@@maryfowles807.Working just for the sake of having a career when you’re a mother just means you value some strangers opinions of you more than you value the quality of life you can provide to your own children. If you can afford staying home there is nothing more fulfilling than nesting and being a home maker.
I am a Christian woman of 36, living in Italy. I don't want to be a say-at-home mom, I have many interests and I wouldn't feel completly satisfied if I'd dedicated myself to the household completely. HOWEVER...I have been told since the day I remember that the most important thing was my job, that marriage was useless and had no meaning and of course, to get married (if I really had too) as late as I could, that I should "explore my sexuality" and have as much "fun" as I could and "if" I want to have kids I should never allow them to be an obstacle in front of my having fun and career. Oh! And of course that I should NEVER be a "slave" to my husband because he should be able to take care of himself if he was a "real" man. I and feel completely betrayed! I have come to find and accept the fact that in realty...as a woman, I would have LOVED to get married as a young woman, I would have loved to have more than one child, that I actually enjoy taking care of my daughter AND my husband, that my body is the most sacred place that I live in and I should protect it, that all the "sexual revolution" that I was told freed women...was a LIE. And I truely hope I will be able to show this to my daughter as well.
Gianni Versace once said that "women need to explore their sexuality." (That wasn't for the benefit of women, of course).😂😂 But you know, everyone is mislead and falls into error at some time in our lives. I respectfully suggest that you take a further look at the beauty and place of the Christian woman, readily available to you at your fingertips in the Catholic church. Try to find a spiritual director within the church who can guide you further.
I love what you are saying, I felt the same fervor with regards to the topic of sexuality. I wish I could shield all the women in the world from the false narrative of having any other sexual partner besides the one that’s worthy of it by show of his committing his life to yours. It’s crazy how the television and culture of the west has misled and misused women. Let’s protect our daughters from that and pray for a better future for all the women in our world. I really love your statement
You seem to be in a mess for such a young women..maybe you should talk to a therapist..what ever life we chose has good times and bad times..I am 78 years old..I have learnt that no religion will help you really..it’s your life..the good and the bad…so get up stand straight and be strong..and I wish you all the best in the future…
The difference between mythology and theology is broad scale social support. Never underestimate what hysterical things groups of people can convince themselves of. The truth is that there are countless religious claims on this planet that all make grandiose claims. You only believe in yours because that's how your were raised, probably indoctrinated, and given special privileges for doing so. Allah, God, Lord Krishna, Yahweh, etc. Don't exist.
@@deshon3523 “This is eternal life, that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.” John 17:3 who is the only true God according to jesus? Christian women cannot be teachers 1 Timothy 2 : 11-12 " a woman should learn in quietness and full submission . I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man ; she must be silent . "
Slm sister, beautiful talk, i love how you took the time to explain everything, may ALLAH increase you in beneficial knowledge, good health and good energy, a balanced life, patience in all trials, protection from every harm and long life, ameen 🤲🏼🌷🙂Salaam from South Africa
You are not a good representative of the real Muslim woman, I am so sad to see you on this channel. You and your people are the worst enemies of real Islam.
After receiving the first revelation, Prophet Muhammad went to Khadījah (may God be pleased with her) and said: ‘Cover me! Cover me!’ She covered him, until the fear had left him, then he told her what had happened, saying: ‘I feared for my life.’ Khadījah responded: ‘No, by God. God would never humiliate you. You maintain family ties, help to carry people’s burdens when they are tired, you give to the poor, you are generous to your guests, and help people in times of hardship.’ Whenever I remember how she assured him, I just cry. So when I see my husband come home tired from work, I give him Salam because how Khadija cared for her husband makes me appreciate my own husband. What rahma, what mercy.
Everybody else is calm when they encounter an angelic being, but for some reason Mohamed was scared to death. Something must be wrong with that picture
The angel was Gabriel (Jibraeel in Arabic) and he appeared to Muhammad in his natural form, which was as big as the horizon. I think any normal and sane person would be scared. Especially if it’s something we have never encountered in our lives.
I’m so glad I found this conversation. I’m a non-religious/athiest (raised Catholic) young 40+ woman with two kids (4 and 6) living in the US and this resonates so much. I was having a hard time articulating why I thought this new-wave feminism was eroding society - why I felt so lost with working a corporate job, why I couldn’t keep a relationship, married and divorced within 6 months at 28. My mother was also a victim of societal programming and never has been able to get out of the trap, as she (a 63-year-old woman) continues to jump from relationship to relationship (it’s really sad and pathetic.) I had no positive female role models. I didn’t live with my dad (he remarried and had another baby with a stepmother who was jealous of a 5-year-old), nor did he raise me, because my mother took us away from after she decided she was done with marriage with a 3-year-old and 1-year-old baby-we visited him every other weekend. After finally having children at 35 and 37, it wasn’t until I was in the throes of motherhood that I realized this is all WRONG-this is not the way we are supposed to raise children. How could women (my mother) tear their children away from their father, break up the family unit, and throw their children into all-day, year-round daycare? In the West, we are watching the downfall of society. I think women should have choices and rights and all of the freedoms that humans should have, but I do think we/society threw out the baby with the bathwater-pun intended. Feminism has demonized traditional values, self-worth and self-respect, family, children, respect for our elders. It’s always baffled my mind that in the US women only get 8 weeks maternity leave, maybe 3 months paid if you’re lucky to care for an infant-and we wonder why the kids are insane right now-profits over people. Just like another comment wrote, I feel lied to. I waited too long to have kids-out of wedlock, mind you. I’m married now, but I was so brainwashed, that I thought legal marriage was pointless and stupid. I would love to have more kids, but I feel too old and tired to do it again with a newborn, and I’m already an “old” mom. I have no help in raising my children, because my selfish mother moved states away. I don’t have a village-most of us don’t in the West. I see more and more people and women waking up to how bad and wrong society has become reiterating the same points about modern feminism and gender roles. Society has brainwashed women to basically become the men we seek, but the men can never live up to our “standards,” and the cycle continues. I do hope things change one day, and I hope to instill better values and guidance in my children than I was ever afforded. Mashallah Sheikha Fatima and thank you Mrs. Peterson for bringing to light these topics. Let’s hope more and more people wake up to this madness.
Have you ever seriously looked into Islam or Christianity? The moment you convert the village is there. Not trying to be pushy or anything but it always fascinates me how people will come to these conclusions based on their life experience but never take the actual step of living as a religious person.
Thank you for taking your time to share your experiences and insights❤ I still remember back In 2006 when I lived In Morocco as a young (atheist) student. I attended a lecture with an african-american imam, convert from Christianity, about women In islam. I felt he was talking about me; my way of thinking and being, that my Scandinavian society failed to do. This was my first step towards islam 🙌🏻 SobhaanAllaah. I so wish that I kept his name. May Allah reward him.🎉
I’m sorry about what happened to you. I’m glad you learnt from your experiences and have tried improving your life. Regarding your faith, are you an atheist because you don’t believe God exists or are you this way because you are unhappy with what your former faith taught you?
As Im getting older (28) im starting to embrace and see the value in conservative norms more and more. That being said, I have to think about my grandma, who was trapped in an abusive marriage, and how our current day norms could've served her. And how in my generation im trying to bring these two opposites together: personal freedom with the understanding of importance of responsibility, connection and commitment. Thank you for this talk
Exactly. The Right Wing has a tendancy to romanticise the past, while the Left goes too far in running away from it. The oppression that women of previous generations suffered is the reason the world is in such a mess today, with wokeism, identity politics and the hypersexualisation of society - these are all an ignorant, misguided, naive response to it. It's high time the centrists dominated, that is, people who sensible enough to recognise that a society in which gender norms are narrow and fixed doesn't serve anyone, but that neither does pretending that sex is casual and banal and risk-free.
In my opinion in the Christian faith husbands are commanded to be gentle and mutually submissive to their wives and are obligated to them. If this was your grandmother's experience it's not the monogamy that did it, it's a failure on the charge of the husband. He failed in his Godly duty which is really sad.. unfortunately it happens.
@@SigmatusX yeah definitely. I just see the pendulum swing both ways. Personally I crave a more traditional marriage and I also see the need for women to be able to be independent to protect themselves from dangerous situations. Life is just complex like that.
I agree with your conclusion at the end. i've been trying to find the words to put what exactly my core values are in this theme and you put it very nicely: personal freedom with understanding of responsibility and commitment.
@@Rumorhasit-777 But Christ worshipped a God. So by default Christ is not your lord and saviour. The one whom christ worshipped is your lord and saviour.
@@ashifhassan1148no christ was one with God, the same way you have a mind, spirit and soul that is one with the body. Do not confuse the two. Christians believe in the trinity God the father, son, and Holy Spirit and they are one the same way a cube is one item with 6 sides.
👉Sahih Muslim (8:3460) "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you could sport with her and she sport with you, or you could amuse with her and she could amuse with you?" - Muhammad posed this question to one of his followers who had married an "older woman" instead of opting to marry a child. 👉Sahih Bukhari (4:232) - Muhammad's wives would wash semenn stains out of his clothes, which were still wet from the spot-cleaning even when he went to the mosque for prayers. (Between copulation and prayer, it's a wonder he found the time to slayy pagans). 👉Sahih Bukhari (6:300) - Muhammad's wives had to be available for the prophet's fondlingg even when they were having their menstruall period. 👉Sahih Bukhari (62:6) - "The Prophet used to go round (having seksual relations with) all his wives in one night, and he had *nine wives." (*Sources say that Muhammad had 10 to 14 wives at a time, depending on the Timeline) Muhammad also said that it was impossible to treat all wives equally - and it isn't hard to guess why. 👉Sahih Bukhari (5:268) - "The Prophet used to visit all his wives in a round, during the day and night and they were eleven in number." I asked Anas, 'Had the Prophet the strength for it?' Anas replied, 'We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty men.' "
Islam is the worship of the pagan, Hindu moongod 🌙 Shiva, whom the pagan arabs called "Allah" (the god). Shiva, the 🌙 moongod, was worshipped at the kaba IDOL stone by the Hindu, Muhammad, and his ancestors. Allah = Shiva = 🌙 moon god Moon 🌙 on Shiva's forehead Moon 🌙 on top of every Mosque Muhammad was a False Prophet who desired to start his own religion. However, he LACKED in knowledge and imagination, so he simply took his moongod Shiva and modelled him on the Abrahamic God YHWH (YAHWEH). elevating himself to "prophet" status. The Hajj pilgrimage that Muslims do at Kaba is no different to the amcient Hindu pilgrimage called Shivaling, whereby the hindu arabs travelled to Mekkah to bow down around the black 🪨 stone which was shaped as a PE NIS, to resemble the Pe nis of Shiva. Muhammad loved it so much that he actively Kissed this stone (IDOLATRY) , and encouraged his followers to do the same. This S E X based religion is no wonder that the false prophet was obsessed with S E X, as is evidenced in the hadeetts. Islam COPIES and blends both Hinduism AND the Abrahamic religions. The Only True Abrahamic religion Today is the Messianic/ Christian one, which includes the MESSIAH, YESHUA (Jesus), and Both the Torah and the Gospels. Islam is a FALSE religion. Judaism no longer exists since the followers of Judaism today still continue fo REJECT the Messiah, thereby rejecting YHWH, the God of Abraham. Is it any WONDER why YHWH kicked them out of Israel for so many centuries, since rejecting their own MESSIAH? Give up your false religions and seek out YHWH and His Messiah, Jesus Christ!
I started to cry halfway through this... where you mentioned children. I often can't watch any happy ending stories. I was married once to an alcoholic and drug addict. We had one daughter, who i was lucky to get help raising, but it was a struggle. He stepped in to care for her with me, finally getting his own life together. I endured a farce "marriage" by a man who knew my family had money and wanted a place to live free. I had two children (four pregnancies, he didn't want kids) and a subsequent 3-4 years of suffering trying to raise them with him. This man was raised by a single mother. The saddest part of this is how my children suffer. I know I do. I sit here feeling comforted, listening to this with my back in pain...I had to take a day off because of it. I've gotten older and figured out that the world I want for my children isn't the one I'm living in. Thanks, Tammy and Fatima. Thank you for your words. Thank you for giving me hope. I could say more. ❤
I am sorry to hear your suffering may Allah help you ... Also we Muslims invite you to Islam the final revelation from God./ Allah. I promise you will have a good content happy secure life after you Accept Islam. Please sister it will help your life x my prayers are with you,
I sincerely hope that you find a harmonious resolution to your difficulties, my dear. Your children, with your abundant love and guidance, will survive, and hopefully flourish in the future. My five kids did not have an ideal family life, due to their father’s emotional and verbal abuse directed at me and sometimes at them, but they are now all in their late twenties and thirties, four are married and they are all relatively stable financially. I am so grateful that they remain close to me and have forgiven me for not being stronger when they were growing up. Now that they are parents themselves, they appreciate me more. I pray you find peace.
@@KingsCrossVIP Stop trying to rob her of HER Christian or European pagan heritage. That's morally wrong of you to do as you know very well you would not like someone to suggest to you to drop your religion or heritage.
@@ellasoes8325 I invite you to believe in what Prophet Jesus (Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him) invited you to believe in which is to believe in only 1 God (Mark 12:28-29) and that one true God is ONLY the Father (John 17:3). No where does it say to believe in 3 persons 1 Being as God. This was a later change, not what Jesus said. I invite you to believe in One God and the Final Prophet Muhammad (Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him) who taught the true teachings of Prophet Jesus. ✌
Now THIS is the crossover I did NOT expect to see! How incredibly refreshing and wonderful to see these collaborations between people who are afterall, natural allies of one another even if their particular paths should differ. May God reward both your efforts and strengthen these ties, we need them now more than ever.
Christians and Muslims cannot be natural allies. Taqiyya means we can never trust you. We may ally together against the atheists, but we Christians know that once we have removed their influence, you will turn on us. Our scriptures command us to love our enemies and to treat our neighbors as ourselves, but your Quran commands you to impose the jizya on us and make us live in poverty while you take our belongings from us and persecute us. It makes me sad because the atheists are ruining the lives of both your children and ours, and we could build a culture of faith together but how can we cooperate with you knowing that sharia commands you to wage a war of subjugation against us?
I was born and raised in Italy with a Christian family. My parents are not so religious but my grandmother was, peace be upon her. She try teach me values which I am very grateful for. I found difficult at time to deal with other girls ( in my twenties) that liked to talk about having sex with as many man as possible, they thought it was fun and their right to do so; I didn’t and they made fun of me. I also remember the pressure I felt about this subject since I was 12. My peers were discussing about it and show themselves off when they have done it. It made me feel uncomfortable. Whenever I showed sign of interest in God and religion in general they also made fun of me and made feel I was stupid. Today I am a revert Muslim mother (34 years ) of two children married with a man and I love this very much. I couldn’t ask for more Alhamdullilah. I am obviously not hanging out with these type of people anymore. I changed and I am wondering if they changed too. This society is sick and it really brainwashed us specially young girls. I really hope many will watch this InshAllah
JazakAllah- my story goes on and on I worked in the model industry for years. I have been a lingerie model and I have been in magazine. Today I dress modestly and I have never felt as free as now before.
@@gc6497 Sister it is best not to share your sins. This is information not everyone needs to know, one of the exceptions being your husband (before you married him). I recommend you to remove your comment.
Allah knows best. I am not ashamed of my journey but proud of the things I said not to since I’m Muslim. For me this is a beautiful story and everyone should hear about it.
@@kingGhobra no harm for her to share. She is not promating it. On the contrary, its educative for other non muslims and inspirational for us bcuz it clearly shows that Allah is the most merciful. When u r an honest person in faith Islam embrace u regardless who u were before.
Wow, it's so refreshing to have a female Islamic scholar. I loved learning from sister Fatima & I will do more research about the Islamic faith. This seems to be like a pure religion and so much truth in it. I would be happy to learn and embrace this faith.
In fact, I was a Muslim, but I abandoned this religion two years ago. After in-depth research, it became clear that it is a terrorist religion identical to ISIS and Al-Qaeda, and it contains thousands of terrorist Qur’anic doctrines, such as jihad and fighting the world and peoples until they submit to Islam. The slaughter of apostates and the terrorist doctrine of loyalty and disavowal, as well as the issues of devaluing women and treating them as subordinates, while encouraging slavery and enslaving people after their conquest, and forcibly raping captive women and selling them in markets.And dozens of other reasons that show that it is a corrupt religion
I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. I'm a Christian. I wish people of different faiths could have more of these kinds of respectful, collaborative, supportive conversations. You both REALLY made me think. We have lost sight of the value in the contractual obligations of traditional marriage. You are correct that it provides so much safety, hope, POTENTIAL too....for both men and women. A couple marries. They create a FAMILY. Families create COMMUNITIES. Communities create SOCIETIES. Without obedience to the contract of "family", societies crumble. All the best to you, Tammy, from a fellow Albertan.🇨🇦♥️
It’s rather naive though. As Islam has child marriage as part of their doctrine. Their own prophet married a child of six. So I don’t think this is really been a constructive conversation at all. If Islam thinks 6 year olds are “women” and marriageable.
@@hereweare9096 Prophet Mohamed planned marriage with Aisha when she was 9 and married her when she was 14, literally after she reached the age of Puberty. I don't know where you got your facts from but what I can say is that it seems like you copied this from an invalid opinion-based source instead of the legitamete sources.
@@hereweare9096 The offical marriage here in the US back then used to be women marrying as early as they reach the age of puberty (Mostly 14). However, I don't see you addressing that point at all? Care to talk about it? Also, Mary gave birth to Jesus Christ when she was 13 years old. Does that mean that the father(god) is naive? No! Not at all. These were different times back then and we can't judge 2 timelines by arguing about their traditions and differences. People passed away maximumly at the age of 40 back then, so life was much of a survival competition compared to now.
@@josephhendrickson1218 Incorrect. Back then? What year /century are you speaking of? Mary’s age is not in scripture she is referred to as a woman. For example Jairus daughter who is noted as being 12 is called a little girl. Also incorrect as to age of death back then. You are mixing life span with life expectancy
Now that i am actually a working mother i realized that's it's not all that i thought it would be. I've started working half time now and we've got rid of our car etc . To lessen our expenses. First i was embarrassed to admit it but i wanted to be more involved in my son's life and the running of the household.
I once heard a quote "what others think about you is none of your business". Think about this. Stay strong and have faith in God to help you go through this tough time raising your child.
@@Rumorhasit-777 I love how you included that you lived in the US as if white American Muslim women are nonexistent. *poofs into thin air* Also explain to me why, if women are so treasured here, the gender pay gap still exists, along with that hypocritical double standards, grape without the g, and much more. And if you think Muslim women are oppressed you’re very wrong and have clearly been fed lies through media about bizarre practices done only in specific theocracies. If you did any research about Islam you would Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) literally fought to end the mistreatment of women and established rights for women. Women were being buried alive and treated like animals before and Islam was the FIRST religion to ever establish rights for women. So you can take your little stereotypes and leave now.
@@Rumorhasit-777 As a Muslim I respect your faith. There is a verse in the Quran says that, ""there is no compulsion in religion". So, I will pray for you that may Allah guide you.❣️
Wow! What a refreshing podcast! I am thrilled that you had this conversation with not only a Muslim but a female Muslim scholar. These conversations between traditional women are crucial to revive what women lost to the feminist movement and social modernization. For too long we have been overshadowed, put down, and ridiculed by those who champion so-called "women's rights" and to see women like yourself and Sheikha Fatima stand proudly against such notions using spirituality and feminine grace is, like I said, refreshing. Please continue to have these conversations with people of different religious backgrounds as it helps us see that we are not alone in this fight against modernization.
Trust me that more than these sad, traditional Muslim women have ever lost in terms of freedom, no other women in the world haven't lost in terms of decency and normality. You don t have to hide yourself behind religious vows to be a decent human being, to be respectful and balanced. Hiding your body in the extreme is the same as abusing it being overly frivolous. Both are extremes, decency and common sense shouldn't be enforced just by belief alone..
@@mon_ange333mony4no one force US to cover our body. Em moeslem woman from Indonesia. I covered my self by my own idea of course my husband loved that idea... But no one force me. Because i study Qur'an n religion subject from 6 years old... I know what gud for me in Dunya n akherat
As a Muslim woman i appreciate this collaboration thank you . we will be more than happy to see more videos like this . May Allah guide you to the straight path .
Allah is a deceiver, how can he guide you on a straight path when your religion is full of so many lies, deceit and corruption. You word is only half as good as mine (according to your religion). How can Allah send a book to guide you, but put confusing verses in it that noone understands? How does that make sense? (It doesn't). How can kissing a black stone forgive you of your sins? (It doesn't) I feel so sorry for you that youre caught up in this hateful religion, you seem like a really nice person :( The real answer is Jesus, he is the Truth and the Word of God, only He can truely guide you, reassure you and bring you peace and joy... seek after Him instead :D
There are many. Its just they don't get invited by western people out of fear that they will normalize a new way of living which west considers oppressive but isn't
Wonderful to listen in on this intimate conversation. It does take faith to have and raise children. I might add that it takes courage as well, b/c dedication to truth takes heap loads of courage. Thank you both.
@@konyvnyelv. Yvonne Ridley, a British journalist in Afghanistan was captured by the Taliban back in 2002. Upon her return to England, she reported that she was well-treated and soon after, she read the Quran and converted to Islam. Tony Blair’s sister-in-law, Lauren Booth, also a journalist converted to Islam. Are they oppressed? I think Muslim women are the torchbearers of true women’s liberation…
@@cralterwonkite if Ridley loves the Taliban she can get there. I looked info on her and she is a politician. I wonder if she agrees with Taliban ban on women partaking politics , work and education.
In the late 1990's many middle easterners immigrated to my city. One day I was standing at an elevator. Behind me was a middle eastern man and behind him a woman in hijab. Of course, I ended up in the back of the elevator, the man in the middle and the woman in the front. When the elevator opened the woman stood to the side to let the man go first. The man then stepped aside, turned to me, gestured for me to go first, then stepped in front of the woman, existed and she behind him. I was so impressed that he took the time to to respect both cultures. I saw other situations that that made it clear that the examples I saw on TV were not typical. Are there some bad middle eastern and Muslim men? Yes, of course. But there are bad men in all countries, communities, organizations and religions. Thank you for this beautiful conversation.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 so are you able to read the mind of someone you never met or are you just that arrogant? The elevator was one of many time I was surprised and impressed by the respect middle eastern men showed to women. My kid went t school with two sisters who grew up Muslim. One of them converted to Christianity with her parents permission. Most christians would not let their teenage daughters convert to any other religion.
These are just the kinds of discussions of nuance we need in this time. God bless you for creating a positive space. One note - we should learn how to say the name of our guests correctly to respect them.
@@babymonalisa Honour Killing of women in islam Tony Abbott, ex-Prime Minister of Australia said about muslims. Islam has “Honor Killing” where most frequently women can be killed by family members for violating principles of their religion. The murderers are rarely charged. “Offenses” include but are not limited to refusing an arranged marriage, being a victim of rape, renouncing Islam (apostasy), dressing in ways deemed inappropriate and homosexuality. It is happening with muslims in the West and very frequently in muslim-majority countries. The Quran encourages muslim men to marry pre-puberty girls which sometimes results in the tragedy of the young girl dying of bleeding on/after her wedding night. Pakistan PM vows to eradicate honour killings after Oscar nod Rifqa Bary but, so far, with no success. FGM Islamic rule and not local tradition FGM stands for Female Genital Mutilation. or Khitan) is the name of the Muslim ritual for doing it. Two muslim woman are convicted of it in a muslim minority country. PM Cameron of UK reports nearly 4,000 in 2014. It’s happens more often in muslim families. Men leaders of women Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance-advise them; forsake them in bed; and,strike them. But if they obey you, seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand. [An-Nisa:34] Clerical mouhalel in islam to marry divorced women, intercourse for mutual orgasm then legal to marry ex-husband. (2:230) And if he has divorced her [for the third time], then she is not lawful to him afterward until [after] she marries a husband other than him. And if the latter husband divorces her [or dies], there is no blame upon the woman and her former husband for returning to each other if they think that they can keep [within] the limits of Allah. These are the limits of Allah, which He makes clear to a people who know. So, when a muslim divorces his wife, say it 3 times, she will legally divorced. Even if it was not her mistake. He may have been angry of his work or something else. Still she has to pay for his error. She has to have sex with another man of his choice for at least few days. So this is like allowing another man to rape her (as her consent is not necessary) then after that that man must divorce her so she can go back to her children who are automatically given to the father (unless he refuses to take them). So she has to go though sexual molestation/rape and through emotional abuse as he has the right to forbid her from visiting their children. Muhamass marriage with aisha Narrated `Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death). Sahih Bukhari (Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah)) Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 5133 In-book reference : Book 67, Hadith 690 However, he started molesting her at the age of 6y by using the thighing method of sex. Meaning, he was rubbing his penis between her tiny legs until he ejaculates. In reply to muslim statement that ayesha reached her puberty, but muhamass(crij) deflowered her at 9 y. old, when he saw her pubic-hair started to show-up and NOT when she had her 1st period. In fact, in other hadith(s), ayasha was still playing with dolls till the age of 14. (yhis custom is only allowed for girls who did NOT reach their puberty. In reply to muslims statement that it was a customs in these days to marry young girls. When we asked muslims, show us proof from your books about a man, other than muhamass(crij) who married a pre-pubescent girl. They fail to show us a proof of such a custom. In reply to their statement that 'aranged marriage' is legal in Europe and many other countries. We answer that an arranged marriage is totally different from child-marriage. In an arranged marriage, usually, 2 families (in a nasty dispute or in a common goal), marry their very young boy to a very young girl with the understanding that the wedding (etc...) will happen much later when both kids are grown-up and able to marry each others. (Not to mention, that in many cases an arranged marrige may be broke with the agreement of both parties. while child-marriage cannot be cancelled except by a divorce). Such arranged marriage will reconcile the families for good or will facilitate the commercial dealing in between both families. islamic hadith talks abt muhamass(crij) practicing thighing-sex on ayesha between the ages of 6y. and 9 y. There is another hadith that tells that muhamass(crij) carried ayesha on his back to go to a show. If we assume that the muslim who insist that ayesha was 18y. old , how can a 54y old guy carry an 18y. old woman on his back and walk for a certain distance. Muhamass having sex with wife during her period Narrated Um Salama: While I was laying with the Prophet under a single woolen sheet, I got the menses. I slipped away and put on the clothes for menses. He said, "Have you got "Nifas" (menses)?" I replied, "Yes." He then called me and made me lie with him under the same sheet. Sahih Bukhari (Menstrual Periods) Reference : 298 In-book reference : Hadith 5 Most women are going to juhanam:Narrated Abu Sa`id Al-Khudri: Once the Messenger went out to the Musalla of `Id-al-Adha/Al-Fitr prayer. Then he passed by the women and said, "O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women)." They asked, "Why is it so, O Allah's Messenger?" He replied, "You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you." The women asked, "O Allah's Messenger What is deficient in our intelligence and religion?" He said, "Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?" They replied in the affirmative. He said, "This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Isn't it true that a woman can neither pray nor fast during her menses?" The women replied in the affirmative. He said, "This is the deficiency in her religion." Ref. Sahih al-bukhari: 304. In-book ref. Book 6, hadith 9 Harris Sultan video abt. marrying infants-girls in islam and Andrew Tate abt. having sex with minors girls. th-cam.com/video/L7m-J2xkr0c/w-d-xo.html Udda according to quran for pre pubuscent girls, pregnant/old women (65:4): And those who no longer expect menstruation among your women - if you doubt, then their period is three months, and [also for] those who have not menstruated. And for those who are pregnant, their term is until they give birth. And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him of his matter ease. Sura Alnur (24:33): If you force your maids into prostitution you will be forgiven Those who are unable to marry should keep chaste until God gives them sufficiently from His favor. If any of those whom your right hands held in trust seek a contract then, draw one with them if you know there is goodness within them, and share with them the wealth that God has given you. Do not compel your girls against their will to prostitution, out of your desire for the short-term gains of this world, if they want to be married. If they however are compelled, God will be forgiving and merciful to them. Women are like you landfields SURAH BAQARA AYA: 223 SAHIH INTERNATIONAL Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish and put forth [righteousness] for yourselves. And fear Allah and know that you will meet Him. And give good tidings to the believers.
Men and husbands must respect womans' status in the home as nurturers and nest builders. Clarity is a must in embracing each other's roles. So important to pick the right partners with similiar morals and values. Family is everything. Thanks for this video.
So refreshing to hear this! I didn't notice it back then, but I have come to realize how very blessed I am to have a husband who encouraged me to "Mind the Fort" while his job required him away often during those years raising our family. The choice to beable for me to be at home was such a relief for us bc we knew we wouldn't have to worry as much and learned it takes a team effort and it takes a Village. It's been a blessing, privilege and a joy to wear the Title Hats of A Daughter of God, Wife and Mother & Grandmother. and so very fortunate to have opportunity to do so. Also reading "The Family: A Proclamation To The World" by The First Presidency and Council of The Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints" has been a wonderful reminder to me of the important role and purpose as a woman and as children of God we have for the Family Unit of Society and of Humanity .
What a complete JOY this conversation was. Fatima, I really enjoyed your humble, modest, point of view. Traditional women are turning into a rarity and it’s sad! I wear a head covering 🕎 and I love how respectful people are and they do treat me differently. Sometimes good, sometimes bad but it is a buffer of safety in this wicked, sex obsessed world.
I have Steve Biddulph's book "Raising Boys" and followed his methodology to raise our now 15 year old son. I also only ever carried him (didnt use a pram) until he was 3.5 years old. I only stopped because he became too heavy for my back. At the time, no one else was doing it in my town. Today, i see parents carrying their baby, but only ever on the front (never on the back) and always doing it wrong, with their baby facing outwards, which stresses a child and they have no means of shutting off their senses.
Subanallah what a story touches my heart. My mom named me Khadijah after the prophets Wife. A noble women who cared, supported and helped her husband/the prophet Muhammad pbuh and made him feel secure and understand his duties.
It resonated deeply with me when Fatima talked about her experience marrying young and having an intimate relationship for the first time within those clear boundaries - in particular, the feeling of being safe. I married at 18 and I can clearly remember that feeling. It surprised me, because it wasn't like I had felt unsafe before or that I thought I needed to feel safe. I thought I was comfortable by myself. It wasn't until I had that experience that I realized that feeling safe was one of the things that meant the most to me in our marriage. I really enjoyed the conversation - Tammy's voice is almost therapeutic to listen to, and it was really interesting to hear from a traditional, muslim woman like Fatima - I haven't had the chance to do that before. Thanks to you both!
I am Jewish, I am religious, and I live in Israel. I loved this beautiful heartfelt conversation which gave me a number of insights. Thank you to both ladies🙏💓
Masha Allah. This sort of discussion and pov was much needed from an authentic conservative Muslimah. Deeply appreciate, Sister Tammy Peterson & Sister Fatimah. May God guides us all to the straight and may we stay on the straight & narrow. Ameen
@tsarina true. It makes Islam looks like a clown at times for bowing down to modernity because of this. Not to mention their lack of knowledge to answer properly which i think many muslims are able to catch very quickly. It's so easy to see the difference between lies and truth among muslims.
After watching this and hearing the lovely Tammy speak - the kind and humble way in which she engaged with her guest, and truly listened... Tammy Peterson has my respect! As does Sheikha Fatima, of course, Maa Shaa Allah
I grew up in a culture that was very much about "we" and then it became all about "me". We saw a massive increase in depression, anxiety, and suicide and violent crime.
Really great conversation about girlhood and the value of keeping your sexual experiences confined to a loving marital relationship. Very timely indeed. Loved hearing more about the Muslim culture.
@Devil's Logic you are inviting people to Islam, and you yourself do not follow it, your name and picture are haram, our prophet pbuh ordered us against such bad pictures or names. Try to give good example brother, may Allah guide us all.
The fact that "the view" (us) and "loose women"(uk) are aired on television when this level of conversation between two women of differing faith is available, tells you all you need to know about where we are as a society. Thank you for such an insightful and educational dialogue. Perhaps di-logos is more appropriate, in this case. Either way, it's proving to be a very humbling listen for this male gen x'er 🙏
Id highly recommend to you to read book called Ar-Raheeq Al-Makhtum (The Sealed Nectar): Biography of the Prophet,it is so great and full of wisdom and amazing and impreesive information .
My sister, Sheikha Fatima Barakatulla, I love you for the sake of Allah and I am so proud of you and everyone that raised and shaped you. Allahuma barik, you spoke so clearly, modestly and respectfully. It was refreshing and inspiring to hear about your experiences in life and what you learnt along the way. May Allah ta'ala grant you more tawfiq, ameen
This was amazing! The ideas in this talk gave me goosebumps at certain points. The thing is i've experienced both Islamic and western culture, as I've been raised in Jordan (a muslim country) and I am exposed everyday to this culture, and yet when I reach home, my family are European.
We are one humanity and our feelings are human and we have one Creator, only there are powers who like the humanity to desrtroy eachother as they can not, or it is forbiden for them. What Allah said you can not mislead the true belivers. Being on earth for a short time has a reason when we understand the reason then we understand why all.
Im from Balkan and a muslim so i understand all differences and where all comes from. Then when you understand where the differences comes then you see, we where same just humans and belive in the Creator it was normal it was a part of being human with morals and shame but then powers came who where al ready there before us and mislead humans and let humans worship them and other things so humans lost the true self, real humanity so we had so different things and belives but the begining we where one. Islam brought the truth back the real messege thats why there was nothing after it. No more Prophets or message like before Islam as it was the true and last message that made all clear. We can not make religion or the Creator as we wish, it is not a fairytale or something to romentize about but it is the truth we must accept as it is evan if we dont understand with our brain.
Then Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to Khadija, "O Khadija! What is wrong with me? I was afraid that something bad might happen to me." Then he told her the story. Khadija said 'Nay! But receive the good tidings! By Allah, Allah will never disgrace you, for by Allah, you keep good relations with your Kith and kin, speak the truth, help the poor and the destitute, entertain your guests generously and assist those who are stricken with calamities'.
What an amazing discussion. Nailed one of the problems with our society. I believe our abandoning these values in North America is the very reason for the end of a real family and the future end of a free and good society. Just take God out of the picture and watch things collapse. I’m a new Muslim Revert, by the way. I love my new found faith! Bless you all! Assalamu Alaikum!
Mrs. Peterson, Thank you for being a wonderful witness of our catholic faith. I've learned so much from you. Especially, you love our Blessed Mother. Your faithfulness to Her is inspirational to me.❤ Praying for strength for you!
I want to take the chance to express my support for the Catholics during this vicious campaign on your faith, unholy institutions dont like the fact that you prioritize God, they want your absolute obedience and God stands in their way
We, as Muslims, believe and love Mary, as we believe and love in all the prophets ,they are massengers from same God Allah, and they have same message ,I hope you do not consider this as bias, but this is a fact, that you should follow the last books and messengers, the Qur’an and Muhammad, because it is the last book and the true message of God that has not been changed or corrupted as in bible and torah ,And God commanded us to follow The prophet who is in your time, and our time is Muhammad, the last of the prophets. Who carries the same pure message of Jesus, Abraham and...all the prophets. If you want to follow Jesus, you must follow the Quran. By the way, Jesus told us of the coming of Muhammad and commanded to follow him in the bible.
@@heatherelliot3202 John 16:12-1 where Jesus said: “I still have much to tell you, but you cannot yet bear to hear it. However, when the Spirit of truth comes, He will guide you into all truth. For He will not speak on His own, but He will speak what He hears, and He will declare to you what is to come. ” People try to contort this passage to mean the Holy Spirit but wasn’t the Holy Spirit already present when Jesus was on Earth? It was. This is one of the prophesies (amongst others) that spoke of the coming of another Prophet that will speak what he hears (revelation known as the Quran).
@@heatherelliot3202 If you want more prophecies about the coming of Muhammad in previous books, I recommend a book " The last prophet " by Dr haitham talaat , its great book.
I don't usually comment, but I'm happy that you had the chance to allow this Muslim woman to speak about Islam and fill in the missing gaps of knowledge that unfortunately lots of folks seem to have. The part where you mentioned that it takes faith to raise kids is truly legit. Not only does it takes faith but it takes both courage and patience as well. These are three values that significantly ensure a well-raised generation. Unfortunately, parenthood nowadays in the states would lack one, two, or probably all three of these values. This is hence the reason why you'd witness a majority (not entirely) of America's latest generation either lost or confused. Speaking about Islamic dressing, Christian women here used to cover their heads back then as well, but this tradition has decreased significantly over time. Now, the only Christians who would still have women covering their heads are the Amish Christians. You would rarely see any Orthodox or a Catholic female covering their heads nowadays(except nuns of course...). After all, Christianity, Judaism and Islam are three faiths that are placed under the title of "Abrahamic Religions". We all mostly share similar core values and morals.
The book she wrote was about Mohammed's first wife but he later married another 13 women. His youngest wife was Aisha: The majority of traditional sources state that Aisha was betrothed to Muhammad at the age of six or seven, but she stayed in her parents' home until the age of nine, or ten according to Ibn Hisham, when the marriage was consummated with Muhammad, then 53, in Medina.
@@goku5323 how so! Am I stating facts or am I not? You’re the one that is interpreting a statement of facts as a phobia. What is your position on marrying 13 women and having sex with children?
I completely understand that pressure they are talking about to be more than a wife and mother. I didn't grow up in very devout Christian home. We where "Christian", but didn't actively go to church as I got older. I remember feeling like i was "weird" Because i wanted to get married young. I constantly got told to wait, make sure you go to college, have a Job, be independent. Wait to have kids till you are like in your 30s. Well that never felt right to me. I didn't want to be an old parent. I wanted to spend years with my husband. Needless to say lol i got married when i was 23 after finishing college and we had our first son shortly after our wedding. We did in fact have a "shotgun" wedding 😂. Very few people actually knew i was pregnant at our wedding. It wasn't exactly what we had planned 😅..... we were hoping for a couple of years to ourselves before kids, but 11 years later and two more beautiful children..... i wouldn't change a thing. I am grateful that i have been able to be a stay at home mother, and that i am able to homeschool our children. Its not an easy thing to do, but having support from my husband and extended family is what makes it possible.
@@konyvnyelv.in civilizations people were usually covered. Especially women. The other day I was reading about the veiling of the face in ancient China and Japan. I had no idea.
@@user-vr4sc8dh5t yes, and look how they were treated. They couldn't partake politics and were illiterate most times. Now in the west women can do whatever they want like men, in Islamic countries they are closed in their house and can't do anything except cook and be fucked by husbands. Some may be concubines since islam allows sex slaves
Listening to girlhood experiences from this eloquent and graceful young woman and comparing it to Dylan Mulvaney's girlhood...I can almost look at Jordan and Tammy as elders/ parents shaking their heads and thinking where did we go wrong? I want to tell them that this is where a lot of Muslim youth is headed because our generation and previous generations made the same mistakes of keeping the scripture in cupboards and not pondering over it and not strive to implement in collective lives.. thank Allah there is still people across all faiths trying to find a way in these troubling times with myriad of challenges ..may God help us all and tie us all with that rope of guidance and direction .Ameen
This was so refreshing to listen to. Thank you Mrs. Petersons for giving a Muslim woman the opportunity to speak on her own behalf. I was very pleased to hear the kindness and understanding from Mrs. Peterson. May Allah reward sister Fatima for her knowledge and accurate description of Islamic teachings,Ameen. I hope for more dialogue to once and for all clear the misconceptions regarding Muslim women. May Allah Al -Hadi give Hadiyah to Mrs. Peterson and through her many others ,Ameen.
Thank you so much for engaging with muslim female scholars. We as muslims often see a lot of men speaking about islam and discussing these important topics, and that is fine, but as a woman it's always nice to hear from women and I really enjoyed this discussion!
Actually as muslim man i rather have muslims women or better muslims females scholers to speak about this stuff bec those islampobe put there will never get it unless they hear from you dear sisters
I agree, I've felt it for years, alot of guilt, and being in masculine energy all the time is just too much. As a single woman. Much love ❤️ Australia 🇦🇺
Amazing conversation. True with the head covering in Christianity. I grew up in Hungary (a Catholic majority country), and up until my grandmother's generation it was not uncommon to women wearing head coverings. Once their husband's passed away, the colourful head coverings were changed to black, not always, but very often until the day these little old ladies have died. That's all gone out of the window now.
This is not the covering that was common in Europe. Forcing women to hide their face because men get aroused by seeing any part of a woman (the actual reason, look it up) is demeaning.
@@reasonablyserious No, I am not talking about the Islamic cover, I simply talked about the fact that women in Europe also have covered their hair once they got married. As girls they didn't. But once a woman got married it was a sign that she was taken and married. It was also modesty.
@@reasonablyserious It's not demeaning. First of all, face covering is optional for women who don't want to be seen. It's HER choice and it makes us feel protected. I'd rather go out in the world covering my body and not be picked apart or sexualized..so that I can focus on my intelligence and actually contribute to the world. My sexiness and comfortability is at home in my sanctuary with my husband and kids. You may not understand that and that's completely fine we don't need you to understand, but you need to respect it. Our choice.
Thank you Tammy and Fatima for collaborating to produce such a refreshing and thought provoking dialogue. It’s really important to build bridges and come together upon that which is common between us. I believe that every Christian household should have a copy of the translation of the Quran and every Muslim household should have a copy of at least one of the versions of the Bible, whether that be KJV or the Catholic version etc. We need to become people of understanding, God willing Insha’Allah.
The prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) when he saw Omar (RA) reading the Torah and he said to him (Are you in doubt, O son of al-Khattab? I have brought it (the Quran) to you as white and pure. By Allah, if my brother Musa were alive, he would not have been able to do anything but follow me.) And he forbade him from ever looking at the Scriptures of the people of the book, and that's Omar (RA) the greatest human after the prophet (ﷺ) and Abu bakr (RA), and based on that all the scholars of Islam has said that it's not allowed for the layman to read the Scriptures of the people of the book, so what you are saying oppose what the prophet (ﷺ) taught, and what the scholars of Islam has agreed upon. Be careful of what you say Cuz any Muslim who takes your advice and after that he has an issue with his Faith or God forbid he may leave the Deen Cuz of your advice, you will be questioned about it in the day of Qiama.
@@AMMAR-911 Salaam! - You are generally correct and May Allah forgive me for any unintentional erring on my part. In very early Islam Omar RA was forbidden to read a section of the Torah as Quran was being revealed in order to avoid confusion and mixing in his understanding. However, when Islam was more established Prophet Mohammed SAW ordered Zaid ibn Thabit RA to learn Hebrew, (which he learnt in 13 days!) to see if what was being quoted by the Jews of the time was correct or not (with respect to the sanctioning of the adulterer and adulteress). Scholars now have a difference of opinion on this matter, in that it is considered permissible by some to read the scriptures of other religions in order to reply to the doubts that people have about Islam. I myself live and grew up in a majority Christian country and am surrounded by Christians, I personally would consider myself ignorant if I didn’t have some understanding of their faith. For example when a Christian asks me about my hijab, I inform them of the gentle and eloquent instruction of modesty in the Quran with regards to wearing a khimaar, but it’s useful to also be able to point out that the instruction to cover the hair is more harshly stated in the Bible 1 Corinthians 11:6 where women are told to shave their hair off if they don’t cover!, people tend to take more notice when you demonstrate that you are well versed and are a person of some understanding. Finally, All actions are judged by intention, I hope I have clarified my intention and Allah knows best.
This is a great and respectful discussion. The decision should be mutual and respected. My wife of nearly 20 years has always wanted to work and have her own financial independence. We mutually cook and care for our 3 children as Muslims. There should be clear communication and understanding in the beginning of the relationship as Sheikha Barkatulla stated in the discussion.
Wonderful Interview thank you! Ladies I have come to realise I have more in common with Muslim women then I do with our so called progressive liberal women and I am a practicing Catholic.
Of course you have, its actually same religion, just differently institutionalized 😅 Me as an agnostic I have more in common with agnostic men than with religeous women, than more in common with Arab agnostics than with English agnostics ... 😉 Similar values and expectations bring humans together, same enemy as well, I thought just extraterrestrial attack could force Christians and Muslims, religeous and non religeous, black and white, men and women to cooperate, who thought we just need transgenders 😂
In addition to what everyone mentioned, i just wanted to thank you Tammy for being a good listener and allowing your guest the time to make their points. Definitely going to look for other episodes of your podcast.
This is beautiful. I thoroughly enjoyed watching this very thoughtful interaction. Sh Fatima's ideas are clear and well presented. I also quite liked Tammy, such a good listener and a beautiful soul. May Allah, our Lord, shine His light onto your heart Tammy to grant you clarity of insight. Amen❤️
I'm going to order this book! I was looking for something like this, so I really appreciate the exposure to this. I'm on the hunt for knowledge about Islamic figures that I can look up to as a woman. If anyone has recommendations of similar books, please share them 🙏
Thank you Tammy for this interview. I didn't even realise you did podcasts as well and this was recommended to me. Even as a muslim I did not know some of the things Fatima was talking about so it was refreshing for me too. Thank you for this content. May Allah bless you and your family.
Her message is directed toward women, because they are more likely to convert based on the feels of her message, without looking into who Mohammed was, what he taught and how that ideology has played out around the world, throughout Islam's history.
Absolutely. She comes off really soft and understanding person who tries to summarize things properly like a good psychologist which wouldnt be a surprise considering she and her husband have similar dynamics she might pick it off from XD
I've been watching a lot of JustPearlyThings. I love her attitude and content, but sometimes the discussion of women's issues can be so combustible. This was enlightening and made me feel peaceful. Lots of love and continue to do your best; we are too grateful for it
Because she's manosphere. She's not actually for loving, caring, reciprocating relationships. She actually said a woman who's husband left her for another woman and the woman begged him back was goals. Anything linked to manosphere, etc is toxic.
The problem with pearly things is that the conversations reduce men and women to commodities - high status male, high status female - as if we are trophies. Relationships are about service to one another and should be about choosing someone according to their character, not their bank account or body count.
Tammy Peterson and Sheikha Fatima Barakatula, this is one of the most brilliant, insightful and balanced conversation on TH-cam. Kudos to both of you for discussing such a critical issue, it indeed has bought clarity in the minds of female audience. It was so good that this 1 hour 46 minute video seemed like a MINUTE. Appreciate both for bringing up such content.
Wow this is amazing ❤ I never expected a person from the Peterson family to platform a niqabi woman. You know why 😒 Mrs. Peterson seems to be a genuine and calm person. ❤
That is odd considering who the Peterson family is and the fact that they clearly lean conservative. I would assume most muslims would lean to the right, due to their conservative values. Whereas Christians are inherently liberal, which is now obviously right leaning, due to the strict fascism required by the authoritarian left.
@@sarahalderman3126 JP and his daughter have been vocal about their aversion to Islamic laws relating to gender which includes dress codes, divorce and so on. Western Christians have mostly surrendered to liberal norms but that’s not true for African or Korean Christians. I see the current radical left as the logical outcome of liberal ideas so I don’t consider them authoritarian.
I like how these two women are chatting, so respectful, mature, understanding, well-spoken (no barking at one another) - media can learn a lot from them
Tammy you are so intentionally kind and considerate. What a beautiful woman you are really. My life is made better because of you and your life. Thank you. God bless you. Live long and prosper
Muslim women cover themselves for a reason. The manifesting of the holiness of a woman. Humble and kind is the issue but especially as an act of obedience and reverence for God designed to bless husband and families
It was an interesting and refreshing episode. Thank you both for talking about important and forgotten subjects that connected the people of faith not so long ago and that we’ve all lost.
I had egg experiment too in school....I tried to hatch the egg lol I was picked on actually by my own friends, they called me "the nun" or "your ugly" or they would compliment each other about each friends good quality and skip mine just because I was becoming religious and spiritual outwardly...I used to love to contemplate existence, God, question things, reflecting on my heart and soul, psychology etc it was a beautiful time for me as I let go of friends for about a year or soo...just prayed in empty classroom, it was just me and God, wonderful times...I just became more confident as I developed my character rather then focusing on looks, I was not deseperate to get applauses from boys or girls, my peers...
In a society where girls (and boys) are told they can do anything, they will be expected to do everything… I am so impressed by this conversation - as a religious Jewish woman, so much of what is presented here is, in spirit and overall practice, exactly what we ourselves in the orthodox community have always maintained and promoted amongst ourselves. Thank you so much for this podcast. May these messages grow and nourish the entire world.
I think faith is key! Thank you for bringing this up! Wow huge. So many young women have no faith and that's why they are scared of bringing children into a world that they feel is fundamentally flawed and doomed to climate crisis. Whereas in fact, not getting married, not having children is the very thing that will end our civilization and the order that does keep us safe. Thank you! Great podcast!
What a wonderful exchange of ideas, I love how The islamic society keeps women safe nurtured and true to their purpose while allowing and nurturing them to grow as people, scholars, mothers , wives, this is how society should be. On the other hand, The post modern world has made a mockery of family, religion, culture and people ,now urging kids to change their gender, the westren govts have an agenda to destroy religion and family life. We must stand up against this secular madness and rescue ourselves to save our afterlife.
I’m a 38 years old woman with multiple degrees but being a stay at home mom is where I found my peace.
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@@maryfowles807 why not
@@maryfowles807.Working just for the sake of having a career when you’re a mother just means you value some strangers opinions of you more than you value the quality of life you can provide to your own children. If you can afford staying home there is nothing more fulfilling than nesting and being a home maker.
Good for you, live with ease without feeling any pressure from outsiders who want to make you go against your will and peace.
I am a Christian woman of 36, living in Italy. I don't want to be a say-at-home mom, I have many interests and I wouldn't feel completly satisfied if I'd dedicated myself to the household completely. HOWEVER...I have been told since the day I remember that the most important thing was my job, that marriage was useless and had no meaning and of course, to get married (if I really had too) as late as I could, that I should "explore my sexuality" and have as much "fun" as I could and "if" I want to have kids I should never allow them to be an obstacle in front of my having fun and career. Oh! And of course that I should NEVER be a "slave" to my husband because he should be able to take care of himself if he was a "real" man. I and feel completely betrayed! I have come to find and accept the fact that in realty...as a woman, I would have LOVED to get married as a young woman, I would have loved to have more than one child, that I actually enjoy taking care of my daughter AND my husband, that my body is the most sacred place that I live in and I should protect it, that all the "sexual revolution" that I was told freed women...was a LIE. And I truely hope I will be able to show this to my daughter as well.
Never late sister ,we live in dirty world,ruled by evil.
So happy to hear you found your way out and fulfillment in family.
Gianni Versace once said that "women need to explore their sexuality." (That wasn't for the benefit of women, of course).😂😂
But you know, everyone is mislead and falls into error at some time in our lives.
I respectfully suggest that you take a further look at the beauty and place of the Christian woman, readily available to you at your fingertips in the Catholic church.
Try to find a spiritual director within the church who can guide you further.
I love what you are saying, I felt the same fervor with regards to the topic of sexuality. I wish I could shield all the women in the world from the false narrative of having any other sexual partner besides the one that’s worthy of it by show of his committing his life to yours. It’s crazy how the television and culture of the west has misled and misused women. Let’s protect our daughters from that and pray for a better future for all the women in our world. I really love your statement
You seem to be in a mess for such a young women..maybe you should talk to a therapist..what ever life we chose has good times and bad times..I am 78 years old..I have learnt that no religion will help you really..it’s your life..the good and the bad…so get up stand straight and be strong..and I wish you all the best in the future…
May Allah allow us to find the truth and live by it.
The difference between mythology and theology is broad scale social support. Never underestimate what hysterical things groups of people can convince themselves of. The truth is that there are countless religious claims on this planet that all make grandiose claims. You only believe in yours because that's how your were raised, probably indoctrinated, and given special privileges for doing so. Allah, God, Lord Krishna, Yahweh, etc. Don't exist.
This truth th-cam.com/video/FYfihuI9nQw/w-d-xo.html
Jesus is the answer.
@@deshon3523 “This is eternal life, that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.” John 17:3 who is the only true God according to jesus?
Christian women cannot be teachers 1 Timothy 2 : 11-12 " a woman should learn in quietness and full submission . I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man ; she must be silent . "
Or else....b
Thank you very much for inviting me on to your podcast dear Tammy. I look forward to interviewing you one day soon. Peace be with you.
Slm sister, beautiful talk, i love how you took the time to explain everything, may ALLAH increase you in beneficial knowledge, good health and good energy, a balanced life, patience in all trials, protection from every harm and long life, ameen 🤲🏼🌷🙂Salaam from South Africa
Who are you sister ?? I never saw u.
Do you know Daniel haqiqotou ?
You are not a good representative of the real Muslim woman, I am so sad to see you on this channel. You and your people are the worst enemies of real Islam.
Masha Allah my sister
❤ sister, for the sake of Allah! SubhanAllah...lots of dua for you...
Freedom without responsibility is dangerous. Children are the most important gifts.
There is no freedom without reverence for and obedience to God.
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Especially the little girls, just put them on a treadmill to push out more little girls to breed boys because only boys can do anything else.
Many people mistake rights for entitlements.
Wtf is so special about kids?
After receiving the first revelation, Prophet Muhammad went to Khadījah (may God be pleased with her) and said: ‘Cover me! Cover me!’ She covered him, until the fear had left him, then he told her what had happened, saying: ‘I feared for my life.’ Khadījah responded: ‘No, by God. God would never humiliate you. You maintain family ties, help to carry people’s burdens when they are tired, you give to the poor, you are generous to your guests, and help people in times of hardship.’
Whenever I remember how she assured him, I just cry. So when I see my husband come home tired from work, I give him Salam because how Khadija cared for her husband makes me appreciate my own husband. What rahma, what mercy.
Assalamualaikum sister, may Allah reward you immensely. SubhanAllah this is how it should be ❤
And mom Khadijah pbnu, is my biggest woman role model now
Everybody else is calm when they encounter an angelic being, but for some reason Mohamed was scared to death. Something must be wrong with that picture
May Allah reward you and bless your marriage and raise your status in this life and in the next 💚
The angel was Gabriel (Jibraeel in Arabic) and he appeared to Muhammad in his natural form, which was as big as the horizon. I think any normal and sane person would be scared. Especially if it’s something we have never encountered in our lives.
Fantastic collaboration
No one wouldve thought this collab would happen.... who knows perhaps Assia will finally convince Ramses
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Darwinian Delusion 🥵
Good Lord...it's an interview with Darth Vader 😂
Imagine interviewing someone with that on 🙈
I’m so glad I found this conversation. I’m a non-religious/athiest (raised Catholic) young 40+ woman with two kids (4 and 6) living in the US and this resonates so much. I was having a hard time articulating why I thought this new-wave feminism was eroding society - why I felt so lost with working a corporate job, why I couldn’t keep a relationship, married and divorced within 6 months at 28. My mother was also a victim of societal programming and never has been able to get out of the trap, as she (a 63-year-old woman) continues to jump from relationship to relationship (it’s really sad and pathetic.) I had no positive female role models. I didn’t live with my dad (he remarried and had another baby with a stepmother who was jealous of a 5-year-old), nor did he raise me, because my mother took us away from after she decided she was done with marriage with a 3-year-old and 1-year-old baby-we visited him every other weekend.
After finally having children at 35 and 37, it wasn’t until I was in the throes of motherhood that I realized this is all WRONG-this is not the way we are supposed to raise children. How could women (my mother) tear their children away from their father, break up the family unit, and throw their children into all-day, year-round daycare? In the West, we are watching the downfall of society. I think women should have choices and rights and all of the freedoms that humans should have, but I do think we/society threw out the baby with the bathwater-pun intended. Feminism has demonized traditional values, self-worth and self-respect, family, children, respect for our elders. It’s always baffled my mind that in the US women only get 8 weeks maternity leave, maybe 3 months paid if you’re lucky to care for an infant-and we wonder why the kids are insane right now-profits over people.
Just like another comment wrote, I feel lied to. I waited too long to have kids-out of wedlock, mind you. I’m married now, but I was so brainwashed, that I thought legal marriage was pointless and stupid. I would love to have more kids, but I feel too old and tired to do it again with a newborn, and I’m already an “old” mom. I have no help in raising my children, because my selfish mother moved states away. I don’t have a village-most of us don’t in the West.
I see more and more people and women waking up to how bad and wrong society has become reiterating the same points about modern feminism and gender roles. Society has brainwashed women to basically become the men we seek, but the men can never live up to our “standards,” and the cycle continues. I do hope things change one day, and I hope to instill better values and guidance in my children than I was ever afforded.
Mashallah Sheikha Fatima and thank you Mrs. Peterson for bringing to light these topics. Let’s hope more and more people wake up to this madness.
Wow God bless you sister. Pure wisdom
You are blessed to have your family. May The Almighty protect your little ones and your future progeny and give them a beautiful future ❤
Have you ever seriously looked into Islam or Christianity? The moment you convert the village is there. Not trying to be pushy or anything but it always fascinates me how people will come to these conclusions based on their life experience but never take the actual step of living as a religious person.
Thank you for taking your time to share your experiences and insights❤ I still remember back In 2006 when I lived In Morocco as a young (atheist) student. I attended a lecture with an african-american imam, convert from Christianity, about women In islam. I felt he was talking about me; my way of thinking and being, that my Scandinavian society failed to do. This was my first step towards islam 🙌🏻 SobhaanAllaah. I so wish that I kept his name. May Allah reward him.🎉
I’m sorry about what happened to you. I’m glad you learnt from your experiences and have tried improving your life. Regarding your faith, are you an atheist because you don’t believe God exists or are you this way because you are unhappy with what your former faith taught you?
As Im getting older (28) im starting to embrace and see the value in conservative norms more and more.
That being said, I have to think about my grandma, who was trapped in an abusive marriage, and how our current day norms could've served her. And how in my generation im trying to bring these two opposites together: personal freedom with the understanding of importance of responsibility, connection and commitment.
Thank you for this talk
Exactly. The Right Wing has a tendancy to romanticise the past, while the Left goes too far in running away from it.
The oppression that women of previous generations suffered is the reason the world is in such a mess today, with wokeism, identity politics and the hypersexualisation of society - these are all an ignorant, misguided, naive response to it.
It's high time the centrists dominated, that is, people who sensible enough to recognise that a society in which gender norms are narrow and fixed doesn't serve anyone, but that neither does pretending that sex is casual and banal and risk-free.
In my opinion in the Christian faith husbands are commanded to be gentle and mutually submissive to their wives and are obligated to them. If this was your grandmother's experience it's not the monogamy that did it, it's a failure on the charge of the husband. He failed in his Godly duty which is really sad.. unfortunately it happens.
@@SigmatusX yeah definitely. I just see the pendulum swing both ways. Personally I crave a more traditional marriage and I also see the need for women to be able to be independent to protect themselves from dangerous situations. Life is just complex like that.
I agree with your conclusion at the end. i've been trying to find the words to put what exactly my core values are in this theme and you put it very nicely: personal freedom with understanding of responsibility and commitment.
I've spoken with many women who have suffered in marriage, it's really sad 😔
I appreciate you for bringing a female Islamic scholar to your podcast. May Allah guide us all to the straight path.
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Amin ❤
May God and his beloved Son Christ our Lord and Savior guide us in this difficult times.
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But Christ worshipped a God. So by default Christ is not your lord and saviour. The one whom christ worshipped is your lord and saviour.
@@ashifhassan1148no christ was one with God, the same way you have a mind, spirit and soul that is one with the body. Do not confuse the two. Christians believe in the trinity God the father, son, and Holy Spirit and they are one the same way a cube is one item with 6 sides.
As a muslim i totally agree with the sister Fatima and support her, well said and incredibly beautifully worded, may Allah bless you Mashallah
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There is no outer G-D only inner. The outer g-da are the demiurge keeping you deluded.
👉Sahih Muslim (8:3460) "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you could sport with her and she sport with you, or you could amuse with her and she could amuse with you?" - Muhammad posed this question to one of his followers who had married an "older woman" instead of opting to marry a child.
👉Sahih Bukhari (4:232) - Muhammad's wives would wash semenn stains out of his clothes, which were still wet from the spot-cleaning even when he went to the mosque for prayers. (Between copulation and prayer, it's a wonder he found the time to slayy pagans).
👉Sahih Bukhari (6:300) - Muhammad's wives had to be available for the prophet's fondlingg even when they were having their menstruall period.
👉Sahih Bukhari (62:6) - "The Prophet used to go round (having seksual relations with) all his wives in one night, and he had *nine wives." (*Sources say that Muhammad had 10 to 14 wives at a time, depending on the Timeline)
Muhammad also said that it was impossible to treat all wives equally - and it isn't hard to guess why.
👉Sahih Bukhari (5:268) - "The Prophet used to visit all his wives in a round, during the day and night and they were eleven in number." I asked Anas, 'Had the Prophet the strength for it?' Anas replied, 'We used to say that the Prophet was given the strength of thirty men.' "
Islam is the worship of the pagan, Hindu moongod 🌙 Shiva, whom the pagan arabs called "Allah" (the god).
Shiva, the 🌙 moongod, was worshipped at the kaba IDOL stone by the Hindu, Muhammad, and his ancestors.
Allah = Shiva = 🌙 moon god
Moon 🌙 on Shiva's forehead
Moon 🌙 on top of every Mosque
Muhammad was a False Prophet who desired to start his own religion. However, he LACKED in knowledge and imagination, so he simply took his moongod Shiva and modelled him on the Abrahamic God YHWH (YAHWEH). elevating himself to "prophet" status.
The Hajj pilgrimage that Muslims do at Kaba is no different to the amcient Hindu pilgrimage called Shivaling, whereby the hindu arabs travelled to Mekkah to bow down around the black 🪨 stone which was shaped as a PE NIS, to resemble the Pe nis of Shiva.
Muhammad loved it so much that he actively Kissed this stone (IDOLATRY) , and encouraged his followers to do the same.
This S E X based religion is no wonder that the false prophet was obsessed with S E X, as is evidenced in the hadeetts.
Islam COPIES and blends both Hinduism AND the Abrahamic religions.
The Only True Abrahamic religion Today is the Messianic/ Christian one, which includes the MESSIAH, YESHUA (Jesus), and Both the Torah and the Gospels.
Islam is a FALSE religion.
Judaism no longer exists since the followers of Judaism today still continue fo REJECT the Messiah, thereby rejecting YHWH, the God of Abraham. Is it any WONDER why YHWH kicked them out of Israel for so many centuries, since rejecting their own MESSIAH?
Give up your false religions and seek out YHWH and His Messiah, Jesus Christ!
May God bless you too.
I started to cry halfway through this... where you mentioned children. I often can't watch any happy ending stories. I was married once to an alcoholic and drug addict. We had one daughter, who i was lucky to get help raising, but it was a struggle. He stepped in to care for her with me, finally getting his own life together. I endured a farce "marriage" by a man who knew my family had money and wanted a place to live free. I had two children (four pregnancies, he didn't want kids) and a subsequent 3-4 years of suffering trying to raise them with him. This man was raised by a single mother. The saddest part of this is how my children suffer. I know I do. I sit here feeling comforted, listening to this with my back in pain...I had to take a day off because of it. I've gotten older and figured out that the world I want for my children isn't the one I'm living in. Thanks, Tammy and Fatima. Thank you for your words. Thank you for giving me hope. I could say more. ❤
I am sorry to hear your suffering may Allah help you ... Also we Muslims invite you to Islam the final revelation from God./ Allah. I promise you will have a good content happy secure life after you Accept Islam. Please sister it will help your life x my prayers are with you,
I sincerely hope that you find a harmonious resolution to your difficulties, my dear. Your children, with your abundant love and guidance, will survive, and hopefully flourish in the future. My five kids did not have an ideal family life, due to their father’s emotional and verbal abuse directed at me and sometimes at them, but they are now all in their late twenties and thirties, four are married and they are all relatively stable financially. I am so grateful that they remain close to me and have forgiven me for not being stronger when they were growing up. Now that they are parents themselves, they appreciate me more. I pray you find peace.
@@KingsCrossVIP Stop trying to rob her of HER Christian or European pagan heritage. That's morally wrong of you to do as you know very well you would not like someone to suggest to you to drop your religion or heritage.
@@ellasoes8325this was a mere invitation and you call it a “ robbery “ ??
@@ellasoes8325 I invite you to believe in what Prophet Jesus (Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him) invited you to believe in which is to believe in only 1 God (Mark 12:28-29) and that one true God is ONLY the Father (John 17:3).
No where does it say to believe in 3 persons 1 Being as God. This was a later change, not what Jesus said.
I invite you to believe in One God and the Final Prophet Muhammad (Peace and Blessings Be Upon Him) who taught the true teachings of Prophet Jesus. ✌
Now THIS is the crossover I did NOT expect to see!
How incredibly refreshing and wonderful to see these collaborations between people who are afterall, natural allies of one another even if their particular paths should differ.
May God reward both your efforts and strengthen these ties, we need them now more than ever.
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Why? It is exactly what I expected, as intelligent discussion is a regular topic from channels such as this.
I love this woman's story! A Brilliant woman! ❤
Allies until you guys start following your religion
Christians and Muslims cannot be natural allies. Taqiyya means we can never trust you. We may ally together against the atheists, but we Christians know that once we have removed their influence, you will turn on us. Our scriptures command us to love our enemies and to treat our neighbors as ourselves, but your Quran commands you to impose the jizya on us and make us live in poverty while you take our belongings from us and persecute us.
It makes me sad because the atheists are ruining the lives of both your children and ours, and we could build a culture of faith together but how can we cooperate with you knowing that sharia commands you to wage a war of subjugation against us?
I was born and raised in Italy with a Christian family. My parents are not so religious but my grandmother was, peace be upon her. She try teach me values which I am very grateful for.
I found difficult at time to deal with other girls ( in my twenties) that liked to talk about having sex with as many man as possible, they thought it was fun and their right to do so; I didn’t and they made fun of me. I also remember the pressure I felt about this subject since I was 12. My peers were discussing about it and show themselves off when they have done it. It made me feel uncomfortable. Whenever I showed sign of interest in God and religion in general they also made fun of me and made feel I was stupid.
Today I am a revert Muslim mother (34 years ) of two children married with a man and I love this very much. I couldn’t ask for more Alhamdullilah. I am obviously not hanging out with these type of people anymore. I changed and I am wondering if they changed too.
This society is sick and it really brainwashed us specially young girls. I really hope many will watch this InshAllah
Beautiful comment, i have made a screenshot of it to educate and share with people around me. May you get highest place in Jannah ameen.
JazakAllah- my story goes on and on
I worked in the model industry for years. I have been a lingerie model and I have been in magazine. Today I dress modestly and I have never felt as free as now before.
@@gc6497 Sister it is best not to share your sins. This is information not everyone needs to know, one of the exceptions being your husband (before you married him). I recommend you to remove your comment.
Allah knows best.
I am not ashamed of my journey but proud of the things I said not to since I’m Muslim. For me this is a beautiful story and everyone should hear about it.
@@kingGhobra no harm for her to share. She is not promating it. On the contrary, its educative for other non muslims and inspirational for us bcuz it clearly shows that Allah is the most merciful. When u r an honest person in faith Islam embrace u regardless who u were before.
Wow, it's so refreshing to have a female Islamic scholar. I loved learning from sister Fatima & I will do more research about the Islamic faith. This seems to be like a pure religion and so much truth in it. I would be happy to learn and embrace this faith.
In fact, I was a Muslim, but I abandoned this religion two years ago. After in-depth research, it became clear that it is a terrorist religion identical to ISIS and Al-Qaeda, and it contains thousands of terrorist Qur’anic doctrines, such as jihad and fighting the world and peoples until they submit to Islam. The slaughter of apostates and the terrorist doctrine of loyalty and disavowal, as well as the issues of devaluing women and treating them as subordinates, while encouraging slavery and enslaving people after their conquest, and forcibly raping captive women and selling them in markets.And dozens of other reasons that show that it is a corrupt religion
I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation. I'm a Christian. I wish people of different faiths could have more of these kinds of respectful, collaborative, supportive conversations. You both REALLY made me think. We have lost sight of the value in the contractual obligations of traditional marriage. You are correct that it provides so much safety, hope, POTENTIAL too....for both men and women. A couple marries. They create a FAMILY. Families create COMMUNITIES. Communities create SOCIETIES. Without obedience to the contract of "family", societies crumble. All the best to you, Tammy, from a fellow Albertan.🇨🇦♥️
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It’s rather naive though. As Islam has child marriage as part of their doctrine. Their own prophet married a child of six.
So I don’t think this is really been a constructive conversation at all. If Islam thinks 6 year olds are “women” and marriageable.
@@hereweare9096 Prophet Mohamed planned marriage with Aisha when she was 9 and married her when she was 14, literally after she reached the age of Puberty. I don't know where you got your facts from but what I can say is that it seems like you copied this from an invalid opinion-based source instead of the legitamete sources.
@@hereweare9096 The offical marriage here in the US back then used to be women marrying as early as they reach the age of puberty (Mostly 14). However, I don't see you addressing that point at all? Care to talk about it?
Also, Mary gave birth to Jesus Christ when she was 13 years old. Does that mean that the father(god) is naive? No! Not at all. These were different times back then and we can't judge 2 timelines by arguing about their traditions and differences. People passed away maximumly at the age of 40 back then, so life was much of a survival competition compared to now.
@@josephhendrickson1218 Incorrect.
Back then? What year /century are you speaking of?
Mary’s age is not in scripture she is referred to as a woman. For example Jairus daughter who is noted as being 12 is called a little girl.
Also incorrect as to age of death back then. You are mixing life span with life expectancy
I am a Muslim revert, thank God, and very impressed by Tammy Peterson and the Muslimah mashaAllah1
Now that i am actually a working mother i realized that's it's not all that i thought it would be. I've started working half time now and we've got rid of our car etc . To lessen our expenses. First i was embarrassed to admit it but i wanted to be more involved in my son's life and the running of the household.
I once heard a quote "what others think about you is none of your business". Think about this. Stay strong and have faith in God to help you go through this tough time raising your child.
I’m so happy & thankful to be a Muslim woman. Always feel protected, honoured & empowered.
I’m so thankful to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ to live in this my beloved country the US of A where women are treasured.
@@Rumorhasit-777 Who cares for and looks after God?
That only hapoens when the men in power are decent.
@@Rumorhasit-777 I love how you included that you lived in the US as if white American Muslim women are nonexistent. *poofs into thin air*
Also explain to me why, if women are so treasured here, the gender pay gap still exists, along with that hypocritical double standards, grape without the g, and much more. And if you think Muslim women are oppressed you’re very wrong and have clearly been fed lies through media about bizarre practices done only in specific theocracies. If you did any research about Islam you would Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) literally fought to end the mistreatment of women and established rights for women. Women were being buried alive and treated like animals before and Islam was the FIRST religion to ever establish rights for women. So you can take your little stereotypes and leave now.
@@Rumorhasit-777 As a Muslim I respect your faith.
There is a verse in the Quran says that, ""there is no compulsion in religion".
So, I will pray for you that may Allah guide you.❣️
This scholar is a powerful missionary for God. Hearing her speak rustled something in my heart.
Please listen to Dr Haifa Younis, she is amazing
Wow! What a refreshing podcast! I am thrilled that you had this conversation with not only a Muslim but a female Muslim scholar. These conversations between traditional women are crucial to revive what women lost to the feminist movement and social modernization. For too long we have been overshadowed, put down, and ridiculed by those who champion so-called "women's rights" and to see women like yourself and Sheikha Fatima stand proudly against such notions using spirituality and feminine grace is, like I said, refreshing. Please continue to have these conversations with people of different religious backgrounds as it helps us see that we are not alone in this fight against modernization.
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Trust me that more than these sad, traditional Muslim women have ever lost in terms of freedom, no other women in the world haven't lost in terms of decency and normality. You don t have to hide yourself behind religious vows to be a decent human being, to be respectful and balanced. Hiding your body in the extreme is the same as abusing it being overly frivolous. Both are extremes, decency and common sense shouldn't be enforced just by belief alone..
@@mon_ange333mony4no one force US to cover our body. Em moeslem woman from Indonesia. I covered my self by my own idea of course my husband loved that idea... But no one force me. Because i study Qur'an n religion subject from 6 years old... I know what gud for me in Dunya n akherat
@@mon_ange333mony4 almost an entire generation of young women selling themselves online and twerking on TikTok is decency and freedom?
Very good conversation. I appreciate that you're willing to speak with practicing Muslim women.
May Allah bless you!
Jan the Slovak UltraGigaMegaChad muslim
Thanks ❣️
As a Muslim women I appreciate that..
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As a Muslim woman i appreciate this collaboration thank you .
we will be more than happy to see more videos like this .
May Allah guide you to the straight path .
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Nobody cares that you are muslim, why you say that
Allah is a deceiver, how can he guide you on a straight path when your religion is full of so many lies, deceit and corruption.
You word is only half as good as mine (according to your religion).
How can Allah send a book to guide you, but put confusing verses in it that noone understands? How does that make sense? (It doesn't).
How can kissing a black stone forgive you of your sins? (It doesn't)
I feel so sorry for you that youre caught up in this hateful religion, you seem like a really nice person :(
The real answer is Jesus, he is the Truth and the Word of God, only He can truely guide you, reassure you and bring you peace and joy... seek after Him instead :D
Ameen
I wish there were more such female public figures among Muslims. Also, both guest and host listen so well it’s inspiring
There are many. Its just they don't get invited by western people out of fear that they will normalize a new way of living which west considers oppressive but isn't
Nai"ma B Roberts please watch her podcasts on marriage
Wonderful to listen in on this intimate conversation. It does take faith to have and raise children. I might add that it takes courage as well, b/c dedication to truth takes heap loads of courage.
Thank you both.
Thank you Juliet, I love your observation. Yes, courage! Courage is essential.
Well said
My mother was a great support system to me and my family raising four children. Couldn't have done it with faith alone.
I lived in Turkey for 5 years in pendink Istanbul I found it so refreshing as a western women and took some off the values home with me ❤
Yeah because Istanbul is western. Go to Afghanistan
@Roberto try to find positives and you will discover more in every culture and faith.
@@freyanoor6794 burqa isn't positive
@@konyvnyelv. Yvonne Ridley, a British journalist in Afghanistan was captured by the Taliban back in 2002. Upon her return to England, she reported that she was well-treated and soon after, she read the Quran and converted to Islam. Tony Blair’s sister-in-law, Lauren Booth, also a journalist converted to Islam. Are they oppressed? I think Muslim women are the torchbearers of true women’s liberation…
@@cralterwonkite if Ridley loves the Taliban she can get there. I looked info on her and she is a politician. I wonder if she agrees with Taliban ban on women partaking politics , work and education.
In the late 1990's many middle easterners immigrated to my city. One day I was standing at an elevator. Behind me was a middle eastern man and behind him a woman in hijab. Of course, I ended up in the back of the elevator, the man in the middle and the woman in the front. When the elevator opened the woman stood to the side to let the man go first. The man then stepped aside, turned to me, gestured for me to go first, then stepped in front of the woman, existed and she behind him. I was so impressed that he took the time to to respect both cultures. I saw other situations that that made it clear that the examples I saw on TV were not typical. Are there some bad middle eastern and Muslim men? Yes, of course. But there are bad men in all countries, communities, organizations and religions. Thank you for this beautiful conversation.
He respected cultures?
He definitely didn't respect women
@@wyleecoyotee4252 this is a very arrogant statement. You can't separated the two.
@@justjamie7577
It's the truth
@@wyleecoyotee4252as a Middle Eastern Muslim woman, I beg to differ.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 so are you able to read the mind of someone you never met or are you just that arrogant? The elevator was one of many time I was surprised and impressed by the respect middle eastern men showed to women. My kid went t school with two sisters who grew up Muslim. One of them converted to Christianity with her parents permission. Most christians would not let their teenage daughters convert to any other religion.
These are just the kinds of discussions of nuance we need in this time. God bless you for creating a positive space. One note - we should learn how to say the name of our guests correctly to respect them.
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I don't think she has any bad intention because of mis pronouncing the name. She read her book it means she is sincere and respect her.
Masha Allah, Sister Lauren ❤❤❤
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Honour Killing of women in islam
Tony Abbott, ex-Prime Minister of Australia said about muslims. Islam has “Honor Killing” where most frequently women can be killed by family members for violating principles of their religion. The murderers are rarely charged. “Offenses” include but are not limited to refusing an arranged marriage, being a victim of rape, renouncing Islam (apostasy), dressing in ways deemed inappropriate and homosexuality.
It is happening with muslims in the West and very frequently in muslim-majority countries.
The Quran encourages muslim men to marry pre-puberty girls which sometimes results in the tragedy of the young girl dying of bleeding on/after her wedding night.
Pakistan PM vows to eradicate honour killings after Oscar nod Rifqa Bary but, so far, with no success.
FGM Islamic rule and not local tradition
FGM stands for Female Genital Mutilation. or Khitan) is the name of the Muslim ritual for doing it. Two muslim woman are convicted of it in a muslim minority country. PM Cameron of UK reports nearly 4,000 in 2014. It’s happens more often in muslim families.
Men leaders of women
Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance-advise them; forsake them in bed; and,strike them. But if they obey you, seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand. [An-Nisa:34]
Clerical mouhalel in islam to marry divorced women, intercourse for mutual orgasm then legal to marry ex-husband.
(2:230) And if he has divorced her [for the third time], then she is not lawful to him afterward until [after] she marries a husband other than him. And if the latter husband divorces her [or dies], there is no blame upon the woman and her former husband for returning to each other if they think that they can keep [within] the limits of Allah. These are the limits of Allah, which He makes clear to a people who know.
So, when a muslim divorces his wife, say it 3 times, she will legally divorced. Even if it was not her mistake. He may have been angry of his work or something else. Still she has to pay for his error. She has to have sex with another man of his choice for at least few days. So this is like allowing another man to rape her (as her consent is not necessary) then after that that man must divorce her so she can go back to her children who are automatically given to the father (unless he refuses to take them). So she has to go though sexual molestation/rape and through emotional abuse as he has the right to forbid her from visiting their children.
Muhamass marriage with aisha
Narrated `Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death).
Sahih Bukhari (Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah)) Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 5133 In-book reference : Book 67, Hadith 690
However, he started molesting her at the age of 6y by using the thighing method of sex. Meaning, he was rubbing his penis between her tiny legs until he ejaculates.
In reply to muslim statement that ayesha reached her puberty, but muhamass(crij) deflowered her at 9 y. old, when he saw her pubic-hair started to show-up and NOT when she had her 1st period. In fact, in other hadith(s), ayasha was still playing with dolls till the age of 14. (yhis custom is only allowed for girls who did NOT reach their puberty.
In reply to muslims statement that it was a customs in these days to marry young girls. When we asked muslims, show us proof from your books about a man, other than muhamass(crij) who married a pre-pubescent girl. They fail to show us a proof of such a custom.
In reply to their statement that 'aranged marriage' is legal in Europe and many other countries. We answer that an arranged marriage is totally different from child-marriage. In an arranged marriage, usually, 2 families (in a nasty dispute or in a common goal), marry their very young boy to a very young girl with the understanding that the wedding (etc...) will happen much later when both kids are grown-up and able to marry each others. (Not to mention, that in many cases an arranged marrige may be broke with the agreement of both parties. while child-marriage cannot be cancelled except by a divorce). Such arranged marriage will reconcile the families for good or will facilitate the commercial dealing in between both families.
islamic hadith talks abt muhamass(crij) practicing thighing-sex on ayesha between the ages of 6y. and 9 y.
There is another hadith that tells that muhamass(crij) carried ayesha on his back to go to a show. If we assume that the muslim who insist that ayesha was 18y. old , how can a 54y old guy carry an 18y. old woman on his back and walk for a certain distance.
Muhamass having sex with wife during her period
Narrated Um Salama: While I was laying with the Prophet under a single woolen sheet, I got the menses. I slipped away and put on the clothes for menses. He said, "Have you got "Nifas" (menses)?" I replied, "Yes." He then called me and made me lie with him under the same sheet.
Sahih Bukhari (Menstrual Periods) Reference : 298 In-book reference : Hadith 5
Most women are going to juhanam:Narrated Abu Sa`id Al-Khudri:
Once the Messenger went out to the Musalla of `Id-al-Adha/Al-Fitr prayer. Then he passed by the women and said, "O women! Give alms, as I have seen that the majority of the dwellers of Hell-fire were you (women)." They asked, "Why is it so, O Allah's Messenger?" He replied, "You curse frequently and are ungrateful to your husbands. I have not seen anyone more deficient in intelligence and religion than you. A cautious sensible man could be led astray by some of you." The women asked, "O Allah's Messenger What is deficient in our intelligence and religion?" He said, "Is not the evidence of two women equal to the witness of one man?" They replied in the affirmative. He said, "This is the deficiency in her intelligence. Isn't it true that a woman can neither pray nor fast during her menses?" The women replied in the affirmative. He said, "This is the deficiency in her religion."
Ref. Sahih al-bukhari: 304. In-book ref. Book 6, hadith 9
Harris Sultan video abt. marrying infants-girls in islam and Andrew Tate abt. having sex with minors girls.
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Udda according to quran for pre pubuscent girls, pregnant/old women (65:4):
And those who no longer expect menstruation among your women - if you doubt, then their period is three months, and [also for] those who have not menstruated. And for those who are pregnant, their term is until they give birth. And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him of his matter ease.
Sura Alnur (24:33): If you force your maids into prostitution you will be forgiven
Those who are unable to marry should keep chaste until God gives them sufficiently from His favor. If any of those whom your right hands held in trust seek a contract then, draw one with them if you know there is goodness within them, and share with them the wealth that God has given you. Do not compel your girls against their will to prostitution, out of your desire for the short-term gains of this world, if they want to be married. If they however are compelled, God will be forgiving and merciful to them.
Women are like you landfields
SURAH BAQARA AYA: 223 SAHIH INTERNATIONAL
Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish and put forth [righteousness] for yourselves. And fear Allah and know that you will meet Him. And give good tidings to the believers.
Men and husbands must respect womans' status in the home as nurturers and nest builders. Clarity is a must in embracing each other's roles. So important to pick the right partners with similiar morals and values. Family is everything. Thanks for this video.
So refreshing to hear this! I didn't notice it back then, but I have come to realize how very blessed I am to have a husband who encouraged me to "Mind the Fort" while his job required him away often during those years raising our family. The choice to beable for me to be at home was such a relief for us bc we knew we wouldn't have to worry as much and learned it takes a team effort and it takes a Village.
It's been a blessing, privilege and a joy to wear the Title Hats of A Daughter of God, Wife and Mother & Grandmother. and so very fortunate to have opportunity to do so.
Also reading
"The Family: A Proclamation To The World"
by The First Presidency and Council of The Twelve Apostles of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints"
has been a wonderful reminder to me of the important role and purpose as a woman and as children of God we have for the Family Unit of Society and of Humanity .
Women and wifes must respect mans' status.
@@krmzelma5358 behave as a normal man, not as a swine, and they will respect you.
@@SanyaRoma89really???
I have seen the reverse
What a complete JOY this conversation was. Fatima, I really enjoyed your humble, modest, point of view. Traditional women are turning into a rarity and it’s sad! I wear a head covering 🕎 and I love how respectful people are and they do treat me differently. Sometimes good, sometimes bad but it is a buffer of safety in this wicked, sex obsessed world.
Can you read Quran translation
I have Steve Biddulph's book "Raising Boys" and followed his methodology to raise our now 15 year old son. I also only ever carried him (didnt use a pram) until he was 3.5 years old. I only stopped because he became too heavy for my back. At the time, no one else was doing it in my town. Today, i see parents carrying their baby, but only ever on the front (never on the back) and always doing it wrong, with their baby facing outwards, which stresses a child and they have no means of shutting off their senses.
Subanallah what a story touches my heart. My mom named me Khadijah after the prophets Wife. A noble women who cared, supported and helped her husband/the prophet Muhammad pbuh and made him feel secure and understand his duties.
It resonated deeply with me when Fatima talked about her experience marrying young and having an intimate relationship for the first time within those clear boundaries - in particular, the feeling of being safe. I married at 18 and I can clearly remember that feeling. It surprised me, because it wasn't like I had felt unsafe before or that I thought I needed to feel safe. I thought I was comfortable by myself. It wasn't until I had that experience that I realized that feeling safe was one of the things that meant the most to me in our marriage.
I really enjoyed the conversation - Tammy's voice is almost therapeutic to listen to, and it was really interesting to hear from a traditional, muslim woman like Fatima - I haven't had the chance to do that before. Thanks to you both!
I am Jewish, I am religious, and I live in Israel. I loved this beautiful heartfelt conversation which gave me a number of insights. Thank you to both ladies🙏💓
You shouldn't live in someone else's home on someone else's land. That makes you a bastard....
are you comfortable in my stolen grandpa house ?
@@Kenanalasadi8989 israel belongs to the hews according to allah
@@FahadFSA read your own religious texts
I hope the replies gave you what you needed to understand that pandering to a violent mob isn't in your best interest
Great to see Sheikha Fatima Barkatulla represent Islam in this engaging conversation.
Masha Allah. This sort of discussion and pov was much needed from an authentic conservative Muslimah. Deeply appreciate, Sister Tammy Peterson & Sister Fatimah.
May God guides us all to the straight and may we stay on the straight & narrow. Ameen
Authentic...? You mean everyone else is fake?
@@humaafandi8894 I mean typically they tend to discuss with non Muslims or liberal Muslims on these matters
@@rjakbar Why is that a bad thing? Btw it's nice to have interfaith dialogues
@tsarina true. It makes Islam looks like a clown at times for bowing down to modernity because of this. Not to mention their lack of knowledge to answer properly which i think many muslims are able to catch very quickly. It's so easy to see the difference between lies and truth among muslims.
After watching this and hearing the lovely Tammy speak - the kind and humble way in which she engaged with her guest, and truly listened... Tammy Peterson has my respect! As does Sheikha Fatima, of course, Maa Shaa Allah
I love when we women have deep conversations.
I grew up in a culture that was very much about "we" and then it became all about "me". We saw a massive increase in depression, anxiety, and suicide and violent crime.
Statistically the most peaceful countries are those that are less religious
Really great conversation about girlhood and the value of keeping your sexual experiences confined to a loving marital relationship. Very timely indeed. Loved hearing more about the Muslim culture.
It’s God Himself Who instituted marriage between one man and one woman to have intimate relationship and being forth life in His Presence
@Devil's Logic this is unislamic brother, you make them to hate
different ethnic muslims follow their own local culture
@Devil's Logic islam
@Devil's Logic you are inviting people to Islam, and you yourself do not follow it, your name and picture are haram, our prophet pbuh ordered us against such bad pictures or names. Try to give good example brother, may Allah guide us all.
Great to see Shaykha Fatima Barkatulla on here. Couldn’t have picked a better guest! 👏🏼
I never knew much about Islam . I know a little now. And although I may never be Muslim . I have great respect for it all . Thank you for that .
“I may never be a Muslim” only God knows and in God’s willing you should be a Muslim 💖
Read the Holy Quran and ask God to guide you!
Id highly recommend you to read " The last prophet " by dr haitham talaat ,it great book , it will impressive you .
good luck
@@lovlybaby6928 Well you never know there may be a hidden Musl8m there .
@@kingGhobra I will read the book . Without judgement. And to get more information.
The fact that "the view" (us) and "loose women"(uk) are aired on television when this level of conversation between two women of differing faith is available, tells you all you need to know about where we are as a society. Thank you for such an insightful and educational dialogue. Perhaps di-logos is more appropriate, in this case. Either way, it's proving to be a very humbling listen for this male gen x'er 🙏
So interesting. I kew nothing about the beginnings of this religion, such a powerful story. Thank you
Id highly recommend to you to read book called
Ar-Raheeq Al-Makhtum (The Sealed Nectar): Biography of the Prophet,it is so great and full of wisdom and amazing and impreesive information .
My sister, Sheikha Fatima Barakatulla, I love you for the sake of Allah and I am so proud of you and everyone that raised and shaped you. Allahuma barik, you spoke so clearly, modestly and respectfully. It was refreshing and inspiring to hear about your experiences in life and what you learnt along the way. May Allah ta'ala grant you more tawfiq, ameen
This was amazing! The ideas in this talk gave me goosebumps at certain points. The thing is i've experienced both Islamic and western culture, as I've been raised in Jordan (a muslim country) and I am exposed everyday to this culture, and yet when I reach home, my family are European.
U r welcome to visit Jordan again ❤
We invite you to Islam sister may Allah guide you and all of us to the straight path
We are one humanity and our feelings are human and we have one Creator, only there are powers who like the humanity to desrtroy eachother as they can not, or it is forbiden for them. What Allah said you can not mislead the true belivers. Being on earth for a short time has a reason when we understand the reason then we understand why all.
Im from Balkan and a muslim so i understand all differences and where all comes from. Then when you understand where the differences comes then you see, we where same just humans and belive in the Creator it was normal it was a part of being human with morals and shame but then powers came who where al ready there before us and mislead humans and let humans worship them and other things so humans lost the true self, real humanity so we had so different things and belives but the begining we where one. Islam brought the truth back the real messege thats why there was nothing after it. No more Prophets or message like before Islam as it was the true and last message that made all clear. We can not make religion or the Creator as we wish, it is not a fairytale or something to romentize about but it is the truth we must accept as it is evan if we dont understand with our brain.
You can be European and Muslim too :) Islam is about pure monotheism, belief in One God alone, with no partners or associates.
Then Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to Khadija, "O Khadija! What is wrong with me? I was afraid that something bad might happen to me." Then he told her the story. Khadija said 'Nay! But receive the good tidings! By Allah, Allah will never disgrace you, for by Allah, you keep good relations with your Kith and kin, speak the truth, help the poor and the destitute, entertain your guests generously and assist those who are stricken with calamities'.
THE MOST PEACEFUL PODCAST I'VE EVER SEEN REALLY🥰
What an amazing discussion. Nailed one of the problems with our society. I believe our abandoning these values in North America is the very reason for the end of a real family and the future end of a free and good society. Just take God out of the picture and watch things collapse. I’m a new Muslim Revert, by the way. I love my new found faith! Bless you all! Assalamu Alaikum!
Mrs. Peterson,
Thank you for being a wonderful witness of our catholic faith. I've learned so much from you. Especially, you love our Blessed Mother. Your faithfulness to Her is inspirational to me.❤
Praying for strength for you!
I want to take the chance to express my support for the Catholics during this vicious campaign on your faith, unholy institutions dont like the fact that you prioritize God, they want your absolute obedience and God stands in their way
We, as Muslims, believe and love Mary, as we believe and love in all the prophets ,they are massengers from same God Allah, and they have same message ,I hope you do not consider this as bias, but this is a fact, that you should follow the last books and messengers, the Qur’an and Muhammad, because it is the last book and the true message of God that has not been changed or corrupted as in bible and torah ,And God commanded us to follow The prophet who is in your time, and our time is Muhammad, the last of the prophets. Who carries the same pure message of Jesus, Abraham and...all the prophets. If you want to follow Jesus, you must follow the Quran. By the way, Jesus told us of the coming of Muhammad and commanded to follow him in the bible.
Hi D which book of the bible please?
@@heatherelliot3202 John 16:12-1 where Jesus said:
“I still have much to tell you, but you cannot yet bear to hear it. However, when the Spirit of truth comes, He will guide you into all truth. For He will not speak on His own, but He will speak what He hears, and He will declare to you what is to come. ”
People try to contort this passage to mean the Holy Spirit but wasn’t the Holy Spirit already present when Jesus was on Earth? It was. This is one of the prophesies (amongst others) that spoke of the coming of another Prophet that will speak what he hears (revelation known as the Quran).
@@heatherelliot3202
If you want more prophecies about the coming of Muhammad in previous books, I recommend a book " The last prophet " by Dr haitham talaat , its great book.
I don't usually comment, but I'm happy that you had the chance to allow this Muslim woman to speak about Islam and fill in the missing gaps of knowledge that unfortunately lots of folks seem to have.
The part where you mentioned that it takes faith to raise kids is truly legit. Not only does it takes faith but it takes both courage and patience as well. These are three values that significantly ensure a well-raised generation. Unfortunately, parenthood nowadays in the states would lack one, two, or probably all three of these values. This is hence the reason why you'd witness a majority (not entirely) of America's latest generation either lost or confused.
Speaking about Islamic dressing, Christian women here used to cover their heads back then as well, but this tradition has decreased significantly over time. Now, the only Christians who would still have women covering their heads are the Amish Christians. You would rarely see any Orthodox or a Catholic female covering their heads nowadays(except nuns of course...).
After all, Christianity, Judaism and Islam are three faiths that are placed under the title of "Abrahamic Religions". We all mostly share similar core values and morals.
The book she wrote was about Mohammed's first wife but he later married another 13 women. His youngest wife was Aisha: The majority of traditional sources state that Aisha was betrothed to Muhammad at the age of six or seven, but she stayed in her parents' home until the age of nine, or ten according to Ibn Hisham, when the marriage was consummated with Muhammad, then 53, in Medina.
@@maryfowles807 Another Isl#amop#hobe.🙄🙄
@@goku5323 how so! Am I stating facts or am I not? You’re the one that is interpreting a statement of facts as a phobia. What is your position on marrying 13 women and having sex with children?
@@goku5323 I guess Wikipedia is Islamophobic too since that is where the quote came from and I guess the historical sources are also “phobic”
@@maryfowles807 seems like you are an overthinker...
*I meant that you should study about Islam first. You are just misquoting things.*
I completely understand that pressure they are talking about to be more than a wife and mother.
I didn't grow up in very devout Christian home. We where "Christian", but didn't actively go to church as I got older.
I remember feeling like i was "weird" Because i wanted to get married young. I constantly got told to wait, make sure you go to college, have a Job, be independent. Wait to have kids till you are like in your 30s.
Well that never felt right to me. I didn't want to be an old parent. I wanted to spend years with my husband.
Needless to say lol i got married when i was 23 after finishing college and we had our first son shortly after our wedding. We did in fact have a "shotgun" wedding 😂. Very few people actually knew i was pregnant at our wedding. It wasn't exactly what we had planned 😅..... we were hoping for a couple of years to ourselves before kids, but 11 years later and two more beautiful children..... i wouldn't change a thing.
I am grateful that i have been able to be a stay at home mother, and that i am able to homeschool our children. Its not an easy thing to do, but having support from my husband and extended family is what makes it possible.
You are a very pleasant lady, Tammi. Thank you for this talk ❤️ love from a Muslim in Denmark
The great Salahuddin said "to destroy a nation, make nudity acceptable among the youth". There's great wisdom in this....
Please explain. Nudity was quite common in the past. See indigenous peoples
Most of their societies are gone.
@@konyvnyelv.in civilizations people were usually covered. Especially women. The other day I was reading about the veiling of the face in ancient China and Japan. I had no idea.
@@user-vr4sc8dh5t yes, and look how they were treated. They couldn't partake politics and were illiterate most times. Now in the west women can do whatever they want like men, in Islamic countries they are closed in their house and can't do anything except cook and be fucked by husbands. Some may be concubines since islam allows sex slaves
@@konyvnyelv. Look at the “Nudist civilizations”… Oh yeah, they don’t exist, they all live in huts.
Listening to girlhood experiences from this eloquent and graceful young woman and comparing it to Dylan Mulvaney's girlhood...I can almost look at Jordan and Tammy as elders/ parents shaking their heads and thinking where did we go wrong? I want to tell them that this is where a lot of Muslim youth is headed because our generation and previous generations made the same mistakes of keeping the scripture in cupboards and not pondering over it and not strive to implement in collective lives.. thank Allah there is still people across all faiths trying to find a way in these troubling times with myriad of challenges ..may God help us all and tie us all with that rope of guidance and direction .Ameen
People often talk _about_ Muslims. It's nice to have you rather talk _with_ a Muslim. 👍👍
This was so refreshing to listen to. Thank you Mrs. Petersons for giving a Muslim woman the opportunity to speak on her own behalf. I was very pleased to hear the kindness and understanding from Mrs. Peterson. May Allah reward sister Fatima for her knowledge and accurate description of Islamic teachings,Ameen. I hope for more dialogue to once and for all clear the misconceptions regarding Muslim women. May Allah Al -Hadi give Hadiyah to Mrs. Peterson and through her many others ,Ameen.
Amazing guest. Love and Respect from Russia. Absolutely amazing to hear two culturally different women talk with care ❤
Thank you so much for engaging with muslim female scholars. We as muslims often see a lot of men speaking about islam and discussing these important topics, and that is fine, but as a woman it's always nice to hear from women and I really enjoyed this discussion!
Actually as muslim man i rather have muslims women or better muslims females scholers to speak about this stuff bec those islampobe put there will never get it unless they hear from you dear sisters
@@Palestine4Ever169 So sad but true
I really appreciate your podcast. I've been craving female voices talking about deep issues.
I agree, I've felt it for years, alot of guilt, and being in masculine energy all the time is just too much.
As a single woman.
Much love ❤️
Australia 🇦🇺
I love how calm and refreshing the conversation is ❤
Amazing conversation. True with the head covering in Christianity. I grew up in Hungary (a Catholic majority country), and up until my grandmother's generation it was not uncommon to women wearing head coverings. Once their husband's passed away, the colourful head coverings were changed to black, not always, but very often until the day these little old ladies have died. That's all gone out of the window now.
That's interesting. Thanks for sharing this history
This is not the covering that was common in Europe. Forcing women to hide their face because men get aroused by seeing any part of a woman (the actual reason, look it up) is demeaning.
@@reasonablyserious No, I am not talking about the Islamic cover, I simply talked about the fact that women in Europe also have covered their hair once they got married. As girls they didn't. But once a woman got married it was a sign that she was taken and married. It was also modesty.
@@reasonablyserious Why?
@@reasonablyserious It's not demeaning. First of all, face covering is optional for women who don't want to be seen. It's HER choice and it makes us feel protected. I'd rather go out in the world covering my body and not be picked apart or sexualized..so that I can focus on my intelligence and actually contribute to the world.
My sexiness and comfortability is at home in my sanctuary with my husband and kids. You may not understand that and that's completely fine we don't need you to understand, but you need to respect it. Our choice.
Thank you Tammy and Fatima for collaborating to produce such a refreshing and thought provoking dialogue. It’s really important to build bridges and come together upon that which is common between us. I believe that every Christian household should have a copy of the translation of the Quran and every Muslim household should have a copy of at least one of the versions of the Bible, whether that be KJV or the Catholic version etc. We need to become people of understanding, God willing Insha’Allah.
The prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) when he saw Omar (RA) reading the Torah and he said to him (Are you in doubt, O son of al-Khattab? I have brought it (the Quran) to you as white and pure. By Allah, if my brother Musa were alive, he would not have been able to do anything but follow me.) And he forbade him from ever looking at the Scriptures of the people of the book, and that's Omar (RA) the greatest human after the prophet (ﷺ) and Abu bakr (RA), and based on that all the scholars of Islam has said that it's not allowed for the layman to read the Scriptures of the people of the book, so what you are saying oppose what the prophet (ﷺ) taught, and what the scholars of Islam has agreed upon. Be careful of what you say Cuz any Muslim who takes your advice and after that he has an issue with his Faith or God forbid he may leave the Deen Cuz of your advice, you will be questioned about it in the day of Qiama.
@@AMMAR-911
Salaam! - You are generally correct and May Allah forgive me for any unintentional erring on my part. In very early Islam Omar RA was forbidden to read a section of the Torah as Quran was being revealed in order to avoid confusion and mixing in his understanding. However, when Islam was more established Prophet Mohammed SAW ordered Zaid ibn Thabit RA to learn Hebrew, (which he learnt in 13 days!) to see if what was being quoted by the Jews of the time was correct or not (with respect to the sanctioning of the adulterer and adulteress). Scholars now have a difference of opinion on this matter, in that it is considered permissible by some to read the scriptures of other religions in order to reply to the doubts that people have about Islam. I myself live and grew up in a majority Christian country and am surrounded by Christians, I personally would consider myself ignorant if I didn’t have some understanding of their faith. For example when a Christian asks me about my hijab, I inform them of the gentle and eloquent instruction of modesty in the Quran with regards to wearing a khimaar, but it’s useful to also be able to point out that the instruction to cover the hair is more harshly stated in the Bible 1 Corinthians 11:6 where women are told to shave their hair off if they don’t cover!, people tend to take more notice when you demonstrate that you are well versed and are a person of some understanding.
Finally, All actions are judged by intention, I hope I have clarified my intention and Allah knows best.
This is a great and respectful discussion. The decision should be mutual and respected. My wife of nearly 20 years has always wanted to work and have her own financial independence. We mutually cook and care for our 3 children as Muslims. There should be clear communication and understanding in the beginning of the relationship as Sheikha Barkatulla stated in the discussion.
Wonderful Interview thank you! Ladies I have come to realise I have more in common with Muslim women then I do with our so called progressive liberal women and I am a practicing Catholic.
Same here, Jewish tho lol. The “progressive “ women have lost their minds.
Of course you have, its actually same religion, just differently institutionalized 😅 Me as an agnostic I have more in common with agnostic men than with religeous women, than more in common with Arab agnostics than with English agnostics ... 😉
Similar values and expectations bring humans together, same enemy as well, I thought just extraterrestrial attack could force Christians and Muslims, religeous and non religeous, black and white, men and women to cooperate, who thought we just need transgenders 😂
We're are sisters in humanity from Adam and howa( eve)and we muslim Jews Christians are a part of ibrahimic faith.
Abrahamic religions are dying, thank god.
@@drunaisis9797 biblical prophets spoke FOR God. Jesus spoke AS God. Moahmmed spoke for Allah hubal of the Kaaba, Allah is father to none
In addition to what everyone mentioned, i just wanted to thank you Tammy for being a good listener and allowing your guest the time to make their points. Definitely going to look for other episodes of your podcast.
Thank you, Tammy, for ropping the Shaykha in!
Masha'Allah! May the all-just Allah elevate the two of you!
This is beautiful. I thoroughly enjoyed watching this very thoughtful interaction. Sh Fatima's ideas are clear and well presented. I also quite liked Tammy, such a good listener and a beautiful soul. May Allah, our Lord, shine His light onto your heart Tammy to grant you clarity of insight. Amen❤️
I'm going to order this book! I was looking for something like this, so I really appreciate the exposure to this. I'm on the hunt for knowledge about Islamic figures that I can look up to as a woman. If anyone has recommendations of similar books, please share them 🙏
Islam and destiny of man by Gai Eaten
Road to Makkah by Muhammad Asad
the happiest woman in the world 3aik elkarni
What a beautiful and quiet conversation. I agree: our modern world is not all it's cracked up to be sometimes.
Thank you Tammy for this interview. I didn't even realise you did podcasts as well and this was recommended to me. Even as a muslim I did not know some of the things Fatima was talking about so it was refreshing for me too. Thank you for this content. May Allah bless you and your family.
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Her message is directed toward women, because they are more likely to convert based on the feels of her message, without looking into who Mohammed was, what he taught and how that ideology has played out around the world, throughout Islam's history.
Lovely to see you discussing with practicing Muslim female 😊
Tammy is an amazing listener.
Absolutely. She comes off really soft and understanding person who tries to summarize things properly like a good psychologist which wouldnt be a surprise considering she and her husband have similar dynamics she might pick it off from XD
Yes but the interviewee keeps interrupting her
I've been watching a lot of JustPearlyThings. I love her attitude and content, but sometimes the discussion of women's issues can be so combustible. This was enlightening and made me feel peaceful. Lots of love and continue to do your best; we are too grateful for it
Because she's manosphere. She's not actually for loving, caring, reciprocating relationships. She actually said a woman who's husband left her for another woman and the woman begged him back was goals. Anything linked to manosphere, etc is toxic.
The problem with pearly things is that the conversations reduce men and women to commodities - high status male, high status female - as if we are trophies. Relationships are about service to one another and should be about choosing someone according to their character, not their bank account or body count.
I especially appreciate the message about ISLAM AND Mohammed and his wife. FASCINATING! Interesting and informative.
The fact remains it's a nine month gestation for a infant to be born. Thank goodness we as women are willing to be the life bearers. LIFE BRINGERS
I’m impressed by Mrs Peterson’s listening skills. Great interview.
Tammy Peterson and Sheikha Fatima Barakatula, this is one of the most brilliant, insightful and balanced conversation on TH-cam. Kudos to both of you for discussing such a critical issue, it indeed has bought clarity in the minds of female audience.
It was so good that this 1 hour 46 minute video seemed like a MINUTE.
Appreciate both for bringing up such content.
Wow this is amazing ❤
I never expected a person from the Peterson family to platform a niqabi woman.
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Mrs. Peterson seems to be a genuine and calm person. ❤
That is odd considering who the Peterson family is and the fact that they clearly lean conservative. I would assume most muslims would lean to the right, due to their conservative values. Whereas Christians are inherently liberal, which is now obviously right leaning, due to the strict fascism required by the authoritarian left.
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JP and his daughter have been vocal about their aversion to Islamic laws relating to gender which includes dress codes, divorce and so on.
Western Christians have mostly surrendered to liberal norms but that’s not true for African or Korean Christians.
I see the current radical left as the logical outcome of liberal ideas so I don’t consider them authoritarian.
I like how these two women are chatting, so respectful, mature, understanding, well-spoken (no barking at one another) - media can learn a lot from them
Dear Tammy your voice is so soothing, and this was a meaningful interview. I hope you bring us more of them. LOVE LOVE LOVE from Australia ♥
Tammy you are so intentionally kind and considerate. What a beautiful woman you are really. My life is made better because of you and your life. Thank you. God bless you. Live long and prosper
Well this was freaking awesome. I loved loved loved this episode as a young woman.
Brought the book, looking forward to reading it.
Muslim women cover themselves for a reason. The manifesting of the holiness of a woman. Humble and kind is the issue but especially as an act of obedience and reverence for God designed to bless husband and families
Both men and women are to cover themselves modestly in spirit soul and body, because we are the Tabernacle of The Most High
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@@alphauno6614 like he/she is carrying The very Presence of God. In spirit soul and body.
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It was an interesting and refreshing episode. Thank you both for talking about important and forgotten subjects that connected the people of faith not so long ago and that we’ve all lost.
I had egg experiment too in school....I tried to hatch the egg lol
I was picked on actually by my own friends, they called me "the nun" or "your ugly" or they would compliment each other about each friends good quality and skip mine just because I was becoming religious and spiritual outwardly...I used to love to contemplate existence, God, question things, reflecting on my heart and soul, psychology etc it was a beautiful time for me as I let go of friends for about a year or soo...just prayed in empty classroom, it was just me and God, wonderful times...I just became more confident as I developed my character rather then focusing on looks, I was not deseperate to get applauses from boys or girls, my peers...
I'm a man but I wish I had iman like you. I'm so pathetic it's cringe.
That is absolutely beautiful ❤
Oh man am muslim from Mauritania I wish I had one of them as a mother-in-law ❤
In a society where girls (and boys) are told they can do anything, they will be expected to do everything…
I am so impressed by this conversation - as a religious Jewish woman, so much of what is presented here is, in spirit and overall practice, exactly what we ourselves in the orthodox community have always maintained and promoted amongst ourselves.
Thank you so much for this podcast. May these messages grow and nourish the entire world.
I think faith is key! Thank you for bringing this up! Wow huge. So many young women have no faith and that's why they are scared of bringing children into a world that they feel is fundamentally flawed and doomed to climate crisis. Whereas in fact, not getting married, not having children is the very thing that will end our civilization and the order that does keep us safe. Thank you! Great podcast!
I was hanging on to her every word. MashAllah, sister Fatima is an excellent narrator. And thank you, Tammy for having her as a guest.
The world needs this
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This was one of your nicest podcasts Tammy, I could listen to you and Fatima talk the whole day 😊
thank you for engaging with Muslims Mrs Peterson. May Allah bless you and guide you and your family
What a wonderful exchange of ideas, I love how The islamic society keeps women safe nurtured and true to their purpose while allowing and nurturing them to grow as people, scholars, mothers , wives, this is how society should be.
On the other hand, The post modern world has made a mockery of family, religion, culture and people ,now urging kids to change their gender, the westren govts have an agenda to destroy religion and family life. We must stand up against this secular madness and rescue ourselves to save our afterlife.
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Thank you Tammy for such a beautiful video , and to Sheikha Fatima for such a beautiful representation and for her piety and honest heart
Did not expect this collaboration but very glad to see it