A time waster has some noticeable characteristics or traits. They have very little time with you, careless about your feelings or emotions and often they annoy you easily. A time waster is violent, nagging, overly jealous, doesn't spend money on you or so often call you. Than discussing the tome wasters traits since they are many and varied, its imperative that we discuss the causes of time wasting. To get a solution for an anomaly, the best thing to do is understand the cause. 1. Almost nil chemistry 2. Nagging 3. Loving his/her money rather than the heart 4. Immediate connection after heartbreak 5. Call for marriage from day one when you hardly know each other 6. Revenge mission 7. Sex interest 8. Temporary shoulder to lean on 9. Child support mission 10. The X factor
My life will never be the same after discovering this talk show. l am learning alot.May you kindly make some subtitles in english so that we don't miss out on important points.
As for me it's not wastage... It's a learning process... I did 5 years dating. I initiated the break up because we were stagnating no way to move forward as her mom was against our union and marriage plan... At some point it seemed too much to bear that i abandoned. If i didn't do so i would have still been there... And during those 5 years i learned a loooot about dating you can't imagine... In fact the guy was truly committed.
I agree with you,you have a very interesting show but please add subtitles when you decide to speak in your language.Remember you have invited people of different languages,please accommodate them
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
Mimi i wasn't even being allowed to watch wedding shows 😂😂😂 he couldn't stand such shows that was a red flag that i ignored fir the longest time ...as if that's not enough he told me point blank he doesn't believe in marriage and weddings still stayed there😂😂... sometimes i ask myself what was i doing hapo ...I think we were just friends with benefits for a long time ...glad reality hit me finally
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
Hi Joyce & Switch Kindly start using subtitles for our brothers and sisters from other countries to get the most out of your amazing content. Some are from South Africa and could not dig the Swahili parts. Thank you
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
@Joyce and Benjamin, absolutely love your show and even invited a couple of friends to follow. As a South African national I tend to get lost in between when you change languages. Please be so kind as to add subtitles🙏🏾
Hallo Joyce, loving your shows with Benjamin. I'm really learning alot. Please discuss on how to deal with long distance relationships #FULLCIRCLEWITHJOYCE
😭😭😭😭wat this man is talking is the exact characters my man had, we broke up just 31 st of last month but I thank God we were not married neither we were living together, dating for 5 yrs but life has to go on.
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
I really like the show but I’m noticing that I’m missing alot of important points because I cannot understand swahili ..Can you please try to lay out the points in English 🙏🏽
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
Pls Joyce Omondi kindly take me as a translator people can't understand kiswahili some parts,topic very nice I understand both, I could help many people
I am from South Africa and I love this show but I get lost during the show whzn you use Swahili, can you please try and accommodate us by including subtitles or using only English ❤️❤️
That depends on how long you have been together. Him adding you in his will could be a trick to keep around him and he continues studying your behaviours. Remember will can be changed at anytime. Get him to commit 😘
I have dated a man for 6months and this man keep asking me fuel incase he wants to visit me, and he doesn't want me to visit place of residence .should I assume this guy is serious for marriage or?
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A time waster has some noticeable characteristics or traits.
They have very little time with you, careless about your feelings or emotions and often they annoy you easily. A time waster is violent, nagging, overly jealous, doesn't spend money on you or so often call you.
Than discussing the tome wasters traits since they are many and varied, its imperative that we discuss the causes of time wasting. To get a solution for an anomaly, the best thing to do is understand the cause.
1. Almost nil chemistry
2. Nagging
3. Loving his/her money rather than the heart
4. Immediate connection after heartbreak
5. Call for marriage from day one when you hardly know each other
6. Revenge mission
7. Sex interest
8. Temporary shoulder to lean on
9. Child support mission
10. The X factor
My life will never be the same after discovering this talk show. l am learning alot.May you kindly make some subtitles in english so that we don't miss out on important points.
Benjamin you are a very wise man and I like listening to you. Thank you for the hard truths and very helpful advice.
Benjamin you are good
Some married women always says "am doing it for the sake of kids" yet there's no love
I wasted 6 years! I look back and thank God for opening my eyes.
I am not being judgemental but you were so naive
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I wasted 7years
I cannot judge you I wasted more than, and I still regret...and red flags were there
As for me it's not wastage... It's a learning process... I did 5 years dating. I initiated the break up because we were stagnating no way to move forward as her mom was against our union and marriage plan... At some point it seemed too much to bear that i abandoned. If i didn't do so i would have still been there... And during those 5 years i learned a loooot about dating you can't imagine... In fact the guy was truly committed.
Please put subtitles for us who don't understand your language we get lost in the conversations 😂 when you switch languages. Thank you
I agree with you,you have a very interesting show but please add subtitles when you decide to speak in your language.Remember you have invited people of different languages,please accommodate them
Correct
Yes please!!!
So true 😃
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
He said, "Kempinski and Kibandaski!" Oh, my poor ribs! 🤣😂
Mimi i wasn't even being allowed to watch wedding shows 😂😂😂 he couldn't stand such shows that was a red flag that i ignored fir the longest time ...as if that's not enough he told me point blank he doesn't believe in marriage and weddings still stayed there😂😂... sometimes i ask myself what was i doing hapo ...I think we were just friends with benefits for a long time ...glad reality hit me finally
Hakuna matata dada, don’t blame yourself over that. Be glad you’re now out of it. 🤛🏾🇿🇦
Am happy for you
Sure, having both parents doesn't guarantee peace.....some homes turn to be hell...reminds me a lot!!
Im all the way from South Africa nd im missing out guys i love listening to you both if you can please use subtitles.
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
Or those engagements that run for 7 years and we have no wedding date set. Kwani you are the Lord of the rings?
Hi Joyce & Switch Kindly start using subtitles for our brothers and sisters from other countries to get the most out of your amazing content. Some are from South Africa and could not dig the Swahili parts. Thank you
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
Joyce that outfit is FIRE!
It's true that's what I'm dealing with now, 7 wasted yrs and a third innocent person involved
Benjamin is so straight n I liked that infact I love it
Wow Zulu my favourite all the way from high school Mbitini Girls high school in kitui county
have learnt alot
Nothing but the Truth..benjamin ur wisdom is Godly
That outfit girl!!!!
My sentiments exactly. Die hard fan from Australia 🎊🇦🇺👍😂
Hi Joyce, I hope you are writing a book on relationship. These are good points to be captured on print
@Joyce and Benjamin, absolutely love your show and even invited a couple of friends to follow. As a South African national I tend to get lost in between when you change languages. Please be so kind as to add subtitles🙏🏾
i just love him. love from Ghana. please go easy with the Swahili on us.
Thanks people
...u love us and we appreciate..I now have to stop running for a soulmate..
the accuracy in what he is saying though lol
Hallo Joyce, loving your shows with Benjamin. I'm really learning alot. Please discuss on how to deal with long distance relationships #FULLCIRCLEWITHJOYCE
Ghaaaai this true i wasted 4yrs wth one guy kumbe he was experimenting ad am there oh being faithful my foot!
Same here my dia but thank God I realised and quit
I feel you😍
I love those twists 😍🥰🔥
Me too
Her hair is beautiful. Looks like crochet braids
I am loving your show Joyce. I think the topic reasonates with A LOT of couples or ex couples
Someone lied to me claiming to be pregnant and after a year, she brought in other issues which really turned me off for this relationship.
Benjamin is soooo hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is healthy talk. 😉👍
it works both ways..some women just waste your time.
Here from the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 I love this channel I’ve learned so much ! Please include subtitles my first language is English 💕🌹 great info!
Yes, same here...Please use subtitles in English
Asante Benjamin! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 I love your sense of humor too 🤣🤣🤣🤣
His laugh though😂😂
Much love from Uganda🇺🇬🇺🇬
U r very right BZ. Women r too needy.
😭😭😭😭wat this man is talking is the exact characters my man had, we broke up just 31 st of last month but I thank God we were not married neither we were living together, dating for 5 yrs but life has to go on.
Very true
Better broken relationship than broken marriage
@@bigben3462 I agree
We share experience. Mine 6 years!
Better broken marriage than suffering
Thank God I bumped into your channel. Newbie here
Much love from ug
But please interpretation for us smhow
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
Love your hair gal.....ni gani hio loo!ing good ..
I really like the show but I’m noticing that I’m missing alot of important points because I cannot understand swahili ..Can you please try to lay out the points in English 🙏🏽
I agree with you, that's my problem also , hope they can stick to English
Thanks for pinpointing that
I agree! The content is so informative but it is hard for my non-Swahili speaking friends to follow the discussions, without any caption/subtitles in English.
Click on the video there is a small box written cc it for subtitles.
@@maureenavilia1216 thank you so much
I really BENJAMIN , I LOVE YOUR IDEAS. PLS !!!!!WOMEN TAKE NOTES.
Let kids play 🤣😅😆😁😂ihave really laughed you cannot tell aclass 3to sit down🤣
I Love You Benjamin Zulu! I Pray you will enjoy a successful, fruitful Marriage!
A child has nothing to do with love🙈🙈
Especially e Mzanzi😒
I appreciate Ben Zulu wise words asante sana ...manze napenda smile ya Joyce
That wheezing laugh😩🤦🏽♀️
Or stridor laugh
🤣🤣
He said “ you can trap me only for so long” 😭
Pls Joyce Omondi kindly take me as a translator people can't understand kiswahili some parts,topic very nice I understand both, I could help many people
What's the hair on Joyce's head???
It's realy beautiful
Rattle the snake by not going with the flow. That always works..
Volume iko sawa. Thank you. I hope I will one day talk to you.........💪
I'm so grateful Benjamin for e show I'm touchef
Good topic. Mr. Zulu hongera
Some subtitles for those that don't understand swahili please. You are watched by the whole world. Other wise I like these shows
I am from South Africa and I love this show but I get lost during the show whzn you use Swahili, can you please try and accommodate us by including subtitles or using only English ❤️❤️
Ado guda luambo,ahuna muvenda asa gudi ngautavhanya.Athetshelesa zwavhudi,udo vhapfa😂
Ndi khou ita ndi tshigavha ene mara zwinzwi zwi a mpfuka, asante sana 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Please most of us are not from South Africa , please give us subtitles for the Swahili or better still take it easy on us. Much love from Ghana
This is Kenya isn't south Africa
I love her hair style
Disclaimer! Zulu looks funny in a short sleeved shirt😄
I feel like subscribing but ur using Kiswahili also please some of us we don't understand Kiswahili only English
Subtitles would be appreciated
How my work this program
I get you nice one
About the women instinct that's very true
Much love to this guy.....
Thanks i stopped flowing i knew it was a wastage
Much love from Kampala Uganda
Benjamin will kill me one daie with laughter
I am from India, watching your show. Pl use English sub titles as I barely understand kswahili.
Benjamin you're really funny but that's really truth!
Would have loved to hear more in English, sounds like a good topic!
Joyce is just so gorgeous!!!
wow he's true. its like he's talking about me
Great insights
Benjamin kindly do you know me its like you are talking abt me.😥😥😥😥
Consider using subtitles
Very good show, pls tell Zulu not to speak too fast.
I know I speak very fast too, fast thinking too perhaps lol
This lady is so pretty
The program not exclusive for Kenyeans pls subtitles. Swa... not our indigenous langauge but zulu. Interesting show.
How do people date for 6yrs?
I also wonder....how on earth?🤔🤔
@@faith_wangare help me ask them 😂😂😂
Or get engaged for 7 years. Kwani you are the Lord of the rings?
@@tinachristine4573 hawa ndio huwa engaged at 19 unaachwa 24 they fell like dying
I wonder too😂😂😂
If he puts you in his will while you are still dating does it mean he sees you as his future wife?????
That depends on how long you have been together. Him adding you in his will could be a trick to keep around him and he continues studying your behaviours. Remember will can be changed at anytime. Get him to commit 😘
Wow thnks for ur tym
Joyce is sooo beautiful
What about us who are over 60s ?
I have dated a man for 6months and this man keep asking me fuel incase he wants to visit me, and he doesn't want me to visit place of residence .should I assume this guy is serious for marriage or?
Pls run
Asking you for fuel to see you😳😳😳😳 just love you self a little and run for your life
Ruuuuun for your life if you love yourself!!
Run away
Are you for real? And you are even asking if he is ready for marriage?
Is it really possible to date for 6 years without sleeping together?
Or should we call it fornication for 6yrs??
I wasted 4 yrs acha tu!
pole.. was it a come we stay?
👑🙏
Use english please i realy wanna follow your hot topics but it gets so annoying wen i dont get your language🤷♀️
your give me work
your give me conversation
How
Nice show but the Kiswahili is too much for some of your online audience
This lady like to speak swahili alot not like the other one .... please everyone request on you to talk in English please do ...
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Tethering 😄😄🤣🤣🤣
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Does this girl irritate any1 else?
Yes Luo's I like the other lady
How to propose to her like a gentleman: th-cam.com/video/KXeTcA1yZJc/w-d-xo.html
Much love from Uganda🇺🇬🇺🇬