People who’ve never experienced a narcissist just wouldn’t understand they come in ruin your life and you’re still victim to their bs even when you block them from your life
They can't tear down what they never built ... Which is Me !!! & When you got God as head over your life .. they see in the end the joke was on them !!!! All Glory To God !!!
Experiencing a narcissist relationship was a lesson GOD was teaching me on how to love myself and stop putting man before me now I know who my REAL DADDY IS
Amen... same lesson I've learned. Finally understood & Accepted what God kept telling me "I sat you apart" "I validate you" that toxic relationship was the cherry on top God's final warning/lesson... I Finally Got it. I'm grateful for the experience. Finally remembered my worth.
Oh trust me, they DO get karma. A lot of it. That's why they try to hide it so much. 😅 But if you know how they move, you already know what they do. They are fck ups and are always getting into stuff. The longer you stay away, the more karma they get.
I'm from Sweden. I was married to a narcissist for ten years. It was a trap. He lovedbombed me and moved me från Stockholm to his little house in north of Sweden. I was isolated. I came to him with my beloved dog. He killed the dog first thing and pretended It was an accident. My heart broke. He wanted to be the only one. He lied about being sober. He was an periodic heavy drinker. After a few months when he was sure that I could not go no where he started to devaluate me. Fatshaming. I was ugly. No clothes or colors fitted me. Stupid. Boring. He had me pay for everything. Take care of the house. Walking on eggshells. I finally succeeded to get a divorce when I found out he had a young russian photomodel chatting with her on our computer. Karma do exist - he was fooled by criminals. He sended money to "his Russian girlfriend" for tickets to Sweden. She never showed up. He lost his house, farm, land and is still in depths. He is now out of work and homeless. I have a good income. A nice place to live and a better future ahead of me. I just have to forgive myself of being so naiv. You should also forgive yourself. More healthy people like us have a hard time understanding how narcissists operates. It's sad though that we now have to find the red flags in every new person we meet. Take care and God bless you. Marion
After narc attack it's a painful lesson. Forgive yourself, you were deceived and find time to heal, love and forget the past. I can now detect a narc straight away, not fooled by BS anymore.❤❤
It is mighty interesting to experience someone who doesnt want you, has moved on to bigger andnbetter fast and also wont allow you to move on and keeps monitoring you.
Yesss that’s what’s crazy.. they refuse to leave you alone, yet at the same time they refuse to behave and act right. Like fool you don’t even like me… because your actions show me you don’t, yet you want to continue to Hoover and email me saying lies.. you lunatic! You’re bored and you need attention, or whatever you had going on fell through so now you’re back 🙄.
That’s right! No respect for anyone associated! No contact! Most of all no remorse either because all that plotting and planning and manipulation it’s doing too much! We too grown for childults smh
What made it easier for me to leave the relationship is when I realized that none of its was real. The relationship was just a facade who wants to be with a person that do not have the capacity to love or have any empathy. I’ve been in my relationship for over eight years, it’s hurt. But like I said finding out that this person has a disorder made it easy to let go. Nonetheless, I tried to tell my ex that he has a problem and we can try therapy but he just laughed at me. Anyway and almost 2 months free from this abuse. But I don’t know what’s real anymore.
Does anyone know that feeling when you have a lot of love to give, and you love to spoil someone, but you can't find the one worthy to receive it? I'm in the choking back the tears phase of the exit...they say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Good luck everyone ❤
Lesson learned WOW WHAT A NIGHTMARE RIDE!! Thank you god for my strength for getting rid of that trash nothing to offer all talk no action! And what’s funnier was my ex husband was the one to to tell me to RUN LOL toxic mamas boy liar, cheater, and fake I’m so out KARMA WILL COME AROUND🤷🏻♀️TRASH ME ALL YOU DID BUT I KNOW MY SELF WORTH SEE YA
💯💯💯% man nobody can tell me what I saw… eyes completely black body aches stomach pains, that was fight or flight primal predator. Divine woke us up I’m telling you once you face that your life changes.
@@come_on_barbie_123 yes I never had my neck and back seized up so tight. Driving in the car acceleration and braking at stop lights sent fire down my neck a shoulders. Stomach pains were very bad in the mornings no appetite at all.
@@ninath13 This really is spiritual warfare out here… we all dealt with the Reprobate mind to destroy our light inside that person was assigned to us, we repeat the lessons till we wake up from this matrix. We are saved by holy father not left behind❤️🕊⛪️
This experience is so relatable and accurate. Discard, smear campaign, and flying monkeys. It destroys who you are as a person and causes you to have to rebuild yourself. If cards are played right you can become the victor vs the victim. Regroup, rebuild, and reinvent and come out even better than before!!!
I was my husband karma. He saw me as his come up. He mirrored me. He had to be a Christian he had to become a family man a father he had to work and he had to deal with extended family. After leaving this looooooong term relationship he is living in that house on the hill by himself. No running from that game you never intended on seeing it through.
that is so true, they take your life and have others think you are the one but you are not alone keep going hard as it might be just stay strong and let God lead you out of this will see all that was with this mess but keep going you get thru this we are hear
Wow, we have very parallel stories. I never knew someone I thought was so good, was actually so evil. I figured it out but after lots of different types of damage. I was able to let him know I figured him out, before he passed from a heart attack!
My heart goes out you. I may have to listen to this video again. I seemed to have missed your point. But thank God you are free to love again. The narc will never know what that is truly like. Every thing in this world has a expiration date. Say a positive prayer for them. Live your best life!
I’ve witness karma and have been privileged to get a better understanding without looking via social media. These fools live in hell everyday; mentally tormented, get with tormented people and nothing ever goes right for them. I prayed GOD show him the lesson he needed and I was answered !!
@@NinthJewel I was there in that space constantly & not believing how good GOD is but believe me they are getting it. It’s hard to see with out the physical signs but they are living in hell!! I promise you don’t want to witness it because for myself I wanted to help and save him but we have to stay out the way honestly it’s not a good look!!
This is my same story but it’s deeper . It was truly one of the worst demonic situation I’ve experienced. Embarrassing is understatement . This is Encouraging to want to speak out about one day.
I went total NO Contact also, and disconnected with those we knew in common, in that context freed myself totally from ALL that EVIL and don't even know what happened after I moved across the USA. 3yrs this month 😊😊😊😊
From experience it's best to block your old life, it's like turning a page in a book...to a NEW chapter. As this gentleman is saying give yourself time to heal from the trauma, and all the emotions that go along with it. The word NO takes in a whole new meaning...you will learn to treasure your Spirit, heart and soul and above all "PEACE"🕊️❤️. Shalom and God Bless you🙏🏾🙌🏾.
Thank GOD for us empaths, because we have compassion enough to not have harmed them.. I was almost at the brink,and ended up in jail after finally standing up to the abuse. Gave my x a serious spanking. GOD through my REPENTANCE had mercy on me,and dropped the charges. And sent me to the book of Exodus about Moses becoming so grieved in his spirit regarding the consistent abuse he witnessed of his fellow brothers and sisters the Israelites, being abused by the Egyptian pharaohs. A lot of Narcissists end up dead messing with the wrong person. GOD will eventually send an adversary there way...Oh it's coming. God's timing is not our timing. The wicked dig their own ditch,and there's never any peace for the wicked just as GODs has promised
@@TeresaGarcia-qt3ozNarcissists will use the police threat as a form of control,and to devalue you and your character. But when my ex did it to me,it backfired on him, because I went into spiritual warfare,and GOD showed up on my behalf. Later when he tried to hover to get me back,I found out he lost everything. His apartment,new car,job,and was pleading for me to not leave him. He also had to go into a recovery home for men because he had nowhere to go
Its really sad i know first hand how you feel these people are heartless they dont care if you have children with them or you have history with them they are evil to the core. Im just now learning to heal and move on . I only hope that you educate yourself on the charateristic of these people because they are really mentally sick and you really should heal yourself first and once you heal allow yourself to be loved again but by the right woman. I remember once my ex told me no man wouldnt want me because i was to uptight and my standands were to much ? Really..by just asking him to be honest and trust worthy.
I felt like I should tell some people connected to my Ex-narc why I'm going to block them. Now that I've listened to your post, I'm thinking I should just block them and go on with my life. I already blocked his so called friends but not his sister & nephew. They were very nice to me so blocking them, well, I was feeling bad about doing it. Not like I'm close to them or anything, just felt like it would be the right thing to do. Blocking feels mean to me but I know it's not. I'm being mean to myself by keeping these reminders in my contact list. Blocked. I'm sure they'll figure out why I did it. Heck, they likely won't even notice or really care. Thank-you for all that you do! ❤
I know you feel bad for blocking people but I'm here to tell you, that it's very NECESSARY. I blocked everyone except the narc's aunt because "she was nice". I later found out that she had been sharing information with the narc that I trusted her with. Mind you, she was aware of how destructive the narc was. She was even supportive when I had to deal with the narc and his ugliness once I decided to leave him. I thought I could trust her, but it turned out she was playing both sides. Talking trash about the narc to me and then sharing information with him knowing I had a protective order on him. She was messy and when I found out, I told her (politely) that I figured her out and that I would no longer have her as a friend and blocked her. Mind you, this was an elderly woman so I would've never expected that from her. I believe she turned once she started to see that I started to genuinely move on with my life, unlike the narc, who spent a lot of his time on social media trying to trigger me and play the victim. I believe she was resentful because I cut off communication with the narc even though she knew why, but because he manipulated her, she started to see me as this careless person since I didn't let the narc effect me .
I had to block my sister and her grankinds that led to me blocking my only daughter.. all I can say is toxic is toxic ……..no explanation is needed they know why if your dealing with a true narcissist it will be a matter of life or death most times !
I REALLY Do FEELIN YOU❣BECAUSE ÍT HAPPENED YO ME sẻveral times In my life, That I can tell you of my experiences too,I do know that the Lord has seen the REAL TRUTH OF THE MATTER,and that the Narrissist will get their Towers will fall on them & them flyinmonkeys ENVIOUS, backfire on all they're asses gonna get EXSPOSED and handled from that of your Innocent soul.
So sorry it happened to You, I can Still feel the emotions in your voice talking about this topic. I pray you continue to Heal…. I just ended a 5 yr relationship with someone I clearly now understand is a covert psycho narcissist and am Drained, thankfully have a strong support system and God to lean on!!🙏🏽
I really appreciate your insights. I can totally relate and understand. I found out at 68. Stay strong young man. God covered me in my journey ( for truth)😂❤
OHH MY GOSH!....I remember that,..hanging out with his family it was always something brewing in that clan,...specially Christmas,..the drama queen his mother put on such a show.
👇🏽Right now I return all lack, loss, theft, plots, ploys, despair, hopelessness, helplessness, vulnerability, isolation, black magick, curses, spellwork, toxicity, hostility, confusion, lethargy, brain fog, negative energy, energy harvesting, gang stalking, and negative projections back multiplied to all who sent it and meant it for me, especially Anita, Beverly, Tony B., Angela, Tonya, and each member of all family covens. 🙏🏽It is done.
And add Dale Cunningham to the list I know he is going straight to hell he's so evil he destroyed his own family and still is telling lies he cursed his own seed I got to pray his demons out of my bloodline I'm so sorry I ever met him he's a real demon 👹👿👺
I can relate to this a lot, I’m playing that waiting game also, their path is linear - destination fkd, It’s all about patience and when everyone finally gets to see what’s behind their mask they’ll be so far in the distance we won’t even care anyway. 👊🏻
I can relate to this so much now that I look back on the relationship there was so many red flags and so many lies and nieve to things that I felt I had to protect her from all the long I was alone on things all along I thought if I protect her from people that manipulated her it will be ok but it just always seem to draw her into that light, I could never trust her I was killing myself trying to give and give them being told she doesn’t want it anymore so many times it got me codependent even though I made all the financial decisions I still couldn’t make it work and it always seem to be her fault but she didn’t want to hear that just that I find a way, I was risking a life not knowing my kids because of her careless spending only to just be laughed at or anything I would say about her toxic friend that I felt she shouldn’t be around her she would tell them it could never be equal and nothing was ever enough. I show my kids real love but she doesn’t know this just to abandon is all she knows. I don’t know how to coparent with her it’s all counter parenting and I don’t know what to do I’m stuck in my own house but I feel like it’s not my house at all, I can’t kick her out because it’s not me and I can’t go to court because they will take her side people that know me know I am not abusive but she frames me as it. I just want to live free with my kids is all.
Part of me just really hopes they find a happy situation so they can stop hurting people and using people. I wish them so much happiness, and to have it separate from me.
I love your channel because no man speaks so honestly about their life. Many channels give only general info about narcs, which is also useful but it makes those speakers so similar to one another.
MyMyMy the smear campaign smh the Ex, went to sleep fine and woke up talking about he had A dream “ of me and my first baby dad ( from 20 years ago) in bed in a hotel and really believed it told our children about the dream and told my family smh.. he completely ran with it. I thank the Lord for keeping me, single now 2yrs and legally divorced as of 03/23. 🙏🏾❣️
Sorry about that I was trying to say I armed myself with education and when I figured out he was gaslighting and manipulative and controlling on top of a liar I went no contact changed my number and moved jokes on you never will you have a loving Aquarius like me I operate from the heart 💜❤️ only
I’m real I’ve been involved with a super narc for over 20yrs. All of my intuitions that she manipulated to not believing are coming to light. I remember everything over the years and see now what it was. The same way we met is the same way she has moved on from me 2 times. Constantly overlapping relationships with 0 care. I’ve seen her talk to so-called friends at a particular time expressing how she got different guys she talk to and I’m thinking like how are these friends that know you are married yet you talking about all these other dudes you talking to. But she’s VERY good with manipulation. She basically reinvented her identity and is now this successful serial entrepreneur that has all this admiration and fame and 100s of ppl just believing in her story. That’s the easiest way for them to escape their reality when you find them out is to move on to a new life that they can narrate. I’ve been knowing her 23yrs I am the ONLY person the knows who she really is and she knows that.
The lies she tells for no reason is just crazy. Just in normal conversation with nobody even asking her anything she would need to lie about she will lie. The red flags are clear when you see them 1-2 times. If something doesn’t sit right with you hold your heart. Most men naturally give women the benefit of the doubt NOT expecting them to have a mamas nature. Nah, women out here today when more sx partners than men. Those trips out of town on business I guarantee she meeting a man there. I even went on a trip with her for 2 days and another dude was there the next day after I left. I discovered this. I also have a female friend that is married that often ask me to meet her out of town somewhere when she goes on business. I’ve never done it.
Thank you for sharing this. 40 years later at age 62 i walked out with my clothes. Its chanels like this that woke me from a very deep slumber. Now i have to hear how i have been mentally affected by the pain meds i had to take for spinal surgery last year. Its exhausting as he is literally harassing me with calls and emails . Then i still have to go through a divorce with this person
Thank you for sharing your story. I am almost two years no contact despite getting a restraining order and him calling my job. I changed my number and no longer is on social media. He turned everyone against me even my so called friends. I feel alone but relieved that I am free from the abuse. They are the devil!!! Blessings to you and your content.
Brother, you just gained a new subscriber. Thank you for sharing your story. I felt your heart as you told your story. I’ve been dealing with a Narc for sometime and recently he discarded me after I called him out and held him accountable for his behavior towards me for disrespect and being unappreciated. This is a demonic spirit this is prevalent in the land. God is the only one that can change these demons and also deal with them in his own way. Once God deals with them no one can help them. Thank you Brother. May God continue to bless your channel as a ministry tool to help us who are surrounded by narcs in and outside the church.
Thank you for sharing your experience because it does feel lonely when you’re in it and it is even worse when you are in business or have kids with the narcissist. It is literally detrimental to your health.
I applaud you my brother for sharing. I am going through this now and making my exit. God bless you and I wish you all that happiness your heart and hands can hold. This is not easy.....
I very sincerely wanna thank you for sharing your story on yt. SO MANY of the points you made here I was hollering at the screen like “omg yes!”. I’m going through this right now as a financially dependent female with my partner (unmarried) of 12 years, who discarded our ENTIRE life we built together, my family, friends, even his step kid in literally a 5 min conversation. He fell for his “perfect” 25 yr old female whom he works with (he’s 41 🤦♀️). This chick is also our neighbor so he sleezes over to her house at night after work. It’s so awful to feel and deal with on a daily basis, and what’s even more messed up, is that this woman KNOWS about me and knows where we live bc he had her drop him off one night when he was drunk. He’s started to hide stacks of cash from me in the house (which I found thank god), not pay the bills, let the rent bounce, not give us money for my food or the dogs food etc. He suddenly lives in the incredibly psychotic, delusional reality of obsession over this woman and has neglected any sense of responsibility he had prior. Other than really trying to get my life together, I don’t know what to do. He’s a completely different person. Its 100% psychotic!!😭 It’s so messed up, I can’t even begin to explain all of it here. So much so, to where I am starting to feel like the crazy and abusive one. Just the lengths I’ve had to go to to protect myself and the life I’ve built make me think I’m the stalker, manipulative person. I’m at a point now where, because we’re not married, and he’s financially and emotionally abusive, and my entire financial health depends on him, I’m about to go file a temp. restraining order. I’ve deliberately stayed QUIET about everything on socials and to his family, to avoid looking like the “crazy” one, and it’s helped somewhat. My plan is to blow it all up once I know he’s gone for good. If anyone has any other advice (given that I can’t go no contact as of yet), I am all ears. Thank you again for sharing your experience, guy.❤
Move in Silence meaning begin to PURGE and REPENT, change your mind about the life YOU built together was but a _LIE_ , weep and seek TMH in tears for you to be set-free. Purge means RID of what you can and then move with NO CONTACT.
I am so happy i came across your video thank you so much for sharing your testimony. even though the relationship with my ex narc was short term, the impact of mental trauma is profound. 6 months no contact. going through the healing process is difficult.. "After a break up the loyal one stays single, while the cheater was / is already in another relationship." - a quote i read somewhere.
I’m happy I found you. I just subscribed. Thank you for your insight as we’ve all experienced these demonic individuals. Praying for your continued healing brother.
Thank you for sharing your story with us....i appreciate how much you care about helping us and sharing your story so we out here can understand these types of people and what they are trying to do to us. We can tell that you have been terribly hurt and had to dig deep down to your soul to understand yourself and your faith in Our Father to help you heal from these people. I will join you in your quest to understand and hope to see many more videos to guide and inspire me. Thank You. Hugs from my house to yours.
Thank you for sharing your experiences here. It is helpful to me and makes me realize I'm not alone in this. Everything you described absolutely mirrors my situation too! Thank you! 🙏
You are absolutely right that exactly what happen to me I block the entire family married 21 years discord me 2x just found out about narcissist 6 months ago 7 months no contact and counting ✅💯
Thanks my dear brother I feel your soul just listening to you its deep born chosen oil on my forehead as a child it's real I had some great teachers in life one had a picture on her wall stated hang in there I always remember that picture ❤
What's crazy is that I was in cycles with narcissists and mine were abusive so we have the same story as some narcissists who say all their exes are crazy and abusive too. It's twisted.
ADRIAN IT IS SO GOOD TO SEE YOU!!!!!!!!!! I WILL PASS THIS ON TO A FRIEND, THANK YOU SO VERY VERY MUCH AND THIS IS SO WONDERFUL FOR ME TOO!!!!!!!! THANK YOU SO VERY VERY MUCH!!!!!!
My bm nd I just never had anything to agree to with another.. I swear nothing I said or did she didn’t approve of. She would bash me on her socials nd try destroy my image. Use my daughter as a pawn to manipulate me. She dislike my other child which prevented us from actually coming together as 1 which I wanted but the energy between her nd my other child was not the rite thing but I still continued on seeing the signs I thought I truly loved her nd just thought it was me that I wasn’t doing enough. She would try to fight me she was very needy nd had no sense of real life responsibilities. I was falling behind on finances falling behind on rent she gave no fucks at all almost got evicted only thing she cared about was how I was gonna give her money for my daughter because she wanted to get what she thought was cute instead of what the baby needed. She believed that she didn’t have to help a man out if she lived with them nd sad to say I really wanted to change her nd show her it’s different but long story short she monkey branched me. Didn’t even see it coming. Told me there was someone else after all the draining days nd arguing all the time nd harassment I dealt wit just for to leave me for someone else. I cried nd felt bad about myself nd felt it was me nd I needed to do better. But all along I was looking I was dancing with the devil. But on bright side found a good job catching up on rent. Nd she brung the beast back out I never had issues wit woman so that’s not my problem woman love me. I’m just upset I allowed a person to come in my life nd destroy my happiness for period of time I’m 31 wit two kids nd I thank god for this lesson. I’m closer to the father then ever. Fellas once she’s touched by another man or leaves u for another man. Let her GO!!!! I don’t want No woman that’s ok wit being shared I’m a man of standards. We all have sex but I’m definitely not sharing no woman wit no man fuck that I’m high value. Let them go. Pray nd cry nd shed from that old contaminated flesh into the man/woman u were pointed out to be. We all have a superior tier we can reach use ur hurt nd pain to tap in. I’ve learned so much more about me from this pain focus on u 🫶🏾🤞🏾
The Narcissist will ALWAYS Self-Sabotage.
People who’ve never experienced a narcissist just wouldn’t understand they come in ruin your life and you’re still victim to their bs even when you block them from your life
THANK YOU…EXACTLY !
So true …. !
FACTS
Because They In Stores, Schools, Congress, Church, Neighborhood etc. Good To Have A Peaceful Home.
Very true 🙏
Most heartbreaking shit is when people you never expected to believe the narcissist, do.
They can't tear down what they never built ... Which is Me !!! & When you got God as head over your life .. they see in the end the joke was on them !!!! All Glory To God !!!
Nicely said I screenshotted theses as a quote/daily affirmation for me every bit helps lol😂
🙌🏼🙌🏼Amen
That's real
Amen!! That's me!!Hallelujah!!
Experiencing a narcissist relationship was a lesson GOD was teaching me on how to love myself and stop putting man before me now I know who my REAL DADDY IS
If this ain’t the fucking one!!!!!!
Same story❤...I love me sooo much more!!
Amen... same lesson I've learned. Finally understood & Accepted what God kept telling me "I sat you apart" "I validate you" that toxic relationship was the cherry on top God's final warning/lesson... I Finally Got it. I'm grateful for the experience. Finally remembered my worth.
Not gonna say all this G-d focus, but I get it..I do believe in G-d, yeah, actually, I'm leaning your way now lol😅
Amen
Narcissists... if only murder was a misdemeanor
Its like your assisting in your own suciude
Oh trust me, they DO get karma. A lot of it. That's why they try to hide it so much. 😅 But if you know how they move, you already know what they do. They are fck ups and are always getting into stuff. The longer you stay away, the more karma they get.
❤️💯🎯 Thanks for your love!
@@eradicatingnarcs You're welcome 🤗
I'm from Sweden. I was married to a narcissist for ten years. It was a trap. He lovedbombed me and moved me från Stockholm to his little house in north of Sweden. I was isolated. I came to him with my beloved dog. He killed the dog first thing and pretended It was an accident. My heart broke. He wanted to be the only one. He lied about being sober. He was an periodic heavy drinker. After a few months when he was sure that I could not go no where he started to devaluate me. Fatshaming. I was ugly. No clothes or colors fitted me. Stupid. Boring. He had me pay for everything. Take care of the house. Walking on eggshells. I finally succeeded to get a divorce when I found out he had a young russian photomodel chatting with her on our computer. Karma do exist - he was fooled by criminals. He sended money to "his Russian girlfriend" for tickets to Sweden. She never showed up. He lost his house, farm, land and is still in depths. He is now out of work and homeless. I have a good income. A nice place to live and a better future ahead of me. I just have to forgive myself of being so naiv. You should also forgive yourself. More healthy people like us have a hard time understanding how narcissists operates. It's sad though that we now have to find the red flags in every new person we meet. Take care and God bless you. Marion
After narc attack it's a painful lesson. Forgive yourself, you were deceived and find time to heal, love and forget the past. I can now detect a narc straight away, not fooled by BS anymore.❤❤
Thank you for your transparency. Happy that you got the courage to get away . More peace , blessings & love is coming 😊
Thanks for sharing..... Yes, they do get their karma eventually.. God bless you.
The cow has not wondered so far that its tail cant find its way home. You reap what you sow. Whats done in the dark will be brought to the light.
It is mighty interesting to experience someone who doesnt want you, has moved on to bigger andnbetter fast and also wont allow you to move on and keeps monitoring you.
Not better. They target whoever will have them. The new supply is suffering now. You're free.
Yesss that’s what’s crazy.. they refuse to leave you alone, yet at the same time they refuse to behave and act right. Like fool you don’t even like me… because your actions show me you don’t, yet you want to continue to Hoover and email me saying lies.. you lunatic! You’re bored and you need attention, or whatever you had going on fell through so now you’re back 🙄.
VENGEANCE IS MINE, I WILL REPAY SAIDS "JEHOVAH" !!
The cycle repeats itself but one day he will meet his match and get love bombed and get discarded! Boom!!
Karma 🎯
Facts 🥳
Narcissistic people are emotional stick up kids - very terrifying and painful experience.
That’s right! No respect for anyone associated! No contact! Most of all no remorse either because all that plotting and planning and manipulation it’s doing too much! We too grown for childults smh
There is always a blessing in the betrayal !!!!! She actually woke up a giant ! Stay blessed brother!!!
What made it easier for me to leave the relationship is when I realized that none of its was real. The relationship was just a facade who wants to be with a person that do not have the capacity to love or have any empathy. I’ve been in my relationship for over eight years, it’s hurt. But like I said finding out that this person has a disorder made it easy to let go. Nonetheless, I tried to tell my ex that he has a problem and we can try therapy but he just laughed at me. Anyway and almost 2 months free from this abuse. But I don’t know what’s real anymore.
Omggg, i realized the same..
Same here just stay true to yourself ❤
I assume everyone is a narc sadly
I feel you on this
You, you're real, you will see, just keep doing the inner work, it will become clear.
Does anyone know that feeling when you have a lot of love to give, and you love to spoil someone, but you can't find the one worthy to receive it? I'm in the choking back the tears phase of the exit...they say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Good luck everyone ❤
Definitely! ❤️💪🏾 Love and light to you!
I thought I did. I was really good to him.
No contact. For real
You will be fine
I hear you and I did it.
It gets better.
I promise.
No. Nada.none. zero. Cut the thing off
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The truth sets you free. The acceptance of it is hard but you've got this.
You are not alone. Flee, they're grieving You.
Lesson learned WOW WHAT A NIGHTMARE RIDE!! Thank you god for my strength for getting rid of that trash nothing to offer all talk no action! And what’s funnier was my ex husband was the one to to tell me to RUN LOL toxic mamas boy liar, cheater, and fake I’m so out KARMA WILL COME AROUND🤷🏻♀️TRASH ME ALL YOU DID BUT I KNOW MY SELF WORTH SEE YA
💯💯💯% man nobody can tell me what I saw… eyes completely black body aches stomach pains, that was fight or flight primal predator. Divine woke us up I’m telling you once you face that your life changes.
U had body aches? Yeah, they have a way of making their victims sick in various ways
@@come_on_barbie_123 yes I never had my neck and back seized up so tight. Driving in the car acceleration and braking at stop lights sent fire down my neck a shoulders. Stomach pains were very bad in the mornings no appetite at all.
Wow it's crazy how we all been through the same things it's life changing for the good to finally wake up and realize what you were dealing with
@@ninath13 This really is spiritual warfare out here… we all dealt with the Reprobate mind to destroy our light inside that person was assigned to us, we repeat the lessons till we wake up from this matrix. We are saved by holy father not left behind❤️🕊⛪️
sounds familiar, i threw up at random times, once in the restroom at work
" ....they did a stick up " true words
It's fine, there doesn't have to be any repercussions, as long as they don't have control over or hurt me anymore.
Thank you. That video was excellent. You talk so much sense.
This experience is so relatable and accurate. Discard, smear campaign, and flying monkeys. It destroys who you are as a person and causes you to have to rebuild yourself. If cards are played right you can become the victor vs the victim. Regroup, rebuild, and reinvent and come out even better than before!!!
I was my husband karma. He saw me as his come up. He mirrored me. He had to be a Christian he had to become a family man a father he had to work and he had to deal with extended family. After leaving this looooooong term relationship he is living in that house on the hill by himself. No running from that game you never intended on seeing it through.
You’re very articulate. Perfect example of how they target a certain caliber of person.
I wish I never met him😭😭🙏🙏can’t wrap my mind around this narc stuff
His presence alerted changes that need to be done and my purpose do I can now say I’m glad I met him thought I would never say that but here I am 😂
I'm so sorry that I ever met him he's a real demon from the belly of hell
that is so true, they take your life and have others think you are the one but you are not alone keep going hard as it might be just stay strong and let God lead you out of this will see all that was with this mess but keep going you get thru this we are hear
Wow, we have very parallel stories. I never knew someone I thought was so good, was actually so evil. I figured it out but after lots of different types of damage. I was able to let him know I figured him out, before he passed from a heart attack!
My heart goes out you.
I may have to listen to this video again.
I seemed to have missed your point.
But thank God you are free to love again.
The narc will never know what that is truly like. Every thing in this world has a expiration date. Say a positive prayer for them.
Live your best life!
I’m so glad more men are opening up about their own experiences of narcissistic abuse. Thanks for sharing ❤
I’ve witness karma and have been privileged to get a better understanding without looking via social media. These fools live in hell everyday; mentally tormented, get with tormented people and nothing ever goes right for them. I prayed GOD show him the lesson he needed and I was answered !!
I wish I could witness it
@@NinthJewel I was there in that space constantly & not believing how good GOD is but believe me they are getting it. It’s hard to see with out the physical signs but they are living in hell!! I promise you don’t want to witness it because for myself I wanted to help and save him but we have to stay out the way honestly it’s not a good look!!
This is my same story but it’s deeper . It was truly one of the worst demonic situation I’ve experienced. Embarrassing is understatement . This is Encouraging to want to speak out about one day.
That’s my life story with a “ narc” all over 16 years…. Con, disgusting man,
I hope you will tell us one day, when you are ready, it is liberating. May the Lord heal you and restore you, in Jesus's name, amen.
I went total NO Contact also, and disconnected with those we knew in common, in that context freed myself totally from ALL that EVIL and don't even know what happened after I moved across the USA. 3yrs this month 😊😊😊😊
From experience it's best to block your old life, it's like turning a page in a book...to a NEW chapter. As this gentleman is saying give yourself time to heal from the trauma, and all the emotions that go along with it. The word NO takes in a whole new meaning...you will learn to treasure your Spirit, heart and soul and above all "PEACE"🕊️❤️. Shalom and God Bless you🙏🏾🙌🏾.
Thank you 🕊❤️🙏
Thank GOD for us empaths, because we have compassion enough to not have harmed them.. I was almost at the brink,and ended up in jail after finally standing up to the abuse. Gave my x a serious spanking. GOD through my REPENTANCE had mercy on me,and dropped the charges. And sent me to the book of Exodus about Moses becoming so grieved in his spirit regarding the consistent abuse he witnessed of his fellow brothers and sisters the Israelites, being abused by the Egyptian pharaohs. A lot of Narcissists end up dead messing with the wrong person. GOD will eventually send an adversary there way...Oh it's coming. God's timing is not our timing. The wicked dig their own ditch,and there's never any peace for the wicked just as GODs has promised
I had the police called twice didn’t know the insidiousness of a narcissist and didn’t even know I was dealing with one either
@@TeresaGarcia-qt3ozNarcissists will use the police threat as a form of control,and to devalue you and your character. But when my ex did it to me,it backfired on him, because I went into spiritual warfare,and GOD showed up on my behalf. Later when he tried to hover to get me back,I found out he lost everything. His apartment,new car,job,and was pleading for me to not leave him. He also had to go into a recovery home for men because he had nowhere to go
Yes it's definitely demonic!!!
YES.
And they’re using witch craft
PS no God WAS PROTECTING US and our angels the whole time lesson learned 🙏✌️
I have awakened to Disenfranchising people
Its really sad i know first hand how you feel these people are heartless they dont care if you have children with them or you have history with them they are evil to the core. Im just now learning to heal and move on . I only hope that you educate yourself on the charateristic of these people because they are really mentally sick and you really should heal yourself first and once you heal allow yourself to be loved again but by the right woman. I remember once my ex told me no man wouldnt want me because i was to uptight and my standands were to much ? Really..by just asking him to be honest and trust worthy.
I come from a good family and had no idea there were people narcissists. It was a rocky road for 27 years.
I felt like I should tell some people connected to my Ex-narc why I'm going to block them. Now that I've listened to your post, I'm thinking I should just block them and go on with my life. I already blocked his so called friends but not his sister & nephew. They were very nice to me so blocking them, well, I was feeling bad about doing it. Not like I'm close to them or anything, just felt like it would be the right thing to do. Blocking feels mean to me but I know it's not. I'm being mean to myself by keeping these reminders in my contact list. Blocked. I'm sure they'll figure out why I did it. Heck, they likely won't even notice or really care. Thank-you for all that you do! ❤
I know you feel bad for blocking people but I'm here to tell you, that it's very NECESSARY.
I blocked everyone except the narc's aunt because "she was nice". I later found out that she had been sharing information with the narc that I trusted her with. Mind you, she was aware of how destructive the narc was. She was even supportive when I had to deal with the narc and his ugliness once I decided to leave him. I thought I could trust her, but it turned out she was playing both sides. Talking trash about the narc to me and then sharing information with him knowing I had a protective order on him. She was messy and when I found out, I told her (politely) that I figured her out and that I would no longer have her as a friend and blocked her. Mind you, this was an elderly woman so I would've never expected that from her. I believe she turned once she started to see that I started to genuinely move on with my life, unlike the narc, who spent a lot of his time on social media trying to trigger me and play the victim.
I believe she was resentful because I cut off communication with the narc even though she knew why, but because he manipulated her, she started to see me as this careless person since I didn't let the narc effect me .
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I had to block my sister and her grankinds that led to me blocking my only daughter.. all I can say is toxic is toxic ……..no explanation is needed they know why if your dealing with a true narcissist it will be a matter of life or death most times !
I’m really sorry it happens to you! Know we fight this with SO many people we will win! Yes!
I REALLY Do FEELIN YOU❣BECAUSE ÍT HAPPENED YO ME sẻveral times In my life, That I can tell you of my experiences too,I do know that the Lord has seen the REAL TRUTH OF THE MATTER,and that the Narrissist will get their Towers will fall on them & them flyinmonkeys ENVIOUS, backfire on all they're asses gonna get EXSPOSED and handled from that of your Innocent soul.
I blocked him he blocked me but he unblocked 1 account then I blocked it. I don't want to see it.
Absolutely brother! Definitely is spiritual.. "karma " is expressed in Proverbs 26:27
Man you're a God send.
So sorry it happened to You, I can Still feel the emotions in your voice talking about this topic. I pray you continue to Heal…. I just ended a 5 yr relationship with someone I clearly now understand is a covert psycho narcissist and am Drained, thankfully have a strong support system and God to lean on!!🙏🏽
I really appreciate your insights. I can totally relate and understand. I found out at 68. Stay strong young man. God covered me in my journey ( for truth)😂❤
Facts brother its u definitely need God close to deal with tht narcissism is a jezebel spirit
OHH MY GOSH!....I remember that,..hanging out with his family it was always something brewing in that clan,...specially Christmas,..the drama queen his mother put on such a show.
Continue to be a Good Man King
Its her loss
Peace and Blessings ❤
👇🏽Right now I return all lack, loss, theft, plots, ploys, despair, hopelessness, helplessness, vulnerability, isolation, black magick, curses, spellwork, toxicity, hostility, confusion, lethargy, brain fog, negative energy, energy harvesting, gang stalking, and negative projections back multiplied to all who sent it and meant it for me, especially Anita, Beverly, Tony B., Angela, Tonya, and each member of all family covens. 🙏🏽It is done.
And add Dale Cunningham to the list I know he is going straight to hell he's so evil he destroyed his own family and still is telling lies he cursed his own seed I got to pray his demons out of my bloodline I'm so sorry I ever met him he's a real demon 👹👿👺
I do all the Arts & Crafts around here, I did the discard…snip snip ✂️ 😂😂💯
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We do not think like demons because we are not demons
Their joy comes from
Kill steal destroy
Ours does not.
Keep looking up.
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They did a rumba dance on my skull; that's what they did. Thanks for your teaching. 👍🏼
You on point every word. Salute. Smoke n’ mirrors, lipstick on pigs, shit covered with icing and candles.
I lost my mind trying to figure hers out.
Just want to send u a big hug. I can see how you are feeling without even listening.
AMEN VICTORY TO GOD ALWAYS AND BLESS YOU BROTHER MAN 💫🤝💫🥂
I can relate to this a lot, I’m playing that waiting game also, their path is linear - destination fkd, It’s all about patience and when everyone finally gets to see what’s behind their mask they’ll be so far in the distance we won’t even care anyway. 👊🏻
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I'm playing the long game like you. I'm expecting him to appear in the local newspaper for the same crimes. The flying monkeys are going to squirm.
I can relate to this so much now that I look back on the relationship there was so many red flags and so many lies and nieve to things that I felt I had to protect her from all the long I was alone on things all along I thought if I protect her from people that manipulated her it will be ok but it just always seem to draw her into that light, I could never trust her I was killing myself trying to give and give them being told she doesn’t want it anymore so many times it got me codependent even though I made all the financial decisions I still couldn’t make it work and it always seem to be her fault but she didn’t want to hear that just that I find a way, I was risking a life not knowing my kids because of her careless spending only to just be laughed at or anything I would say about her toxic friend that I felt she shouldn’t be around her she would tell them it could never be equal and nothing was ever enough. I show my kids real love but she doesn’t know this just to abandon is all she knows. I don’t know how to coparent with her it’s all counter parenting and I don’t know what to do I’m stuck in my own house but I feel like it’s not my house at all, I can’t kick her out because it’s not me and I can’t go to court because they will take her side people that know me know I am not abusive but she frames me as it. I just want to live free with my kids is all.
I respect alot of what this man is saying.
Appreciate your love family! 💯
Part of me just really hopes they find a happy situation so they can stop hurting people and using people. I wish them so much happiness, and to have it separate from me.
I love your channel because no man speaks so honestly about their life. Many channels give only general info about narcs, which is also useful but it makes those speakers so similar to one another.
MyMyMy the smear campaign smh the Ex, went to sleep fine and woke up talking about he had A dream “ of me and my first baby dad ( from 20 years ago) in bed in a hotel and really believed it told our children about the dream and told my family smh.. he completely ran with it. I thank the Lord for keeping me, single now 2yrs and legally divorced as of 03/23. 🙏🏾❣️
How someone can want you to be around so they can keep stabbing you in your back while looking in your face I armeducated myself
Sorry about that I was trying to say I armed myself with education and when I figured out he was gaslighting and manipulative and controlling on top of a liar I went no contact changed my number and moved jokes on you never will you have a loving Aquarius like me I operate from the heart 💜❤️ only
I’m real I’ve been involved with a super narc for over 20yrs. All of my intuitions that she manipulated to not believing are coming to light. I remember everything over the years and see now what it was. The same way we met is the same way she has moved on from me 2 times. Constantly overlapping relationships with 0 care. I’ve seen her talk to so-called friends at a particular time expressing how she got different guys she talk to and I’m thinking like how are these friends that know you are married yet you talking about all these other dudes you talking to. But she’s VERY good with manipulation. She basically reinvented her identity and is now this successful serial entrepreneur that has all this admiration and fame and 100s of ppl just believing in her story. That’s the easiest way for them to escape their reality when you find them out is to move on to a new life that they can narrate. I’ve been knowing her 23yrs I am the ONLY person the knows who she really is and she knows that.
The lies she tells for no reason is just crazy. Just in normal conversation with nobody even asking her anything she would need to lie about she will lie. The red flags are clear when you see them 1-2 times. If something doesn’t sit right with you hold your heart. Most men naturally give women the benefit of the doubt NOT expecting them to have a mamas nature. Nah, women out here today when more sx partners than men. Those trips out of town on business I guarantee she meeting a man there. I even went on a trip with her for 2 days and another dude was there the next day after I left. I discovered this. I also have a female friend that is married that often ask me to meet her out of town somewhere when she goes on business. I’ve never done it.
Well said. Her flying monkeys are probably only after her money anyway.
Thanks for taking the time to make this video 🙂 i didn't know as well that there are people out in the world like this that can come into your life.
So treu every word stay strong it also happens to me.your not alone.
Soo True their dillusional mentally ill
Thank you for sharing this. 40 years later at age 62 i walked out with my clothes. Its chanels like this that woke me from a very deep slumber. Now i have to hear how i have been mentally affected by the pain meds i had to take for spinal surgery last year. Its exhausting as he is literally harassing me with calls and emails . Then i still have to go through a divorce with this person
Thank you for sharing your story. I am almost two years no contact despite getting a restraining order and him calling my job. I changed my number and no longer is on social media. He turned everyone against me even my so called friends. I feel alone but relieved that I am free from the abuse. They are the devil!!! Blessings to you and your content.
Brother, you just gained a new subscriber. Thank you for sharing your story. I felt your heart as you told your story. I’ve been dealing with a Narc for sometime and recently he discarded me after I called him out and held him accountable for his behavior towards me for disrespect and being unappreciated. This is a demonic spirit this is prevalent in the land. God is the only one that can change these demons and also deal with them in his own way. Once God deals with them no one can help them. Thank you Brother. May God continue to bless your channel as a ministry tool to help us who are surrounded by narcs in and outside the church.
I just found ur channel and the timing of this video Cudnt be more perfect. ✨
Yes that happened. Pretty traumatic.
Thank you for sharing your experience because it does feel lonely when you’re in it and it is even worse when you are in business or have kids with the narcissist. It is literally detrimental to your health.
I applaud you my brother for sharing. I am going through this now and making my exit. God bless you and I wish you all that happiness your heart and hands can hold. This is not easy.....
This video was a TRUE ! Eye opener
Happy to hear God protected you 🎉❤
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I very sincerely wanna thank you for sharing your story on yt.
SO MANY of the points you made here I was hollering at the screen like “omg yes!”.
I’m going through this right now as a financially dependent female with my partner (unmarried) of 12 years, who discarded our ENTIRE life we built together, my family, friends, even his step kid in literally a 5 min conversation.
He fell for his “perfect” 25 yr old female whom he works with (he’s 41 🤦♀️). This chick is also our neighbor so he sleezes over to her house at night after work.
It’s so awful to feel and deal with on a daily basis, and what’s even more messed up, is that this woman KNOWS about me and knows where we live bc he had her drop him off one night when he was drunk.
He’s started to hide stacks of cash from me in the house (which I found thank god), not pay the bills, let the rent bounce, not give us money for my food or the dogs food etc. He suddenly lives in the incredibly psychotic, delusional reality of obsession over this woman and has neglected any sense of responsibility he had prior.
Other than really trying to get my life together, I don’t know what to do. He’s a completely different person. Its 100% psychotic!!😭
It’s so messed up, I can’t even begin to explain all of it here.
So much so, to where I am starting to feel like the crazy and abusive one. Just the lengths I’ve had to go to to protect myself and the life I’ve built make me think I’m the stalker, manipulative person.
I’m at a point now where, because we’re not married, and he’s financially and emotionally abusive, and my entire financial health depends on him, I’m about to go file a temp. restraining order.
I’ve deliberately stayed QUIET about everything on socials and to his family, to avoid looking like the “crazy” one, and it’s helped somewhat. My plan is to blow it all up once I know he’s gone for good.
If anyone has any other advice (given that I can’t go no contact as of yet), I am all ears.
Thank you again for sharing your experience, guy.❤
Move in Silence meaning begin to PURGE and REPENT, change your mind about the life YOU built together was but a _LIE_ , weep and seek TMH in tears for you to be set-free. Purge means RID of what you can and then move with NO CONTACT.
Start recording everything, and keeping supporting documents.
Thank you for bringing awareness. Peace to all.
I am so happy i came across your video thank you so much for sharing your testimony. even though the relationship with my ex narc was short term, the impact of mental trauma is profound. 6 months no contact. going through the healing process is difficult..
"After a break up the loyal one stays single, while the cheater was / is already in another relationship." - a quote i read somewhere.
I read that same quote it was true I. My case
I’m happy I found you. I just subscribed. Thank you for your insight as we’ve all experienced these demonic individuals. Praying for your continued healing brother.
This happened to me 😢
Thank you for sharing your story with us....i appreciate how much you care about helping us and sharing your story so we out here can understand these types of people and what they are trying to do to us. We can tell that you have been terribly hurt and had to dig deep down to your soul to understand yourself and your faith in Our Father to help you heal from these people. I will join you in your quest to understand and hope to see many more videos to guide and inspire me. Thank You. Hugs from my house to yours.
Sending you a ton of love and light ❤❤❤ Her loss!
Thank You 👍 for sharing your intimate story about Narcissistic abuse! Your spot on!
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Thank you for sharing your experiences here. It is helpful to me and makes me realize I'm not alone in this. Everything you described absolutely mirrors my situation too!
Thank you! 🙏
You are absolutely right that exactly what happen to me I block the entire family married 21 years discord me 2x just found out about narcissist 6 months ago 7 months no contact and counting ✅💯
Nice!!! New video👍I was just thinking about checking your channel yesterday. Please, do not disappear for so long!🙏
Thanks my dear brother I feel your soul just listening to you its deep born chosen oil on my forehead as a child it's real I had some great teachers in life one had a picture on her wall stated hang in there I always remember that picture ❤
What's crazy is that I was in cycles with narcissists and mine were abusive so we have the same story as some narcissists who say all their exes are crazy and abusive too. It's twisted.
Thank for you for this video and I truly appreciate your calming vocal tone as well. 🙏🏾
I know someone who stay like this it hurt my feel
Stay Blessed king may God keep on Blessing you n your family n your channel.much love from Houston tx 💯💯💯🙏🏾
Thank you so much for sharing your story so many of us need to know we’re not alone. Thank god I’m healing praying one day at a time
ADRIAN IT IS SO GOOD TO SEE YOU!!!!!!!!!! I WILL PASS THIS ON TO A FRIEND, THANK YOU SO VERY VERY MUCH AND THIS IS SO WONDERFUL FOR ME TOO!!!!!!!! THANK YOU SO VERY VERY MUCH!!!!!!
Proverbs 18:13 "He who answers a matter before he hear it, it is folly and shame unto him".
Better hear both sides of an issue before you judge!
Spiritual warfare
My bm nd I just never had anything to agree to with another.. I swear nothing I said or did she didn’t approve of. She would bash me on her socials nd try destroy my image. Use my daughter as a pawn to manipulate me. She dislike my other child which prevented us from actually coming together as 1 which I wanted but the energy between her nd my other child was not the rite thing but I still continued on seeing the signs I thought I truly loved her nd just thought it was me that I wasn’t doing enough. She would try to fight me she was very needy nd had no sense of real life responsibilities. I was falling behind on finances falling behind on rent she gave no fucks at all almost got evicted only thing she cared about was how I was gonna give her money for my daughter because she wanted to get what she thought was cute instead of what the baby needed. She believed that she didn’t have to help a man out if she lived with them nd sad to say I really wanted to change her nd show her it’s different but long story short she monkey branched me. Didn’t even see it coming. Told me there was someone else after all the draining days nd arguing all the time nd harassment I dealt wit just for to leave me for someone else. I cried nd felt bad about myself nd felt it was me nd I needed to do better. But all along I was looking I was dancing with the devil. But on bright side found a good job catching up on rent. Nd she brung the beast back out I never had issues wit woman so that’s not my problem woman love me. I’m just upset I allowed a person to come in my life nd destroy my happiness for period of time I’m 31 wit two kids nd I thank god for this lesson. I’m closer to the father then ever. Fellas once she’s touched by another man or leaves u for another man. Let her GO!!!! I don’t want No woman that’s ok wit being shared I’m a man of standards. We all have sex but I’m definitely not sharing no woman wit no man fuck that I’m high value. Let them go. Pray nd cry nd shed from that old contaminated flesh into the man/woman u were pointed out to be. We all have a superior tier we can reach use ur hurt nd pain to tap in. I’ve learned so much more about me from this pain focus on u 🫶🏾🤞🏾