It is not possible to please everyone on all occasions. It is okay to get someone pleased with the outcome of our good deeds or actions and it is unfair to put ourselves in a situation to please others while we are in the process of taking our actions. When you do that, your focus will be only on the person you wanna satisfy and not on the actions you wanna take. By the way, you won't be able to complete your action because of which you will fail to please the person as well. So its a kind of good for nothing scenario you put yourself in. Better put all your energy and focus on taking meaningful actions that benefit you and others in the process. Thats how it works in life. What we have to make sure of is that we don't hurt others in any form with our actions. People will feel satisfied with you only if you can provide them value. Hope you all agree with me, folks??
Correct Akka, ithu than en nilama, epadi ithula irunthu veliya varathunu theriyala,.. Ninga sonna ellam points um enaku match aguthu...... Any solution kidaikuma AKKA........
அது போன்ற சூழ்நிலைகளில் தைரியமாக, பணிவாக, பிறர் மனம் கோணாத வகையில், அதே சமயம் உறுதியாக *நோ* சொல்லி விட வேண்டும். பிறகு அதில் நிற்க வேண்டும். பல்ட்டி அடிக்கக்கூடாது. அவ்ளோதான், கரெக்டா ஸ்வேதாக்கா? கண்டிப்பா கமெண்ட்ஸ் படிங்க, பதில் போடுங்க. இவ்வளோ பேர் நீங்க சொல்றத கேட்கிறோம் அது பற்றி சிந்திக்கிறோம், சந்தேகம் எழுப்புகிறோம். பதில் அளிக்க வேண்டுமா இல்லையா?
In my humble opinion, First of all be aware of the situation and people. Secondly be aware why we hesitate to say No. when you know the reason, you can slowly and steadily break the pattern. Setting Boundaries, Staying True to Yourself, your needs and wants is important. At the same time, how we communicate No also matters. Being Polite and Firm is Key. Important thing to remember here is: It will take time. But definitely we can change.
Great content ma'am.🥰! One feedback - the faster pace makes it slightly harder to follow. Would love it if you could return to your previous pace, it was easier to absorb.✨
In my humble opinion, Imagination is more to do with creating ideas based on past perceptions.. Visualization is viewed as a technique to stimulate and explore possibilities. Visualization is more aligned with conscious practice mindfulness, I believe so.
Nice explanation and good clarity👍🏻. I am also stuck those things...
உண்மை அக்கா...நன்றிகள் ...
Mathavangala satisfied panna nenacha namma nammala iruka mudiyathu antha visayatha clear ah explain pannirukanga.....❤ Thank you sister...!!!! Happy to watch your video.. keep rocking🎉
Thank you very much Sneha for your kind note
It's very true sister..I have that problem... But now iam not worried about it because iam ignore the situations..👍👍👍
You don't have to worry. But it is important to be aware of such situations. Awareness helps us to deal.
Thank you for your kindly reply sister😊 I got it.. 👍
Let us live for ourself first 😊
I agree - That should also be in our priority
@@DetourwithSwetha ☺️☺️☺️
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It is not possible to please everyone on all occasions. It is okay to get someone pleased with the outcome of our good deeds or actions and it is unfair to put ourselves in a situation to please others while we are in the process of taking our actions.
When you do that, your focus will be only on the person you wanna satisfy and not on the actions you wanna take. By the way, you won't be able to complete your action because of which you will fail to please the person as well. So its a kind of good for nothing scenario you put yourself in.
Better put all your energy and focus on taking meaningful actions that benefit you and others in the process. Thats how it works in life.
What we have to make sure of is that we don't hurt others in any form with our actions. People will feel satisfied with you only if you can provide them value.
Hope you all agree with me, folks??
Completely Agree!
Unmai ❤Unmai
Perfectly said
Thank you :)
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Nice words
But still tooo late to me
I understand - When we set our mind to be aware of ourselves. we can bring change in pattern
Back round which place
Correct Akka, ithu than en nilama, epadi ithula irunthu veliya varathunu theriyala,..
Ninga sonna ellam points um enaku match aguthu......
Any solution kidaikuma AKKA........
அதை சொல்லமாடறாங்களே ஸ்வேதாக்கா.
அது போன்ற சூழ்நிலைகளில் தைரியமாக, பணிவாக, பிறர் மனம் கோணாத வகையில், அதே சமயம் உறுதியாக *நோ* சொல்லி விட வேண்டும். பிறகு அதில் நிற்க வேண்டும். பல்ட்டி அடிக்கக்கூடாது. அவ்ளோதான், கரெக்டா ஸ்வேதாக்கா?
கண்டிப்பா கமெண்ட்ஸ் படிங்க, பதில் போடுங்க. இவ்வளோ பேர் நீங்க சொல்றத கேட்கிறோம் அது பற்றி சிந்திக்கிறோம், சந்தேகம் எழுப்புகிறோம். பதில் அளிக்க வேண்டுமா இல்லையா?
You are correct @dksridhar
In my humble opinion, First of all be aware of the situation and people. Secondly be aware why we hesitate to say No. when you know the reason, you can slowly and steadily break the pattern.
Setting Boundaries, Staying True to Yourself, your needs and wants is important. At the same time, how we communicate No also matters. Being Polite and Firm is Key.
Important thing to remember here is: It will take time. But definitely we can change.
@@DetourwithSwetha thank you so much akka, but ennala mudiumanu therila,
Na try pandren Akka
Great content ma'am.🥰! One feedback - the faster pace makes it slightly harder to follow. Would love it if you could return to your previous pace, it was easier to absorb.✨
Thanks for your wishes & kind feedback. It just gives a variety under Quick Notes' playlists. I see your point.
Mam... Deference between imagination and visualization....
In my humble opinion, Imagination is more to do with creating ideas based on past perceptions.. Visualization is viewed as a technique to stimulate and explore possibilities. Visualization is more aligned with conscious practice mindfulness, I believe so.