Okay, every time I hear stories about parents blaming their kids for “ruining their life”, I just keep thinking “CONDOMS ARE A THING! You don’t want kids? Take precautions to NOT. HAVE THEM!”
My daughter was an accident. I was stupid to not use protection, but I told her that she was the best mistake I ever made. Maybe not using mistake though. I think I said it once, but she was grown up. She is the best thing I ever did with my life.
@@SoManyRandomRamblings This is what we call the "if I deflect blame it will go away" card that doesn't work because what they're throwing is a boomerang, not a card.
Of course, none of my children ruined my life. Although my two sons were planned, and are wonderful, my daughter, who was a surprise, being born the year I turned 40, has enriched my life immensely. I couldn’t see my life without them!
It's ironic that the father calls OP "the biggest mistake of his life", when, in reality, OP was the only thing that he and his wife ever made that wasn't a complete failure. And yes, they peaked in high school and refuse to move on from it. If they weren't such disgusting parents, I'd pity them.
The only "mistake" was that OP's parents were too stupid to use protection. But of course, a couple of narcissists have to blame someone else for their bad choices.
@@girl1213 second hand stores sell em for cheap. a cheaper way is ask relatives if they still have old uniforms from when they were active duty. for example my father in law had his dog tags and other Military stuff until the day he died. I still have pics of my kids wearing his VFW hat
@@cryochick9044 no clue. husband has some uniforms but that's because he was in the Navy for 20 years, and they still look good. I do admit I wore a couple of his red shirts, and they're pretty comfortable to sleep in
I guess the concept "stranger danger" doesn't exist for people willing to leave their children with strangers. They teach stranger danger in preschool and kindergarten.
@@Joshth1983that's only because you're around people you know more than people you don't know. I personally think that's a stupid statistic because people don't think about what that means
@Joshth1983 you are more likely to be harmed by an individual you are around for extended periods, so yes, that is usually people you know. If your parents are foolish enough to just leave you with a complete stranger for extended periods, though, they will have the same opportunity as any other regular caretaker referenced in this statistic.
Yes, I am living independently for 33 years. College educated at 22, married at 28 with a mortgage age 29 and child age 32. In that order. My older brother, father's "golden boy" is a lazy, alcoholic, pothead, college dropout, bachelor, who lived in my parents' home until age 37.
Judging by how the Karen reacted when learning OP was gay and married you can bet that if the kids were allowed unsupervised by their mom to be in there then OP and hubby would have had legal problems.
Regardless of op being gay, why would you send any child over to play to an adults house when you don’t even know them? She should consider herself lucky that he was actually watching out for them (as well as himself). She sure as heck wasn’t!
Last story with Airpod Karen: Honestly I would have lost it when that last little piece dropped. Why would you give your expensive things to a 4 year old?
@@jameslawson5237 That was my first thought. 4 year olds are notorious for making objects small enough to fit in their mouths "disappear".....and then reappear a couple of days later
You did not ruin anyone's dream; they did that all by themselves when they decided to strip down and not use protection. Too bad that your paternal grandparents did not take you in and raise you as their own child. Edit: I am glad that they did, and I am so very sorry for your loss. Congratulations on your success, and if you must, get a Do Not Contact order against all 3 of them.
I never asked anything from my kids, but for a bit of advise. The kind of advise I knew they might have. I'm not stupid. I treated my kids with everything I could give to them, but that's all my choice. They don't owe me anything, ever. I just hope they had a good time.
Exactly. I was young (17) when I got pregnant like OPs parents but could NEVER even think that my daughter ruined my life. Did getting pregnant that young change the path of my life and make things hard... yes, but I'm the only person to blame for that. In fact she without a doubt saved my life given the road I was on back then. Having her young may be the most difficult thing I ever did but it was also the BEST thing I ever did.
Story 3: I was a father at 17, the one thing in my life that I've never regretted was staying with my wife and child. I got a lot of help from my parents and graduated high school, and did whatever I had to to support my family. My son has never been a mistake, burden, or unwanted. Glad OP had good grandparents.
I was 17 as well when I had my daughter. I had only met her father like a month or two before I found out I was pregnant so we tried to make it work and married when she was 10 months old and separated when she 2 and a half. She is 27 now and she is absolutely the single most difficult and the single greatest thing I've ever done. I have never regretted having her and can't imagine a parent ever telling their child that.
@@drakofox1362went do you think you're not a good dad? I think that if that's something you worry about then chances are you're not a bad dad. Bad dads don't care and usually go around trying to make themselves sound like they are great dads even though they know they don't do anything for their kids. As long as you love them and want to be in their life and participate as much as you can depending on your situation than you're a great dad.
I had turned 20 not quite 3 weeks before we had our oldest. Husbeast and I went on to have 2 more kids together. We've been married for 21 years, together for 24 years. That first kiddo we got pregnant with at 19 is now 22 himself. All 3 of ours have the brightest joys in our lives. Recently, we moved our oldest son's girlfriend in with us. Now we have 4 kids at home, and the joyous laughter has been so worth all the bumps along the way.
Story 2: I am very angry that the police left her there; she needs to be committed. For her own safety, and the safety of others who may not be able to handle her in a non-physical way.
How stupid can you be to blame your child you had in High School that they ruined your life? Not his fault. They should have used protection if it was going to ruin their dreams so badly.
Use Protection, keep it in your pants (AKA not have Sex in the first place) or give the unwanted kid up for Adoption... They could have chosen any of those Options...
The Karen in the first story I bet you if her neighbors were sex offenders and they even notified her that they were sex offenders she probably would still leave her kids with those types of people and even if they had to reminder all over again to her face they would just say oh well have a fun time with my kids because I'm having a hard time just because my boyfriend left me
Dude you're right I'm pretty sure even those people couldn't even handle those kids being in their hands knowing how that Karen trained her kids to be like her
Story 1: Karen: *complains about how her boyfriend left her, she can't afford her rent and needs alone time away from her kids after I refuse to babysit for her* Me: So when do you think you'll be moving away? Story 2: Sadly I've heard of instances like this where a thief will accuse their mark of stealing from them then getting the police involved to 'get it back'. I remember hearing a story where a guy had his car stolen because a lady called the cops and accused him of stealing it, all while saying to his face before she called that he was too young to own such a nice car and that he must have stolen it. The cop who sided with the thief ended up losing his job or something, and the woman was eventually arrested though the car had already been stripped down for parts. And I agree with another commenter who said that the cops should have seen to this woman being escorted off of OP's property in this instance. Story 3: "Like, abandoning your own child, only to come back years later demanding what they think they deserve." Sounds to me like all they deserve is a giant middle finger. Story 4: If anyone came in close to close bitching about losing Airpods and refusing to leave until we found them, she wouldn't have been the one calling the cops. I have no tolerance for that kind of shit, so I would have called them, telling them we have someone who is tresspassing and refusing to leave the store after we offered to take her info in the event we find them. Also, don't just let your 4 year old child/grandchild play with your expensive airpods because they're bored and you can't be bothered to deal with her boredom.
Inheritance Story: If I were in OP's place, I'd have gone Full No Contact with the entire 'Family' except for my Grandparents and the moment they started harassing me regarding Grandpa's Will, I'd have gotten a Restraining Order (Mo Contact, Stay Away from me and my Property) against them...they would still be able to Sue me to contest the Will, but to avoid getting Arrested for Violating the RO, they'd have to have all communications to me through their Lawyer...
@@gothgirl4evr881 Under normal circumstances, contact through a Lawyer would Violate the RO... However, IF they're initiating Contact via a Lawyer due to current/pending Litigation, it's allowed because when 2 Parties are involved in Litigation (Lawsuit/Trial etc.), they MUST be able to pass information/Evidence/Affidavits between each other and the Lawyers will NOT allow the passage of information not relevant to the Case or that could even remotely be construed as Harassing/Threatening etc. (or at least they'll block all such communications if they want to stay out of Jail and keep their License to Practice Law anyway)... Basically, if I have a No Contact RO against Karen and she Sues me, she tells her Lawyer what she wants me to know and they in turn will tell my Lawyer the message who will then tell me the message, usually by Email to prevent distortion of the information as it passes through multiple hands, her Lawyer and my Lawyer would be aware of the RO and the reasons it was granted by the Court and thus block any message or portion of the message that Karen tries to send that violate the RO unless it's relevant to the Lawsuit...and if it is relevant, they'll tell Karen that rewording the message would be wise as it currently Violates the RO and could cause issues later in the Trail/Hearing...
Army reenacter story: The police should have either arrested the Karen for attempted theft or made sure she went back to her own house. Total incompetence on their part!
You know i've been reading these storys for over a year now & noticed how many people think they can just been plain rude, or physically assault when asking for help or a favor, still expect the person they are being rude to to still help. Then complain when they get there just deserts back. I alway thought if i needed help or a favor, you ask nicely & reward or thank them when reciprocated. Clearly it shows mw how we live in an a self entitled era, where alot of people are just plain stupid. If you want help, just be nice, or ask nicely, how hard is that to get!!!!
It almost makes me truly believe in simulation theory.....and these "people" have only recently logged in and haven't grown up with any kind of interaction with actual society. It's insane how these people act.
One things ive noticed as well especially for the i dont work here stories is that many dont seem to understand the best way to get someones attention and ask for what you want is to speak. Like i wouldve out of habit treated them like one of my moms daycare kids and said "use you words" if one of these people ahemed, snapped their fingers, or literally just stood there as their attempt of trying to get my attention rather than saying "hi can you help me with x"
Story 3: OP has another story about when power was knocked out and the habit his grandfather had about stockpiling in case of emergency brought out the entitlement in a number of his neighbors
#1 Entitled neighbour Karen just want OP to become her free day care provider. Then, she get all riled up when OP justifiably tell her «No». No wonder that her husband left her. #2 That lady seems to be totally delusional. #3 OP's biological parents where NOT his actual parents. His actual parents where his grandparents and babysitter. His father disgracefully and callously abandoned him. Then, he had the gall of demanding him his inheritance ? Daddy don't deserve a single cent. Instead, he should be made to pay back for the child support that he should have paid before OP's majority... With interests. #4 So, Karen give her airpods to a 4 year old kid to play with. THEN, flip out when one can't be found ? Why didn't she look in her kid's pockets ? It's probably there. Anyway, that's NOT a reason to throw such a temper tantrum worthy of a spoiled bratty 2 years old baby.
Yup. I tend to think #2 just legit thought her scheme would work because she's a woman. Like seriously if you read criminal reports, like actual reports not the ones on the news or social media, you'd find a good number of criminals really are that stupid. They legit believe their plans work without issue. Same say delusional, I just say stupid.
Story 3: if they say OP ruined their life so much why couldn’t they have put him up for adoption if they didn’t care to love OP, he would’ve had a normal life and no trauma and the parents would have lived their “dreams” not sure why they didn’t think of that but it’s a good question 🧐
Speaking as an adoptee, I agree with you 100%. My birth mother was 18 when she had me. Relinquishing me had to have been a very difficult decision for her, but I think it was the right one. I hope she went on to have a good life filled with happiness.
Story 1: as a mom of 2 kids, how does one even fathom leaving their kids with strangers. How do you know Jeffery Dahmer or John Wayne Gacy doesn’t live next door. Story 3: I really hate it when parents blame their kids for ruining their lives. The kid never asked to be born. Should have used a condom. The parents also made a choice to drop out of high school. Difficult but the parents could have found a way to reach their goals or at least one could have made the sacrifice. Although my parents never said it, I know I was somewhat of a burden to my parents when I was born. My dad was 9 months away from getting his Ph.D and having a baby didn’t help. My parents still wonder why I chose to be on birth control my first 2 years of marriage.
Story 1: Because in their minds there's no way monsters live right next to them Story 3: They can't accept a mistake that won't go away or benefit them in any way so they put blame on it. Not realizing that doing that still won't make anything better. Side Note: Your parents don't understand because it's not in their wheel of experience. Not always a bad thing, but it's a fact that our understanding of how things work or done are best understood by one's personal experience. I doubt you dropped out of school yet still found your way into college like they did, so you wouldn't understand that experience, so they wouldn't understand your choice of being on birth control because either your mother chose not to, or she couldn't for any number of reasons.
Story 1: Homophobic Karen Me: Kinda happy that we finally got a homophobic karen story, but also a little upset because of the homophobia and the 180 she pulled
How far back? Because an ancient book has a certain story about 2 women claiming to be the mother of a baby... I think it works with little kids. I knew of a little girl obsessed with the movie Cars, who got a toy car confiscated by the teacher when a boy said it was his toy.
I think I know where the missing AirPod is... I suspect when Karen was tearing the restaurant apart looking for it, it was busy being digested by her kid's gut...
Story 3: "a child who is not embraced by the village, will burn it down just to feel its warmth" (edit I didn't notice the misspelled because grammerly auto correct my "spelling mistake")
The first story: The woman had been hitting on OP and when she discovered he was gay she lashed out with revulsion. She probably was disgusted with herself for not recognizing OP's sexuality; it's the only answer I can think of.
Gayness doesn't actually have a look no matter what media tries to tell you because you really can't look at someone and instantly know everything about them, so it's no wonder she feels like an idiot.
I would have reported that Karen for having her kids over at a complete stranger's house like that. Cuz apparently she doesn't understand that stranger could be a potential predator. As well as maybe some hate crime charges applied to that.
The lady and the army stuff: she probably had her father's/grandfathers army uniform/gear and at some point it was stolen. It obviously was very important to her and when it went missing she went a bit off the deep end, so now Everytime she sees a uniform she believes it's the stolen one. Sometimes the crazy Karen is just a brokenhearted wreak dealing with loss in the only way they can
Sadly we can't afford to give them the benefit of the doubt because even those reasons aren't the right reasons to act like that. She had no proof. She gave no reason for why she believes what she believes. She just straight out said "mine, mine, mine"
OP whose Parents ignored him: If OP's Parents kept their friggin legs closed they wouldn't have gotten pregnant. That was their mistake, no one else's. You play stupid games, & you win stupid prizes. OP- Have a great life!
Story 3: They chose to screw without any protection, so they are responsible for throwing their life out of whack. They have nobody to rightfully blame but themselves
Ive never understood the "this is YOUR fault" to a kid for something that undeniably is actually the parents fault. Bastardy, for example. Or collaboration. This.
Story 2: Don't think OP said how old the woman was, but I think the woman was having a mental break. Maybe she was having an episode and thought the stuff belonged to her husband or father or something? The fact she actually called the cops makes me think this was less entitled and more she genuinely believed it. Also telling OP hasn't seen her since, maybe whoever she was living with had her sent away to be evaluated?
"Army" stuff story: Could have been worse, at least the cops believed you. They've probably delt with Ms. Crazy before with other people who have "stolen" her stuff. At least your stuff was "recent". My son and son-in-law both belong to the SCA and do medieval style reenactments. Their gear consists of armor, shields and ratan "swords" and other weapons. I wonder how she would claim those? Disinherited story: It takes more than biology to be a mom and dad. OP, the only advice I would give to you is to make a will now, so that if you predecease your parents and sister none of your property or money goes to them as they are your closest living relatives. Airpods story: Good grief! What can you expect when you give a FOUR YEAR OLD a pair of small items?
Need to send most of the people who live out in the countryside out of Wisconsin too. It’s bad enough that we have one Floridumb we don’t need another.
So the parents' stance in court was basically "Yeah, we treated our first kid like garbage because he just had to come into existence to spite us and ruin our lives, and it's totally not fair that he got all the stuff in the will and we were cut out."
"..... I coulda been a football star ....." Foot + ball, GOOD IDEA [kick him in the nads] There! No more kids to ruin your life! By which I mean, nobody to BLAME for everything!
After hearing so many different stories of entitled people trying to steal from other people, I'm going to start keeping every single receipt I ever get on me at this point 😂
You are never the one who "ruined the dream" of your parents. They decided to have unprotected intercourse, they took the risk, the onus is on the parents, never the child.
In the last story, with a missing earbud and a child that young, my first concern would be to verify the kid didn't accidentally swallow it. Wireless earbuds have batteries in them and those batteries can be quite dangerous to humans when swallowed.
Wow, that guy whose parents blamed him for "ruining their lives"...😳...2 self-entitled a-holes with zero self-responsibility that he is so much better without! So glad his grandparents gave him the love he deserved AND all of their possessions! As the saying goes: "Living well is the best revenge."
S1: "Better get a babysitter then lady, and I'm not one" and "Well, if you are so horrible you're BF left you, and you can;t afford basics like a babysitter. you won't be our neighbor much longer, will you?" S3: Sounds like a them problem. Keep it in your pants dad, keep your knees closed mom. I'd have kicked them out of the funeral and blocked them on all phones and other contact sources.
It's not the child's fault for the parents' mistakes. Long ago, my mother gave me some good advice. "Keep it in your pocket and you will stay out of trouble, but if your friend wants to come out and play, make sure he is properly dressed for the occasion."
Last story: Now if only the officers would pull that 911 tape and if Karen did report this incident as DV, charge and fine her! That can of nonsense is what causes stress and burn out in dispatchers - you hustle to get units to a call, fearing for someone's safety and well-being, only to find out it is some idiot who has lost some stupid thing like headphones.
First story is a lukewarm repeat. Third story, don't want to have kids? Keep your legs closed. No, I wasn't your biggest mistake. That was knocking up your girlfriend at 17.
Karen Wanting Alone Time Story: If I were O, I'd be calling the Police to have Karen Arrested for Trespassing, Harassment (with the Hate Crime Enhancement for the Verbal Abuse, Slurs and names she screamed at me through the door) and Attempted Break and Enter (her pounding on the door) as well as Child Endangerment (for trying to leave her kids with a person she knows nothing about and without asking if they're willing to look after them)... Then I'd call CPS to report her for the Child Endangerment... After that, Id call a Lawyer for a Restraining Order (No Contact & Stay Off My Property) against Karen...
Those parents who told their kid he was the biggest mistake are the one projecting their failures onto the child. I am happy that the grandfather saw through them and gave everything to OP. I am even more happy that the judge saw through their BS as well.
Big mood in being unwanted by parents. When I was 12 was already unwanted and when I was diagnosed with epilepsy my mom pretty much disowned me for over a decade. If I stayed at her house my room was the storage room, 0 positive attention, harassed by my mom's creepy bf, etc.
Here's a reality check- if you use protection (or not), conceive a baby, & you are not able to provide a loving stable home for the child, you have 2 options. 1) you can choose to not bear the child, or 2) you can put the baby up for adoption. If you decide to raise the kid, you DO NOT neglect the child or tell them how they ruined your life and abandon them. Shame on you! You deserve nothing!
I'm now of the personal belief that the Lady in Story 2 either had early onset dementia, was on drugs, or was having a complete mental break. Either way, glad OP had the receipts, although I do believe the Police should have made sure the lady left.
Harsh as it may seem, she could also just be that stupid. Cops can tell you that a lot of their criminals are actually of sound mind and clean of any drugs or conditions, but they honestly believe they can get away with their crime.
When my dad told me he never wanted me, and that I had ruined his life, I felt a huge amount of pain.. for about 10 seconds, and then the most wonderful relief. He had just corroborated what I had felt all my life, and it felt good to hear the truth out of him. I hope OP in story 3 got the same feeling.
That last story was #1 in my book. I’ve seen people like that before but I was on my way out to go do something else so I didn’t give it much thought, EXCEPT I truly wished that the people that worked there didn’t have to deal with it much longer. Since I’m a regular at that business I asked what the aftermath was and then the help that I talked to about how that turned out, the help said that her husband was a police officer and made SURE that my question was only one to back up the shop owners rights. I found it hilarious, because the entire shop (owner included) knows me by name and realizes that I would TRULY only ask such a question if I meant well for the people that worked there.
1st story I can't even begin to say how often I see parents have left their kids with strangers When I've gone on trips I tend to hunt down hotels with pools or amenities and seen constantly parents leaving their kids at pools with whoever happens to be there
Story 1: It's amazing how these garbage parents would gladly put their children at risk by sending them over to a complete stranger rather than paying for a trustworthy babysitter or just watching the wee buggers themselves. Story 2: This woman doesn't just need a mental health screening, she needs to be charged for filing a false police report. Story 4: So, this woman let a very small child play with hear over-priced earbuds and then thought the only explanation for one going missing was that she'd lost it at a restaurant? Nothing against kids but they aren't exactly known for being careful with objects.
If my father told me that I ruined his life by being born and he wanted to be a football star, I would have told him it's not my fault they were screwing around!
I don't understand why the 17 year olds didn't just give the child up for adoption? Obviously they resented having a child, why not allow the baby to be a blessing for another couple? I guess they wanted to keep him to punish him for their mistake. How very cruel.
I used to be a server at Texas Roadhouse, and I had a table accuse me of stealing their air pod charging case. Not the air pods, just the case. They called the cops and everything. Had to be questioned about it. I said they stiffed me on a $91 tab, can I file a report about that? :-)
Title story: My oldest child was unplanned. That one is the reason my husband stuck around. He and I are now one of those couples others look at and wonder "how can we make our relationship like yours?" Living proof it's all in how you respond to the situation. Those "parents" have no excuse for treating OP they way they did, and deserved to be disinherited. Last story: Don't expensive electronic devices have insurance?
I already work in retail, but there’s nothing like hearing other retail stories to make you go “how stupid is the majority of the population? Very. Very, very stupid. Or at the very least have next to no common sense.
1st Story about that mother wanting to leave her kids with strangers: I still remember how my mother allowed a male patient (she used to be a nurse) who came to the ER to take me home with him for an afternoon for cake because he liked me I do not remember much of it, so i don't know what or if anything happened
Story 3: My brother had his son at 18 and though he's not all that happy with how his life played out he never blamed nephew for it. His ex-girlfriend, mother of his child, did more to deserve blame since she, like OP's parents, felt she was entitled to things she didn't earn. Because of her attitude, she lost primary custody and now had to pay child support when she tried to weaponize the court against my brother. To say the judge was disgusted by her would be an understatement. And now her son is an adult and doesn't really talk to her anymore because he hasn't forgotten what she put him through in her quest against my brother all because their son preferred him and his side of the family over hers (the exception being grandma and a couple of uncles, who didn't take her side)
1: If you obey the law and those around you do not, cameras are your friend. 2: OP needs to protect himself. Don’t want cameras? Ok, then get a restraining order against the woman and consider suing her for defamation. Defend yourself before she attacks again or someone else goes nuts. Why didn’t the cops take her for a mental health evaluation? 3: I’ve always thought the concept of “illegitimate” children was stupid. If there is a bad actor, it’s one or both parents, not the child. OP is not doing well. His biological needs are handled, but what of his need for love and belonging?
Her"Army Stuff"? Holy moly, Batman. Poor officers must have thought she'd lost her mind. If Karen wants army stuff so bad tell her to go to eBay. Some people.
Okay, every time I hear stories about parents blaming their kids for “ruining their life”, I just keep thinking “CONDOMS ARE A THING! You don’t want kids? Take precautions to NOT. HAVE THEM!”
My parents planned each of us .....and still told us that we ruined their lives.
Or simply keep their damned legs together. 🤨
My daughter was an accident. I was stupid to not use protection, but I told her that she was the best mistake I ever made. Maybe not using mistake though. I think I said it once, but she was grown up. She is the best thing I ever did with my life.
@@SoManyRandomRamblings This is what we call the "if I deflect blame it will go away" card that doesn't work because what they're throwing is a boomerang, not a card.
There’s also surgical procedures for both men and women to get their tubes tied like for fox sake if you don’t want kids take necessary precautions
Its disgusting when people blame their kids for their own poor decision making 😞
Agreed.
Of course, none of my children ruined my life. Although my two sons were planned, and are wonderful, my daughter, who was a surprise, being born the year I turned 40, has enriched my life immensely. I couldn’t see my life without them!
So true 😞
Lllllll
I’ve said this about the story in a previous video. Not his fault she couldn’t close her legs.
It's ironic that the father calls OP "the biggest mistake of his life", when, in reality, OP was the only thing that he and his wife ever made that wasn't a complete failure.
And yes, they peaked in high school and refuse to move on from it. If they weren't such disgusting parents, I'd pity them.
Right. Did OPs dad remind anyone else of Al Bundy talking about how Peg getting pregnant ruined his football career before it even started😅
Agree with all of this
I pity the dad's employees... 25 years working with a guy like that...
The only "mistake" was that OP's parents were too stupid to use protection. But of course, a couple of narcissists have to blame someone else for their bad choices.
I also peaked in 1st grade 😢.
I’m thinking the WW2 reenactment Karen was either legitimately crazy, or she thought the “Army stuff” was authentic and worth a lot of money.
I have no doubt she had dollar signs in her eyes.
@@girl1213 second hand stores sell em for cheap. a cheaper way is ask relatives if they still have old uniforms from when they were active duty. for example my father in law had his dog tags and other Military stuff until the day he died. I still have pics of my kids wearing his VFW hat
Or she genuinely thought the items were heres after all getting old can affect your brain
@@Jerseybytes2do the second hand stores look brand new? Id wager brand new military gear from the world wars could fetch at least a couple hundred
@@cryochick9044 no clue. husband has some uniforms but that's because he was in the Navy for 20 years, and they still look good. I do admit I wore a couple of his red shirts, and they're pretty comfortable to sleep in
I guess the concept "stranger danger" doesn't exist for people willing to leave their children with strangers. They teach stranger danger in preschool and kindergarten.
You're more likely to be harmed by someone you know than by a stranger.
Yep, too many stories of evil Entitled Parents and Entitled Awnts.
According to numerous friends who are from or have lived overseas, 'stranger danger' is really only a thing in the US.
@@Joshth1983that's only because you're around people you know more than people you don't know.
I personally think that's a stupid statistic because people don't think about what that means
@Joshth1983 you are more likely to be harmed by an individual you are around for extended periods, so yes, that is usually people you know. If your parents are foolish enough to just leave you with a complete stranger for extended periods, though, they will have the same opportunity as any other regular caretaker referenced in this statistic.
Simply put “Living Well IS The Best Revenge”!
Yes, I am living independently for 33 years. College educated at 22, married at 28 with a mortgage age 29 and child age 32. In that order. My older brother, father's "golden boy" is a lazy, alcoholic, pothead, college dropout, bachelor, who lived in my parents' home until age 37.
😮😮😮
Story 1
VERY GOOD choice on OP's part for NOT allowing children in their home withOUT a parent!
Judging by how the Karen reacted when learning OP was gay and married you can bet that if the kids were allowed unsupervised by their mom to be in there then OP and hubby would have had legal problems.
@@blitzwolfmon8297
EXACTLY!
Hence why I said good choice .. OP is not a dummy! 😉😉
@@petunia7623
Oh shit!
I never thought of that!
Great thinking! And you're probably 🎯
Regardless of op being gay, why would you send any child over to play to an adults house when you don’t even know them? She should consider herself lucky that he was actually watching out for them (as well as himself). She sure as heck wasn’t!
Last story with Airpod Karen: Honestly I would have lost it when that last little piece dropped. Why would you give your expensive things to a 4 year old?
That lady is a classic case of how to get black listed from every local establishment in your area
I'd bet the missing airpod is in her car.
@@lancerevell5979 Or the 4 yr old ate it
@@jameslawson5237 That was my first thought. 4 year olds are notorious for making objects small enough to fit in their mouths "disappear".....and then reappear a couple of days later
That's what I was thinking.
They're in the child's stomach.
You did not ruin anyone's dream; they did that all by themselves when they decided to strip down and not use protection.
Too bad that your paternal grandparents did not take you in and raise you as their own child. Edit: I am glad that they did, and I am so very sorry for your loss.
Congratulations on your success, and if you must, get a Do Not Contact order against all 3 of them.
Calling a Karen "crazy" is redundant anyway. We all know it and they'll never accept it.
And the country card?
Frankly I think Karens belong to the world in their heads because they wouldn't survive reality.
We REALLY need to stop calling them crazy and start using more appropriate words. Such as stupid, pathetic, and idiotic.
Look, I'm gonna keep the "crazy" label on the pistols, because of all the good and nice Karens don't deserve to get besmirched.
I never asked anything from my kids, but for a bit of advise. The kind of advise I knew they might have. I'm not stupid. I treated my kids with everything I could give to them, but that's all my choice. They don't owe me anything, ever. I just hope they had a good time.
Exactly. I was young (17) when I got pregnant like OPs parents but could NEVER even think that my daughter ruined my life. Did getting pregnant that young change the path of my life and make things hard... yes, but I'm the only person to blame for that. In fact she without a doubt saved my life given the road I was on back then. Having her young may be the most difficult thing I ever did but it was also the BEST thing I ever did.
Story 3: I was a father at 17, the one thing in my life that I've never regretted was staying with my wife and child. I got a lot of help from my parents and graduated high school, and did whatever I had to to support my family. My son has never been a mistake, burden, or unwanted. Glad OP had good grandparents.
RESPECT BRO thats how I feel about kids even if I don't think im a good dad
@drakofox1362 If you want to be in the child's life and trying your best, you're a good dad
I was 17 as well when I had my daughter. I had only met her father like a month or two before I found out I was pregnant so we tried to make it work and married when she was 10 months old and separated when she 2 and a half. She is 27 now and she is absolutely the single most difficult and the single greatest thing I've ever done. I have never regretted having her and can't imagine a parent ever telling their child that.
@@drakofox1362went do you think you're not a good dad? I think that if that's something you worry about then chances are you're not a bad dad. Bad dads don't care and usually go around trying to make themselves sound like they are great dads even though they know they don't do anything for their kids. As long as you love them and want to be in their life and participate as much as you can depending on your situation than you're a great dad.
I had turned 20 not quite 3 weeks before we had our oldest. Husbeast and I went on to have 2 more kids together. We've been married for 21 years, together for 24 years. That first kiddo we got pregnant with at 19 is now 22 himself. All 3 of ours have the brightest joys in our lives. Recently, we moved our oldest son's girlfriend in with us. Now we have 4 kids at home, and the joyous laughter has been so worth all the bumps along the way.
Story 2: I am very angry that the police left her there; she needs to be committed. For her own safety, and the safety of others who may not be able to handle her in a non-physical way.
she did leave OP alone though after that.
Sadly, America doesn't devote enough resources to dealing with the mentally disturbed.
How stupid can you be to blame your child you had in High School that they ruined your life? Not his fault.
They should have used protection if it was going to ruin their dreams so badly.
Don’t forget about birth control and the morning after pills
@@pyrusmew5 I think that's what SoraDonaldGoofy99 meant by "protection".
Use Protection, keep it in your pants (AKA not have Sex in the first place) or give the unwanted kid up for Adoption...
They could have chosen any of those Options...
My parents planned us all and still blamed us for ruining their lives.
And those deadbeat egg and sperm donors try to steal OP's inheritance. They are disgusting and despicable. 😡
Does Dear Old Dad sell women's shoes?
The Karen in the first story I bet you if her neighbors were sex offenders and they even notified her that they were sex offenders she probably would still leave her kids with those types of people and even if they had to reminder all over again to her face they would just say oh well have a fun time with my kids because I'm having a hard time just because my boyfriend left me
Gee… wonder *why* the BF left? /s
Lol 😆 I know right
Or worse, they could've handed their children into the hands of people like Robert Black or Peter Woodcock.
Dude you're right I'm pretty sure even those people couldn't even handle those kids being in their hands knowing how that Karen trained her kids to be like her
Story 1: Karen: *complains about how her boyfriend left her, she can't afford her rent and needs alone time away from her kids after I refuse to babysit for her*
Me: So when do you think you'll be moving away?
Story 2: Sadly I've heard of instances like this where a thief will accuse their mark of stealing from them then getting the police involved to 'get it back'. I remember hearing a story where a guy had his car stolen because a lady called the cops and accused him of stealing it, all while saying to his face before she called that he was too young to own such a nice car and that he must have stolen it. The cop who sided with the thief ended up losing his job or something, and the woman was eventually arrested though the car had already been stripped down for parts. And I agree with another commenter who said that the cops should have seen to this woman being escorted off of OP's property in this instance.
Story 3: "Like, abandoning your own child, only to come back years later demanding what they think they deserve."
Sounds to me like all they deserve is a giant middle finger.
Story 4: If anyone came in close to close bitching about losing Airpods and refusing to leave until we found them, she wouldn't have been the one calling the cops. I have no tolerance for that kind of shit, so I would have called them, telling them we have someone who is tresspassing and refusing to leave the store after we offered to take her info in the event we find them. Also, don't just let your 4 year old child/grandchild play with your expensive airpods because they're bored and you can't be bothered to deal with her boredom.
Inheritance Story: If I were in OP's place, I'd have gone Full No Contact with the entire 'Family' except for my Grandparents and the moment they started harassing me regarding Grandpa's Will, I'd have gotten a Restraining Order (Mo Contact, Stay Away from me and my Property) against them...they would still be able to Sue me to contest the Will, but to avoid getting Arrested for Violating the RO, they'd have to have all communications to me through their Lawyer...
Not sure if they could even contact thru a lawyer bc even contact thru a third party isn't allowed, but idk if a lawyer falls under same category.
@@gothgirl4evr881 Under normal circumstances, contact through a Lawyer would Violate the RO...
However, IF they're initiating Contact via a Lawyer due to current/pending Litigation, it's allowed because when 2 Parties are involved in Litigation (Lawsuit/Trial etc.), they MUST be able to pass information/Evidence/Affidavits between each other and the Lawyers will NOT allow the passage of information not relevant to the Case or that could even remotely be construed as Harassing/Threatening etc. (or at least they'll block all such communications if they want to stay out of Jail and keep their License to Practice Law anyway)...
Basically, if I have a No Contact RO against Karen and she Sues me, she tells her Lawyer what she wants me to know and they in turn will tell my Lawyer the message who will then tell me the message, usually by Email to prevent distortion of the information as it passes through multiple hands, her Lawyer and my Lawyer would be aware of the RO and the reasons it was granted by the Court and thus block any message or portion of the message that Karen tries to send that violate the RO unless it's relevant to the Lawsuit...and if it is relevant, they'll tell Karen that rewording the message would be wise as it currently Violates the RO and could cause issues later in the Trail/Hearing...
Army reenacter story: The police should have either arrested the Karen for attempted theft or made sure she went back to her own house. Total incompetence on their part!
Incompetence? From the *police!?*
Say it ain’t so!
I'd be mighty peeved if she tried to steal my "Army stuff" too. Nothing highly valuable, but it's MINE. Go away, Harpy! 🤨
Calling in a false police report is a crimein most places, she shouldve been arrested for that and harassment
She should have been arrested for false reporting
honestly, number 2 sounds like a fake story. No one talks to people like that. The dialogue made no sense.
You know i've been reading these storys for over a year now & noticed how many people think they can just been plain rude, or physically assault when asking for help or a favor, still expect the person they are being rude to to still help. Then complain when they get there just deserts back.
I alway thought if i needed help or a favor, you ask nicely & reward or thank them when reciprocated. Clearly it shows mw how we live in an a self entitled era, where alot of people are just plain stupid. If you want help, just be nice, or ask nicely, how hard is that to get!!!!
It almost makes me truly believe in simulation theory.....and these "people" have only recently logged in and haven't grown up with any kind of interaction with actual society. It's insane how these people act.
One things ive noticed as well especially for the i dont work here stories is that many dont seem to understand the best way to get someones attention and ask for what you want is to speak. Like i wouldve out of habit treated them like one of my moms daycare kids and said "use you words" if one of these people ahemed, snapped their fingers, or literally just stood there as their attempt of trying to get my attention rather than saying "hi can you help me with x"
For a person that probably hasn’t had a decent education past elementary school it would be really hard
Story 3: OP has another story about when power was knocked out and the habit his grandfather had about stockpiling in case of emergency brought out the entitlement in a number of his neighbors
#1 Entitled neighbour Karen just want OP to become her free day care provider. Then, she get all riled up when OP justifiably tell her «No». No wonder that her husband left her.
#2 That lady seems to be totally delusional.
#3 OP's biological parents where NOT his actual parents. His actual parents where his grandparents and babysitter. His father disgracefully and callously abandoned him. Then, he had the gall of demanding him his inheritance ? Daddy don't deserve a single cent. Instead, he should be made to pay back for the child support that he should have paid before OP's majority... With interests.
#4 So, Karen give her airpods to a 4 year old kid to play with. THEN, flip out when one can't be found ? Why didn't she look in her kid's pockets ? It's probably there. Anyway, that's NOT a reason to throw such a temper tantrum worthy of a spoiled bratty 2 years old baby.
#4: bc these people "sweet little demons" er I mean "angels", are never to blame for anything. So why would she do that
Yup.
I tend to think #2 just legit thought her scheme would work because she's a woman. Like seriously if you read criminal reports, like actual reports not the ones on the news or social media, you'd find a good number of criminals really are that stupid. They legit believe their plans work without issue.
Same say delusional, I just say stupid.
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Story 3: My mum had me at 17 yet she did a better job at raising a kid then OP's parents
Story 3: if they say OP ruined their life so much why couldn’t they have put him up for adoption if they didn’t care to love OP, he would’ve had a normal life and no trauma and the parents would have lived their “dreams” not sure why they didn’t think of that but it’s a good question 🧐
Because then they lose their excuse. Their failed lives can't be blamed on anyone but themselves, but they don't want to take accountability.
Speaking as an adoptee, I agree with you 100%. My birth mother was 18 when she had me. Relinquishing me had to have been a very difficult decision for her, but I think it was the right one. I hope she went on to have a good life filled with happiness.
@@SoManyRandomRamblings And then they can't try to play the "We're family" card to try exploiting them.
@@ShadowTaipan exactly
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The best revenge is living well and happy. "Hey Siri! Ping my Airpods!" problem solved if they are there.
Story 3. When Dear Old Dad told me he could have been a football star. I would have called him Al Bundy and laughed in his face.
Not even. Al at least can prove he's a good guy at the end of the day in spite of his flaws. Dear Old Dad can't say the same.
Story 1: as a mom of 2 kids, how does one even fathom leaving their kids with strangers. How do you know Jeffery Dahmer or John Wayne Gacy doesn’t live next door.
Story 3: I really hate it when parents blame their kids for ruining their lives. The kid never asked to be born. Should have used a condom. The parents also made a choice to drop out of high school. Difficult but the parents could have found a way to reach their goals or at least one could have made the sacrifice. Although my parents never said it, I know I was somewhat of a burden to my parents when I was born. My dad was 9 months away from getting his Ph.D and having a baby didn’t help. My parents still wonder why I chose to be on birth control my first 2 years of marriage.
Story 1: Because in their minds there's no way monsters live right next to them
Story 3: They can't accept a mistake that won't go away or benefit them in any way so they put blame on it. Not realizing that doing that still won't make anything better.
Side Note: Your parents don't understand because it's not in their wheel of experience. Not always a bad thing, but it's a fact that our understanding of how things work or done are best understood by one's personal experience. I doubt you dropped out of school yet still found your way into college like they did, so you wouldn't understand that experience, so they wouldn't understand your choice of being on birth control because either your mother chose not to, or she couldn't for any number of reasons.
Story 1: Homophobic Karen
Me: Kinda happy that we finally got a homophobic karen story, but also a little upset because of the homophobia and the 180 she pulled
Story 2: I gotta wonder does this ploy actually work, even back then before digital receipts, proof of purchase, and email vacation were a thing?
I gotta wonder why Karen wasn’t at least cited, if not arrested, for filing a false report?
How far back? Because an ancient book has a certain story about 2 women claiming to be the mother of a baby...
I think it works with little kids. I knew of a little girl obsessed with the movie Cars, who got a toy car confiscated by the teacher when a boy said it was his toy.
Might want to take the 4yo child to the hospital and get a scan to see if they find that Airpod
I think I know where the missing AirPod is...
I suspect when Karen was tearing the restaurant apart looking for it, it was busy being digested by her kid's gut...
I hope Dad divorces the rabid Karen, and gets full custody of the kid. 🤨
I have an inkling why Karen's boyfriend left her and why she needed time alone...
A cheater she might be?
Story 3: "a child who is not embraced by the village, will burn it down just to feel its warmth" (edit I didn't notice the misspelled because grammerly auto correct my "spelling mistake")
Did you perhaps mean “embraced”?
embraced*
Karens should suffer the worst karma and i seen these "parents" sue the poor op
"Check up from the neck up" 😂 Someone been watching Ferngully
Story 1: WTAF? This stranger wants you to babysit her kids, in your house, so that she can have alone time? Call CPS.
The first story: The woman had been hitting on OP and when she discovered he was gay she lashed out with revulsion. She probably was disgusted with herself for not recognizing OP's sexuality; it's the only answer I can think of.
Gayness doesn't actually have a look no matter what media tries to tell you because you really can't look at someone and instantly know everything about them, so it's no wonder she feels like an idiot.
I would have reported that Karen for having her kids over at a complete stranger's house like that. Cuz apparently she doesn't understand that stranger could be a potential predator. As well as maybe some hate crime charges applied to that.
3rd story dad is absolutely right: having children was a terrible mistake. There's no way someone like him should have children. Ever.
Story 3: Paid off house, and 2 vehicles at 30? Im jealous lol
The lady and the army stuff: she probably had her father's/grandfathers army uniform/gear and at some point it was stolen. It obviously was very important to her and when it went missing she went a bit off the deep end, so now Everytime she sees a uniform she believes it's the stolen one. Sometimes the crazy Karen is just a brokenhearted wreak dealing with loss in the only way they can
Sadly we can't afford to give them the benefit of the doubt because even those reasons aren't the right reasons to act like that. She had no proof. She gave no reason for why she believes what she believes. She just straight out said "mine, mine, mine"
OP whose Parents ignored him:
If OP's Parents kept their friggin legs closed they wouldn't have gotten pregnant. That was their mistake, no one else's. You play stupid games, & you win stupid prizes.
OP- Have a great life!
Story 3: They chose to screw without any protection, so they are responsible for throwing their life out of whack. They have nobody to rightfully blame but themselves
Ive never understood the "this is YOUR fault" to a kid for something that undeniably is actually the parents fault. Bastardy, for example. Or collaboration. This.
Story 2: Don't think OP said how old the woman was, but I think the woman was having a mental break. Maybe she was having an episode and thought the stuff belonged to her husband or father or something? The fact she actually called the cops makes me think this was less entitled and more she genuinely believed it. Also telling OP hasn't seen her since, maybe whoever she was living with had her sent away to be evaluated?
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"Army" stuff story: Could have been worse, at least the cops believed you. They've probably delt with Ms. Crazy before with other people who have "stolen" her stuff. At least your stuff was "recent". My son and son-in-law both belong to the SCA and do medieval style reenactments. Their gear consists of armor, shields and ratan "swords" and other weapons. I wonder how she would claim those?
Disinherited story: It takes more than biology to be a mom and dad. OP, the only advice I would give to you is to make a will now, so that if you predecease your parents and sister none of your property or money goes to them as they are your closest living relatives.
Airpods story: Good grief! What can you expect when you give a FOUR YEAR OLD a pair of small items?
Story 1: WISCONSIN!!! Hope that Entitled lady moves out-of-state.
Need to send most of the people who live out in the countryside out of Wisconsin too. It’s bad enough that we have one Floridumb we don’t need another.
@@TheSjuris so true.
Army stuff: Her father or grandfather probably had some army stuff laying around and it looked EXACTLY LIKE the stuff op had.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
So the parents' stance in court was basically "Yeah, we treated our first kid like garbage because he just had to come into existence to spite us and ruin our lives, and it's totally not fair that he got all the stuff in the will and we were cut out."
Story 3: Glad that OP is living the best life and told his parents to pound sand. Horrible people, glad OP had loving grandparents
Now wait a minute….it’s always the baby’s fault for being born😢 why the heck didn’t they just give him up??😮 oh I know save face!!!!😮
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Good comment but gotta ask did you quote Batty Coda from Ferngully?
To the horrible parents in The Click's voice, "What's this? The consequences of my actions?" Yeah kids don't make themselves you horrid creatures.
Updoot for Click reference!
@@ShakaarGaleed updoot for catching it.
"..... I coulda been a football star ....." Foot + ball, GOOD IDEA [kick him in the nads] There! No more kids to ruin your life! By which I mean, nobody to BLAME for everything!
I keep thinking of Al Bundy when I hear that line.
After hearing so many different stories of entitled people trying to steal from other people, I'm going to start keeping every single receipt I ever get on me at this point 😂
You are never the one who "ruined the dream" of your parents. They decided to have unprotected intercourse, they took the risk, the onus is on the parents, never the child.
In the last story, with a missing earbud and a child that young, my first concern would be to verify the kid didn't accidentally swallow it. Wireless earbuds have batteries in them and those batteries can be quite dangerous to humans when swallowed.
Wow, that guy whose parents blamed him for "ruining their lives"...😳...2 self-entitled a-holes with zero self-responsibility that he is so much better without! So glad his grandparents gave him the love he deserved AND all of their possessions! As the saying goes: "Living well is the best revenge."
First story: “I’m sorry, but I have a court order preventing unattended children being within 500ft of me” 😂
S1: "Better get a babysitter then lady, and I'm not one" and "Well, if you are so horrible you're BF left you, and you can;t afford basics like a babysitter. you won't be our neighbor much longer, will you?"
S3: Sounds like a them problem. Keep it in your pants dad, keep your knees closed mom.
I'd have kicked them out of the funeral and blocked them on all phones and other contact sources.
It's not the child's fault for the parents' mistakes. Long ago, my mother gave me some good advice.
"Keep it in your pocket and you will stay out of trouble, but if your friend wants to come out and play, make sure he is properly dressed for the occasion."
Last story: Now if only the officers would pull that 911 tape and if Karen did report this incident as DV, charge and fine her! That can of nonsense is what causes stress and burn out in dispatchers - you hustle to get units to a call, fearing for someone's safety and well-being, only to find out it is some idiot who has lost some stupid thing like headphones.
Last story: better question where is the 4 year old now if both parents are here?
Probably either left in the car or left at a strangers house to be watched😅
S3: "Well, well, well. If it isn't the consequences of YOUR OWN ACTIONS."
First story is a lukewarm repeat.
Third story, don't want to have kids? Keep your legs closed. No, I wasn't your biggest mistake. That was knocking up your girlfriend at 17.
Karen Wanting Alone Time Story: If I were O, I'd be calling the Police to have Karen Arrested for Trespassing, Harassment (with the Hate Crime Enhancement for the Verbal Abuse, Slurs and names she screamed at me through the door) and Attempted Break and Enter (her pounding on the door) as well as Child Endangerment (for trying to leave her kids with a person she knows nothing about and without asking if they're willing to look after them)...
Then I'd call CPS to report her for the Child Endangerment...
After that, Id call a Lawyer for a Restraining Order (No Contact & Stay Off My Property) against Karen...
Those parents who told their kid he was the biggest mistake are the one projecting their failures onto the child. I am happy that the grandfather saw through them and gave everything to OP. I am even more happy that the judge saw through their BS as well.
How sad the parents blame the son when they did the deed before being older, educated, and in a position to have children!
Who wants to bet that airpod went on an all expenses paid trip of the human digestive system?
Big mood in being unwanted by parents. When I was 12 was already unwanted and when I was diagnosed with epilepsy my mom pretty much disowned me for over a decade. If I stayed at her house my room was the storage room, 0 positive attention, harassed by my mom's creepy bf, etc.
Here's a reality check- if you use protection (or not), conceive a baby, & you are not able to provide a loving stable home for the child, you have 2 options. 1) you can choose to not bear the child, or 2) you can put the baby up for adoption. If you decide to raise the kid, you DO NOT neglect the child or tell them how they ruined your life and abandon them. Shame on you! You deserve nothing!
I disagree, I think the gene donors deserve to be sued for child abuse and neglect for *everything* they have left...
I'm now of the personal belief that the Lady in Story 2 either had early onset dementia, was on drugs, or was having a complete mental break. Either way, glad OP had the receipts, although I do believe the Police should have made sure the lady left.
Harsh as it may seem, she could also just be that stupid. Cops can tell you that a lot of their criminals are actually of sound mind and clean of any drugs or conditions, but they honestly believe they can get away with their crime.
When my dad told me he never wanted me, and that I had ruined his life, I felt a huge amount of pain.. for about 10 seconds, and then the most wonderful relief. He had just corroborated what I had felt all my life, and it felt good to hear the truth out of him. I hope OP in story 3 got the same feeling.
Karen : Those AirPods cost 200 hundred dollars!!
Also Karen: Here’s a toy to keep you occupied honey
*hands expensive earbuds to small child*
That last story was #1 in my book. I’ve seen people like that before but I was on my way out to go do something else so I didn’t give it much thought, EXCEPT I truly wished that the people that worked there didn’t have to deal with it much longer. Since I’m a regular at that business I asked what the aftermath was and then the help that I talked to about how that turned out, the help said that her husband was a police officer and made SURE that my question was only one to back up the shop owners rights. I found it hilarious, because the entire shop (owner included) knows me by name and realizes that I would TRULY only ask such a question if I meant well for the people that worked there.
Story three, if you get married, GET A PRENUP!.... otherwise you might just end up handing all your stuff to a gold digger.
First story: "Needs alone time..." And this is my problem as a complete stranger, why?
1st story
I can't even begin to say how often I see parents have left their kids with strangers
When I've gone on trips I tend to hunt down hotels with pools or amenities and seen constantly parents leaving their kids at pools with whoever happens to be there
10. To. 1. The. 4 year old. Gulped it down to listen to her tummy
Story 1: It's amazing how these garbage parents would gladly put their children at risk by sending them over to a complete stranger rather than paying for a trustworthy babysitter or just watching the wee buggers themselves.
Story 2: This woman doesn't just need a mental health screening, she needs to be charged for filing a false police report.
Story 4: So, this woman let a very small child play with hear over-priced earbuds and then thought the only explanation for one going missing was that she'd lost it at a restaurant? Nothing against kids but they aren't exactly known for being careful with objects.
If my father told me that I ruined his life by being born and he wanted to be a football star, I would have told him it's not my fault they were screwing around!
The 4 year old probably swallowed the stupid air pod. I hope she had to dig through his poop for days.
Never let the police into your property without a warrant! State that they can ask you anything they want outside, but they cannot enter.
I don't understand why the 17 year olds didn't just give the child up for adoption? Obviously they resented having a child, why not allow the baby to be a blessing for another couple? I guess they wanted to keep him to punish him for their mistake. How very cruel.
What horrible parents. I'm glad that the grandparents showed the OP the love she deserved, and vice versa.
Story 3: I am very sorry for the sister. That she was raised by them and became what she is today
I used to be a server at Texas Roadhouse, and I had a table accuse me of stealing their air pod charging case. Not the air pods, just the case. They called the cops and everything. Had to be questioned about it. I said they stiffed me on a $91 tab, can I file a report about that? :-)
Title story:
My oldest child was unplanned. That one is the reason my husband stuck around. He and I are now one of those couples others look at and wonder "how can we make our relationship like yours?" Living proof it's all in how you respond to the situation. Those "parents" have no excuse for treating OP they way they did, and deserved to be disinherited.
Last story: Don't expensive electronic devices have insurance?
Story #1 no wonder the bf (and probably husband) left her. Feel bad for the kids...
I already work in retail, but there’s nothing like hearing other retail stories to make you go “how stupid is the majority of the population?
Very. Very, very stupid. Or at the very least have next to no common sense.
I shook my head so much that I got whiplash
1st Story about that mother wanting to leave her kids with strangers:
I still remember how my mother allowed a male patient (she used to be a nurse) who came to the ER to take me home with him for an afternoon for cake because he liked me
I do not remember much of it, so i don't know what or if anything happened
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Story 3: My brother had his son at 18 and though he's not all that happy with how his life played out he never blamed nephew for it. His ex-girlfriend, mother of his child, did more to deserve blame since she, like OP's parents, felt she was entitled to things she didn't earn. Because of her attitude, she lost primary custody and now had to pay child support when she tried to weaponize the court against my brother. To say the judge was disgusted by her would be an understatement. And now her son is an adult and doesn't really talk to her anymore because he hasn't forgotten what she put him through in her quest against my brother all because their son preferred him and his side of the family over hers (the exception being grandma and a couple of uncles, who didn't take her side)
1: If you obey the law and those around you do not, cameras are your friend.
2: OP needs to protect himself. Don’t want cameras? Ok, then get a restraining order against the woman and consider suing her for defamation. Defend yourself before she attacks again or someone else goes nuts. Why didn’t the cops take her for a mental health evaluation?
3: I’ve always thought the concept of “illegitimate” children was stupid. If there is a bad actor, it’s one or both parents, not the child. OP is not doing well. His biological needs are handled, but what of his need for love and belonging?
Blaming a kid for ruining their lives at 17 when he couldn't keep it in his pants or at least use protection
Story#2,I heard she went to get her head examined,but they didn't find anything.😏😏😏
story 1: she needs alone time because she can't pay rent? Ummmm Does she have a John coming over?
Her"Army Stuff"? Holy moly, Batman. Poor officers must have thought she'd lost her mind.
If Karen wants army stuff so bad tell her to go to eBay. Some people.