Take it easy, there’s the initial shock and then there’s the aftershock. It’s all a rollercoaster of emotions. You are both amazing and together you will come through this. xx
The troubling complications to your daily living caused by the crash must come out favorably for all of you. The important things are a bit sore and knocked about (you two) but you guys know how to tackle hard stuff and will slog your way through the irritation of starting over because you know where the love is in your lives. Things are replaceable mostly and if not you’ll manage to live your lives with joy sharing your love with family and friends. Easy does it, ya know from the past. Just don’t sweat the lil stuff and time will pass quickly if you exercise quiet patience. Y’all are so sweet to smile as you suffer these insults to your peace. Hold onto that peace, your smiles are lovely.
Hello Trevor and Pat, it was me who sent you some money. I found it with a little investigating on your "about" tab on your TH-cam page. I hope you can use it for something fun...maybe go out for an ice cream or something. I cannot imagine the shock you felt seeing the wreck. Please keep in touch with your doctor, especially with the headaches, and remember to rest when you need to. Sending love and hugs from Canada. xx
I can’t imagine how distressing seeing your motor home like that must have been. It’s still early days and you’re going to need some time to recover physically and emotionally. I’m so glad Pat is feeling better today. I was worried when Trevor mentioned a funny turn yesterday afternoon. You’re both allowed to rest and recover ! Xx
Trevor & Pat please dont worry if you got a good solicitor dealing with your personal injury you will get whats due to you both. Just like i said write notes down. But take your time with each bit of this process. Please take care xxx❤❤❤❤❤
Bless you both, you’ve had such a terrible ordeal, your strength & resilience throughout this has been remarkable 💞 But, please take some time to allow your minds & bodies to process the event. Take things steady, we’re all here, sending our love & support your way. Things will get better ❤️🩹 best wishes to you all Em 💜 xxx
Trevor and Pat you both look so tired going to see the Motorhome has certainly taken its toll on you both I think it’s the realisation of how bad the crash was you two take care and just chill for a bit 🥰🥰
When you feel like it take a trip to your favourite fish n chip restaurant Murgatroyds For a treat hopefully take your mind off things if only for a little while you will draw strength from the love you have for each other
Funny but Tracey brought fish & chips back from Wetherby Whaler in Pudsey for tea. It was such a lovely surprise. I sat up in bed and ate them. I came up to lie on our bed this afternoon, that doesn't happen very often.
Recovery from a traumatic event is a process, it can be very up and down, you may feel fine one day and down the next, either physically or mentally. You both have a positive mindset which will really help. Just give yourselves time and space, you’ll be reet 😊
Glad Pat feels a bit better it's early days yet for you both. It will all come good in the end I'm sure you have both touched so many people's hearts and our thoughts are with you every step of the way.❤❤
My late dad wrote a book from when he was a child, he could also draw paint one of his oil paintings is on Emmerdale farm he was throwing some out his friends wife was an extra on the set and she took them it is still there to this day in the Dingle house , i miss him so much
I will buy your book Trevor. Both of you are still in shock. Don't worry about Tracey, she is doing what any child would do for loving parents. My kids tell me off for not letting them know if I am poorly. It's hard to stop being a parent no matter how old your kids are xx
Can you give me a weak before you buy my book Diane, because I have to walk up to the post office, and not feeling up to it just now. Thank you for that. Yes, your right about your own children.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun Take as long as you need Trevor, a month, 6 months. I am in no hurry, I just find you and Pat incredible. I understood the reality of what you experienced working with the Scottish Ambulance Service, you had amazing paramedics and doctors with you on that day. Take time to process, but don't overthink it. You are here to tell the tale, that's wonderful!!
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@@trevorpat-lifeontherun Hi Trevor, that's me finally been able to order your book. I should receive it in just over a week. I look forward to reading about your interesting life. Thank you.
Please rest up Trevor you are looking a bit rough please keep in touch with your doctors about your headaches and the after shock can be worse than the accident and it can take months sorry to say love you loads xx❤
Not bothering with our docs. My headaches are as a result of concussion, which are going away with time. I bet I do look rough, but I will soon be better, either that or dead.
So sorry to hear of your crash guys, I really wish you all the best with everything. I think someone was looking down on you two 🙏. I’ll have a book please Trevor, let me know how to pay. Thank you 🤝
Here's the link to Lulu publishing where you can buy the book direct. I don't know what happens if you choose the downloadable version, I think it is a pdf document. www.lulu.com/shop/trevor-whetstone/swifter-than-a-weavers-shuttle/paperback/product-26vyyy.html?q=swifter+than+a+weavers+shuttle&page=1&pageSize=4
So sorry about the loss of your van and the temporary stall on your adventures. Give yourselves time to heal and get over the shock of the crash . You don't need to work everything out immediately. You have the love of your family and of each other. Sending well wishes from Australia 🇦🇺
Trevor and Pat, it must have been very distressing for you to go back to the motorhome. From now on in its onwards and upwards for you both. Hope that your headache and stiff neck is on the mend too. Take care both x.
I think you are having the after shocks Trevor, you both need to have a complete rest, at our age we can't recover so quickly. Please look after yourselves and just take one day at a time. Big hugs both of you and I hope you will both be feeling a lot better soon xxx
I recently came across your vlogs. Sadly, it is at a time when you are dealing with such a trying time. Please rest and take care of yourselves. I am planning on retirement one year from now. I enjoy learning about alternative lifestyles after retirement, as this is something I may consider for a time. Bless your hearts and take care. 🥰
I can see yesterday has really affected you, make sure you take it easy. You are going through a tough time, I could see you are both thinking about the best decision for yourselves and Tracey in the future. I hope you feel better in a few days. I am memorised by how positive Pat is. 🤩 Also your PayPal is linked on your TH-cam description, that's how they found it. 😄
Try not to stress out about the unknowns, Tracey will help you to sort out all the different reports and the insurance. There are always RV’s for sale. One day when everything is settled and you know what the insurance will cover and be willing to pay you, you will be in a better position to determine what you actually want to do going forward. Take care of yourselves, get better soon. Judy🇨🇦🇨🇦 ps - poor Ernie needs a walk about lol he sounds like a hamster on a wheel. 💕💕
Take care both of you and when you get an offer from the insurance company dont just take it do a bit of looking around for vans that were the same as yours and try and get the best offer you can .
Concussion recovery needs rest. You should try to take a few naps during the day and keep the stress levels as low as you can in the circumstances. Hopefully you get an early settlement from the insurers and dont have any worries ovet that.
We're not stressed Jimmy and I haven't had an afternoon nap since nursery school. I have heard that the van has been assessed by the insurance Co, so we should hear soon.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun I am glad to hear that you don't feel stressed but take it easy still as concussion is a weird thing. It takes time to fully get over even when you feel ok.
Don’t ignore those head aches Trevor get them checked out by dr, if your not sleeping well still mention that while your there or get some night nurse wishing you both well
this has all been awful for you, you are so blessed to have Tracey, she is a really smart one and handles problem solving so well, you both need to wait for the insurance and take a deep breath, like any trauma you need to take your time before you decide what to do next, it will all work out ok in the end
It's an awful thing to happen. Not quite the same, but at one point I was worried that our house sale would fall through and just the thought of starting over again and having to work for even longer was just too much. :/
Oh yes Sandra, spare the thought, nowt more stressful than selling your house, especially when so much depends on it. Having to start again is withering, and it withers me when I think about it, but it has to be done, and thats the end of it, so a day at a time, a day at a time.
Trevor yesterday was inevitably going to knock you both back, seeing the van and the reality of the situation has understandably upset you both and hit you all over again. Time will heal and all you can do is get through each day, deal with whatever needs to be dealt with each day with Tracy…..all will eventually be fine. Dealing with companies and paperwork is an absolute nightmare….but worse after your accident and the stress you are going through. Just chill out and remember things will settle down, just take your time making such important decisions…think of the pros and cons …..take care both x
The way you both feel was inevitable really with the state of the van and how it all happened in the first place. You two need a nice relaxing day out somewhere to take your minds off it all. Try not to get overwhelmed by it all or it will make you both poorly. I wish there was more we could do for you a part from watching your videos and commenting. You two take it easy this weekend, we know it's not easy for you both.
Test the water and choose a van you like the look of and get an insurance quote from your current insurance provider, this for me is the Elephant in the room. Obviously the insurance payout needs to reflect the value the motorhome, but for me I would want to know will this no fault claim be as catastrophic as the crash in respect of future insurance cost's.
Hi,having watched the pics of your coachbuild camper yesturday,made me think is a campervan the stronger of the two??.I only ask as all modern cars are subject to crash tests,i dont think then campers are subject to the same requirements,which when you look at the costs involved is quite surprising?.Love the show thanks.
Affordable Van Conversions in Garforth would be closer than Liam for jobs doing, Rick Beechwood who was working with Liam is now with Danny in Garforth.
You both need to take it easy, take each day as it comes, also get plenty of rest will help you recover especially from the shock yesterday that was awful, mind you I’m still shocked myself from when watched the video, can’t seem to get it out of my head think am in sympathy for you both, when you mentioned about the smell, I had a feeling must of been a rather nasty smell in there with the food you had from shopping beforehand especially that steak you were going to treat yourselves to,Tracey just wants to make sure you are both ok lots of love, please take care of yourselves one step at a time❤😊xx
You’ve had a massive trauma! Physically, and probably longer lasting for you, emotionally. In an accident that would’ve killed many, dealing with the loss of your home and most of your belongings. And you have to go through the legal logistics. And replace your camper. And deal with being displaced. And a complete change in your lifestyle and routine. I could keep going…This will take a long moment to heal from. I hope you know how many of us support you and are so thankful you’re OK! Take one day at a time, accept help from friends and loved ones, and take comfort knowing that we’re all cheering for you! You will make it through to the other side!!! Love to you both ❤️
Hi .. from the video of your motorhome if you look closely either the chassis has moved or the body has twisted because the video shows the body doesn't line up with the back axle. I wish you both well and don't let it all get you down think of it as the next chapter turn the page and create new memories.❤
I would guess its twisted the chassis.. when they build motorhomes the cab part of the chassis ends just behind the cab the habitation part of the chassis matches what motorhome body is fitted. The guy that hit you must have been absolutely flat out to do the damage he did.. let's face it front wheel hub suspension ripped off. Just take care both and I hope the insurance sorts it all out quickly. ❤
It hasn’t been very long. You will have up days and down days. Give yourself a break you have physically and mentally gone through a terrible accident. Take care.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun you and Pat are doing great. Ale one day at a time. Being this was your home maybe the insurance company can put you up in a hotel for a few days for a little get away and pay for cabs so you can get around to do things. You have remember that your body is healing as it went through trauma.
Ha ha, as though they would do that Debbie that made me laugh. We are not well enough to do that anyway Debbie, we are hoping to go out for the day next week. ❤
It all takes time, the after shock, it’s very stressful, loads paper work the worst, after seeing the doctor they send you for physio, if your aches and pains, but try to rest, plenty paracetamol and ibuprofen
Hey don’t lose your sense of humor….everything works out in the end. You both have been through a major life altering event BUT it could have been so much worse.
~~for your headache: this works for me....use a clean washcloth and run quite cold water over it. squeeze it out some, then place over your forehead and eyes area (press it down to help more). after it warms up, repeat with the cold water & ring out. sorry, headaches are a bear to endure. hope it goes away 😊 p.s.: if the hurting radiates on your neck, this works there as well.
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You 2 are miracles. But to be honest you both look off colour, very pale. Really hope you get 100% very soon. Huge hugs to you both. I personally don't think Tracy minds you being there she's probably over the moon that you both survived ❤❤ xx
Oh for sure, we are both out of sorts today. Tracey is more than glad we survived, and she does seem to enjoy us being here, but we don't want to take over Traceys life, and the way we had it organised was best of both worlds.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun So glad to hear it Trevor. But I was born a worrier! Only just found your TH-cam and thoroughly enjoying catching up. I’ve seen the exciting bit first and now I’m going through from the start. New subscriber here - it’s nice to listen to a lovely couple like you. Thank you.
Take it easy, there’s the initial shock and then there’s the aftershock. It’s all a rollercoaster of emotions. You are both amazing and together you will come through this. xx
Think I get it now Rachel. Thank you. ❤️
The troubling complications to your daily living caused by the crash must come out favorably for all of you. The important things are a bit sore and knocked about (you two) but you guys know how to tackle hard stuff and will slog your way through the irritation of starting over because you know where the love is in your lives. Things are replaceable mostly and if not you’ll manage to live your lives with joy sharing your love with family and friends. Easy does it, ya know from the past. Just don’t sweat the lil stuff and time will pass quickly if you exercise quiet patience. Y’all are so sweet to smile as you suffer these insults to your peace. Hold onto that peace, your smiles are lovely.
Hello Trevor and Pat, it was me who sent you some money. I found it with a little investigating on your "about" tab on your TH-cam page. I hope you can use it for something fun...maybe go out for an ice cream or something. I cannot imagine the shock you felt seeing the wreck. Please keep in touch with your doctor, especially with the headaches, and remember to rest when you need to. Sending love and hugs from Canada. xx
Thank you very much, I have got the names of three people that I need to thank.
Our surgery doesn't like sick people contacting them.
I can’t imagine how distressing seeing your motor home like that must have been. It’s still early days and you’re going to need some time to recover physically and emotionally. I’m so glad Pat is feeling better today. I was worried when Trevor mentioned a funny turn yesterday afternoon.
You’re both allowed to rest and recover ! Xx
It effected Pat worse than me, but it's in the past now, were moving on Jackie.❤
I am so deeply sorry you are both going through all this.. sending you both gentle hugs xx
Thank you Maxine.❤
Trevor & Pat please dont worry if you got a good solicitor dealing with your personal injury you will get whats due to you both. Just like i said write notes down. But take your time with each bit of this process. Please take care xxx❤❤❤❤❤
Bless you both, you’ve had such a terrible ordeal, your strength & resilience throughout this has been remarkable 💞 But, please take some time to allow your minds & bodies to process the event. Take things steady, we’re all here, sending our love & support your way. Things will get better ❤️🩹 best wishes to you all Em 💜 xxx
Thank you Em. We are overwhelmed with the love and support we are receiving, we just don't know what else to say. ❤️
Trevor and Pat you both look so tired going to see the Motorhome has certainly taken its toll on you both I think it’s the realisation of how bad the crash was you two take care and just chill for a bit 🥰🥰
That just about sums it up Shaz.
Please, relax and TRY not to worry.❤ My mom use to say, ' it'll all come out in the wash.' ❤
My mam was pessimistic like me, so she never said that.❤
It's a huge trauma you have been through
Be kind and patient with yourselves ❤❤
Will try. ❤️
When you feel like it take a trip to your favourite fish n chip restaurant Murgatroyds
For a treat hopefully take your mind off things if only for a little while you will draw strength from the love you have for each other
Funny but Tracey brought fish & chips back from Wetherby Whaler in Pudsey for tea. It was such a lovely surprise. I sat up in bed and ate them. I came up to lie on our bed this afternoon, that doesn't happen very often.
Recovery from a traumatic event is a process, it can be very up and down, you may feel fine one day and down the next, either physically or mentally. You both have a positive mindset which will really help. Just give yourselves time and space, you’ll be reet 😊
That is just the way it seems. We'l get reet.❤
Glad Pat feels a bit better it's early days yet for you both. It will all come good in the end I'm sure you have both touched so many people's hearts and our thoughts are with you every step of the way.❤❤
Sandra, that's so kind of you to say that. As long as Pat is happy, I don't care about vans and things.
My late dad wrote a book from when he was a child, he could also draw paint one of his oil paintings is on Emmerdale farm he was throwing some out his friends wife was an extra on the set and she took them it is still there to this day in the Dingle house , i miss him so much
Aw Jackie, what can I say. You have fond memories of your dad, and if i could achieve that I would be happy.
Aww bless you both, it breaks my heart to see you going through this 😢 x
Sorry Bev, we'l cheer up soon. ❤️
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun 🩷 x
I will buy your book Trevor. Both of you are still in shock. Don't worry about Tracey, she is doing what any child would do for loving parents. My kids tell me off for not letting them know if I am poorly. It's hard to stop being a parent no matter how old your kids are xx
Can you give me a weak before you buy my book Diane, because I have to walk up to the post office, and not feeling up to it just now.
Thank you for that.
Yes, your right about your own children.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun Take as long as you need Trevor, a month, 6 months. I am in no hurry, I just find you and Pat incredible. I understood the reality of what you experienced working with the Scottish Ambulance Service, you had amazing paramedics and doctors with you on that day. Take time to process, but don't overthink it. You are here to tell the tale, that's wonderful!!
@@dianegalloway3175 I think I should be ok next week Diane. Do you know my email address?
Have you seen my link where you can buy my book direct from Lulu Publishing.
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@@trevorpat-lifeontherun Hi Trevor, that's me finally been able to order your book. I should receive it in just over a week. I look forward to reading about your interesting life. Thank you.
Hopefully once insurance pays out fully, it should take a bit of the stress away and you can worry less and look forward again 🥰
Ye, that's what I am hoping.
Please rest up Trevor you are looking a bit rough please keep in touch with your doctors about your headaches and the after shock can be worse than the accident and it can take months sorry to say love you loads xx❤
Not bothering with our docs. My headaches are as a result of concussion, which are going away with time. I bet I do look rough, but I will soon be better, either that or dead.
So sorry to hear of your crash guys, I really wish you all the best with everything. I think someone was looking down on you two 🙏. I’ll have a book please Trevor, let me know how to pay. Thank you 🤝
Here's the link to Lulu publishing where you can buy the book direct. I don't know what happens if you choose the downloadable version, I think it is a pdf document.
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Hi Trev and pat it was Liam the terrible at coalition vans who did our van and he is in Sheffield! All the best love Dave and Bonita
Thank you Bonita. ❤️
Oh guy’s we feel for you, having visitors when you feel off is very hard, 👍👊🚌
Ye it was, but I feel sorry for Mick, and didn't want to disappoint him, but in the end I wasn't much fun.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun to be expected after what you have been through.👊👍
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So sorry about the loss of your van and the temporary stall on your adventures. Give yourselves time to heal and get over the shock of the crash . You don't need to work everything out immediately. You have the love of your family and of each other. Sending well wishes from Australia 🇦🇺
Thank you for your well wishes, and for watching our vlogs.xx
Trevor and Pat, it must have been very distressing for you to go back to the motorhome.
From now on in its onwards and upwards for you both.
Hope that your headache and stiff neck is on the mend too.
Take care both x.
Yes, very glad to get that over with. Yes, my headache and stiff neck is better, thank you.
I think you are having the after shocks Trevor, you both need to have a complete rest, at our age we can't recover so quickly. Please look after yourselves and just take one day at a time. Big hugs both of you and I hope you will both be feeling a lot better soon xxx
Think your right Mary, I am laid on our bed, just pretty exhausted I think.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun Have a good rest Trevor, allow your body some healing time xxx
Laying on our bed right now. Just need to rest. ❤
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun Good xxx
I recently came across your vlogs. Sadly, it is at a time when you are dealing with such a trying time. Please rest and take care of yourselves.
I am planning on retirement one year from now. I enjoy learning about alternative lifestyles after retirement, as this is something I may consider for a time. Bless your hearts and take care. 🥰
Vanlife is something to consider if it floats your boat. Watch a few channels and see if the cap fits.
Thank you for watching us.
Try and take things steady and you'll both feel better in a couple of days, You'll bounce back ! Xxx
I am sure we will Dawn, I am laid on our bed writing this, its been a hard day.
Bless you both, trauma is a harsh beast. Be patient with yourselves. So many people are holding you up in their thoughts and prayers. ❤
A harsh beast indeed, thank you for holding us up in YOUR prayers.
I can see yesterday has really affected you, make sure you take it easy.
You are going through a tough time, I could see you are both thinking about the best decision for yourselves and Tracey in the future. I hope you feel better in a few days.
I am memorised by how positive Pat is. 🤩
Also your PayPal is linked on your TH-cam description, that's how they found it. 😄
Yes, yesterday was crappie, it messed us both up.
Pat has always been positive, and I have always been negative, and that makes electricity.
Try not to stress out about the unknowns, Tracey will help you to sort out all the different reports and the insurance. There are always RV’s for sale. One day when everything is settled and you know what the insurance will cover and be willing to pay you, you will be in a better position to determine what you actually want to do going forward. Take care of yourselves, get better soon. Judy🇨🇦🇨🇦
ps - poor Ernie needs a walk about lol he sounds like a hamster on a wheel. 💕💕
Ha ha, Ernie had a walk in the garden today.
having been in simular situation as your selves appoint a solicitor who specialises in crashes and forget the rest let them deal with it.
It's very early days yet, all will be well. Still sending you both love, big hugs and positive vibes ❤❤❤xxx
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Take care both of you and when you get an offer from the insurance company dont just take it do a bit of looking around for vans that were the same as yours and try and get the best offer you can .
I'm no wheeler dealer Rosemary.
Stay strong folks, hopefully the insurance gets sorted out sooner than later.
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Concussion recovery needs rest. You should try to take a few naps during the day and keep the stress levels as low as you can in the circumstances.
Hopefully you get an early settlement from the insurers and dont have any worries ovet that.
We're not stressed Jimmy and I haven't had an afternoon nap since nursery school.
I have heard that the van has been assessed by the insurance Co, so we should hear soon.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun I am glad to hear that you don't feel stressed but take it easy still as concussion is a weird thing. It takes time to fully get over even when you feel ok.
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Don’t ignore those head aches Trevor get them checked out by dr, if your not sleeping well still mention that while your there or get some night nurse wishing you both well
Been for two scans, not going for anymore. What's night nurse? Sounds interesting!
It’s cold flu remedy makes you sleepy, get your mind out the gutter😂
It's too late for that.
this has all been awful for you, you are so blessed to have Tracey, she is a really smart one and handles problem solving so well, you both need to wait for the insurance and take a deep breath, like any trauma you need to take your time before you decide what to do next, it will all work out ok in the end
We are very fortunate to have Tracey behind us she is amazing.
Will it all work out in the end, I hope so Sandra.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun of course it will, even if you go to the nurseries and get a site with a caravan, there lovely people there
@@sandrameredith2797 They are Sandra, but it's too far from Tracey, and park life is not for us, we tried it and it didn't work.
So great to see the turtle I'd love a pet turtle
It's a tortoise Julie.❤
It's an awful thing to happen. Not quite the same, but at one point I was worried that our house sale would fall through and just the thought of starting over again and having to work for even longer was just too much. :/
Oh yes Sandra, spare the thought, nowt more stressful than selling your house, especially when so much depends on it.
Having to start again is withering, and it withers me when I think about it, but it has to be done, and thats the end of it, so a day at a time, a day at a time.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun when things seem overwhelming I also like to take things one day at a time. Wishing you both a better week ahead x
The alternative is insanity.
Trevor yesterday was inevitably going to knock you both back, seeing the van and the reality of the situation has understandably upset you both and hit you all over again.
Time will heal and all you can do is get through each day, deal with whatever needs to be dealt with each day with Tracy…..all will eventually be fine.
Dealing with companies and paperwork is an absolute nightmare….but worse after your accident and the stress you are going through.
Just chill out and remember things will settle down, just take your time making such important decisions…think of the pros and cons …..take care both x
I couldn't have handled the insurance Co, I didn't understand how they worked, it was Tracey who did a diagram for me to explain what was going on.
You have one another and that's perfect
You are so right.❤
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The way you both feel was inevitable really with the state of the van and how it all happened in the first place. You two need a nice relaxing day out somewhere to take your minds off it all. Try not to get overwhelmed by it all or it will make you both poorly. I wish there was more we could do for you a part from watching your videos and commenting. You two take it easy this weekend, we know it's not easy for you both.
You never know Helen, if we saw a van somewhere not too far from you, maybe Karl could come and check it out for us, that would be a help to us.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun of course he would Trevor, no problem at all.😊
Oh thank you Helen, ❤
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun you're welcome both.
Test the water and choose a van you like the look of and get an insurance quote from your current insurance provider, this for me is the Elephant in the room. Obviously the insurance payout needs to reflect the value the motorhome, but for me I would want to know will this no fault claim be as catastrophic as the crash in respect of future insurance cost's.
That's good advice Mike, if the insurance is catastrophic then no point buying a van.
Hi,having watched the pics of your coachbuild camper yesturday,made me think is a campervan the stronger of the two??.I only ask as all modern cars are subject to crash tests,i dont think then campers are subject to the same requirements,which when you look at the costs involved is quite surprising?.Love the show thanks.
I have no idea. I think we were saved from above. Glad you like our channel though.
So sorry please get Tracy to set up a Go Fund me page as I and many others would support you to get back on your travels take care x
I don't know what to say about this. Others have mentioned it and Tracey is against it, and Pat and I don't feel comfortable asking people for money.
Affordable Van Conversions in Garforth would be closer than Liam for jobs doing, Rick Beechwood who was working with Liam is now with Danny in Garforth.
Hope it doesn't come to that Chris, I just want the thing to be set up when I buy it.
You both need to take it easy, take each day as it comes, also get plenty of rest will help you recover especially from the shock yesterday that was awful, mind you I’m still shocked myself from when watched the video, can’t seem to get it out of my head think am in sympathy for you both, when you mentioned about the smell, I had a feeling must of been a rather nasty smell in there with the food you had from shopping beforehand especially that steak you were going to treat yourselves to,Tracey just wants to make sure you are both ok lots of love, please take care of yourselves one step at a time❤😊xx
It's all over and done with Zoe, well that bit, God, I can still smell it!
You’ve had a massive trauma! Physically, and probably longer lasting for you, emotionally. In an accident that would’ve killed many, dealing with the loss of your home and most of your belongings. And you have to go through the legal logistics. And replace your camper. And deal with being displaced. And a complete change in your lifestyle and routine. I could keep going…This will take a long moment to heal from. I hope you know how many of us support you and are so thankful you’re OK! Take one day at a time, accept help from friends and loved ones, and take comfort knowing that we’re all cheering for you! You will make it through to the other side!!! Love to you both ❤️
Wow, Pat marvels at how articulate you are. How nice of you to support us like this, thank you.
Emotionally it's alot for poeple to go through and that will be taken into thought when your insurance comes out
Really! I can't imagine an insurance Co giving one jot about my emotional condition.
Hi .. from the video of your motorhome if you look closely either the chassis has moved or the body has twisted because the video shows the body doesn't line up with the back axle.
I wish you both well and don't let it all get you down think of it as the next chapter turn the page and create new memories.❤
Interesting. I have seen the smash in slow motion, and there was a he'll of a twist.
I would guess its twisted the chassis.. when they build motorhomes the cab part of the chassis ends just behind the cab the habitation part of the chassis matches what motorhome body is fitted.
The guy that hit you must have been absolutely flat out to do the damage he did.. let's face it front wheel hub suspension ripped off.
Just take care both and I hope the insurance sorts it all out quickly. ❤
Trevor you need to go back to doctor about your headache again.
You are both worn out. Stressed out. In my prayers
I was there last Saturday, had a scan, all clear it's concussion, not helped by yesterday.
It hasn’t been very long. You will have up days and down days. Give yourself a break you have physically and mentally gone through a terrible accident. Take care.
We haven't had much practice at this Debbie. ❤️❤️
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun you and Pat are doing great. Ale one day at a time. Being this was your home maybe the insurance company can put you up in a hotel for a few days for a little get away and pay for cabs so you can get around to do things. You have remember that your body is healing as it went through trauma.
Ha ha, as though they would do that Debbie that made me laugh.
We are not well enough to do that anyway Debbie, we are hoping to go out for the day next week. ❤
It all takes time, the after shock, it’s very stressful, loads paper work the worst, after seeing the doctor they send you for physio, if your aches and pains, but try to rest, plenty paracetamol and ibuprofen
Oh spare me the thought Fiona.❤
Hey don’t lose your sense of humor….everything works out in the end. You both have been through a major life altering event BUT it could have been so much worse.
It was just a bad day.
Usually what is done until insurance can get to it to look it over because alot of your life was in van
It sure was Julie.
Make sure to take as many pics as you can of inside and outside as it is before you take things out
It's all on film Julie.
~~for your headache: this works for me....use a clean washcloth and run quite cold water over it. squeeze it out some, then place over your forehead and eyes area (press it down to help more). after it warms up, repeat with the cold water & ring out. sorry, headaches are a bear to endure. hope it goes away 😊 p.s.: if the hurting radiates on your neck, this works there as well.
Cathie, I am now going to the sink to do just what you advise, thank you so much. ❤️
Have you bad a cat scan on your neck Trevor? Think you may well have whiplash.
Ye, got whiplash, they told me but I can't remember, Tracey knows what it is I have Julia.
Concussion, which can take awhile to recover from.
@@bridgwll and so it seems Julia. Feel better today.
Liam the terrible
That's right, thank you.
if we want to buy your book how do we do it please
This link will take you to Lulu publishing who published my book, you can buy direct from there I believe. Give it a try and let me know how you get on, and thank you for buying my book.
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You 2 are miracles. But to be honest you both look off colour, very pale. Really hope you get 100% very soon. Huge hugs to you both. I personally don't think Tracy minds you being there she's probably over the moon that you both survived ❤❤ xx
Oh for sure, we are both out of sorts today.
Tracey is more than glad we survived, and she does seem to enjoy us being here, but we don't want to take over Traceys life, and the way we had it organised was best of both worlds.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun I do understand fully xx
@@Yvonneb_ I am sure you do Yvonne. xxx
Please, with your blurred vision and headaches, you really should get yourself to a doctor. Don’t put it off.
Don't worry Mary, I am fine.
@@trevorpat-lifeontherun So glad to hear it Trevor. But I was born a worrier! Only just found your TH-cam and thoroughly enjoying catching up. I’ve seen the exciting bit first and now I’m going through from the start. New subscriber here - it’s nice to listen to a lovely couple like you. Thank you.