I think you're on the right (efficient) path. I'm 42 and I wish someone told me to pay attention to how I felt when I did different activities. The things that I would hyperfocus on or could do until I was mentally or physically exhausted were the things that eventually brought me success. The stuff that I could do but found immediately draining were dead ends. It took a long time to shake off the internalized expectations of teachers and family. School is indoctrination specifically for white collar work. School desk to desk job. Most ppl have the same skills in offices and are replaceable. Hardest thing for me tho was to let go of what I thought i *should* do and to lean in to doing what felt easier. I slowly realized I was doing stuff other people couldn't do or found difficult. Suddenly I had a comparative advantage and professional success
hi Karima, i just want to say that, in addition to the inspiring thoughts, there’s just something very authentic, calming and beautiful that shines through you in these little talks. I hope that everything will work out for you because gentle souls like you deserve every good coming their way. Thank you for sharing :)
Thank you for showing this method, I'm going to definitely try it out! I also hope that you succeed in your goals, and figuring out your place in this weird world.
I love the fact that these kinds of videos are on my TH-cam feed. God bless the TH-cam algorithm! Anyways I am a profitable day trader who is struggling literally to find true success due to self doubt and comparison. Currently taking a prop firm evaluation to acquire some funding but lord alone knows how stressful and draining imposter syndrome can be. I’ve come a LONG way from being absolute shit at trading and being scammed a lot so I guess I should be mindful of that. Seeing videos like these always reminds me that we’re not as alone as we think we are. To you, Karima I truly do wish you the best…I feel the EXACT same way socially, but I guess if you work hard enough to improve yourself it’ll all balance out with time…that’s how I started to see some little success. (No where near where I want to be just yet tho). Try not to focus on a timeline tho, that makes your mental health far worse I’ve realized. You should probably try out the digital nomad life but first find ways to sustain yourself. TH-cam has EVERYTHING. Good luck 😅
If you're interested in Philosophy and Psychology, Michael Sugrue, rest his soul, has absolutely wonderful lectures here on youtube. They won't help you answer any of your questions but they will direct you towards the minds that may help. Alan Watt's, another of the deceased, has many lectures on eastern philosophy with a more Zen Buddhist focus. Just don't take in too much philosophy/psychiatry/theology at once or you'll end up worse off.😁
The only real question you need to ask is if you want to have a family or not. Everything else you can change your mind later. Ps: Pin the mic to your shirt and leave it in there. Keep up the videos 😊
@@AlsoknownasBK the proposal or the remark about your voice? 😊 But yes, you're welcome, it genuinely is a smooth and soothing voice, and being heavily into ASMR, nice voices are my kryptonite
@@AlsoknownasBK it is definitely something that you may have to go out of the way for and i understand that completely. i have always wanted to have a pen pal. Or maybe not a pen pal, but just someone to share the experience of growth with. It’s common to go through these hard experiences trying to better yourself somewhat alone. Nice to have someone there to hold you accountable and likewise. What you are doing is very inspiring, and frankly… very admirable. I am trying to do the same for myself but it does get difficult. im not exactly alone and im pretty sure you aren’t either but its nice to go through hard experiences with someone else doing the exact same thing. Maybe ill just check in from time to time on your youtube. i don’t know how i found you but youve inspired me to do better and its only human nature to want to be connected to that person in some way. Im gonna stop typing here i probably sound like a weirdo 😆
@@Inseptembertowers I think it’s very cool of you reach out and It’s worth a try 😌🤝It could be fun especially since one of my goals is to work on my writing. Also thank you for the kind words, I’m still in disbelief that there are so many people on here that are enjoying the process as much as I am😁
@@AlsoknownasBK your very welcome. Vulnerablity, when its genuine, will always inspire. Its no surprise that people want to be apart of this. Self improvement is very much “in” right now 🙂 alright then, how shall we go about doing this? My first thoughts were to write on physical paper then perhaps scan/take a picture of the paper, then send via email. For privacy purposes of course. Or type out a letter then send via email, but then you that would defeat the purpose of you working on your handwriting. Or just traditionally send a physical letter through the mail… But that takes time-and while not much, money. What are you thinking ?
I think you're on the right (efficient) path. I'm 42 and I wish someone told me to pay attention to how I felt when I did different activities. The things that I would hyperfocus on or could do until I was mentally or physically exhausted were the things that eventually brought me success. The stuff that I could do but found immediately draining were dead ends. It took a long time to shake off the internalized expectations of teachers and family. School is indoctrination specifically for white collar work. School desk to desk job. Most ppl have the same skills in offices and are replaceable.
Hardest thing for me tho was to let go of what I thought i *should* do and to lean in to doing what felt easier. I slowly realized I was doing stuff other people couldn't do or found difficult. Suddenly I had a comparative advantage and professional success
hi Karima, i just want to say that, in addition to the inspiring thoughts, there’s just something very authentic, calming and beautiful that shines through you in these little talks. I hope that everything will work out for you because gentle souls like you deserve every good coming their way. Thank you for sharing :)
Thank you! I wouldn't be able to be who I am without knowing there are some really beautiful people like you in the world😌😁
so glad you're doing weekly uploads now!!
Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for showing this method, I'm going to definitely try it out! I also hope that you succeed in your goals, and figuring out your place in this weird world.
Thank you, and I wish you the best of luck too! If there is anything else that you would change, I would be happy to hear it.
So cool to find a youtube channel of someone just sharing their life experiences. This vid was really helpful, ill try it out
i never thought about doing something like this, i think it can be really helpful and make you realize a lot of things. thank you and good luck!
I love the fact that these kinds of videos are on my TH-cam feed. God bless the TH-cam algorithm!
Anyways I am a profitable day trader who is struggling literally to find true success due to self doubt and comparison. Currently taking a prop firm evaluation to acquire some funding but lord alone knows how stressful and draining imposter syndrome can be. I’ve come a LONG way from being absolute shit at trading and being scammed a lot so I guess I should be mindful of that.
Seeing videos like these always reminds me that we’re not as alone as we think we are.
To you, Karima I truly do wish you the best…I feel the EXACT same way socially, but I guess if you work hard enough to improve yourself it’ll all balance out with time…that’s how I started to see some little success. (No where near where I want to be just yet tho). Try not to focus on a timeline tho, that makes your mental health far worse I’ve realized. You should probably try out the digital nomad life but first find ways to sustain yourself. TH-cam has EVERYTHING. Good luck 😅
Thank you for sharing! This truly has given me something to think about. I wish you luck with your evaluation and all the best with your trades😁
@@AlsoknownasBK yea I’ll try to stay up to date with your content and progress in life as a whole. Best of luck 🤞🏾
I love this!!!! Who you want to be is the most important thing in the world. You are so awesome and so beautiful!!!!!
good video, ill probably do mine again
Next time, make a video in the mountains!
I'll see what I can do😄
Merci pour le partage!
Baby Gang
cheers!
If you're interested in Philosophy and Psychology, Michael Sugrue, rest his soul, has absolutely wonderful lectures here on youtube. They won't help you answer any of your questions but they will direct you towards the minds that may help. Alan Watt's, another of the deceased, has many lectures on eastern philosophy with a more Zen Buddhist focus. Just don't take in too much philosophy/psychiatry/theology at once or you'll end up worse off.😁
Keep being real Karima
❤🎉
6:14 sorry but I got distracted by those hairs you put back but they keep coming back as well XD
Don’t worry😌 I probably did too😄
The only real question you need to ask is if you want to have a family or not. Everything else you can change your mind later.
Ps: Pin the mic to your shirt and leave it in there.
Keep up the videos 😊
Sadly, the quality of the mic is 10x worse if I leave it on my shirt, but thank you for the tip either way😁
Shit handwriting
Doesn't maintain eye contact
Marry me
btw, I really like your voice, it's lovely
That's very kind of you 😄
@@AlsoknownasBK the proposal or the remark about your voice? 😊
But yes, you're welcome, it genuinely is a smooth and soothing voice, and being heavily into ASMR, nice voices are my kryptonite
You ever had a pen pal ?
Never gave it chance to be honest😄 I always struggled with writing back😅
@@AlsoknownasBK it is definitely something that you may have to go out of the way for and i understand that completely. i have always wanted to have a pen pal. Or maybe not a pen pal, but just someone to share the experience of growth with. It’s common to go through these hard experiences trying to better yourself somewhat alone. Nice to have someone there to hold you accountable and likewise. What you are doing is very inspiring, and frankly… very admirable. I am trying to do the same for myself but it does get difficult. im not exactly alone and im pretty sure you aren’t either but its nice to go through hard experiences with someone else doing the exact same thing. Maybe ill just check in from time to time on your youtube. i don’t know how i found you but youve inspired me to do better and its only human nature to want to be connected to that person in some way. Im gonna stop typing here i probably sound like a weirdo 😆
@@Inseptembertowers I think it’s very cool of you reach out and It’s worth a try 😌🤝It could be fun especially since one of my goals is to work on my writing. Also thank you for the kind words, I’m still in disbelief that there are so many people on here that are enjoying the process as much as I am😁
@@AlsoknownasBK your very welcome. Vulnerablity, when its genuine, will always inspire. Its no surprise that people want to be apart of this. Self improvement is very much “in” right now 🙂
alright then, how shall we go about doing this? My first thoughts were to write on physical paper then perhaps scan/take a picture of the paper, then send via email. For privacy purposes of course. Or type out a letter then send via email, but then you that would defeat the purpose of you working on your handwriting. Or just traditionally send a physical letter through the mail… But that takes time-and while not much, money.
What are you thinking ?
lovee the mic update!! 🫨 i wish i had any advice at all 🙃
No worries!😁I'm sure there will be something along the way😌