Very helpful! I sometimes mix up these two things: energy and personality traits in my husband. Woow... it turns out that he is a 100% loving masculine energy, just... an introvert type. Thank you for making this so clear to me now!
I LOVED YOUR OBSERVATION! you are correct without a healthy masculine role models we do not have a healthy understanding of a healthy masculine. Thankyou for defining the difference between personality and characteristics of a healthy masculine. I grew up without a father and choose personality, I kept choosing unhealthy masculine. Never thought a quiet man could be in the masculine. Upon reflection of my choices you are correct.the 3 qualities you mentioned is what I always wanted in a man.thanks for the ahaa moment. Can't wait to see more
1. The biggest red flag 🚩 with my ex was that his word was not reliable. He consistently did NOT follow through on his words. There was no security & safety for me. He only had his own back as was constantly in survival mode. 2. I chased him thinking he needed my help and a nudge to give him confidence. I mothered him 😮 3. He not only wanted to constantly tie the line constantly but also expected me to be the provider as a “career woman” for equality. I am now a lot wiser & am so grateful for this info. It was easy to let him go once I became clear on the fact that I wanted a masculine man. 4. Providing support was majorly lacking as he made me feel unworthy of his support - very toxic. Contracted energy was big from him - that was his major game. 5. He hid me!!! I had to insist that he show me to his family and friends. He was scared to show that we were ever a couple. So sad.
As a man I have very little masculine energy and Ive been trying for a long time to fix it. Just never had any male role models growing up so I have no idea what it actually is
You’ve really highlighted where I was having to compensate the masculine energy in my last dating situation. Wish I’d seen it back when I should have politely declined moving forward and meeting him in person. Never mind, I’ll know what to look out for with the next one 😊
I know what a man in his masculine energy is, I want such a man in my life and still, in 2020 I fell in love with a man with muscles and a scooter 🛴 and animal backpacks, 31yo. What I am trying to say is that unfortunately some things are just meant to happen to us. It's our responsibility to get stronger and more clever out of them.
I really love what you how you described a masculine man can still had some feminine traits, like he still an provide, and profess and chase or take are of you, but he has a softer receptive side. Like your husband or many other men. 🙈 I use to feel it was only macho type men, which I fine abrasive and not attracted to them. I would love love to hear more about this. I was so confused. 💕
Sami: You are effing Brilliant. In spite of all the programs I've taken, sometimes these distinctions ring the bell for me like a deep profundity. No one else delivers or explains like you. Nobody. 😘
Hi Sami, I love to watch you speak. You are an animated teacher. Today I appreciated that you gave concise definitions first for each trait of the masculine man, and followed each definition with examples. I took notes, but these will be easy for me to remember. Thank you so much. Donna Garner, California, USA ❤
@@SamiWunder And good for you for starting your business. Lots of people need the help. Many of the dating coaches talk about "masculine" and "feminine" energy. Quite frankly I disagree. I mean I get it, but why can't we be both? Why does it seem to me that that means the women never does anything in the relationship? I guess I am independent and if I don't do things, they don't get done most of the time. Just something doesn't sit right about it. I understand that it is better to be agreeable and not chase the man.....but just something not right about it. I have a MA in Forensic Psycholgy so I understand people. Happy Valentine's Day❤️🍸
@@Wendy-ml7wr Absolutely. I hear you. It is important to balance both our masculine and feminine energies inside ourselves. www.samiwunder.com/what-is-feminine-energy/ This may take the conversation one step further
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What I appreciate most is their Protecting instinct! Makes me feel safe.
He knows himself
I appreciate when they can be soft yet still chase and provide.
@@wunderdivas149 Yes . I love it too x
We definitely exist and we want femininity
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Very helpful! I sometimes mix up these two things: energy and personality traits in my husband. Woow... it turns out that he is a 100% loving masculine energy, just... an introvert type. Thank you for making this so clear to me now!
Thanks for sharing!! So glad it helps :)
I LOVED YOUR OBSERVATION! you are correct without a healthy masculine role models we do not have a healthy understanding of a healthy masculine. Thankyou for defining the difference between personality and characteristics of a healthy masculine. I grew up without a father and choose personality, I kept choosing unhealthy masculine. Never thought a quiet man could be in the masculine. Upon reflection of my choices you are correct.the 3 qualities you mentioned is what I always wanted in a man.thanks for the ahaa moment. Can't wait to see more
Glad it resonated. Join us on Wunder divas, our private FB community - facebook.com/groups/wunderdivas
1. The biggest red flag 🚩 with my ex was that his word was not reliable. He consistently did NOT follow through on his words. There was no security & safety for me. He only had his own back as was constantly in survival mode.
2. I chased him thinking he needed my help and a nudge to give him confidence. I mothered him 😮
3. He not only wanted to constantly tie the line constantly but also expected me to be the provider as a “career woman” for equality.
I am now a lot wiser & am so grateful for this info. It was easy to let him go once I became clear on the fact that I wanted a masculine man.
4. Providing support was majorly lacking as he made me feel unworthy of his support - very toxic. Contracted energy was big from him - that was his major game.
5. He hid me!!! I had to insist that he show me to his family and friends. He was scared to show that we were ever a couple. So sad.
Great lessons x
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As a man I have very little masculine energy and Ive been trying for a long time to fix it. Just never had any male role models growing up so I have no idea what it actually is
That was my upbringing too! She's talking abt thgs alot of red pill guys talk abt. Hearing the same thg now really confirms alot.
Thanks for this video. Didn't grow up with men I could trust so I do find myself clueless about men sometimes.
I hear you xx
Awesome, thanks for the clarity!
He moves towards you,
Don't confuse personality traits with masculine energy!
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You’ve really highlighted where I was having to compensate the masculine energy in my last dating situation. Wish I’d seen it back when I should have politely declined moving forward and meeting him in person. Never mind, I’ll know what to look out for with the next one 😊
So glad! Join us on Wunder Divas fb group xx
found this channel yesterday and ive become addicted
welcome and thank you!!
It's nice that men are listening too
@@akala8Exactly 💕
I absolutely love the message of this video 🥰 One of my favourite videos of Sami 🙂
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I know what a man in his masculine energy is, I want such a man in my life and still, in 2020 I fell in love with a man with muscles and a scooter 🛴 and animal backpacks, 31yo. What I am trying to say is that unfortunately some things are just meant to happen to us. It's our responsibility to get stronger and more clever out of them.
I really love what you how you described a masculine man can still had some feminine traits, like he still an provide, and profess and chase or take are of you, but he has a softer receptive side. Like your husband or many other men. 🙈 I use to feel it was only macho type men, which I fine abrasive and not attracted to them. I would love love to hear more about this. I was so confused. 💕
Yes, Alpha males can often be completely disconnected from their feminine and it's not healthy either x
@@SamiWunder Yes, I think many women get confused with the Alpha masculine to the healthy balanced masculine. That would make a wonderful video :.
Sami: You are effing Brilliant. In spite of all the programs I've taken, sometimes these distinctions ring the bell for me like a deep profundity. No one else delivers or explains like you. Nobody. 😘
Wonderful! thank you x
Thank you Sami, this is so helpful!
So glad :)
Hi Sami, I love to watch you speak. You are an animated teacher. Today I appreciated that you gave concise definitions first for each trait of the masculine man, and followed each definition with examples. I took notes, but these will be easy for me to remember. Thank you so much. Donna Garner, California, USA ❤
You are so welcome Donna. So glad it helped :)
Sooo good!! Sharing.
Thanks for sharing!! Glad it helped xx
Good video. Good information as usual.
Glad it helps Wendy xx
@@SamiWunder And good for you for starting your business. Lots of people need the help. Many of the dating coaches talk about "masculine" and "feminine" energy. Quite frankly I disagree. I mean I get it, but why can't we be both? Why does it seem to me that that means the women never does anything in the relationship? I guess I am independent and if I don't do things, they don't get done most of the time. Just something doesn't sit right about it. I understand that it is better to be agreeable and not chase the man.....but just something not right about it. I have a MA in Forensic Psycholgy so I understand people. Happy Valentine's Day❤️🍸
@@Wendy-ml7wr Absolutely. I hear you. It is important to balance both our masculine and feminine energies inside ourselves.
www.samiwunder.com/what-is-feminine-energy/
This may take the conversation one step further
Wow, thank you 👍🏼
You're welcome!
so good
YAY so glad it helped!
You have beautiful energy
Oh thank you!
9:54 Do you mean those kinds of men are also 'masculine' men???😮😮
Uuum nice stuff
thanks
Coffee dates?
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I’m glad it resonates ❤️
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Too many weak men
sorry to hear xx
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