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@@bailo4753 yeah once I got over the initial fear of rejection I went on plenty of dates. Turns out the first one I went on was the best but the girl had moved back to her home country of Bolivia. I live in Ireland. I was saddened by that. I need to find a cool chick like that again.
@@scewt I support him. Just skip the part and dont rant about it because if you are intelligent enough to understand his topics, you are intelligent enough not to get triggered nor to play such a game.
and then date even _more_ people to find someone better than the top person from the 10. im 23 and have had 0 dates how the heck and i supposed to do this LOL
Dating is a numbers game. Even if you are hot and attractive most people will reject you. Why? You might ask. *They could be* _in a relationship_ _Attracted to the opposite gender_ _not ready for a relationship_ _religious_ _attracted to different types of people_ _etc_ If you want I can give you some useful advices, but I do not want to bore you so I will give you the most important basics. *They settle for their current best option. Use this to your advantage* Every person has a type they are attracted to. That type always win over the non ideal guy if they have the desired personality, financial stability, potencial, social status etc. If they don't, then the less ideal guy can win if he ticks enough boxes. *Be confident* If you are a guy looks barely matter. A handsome guy with no balls is a major turn off for most women. An ugly very confident man on the other hand can get babes easily. *Be independent* Most women I know want to use men. If you have no use you are worthless in their eyes. *Be reliable* Your word needs to be set in stone. If you say something mean it. If you promise something do not bail out. *Get as fit as possible* No explonation needed. *Do not complain and stay positive* Feminine women usually want a masculine men. They are emotional. Women do not need an emotional man. Also nobody likes to listen to anyone complaining. We mimic each others emotions. If you are negative they will be negative too. *When they are around you make them feel good* Women do not really care about facts. They care about how they feel. Instead of remembering yiur words they will mostly remember how they felt when they were with you. *Be yourself* If you fake yourself you will end up with a miserable relationship as you will attract the wrong people. Also women are in general better at noticing small things so they can figure out if you fake yourselfnpretty easily. *Stand up for yourself and for what you believe in* If you do not respect/value yourself why should anyone respect you? *Be civilised* Be kind, gentle and nice with *everyone* *Smell nice and dress up* Always dress accordingly to the situation, but if you wear clothes that fits you well and choose the correct colours and material that will help you a lot standing out as most men do not care. For some reason women gets turned on based on smells (and they call us animals. Ironic, isn't it?) Warning DO NOT USE AXE! Axe smells like teen spirit. *Keep improving over time* Having a bright future is attractive. If you keep working out you get fitter. If you keep learning you increase your chance to make money. If you keep building your sovial circle you will have more opportunities. Etc. Remenber women want to marry their best option. Even if you get them you have to work on keeping them. Many people forget about this. TL, DR: If you are a man looks do not matter. Get fit, financially stabile, reliable, confident and never give up. If you get rejected just move on instantly. If they reject you they will most likely think that you value them more than they value you. If a woman rejects you and they can see that this has no negative effect on you it drives them crazy and sometimes they second guess if they made the right decision. If you try enough times you will get your match,but please remember it is better to be alone than to be in a toxic relationship.
@@roberth4395 yeah, i'm not fit, not financially stable, not confident, and i give up if they say "no". I'm short, so dating websites are not helpful. I'm allergic to perfume, too.
I've been with my wife for nearly 30 years. We grew up a handful of miles apart but met 2000 miles from home in college. It felt a lot like destiny, but there is no way-- no way on Earth-- given the challenges we've faced down together over the decades that we would have survived if we hadn't also been willing to work. It takes *both* the faith that it *will* last and the *commitment* to do what it takes to ensure it will last for a relationship to succeed over a lifetime.
imagin rejecting 10 people you liked so much after watching this video and then finding your soulmate just to find out they too watched the video and still on the first step :/
@@capo_di_capi howso. Sea cucumbers look like disgusting worms with often like growts and stuff. And cabbage is one of the most bland foods out there. And still there is someone for you
No-one ever said, that the guy I like has the face of a sea cucumber. And the personality thing? I actually think it could just be jealousy, that he's rockin' the suicide strategy and all the hot chicks are in a huge pile on top of him.
@@gobzanuff5078 how does someone who got arrested gonna pay for child support. And you just started the relationship with this random person (who slapped you), how were you able to have a child i short span of time of 4 minutes
Why does it have to be someone that is promiscuous just because they’ve been out on many dates with many different people?? People are so insecure and self projecting these days. Judge not lest he be judged, my dudes
Same, not that I've really tried though only asked out 3 people in my 23 years of life. I'm cool with it though I'm not a very social person I enjoy my peace and quiet. My mentality has always been if I find someone I really enjoy being around and they fancy me to then I'll date them, but if I go my entire life never going on a date that's okay too, I'll save a lot of time and money remaining a Bachelor.
Same, I haven't even had my first kiss and I'm 23 :'( And now, I believe it is too late for me to find someone I find attractive enough to want to date them.... So I've given up and now I just stick with my imaginary ghost boy bf.
@@wolfandraven891 I *_would_* tell you to hold on to the slight possibility that it can still happen ("gambatte ne" and all that), but then again I'm slightly older and not much better off... So here; have my sincerest Dorimes: th-cam.com/video/_5ChT4J_h2o/w-d-xo.html
I'm so glad I don't care . 😆 I love being alone doing what I want , when I want and not having to worry about someone else's opinion or feeling's .it's really way more fun .
I truly do envy you. Were my instincts and emotions not so powerful I would likely hold that same position. I tried suppressing them once. That didn’t end so well. What is your secret?
At first I thought I was the "destiny" mindset, but when you described how accomodating and appeasing are to their partner's need I started to realize that I may be half and half. I believe a very good RS is one where you have a great chemistry since the very first date and then build up from that.
You remind me of a younger version of my grandfather. The moustache, the collared plaid shirts, the suspenders, all key facets to his style lol. Love you bro, and love your videos, keep this awesome content flowing 🤙
@@gringoamigo8146 havent't started looking at the video, but yeah kinda.. they did some social experiences a while back where 2 random people were to stare into each others eyes for a minute without saying a word. the result speaks for itself (you may not want to randomly stare at someone tho xD), references below /watch?v=1EumnijQBhw /watch?v=3QdnCRWATZ8
"There are always those quirks about our partners that we initially found cute but after a while they annoy the shit out of us" I haven't laughed so hard in a good while It's true for sure but damn that caught me off guard xD
@@dcfromthev if you tweaked the design a lil bit. made it more ergonomic for your foot and somehow got the pointer movement accurate enough it would be quite effective though?
Sounds like a billion dollar idea to me.. I did think the ad was a little crazy, but it wouldn't surprise me if it was real. We Are basically living in the age of Idiocracy.
Soulmates exist in the sense that you can be happy with each other for many years, or a lifetime. But not in a sense of perfection, nobody is perfect to another....you always find faults with them in some way. But loves does exist, it doesn't have to be a "soulmate" just love each other.
kegsofvomitspit: WELL SAID! In Buddhism, we said Soul mates are mates we learn from or teach each other to evolve in this life to prepare for the next life. That means you have lots of problem with soul mates in order to LEARN. 😅
This kinda reminds me of that Black Mirror episode where you had the dude from Peaky Blinders and the girl inside the dating app as models, trying to find their best match!
*14:09* After you’d mentioned several different hormones, you say: “...and you thought I couldn’t do Dirty Talk” I laughed so much 😂 ... You’re such a good story teller and you always have funny punchlines. Thank you so dearly Mr Thoughty2 💜
Lucky bastard, I get in a relationship then someone fucks it up (this is from a 12 yr old) So you got real lucky. Hold him close and never, and I mean...*N E V E R* let go
I’m a Destiny mindset with a Growth learning experience. After my first two relationships- described exactly the same way as described in this video for the Destiny mindset- I realised I needed to step back from that and have a little more patience, forgiveness, and tolerance. I still believe in a Soulmate- the difference is, I’m mature enough to wait for him and his quirks now... whatever that ends up meaning... All us Destiny mindsets could do with a little Growth.
Excellent video and very worthwhile information you disclosed. Now I realize my Destiny mind-set ended my two close relationships. All you exposed made a lot of sense. Thank you,
Never believed in soulmates, I don't believe in fate or destiny either just as I believe you are not born to some type or work, you grow, mature, are shaped by the people and environment around you. Which is kind of the reason why I see some drama movies as more of a fantasy movie than anything else. It's almost every time love at first sight and then it just goes on from there.
There is no one person for anyone. What a joke haha..what about back in history when a majority if people were born in some village or city and never moved? What are the odds that all people born there that had a relationship had found their ONE soulmate with all the other people out there in the world? Not a fkin chance. You find someone with similar core values, beliefs, goals and ideas and you make it work
If what you say is true about the growth mindset, that definitely applies to me. I had very few relationships before I got married. In fact, I hadn’t even slept with anyone until my wedding night. Now, 21 years later, with four kids, I’m completely happy and content. We are still going strong with no signs of slowing down.
Lol same mate. After about five minutes I lose interest or find the persons either stupid or totally boring and go- Can I really at my mindset see myself spending another 5 days with this person? My brain goes if you're a muppet yes so i'm like nice one I.Q bye and flee lmao,.
Someone who could be your soul mate at one period in time, could be unbearable at another period in time. People change who they are and what they find attractive, and their hobbies.
Age 18 - 'The right one will come along when you least expect it'. Now age 36 - 'The right one will come along when you least expect it'. Still single, still a virgin and I've accepted there's no soulmate.
You have to SEARCH. Use multiple dating apps and keep searching, swiping, chatting. It could take several months or years to find the one. Don't give up on dating apps just after a few days or weeks. You should also go after average girls/women who may not be your type or you don't really like them. You have to communicate, be open and honest.
"one person who is in every way perfect for another individual" made me think: people change. so that would mean to suggest that there is one person who is perfect for another in every way, & every change they go through is also exactly a perfect match for the others, at the same time to maintain them being perfect for one another. that seems like a bit much.
@@StefemPers yeah I here you, but if two people, even in a serious relationship, if they go through things together that doesn't necessarily affect them both the same. & you might say they're so alike they're almost the same person but I dont think that would work cause I know people who have been with people *exactly* like them and they didn't get along which I guess is just how it goes right? idk I never thought about the whole soulmate thing like factually or scientifically before it was always just kind of an idea
If true soul mates exist, perhaps their changes make them even better for their lover. Personally, the kind of soul mates I believe in are simply the best possible one out there - not perfect in every way but the closest out of everyone. Cause it's definitely going to be someone.
@@bernhardsrb9777 well, the literal translation in my native language means exactly that what Mags said. However, I know what it means in English. And I am so sorry for OP.
Unfortunately loss and grief are a big part of life. It takes years of practice and many hard days to learn the skills to resolve it in our own way. I imagine there's a period of grief you must face every day. I'm serious when I say this, I am immensely sorry for your loss. Live long and prosper 🖖
Thanks Thoughty2, in a weird way this really helped me find peace about my Ex telling me her ex was her soulmate. I still hold much love for her but the difference is blatant: she leans towards that 'destiny' mindset while I lean towards more of the 'growth' one. Ultimately, it wouldn't have worked out anyway.
And I've been on 2 in 47 years (1 in my teens and 1 in my 20's before realizing it was a waste of time and money), beat you. Unless you call hookups with hookers dates, they seem to like calling them that for some reason.
@@jbellfield Pff if one needs to ask then might as well save your breath and time. A good rule of thumb that's worked for me is if they don't ask it's safe to assume they are not interested. I suppose if everyone did that I wonder what would happen first, girls would do the asking when they got horny enough or everyone would just stay horny until humans went extinct.
I actually read a book called Matched, by Ally Condie that did this exact thing and they also matched them through the chance of your children being healthier.
The idea that we are going to find a soulmate, “the one” is the reason why people die alone and single and wither to death thinking the one will come one day. There’s no such thing.
The converse isn't great either, jumping into a relationship with whomever happens to be in arms-reach because it's immediate and convenient is practically guaranteed to end badly. :-|
Thoughty2 always tend to surprise me, I click into half of his vids expecting clickbait and lots of obvious bs, but they are always so interesting and scientific, even sometimes he talks bout things that aren't at all related to the title, its interesting
When it comes to 'Soulmate', I see it as a person who is able to grow with you, or that will always be on your side, instead of an epic universal effect. It would be awesome.
The opposite can also happen to people with a 'destiny' mindset; they may try to ignore their partner's shortcomings, as awful as they may turn out to be, simply because they believe that they have found their 'soulmate' and that no one could be so compatible with them as their SO. I find this often happens in cases of prolonged abusive and manipulative behavior from partners.
@@AudioGardenSlave123 there is no such thing as over analyzing being knocked unconscious by your male partner. Or bruises. Or sexual assault. By the way, you have an amazing taste in music: audioslave and soundgarden ♡
I was with one girl whom I really loved for a long time. I absolutely thought she was destined to be my soulmate based on my experiences and feelings towards her. The whole time she lied and manipulated me. I tried sooo hard to make it work and one day I finally found out how little she cared about me or the relationship. We had one minor altercation and I wasnt willing to compromise my position and she set the entire relationship on fire. The worst part is, she was waving red flags in my face from day one but I let them slide because I felt like she was the one person I could really connect with. Turns out, she was happy to use my intense emotions to turn me into a pawn and all she had to do was lie about her emotions. Tldr: Manipulative people exist and you need to be able to recognize it. Sometimes you work too hard because you think someone is your soulmate when it just isnt going to work.
@@KayOScode I'm sorry this happened to you, but you're absolutely right in your conclusion. It's a real shame that movies and mass media tend to perpetuate or even propagandize the 'soulmate' mindset.
I've been single for almost 21 years now and thoroughly enjoy my life of solitude. Perhaps a good woman will come, but I'm not too eager for the change personally. Sure, at times I want a relationship but I've never broken my own heart and I've seen my buddies' hearts be crushed by their "soulmate" repeatedly.
The longer you go the more "dead wood" you have to chip away to be good at a marriage, kids etc. It's not an easy change to make. You really have to remake yourself to be suitable to such a lifestyle and the truth that most men are unaware of is, most men are NOT suited to marriage. It can be rewarding, if it goes well. Children are such an amazing validation of your life. I keep telling men, there is only one reason to marry, if you want children. The caveat being, the bill will come due! As long as you are ready to pay that, then go ahead, with the right attitude and not the fairy tale, romantic nonsense men like to believe in when it comes to women.
Thoughty2, thank you for this insightful information. I’ve always had that growth mind set when it came to relationship. My ex thought it was destiny she would get hurt or upset when things go bad and I’ll be the one who always says let’s sit down and work it out together but she would say it’s not meant to be so she’s walked away. This video honestly helped me a lot, thank you Sir
People are always growing and depending on their state of mind. Heartbreak, loss, and trauma can cause someone to latch on due to vulnerability and mistake it for having found their soulmate only to have it fall apart once having worked through the pain.
I personally believe that you have to work on a relationship and its about making it work. It's partly about being compatible but also about working on it to become stronger
My parents, both grandparents and all other relatives around me all only got married once except my uncle that got married twice and all happily stayed together for life and what I learned growing up with these role models is that you need to be best friends first. Best friends enjoy hanging out, works out problems, appreciate eachother, root for eachothers strengths and dreams, know how to compromise for teamwork, etc. Separating partner material and friend material is a bad idea because if you aren't friends how will you get along after 10-40 years?
When people say that there was only ever one person to them and no one else could ever be they're other half, "that's because they're married to them and it would be expensive to say otherwise." --- The Amazing World of Gumball
When you rub your dogs ears, it releases oxytocin into their brain, and they feel secure and loved... That's why dogs are so great. Thats all you have to do and they are yours forever...
You forgot the third mindset: giving up on romantic love (or never believing in it in the first place) and getting on with building yourself a nice, permanently single life.
You can be led to the right person for you at the time but if either person doesn’t grow with you or vice a versa it is not so. Soulmates are 2 people who want each other in every way possible and they find new ways to keep falling for each other
As a human biologist, it is fascinating to learn about the biological basis of attraction. By now, it is well established that olfactory cues are partially responsible for attraction. This is very likely associated with the MHC locus in our DNA which is very important for fighting off pathogens. We seem to be more attracted to people with a very different MHC locus, thereby giving offsprings higher genetic diversity leading to a better survival of the human species (would love to make a video about that myself after I finished my COVID-19 evolution video). Not very poetic but biologically romantic.
If you enjoy each other's company, find each other attractive and have similar values you should settle. Those are the three main things you should keep in mind, even if there MIGHT exist somebody who's perfect in every way out there
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Thoughty2 I think they patched the soulmate trick
Noooooooo not raid shadow legends
Bruh
Oooh no how dare you ... You lied to us 😂😂😂
foot mouse does exists!!!
Brilliant. The parody focuses the viewer onto the actual sponsor.
"It's easy to find your soul mate."
"Alright, finally!"
"First, go on 10 dates."
"Well...shit."
Hopefully in those 10 years we will be able to extend our lives so we can go on those dates
It’s easier that u think it’s just a date ur going to reject nothing serious lol
@@davidirimia6463 😂
lol...
@@bailo4753 yeah once I got over the initial fear of rejection I went on plenty of dates. Turns out the first one I went on was the best but the girl had moved back to her home country of Bolivia. I live in Ireland. I was saddened by that. I need to find a cool chick like that again.
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YEP ive lost all respect for this youtuber after he accepted a sponsor from this dogshit, scam of a game.
@@scewt I support him. Just skip the part and dont rant about it because if you are intelligent enough to understand his topics, you are intelligent enough not to get triggered nor to play such a game.
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@@scewt chill, a man gotta eat lol
It's a meme and it's also a money. Meme makes good publicity, and money makes... well, money. It's a win-win.
“Find 10 dates...”
Damn I knew there was gonna be a catch.
Hahaha yeah same
BobbY Lo amen😤😂😭
and then date even _more_ people to find someone better than the top person from the 10. im 23 and have had 0 dates how the heck and i supposed to do this LOL
@@theintelligent1238 get out
@@pvic6959 I'm 40 an have been on like 2 actual dates.
my man here talking about rejecting 10 dates while I'm sitting here willing to date a tree if it talked to me
Dating is a numbers game. Even if you are hot and attractive most people will reject you.
Why? You might ask.
*They could be*
_in a relationship_
_Attracted to the opposite gender_
_not ready for a relationship_
_religious_
_attracted to different types of people_
_etc_
If you want I can give you some useful advices, but I do not want to bore you so I will give you the most important basics.
*They settle for their current best option. Use this to your advantage* Every person has a type they are attracted to. That type always win over the non ideal guy if they have the desired personality, financial stability, potencial, social status etc. If they don't, then the less ideal guy can win if he ticks enough boxes.
*Be confident* If you are a guy looks barely matter. A handsome guy with no balls is a major turn off for most women. An ugly very confident man on the other hand can get babes easily.
*Be independent* Most women I know want to use men. If you have no use you are worthless in their eyes.
*Be reliable* Your word needs to be set in stone. If you say something mean it. If you promise something do not bail out.
*Get as fit as possible* No explonation needed.
*Do not complain and stay positive* Feminine women usually want a masculine men. They are emotional. Women do not need an emotional man. Also nobody likes to listen to anyone complaining. We mimic each others emotions. If you are negative they will be negative too.
*When they are around you make them feel good* Women do not really care about facts. They care about how they feel. Instead of remembering yiur words they will mostly remember how they felt when they were with you.
*Be yourself* If you fake yourself you will end up with a miserable relationship as you will attract the wrong people. Also women are in general better at noticing small things so they can figure out if you fake yourselfnpretty easily.
*Stand up for yourself and for what you believe in* If you do not respect/value yourself why should anyone respect you?
*Be civilised* Be kind, gentle and nice with *everyone*
*Smell nice and dress up* Always dress accordingly to the situation, but if you wear clothes that fits you well and choose the correct colours and material that will help you a lot standing out as most men do not care. For some reason women gets turned on based on smells (and they call us animals. Ironic, isn't it?) Warning DO NOT USE AXE! Axe smells like teen spirit.
*Keep improving over time* Having a bright future is attractive. If you keep working out you get fitter. If you keep learning you increase your chance to make money. If you keep building your sovial circle you will have more opportunities. Etc. Remenber women want to marry their best option. Even if you get them you have to work on keeping them. Many people forget about this.
TL, DR: If you are a man looks do not matter. Get fit, financially stabile, reliable, confident and never give up.
If you get rejected just move on instantly. If they reject you they will most likely think that you value them more than they value you. If a woman rejects you and they can see that this has no negative effect on you it drives them crazy and sometimes they second guess if they made the right decision. If you try enough times you will get your match,but please remember it is better to be alone than to be in a toxic relationship.
@@roberth4395 yeah, i'm not fit, not financially stable, not confident, and i give up if they say "no". I'm short, so dating websites are not helpful. I'm allergic to perfume, too.
@@roberth4395 can I get a tl:Dr tl:dr version? On second thought. Nevermind. The fck is women like to use men. Might as well be a "How to Simp 101"
@@rallygozzy9206 Also no it is nit simping. If you respect yourself other people will respect you too.
@@RandomToast lol
Thoughty2: there is a soulmate for everyone.
Vsauce out of nowhere: or is there?
haha
*Music starts playing*
Thoughty2 x Vsauce collab when
Ezzyth probably never
Two legends, cross TH-cam channels....
*The most iconic duo, you've ever seen*
I've been with my wife for nearly 30 years. We grew up a handful of miles apart but met 2000 miles from home in college. It felt a lot like destiny, but there is no way-- no way on Earth-- given the challenges we've faced down together over the decades that we would have survived if we hadn't also been willing to work. It takes *both* the faith that it *will* last and the *commitment* to do what it takes to ensure it will last for a relationship to succeed over a lifetime.
There is a flaw in the model: you have to find a date first
That 😭
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Imagine getting on 10 dates, choosing the best one and you are unable to find the better one anymore :|
That actually means you need to lower your standards...
I am in my fourties and only managed to date four people.
imagin rejecting 10 people you liked so much after watching this video and then finding your soulmate just to find out they too watched the video and still on the first step :/
Taraji Productions YES!
Murphy's law, lol 😜🤣😂😂
Oooooooooooooooooooooof
still a better love story than twilight
A soulmate is just someone you like a lot
"There is someone out there who will love you for who you are"
This man should do comedy, because that was a damn good joke.
Yepp
Well the other person might be another man...
But not likely a woman, unless your wallet is a perfect match for what she's looking for.
ah yes
@@quanahhurtt1833 euqene
Not quite sure what you are trying for.
“It doesn’t matter if you have the face of a sea cucumber and the personality of a cabbage.” - Thoughty2 2020
Thats kind of racist when you think about it, lmao.
@@capo_di_capi howso. Sea cucumbers look like disgusting worms with often like growts and stuff. And cabbage is one of the most bland foods out there. And still there is someone for you
No-one ever said, that the guy I like has the face of a sea cucumber.
And the personality thing? I actually think it could just be jealousy, that he's rockin' the suicide strategy and all the hot chicks are in a huge pile on top of him.
So then you date one of the vegetable people of Lost in Space.
@@capo_di_capi What race has face of a sea cucumber and the personality of a cabbage?
FOOTMOUSE: "That's gotta be a shitpost to make me read the description right?"
Well it worked.
Until obviously I realised it was fake but in my drunken mess I seriously believed it for way too long than I should of.🤣
Is there a footmouse for left handed people?
The wobble gave it away,
We can make this a thing!
@@thatonefruitthatistasty708
3:03 you were drunk, so I'll forgive you 🤪
"Foot mouse does not exist"
People with no hands:
People with no hands: **Gets prosthetic limbs**
But AliExpress said they had one and I ordered it already...
Darn Scammers!
If it does not work does that mean I should give them the middle toe?
there's this kid who doesn't have legs or arms and he can school people on the PS4
@@Void_Dweller7 there's this kid who doesn't have legs or arms and he can school people on the PS4
LMAO
Lifehack: Ask your crush to do a starring contest
Yes i have done intense eye contact with my crush idk if anything worked just made me like her more
I did, and found she got a part in the new movie they are making here...
roygalaasen F
Tf is a starring contest?
Dany Z. G
them: trying to find 'the one'
me: still trying to find an actual foot mouse
How to start a relationship: Go stare at a stranger for 4 minutes
Does the relationship start after you get slapped or before it?
@@themerchantofpueblo After you get arrested for staring at a woman.
@@biffin1123 Here is the order: stare> slap>arrested>pay child support, pay= free, no pay= jail.
@@gobzanuff5078 how does someone who got arrested gonna pay for child support. And you just started the relationship with this random person (who slapped you), how were you able to have a child i short span of time of 4 minutes
Breathe heavily to assert dominance over the other males in the vicinity
Marriage, sponsored by Raid: Shadow Legends
Might as well hahhahahah
Bad marketing 101
lol
lmfao
Nothing beats meme marketing.
People can only date 50-100 in their lifetime
Golddiggers: *Well yes but actually no*
They are called whores
@@cinota1704 Average western women*
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Plankton: *C O R R E C T*
Is your live time just 1 year?
Why does it have to be someone that is promiscuous just because they’ve been out on many dates with many different people?? People are so insecure and self projecting these days. Judge not lest he be judged, my dudes
Imagine if they create an app to find that 1 soulmate and it turns out they’re already married lmao
Sounds like that Rick and Morty episode lmao
@@RabbitPlum I think you mean Black Mirror.
@@phantomasuras nah its a rick and morty episode
and @suprell3 no, the answer is always no.........but yes lets do this app XD
@@RabbitPlum my exact thought XD glad i found this comment XD
That's when it's time for someone to die.
"People can only date 50-100 in their lifetime"
Me who hasn't dated even 1: SAD HUMAN NOISES
Update2023: still haven’t
CGI Future Same lol
Same, not that I've really tried though only asked out 3 people in my 23 years of life. I'm cool with it though I'm not a very social person I enjoy my peace and quiet. My mentality has always been if I find someone I really enjoy being around and they fancy me to then I'll date them, but if I go my entire life never going on a date that's okay too, I'll save a lot of time and money remaining a Bachelor.
Same, I haven't even had my first kiss and I'm 23 :'( And now, I believe it is too late for me to find someone I find attractive enough to want to date them.... So I've given up and now I just stick with my imaginary ghost boy bf.
@@wolfandraven891 Too late to find someone you find attractive enough? Where do you live that all the boys are that ugly lol
@@wolfandraven891
I *_would_* tell you to hold on to the slight possibility that it can still happen ("gambatte ne" and all that), but then again I'm slightly older and not much better off...
So here; have my sincerest Dorimes: th-cam.com/video/_5ChT4J_h2o/w-d-xo.html
"You initially think are cute (awww) ☺ but then annoy the shit out of you!" 😳 (hahaha!) I love it. So true. He must be married. lmao
3:05 "But foot mouse does not exist."
My disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined.
lil'Mongrel Same
DARNIT I THOUGHT HE WAS JOKING THAT IT WASNT REAL. I need foot mouse immediately !!! These lil piggies have potential and want something to dooooo
Lol
Underrated
Instructions unclear: married a soviet MiG 21bis jet fighter aircraft
Oh dang, buddy! I identify as an Attack Helicopter!
Congrats man!
Just remember to top up the ethanol for the radar every time you fly
don't see what's unclear here. It was meant to be
rhodokartillery aka afrika i am a fighter pilot too
Don't look for perfection, just love the person who makes you happy.. 🌟⭐️💕
My soulmate is a person playing Raid: Shadow Legends
with a footmouse
Ooooh that'd be perfect, my Snake is enlarging just imagining such a person.
am I your soulmate
@@194_SS gimme a phone for sexting
Amen.
Footmouse sounds terrible
Was watching this video with my wife's boyfriend. He says there's still hope for me after all.
your wife's boyfriend? so she is cheating on you and you know it. way to go.
@@rookieman329 Seems like you uncovered what the joke is supposed to be, bravo.
wait wat?
Rookie Man sound it out buddy. There you go! U get it!
He was obviously coming on to you and just testing the water a bit.
I'm so glad I don't care . 😆 I love being alone doing what I want , when I want and not having to worry about someone else's opinion or feeling's .it's really way more fun .
I truly do envy you. Were my instincts and emotions not so powerful I would likely hold that same position. I tried suppressing them once. That didn’t end so well. What is your secret?
everybody ever in 2020:
*ITS YA BOI RAID SHADOW LEGENDS*
I had to say that in my head with a Scottish accent, damn Dankula!
Raid shadow legends is still here when everybody is dying, now that's a true bro
Don't you mean PAID SHADOW LEGENDS
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So true! I genuinely thought he was joking about that
The guy was cracking up as he was about to pronounce Raid right after he promoted the foot mouse thing 😂😂😂😂
Is this some kind of a parody
ilfourios It was a joke, and funny as hell too! Love this man, never regretted subscribing to him 4 years ago.
I think it might have been a suggestion from Raid themselves
*_CROSS PROMO!!_*
At first I thought I was the "destiny" mindset, but when you described how accomodating and appeasing are to their partner's need I started to realize that I may be half and half. I believe a very good RS is one where you have a great chemistry since the very first date and then build up from that.
I believe most people are half and half, I think its best to be half of each.
I think that I definitely would be a growth, never really believed in soulmates before.
"Just date 10 people!"
Thoughty, I...
@River Piscean baby, and if it's quite alright, I need you, baby, to warm the lonely night.
Oof, when the algorithm can tell you're lonely
Yeap
*Same*
Atleast we have each other.
Hello?
"do you still play video games with your hands?"
Me: No, I use my feet *sarcastic
Foot mouse: *appears
Me: ;-;
The whole romantic suitability score thing reminded me of that one episode of black mirror
Same and the thumbnail
Exactly what I was thinking 😂
Can you give me the name of the episode please?
That was the one episode I actually liked because it didn't have a bad ending like all the other episodes.
@@markbv591 lol so you didnt like any of the other episodes but watched them anyways?
Posting a video about soulmates in a time where we are legally supposed to stay away from each other....
*Absolute madlad*
You do have a perfect soulmate! Bad news, you'll never find them.
I had that perfect soul mate, but alas, we broke up, when she didn't like my foot-mouse.
Don't you realize that the you and the foot-mouse are meant to be? You have your soul-mat under your foot and you don't even realize it
Some people just can’t handle the future
Average Relationship Duration: 2 Years 9 Months
My Last relationship: 2 Weeks
I am speed
💀
Gatta go fast
If you keep in mind 50 year long marriages factor into that statistic, 2 weeks ain't so bad. Still sad but it's fine.
9 hours :)
Mine was a month lol
You remind me of a younger version of my grandfather. The moustache, the collared plaid shirts, the suspenders, all key facets to his style lol. Love you bro, and love your videos, keep this awesome content flowing 🤙
So all I have to do is have a 4 minute staring contest with a girl I like. EZ
I'm sure it won't make her put a restraining order on your ass. Go for it
@@gringoamigo8146 havent't started looking at the video, but yeah kinda.. they did some social experiences a while back where 2 random people were to stare into each others eyes for a minute without saying a word. the result speaks for itself (you may not want to randomly stare at someone tho xD), references below
/watch?v=1EumnijQBhw
/watch?v=3QdnCRWATZ8
A normal mouse advertised as a foot mouse would probably sell a lot
"There are always those quirks about our partners that we initially found cute but after a while they annoy the shit out of us"
I haven't laughed so hard in a good while
It's true for sure but damn that caught me off guard xD
Yeah, that's a possibility which should try and be transformed into something more creative...
Who else spent the entirety of this video contemplating the premise of FOOT MOUSE?
Not me, only took 2 seconds to realize that it's STUPID AF
@@dcfromthev if you tweaked the design a lil bit. made it more ergonomic for your foot and somehow got the pointer movement accurate enough it would be quite effective though?
Those 2 words together don't even make sense in my head
3:03 ..... Aww I was sooo bummed 🤦
Sounds like a billion dollar idea to me..
I did think the ad was a little crazy, but it wouldn't surprise me if it was real. We Are basically living in the age of Idiocracy.
Plot twist: Soul mates aren’t real, turns out relationships take hard work and compromise.
....said no "modern" woman ever=)
@@roserevancroix2308 Especially when Cosmo just told 'em, "The 10 Things All Guys Crave In Bed" and 'The 5 Surefire Ways To Keep A Man.'
Soulmates exist in the sense that you can be happy with each other for many years, or a lifetime. But not in a sense of perfection, nobody is perfect to another....you always find faults with them in some way. But loves does exist, it doesn't have to be a "soulmate" just love each other.
kegsofvomitspit: WELL SAID! In Buddhism, we said Soul mates are mates we learn from or teach each other to evolve in this life to prepare for the next life. That means you have lots of problem with soul mates in order to LEARN. 😅
Love is but a chemical reaction one that in my case is highly flawed
Sponsor part. Skips ahead. "foot mouse"
Skips back
Hears "raid shadow legends", rapidly taps the right screen.
@@aljon5947 I was just about to say that
This kinda reminds me of that Black Mirror episode where you had the dude from Peaky Blinders and the girl inside the dating app as models, trying to find their best match!
*14:09* After you’d mentioned several different hormones, you say:
“...and you thought I couldn’t do Dirty Talk”
I laughed so much 😂 ... You’re such a good story teller and you always have funny punchlines.
Thank you so dearly Mr Thoughty2
💜
Graceland omg that cracked me up 🤣✨
The moustache just makes it more dirty!
Nyctophora shit then seems we have some freaks out here 😳
@@Nyctophora Absolutely. Can you imagine getting spanked while he tells you trivia thru that moustache?!?
A soulmate to the mustache perhaps?
LOL
I'm gonna die alone than. I can't even get one date, let alone ten.
F
F
Yes u can.
@@allensmith.aaffect.1626 unless you're attractive or have money
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Found my soul mate when I was 13, here I am 34 and we're married with 2 sons. I know I got lucky.
Aww, best wishes!
Yeah we will not tell your husband we have been dating for the past 10 years.
Duh!
Lucky bastard, I get in a relationship then someone fucks it up (this is from a 12 yr old)
So you got real lucky.
Hold him close and never, and I mean...*N E V E R* let go
How lucky…
Nice
Thoughty2: Date 10 people
Me: that's very ambitious of you to assume that about me
👆
I’m a Destiny mindset with a Growth learning experience.
After my first two relationships- described exactly the same way as described in this video for the Destiny mindset- I realised I needed to step back from that and have a little more patience, forgiveness, and tolerance.
I still believe in a Soulmate- the difference is, I’m mature enough to wait for him and his quirks now... whatever that ends up meaning...
All us Destiny mindsets could do with a little Growth.
30 years later...
Husband - honey i found a way to find perfect soulmates
wife - wow now we can finally divorce
I don't know about mine but this guy's soulmate is stuck in medieval England.
😂😂
I wouldn’t be surprised if it was
i think yours can be found in a box of chocolates.
@@bellatibay6784 you never know what you're gonna get. My life is full of surprises.
“Most people can only date 50 to 100 people in a single life time”.
Barney Stinson : “Hold my beer”
Hahaha....You sound like a water sign Pisces.
Well there's the question of how many of those he's considered to have dated.
Excellent video and very worthwhile information you disclosed. Now I realize my Destiny mind-set ended my two close relationships. All you exposed made a lot of sense. Thank you,
Never believed in soulmates, I don't believe in fate or destiny either just as I believe you are not born to some type or work, you grow, mature, are shaped by the people and environment around you.
Which is kind of the reason why I see some drama movies as more of a fantasy movie than anything else. It's almost every time love at first sight and then it just goes on from there.
Thank you
Oof ur first comment after thoughty2
Yeah I agree tbh. It's just finding someone that makes it work for you too. Someone that stays and you stay for them.
This exactly what I've been thinking, thank u
There is no one person for anyone. What a joke haha..what about back in history when a majority if people were born in some village or city and never moved? What are the odds that all people born there that had a relationship had found their ONE soulmate with all the other people out there in the world?
Not a fkin chance. You find someone with similar core values, beliefs, goals and ideas and you make it work
If what you say is true about the growth mindset, that definitely applies to me. I had very few relationships before I got married. In fact, I hadn’t even slept with anyone until my wedding night. Now, 21 years later, with four kids, I’m completely happy and content. We are still going strong with no signs of slowing down.
Next time in the bar: "I'll buy u a drink - but we need to lock eyes for 2 minutes straight "
👍👍👍
Wait a minute.. no way I guessed that it was 73%.. I'm not even joking, damn!
Very convenient! 😁😁
Congrats! You win the prize of a.....(drum roll)...... Footmouse!
@@Tzar1 no, stop.
probably due to chance and chance alone given how many will watch the video
You go on 10 dates?
I can't even go on 1 🙄😅
Yep I know where you are coming from I have been trying with no result for the last 12 years.
I think you two have a great chance!
Lol same mate. After about five minutes I lose interest or find the persons either stupid or totally boring and go- Can I really at my mindset see myself spending another 5 days with this person? My brain goes if you're a muppet yes so i'm like nice one I.Q bye and flee lmao,.
Someone who could be your soul mate at one period in time, could be unbearable at another period in time. People change who they are and what they find attractive, and their hobbies.
Age 18 - 'The right one will come along when you least expect it'.
Now age 36 - 'The right one will come along when you least expect it'.
Still single, still a virgin and I've accepted there's no soulmate.
Are you waiting for someone to show up at your door? Or are you actively searching?
Sure, depending on your workplace and occupations, opportunities may not be optimal... But that's a lot of years.
You have to SEARCH. Use multiple dating apps and keep searching, swiping, chatting. It could take several months or years to find the one. Don't give up on dating apps just after a few days or weeks. You should also go after average girls/women who may not be your type or you don't really like them. You have to communicate, be open and honest.
Other people pushing that... you'll find someone... then you'll understand...
I'm like... I'm not even looking so...
The problem with that saying is it only applies to women lmao
“You can’t... or can you...” stop playin 😭
Reading that just when he said it....
Would not have though I'd be writing one of those replies any time soon.
"Just go 10 dates....." 😭😭 "Then go on another 10" Guess i'm going to be single for the rest of my life then......
strange, there arent any simps hitting on you yet
@Amanda You're not single. You're in a relationship with your hand
@@ericagifford2024 thats a fab idea, lol, lets to it!
@@madmax5841 yes, well........ 😂 But lets not forget my cats - lots of pussys to keep me warm 😁
@@Polo1683Official IKR! What on earth did I say to frighten them away? Simps are great!
"one person who is in every way perfect for another individual" made me think: people change. so that would mean to suggest that there is one person who is perfect for another in every way, & every change they go through is also exactly a perfect match for the others, at the same time to maintain them being perfect for one another. that seems like a bit much.
You might think of it as changing together, not individually
@@StefemPers yeah I here you, but if two people, even in a serious relationship, if they go through things together that doesn't necessarily affect them both the same. & you might say they're so alike they're almost the same person but I dont think that would work cause I know people who have been with people *exactly* like them and they didn't get along which I guess is just how it goes right? idk I never thought about the whole soulmate thing like factually or scientifically before it was always just kind of an idea
If true soul mates exist, perhaps their changes make them even better for their lover.
Personally, the kind of soul mates I believe in are simply the best possible one out there - not perfect in every way but the closest out of everyone. Cause it's definitely going to be someone.
When my wife of 12 years died of Cancer, half of me died, and all of my soul.
Wait, am i getting this wrong or did u just say your wife was 12 years old?
Mags Bro ur messed up in the head
@@bernhardsrb9777 well, the literal translation in my native language means exactly that what Mags said. However, I know what it means in English. And I am so sorry for OP.
@@MerrowMeghan native language? Nah bro it's English just english
Unfortunately loss and grief are a big part of life. It takes years of practice and many hard days to learn the skills to resolve it in our own way.
I imagine there's a period of grief you must face every day. I'm serious when I say this, I am immensely sorry for your loss.
Live long and prosper 🖖
Thanks Thoughty2, in a weird way this really helped me find peace about my Ex telling me her ex was her soulmate. I still hold much love for her but the difference is blatant: she leans towards that 'destiny' mindset while I lean towards more of the 'growth' one. Ultimately, it wouldn't have worked out anyway.
>go on 10 dates in 100 days
Bruh I haven't even been on 3 dates in my entire 19 years of existence
Edit: Thanks for the 6 likes
And I've been on 2 in 47 years (1 in my teens and 1 in my 20's before realizing it was a waste of time and money), beat you. Unless you call hookups with hookers dates, they seem to like calling them that for some reason.
20 years old and I've never been on a date.
I am 17 and i dunno how to date
@@jbellfield Pff if one needs to ask then might as well save your breath and time. A good rule of thumb that's worked for me is if they don't ask it's safe to assume they are not interested. I suppose if everyone did that I wonder what would happen first, girls would do the asking when they got horny enough or everyone would just stay horny until humans went extinct.
You existed more than 19 years
You were just brought in this world 19years ago
I actually read a book called Matched, by Ally Condie that did this exact thing and they also matched them through the chance of your children being healthier.
Early in life, I wanted the "perfect match" as a prospective life partner. God said, "Good luck with that, mate."
How come my shoe found its sole-mate, and I didn't ?
Mlg joke
good one.
Because you make jokes like this
He used the foot mouse, you didn't
@@BATF4P 😂😂🖒
The idea that we are going to find a soulmate, “the one” is the reason why people die alone and single and wither to death thinking the one will come one day. There’s no such thing.
Facts
Why you gotta do us like that
The converse isn't great either, jumping into a relationship with whomever happens to be in arms-reach because it's immediate and convenient is practically guaranteed to end badly. :-|
Michael : Or are there?
ssh! You can't say that! You gotta sugar coat it for the idealists.
Thoughty2 always tend to surprise me, I click into half of his vids expecting clickbait and lots of obvious bs, but they are always so interesting and scientific, even sometimes he talks bout things that aren't at all related to the title, its interesting
When it comes to 'Soulmate', I see it as a person who is able to grow with you, or that will always be on your side, instead of an epic universal effect. It would be awesome.
Soo.... a friend?
InsertNameHere with benefits
@@Mlobb7 😂
That is the same thing i thought of
@@itsvmmc your friend can be a good partner too tbh.
The opposite can also happen to people with a 'destiny' mindset; they may try to ignore their partner's shortcomings, as awful as they may turn out to be, simply because they believe that they have found their 'soulmate' and that no one could be so compatible with them as their SO. I find this often happens in cases of prolonged abusive and manipulative behavior from partners.
Eleanna Tzeraki Men ignore and women overanalyze.
Please stop speaking as if you're a first class sex therapist or behavior scientist.
@@AudioGardenSlave123 there is no such thing as over analyzing being knocked unconscious by your male partner. Or bruises. Or sexual assault.
By the way, you have an amazing taste in music: audioslave and soundgarden ♡
I was with one girl whom I really loved for a long time. I absolutely thought she was destined to be my soulmate based on my experiences and feelings towards her. The whole time she lied and manipulated me. I tried sooo hard to make it work and one day I finally found out how little she cared about me or the relationship. We had one minor altercation and I wasnt willing to compromise my position and she set the entire relationship on fire. The worst part is, she was waving red flags in my face from day one but I let them slide because I felt like she was the one person I could really connect with. Turns out, she was happy to use my intense emotions to turn me into a pawn and all she had to do was lie about her emotions.
Tldr: Manipulative people exist and you need to be able to recognize it. Sometimes you work too hard because you think someone is your soulmate when it just isnt going to work.
@@KayOScode I'm sorry this happened to you, but you're absolutely right in your conclusion. It's a real shame that movies and mass media tend to perpetuate or even propagandize the 'soulmate' mindset.
15:59 if you wanna skip the bulk and dive straight to the "simple trick."
I've been single for almost 21 years now and thoroughly enjoy my life of solitude. Perhaps a good woman will come, but I'm not too eager for the change personally.
Sure, at times I want a relationship but I've never broken my own heart and I've seen my buddies' hearts be crushed by their "soulmate" repeatedly.
The longer you go the more "dead wood" you have to chip away to be good at a marriage, kids etc. It's not an easy change to make. You really have to remake yourself to be suitable to such a lifestyle and the truth that most men are unaware of is, most men are NOT suited to marriage.
It can be rewarding, if it goes well.
Children are such an amazing validation of your life.
I keep telling men, there is only one reason to marry, if you want children.
The caveat being, the bill will come due!
As long as you are ready to pay that, then go ahead, with the right attitude and not the fairy tale, romantic nonsense men like to believe in when it comes to women.
Single people witness everyone else get cheated on
I am at 23 years now, haha. Winning
@@Berserkism I appreciate your reply. Well said and I understand
@@Joso997 living it up bro! Lol
Thoughty2, thank you for this insightful information. I’ve always had that growth mind set when it came to relationship. My ex thought it was destiny she would get hurt or upset when things go bad and I’ll be the one who always says let’s sit down and work it out together but she would say it’s not meant to be so she’s walked away. This video honestly helped me a lot, thank you Sir
3:05 we've been tricked, we've been backstabbed and we've quite possibly been bamboozled
Hate that bamboozling.
Falls in the same category as witchcraft, sorcery, and turbochargers.
I just want someone on the same "wavelenght" as me, someone who thinks almost the same way, doesn't matter if that person has flaws
Stagnation caused by such relationships is literally the worst if you don’t want to eventually be someone who lives in their own world 24/7
"Its either destiny or growth. No in-between."
Why not both?
*cue mariachi music
True
Exactly both damn it....
People are always growing and depending on their state of mind. Heartbreak, loss, and trauma can cause someone to latch on due to vulnerability and mistake it for having found their soulmate only to have it fall apart once having worked through the pain.
I personally believe that you have to work on a relationship and its about making it work. It's partly about being compatible but also about working on it to become stronger
People: trying to get a girlfriend in real life
Me an intellectual: has a Minecraft girlfriend
showoff
Hollywood- "and then the sea cucumber took of her glasses, and she was beautiful!"
Sounds like a Pixar short.
My parents, both grandparents and all other relatives around me all only got married once except my uncle that got married twice and all happily stayed together for life and what I learned growing up with these role models is that you need to be best friends first. Best friends enjoy hanging out, works out problems, appreciate eachother, root for eachothers strengths and dreams, know how to compromise for teamwork, etc. Separating partner material and friend material is a bad idea because if you aren't friends how will you get along after 10-40 years?
Ambi Cahira
Exactly
The whole concept of friendship is the first building blocks of an actual functioning relationship
Almost had me with footmouse until I read "not a real product" and it looked like a regular mouse for your hands.
When people say that there was only ever one person to them and no one else could ever be they're other half, "that's because they're married to them and it would be expensive to say otherwise."
--- The Amazing World of Gumball
Footmouse sounds like something the FBI and anime girl computer hackers would use ngl
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When you rub your dogs ears, it releases oxytocin into their brain, and they feel secure and loved...
That's why dogs are so great. Thats all you have to do and they are yours forever...
My wife does back scratches.
She's damn good at it too, does it for me.
Yeah, dogs are a gift.
So, stay in love with your dogs, the male population will thank you.
my mans literally made the best ad for Raid: Shadow Legends that even he couldn’t hold his laugh in
You forgot the third mindset: giving up on romantic love (or never believing in it in the first place) and getting on with building yourself a nice, permanently single life.
Now that actually is what I want, a single life.
That pained smile as he starts reading out the raid sponsor 😂 ah, got eat somehow
You can be led to the right person for you at the time but if either person doesn’t grow with you or vice a versa it is not so. Soulmates are 2 people who want each other in every way possible and they find new ways to keep falling for each other
My soulmate=my right hand, Jameson and severe depression
LMFAOO 😂😂😂
Oof.
Plush Man i”m left handed
HAHA HAHAHAHA AHAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAAAAA. HAHAHA hAHAHAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA. Seriously funny & original shit right here ^^^^
also anxiety
"I believe in free will because I have to" (Spinoza)
What's the relevance here?
Wait... What?
"You don't need to but you should. "
-Me
"Footmouse" oh man, this is one of the reasons why I love Thoughty2's content. I seriously can go six hours straight watching Thoughty2 videos.
His skin looks so flawless
As a human biologist, it is fascinating to learn about the biological basis of attraction. By now, it is well established that olfactory cues are partially responsible for attraction. This is very likely associated with the MHC locus in our DNA which is very important for fighting off pathogens. We seem to be more attracted to people with a very different MHC locus, thereby giving offsprings higher genetic diversity leading to a better survival of the human species (would love to make a video about that myself after I finished my COVID-19 evolution video). Not very poetic but biologically romantic.
LET...
ME...
SEE!!!
(You are so getting sub, thanks for existing xD)
If you enjoy each other's company, find each other attractive and have similar values you should settle. Those are the three main things you should keep in mind, even if there MIGHT exist somebody who's perfect in every way out there