@McZidanne Looks like you didn't get what I was trying to say. My message was for people that chase women all the time, while their life is shit. I'm 21, single, and after many years of chasing women I realized that life is not all about getting a woman and getting married. I started to focus at finding myself and to start to learn new skills that will become useful in the near future.
@@viking7142 If ur talking about urself, im sorry for u. However, in my opinion, vitiligo if used correctly and with a good enough attitude can actually be perceived as hot these days cuz of all the change and weird stuff going on making everything normal or interesting
The trick is to get on the stage and also make eye contact whilst playing something. I remember playing Hoochie Coochie man by Muddy Waters which has the the line ''I wanna mess with you.'' and when I got to that line I looked straight into her eyes. it worked.
Points Summarized: 1. Be Confident, but vulnerable. 2. Make eye contact. 3. On a first date, go somewhere warm and let yourself be embarrassed 4. Make small physical contact (e.g. forearm) 5. Don't act desperate. 6. Try to ask Arthur Aron's 36 Questions. 7. Try to be the best you Be funny; have a good social life; connect with your partner; be assertive; smile; be kind; have a nice living space; dress well; lose weight Males: have a dog; be a musician; have survivalist-like hobbies Females: Wear red 8. Understand your own insecurities
thoughty2: have extremely large breasts. me: well well well, time to *shine* Thoughty2: this one is definitely if ur female also me: *looks of disappointment*
Mr Arron, You deserve a special prize from TH-cam for your truly uplifting and encouraging delivery about the most complex aspect of humanhood: the relationship. As quick contibute: some specialist psychological studies have proven that many cognitive functions, to be accomplished successfully, require the complementarity of two differently oriented minds, of a male/female attitude. Mostly because of the different thresholds in understanding of the pathways that, starting with needs, feelings, emotions - then translate into spoken words. The same phrase, listened by a male and a female, can give way to very different understanding, which a loving couple can fuse into a truly mirable comprension of underlying facts. BTW I don't know of any really good textbook about differential phsicology. Socrates famously stated "Gnosce te ipsum", know yourself - first. Incredibly, only a minority of people does it, because it is the most daunting task the human mind is called to exercise over itself. Other studies and some fiction (The Harvard Professor) shows that the most successful person have the ability of removing themself completely from their deliveries or observations, leading to most impressive results. A layperson is able to "cancel" themselves from their mental activities for a period of 5 to 12 milliseconds; a great orator, demagogue, minister, scientist or phylosopher can achieve a period of "Self - AWOL" above 5 full SECONDS; in that lapse of time, some fantastic and true images, situations, and convincing others became the pinnacle of human communication, typical of the most successful politicians, leaders, and groundbreaking science; I mention Copernicus, Maxwell, Newton, Dirac, Fermi, Einstein, Lise Meitner. To achieve their discoveries, the grade and the length of total mental abstraction has been somewhat un-natural, of a genius nested into another genius. I believe that the dynamics of relationship should be a matter of study starting in elementary schools. "Gnosce te ipsum" would give every person the knowledge of if they are a grain of sand, a pebble, a brick or a meteor, and how a person could act upon themselves to live in harmony. Thank you again for the inspiring video.
I have to say, I can personally attest to the truth behind all this. Throughout my dating life I have practiced eye contact, confidence and openness to being vulnerable and it has repeatedly given me the power to attract almost any woman I desired (and quite a few I did not. LOL). That being said, after years of discovering that long term relationships come with many strings attached, I have chosen to simplify my life and back away from romance and I am now am very content being single and enjoying my cat and ice cream in my later years. :-).
Yes I’m sure all his content comes from him personally organically...and he has no team of people compiling interesting information, because that would make too much sense.
Yes and I'm sure that OP meant to minimize the efforts of tens of people...and he has no idea about the process of making a video for someone whose literal identity is Thoughty2, because only thanking the production crew makes far too much sense.
Travis lol I know when I get two replies that I really touched a nerve. 42(how he pronounces his name every video) is alright, but he’s propped up, and not terrible accurate. I enjoy his stories as much as your passionate reply to my low key call out of your naivety to how 42 operates.
Just to throw an exception into the statistics, my wife and I met in an AOL chat room in 1994, discovered we lived 160 miles apart, long-distance dated a while. Moved in together and got married. We moved from the US to Mexico a year ago to retire. We'll have our 26 year anniversary this October. Some things just work out despite the odds.
Hope you two are doing great! Congratulations to you both. That's a great story. I wonder how many people watching this have actually used an AOL chat room lol.
@ Mr Trump,id say that was beautiful odds.Like the previous commenters i do hope you’re both in grand shape and here’s to many more wonderful years my friend.🤍 Stay happy with life guys 🌹
I thought more of: no! you´re gonna marry your cousin Jaspreet... (arranged marriages, including distant relatives, are very common among Hindus and Muslims)
Thoughty: Just invest in a dog and let him do the seducing for you Me, a person who is allergic to dogs and really wants a big cute doggo: What a great idea, why didn't I think of that?
You should get a type of schnauzer. They're my favorite dog breed and also happen to be hypoallergenic. There are mini schnauzers, standard schnauzers, and giant schnauzers.
Your style presentation is your strong suit, and this video is a perfect example. Keep doing what you do--this video was excellent despite the topic that has been addressed in countless other videos!
Creepy actually love and romance should be natural. Not calculated and strategized... Anyone seriously watching this hoping to learn how to manipulate someone into loving them has problems.
@@heyokawanderer3185 Many things come with experience but some people, especially due to insecurities, never get to make enough experience. It's not less valid if you know the mechanisms behind trough reading instead of trial and error, it still has to be applied. This is not manipulation, you are not manipulating if you do things (say dress well, touch, look in the eyes, talk about deeper things) to appear more attractive, we all do it hopefully. There are manipulation techniques but this is not the case
Straight up did half of this shit with my girlfriend when we first started dating. Spit sushi at her on our second date and basically embarrassed myself constantly. Plus tons of eye contact and confidence. More in love with her now than ever ❤❤❤
If you're open to the possibility, love will come to you. If you open up a little more, you'll love was always there, inside you. If you want love, and feel that your life is loveless, then you'll just keep getting no love. So, hold it within yourself first.
Wait so hold, Romeo and Juliet was based upon the real life love affair of Cleopatra and Marc Anthony! 😯 Well I've definitely learned something from this video.
you meant to say, "as a socially awkward and socially anxious person"? cause I, for one, am also an introvert and I see nothing in this video that wouldn't be doable
I think @no one was crystal clear. You either aren't an actual introvert or you just had to go ahead and make baseless criticism to make yourself superior. Socializing requires high energy for an introvert. It doesn't matter if one is confident, insecure, has social phobia or any of that stuff. Doing so requires stepping out of the comfort zone (their own mind). For lazy people getting up from couch to grab the remote is a nuisance, that's not to imply lazy people are insecure about getting up. They'd rather not do it, is all. That conclusion was so shallow.
This is one of the few videos I see everyday that stick in my memory. Really I can’t stop watching. You are better than documentaries. You are better than nature shows.
Falling in love and staying in love are very diferent thought. The same things that make you fall in love, can later on be the reason to fall out of it. That feeling of love you feel at first is less the result of the person's actions, and more of your own craving for the sweet chemicals your brain releases during it, so you are prone to make yourself eager to develop that person's personality and traits in your mind, creating an image you will most certainly love, but will be diferent from what the person actually is like.
This comment makes zero sense.. If it's just a craving for chemicals won't we be able to direct it at anyone regardless of who they are? Obviously the chemicals are incited by that particular person for a reason? However, I think you get it the other way around. It's not that we develop thr person personality we fell in love with in our heads , it's that when we are newly attracted it feels si good we ignored the other person's faults. However, people usually don't act completely like themsleves when they are dating someone new than when they do have been years with someone, so that also is another factor why it's easy to overlook faults initially. .
@@farahjichi4617 maybe, but you can direct it at anyone at all. First, you look for the good things about them, then take whatever you don’t like, and justify it in your head until it either becomes a good thing, or a sad thing which you will pity until it becomes “the beauty behind an ugly thing”. The mind is impressively easy to trick, if you know how to. And yes, I tried that. I still understood that my feelings were fabricated, but the part responsible for chemicals was fooled. Then there is also the “you want what you can’t have” method when you find yourself desperately wanting someone for a reason you never gave yourself. But that is used by the other person.
Honestly the short game I’m fine, long game though is where I struggle. That’s why I used to stop dating a year in. You know the “you changed!” thing? I got the opposite issue. I’m the same person I was at the start. No one ever takes me seriously early on into dating but If the relationship goes on for a couple years they get it. The things they laughed at me for saying caused my relationship issues they finally get. I have looked the same since high school and I like how I look so I keep it up. I’m a goof ball who likes to make you smile and difficult things make me uncomfortable so I try to make light of it in order to elevate the mood. I’m so confident I can make you doubt yourself no matter how much I try to tell you you are amazing. My current girlfriend and I have lived together and been together for 4 years and only started having issues recently because I’m the same person she fell in love with. She still loves me and I’m still her best friend. Still together too. Loves our life and loving with me. No clue what to do lol so a video like this just tells me why I’m good at the first part and makes me think some people think if they get past that they are golden. I’m here to say I honestly think part 1 is easy. I think keeping them interested is what’s hard. So best of luck everyone. It’s not an easy road unless you settle
@Pratyush Kishore Oh no I agree, it’s just sometimes I do it accidentally and it gets akward but I do like the fact that I can make others laugh, a little laugh does go a long way
I feel it comes down to how compatable we are with someone on all levels Like I know for a fact physical compatibility is easy and common but everything else comes down to knowing each other by going on dates
This man has to be my favorite youtuber for a few reasons One he makes incredibly informative videos Two he makes them hilarious and enjoyable to watch three we have the same name so that’s pretty cool And much more keep making great content 42!
I’m relieved that this video is making me feel better. I’m newly single. I’m definitely feeling awesome about my decision to invest in myself and rely on myself for the first time in years.
@@AP-yx1mm A Simp is a man who lowers himself to be abused, disrespected and shamed by a woman in hopes he gets Liked. He also will often come to defend the shitty actions of said woman and become a yes man to her to try and 'impress her' and maybe get liked. Its basically a man with no self respect for himself or his gender.
So much great detail in one video. Definitely worth watching every minute. However if you want to get back to something that was particularly interesting to you, here you go: Minute 11:53 A series of questions which helps develop intimacy starts here. Min 13:45 things you can do to make yourself more attractive.
Yeah... Relationship is an effort after all. I have my type, I think, but Good luck finding that type of woman. Especially if part of it is intelligence and I'm far from it.
Its all in the eyes !! ... TRUTH ! I wrote this before he talked about it I should know ..been married three times ! I never ever worried about any man if I could or couldn't attract them ..I always knew that trick !!
Oddly enough I got to a point rather early in life where I didn't want to be in a relationship. I didn't want attention or to be "hit on". It yielded the opposite result.
This was eye opening. I've met many women that love to play games and are unhappy because they cannot find anyone. Now it all makes sense. These games are a barrier to intimacy.
this is actually very easy call a pond love then take the person with you and push them in the pond while you jump in it yourelf. someone fell in love with you
Of course you can touch people. if you get all creepy about it then it's not going to be well received. Or if you use the touch inappropriately. Say your timing is off or your brushing of the forearm is completely out of context.... then thats just weird and you need to practice your social skills. But touching people is normal. We're human and we need touch. But like taking to someone, how you do it matters.
@@Teresastace1 even if you're hot, if you touch a person (inappropriately) it's still wrong. lmfao if a hot person touched me i'd kick them, because ✨self-repect✨
What happens if you have all 4 attachment styles but it's dependent on the relationship? Like, you are secure in one and then in the next you are needy, in another you are dismissive, and in yet another you are avoidant and bug out?
I came here to make a girl fall in love with me but now I've become a historian. Thank you Thoughty2.
Ja ha
Same thoughts lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You're in luck! I love historians!
Did it work
Its quite simple:
Be a protagonist in a Netflix teen romcom, no matter how manipulative, sociopathic, plain or unsympathetic you are.
Yup, you'll bag everyone that way!
Twisted on ABC worked pretty good. Awesome show. With avan jogia. 😂
true
Don't do that...
Don't give me hope
Edit: thank you for 3k likes I love you all
Too real man, too real
"You cannot kill hope" To quote Varok Saurfang ;)
Just focus on yourself and stop chasing women. Simple as that.
I hope this is just a funny ironic comment, but you know context and the such.
@McZidanne Looks like you didn't get what I was trying to say. My message was for people that chase women all the time, while their life is shit. I'm 21, single, and after many years of chasing women I realized that life is not all about getting a woman and getting married. I started to focus at finding myself and to start to learn new skills that will become useful in the near future.
If embarrassing yourself makes you attractive then I am the most attractive guy in the world.
My new religion right there
It’s how you react to embarrassment that matters. If you’re truly, truly not ashamed, you look great.
Ladies ladies calm down one at a time
Tiny mushrooms are soooo cute!0)))
Me too
The worst combination is being scared of getting hurt AND lack of self confidence, because then you get nothing. Absolutely nothing.
No, the worst combination is having being abused as a child plus having the skin condition called vitiligo. Life on a hell mode ftw
Welp, that's me.
@@viking7142 Yeah, that's pretty bad, man.
Come on, stop being so negative... It all matters on the other person as well 😉.
@@viking7142 If ur talking about urself, im sorry for u. However, in my opinion, vitiligo if used correctly and with a good enough attitude can actually be perceived as hot these days cuz of all the change and weird stuff going on making everything normal or interesting
"Falling in love that is, not suicide"
'Puts the gun down'
I'm glad you cleared that up
😂😂😂😂😂😂LMAO
“purposefully embarrass yourself on the first date” trust me buddy i don’t have so do it on purpose
edit: my bols is hot
Lmao, true
lol Jamess. Me too.
Not liking so it can stay at 369*
So here are attractive guys.
The hard part is to STOP embarrassing myself😂
Crush: I don't know why but I've been thinking about you lately
Me lately:
Hahahaha good one!
Crevetta Shrek is love. Shrek is life
Go for the back rub. Shirt gets in the way, break out the oil, bra gets in the way....the rest is history. Works every time.
@@p_campbell no shit. really?
@@Tryckert except shrek the third. That movie doesn't exist
“Especially if your usual self is a sack of shit” I’m crying 😂
I would say that his comment hurt a lot of people, but those people tend to not be self aware.
This
hahahahaha...
girl: "let's have a staring contest!"
me: "it's show time"
girl: "AHHH MY EYES"
I win this, sleep with eyes open!🤣
Thoughty2: “however there are some benefits”
Person: *slowly turns to knife*
Thoughty2: “love not suicide!”
*Looks at noose longingly* perhaps next time old friend
*puts gun back in the closet*
Its the answer they say. *5 minutes pass* "Love, not suicide"
Lmfaooo
*takes shotgun out of mouth*
I got really excited when he said," and definitely have large breasts" . Then he said I have to be a woman 😢
🤣🤡
Ha ha
😂😂😂
Nah, I like A cup girls
He had us in the first half not gonna lie
ah yes 5 years later of searching "how to ask out my crush" we are back to this
Step one: ask out your crush
Step two: crying at the discotheque.
Ask
Be chill if she says no
Your true colors will show
If they choose you they're right for you
If not you weren't for each other
@@thijsjong ,Step Two is get rejected then starts to cry
Xeno Phon As the saying goes “If I had a dollar for every time I have been rejected, I wouldn’t be rejected”
Hugh mungus is the sexist man alive. He can seduce even the biggest of mammals!!!
"You want the closeness but too afraid of the vulnerability that comes with it"
Damn it
Meanwhile I am here like "nah... thats not it, I just like being lazy, and that shit is not attractive!" 🤣
"Become a musician"
Me playing piano and guitar for almost a 10 years ; 🤔
Can confirm that’s attractive, time to start reevaluating other avenues
The trick is to get on the stage and also make eye contact whilst playing something. I remember playing Hoochie Coochie man by Muddy Waters which has the the line ''I wanna mess with you.'' and when I got to that line I looked straight into her eyes. it worked.
This works
I hAvE bEeN pLaYiNg pIaNo AnD gUiTaR fOr TeN yEaRs...
Ariel Castro played the guitar but he got girls by abducting them.
Points Summarized:
1. Be Confident, but vulnerable.
2. Make eye contact.
3. On a first date, go somewhere warm and let yourself be embarrassed
4. Make small physical contact (e.g. forearm)
5. Don't act desperate.
6. Try to ask Arthur Aron's 36 Questions.
7. Try to be the best you
Be funny; have a good social life; connect with your partner; be assertive; smile; be kind; have a nice living space; dress well; lose weight
Males: have a dog; be a musician; have survivalist-like hobbies
Females: Wear red
8. Understand your own insecurities
bro with the prices of gas there are no warm places.
@@evilmemelord7535 😂
And if you're a woman have big breasts!😄
Don't forget have big boobs
I usually dont buy into these kinda things but when it's my boy 42 I'll buy it.
I'm here to inform you I'm the 69th like on this comment.
@@SurprisinglyDynamicAnimeSideC Gureto desu yo
lol, my thoughts exactly
heyyy 42 here
See what you did there
I 40 it was fouseytube
thoughty2: have extremely large breasts.
me: well well well, time to *shine*
Thoughty2: this one is definitely if ur female
also me: *looks of disappointment*
lmaoo I get it
manboobs
I felt the same when he suggested "smiling"...ha!
😂😂😂😂
Had us in the first half, not gonna lie
Mr Arron,
You deserve a special prize from TH-cam for your truly uplifting and encouraging delivery about the most complex aspect of humanhood: the relationship.
As quick contibute: some specialist psychological studies have proven that many cognitive functions, to be accomplished successfully, require the complementarity of two differently oriented minds, of a male/female attitude. Mostly because of the different thresholds in understanding of the pathways that, starting with needs, feelings, emotions - then translate into spoken words. The same phrase, listened by a male and a female, can give way to very different understanding, which a loving couple can fuse into a truly mirable comprension of underlying facts. BTW I don't know of any really good textbook about differential phsicology.
Socrates famously stated "Gnosce te ipsum", know yourself - first. Incredibly, only a minority of people does it, because it is the most daunting task the human mind is called to exercise over itself. Other studies and some fiction (The Harvard Professor) shows that the most successful person have the ability of removing themself completely from their deliveries or observations, leading to most impressive results. A layperson is able to "cancel" themselves from their mental activities for a period of 5 to 12 milliseconds; a great orator, demagogue, minister, scientist or phylosopher can achieve a period of "Self - AWOL" above 5 full SECONDS; in that lapse of time, some fantastic and true images, situations, and convincing others became the pinnacle of human communication, typical of the most successful politicians, leaders, and groundbreaking science; I mention Copernicus, Maxwell, Newton, Dirac, Fermi, Einstein, Lise Meitner. To achieve their discoveries, the grade and the length of total mental abstraction has been somewhat un-natural, of a genius nested into another genius.
I believe that the dynamics of relationship should be a matter of study starting in elementary schools. "Gnosce te ipsum" would give every person the knowledge of if they are a grain of sand, a pebble, a brick or a meteor, and how a person could act upon themselves to live in harmony.
Thank you again for the inspiring video.
I have to say, I can personally attest to the truth behind all this. Throughout my dating life I have practiced eye contact, confidence and openness to being vulnerable and it has repeatedly given me the power to attract almost any woman I desired (and quite a few I did not. LOL). That being said, after years of discovering that long term relationships come with many strings attached, I have chosen to simplify my life and back away from romance and I am now am very content being single and enjoying my cat and ice cream in my later years. :-).
Can’t describe how much I rate the effort and time you put into every video you make, and how often you post👌
Here here
It truly is incredible.
It’s an art form
Nah he's already become a natural over the years. I don't think he put in much effort at all.
Stfu its his job
All jokes aside, his mustache probably attracts a lot of women. He's got it well groomed and stuff.
By God, you and all your clones or whatever the crap are everywhere. I'll find everyone of your comments, I swear if it's the last thing I do.
*clears throat* THIS DUDE IS IN EVERY DAMN VIDEO I WATCH!!!
hi lol
Ahh the legend has spoken once more... this video is now blessed.!
Sounds like something a guy without a mustache would say.... oh.
Can we all take a moment to appreciate Thoughty2's constant flow of high quality videos?
He deserves much appreciation!
Yes I’m sure all his content comes from him personally organically...and he has no team of people compiling interesting information, because that would make too much sense.
Yes and I'm sure that OP meant to minimize the efforts of tens of people...and he has no idea about the process of making a video for someone whose literal identity is Thoughty2, because only thanking the production crew makes far too much sense.
@@iBMcFly Go away, and try not to trivialize any more kind comments, yeah?
The flow is constant alright, but the quality varies greatly.
Travis lol I know when I get two replies that I really touched a nerve. 42(how he pronounces his name every video) is alright, but he’s propped up, and not terrible accurate.
I enjoy his stories as much as your passionate reply to my low key call out of your naivety to how 42 operates.
Lol TH-cam be like: “You’re so bad at it that I need to recommend you a video demonstrating how to get someone to love you.”
*That was a great burn*
69 likes:)
Damn
"When your personality is sack of shit" "cats and ice cream" man... its all me 😃
keep ur cat away from my parrot.
Just to throw an exception into the statistics, my wife and I met in an AOL chat room in 1994, discovered we lived 160 miles apart, long-distance dated a while. Moved in together and got married. We moved from the US to Mexico a year ago to retire. We'll have our 26 year anniversary this October. Some things just work out despite the odds.
What a nice story you can be very happy
I Hope you're doing well.
ThAts so sweet
Hope you two are doing great! Congratulations to you both. That's a great story. I wonder how many people watching this have actually used an AOL chat room lol.
@ Mr Trump,id say that was beautiful odds.Like the previous commenters i do hope you’re both in grand shape and here’s to many more wonderful years my friend.🤍
Stay happy with life guys 🌹
People meet there partners by 7% through family
*Let me guess, Alabama*
cousins 2nd above. It's ok
Kentucky
their*
Hi oh yeah yeah guys
Geschichten ausm Saarland...
Especially if your usual self is a sack of $hit hahahahahha, I'm crying 6:50
Brutal,
*Reports video:*
‘I have been mentioned in this video, and I don’t like it’
I thought he was talking directly to me there. Thoughty really knows how to connect with his youtube audience
@@lukechandra6233 on god
"And 7% through family"
I've seen that one...
Sweet home Alabama
Read is good De waterkant Oh yeah
This is honestly one of the most legit videos on relations and love that ive watched. Damn you're good thoughty2
Thoughty2 is my personal tinder advisor 😜
Eric J bro how did you comment an hour ago
Video was privated?
Anonymous 27 We are Members we get early access and other things.
Anonymous 27
Oh oh oh it’s magic...
Imagine searching for love in tinder lol.
7% of love through family
*ALABAMA INTENSIFIES*
Roll tide
I thought more of: no! you´re gonna marry your cousin Jaspreet...
(arranged marriages, including distant relatives, are very common among Hindus and Muslims)
😂😂😂😭😭
Stolen comment
@Nikhil Pawar I know one Hindu and several Muslims where it happened and some have genetic defects because of it...
Of course Thoughty2 never needed to employ these techniques because his mustache does all the heavy lifting.
He hasn't had it for so long xd
He looks better without it to be honest.
The mustache is what got Miss current Thoughty 2
LosTacos get that man a beard
@@oilersridersbluejays splish splash your opinion is trash
Such a wholesome lad. I've appreciated this channel for a long time. Thanks for being here, bud.
Thoughty: Just invest in a dog and let him do the seducing for you
Me, a person who is allergic to dogs and really wants a big cute doggo: What a great idea, why didn't I think of that?
You should get a type of schnauzer. They're my favorite dog breed and also happen to be hypoallergenic. There are mini schnauzers, standard schnauzers, and giant schnauzers.
well,what avout a kitty?
@@loneneotank.5687 Sure, If he wants to get himself a crazy cat lady
9:57 "another sneaky brain trick is to purposely embarrass yourself on the first date"
oh don't worry, I wont have to do it on purpose
I love how the girl at 5:12 answered to a "hey, are we still on for later?" with a heart.
Hey mom, can you buy some cereal?
Mom:🤪
Girl: "Who do you go to for advice about love?"
Me, an intellectual: "Thoughty2, obviously."
Makes sense to me
@Ben Dover you must be fun at parties
Nah 42 is better, its the answer after all.
@J C What the hell is a ReichWing? It looks as if you are trying to say he is a very wealthy pig with wings.
Ben Dover he says 42 at the beginning of every video
"...You'll be resigned to a life of cats & ice cream."
I'm in.
Cats...check. BRB. Gotta run to the grocery store....
Your style presentation is your strong suit, and this video is a perfect example. Keep doing what you do--this video was excellent despite the topic that has been addressed in countless other videos!
Them: "So.. where do you see yourself later tonight ;)?"
Me who knows nothing about flirting: *"hopefully with a large bowl of cereal! You?"*
Honesty *ding 1 point*
Who tf eats cereal at night
Ron Loc cereal tastes better at night
Ron Loc lots of people,you freak
honesty id find that responce kinda cute
"to purposefully embarras yourself"
i don't even have to do this on purpose
It's sad that people have to deliberately use psychology to get a partner, with that being said... Time to watch!
Well ya know all animals do it, mating dances, also known as flexing by humans
Creepy actually love and romance should be natural. Not calculated and strategized... Anyone seriously watching this hoping to learn how to manipulate someone into loving them has problems.
42 likes lol
Omg 🤦🏼♂️😂
@@heyokawanderer3185 Many things come with experience but some people, especially due to insecurities, never get to make enough experience.
It's not less valid if you know the mechanisms behind trough reading instead of trial and error, it still has to be applied.
This is not manipulation, you are not manipulating if you do things (say dress well, touch, look in the eyes, talk about deeper things) to appear more attractive, we all do it hopefully.
There are manipulation techniques but this is not the case
Straight up did half of this shit with my girlfriend when we first started dating. Spit sushi at her on our second date and basically embarrassed myself constantly. Plus tons of eye contact and confidence. More in love with her now than ever ❤❤❤
Brave of you to assume i can make someone fall in love with me
Your hand will always love you
If you're open to the possibility, love will come to you. If you open up a little more, you'll love was always there, inside you. If you want love, and feel that your life is loveless, then you'll just keep getting no love. So, hold it within yourself first.
@@audreydoyle5268 so true
if you are a woman then its quite easy
@@Blox117 No, no it's not. And even when it happens, it's often not the person you want.
Wait so hold, Romeo and Juliet was based upon the real life love affair of Cleopatra and Marc Anthony! 😯
Well I've definitely learned something from this video.
You know there was an extremelly well-known play by Shakespeare about Marc Anthony and Cleopatra, right?
impalaSS65 was it called Romeo and Juliet
@@shz603 Anthony and Cleopatra.
I thought the original story was about Pyramus and Thisbe
„You killed me, and by killing me you made me stronger“
- Sephiroth
@@Ecktor You're out of luck, until you've gone duck.
-Howard.
If everything's a dream, don't wake me.
- cloud strife
"every 60 seconds in africa, a minute passes". random philosopher.
"Not interested"
- Cloud Strife
"I donut - ed jupiter" - sephiroth
14:22
"And lastly, have incredibly large breasts" Kalm
"And this one's definitely if you're female" Panik
But what about butts?
Small and medium breast are fine too. You good fam
As an introvert, that whole video sounds like a joke to me
you meant to say, "as a socially awkward and socially anxious person"? cause I, for one, am also an introvert and I see nothing in this video that wouldn't be doable
@@nannuky1128 I've never said it wasn't doable
@@noone-tq7cs what do you even mean then?
I think @no one was crystal clear. You either aren't an actual introvert or you just had to go ahead and make baseless criticism to make yourself superior.
Socializing requires high energy for an introvert. It doesn't matter if one is confident, insecure, has social phobia or any of that stuff. Doing so requires stepping out of the comfort zone (their own mind).
For lazy people getting up from couch to grab the remote is a nuisance, that's not to imply lazy people are insecure about getting up. They'd rather not do it, is all.
That conclusion was so shallow.
@@stonerawks9882 lmao, I didn't say it was easy, I said it was doable
This is one of the few videos I see everyday that stick in my memory. Really I can’t stop watching. You are better than documentaries. You are better than nature shows.
True love is when she stops trying to escape your basement
Relatable! :)
Well said
That's gold. The truth is sometimes not politically correct. Lol
Does this still count if she's dead? It does right?
Awww. Ain't stockholm just so romantic.
“Recommended for you”
Benefits of suicide: Live longer
Oh, it's big brain time
Mr Cookie I think he meant the benefits of falling in love
@@natebit8130 naw mate, I think ur rong.
Falling in love and staying in love are very diferent thought. The same things that make you fall in love, can later on be the reason to fall out of it. That feeling of love you feel at first is less the result of the person's actions, and more of your own craving for the sweet chemicals your brain releases during it, so you are prone to make yourself eager to develop that person's personality and traits in your mind, creating an image you will most certainly love, but will be diferent from what the person actually is like.
This comment makes zero sense.. If it's just a craving for chemicals won't we be able to direct it at anyone regardless of who they are? Obviously the chemicals are incited by that particular person for a reason? However, I think you get it the other way around. It's not that we develop thr person personality we fell in love with in our heads , it's that when we are newly attracted it feels si good we ignored the other person's faults. However, people usually don't act completely like themsleves when they are dating someone new than when they do have been years with someone, so that also is another factor why it's easy to overlook faults initially. .
@@farahjichi4617 maybe, but you can direct it at anyone at all. First, you look for the good things about them, then take whatever you don’t like, and justify it in your head until it either becomes a good thing, or a sad thing which you will pity until it becomes “the beauty behind an ugly thing”. The mind is impressively easy to trick, if you know how to. And yes, I tried that. I still understood that my feelings were fabricated, but the part responsible for chemicals was fooled. Then there is also the “you want what you can’t have” method when you find yourself desperately wanting someone for a reason you never gave yourself. But that is used by the other person.
"They're comfortable making themselves vulnerable..."
N O P E
Aight, am outta hereee
LOL, that will be most of us, too!
Honestly the short game I’m fine, long game though is where I struggle. That’s why I used to stop dating a year in. You know the “you changed!” thing? I got the opposite issue. I’m the same person I was at the start. No one ever takes me seriously early on into dating but If the relationship goes on for a couple years they get it. The things they laughed at me for saying caused my relationship issues they finally get. I have looked the same since high school and I like how I look so I keep it up. I’m a goof ball who likes to make you smile and difficult things make me uncomfortable so I try to make light of it in order to elevate the mood. I’m so confident I can make you doubt yourself no matter how much I try to tell you you are amazing. My current girlfriend and I have lived together and been together for 4 years and only started having issues recently because I’m the same person she fell in love with. She still loves me and I’m still her best friend. Still together too. Loves our life and loving with me. No clue what to do lol so a video like this just tells me why I’m good at the first part and makes me think some people think if they get past that they are golden. I’m here to say I honestly think part 1 is easy. I think keeping them interested is what’s hard. So best of luck everyone. It’s not an easy road unless you settle
Honestly, the fact that physical proximity to someone is extremely important is something I long suspected living in the middle of nowhere.
When he listed things that makes people more likely to like you, I realized I have almost nothing lol
@Pratyush Kishore I do that a lot unintentionally at times😂
@Pratyush Kishore Oh no I agree, it’s just sometimes I do it accidentally and it gets akward but I do like the fact that I can make others laugh, a little laugh does go a long way
I feel it comes down to how compatable we are with someone on all levels
Like I know for a fact physical compatibility is easy and common but everything else comes down to knowing each other by going on dates
Moral of this Story: If you want a long, health relationship: Don't Piss off Octavian
“Just be yourself. Terrible advice, I know. Especially if your regular self is a sack of shit.”
This. This is why I love this channel
HAVE A MORE VIBRANT SOCIAL LIFE
*Shows isolated people standing with their phones*
Lol
Online Society be like.
This man has to be my favorite youtuber for a few reasons
One he makes incredibly informative videos
Two he makes them hilarious and enjoyable to watch
three we have the same name so that’s pretty cool
And much more keep making great content 42!
DON'T WATCH THIS BEFORE YOU GO TO SLEEP!!! You will have a lot of thinking to do after that and won't be able to sleep.
Well I just finished it lmao
Happens every night so I'm gonna just keep trying to find the funny comments
To late bud
Oops...
I see you speak from experience 🥜
I’m relieved that this video is making me feel better. I’m newly single. I’m definitely feeling awesome about my decision to invest in myself and rely on myself for the first time in years.
It’s 3 things: confidence, understanding social cues and hygene . That’s all there is too it
To it.
I get it you make them simp for you so you aren't a simp,this is revolutionary. You are truly a master of the craft
@@j.d.v2.09 you need to learn to take a joke
In a meeting,
Friends : Well, we invested in a multi million business project!How about you?
Me : I invested in a dog!
*Me: try to make eye contact*
*She: screams.. Police! Police*
Plot twist: Your name is Police
@@nickname2324 idk man for some reason they mostly call me help or rape even tho my name is dave kinda strange
Thats just Dave but in another language.
NICKNAME 😂😂😂
sock 😂😂😂🤦🏻♀️
This made me want to watch HBO's "Rome" again..
I know right
This is one of the most important and valuable videos I have ever seen on TH-cam.
Tom Sisson
Rule number 1: Be attractive.
Rule number 2: Don't be unattractive.
Rule 3: see rule 1
Instructions unclear, I’m now a dog
Damn
I'm a bot.
Rule #1 be attractive
Rule #2 have money
Rule #3 don't be unattractive ****
World : "society is on the brink of collapse
Thoty2 : "how to make someone fall in love with you"
It'll be useful in the apocalypse
Only thoughty2
we need someone to be with just before everything collapse
*Thoty2*
As a simp this was an instaclick
not something to be proud of my man🤨
What's that?
@@AP-yx1mm A Simp is a man who lowers himself to be abused, disrespected and shamed by a woman in hopes he gets Liked. He also will often come to defend the shitty actions of said woman and become a yes man to her to try and 'impress her' and maybe get liked. Its basically a man with no self respect for himself or his gender.
Don't be one. Better to opt out of love and relationships than be a simp. Learn to be a Stoic instead.
Also watch Einzelganger.
Question: Is there a female equivalent for a SIMP?
So much great detail in one video. Definitely worth watching every minute. However if you want to get back to something that was particularly interesting to you, here you go:
Minute 11:53 A series of questions which helps develop intimacy starts here.
Min 13:45 things you can do to make yourself more attractive.
Well, watching Arran's vids did the trick. He doesn't need to do anything else. The stash, blue eyes, humor and wit got me hooked.😍😅
Me:I want to fall in love
Thoughty2:Ah yes here's how you do it
Me:Without going outside the house
Thoughty2:...........
My lazy ass don't even leave house and wants someone to fall in love with me
Yeah... Relationship is an effort after all. I have my type, I think, but Good luck finding that type of woman. Especially if part of it is intelligence and I'm far from it.
Same lol
Yeah, might want to stay inside for just a little longer...
Lol
My lazy ass don't even leave house and wants *a gorgeous thin & cute 25 yo chick* to fall in love with me /fixed
Thoughty2 is my favorite wing man.
winnie has spoken
you're the president of china do you even need a wing man?
Its all in the eyes !! ... TRUTH !
I wrote this before he talked about it
I should know ..been married three times ! I never ever worried about any man if I could or couldn't attract them ..I always knew that trick !!
“Look the person in the eye.”
“ *FOCUSING. FOCUSING. FOCUSING.* ”
How To Make Someone Fall In Love With You?
Answer: Heyyy Thoughty2 here.
Correct
Right
42
They won't be able to resist that godly noise
Me: Dont do this
42: Do what?
Me: *..give me hope*
"How to make someone fall in love with you"
100k people: *interesting...*
4:18 I'm glad he cleared that up for me
omg i thought he said suicide eases anxiety and makes you happy and i was like wait what
Even the subtitles think you’re saying ”hey 42 here”
He is saying 42...., He mentioned it in his 100000 sub q and a video..
Warning - This does not work if you are ugly af , I'm the living example
😢
Nobody's ugly everybody is attractive in their own way.
E X I L E D wrong. Trust me. I’ve been told to my face.
How to make someone fall in love with you:
Be good looking.
Being good looking can only take you so far. A good, funny and genuine personality is probably more attractive to 90% of women anyway
@@immigratoclandestino6259 And yet we see so many wonderful people get into abusive relationships and stick with those people.
Actually Cleopatra wasn’t as pretty as people make her out to be, it was her personality that drew people to her. :)
@@PlaceholderDoe123 all those Kodak Instamatic photos got out?
@@thomasblock1164 You don't need a photo. Her image was on the coinage, which still exists. Her profile was truly awful.
Oddly enough I got to a point rather early in life where I didn't want to be in a relationship. I didn't want attention or to be "hit on". It yielded the opposite result.
This was eye opening. I've met many women that love to play games and are unhappy because they cannot find anyone. Now it all makes sense. These games are a barrier to intimacy.
Mario: MWHAHAHAHAH PEACH IS FINALLY MINEEEEE
Luigi walks in
Peach:swoons
Crimson wolf 😔
I’m sorry, the princess is in another castle.
I’m going to use everything I learned here to make Thoughty2 fall in love with me lol.
If you didn't succeed I'll give it shot as well 😅.
Seems like you have competition 🤣
this is actually very easy
call a pond love then take the person with you and push them in the pond while you jump in it yourelf.
someone fell in love with you
And if they turn you down, hope they can't swim. 😉
Are you a guru?
bro thoughty2 i love your nonchalant comments man your funny keep it up
I scoffed at the title and thumbnail, but couldn't help but click anyways, because your content is great. Keep it up friend
Just grow that Thoughty mustache😂
Isn't it called a thoughtystache?
NO!!! IT'S A PEDO STACHE!!!!
I don't need anybody in my life, I want somebody.
you can't touch someone without being accused
You can if you’re hot
Of course you can touch people.
if you get all creepy about it then it's not going to be well received. Or if you use the touch inappropriately. Say your timing is off or your brushing of the forearm is completely out of context.... then thats just weird and you need to practice your social skills.
But touching people is normal. We're human and we need touch. But like taking to someone, how you do it matters.
@@Teresastace1 even if you're hot, if you touch a person (inappropriately) it's still wrong. lmfao if a hot person touched me i'd kick them, because ✨self-repect✨
@@yishi.4466 I was joking
@@Teresastace1 oof ik
*My Crush:* "He must be a playboy."
*Me:*
i mean its still better than ur crush NOT NOTICING YOU!
What happens if you have all 4 attachment styles but it's dependent on the relationship? Like, you are secure in one and then in the next you are needy, in another you are dismissive, and in yet another you are avoidant and bug out?