Message to my young sisters: Do you! Love you! Work on you! Spoil you! Go to therapy for you. Workout for you! Don’t put anyone on a pedestal. Half the people walk around with insecurities and not truly knowing what they want. The right man will have no problem protecting you and loving you! Love you and be in your own little world. You are unique and worth every bit of love that comes to you!!
The sad thing is that as more women declined to have relationships men will start reacting to that in a very negative way and they're going to try to take what they want by force. (they're very eager to take women back to the 1800s)
yeah you don't need no man, except without one your life will be miserable. find a man whom you believe is better than you. then serve him faithfully in order to keep him. that is the key to a happy life.
@@BucketExperience key word boy and man.boys can be 40 50 60, Once you become a man there's no turning back.A teenager can be his moms helper supporter and man of the house.It's a character thing not an age issue
There are so many things wrong in this video I don t even know where to start. But I ll name 2: 1. Masculine does not equal emotionally detached. Being a manly man does not equal a robot. Haven t you seen manly men at a footbal game? Or at a bar fight? Expressing sadness, excitment or anger? Men also have emotions but chose not to show them in all ocassions. 2. Men who seek casual fun and sex don t even know or care what type of woman you are! They try it out with everyone until they succeed. They will try it out with the emotional chick, with the robot woman, with your momma or grandma. It does not matter who what when. They just want to sarisfy some needs and off to the next. Extra note : If you are woman reading this, don t fall for these manipulative BS. It's not your fault people seek you with bad intentions! Just learn to spot them quick and be alert! Take care of yourself! 🤗
You are so right. As well, as if there are not men with principles who have values-- regardless of who they are dealing with. This type of nonsense poisons good women and good men. What a shame. A good man will treat any woman with respect. Besides, what the hell constitutes a masculine woman? I'm so fatigued of this nonsense and superficial way of looking at multidimensional women. Gosh!!
If men actually took the time to get to know the women they might actually find that the woman they think have masculine energy or are emotionally detatched actually are not that at all! I am extremely emotional and sensitive...I just don't let everyone see that. When you have had to live your whole life protecting yourself, it is hard not to carry yourself in a certain way to the world. Private me is a VERY different person! I had a man I had know for years (ex co-worker) tell me that he was surprised just how soft I really am once we started seeing each other, and he started to get to really know me. He wanted to learn me and know the real me. He actually ended up treating me better than any man I have ever been involved with.
You need to heal your trauma so you can be your authentic self everywhere. Men don’t want a puzzle to figure out. You need solve the puzzle of yourself first.
@UNLIMITED POSSIBILITIES there is very much so truth to this..... however you NEED to operate in your masculine in a capitalistic society that thinks black women are suppose to carry everything on their shoulders and treats them as such........ The initial masculine energy is the standard requirement in the society we live in..... the women who have the ability to show up softly have the support to do so...... The women who can't are just waiting to receive that support so that we don't have to wear the role of masculine and feminine..... Men don't have that struggle because the capitalist society plays to your natural strengths meaning you never have to work hard to show up how you're not meant to....... So men need to be more understanding of that and grant women the grace we need so we can show up how we truly desire to SAFELY......
I really like this comment. I agree with you. I’ve been there. However you can succeed being feminine. Step into your feminine energy allll of the time. Took me years to let my hard cover go. Embrace the womanhood! It’s awesome!
@shannon white Being able to be that with a man I can trust that with is great however that isn't condusive of some situations. I knew him from a job where I was a supervisor in a male dominated place. Once we started dating years later, he took the time to get to know the real me (and vice versa). People at work don't need that. What makes me tick isn't my co-workers business, and me being emotional wasn't something I could do in the environment we were in. Lol. I feel you though. Being able to feel safe to be vulnerable with him felt wonderful.
What I'm learning is men will assume a lot of things to make excuses to use women and run. It's a lot of areas women "Cannot" be in order to have a meaningful and committed relationship. What happened to the days when a man truly falls in love with a woman flaws and all? Two people working on a relationship together.
Also you’re putting those guys in the friend zone and trying to get them back when you’re older and less attractive to men. A lot of women have unrealistic standards of meeting a perfect man that doesn’t exist. They keep waiting and raising their standards higher and higher until the only men they can get are not the men they want. Then they complain that men aren’t man enough to date an older woman.
Say that!!! After all the relationship advice that seems to come up it's all sounding like a lot of excuses to make women do all the changing so they don't have to grow and evolve.
men must be more valuable than the woman. this way she serves him faithfully. to prove she is worthy enough and the best option for him than any other woman.
So why are you even commenting then if it has nothing to do with you 😂 already by the comment one can smell. Nobody sane would even stay and you know that so you put up that fake ‘don’t care, don’t no want a man anyways’ shield 😂 they don’t want you. Say it like it is.
Stephan I hope and pray god softens harts and transforms all men through Jesus Christ who listens or are your followers so this world can be a happier place.
A man should take a woman the way she is. Most of the time the women they want only want the guy’s money and are shallow. They know these women wouldn’t touch them unless they had money. Hell some wouldn’t even have conversation. I’m comfortable being me and I’m not changing for anybody unless I want to better myself for me. I love pampering myself and taking care of myself, because it makes me feel good. When you living for others especially guys in general you’ll never satisfy them. Look at all this plastic and body butchering those females are not doing it for themselves mostly for guy’s attention. If you be yourself, and love yourself you’ll attract a man not a boy.
Not if you give to takers who don't deserve to be given to. Thos ewho give too.much space time and emotion to those who cannot will only take.from you what uou can't afford
@kayshawnsimmons5585 there is no such thing as masculine and feminine. It's to react or to respond Confidemce or insecurity. To give under pressure or to take To elevate or to calm. Why can't everyone learn to be calm confident? Tempersmrnt that's
As an emotionally detached dismissive avoidant I have the opposite experience. When men see I don't easily get attached, all of a sudden they want a girlfriend. No, dude when I said I'm not looking for anything serious I meant it. Remaining objective in dating is important until you know you're compatible and it makes logical sense to get serious with someone who meets your standards.
When I was emotionally unavailable and distant I always had men who got attached. I was still feminine just extremely stoic and emotionally reserved and distant. Now that I have become more open and warm seems like the opposite happenes and I've attracted some emotionally unavailable man lately.
I can see this happening more so than than what is being said in this video. Happened to me once. When a woman is not truly serious, that's when they want to be serious. How ironic?
Femininity is "feminine energy" is not a turn-off unless exhibited by a male. By being "helpless", does that mean just turning up, looking pretty and making him do all the work?
Interesting, b/c my best guess is that by this measure, it’s not that the man isn’t committal, just that they aren’t interesting in committing to you, the so-called masculine woman. They’ll leave you alone for the feminine woman they meet. That woman requires less, somehow doesn’t question things about the man they “should” (logic) and makes a man think that she’s the kind of difficult he’s more willing to tolerate. She’s a yes woman to most things, including sexual intimacy upfront, and when she’s “surprised” that he’s seeing other ppl, he fears losing her over sharing this knowledge with her. He then makes a decision to forego all other partners to make more room in his life for her. Us women have to trust he don’t got no life long STD’s, deal breaker trauma and drama for which we aren’t willing to stick through post sexual intimacy that likely has already been activated. Yet we’re labeled too much… Trust him upfront for him to leave when the next shiny object of his affection comes into or back into his peripheral. Why is it always considered too much to genuinely require getting to know and have and not be afraid of commitment ahead of sexual intimacy? Why does that fall under the category of masculine energy, especially if the attraction and groundwork for connection is already there?
@phantomwoman: nicely said True. Evaluate first. by that time gone. I am NOT taking one step further. F to fwb, a waste of my time. I am not a yo-yo. He is there then not. Move on instead and keep going. unscathed. Who said : your mind shuts off first. I do not believe that I may be ghosting. He may easily not notice .....too busy running to the next oportunity.
Women don't determine how men treat them. A man with principles has certain values that don't vacillate regardless of who he is dealing with. Many men aren't that simple I'm the sense that there are many who live by principles.
@@millafin9469 No release on me! Working at a local funeral home, really had me tninking about our love ones bodies!!! Since you go around looking for someone or anyone to release on! You dressing the deceased) David Richardson you need to go
So what should a woman do who is just by herself and have to be the woman and the man in her life because there is not a real man who wants to take the place of THE MAN in her life?
Be happy by yourself. Be it a man or a woman. It is great if you could find one who let's you put your walls down but if not being by yourself is better than STD, assaults, unwanted preganancy and abuse.
Look it up. It's the dominant traits you exude as a wmn that either attracts masculine men or, in your case, repels them. Masculine does not attract masculine for relationships.
Yes. I was a born again and got stupid I don't understand or remember what happened God made me very feminine and I WAS IN CHRIST. I hate this and now I am outside Of God and feel cut. Not listening to the holy ghost. Why did I do this I am was so dumb. I miss the church and NOW I have nothing.....I WASN'T THIS WAY I ruined my life and soul. My soul and family. Church not SURE WHAT I WAS THINKING..
Every woman and man has both masculine and feminine behaviors it takes a very secure person to let both shine when appropriate and I personally speaking just walk to the best of my own drum so ok thank you
I call BS! I’m fit, fem and friendly, I met this guy last year and I thought we were good, cooked for him, showed him a softer, vulnerable me. He dumped me to date masculine, hood, IG model types. These men are full of crap, damn if you do and damned if you don’t.
I love most your videos and have learned a lot. I understand that most men actually believe that masculine women are emotionally detached. But in my experience that’s simply not true. If anything, masculine women are probably even more emotional than a feminine woman who had all her needs met ever since she was a child. Masculine women appreciate love and connection at a whole different level. And they are also not using a man to get something out of him other than pure pure love
I am straight I am real I am straight to the point I'm Blunt I'm not like most women that compete to get a man I have always took care of myself and support myself my father raised me that way I'm not gonna go on because we have a lot of people listening to this And reading this message they can't help but if that's the way they're raised but I was not raised that way I was raised to support myself and work hard I was in a work program at my school at 12 I was a teacher's assistant getting paid the same thing that an adult would so I grew up young so I support myself my father taught me old fashioned moral values I have been independent in my whole life because I didn't want to support me a lot of women can't help but that's the way the race. . For my child they have a Tea party in the front yard at 3 mama daddy baby house on the hill find car fine house now that's it they can't help it. Now I'm gonna catch a lot of slack with comments on this but I really don't care symptoms gotta be changed women need to be able to stand up for themselves support themselves make the same way gentlemen does so they don't have to fall short and some and rely on a man when they don't want to
I've experienced opposite. I tend to attract men who act more feminine that are usually bi narcissist that try to cling to my spirit. 😅 needless to say I'm not dating at all. 😂
I tried to give my message across on good faith and vibes with respect but sometimes you've just got to get straight to the point and the heart of the Crux of the matter for the better good for the final picture 😔
Just because I shaved off all my hair because I got sick and tired of meeting society standards and I wanted to fresh start doesn't mean that I protrude masculine energy. Unfortunately some of these dudes can't even relate to me on a deep intellectual level so they don't even know that I could even be in my feelings because they're not enept to know that. Bye, see ya🤙🏾🙌🏾
When a woman does not fit the mold that men assigned to women she is in the default setting of masculine. And I find that to be incredibly ignorant and short minded. Women are diverse in nature and nurture. Also emotional unavailability is not exclusive to men and it isn’t a “masculine” trait! it’s a personality trait: moreso, or trauma response! Non-committal men are who they are because they choose to be that way and noncommittal men are attracted to any type of woman ! They don’t care about her individual personality traits, if she’s pretty and willing, he’s going to smash
"Non committal men are who they are bc they choose to be are attracted to any type of wmn" He literally just said this. His point was masculine wmn find themselves attracting these types of men due to coming off as "emotionally detached". 😒
Stephan in the morning you should squeeze fresh orange juice & lemon juice with honey ,1 teaspoon 1 teaspoon olive oil night drink until Your musc is out of your head and throat . When you feel mucus come down into your throat you supposed to spit muscle out into tissue you stop muscle from travel through other parts of your body break up musce With love 4-14-2023 time 7:34pm.
You are so right on 🎯 with this.. But I have got to find a way to balance staying true to my nature you know some of us are honest and Blunt and shut a point and we're trying to put a goodbye about in a message and we do nothing but get harassed by men like this no it's on my vocabulary I'll find a way to stop these men from bombarding me with nasty videos because I'm putting a goodbye about to try to teach these men to listen and maybe someone will pick up on it That's all I gotta say
So how do I tell him that although I’m not all in feelings or giving out emotional drama looking so damn good to him that all he sees ( although he’s married 😳), I ain’t a part time lover?
And when he falls on an emotional woman he tries, he can't, he runs away but still wanna hold the door... Why ? -_-" he knows he won't have the cookie 😂
Only if you know the other person is doing the same. We are pretty much aware how until death do us apart is working in modern times. I have seen men for hookups a day before engagement or marriage. Some go a step further to do it while their wife is pregnant or being in marriages as well. So no matter how great you are what your standards are if your partner is a rotten piece of trash then you are only in a ride for the time being situation. It has nothing to do what sort of woman you are.
I disagree totally a men would sleep with a whole stud if she’s has a nice body or even shows a little interest. As far as a submissive woman he will use her as much as he can and sleep with her too !! Let’s keep it 💯
Having sex is seeking an emotion high. How can the man be detached. That makes no sense. I think what u mean is this man is looking for another form of a high.
Me, masculine? Tuh. I am far from masculine. Im very much feminine and operate in my femininity but I will not put up with nonsensical behavior. We are both individually humans, that have basic practical needs and if you do not have the integrity (with manners), the economic ethnics, to do what needs to be done, then you aren't for me.
Message to my young sisters:
Do you! Love you! Work on you! Spoil you! Go to therapy for you. Workout for you! Don’t put anyone on a pedestal.
Half the people walk around with insecurities and not truly knowing what they want.
The right man will have no problem protecting you and loving you!
Love you and be in your own little world. You are unique and worth every bit of love that comes to you!!
PROVERBS 3:5-6
@penny more than half!
A man is telling you how men think and you got women telling women he’s wrong…make it make sense!!!
Guard uour heart ladies these boys ain't worth it!!
...100!!!
nah most of you trash tho
The sad thing is that as more women declined to have relationships men will start reacting to that in a very negative way and they're going to try to take what they want by force.
(they're very eager to take women back to the 1800s)
yeah you don't need no man, except without one your life will be miserable. find a man whom you believe is better than you. then serve him faithfully in order to keep him. that is the key to a happy life.
@@BucketExperience key word boy and man.boys can be 40 50 60, Once you become a man there's no turning back.A teenager can be his moms helper supporter and man of the house.It's a character thing not an age issue
There are so many things wrong in this video I don t even know where to start. But I ll name 2:
1. Masculine does not equal emotionally detached. Being a manly man does not equal a robot. Haven t you seen manly men at a footbal game? Or at a bar fight? Expressing sadness, excitment or anger? Men also have emotions but chose not to show them in all ocassions.
2. Men who seek casual fun and sex don t even know or care what type of woman you are! They try it out with everyone until they succeed. They will try it out with the emotional chick, with the robot woman, with your momma or grandma. It does not matter who what when. They just want to sarisfy some needs and off to the next.
Extra note : If you are woman reading this, don t fall for these manipulative BS. It's not your fault people seek you with bad intentions! Just learn to spot them quick and be alert! Take care of yourself! 🤗
Yessssssss No lies told
......satisfy a need and then off to the next one.
seen that up close and personal !!!
Preserve yourself and don't entertain
it.
This right here is the best answer…. Thank You🎉🎉🎉
You are so right. As well, as if there are not men with principles who have values-- regardless of who they are dealing with. This type of nonsense poisons good women and good men. What a shame. A good man will treat any woman with respect. Besides, what the hell constitutes a masculine woman? I'm so fatigued of this nonsense and superficial way of looking at multidimensional women. Gosh!!
😂
If men actually took the time to get to know the women they might actually find that the woman they think have masculine energy or are emotionally detatched actually are not that at all! I am extremely emotional and sensitive...I just don't let everyone see that. When you have had to live your whole life protecting yourself, it is hard not to carry yourself in a certain way to the world. Private me is a VERY different person! I had a man I had know for years (ex co-worker) tell me that he was surprised just how soft I really am once we started seeing each other, and he started to get to really know me. He wanted to learn me and know the real me. He actually ended up treating me better than any man I have ever been involved with.
Absolutely Fact!!!
You need to heal your trauma so you can be your authentic self everywhere. Men don’t want a puzzle to figure out. You need solve the puzzle of yourself first.
@UNLIMITED POSSIBILITIES there is very much so truth to this.....
however you NEED to operate in your masculine in a capitalistic society that thinks black women are suppose to carry everything on their shoulders and treats them as such........
The initial masculine energy is the standard requirement in the society we live in..... the women who have the ability to show up softly have the support to do so......
The women who can't are just waiting to receive that support so that we don't have to wear the role of masculine and feminine.....
Men don't have that struggle because the capitalist society plays to your natural strengths meaning you never have to work hard to show up how you're not meant to.......
So men need to be more understanding of that and grant women the grace we need so we can show up how we truly desire to SAFELY......
I really like this comment. I agree with you. I’ve been there. However you can succeed being feminine. Step into your feminine energy allll of the time. Took me years to let my hard cover go. Embrace the womanhood! It’s awesome!
@shannon white Being able to be that with a man I can trust that with is great however that isn't condusive of some situations. I knew him from a job where I was a supervisor in a male dominated place. Once we started dating years later, he took the time to get to know the real me (and vice versa). People at work don't need that. What makes me tick isn't my co-workers business, and me being emotional wasn't something I could do in the environment we were in. Lol. I feel you though. Being able to feel safe to be vulnerable with him felt wonderful.
What I'm learning is men will assume a lot of things to make excuses to use women and run.
It's a lot of areas women "Cannot" be in order to have a meaningful and committed relationship.
What happened to the days when a man truly falls in love with a woman flaws and all?
Two people working on a relationship together.
This still happens, but everyone you want won't want you the same. That's life.
Also you’re putting those guys in the friend zone and trying to get them back when you’re older and less attractive to men. A lot of women have unrealistic standards of meeting a perfect man that doesn’t exist. They keep waiting and raising their standards higher and higher until the only men they can get are not the men they want. Then they complain that men aren’t man enough to date an older woman.
Say that!!! After all the relationship advice that seems to come up it's all sounding like a lot of excuses to make women do all the changing so they don't have to grow and evolve.
Remember, it's never their fault. It's always our fault.😂
men must be more valuable than the woman. this way she serves him faithfully. to prove she is worthy enough and the best option for him than any other woman.
Bottom line. Stay away from men. Stay single 😊
😢😢😂😂 right
Lol 😂 sometimes it's hard.
I don’t care what men want. The only thing I’m chasing is my money and my retirement. I am not here to change mind or be changed.
So why are you even commenting then if it has nothing to do with you 😂 already by the comment one can smell. Nobody sane would even stay and you know that so you put up that fake ‘don’t care, don’t no want a man anyways’ shield 😂 they don’t want you. Say it like it is.
@@GrgAProduction 😂😂😂
When your a female. How can you act like a female when your by yourself and rely on oneself
So true
Just act like the woman you are, single or not, what are you talking about
He chose a woman who (likely) possessed a more docile and feminine energy, but the irony is she looks like a man! 😂
That part
... Thank You! Some men are just stupid, and want to use you anyway!
Her energy is on point, don’t skew it!!!!!
Stephan I hope and pray god softens harts and transforms all men through Jesus Christ who listens or are your followers so this world can be a happier place.
A man should take a woman the way she is. Most of the time the women they want only want the guy’s money and are shallow. They know these women wouldn’t touch them unless they had money. Hell some wouldn’t even have conversation. I’m comfortable being me and I’m not changing for anybody unless I want to better myself for me. I love pampering myself and taking care of myself, because it makes me feel good. When you living for others especially guys in general you’ll never satisfy them. Look at all this plastic and body butchering those females are not doing it for themselves mostly for guy’s attention. If you be yourself, and love yourself you’ll attract a man not a boy.
Thank you. I am very happy single and my Lord has someone who will cherish me and I will do the same. 🙏🙏
Femininity is a superpower. 💗
Facts💜🙂🌻
Not if you give to takers who don't deserve to be given to.
Thos ewho give too.much space time and emotion to those who cannot will only take.from you what uou can't afford
A WOMAN WITH MASCULINE ENERGY IS FEMININITY 💯💪🏾. THESE NINJAS DON'T KNOW SHIT
@kayshawnsimmons5585 there is no such thing as masculine and feminine.
It's to react or to respond
Confidemce or insecurity.
To give under pressure or to take
To elevate or to calm.
Why can't everyone learn to be calm confident?
Tempersmrnt that's
As an emotionally detached dismissive avoidant I have the opposite experience. When men see I don't easily get attached, all of a sudden they want a girlfriend. No, dude when I said I'm not looking for anything serious I meant it. Remaining objective in dating is important until you know you're compatible and it makes logical sense to get serious with someone who meets your standards.
How's your lonely life
When I was emotionally unavailable and distant I always had men who got attached. I was still feminine just extremely stoic and emotionally reserved and distant. Now that I have become more open and warm seems like the opposite happenes and I've attracted some emotionally unavailable man lately.
@@SR77736 lol you are no longer in your prime
I can see this happening more so than than what is being said in this video. Happened to me once. When a woman is not truly serious, that's when they want to be serious. How ironic?
I’ve immersed myself in that feminine energy before. The men I dated were not happy I was so helpless. It was a turn off, not a turn on.🤷🏻♀️
Wrong ones
Moderate your tactics a bit.
@@laeelaee6316 yeasss wrong ones
Femininity is "feminine energy" is not a turn-off unless exhibited by a male. By being "helpless", does that mean just turning up, looking pretty and making him do all the work?
If it was a turn off to men....then they were in their feminine energy, or like what he said in the video, they didn't care bc they only wanted s3x
100% true, ive always been in my masculine energy and i attract non commital men. Only now im working on tapping into my feminine energy 😢
Thank you, Bro. Stephan!
Interesting, b/c my best guess is that by this measure, it’s not that the man isn’t committal, just that they aren’t interesting in committing to you, the so-called masculine woman. They’ll leave you alone for the feminine woman they meet. That woman requires less, somehow doesn’t question things about the man they “should” (logic) and makes a man think that she’s the kind of difficult he’s more willing to tolerate. She’s a yes woman to most things, including sexual intimacy upfront, and when she’s “surprised” that he’s seeing other ppl, he fears losing her over sharing this knowledge with her. He then makes a decision to forego all other partners to make more room in his life for her. Us women have to trust he don’t got no life long STD’s, deal breaker trauma and drama for which we aren’t willing to stick through post sexual intimacy that likely has already been activated. Yet we’re labeled too much…
Trust him upfront for him to leave when the next shiny object of his affection comes into or back into his peripheral.
Why is it always considered too much to genuinely require getting to know and have and not be afraid of commitment ahead of sexual intimacy? Why does that fall under the category of masculine energy, especially if the attraction and groundwork for connection is already there?
Well explained
@phantomwoman:
nicely said
True.
Evaluate first.
by that time gone.
I am NOT taking one step further.
F to fwb, a waste of my time.
I am not a yo-yo. He is there then not.
Move on instead and keep going.
unscathed.
Who said : your mind shuts off first.
I do not believe that I may be ghosting. He may easily not notice
.....too busy running to the next oportunity.
Sex is not intimacy. Intimacy does not include sex
@@nicolajames5037it is for people who are not sleeping with every tom dick and harry or guy known across the street s for his pimping or baby mamas.
@@nicolajames5037It's a part of a romantic intimate relarionship. Sex is definitely not the only intimacy, but it is intimacy. ❤
I’m happy 😊 someone finally said that men don’t give a damn about your energy. Attractiveness and commitment are two different things 😅
Put a ring on it or bye bye😅
So how many times you’ve been married?
That's why I refuse to be used now.
I always, had to rely on myself thats why I becama half a man or tomboy
Women don't determine how men treat them. A man with principles has certain values that don't vacillate regardless of who he is dealing with. Many men aren't that simple I'm the sense that there are many who live by principles.
Your talking shit as a man i can tell you you dont really know what your talking about
True , you are their release bag. He just wants to release and have fun no love or keeping you around.
True. I met a guy who came at me with sex. So, when I turnt him down, he decided not to have contact. Okay. Fine with me. Bye
"release bag"
Yup!
@@Chosenoneforeversame thing has happened to me more than once. They cross my boundaries..nexttttt
@@millafin9469 No release on me! Working at a local funeral home, really had me tninking about our love ones bodies!!! Since you go around looking for someone or anyone to release on! You dressing the deceased)
David Richardson you need to go
He on point with this one
You are So Truly Correct 💯 My Brother and That's Real True Facts.
So what should a woman do who is just by herself and have to be the woman and the man in her life because there is not a real man who wants to take the place of THE MAN in her life?
Be happy by yourself. Be it a man or a woman. It is great if you could find one who let's you put your walls down but if not being by yourself is better than STD, assaults, unwanted preganancy and abuse.
@@ektasharma3520 exactly. And such woman arr most of the time unknowingly or subconscilusly masculined woman
This is true!
Somebody called me masculine the other day smh i could not believe it lol i wish you could explain the difference clearly
Look it up. It's the dominant traits you exude as a wmn that either attracts masculine men or, in your case, repels them. Masculine does not attract masculine for relationships.
That’s all they look for it seems when not gave they run to the next
True
"When you give off masculine energy he says oh you won't get in your feelinga! huh?
Stephen please explain!
Amen it doesn't matter to anyone who doesn't love you I I loved you
This is SO F**KNG TRUEEE.
Facts!!!
Celibacy is all I think about when men speak.
Sounds like damaged goods and no introspection if 4billion other people are always the problem.
@@GrgAProductiontrue
Why catch feelings 😂they just trample on them anyhow plag the game by being impossible 😅
We all need Jesus that’s the best advice we’re gonna get from his word
Yes. I was a born again and got stupid I don't understand or remember what happened God made me very feminine and I WAS IN CHRIST. I hate this and now I am outside Of God and feel cut. Not listening to the holy ghost. Why did I do this I am was so dumb. I miss the church and NOW I have nothing.....I WASN'T THIS WAY I ruined my life and soul. My soul and family. Church not SURE WHAT I WAS THINKING..
Every woman and man has both masculine and feminine behaviors it takes a very secure person to let both shine when appropriate and I personally speaking just walk to the best of my own drum so ok thank you
Well said keep teaching truth.
A masculine energy does not equal emotionally detached..
I call BS! I’m fit, fem and friendly, I met this guy last year and I thought we were good, cooked for him, showed him a softer, vulnerable me. He dumped me to date masculine, hood, IG model types. These men are full of crap, damn if you do and damned if you don’t.
Always look and listen to the other person, they will show you what they are made of.
I love most your videos and have learned a lot. I understand that most men actually believe that masculine women are emotionally detached. But in my experience that’s simply not true. If anything, masculine women are probably even more emotional than a feminine woman who had all her needs met ever since she was a child. Masculine women appreciate love and connection at a whole different level. And they are also not using a man to get something out of him other than pure pure love
Thank you brother
So men are emotionally detached? Got it.
No. Listen again. He said non-commital men are just as emotionally detached as a masculine wmn comes off.
I agree I do the same thing but I can take accountability
I disagree. All men I’ve dated want to stay with me and I have NO PROBLEMS playing the man role at work or at home if that’s what needs doing. 😊
How much respect do you have of these men?
@tairschol6910 not much obviously. And if theres no respect there's no love. Sounds like she attracts users.
So true ❤
I cant believe people go for the most intimate body part first- just like dogs going for the behind sent....gross
It could be one way or the other and go that way.Waffling between both sides is the problem.
They are called Players
Women like players
I am straight I am real I am straight to the point I'm Blunt I'm not like most women that compete to get a man I have always took care of myself and support myself my father raised me that way I'm not gonna go on because we have a lot of people listening to this And reading this message they can't help but if that's the way they're raised but I was not raised that way I was raised to support myself and work hard I was in a work program at my school at 12 I was a teacher's assistant getting paid the same thing that an adult would so I grew up young so I support myself my father taught me old fashioned moral values I have been independent in my whole life because I didn't want to support me a lot of women can't help but that's the way the race. . For my child they have a Tea party in the front yard at 3 mama daddy baby house on the hill find car fine house now that's it they can't help it. Now I'm gonna catch a lot of slack with comments on this but I really don't care symptoms gotta be changed women need to be able to stand up for themselves support themselves make the same way gentlemen does so they don't have to fall short and some and rely on a man when they don't want to
Strong and masculine are not the same I don't want a woman trying to grow a set 😂😂😂
Stop sleeping with people y’all don’t like ! Then ahh duh they won’t give you a issue
I agree 👍💯
Good point!
I've experienced opposite. I tend to attract men who act more feminine that are usually bi narcissist that try to cling to my spirit. 😅 needless to say I'm not dating at all. 😂
@carlottaherring bi narcissist?
Why do men pretend to want more if that's what they are doing, just be HONEST WITH US WOMAN AND THEN THERE WILL BE NOOOO CONFUSION😊
I tried to give my message across on good faith and vibes with respect but sometimes you've just got to get straight to the point and the heart of the Crux of the matter for the better good for the final picture 😔
I cant share with a man. Its my way or the highway.
😂😂so am supposed to act girly girly, possibly be homeless, and think a grown man is going to save a grown woman
Hit a nerve😆😆😆
Just because I shaved off all my hair because I got sick and tired of meeting society standards and I wanted to fresh start doesn't mean that I protrude masculine energy. Unfortunately some of these dudes can't even relate to me on a deep intellectual level so they don't even know that I could even be in my feelings because they're not enept to know that. Bye, see ya🤙🏾🙌🏾
Fun fact ladies, this is all men
When a woman does not fit the mold that men assigned to women she is in the default setting of masculine. And I find that to be incredibly ignorant and short minded. Women are diverse in nature and nurture. Also emotional unavailability is not exclusive to men and it isn’t a “masculine” trait! it’s a personality trait: moreso, or trauma response! Non-committal men are who they are because they choose to be that way and noncommittal men are attracted to any type of woman ! They don’t care about her individual personality traits, if she’s pretty and willing, he’s going to smash
A man is telling you how we think abd you talking shit about how we should be you why do yall constantly do that shit
"Non committal men are who they are bc they choose to be are attracted to any type of wmn"
He literally just said this. His point was masculine wmn find themselves attracting these types of men due to coming off as "emotionally detached". 😒
Absolutely.
True
Interesting!
In my experience, all the very feminine women seem to be the ones getting cheated on 🤔
My experience is completely opposite masculined women getting divorce
Or abused & used
Facts
Stephan in the morning you should squeeze fresh orange juice & lemon juice with honey ,1 teaspoon 1 teaspoon olive oil night drink until
Your musc is out of your head and throat . When you feel mucus come down into your throat you supposed to spit muscle out into tissue you stop muscle from travel through other parts of your body break up musce
With love 4-14-2023 time 7:34pm.
😆 it's both agreement so the one who dosen't skip it
masculinity is good.
Yeap.. energy vampires be everywhere...
You are so right on 🎯 with this.. But I have got to find a way to balance staying true to my nature you know some of us are honest and Blunt and shut a point and we're trying to put a goodbye about in a message and we do nothing but get harassed by men like this no it's on my vocabulary I'll find a way to stop these men from bombarding me with nasty videos because I'm putting a goodbye about to try to teach these men to listen and maybe someone will pick up on it That's all I gotta say
So how do I tell him that although I’m not all in feelings or giving out emotional drama looking so damn good to him that all he sees ( although he’s married 😳), I ain’t a part time lover?
I never meant shit to anybody
And when he falls on an emotional woman he tries, he can't, he runs away but still wanna hold the door... Why ? -_-" he knows he won't have the cookie 😂
Damn that's soooo true
Giving birth is masculine
I know that's right bro you keeping it real tell it like it is
Which of your videos is this from?
All theories always point to waiting delaying sexual relations. It's never a negative to just get to know someone's intentions over a slow pace.
Only if you know the other person is doing the same. We are pretty much aware how until death do us apart is working in modern times. I have seen men for hookups a day before engagement or marriage. Some go a step further to do it while their wife is pregnant or being in marriages as well. So no matter how great you are what your standards are if your partner is a rotten piece of trash then you are only in a ride for the time being situation. It has nothing to do what sort of woman you are.
🤯🤯😯 now it makes sense
Amen! For them the message.❤
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Nah bruh. Masculine energy makes me not aroused quickly.
The only real advice for a woman comes from their father! Baby my father taught me well! Please get a real OG in your life ladies
It's true
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I disagree totally a men would sleep with a whole stud if she’s has a nice body or even shows a little interest. As far as a submissive woman he will use her as much as he can and sleep with her too !! Let’s keep it 💯
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TRUTH
Having sex is seeking an emotion high. How can the man be detached. That makes no sense. I think what u mean is this man is looking for another form of a high.
My energy has got to be submissive when a manmeets me because Ita like half and half the type of guys I use to medt
I know it dont matter now boy i was a big stupid fool
Y'all got me figure wrong I I'm not a person that mess around I'm a one man woman
I never had any problems with my mens but one
Sooo how do I fix this problem. Cause my life path number is all about masculinity. I have more masculinity than I have femininity
Anyone else still waiting for the definitions of masculine and feminine?
Me, masculine? Tuh. I am far from masculine. Im very much feminine and operate in my femininity but I will not put up with nonsensical behavior. We are both individually humans, that have basic practical needs and if you do not have the integrity (with manners), the economic ethnics, to do what needs to be done, then you aren't for me.