or even the day after. (5) The conversation will be your responsibility. Keep things lively and ask open ended questions. Repeat her answer and follow up with statements about the answer. DO NOT talk about yourself unless asked. Keep the conversation about her. It's a date, not an interview. You both know what the weather is like. (6) If you do a good job listening to comprehend. Interrupting shouldn't be a problem. This is more common knowledge. Let her talk about herself with you only commenting occasionally. Don't be afraid to have some silence. (7) Let her decide if she wants to drink and how many. Never recommend her to drink more. See the later part of (4). (8) Make plans for your date within your budget. An initial expensive first date may set a precedence for any other date. Very few coffee houses have valet parking. Keep it simple. (9) Know and understand hypergamy. A women has to know you have something going for you and that your moving forward with a PLAN for your life. A broke man is like a broken hand. You can't do anything with it. She will feel the same about you. (10) This point kind of blends in with (9) She needs to know you are good standing alone. That you can handle anything that comes your way. If you are secure with who you are this shows her you don't need her. But would like to have her in your world to complement it. Not be it. If she thinks you have no choices, she will know she can run over you at will. To end this. Remember you are always being tested on whether or not you are worthy of her time. Decide to do this work or stay out of the dating scene. It's a game were the rules can change based on emotions, feelings and hormones. There is never a clear prize if you win the game. If you happen to loose the game, the cost could be your hard earned resources. Good luck and take a chance. Ask her out.
Help me out..I’m so depressed
🔥 🔥 🔥
Oh damn....what can we do? I'll just say "hey girl let's get married"
If you are parked behind where your ex’s sister works at a solarium and it closes at 7, however you are in the car park at 11 and your ex drives past you literally, and then stops for ten seconds before turning onto the next available street. Is it a coincidence or on purpose ? (Two months of strict no contact)
Move on .. get a new life... Enjoy every second of your life by pursuing your dreams.
Um maybe that's a sign form God or the universe that's rare doesn't happen 🤔 🤷 😕 😅 😐 🙃
MY problem is being to clingy
Jealous over confident
And being annoying 🙄 😒 😑 🙃 😐 🙂
I haven't meet my match I also can't take rejection well :^
mildew smell lmao 🤣😂
Interesting 🤔
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yeah not complicated at all
Remember you are always loved nice advice bye for now👋🏾🌹👼🏾👨🏽🎨🥷🏽🍾...
What are the 10 red flags that turns off a woman?
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I'm actually really into women who pick their noses.