When your partner gives you the silent treatment - Benjamin Zulu
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ค. 2020
- We can all agree that there are definitely things you shouldn’t say to your partner during a heated argument. But have you ever given your partner the cold shoulder instead? Uh-oh. Red flag. The silent treatment might seem like a convenient way to opt out of a conversation that is bothering you but this ain't always the solution. In this episode, Benjamin Zulu gets into the gist of this syndrome, analyzing and exposing the dangers that lie underneath.
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We can all agree that there are definitely things you shouldn’t say to your partner during a heated argument. But have you ever given your partner the cold shoulder instead? Uh-oh. Red flag. The silent treatment might seem like a convenient way to opt out of a conversation that is bothering you but this ain't always the solution. In this episode, Benjamin Zulu gets into the gist of this syndrome, analyzing and exposing the dangers that lie underneath. Do not forget to subscribe to our TH-cam channel.. Click here to subscribe -- th-cam.com/users/switchtvkenya
Great tips from our awesome Benjanin Zulu, but know what both Benjamin and Joyce concentrated more on dating partners and almost ignored the married couples with the same traits.Why? My wife is one of such silent types but we have been married for 39yrs. I only came to know why after I registered in counseling therapy college that made me understand that you can't change such people because they were born like that, its their personality type(Blue) and introverts. After discovering that, I then understood how to treat her and the rest is history. On the issue of the red flag Joyce and Benjamin, you are wrong. Dating a partner with this natural temperamentals you cannot see them at the beginning. They come to exhibit later in marriage and I can warn you in advance, when they display it, it comes with too much insecurities and embarrassing public scenes that only the faint hearted can tolerate. In most cases it drives the other party to promiscuity easily because the house becomes unbearable and the element of friendship in that marriage disappeares completely. I managed to mitigate mine in the first 5yrs of marriage but wasn't easy. She never changed completely instead its me that changed my approach to issues. Natural traits never go, at all. Its the victim that changes to let things work. The silence tormentor thrives in narcissistic tendencies and enjoys hurting you. She can make a home a living hell and attacks anyone befriending you, relatives, friends and workmates. They use their perceived superiority complex to manipulate and control the weaker party till it becomes too unbearable and in majority of cases the other party finds peace elsewhere. I have counselled over 500 couples in the same situation but because I managed mine early, its always easy for me to reunite them albeit with difficult transformation journey.
Benjamin Tutu I find your videos more helpful, more informative you not vague as other relationship coaches are. you go into detail.. You right. you always on point!!! 🎭you deserve an award for this brother!! 👌👏👏
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At the 13th minute, tit for tat has never been a fair game.
@@mercyln6646 Kiswahili is a national language so you can't tell them that its rude
Toxic people are manipulative. Never ever regret ghosting toxic individuals.⚠️Stop seeking validation. Stop giving people the power to disrespect you.🤔
Yes! Ghosting toxi People should be encouraged. I call it. Peaceful exit. Run and never look back.
noted and energy gained.....am in a toxic relationship but have choosen to raise that red flag
Wow 🥰 I agree with this
True 💯
I think people should love themselves.. there are things you won't tolerate when you actually love yourself!
You can't avoid the environment. Only feminists can pretend to,
I think you are right. That is the foundation of everything. If you love yourself, some behaviour will just be unacceptable.
@@CaptainteknicsLtd you can choose not to entertain it!
Yes
You see, when you don't know what you don't know, you cannot get out of a situation. For example, if a person grew up with parents who bully n abuse them into submission, it is quite likely that they will end up in a relationship where they will go above and beyond to please their spouse.
A person has to know a thing or two about self love before they can even strive to love themselves.
And then when they learn about self love and that it's actually ok to want to be and do things for themselves, it takes a lot of work to undo the prior beliefs and damage.
So you see my dear everyone's journey is different
I had to find this to heal, silent treatment really hurts
I thought i was alone in the silent treatment I feel now its time to move on thank you for the revelation
I battled this way too long n I guess am also opting out
The feeling sucks like hell i moved on yesterday and loved myself i couldn't take it anymore m happy today
You’re def not alone. I’ve been dealing with this for 20+yrs. I’ve never really paid attention much to it. But I’m realizing I do not wanna grow old like this.
I almost feel like they insecurities come out , secret jealousy and intentionally trying to make you suffer , it’s toxic
That's exactly what's going on in my life right now..and I chose to let go for my own sanity🙏
Courtship is not marriage guys.
Choose wisely, avoid regrets. Thanks
Above all if its not adding up mooove as zulu says
“He should be all over you, sneaking out of work going to the bathroom just to give you a phone call.”
Give zuru more time pls. I really love this program. The two of you do a very good job. Thanks
The behaviours you are describing is called narcissism and can be diagnosed as a narcissistic personality disorder. There are 4 main types that are more toxic; Grandiose, vulnerable, communal and malignant. I just came across this channel and I love the discussions. I live in another continent. Narcissists are everywhere around the world and the behaviour patterns are similar. Unfortunately, it's more prominent in some societies than others due to the norms or if they are more patriarchal.
Whoever is not mature and secure in themselves enough to tell me if I did or said something they dont like, but just goes silent on me...then you better be silent forever because I will not come to you begging you to talk to me or apologising for what I do not know I have done to you....never, ever, ever in life.
Speaking of maturity do you want to know what I don’t like about you?
Absolutely Nothing
Extended silent treatment is abuse, it’s one of the main weapons in narcissist’s arsenal.
Exactly
Has completely destroyed my marriage and my husband plays the victim as usual
Mbaya sana hapo ndio.nakwambia bye🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
@@deelove6138 i Was with such a Person. I left🏃♀️🏃♀️ i cant🙆♀️🙆♀️
@@XaibaSal even for me....he has refused to address issues for years...so i went silent...and he plays along
I believe people who go silent act out of pride especially if they do it more than once..........this kind of behavior might cause depression to the victim 😔😔
Narcissist use silent as a form of control. THEY DO THAT WHEN THEY ARE CHEATING ON YOU.
😂😂
very true
True
So true
This guy has the best relationship advice I have ever heard - it is realistic and makes sense. I even share this video link with my white friends here in North America because his advice is universal!! And Joyce is great as an interviewer. Proud to be a Kenyan!
If one of these narcissistic individuals ever make the mistake of giving me the silent treatment, I will give them a lesson on how to do it the right way.
😂😂😂...I assume by giving it(the silent treatment)back!
True
Wow, amazing teachings and encouragement
Wow. He is professional psychologist. Thank you Zulu
Watching from Japan I am Jamaican 🇯🇲 but watching from Japan and this is happening in my relationship right now. I accidentally found this channel and I will subscribe because my relationship needs help.
~ Neglect and passive aggression is the Secrect weapon for Narcissists to which they impliment to condition you. Formal word is operant Conditioning. Devaluation then Discard!
I think am just scared of relationships because i was abused emotionally and when i was finally free i feel safe alone than with a man in my life
True
We are sailing in the same boat
Same here
God, i can relate
My twin
I know what you talking about. I experienced it all. Immaturity, abusive, manipulation and madness.
They are covert narssistic,most are charming and they treat you like you are the best thing that ever happened to them..Narcissist have the Jezebel spirit
@@princesslove6664 very true l went through alot
Hapo kwa introvert silence he hit the nail on the head. We are not angry or hurt when we are silent, we are just either processing, which we tend to do a lot, or decompressing after high charge interactions
Tell them honey
Please don't claim introvert silence. I know you. 😅
So true I have to process
Avoid hurting others just because you claim to be an “introvert “ consider the other person’s feelings 😐😐
When you are silent for days ,weeks, or months ,dear you are not processing anything. You are just being childish, controlling, manipulating and abusive. And stop using introvert as defense mechanism for your wickedness, because am also an introvert but I don't play silent treatment game
Knowing self worth will make you not tolerate such treatment
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Agreed 💯💯
Thanks much. Have passed through 5 months of these. So help me God.
I sooo love the part about date proactively. This is something I tell my gfs because I’ve made this mistake when I wasn’t datin others and got myself all emotionally wrapped up in someone who wasn’t good for me. This is gist of it all. Continue to date multiple at a time until you meet the one who truly loves you
I wish I knew this a few months ago.
Very true
Preach.
😭😭 Thanks alot you are greatly transforming the life of many🙏
So glad to see this being addressed. Let this generation be wiser than we were in dealing with these toxic individuals.
I hope they will make use of all these information out there. It is really frustrating. Some men can give you this treatment for a whole year.
I agree.... Let's do HOW TO DATE SMART, what to be looking out for, what to focus on during the dating season.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
i dated one who blocked me during that period...i felt so rejected i went down on the knees deadly.....eventually we broke up.and i decided to just block and delete his number for my own healing sake...Years later he came back looking for me...Honestly block every channel that he uses and i am not even contemplating doing overwise.i choose my peace totally.
I know someone like this…wickedness
@@MANDEE7962 so wicked.....so heart less or are they narcissist
Thatss bad na mliongeea na yeye tenaa ama ilishaa hivo
What did u say when he came back to you?
am so proud of this show....its really maturing me...who else is watching from uganda......
Here we gooo
I am
I am..... this show is so educative.
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☔☔💕💕
I'm married to a very quiet man for eight years, five years into marriage instead of me being diagonised with blood pressure, he was diagnosed with ulcers. I realised beside his hospital bed that he was listening, I just couldn't see it. Today having learnt to control my mouth, I have the man I married.
@T C That's wat I thought too. Dont take all the blame. Communication goes both ways
@T C woi, not only in kenya only.kuna watu huwezi elewa.
@T C and the upbringing too.quite traumatising.
Such amazing brain for this world ,
Am privileged to have known you for this far , indeed have learned a lot throughout your engagement with many of us
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
So great . I could listen to him all day
Am feeling blessed to be here... Thank you Lord 😍bless y'all
When i see the signs of yellow card 💳 i give myself red card 💳 mimi nilikuwa nyamanziwa na family mzima hata my husband then i decided to leave i wonder why he is not married again.
Most people feel like they are saints because they don't hit their partners but they are the worst creatures who are wrecking havoc in their partners lives by emotionally abusing them.
I love this topic it has really taught me, have been passing through this but have find the solution to it through you @Benjamin I salute you
Going silent can be another way of showing how tired you have now become. Building up ideas of peace in your discussions or arguments with the person that all they do is to self defend, not willing to apologize following a long list of wrongs you have showed but still you notice pride hanging on their attitude. Silent treatment gives them opportunity to rethink and revisit their behavior to make corrections.
Your right
Thanks for the eye opening🙏🏾
Great presenter and great guest. Am from South Africa, thank you guys
If you are in a relationship with narcissist they will never change and if the cheat on you.let them go ,they will do the same to the new supply. They get bored easily and they are always looking for a new supply.Dont ignore the warning signs.
Have always believed in love to cure many things but it only fed my narc’s enormous ego. it is important to be wise when dealing with a narcissist and I’m glad that darkwebprohack helped cloned my husband’s phone. i got access to his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone,I’m here in Miami Florida USA and able to access my husband’s phone with a cloned app even while his was away in the UK cheating on me.All I did was share my husband’s phone number with darkwebprohack and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone through a remote link to a programmed app containing cloned cell information without having to touch his phone...my husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of darkwebprohack. My husband also tried to use this corona virus outbreak as a means to get back to me but I’m not stupid to allow someone so toxic back into my life, I’m finally going through divorce with a lot of evidence against him. i read all deleted and chat on Whats app,Facebook,Instagram and GPS location of his phone at all times, you can contact the great hacker via Gmail (darkwebprohack) or text and speak to him directly on the phone and Whats App +17076225057 and I hope you will fund the peace with your heart after finding the truth just like myself.
Am in it already
Guys, your stories are giving us goosebumps at the extend that we are afraid to settle in! Seriously.... What a life. Pure mess!
I have learnt alot.we need more Benjamin zulu
Mr Zulu at it...you do make me..lots of love from Zambia 🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲
Benjamin Zulu is one of the best fitness instructor hv ever met in Kenya...I miss his classes in Shuge🙏💪💪🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Wow really? That's why he looks so fit and healthy and sound.
I have enjoyed the topic. Thanks Joyce and Zulu. God bless you
this show is compulsory to be followed by everyone that wants a brighter relationship.....benjamin and joyce.......mob love from ug
Kekyo
COMPULSORY
Brighter relationship!Amen...
True
If anyone sees my husband out there, please tell him am looking for him.😂
I can't get all this wisdom for nothing
Please come for an 'interview.'
😂😂😂😂
😂😂
🤣🤣
😂😂 I die
Most narcissistic people are in that category of ghosting you. It’s a serious emotional manipulation that can cause health issues as you try to figure out what to do.
I fall on one of his video and I'm addicted... Can't stop watching allll the videos
Have gone even on FB and Instagram to follow Benjamin
He is amazing
So amazing
Yes i agree he’s well versed on relationships
I love this topics on marriage and relationships. Honestly people are going through things..
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
It actually hurts now that I realise I have been ignoring the red flags.
Wow this is so educative .
This man is a wise person
If a man give me a silent treatment for a day, anakula block pap, i don't entertain childishness and immaturity
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Ignore me for a day and i'll multiply it for u😂
This one made my night woiyee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣u said pap
🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Una sound inmature kabisa.. Lazima mtu akutext kila siku.. Kwani they don't have nothing think of,, maybe they're going something.. 🤣
Benjamin Zulu I just love your advice... people should know that silence does not help whether introverts or extroverts....if you can't speak let the other person leave. It's more of immaturity to me
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Oh my God this person is so amazing! Straight forward comment on issues!
Aaahh man I don't normally comment but Mr Zulu 🙌🙌👏👏👏 may God keep blessing you. Much wisdom.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I feel waaaaay wiser in matters concerning relationships.Thanks to zulu😊
Always a realist... I like your way of thinking. Always very informative.. 😎
Benjamin, you should have added when someone ghosts you they teach you how to cope without them in your life and there's a risk of falling out of love & hence replacement pap! apa ndio unasonga mbele kama injili
Im in that process right now! Haleluya
What I need right now
Exactly 💯
😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️
Yes,not talking for one year
Learning alot thanks Mr.Zulu
we need more of Benjamin....more and more and more
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
this man is too good.
Thank you Mr. Zulu, these are priceless gems I will take with me in my future relationship.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
My partner that uses silent treatment once told me he advised his friend not to talk to his own wife when they were having problems. Is that not demonic... And he was telling me this story with joy in him.
Wicked 😂😂
He is a pure narcissist himself.... That what I have been suffering.
Now those silent treatment moments he gives me I use that time to do what I like most... It is like time for a holiday where no one can question me since he is now momentarily deaf and dumb. 😂
Awesome lessons, I honestly enjoy watching.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Benjamin I'm here because of you I like your advice
My husband is a people's pleaser. He will give you the silent treatment and speak to his mother who is staying with us. People are telling me that I'm glad that I'm happily married they don't know.
I know what you talking about
I know this feeling, we're sailing in the same boat.
Love your show🙌 Watching from South Africa.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Watching this makes me glad that am single 😂😂😂
Me to
Lol yes😅
Me too
Me too
Id rather be in the drama than be single.
I think zulu should also tackle the issue of narcissist.how to know if you are in one.
He's done it😅.. Check it out on Switch TV videos
Hello Anthony
The link below will take you to the video in question
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Trueeee,,,aki I feel like am in one😥
Mirror his behavior.
He pulls back, you pull back
Men can't take it if you dishing what he is giving.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
What kind of relationship is that- just leave- if they thinks it’s acceptable they won’t change
Exactly
Mapenzi imetesa watu may God have mercy on the people who loves others from their deepest part of their hearts 🙏🙏🙏thot i was alone
am here dying because of tolerate a man who is manipulating me but I hv to correct my self from today
I may not agree with every topic Benjamin talks about but this is a gem of great and invaluable information.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
This guy is a real expert
There is a lady i have been chasing and she visited me just the other day and left to her place the same day. she has been silent for two days now. I almost dived into thoughts and worried why she is not getting back but after listening to Zulu. Am okay, i decided to love myself and focus. If she is meant to be she will talk when she feel like it. Thanks man
I wish I was u before the mistakes I made, ruuuuuuuuuuuun for your self-esteem
She visited me and my parent home, then the following day she just told me we need broke up just from nowhere
Interviews are done in the board room not in the bedroom 👍🏾☑️
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Wow! This came right on time.
It's really crazy when the mute mode is applied in a marriage
You not sure whether to quit or what...
If you can't quit use those times do what makes you happy... Look beautiful take care of yourself.... Love yourself until he comes out of it himself. Simple. Enrich yourself.
Thanks for the topic I have learnt a lot.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
How to date smart. Looking forward to that 👌
Iam anew subscriber from Uganda but watching from Jordan I love your shows Benjamin and Joyce God bless you all
Benjamin u always nails it, as for me I don even know how to fall in love
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Lol...😂😅
Wat I hv come to realise is that fews couples are happy in there marriages
Few sana!!. Marriage is just overated
Marriage is rubbish cheating lies abuse mood swings murderes husband
With Benjamin's wisdom he does not deserve a 26.18 mins session....we would like it to be atleast 1hour. with 26 mins session, you go on breaks2 to 3 times.
Well noted @Silasproff
True
Now I've learnt a lot and am ready to practice it to my future husband 🤔🤔🤔🤔
He explained my condition so right.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Wisdom Of The Highest, Order MR Zulu More Grace..
Hello first time here👏🏽👏🏽🔥
Thank you for the revelation
This is so educative👌 I salute you Zulu 🙏🏼
Interesting topic. Silent treatment can be toxic in a relationship
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Benjamin Zulu, where were you in the early 90's when I married a man who controlled my life, my money, etc but he was the kindness, sweetest person to everyone. Unfortunately, I spend 21 years being married to him with 2 children. Another 6 years separated but still in contact for the kids sake.
I always thought it was my fault..
Thank you even if your message is 27years late for me because my children will definitely not go through wht I went through. Not pn my watch!
He was a narcissist.
Narcissist pap
They make sure that u look bad coz they potray this perfect image of themselves out there
@@lettice7015 yes they do. And just 3 weeks ago, as I signed the divorce papers, he said he knew from year 1 he didn't want to be married to me anymore, but wanted to punish me.
I finally put some boundaries in place and I'm working on me. I'll be ok
Woyeeee!! Hugs mama
I wish I had these teachings before I get married, by then there were no cellphones n utubes.
I really think ghosting is for the immature....I can't handle such guys to me is a No!No!...if we can't resolve our issues let's just end!
This is such an interesting channel!
I'm glad youtube recommended. I can tell its a Kenyan t.v. however I'm sure I'm not only non Kenyan viewer. I feel so lost when the hostess and the guest speak their native language or the viewers write msgs to the show in their language. Lol ... To switch tv I wish you could make foreigners feel more involved. All love still x
People need to be able to express themselves in their language and or language of choice.
What about all the channel in Chinese, French or Hindi? Should they all now be in a language you understand?
@@imaradeng954 Surely everyone is allowed to express themselves in their language of choice. As an English speaker I wont watch french Hindi or Chinese channels. Do You?
This particular show is in English as we can all tell.
Am i asking them to stop speaking their mother tongue? no. Maybe a little less of it ? Yes, just So that us non Kenyan viewers on this channel can feel more involved and not feel lost. Is there a problem please?
Their major target audience is Kenyans and EastAfricans hence the use of Swahili here and there.
There is google translate for the comments
Their major audience is only East africans??
Then they should speak only in swahili and write the title in swahili. 😮
Then we won't be able to read it .
Hi Benjamin you have been so helpful with your relationship advice can you please kindly do a video on ghosting where someone just desapeared with no reason at all. You were OK before and he just varnishes on this planet 🤷🤷🤷😳😳😳
been there...mostly men who do that: like you, but they are too broken, non- communicative and not ready for a relationship. Best thing is to run coz it will be emotionally draining for you. Run!
Don't wait on such a person. They'll ruin your mental health. Run and block them. They are up to no good. They will surely come back but just to feed they ego and then disappear again.
I really needed to hear this .... yaaah someone is manipulating and abusing me here uhmmmm thanks benjamin fof the advice
Benjamin is more than I ever heard of advice and wisdom from.... God because he is really a good talented but not only that but gifted.
I Wana ask the management to bring up one day in the course of the week the whole day whether in the morning or evening /night to share his blessed wisdom
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you