How Selfishness Attracts Women
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 1 ส.ค. 2024
- We are taught by society that being SELFISH is a bad thing... Well, when being selfish is done the RIGHT WAY, it will not only get you EVERYTHING you want in life, AND also the woman of your dreams.
Most guys have no idea how to be selfish with women in a way that attracts them rather than makes them look like complete jerks. In this video I'll show you how being selfish can work in your favor and make it easier than ever to get the girl of your dreams.
00:00 Being healthy selfish
01:20 The Art of Fearless Seduction
01:25 Can you turn away?
03:51 Can you disagree with her?
05:25 Stop this now
06:42 Can you let her be moody?
09:11 How selfishness attracts women
14:43 Stop this now
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I definitely figured this out after multiple failed dating/courting with women i actually truly desired. It’s so interesting how women are aware of push/pull and testing a lot earlier than men realize.
Thanks for breaking this down
The fearless channel just pierces into my heart. I smell truth. And it’s honestly so very rare on TH-cam. I’m so gratefully addicted
Thanks for your support, Elliot.
Landon, TFM
You’re replace my brother when his on the other side of the world. Thank you
Brian, you are now on a whole different level. You exude unshakable confidence and masculine power. One can learn so much as a man just by watching you!
I recognize myself very much in your story,
Specially dating those women then seemed to have a strong /bitchy character. And somewhat appearing to be emotionally unavailable. And I found myself with the tendency of feeling like this "hero" that can fix her or show her the bright side. And I the end. After she got tired of the constant "nice guy" from me. They pull back and that really had a huge impact on me.
But thinks for sharing your stories. It helps a lot to reflect and supports on the progress I'm doing. And to notice those unconscious habits that kicks in that are not serving me
Good Message Coach! I was finally able to walk away from a past girlfriend after she broke up with me in May 2021. She said we could be friends and I accepted and took her out on dates and gave her gifts for almost a year later when she was not giving sex or any affection. In April of this year I told her that I want to be around a woman who is into me and giving me the whole package and all of sudden she cut off all communication. Last September, I neglected to say no and kept her dog while she went to the beach with her family and she rewarded me with a $2.00 toy. Last June, I paid over $300 for a serenade to her and she decided to flirt with the man I paid to serenade her. She lost respect for me and the more nice and accommodating I was the worse things got. I am 52 and the woman is now 62 and neither one of us has been married.
Your content is THE BEST in the media about dating and relationships. Thank you for this!
We appreciate your support, Robert. Let us know what areas you've had success in, and any areas you have questions/concerns about.
Landon, TFM
1.) Love yourself :P !
This channel is really good. I want to extend my gratitude towards Brian and his team, what they convey is really powerful. I really believe that, in order to create a better world, the only way to do so is by being a better man/woman - and this is what is all about - to be a better individual. Brian's work condensates, in a practical manner, what I have learned from other individuals, like Eckhart Tolle, Osho, Jordan Peterson, etc. If you're reading this and you're struggling, give it time. Things will improve in your life.
One question I had... I'm currently struggling with gratitude. Theoretically speaking, I know that being grateful for the things we have - the things we think we need or desire - will be added to us, but we need to drop the neediness. Understood. The question is, how do enter into that state of gratefulness? I've practiced giving attention, without labeling, to those things I have (family, friends, healthy body, etc), but I find it difficult to still not to think about those things I believe I lack. Brian or team, is there any recommendation?
All the best!
Hi Adrian, I kind of feel like you are being a bit hard on yourself. You might try allowing yourself to want, and spend some time focusing on the emotions around what you believe is lacking. Simply allow yourself to feel the envy, the grief, anger, or whatever for not having certain things. This could be a simple hour, or it could be a few days. That way, you are not averse/avoiding these emotions. Simply let them be as they are. You can then observe them from a distance, similar to what Eckhart Tolle teaches. Another route is to do a polarity meditation wherein you spend time feeling the emotions around lack, and then spend time feeling the emotions around abundance. Go back and forth on this for a period of time, and see if this loosens things up.
Landon, TFM
Love this video! Especially there were almost no cuts/skips in the video and the story was really nice!! Can wait to work with you guys again soon ;)
Thanks, billytblack - glad you enjoyed the video - *what was your biggest takeaway?*
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I'd say it's the idea again of being non-reactive, to be 100% the creator of your inner world (and external too by setting boundaries). I feel it's impossible to really love someone if you don't love yourself first; otherwise there'll always be some sort of attachment.
But I guess also I just love listening to Brian' stories haha!
Do you ever get the sense that it is easier to let some women vent, show a range of negative emotions without it affecting you, but then there are these women, the ones that you desire, are attracted to the most, no matter how confident, how easily you would have remained calm with other women, with this women , there are times when your emotions can just amplify 10 times, how do you deal with that, do you go back, let there be space, have a pokerface and not show your emotions in what some would say in a moment of weakness or should you be vulnerable, feel the body and express what it is feeling?
There is this woman which I have interacted with. For example prior to this "thing happening" she have known that I desire her. I have danced with her and told her face to face "You have stolen my heart " I have whispered to her ear " You have enchanted me" to which here response have been giggling and smiling, it felt great to do that.
So there is this love song which I had mentioned to her before, that made me think of her it has her name in it and that I thought was funny and I wanted to share that. So I sent a link to that song and typed "haha, this is me a thousand times" and she responded with "😅"which triggered negative emotions x 10 times. I felt very awkward and did not know what to do with myself, so I doubled down on my emotions and expressed it " okey that was very very awkward, I don't know what to do with myself 🙃" then after a while I typed " okey I have now hidden under a rock for a little while, I'm okey now ( followed by 3 emojis exhaling air as in being relieved) " to which she responded "🤗, everything is good 😉"
Did I do the right thing ? #FearlessMan
Focus on you. I just came out of a really toxic relationship and it's because I didn't LOVE myself. You have to start with yourself. IN your Life, you can feedback women by asking yourself if she's good for you or not. Easy filter by learning how to Love yourself first, because then you know what not to chase and what not to approach and what TOO approach and what to go for.
Awesome content, keep up the good work
I also kicked my exgf out of my house one time when i had a LOT of shit to do and she was just there being a moody pile of shit annoying the hell out of me with her mere existence
I asked her nicely to stop, to help me or just not be a bother just that time, cause i really had no time to play her stupid games but she refused and became even moodier
Then i told her to just fucking go home i dont care if its the middle of the night i dont want her moody ass being around me at all, cause i cant do the important stuff with such distraction, ESPECIALLY CAUSE SHE HAD NO REASON TO BE MOODY
I was like:
If she's gonna break up with me over this then let it be i dont care, she must be stupid and i have nothing to do with her then
The funny thing is
She acted like nothing happened the next day and wanted to come over
We broke up for other reasons too long to explain, but this shit really works
are there any workshops planned for Europe?
Check the events page in the Fall. We should begin posting the schedule, or have the schedule drafted around that time.
Landon, TFM
U are the best teacher🥰
Thank You - just doing what I love.
Nice
He twists it to make it sound like you’re being selfish for self care so that you can be better for her. But really all you’re doing is playing on her hypergamy and letting her know that you don’t feel she’s above you .
So if we practice with all the people around us and with women this principles we are going to brake the nice guy syndrome? Thanks a lot man
Perhaps, Agostino. You'd want to look at your own unique circumstances, and address the specific areas affecting you.
Landon, TFM
Yoooo 2:00
Someone give that Fearless editor a raise;)
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Any workshops in Europe?
Check the events page in the Fall. We should begin posting the schedule, or have the schedule drafted around that time.
Landon, TFM
Hai brain i have discovered that I have this problem. After knowing and gaining some skill I feel like I can get everything girl I meat. And this as affected my game in a way that I fail to interact with other girls because am scared that other girls will see me and that I will lose that chance that I would have with them as well. Need your advice or anyone who as the same problem guys.
Hi Sunday, it really gets down to understanding where you are at in life, and what you are wanting right now. If you are not ready to be with just one woman, you might lose a few women, but being true to yourself will develop self-confidence. This comes as a result of choosing what is important to you, and sticking with it; thereby, showing your subconscious that you have a solid ability to make decisions and carry them through.
Landon, TFM
Women definitely aren't into philosophical men who have learned the art of discernment and when to let things go.
I grew up in the church and stopped going a few years ago in my mid-thirties. I bring the church stuff up because it's a great place to learn psychology and see people say one thing with their mouths and another with their actions. This happens with all groups of people.
You see people talk about humility, but the Christian women, though they preach this, are usually attracted to some asshole who just provides a lot financially and in influence. Usually from both men and women, but especially women, you see them preach virtues like humility either to feel like they are part of a community and to virtue signal or to also use it to control.
It's amazing how an alpha male who is respected and socially feared is not seen as a jerk when he does certain mean things, but seen as a good person because of course you need strong men to win out wars and put the enemy in their place. But, if a less respected person who doesn't carry dominance stands up like in a church for a virtue that goes against the church crowd, but not the Bible, he is seen as an ignorant, cocky jerk. One because that person offended them, but also they feel they can control this person. We all let alphas, even when they offend us, get away with many things because in the end we need them and their strength. In the end, in a church, you will find mostly people controlled by their evolutionary nature instead of a higher virtue. Alphas are needed in society, but unfortunately thats who almost all the women are into. And I personally see them going after toxic alphas ( not all alphas are toxic) as ignorance and unattractive. But, many women would call that insecurity. No, it's not insecurity because I don't need a woman to be complete. Almost all women need a man to feel complete.
While we are on the church subject, I know of 3 pastors whose wives cheated and then divorced them. And this all happened in one conservative town in just a two year period. This would never happen in the past, but in this crazy time we have lived in the last ten years, people feel more free to do such shameful things even if they preach the Bible. One of these cheating wives remarried and her new husband is an alpha. What's cool though is the pastor who got cheated on got remarried to a hot younger woman from another country.
“When we stop fighting against it, nature will always reassert itself. So it is with stone, so it is with plants, with animals, and so it is with people.
To defeat an enemy, you must know them. Not simply their battle tactics, but their history.
Do you know what kind of creature waits for its own slaughter? Sheep.
This poses a very powerful question about the lack of balance within the power of the church that's focused on the church leadership casting aside the peasants.