Relationship Guru Fails At Marriage... DERRICK JAXN CAUGHT CHEATING AGAIN.

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  • @CronosGolden
    @CronosGolden ปีที่แล้ว +3903

    Guys really suck at hiding their "infidelity". Any tips ladies?

    • @AbaNPreach
      @AbaNPreach  ปีที่แล้ว +4052

      You only know about the ones who get caught

    • @warren010h
      @warren010h ปีที่แล้ว +169

      😂😂😂

    • @thegamingkitchen8429
      @thegamingkitchen8429 ปีที่แล้ว +766

      Idk ask LOW

    • @longbeachmaumba7059
      @longbeachmaumba7059 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'll tell you this though, if Paternity tests were to become mandatory at birth let's see how good their hiding would be after that.

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 ปีที่แล้ว

      The key is to smash her half sister. She will not be fully invested, just like her father.😂😂

  • @longbeachmaumba7059
    @longbeachmaumba7059 ปีที่แล้ว +2428

    Smh all those years Derrick acted like he wanted to be a father figure to women but secretly he wanted to show them who their daddy was.

  • @JuanitaMichelle
    @JuanitaMichelle ปีที่แล้ว +3562

    The gag is that Derick has been talking about himself the whole time. That’s why he created content so easily and regularly.

    • @Goddess_Infinity
      @Goddess_Infinity ปีที่แล้ว +143

      Exactly!!!! I think more women need to go and watch his videos .

    • @glennwallace6742
      @glennwallace6742 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @jboa
      @jboa ปีที่แล้ว +97

      @@Goddess_Infinity Right, directly from the source😂

    • @oz_jones
      @oz_jones ปีที่แล้ว +83

      "Write what you know" :)

    • @adrianchatman5734
      @adrianchatman5734 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      It's like Clark Kent writing a story about Superman lol.

  • @gisellegeorge6184
    @gisellegeorge6184 ปีที่แล้ว +1732

    The most disgusting part of this is that Derrick is the one cheated, allowed his wife to humiliate herself on social media defending the marriage and then HE filed for a divorce. The least he could have done is let her file for divorce and save face. Thank God I don't idolize anyone because we are all capable of doing terrible things

    • @tumweonlycommentary2797
      @tumweonlycommentary2797 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Amen🥂

    • @Keviekev115
      @Keviekev115 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Last days people become lover of themselves

    • @sosmooth13
      @sosmooth13 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      For years we got shit on by all the ladies calling us dusty for trying to call this man out. I’m with Aba on this. I’m not going to throw shade at this man. I’m kicking my feet up and watching the show. Feel the sorriest for his girl though.
      Edit: nevermind. She sicced Jesus on me.

    • @ofekmizrahi3079
      @ofekmizrahi3079 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Hes a narcissist but people are blind

    • @Realcordy
      @Realcordy ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@DMWatchesTH-cam that’s not how it works, he’s a guy there’s no escaping it unless she’s richer then no one get 💩 💀

  • @drewyetti
    @drewyetti ปีที่แล้ว +486

    “Ladies, if you feel that your man is cheating on you, just remember he is sharing his love to other women because they are queens like you.” - Derrick Jaxn

  • @Chimiri88
    @Chimiri88 ปีที่แล้ว +514

    Moral of the story: Live your life. Stop listening to these online relationship gurus. They don’t know any better too

    • @LotusHoshi
      @LotusHoshi ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Listen to the WORD of God; He knows everything and everyone!

    • @denizece3672
      @denizece3672 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If longevity in a relationship were the goal for the core audience, why even listen to anyone who got married 4 years ago? Not that people can’t have valuable insights after 4 years of marriage, but calling oneself a guru seems cocky. I want to hear the folks that stayed married til the end

    • @melruth5
      @melruth5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@LotusHoshiamen

  • @crystalxchi8576
    @crystalxchi8576 ปีที่แล้ว +2003

    I actually felt sorry for his wife but hearing her wish evil upon the people talking about her husband's infidelity erased every ounce of sympathy in me. She's crazy, brainwashed even. She's lost her damn mind and i hope she finds it soon. What an embarrassment.

    • @omolevincentia3447
      @omolevincentia3447 ปีที่แล้ว

      The woman has some psychological issues due to the pain and humiliation, don't take her rants seriously,she just needs to heal and grow

    • @lowlowseesee
      @lowlowseesee ปีที่แล้ว

      anyone who dates a man who says dumb shit like '________ men dont cheat'. put anything in that blank. if they talk stupid as fuck like this ESPCECIALLY about something that they have been caught doing, its a wrap

    • @miguelangelthomas5154
      @miguelangelthomas5154 ปีที่แล้ว +338

      Shes a very hurt woman who invested way too much time and energy into a man that couldn't respect her enough to keep it in his pants time and time again. I feel for her but somebody needs to take her phone away from her. This much pain and a cellphone make for a toxic cocktail.

    • @Jayisinvisible
      @Jayisinvisible ปีที่แล้ว +201

      But whats crazy is thats exactly why I have even much more sympathy for her. They've been together since their teenagers…his evil ass had decades to prime and brainwash her.

    • @samadgriffin6853
      @samadgriffin6853 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Bible thumpers...

  • @onemorescout
    @onemorescout ปีที่แล้ว +1466

    Crazy how he made an entire career out of projecting

    • @Hi_Tamera
      @Hi_Tamera ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Damn that’s true 😂💯

    • @PeaceLoveAndJoy
      @PeaceLoveAndJoy ปีที่แล้ว +53

      And people fell for it is even crazier

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv ปีที่แล้ว

      All of these gurus are just different versions of the "family values" preacher who jacks off dudes in rest stops

    • @Cyber-Rain
      @Cyber-Rain ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@PeaceLoveAndJoy fell for it A SECOND TIME

    • @DopeDevastation
      @DopeDevastation ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@Cyber-Rain and will a third cause they refuse to accept reality

  • @k.j.w.9531
    @k.j.w.9531 ปีที่แล้ว +516

    I feel sorry for the wife. This man has publicly humiliated her so many times. I hope she gets the help she deserves.

    • @TheDweeb002
      @TheDweeb002 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      At least now she knows what not to look for...we hope

    • @l-train7876
      @l-train7876 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      The public humiliation is just the icing on top of a cheating husband. Talk about insult to injury.

    • @carboy101
      @carboy101 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Don't feel sorry for her. She has common sense like the rest of us.

    • @KMark2688
      @KMark2688 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      She’s allowed it to happen.

    • @qtaro-7097
      @qtaro-7097 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hol up he cheated again???

  • @robertmcarthur3776
    @robertmcarthur3776 ปีที่แล้ว +1157

    Derek Jackson is like the Dexter of relationship coaches. He's committing the crimes, hiding the evidence then solving the shit like he didn't know anything 😏

  • @C.R.Cole331
    @C.R.Cole331 ปีที่แล้ว +567

    Derrick Jaxn was so good at what he did because he was talking about himself the whole time😂😂

    • @christianbolisca1493
      @christianbolisca1493 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      We all questioned his sanity.

    • @izzylandyt
      @izzylandyt ปีที่แล้ว +11

      He was talking to his alter-ego 😂

  • @Forevermocha
    @Forevermocha ปีที่แล้ว +358

    So all of his books were his memoirs 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @AlchemyGames88
      @AlchemyGames88 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Lmao 😂clearly we just didn’t read the fine print “black men don’t cheat….. but please understand I do” 🙄🥴

    • @ceejay1476
      @ceejay1476 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It was so obvious tho

    • @kerrian4564
      @kerrian4564 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣😂

    • @leedirtybriches
      @leedirtybriches ปีที่แล้ว

      You gon be driving the short bus for that comment. 🤣

    • @handsomeprince215
      @handsomeprince215 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AlchemyGames88 because you women are dumb ass hell

  • @SMD2x
    @SMD2x ปีที่แล้ว +55

    The slow zoom-in on the wife face did me in 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Soh23
    @Soh23 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    If they start the video laughing, you are in for a good one

  • @InsanelyIrish
    @InsanelyIrish ปีที่แล้ว +557

    It's like a drunken alcoholic trying to tell us the benefit's of sobriety.

    • @missdarkhumour2222
      @missdarkhumour2222 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Lmao 😂. Well done.

    • @jtymusic100
      @jtymusic100 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      It's like a homeless person telling you how to flip house's.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Drunken alcoholic could have been sober over a multi year period and completely understand the benefits of sobriety. Derrick jaxn basically said don't put up with his shit or people like him and he's right.

    • @jtymusic100
      @jtymusic100 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@dennisrobinson8008 but he was trying to present himself as the good guy... Making women think he was the greatest thing walking. And if anyone called him fake... That would be a crime worse than murder. That's where the problem is.

    • @nobodyknowsforsure
      @nobodyknowsforsure ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Doesn't make what that person is saying is wrong, it just makes them a hypocrite, so not the best example.

  • @carlosrosado9560
    @carlosrosado9560 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    The split screen with the ex wife while he talks took me out 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @beloveddaughter7336
    @beloveddaughter7336 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    She has broken all the way down. But I think she was still believing the lies he was telling her. They've been together since high school, I think he said. She wanted to believe she hadn't wasted her life with a liar but she has to accept it. Once she does it will get better.

    • @michaelturley8222
      @michaelturley8222 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You know someone's lost it when they're making death wishes in Jesus's name lmao

  • @afro_buddha4977
    @afro_buddha4977 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    He is literally everything he warned women to watch out for 😂

    • @nickodemusjohnson
      @nickodemusjohnson ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And even when the sh*t stank, those women still didn't seem to smell it😂🤫

    • @baddieandabook
      @baddieandabook ปีที่แล้ว +33

      That explains why he was able to speak so confidently about it lmaooo

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      His wife should have listened to him.

    • @maxhatush5918
      @maxhatush5918 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Women LOVE men like him tho.

    • @91son92
      @91son92 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Men saw this this years ago

  • @Waywardfolk
    @Waywardfolk ปีที่แล้ว +264

    Showing his wife’s face while showing him trashing “lame ass dudes” killed me 😂😂😂 dude was really talking about himself 😂😂😂😂

    • @KevinSmith-xt8xr
      @KevinSmith-xt8xr ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It was a camera zooming in for me

    • @69Kazeshini
      @69Kazeshini ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Projection

    • @Quran112083
      @Quran112083 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The whole time, matter of fact he was making most of them videos after leaving the side chick house

    • @bitcanada3392
      @bitcanada3392 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly

  • @AllMad111
    @AllMad111 ปีที่แล้ว +527

    I hear Jaxn say his name, and I start laughing uncontrollably. Really shouldn't have watched this at a funeral.

    • @sebswede9005
      @sebswede9005 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Michael Jaxn

    • @Xander9608
      @Xander9608 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@sebswede9005 bro stop, i'm dead =))

    • @weswolever7477
      @weswolever7477 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Axtion Jaxn

    • @Jam-bt7qu
      @Jam-bt7qu ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😟 not a funeral.
      Sorry for your loss.

    • @AllMad111
      @AllMad111 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Jam-bt7quIt was just the funeral of Derrick Jaxn's career, so it's all good.

  • @MrAngel-ir2lj
    @MrAngel-ir2lj ปีที่แล้ว +58

    That's why...never look at another other person or relationship ever. Because behind closed doors you never know who they really are. Because who you are isn't about blasting on social media and shit. It's when no one Is watching.

    • @YaYa-ke1zr
      @YaYa-ke1zr ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts!

    • @flowerbloom5782
      @flowerbloom5782 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup need to write that down.

  • @danparish1344
    @danparish1344 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    A narcissist doesn’t care about being a hypocrite or deceiving and hurting people, they actually can get enjoyment out of it.

    • @nocapnobs7845
      @nocapnobs7845 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      They actually do get enjoyment out of it. It turns them on physically.

    • @lowlowseesee
      @lowlowseesee ปีที่แล้ว +4

      dan, that said, a lot of these men may not even be narcs. narcs have a lot in common with most abusers, same that cheaters have a lot in common with gaslighters and so on. depending on ones griff, whether its financial abuse or just a sex addicted person etc.....the cocktail of deceit varies and have a lot in common with narcissism

    • @dahliaherrod4301
      @dahliaherrod4301 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's not a narcissist. That's a psychopath.

    • @izzylandyt
      @izzylandyt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Narcissists LOVE to talk about themselves

    • @kadebebesis4204
      @kadebebesis4204 ปีที่แล้ว

      100 percent, yes. Narcissists carry sadistic traits/tendencies.

  • @ebabz2102
    @ebabz2102 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I just realised talking about himself in third person keeps him from taking responsibility and being accountable.

  • @HasanPikerIsADouche
    @HasanPikerIsADouche ปีที่แล้ว +188

    He's still teaching men about marriage, like exactly what not to do lol

    • @Forevermocha
      @Forevermocha ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Excited like a kid on Christmas day lol

  • @e.mountain1637
    @e.mountain1637 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    😂😂 “Thou doth protest too much.”
    “Are you quoting scriptures too?”
    “No, that’s Shakespeare.”
    😂🤣🤣😂

  • @lordpaps2270
    @lordpaps2270 ปีที่แล้ว +422

    I feel so ex-wife for his wife cheating is one thing, but cheating while making a carreer denouncing cheat while also using your wife as a prop is simply villainous.

    • @tttjj111
      @tttjj111 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Anyone who posts their personal lives for the world are pretty unhinged. Look at anyone on reality tv

    • @ambrusin4889
      @ambrusin4889 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tttjj111 Agreed!

    • @IntellectuallyKurious
      @IntellectuallyKurious ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes completely trash

    • @antoinehicks2681
      @antoinehicks2681 ปีที่แล้ว

      Narcissistic personality disorder in a nutshell

    • @cyberspace7208
      @cyberspace7208 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Villainous.

  • @joshuaconniff7712
    @joshuaconniff7712 ปีที่แล้ว +515

    I started watching your videos during the first Jaxn cheating scandal. Good to see he's still consistent

    • @latoyiamackey1947
      @latoyiamackey1947 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Consistently inconsistent

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 ปีที่แล้ว

      That book collection tho. when does part 5 drop. I got a co-worker I want to gift it to. 😂 She loves this man, just as much he loves his sideHo_es.

    • @exuberanttarot
      @exuberanttarot ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣😅

    • @charlesxavier2905
      @charlesxavier2905 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ThaJerzeyBoy
      @ThaJerzeyBoy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I did too 😂

  • @SenecaCz
    @SenecaCz ปีที่แล้ว +283

    I was holding myself up successfully until "I've come too far" part; now I'm howling. Thanks, Aba, for your pettiness 😆

    • @joshuaottley7902
      @joshuaottley7902 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      "I *still* want it" was the one that took me out

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That book collection tho. when does part 5 drop. I got a co-worker I want to gift it to. 😂 She loves this man, just as much he loves his sideHo_es.

    • @ericapaquette9624
      @ericapaquette9624 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He's got a gift 🤣

    • @AT-ts1se
      @AT-ts1se ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

  • @HomeBizTaxLady
    @HomeBizTaxLady ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The fact that people STILL listen to him is INSANE! 😂😂
    His wife actually cursed everybody that spoke against their marriage.

  • @ernestonoir5796
    @ernestonoir5796 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    After that voodoo curse she chanted, I’m scared to crack a joke now 😮

    • @didyallseethat499
      @didyallseethat499 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Why? Her dum dum self spewed a curse right into a mirror (camera lens) and all that happened was it came back and hit her right in the face 😂😂😂😂 You’re safe 😂😂😂

    • @melindaroop1346
      @melindaroop1346 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@didyallseethat499 Yep! 😂 She did that to herself.

    • @candyc4713
      @candyc4713 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It only applies to lies and slander. No lies told.

    • @indiashante1560
      @indiashante1560 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@didyallseethat499 OMGoodness 🤣🤣🤣

  • @kadebebesis4204
    @kadebebesis4204 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    Aba being petty is so funny! “Black men don’t cheat.” Goddamn. 😂

  • @PrinceRevolver
    @PrinceRevolver ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I lost it when Aba started reading the titles to Derrick Jaxn's books 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Megan6772
    @Megan6772 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Here now, i saw her on a podcast holding herself and speaking so eloquently and candidly. She's healed and leveled up and I'm so happy for her and proud of her ❤❤❤

    • @achhkay4229
      @achhkay4229 ปีที่แล้ว

      She really sexy but made her look i attractive

  • @Bessbeauty
    @Bessbeauty ปีที่แล้ว +142

    He was EVERYTHING he was speaking about! Literally speaking from experience 😂😂

  • @rivkathegreat
    @rivkathegreat ปีที่แล้ว +269

    Derrick really couldn't keep his secret a secret. He talked about himself every single day, even wrote a couple books on himself.

    • @andreeacalugarita7405
      @andreeacalugarita7405 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He was projecting and earning a pretty buck in the process.

  • @lillylee2410
    @lillylee2410 ปีที่แล้ว +383

    I was seeing an expensive relationship/marriage therapist (to save mine) bc she was beautiful, successful, dripping in luxury, married. Later to find out, she is a high class escort (caught with my boss) and her husband is her hustler boyfriend. Boy that solved many of my marital problems quick.

    • @jewelsvermin8866
      @jewelsvermin8866 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      How did that solve your problems?

    • @sugarwaterpurple5280
      @sugarwaterpurple5280 ปีที่แล้ว +93

      Was she an actual therapist with qualifications? Just wondering because beautiful, successful and dripping in luxury aren't things I'd look for in a therapist.

    • @dioumagogoba7606
      @dioumagogoba7606 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@jewelsvermin8866 wondering too?? This story is spicy.

    • @lundoren5240
      @lundoren5240 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sugarwaterpurple5280 cause it’s a woman choosing lmao. Cmon man think about it.

    • @sugarwaterpurple5280
      @sugarwaterpurple5280 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@lundoren5240 I'm a woman ad questioning the choice, so the OP's gender is irrelevant.

  • @Under_theHill
    @Under_theHill ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I remember watching his videos years ago and falling off his content cause we know the preachiest people out there doing no good, but damn the fact that he was living the things he spoke against in real time and not the past, is crazy. 😩😳 I hope his soon to be ex-wife comes out of her delusions and can emotionally heal. It’s humiliating and those children are gonna be confused

  • @FinalB055
    @FinalB055 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Jaxson talking about breaking generational curses, as he helps create another single mother and children’s growing up with controversy over their family.

  • @Out_the_matrix
    @Out_the_matrix ปีที่แล้ว +19

    “I cheated on you to make you stronger “ -Derrick Jaxn probably

  • @xoxoTash
    @xoxoTash ปีที่แล้ว +199

    As a licensed female therapist, I wholeheartedly believe that DJ is a narcissist - the dangerous type because he has the intellectual capability to be deceitful on a grand scale. But, even more apparent, he is in need of serious therapy, and so does his wife. I speculate they coexisted in a trauma bond their entire relationship and that the signs were always there. The perfect recipe for these bonds is a narcissist and a partner with little to no sense of self (the wife). This is what you get.
    Once I started seeing men speak out against him, I recognized that something was egregious in how he pandered and was turned off. The thing is, the average woman doesn't have the insight of a licensed clinician, so they'll fall for this stuff. I hope this is a lesson to everyone.

    • @rubychame662
      @rubychame662 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Oh God people...can we STOP brandishing the word Narcissist in 2023.....JESUS!

    • @stephk5797
      @stephk5797 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      There's kind of a difference between people brandishing it needlessly to excuse their own shit and a therapist calling out someone who actually does have the symptoms

    • @rubychame662
      @rubychame662 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Steph K agreed..however therapists are humans..cab be wrong..I my opinion, throwing out psychological diagnosis of someone u have never met is tantamount to..brandishing

    • @xoxoTash
      @xoxoTash ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @Ruby Chame at no point in this comment did I diagnose this man. Furthermore, I agree with you 100% that word is overused in social media and its terrible. However, I would hope my years of studying and working in this field would have some merit, so please trust I wouldn't just use the word. Secondly, we all possess levels of narcissism. This man's high level of the trait is undeniably evident.

    • @rubychame662
      @rubychame662 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xoxoTash OK 👍

  • @Gesusthebarbarian
    @Gesusthebarbarian ปีที่แล้ว +350

    As a man who has cheated and regrets it deeply, this man was on my radar the moment I heard his goofy ass.

    • @houseofhas9355
      @houseofhas9355 ปีที่แล้ว

      That book collection tho. when does part 5 drop. I got a co-worker I want to gift it to. 😂 She loves this man, just as much he loves his sideHo_es.

    • @VolumePerfection
      @VolumePerfection ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Respect to you if you are on a path of improvement.

    • @paulcarmi8130
      @paulcarmi8130 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@VolumePerfection my man’s name is Casio Yamaha. Dude plays music. He gets around.

    • @luanaalmeida809
      @luanaalmeida809 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Never cheated and could still tell this guy is full of it. Only resentful women or the ones looking for confirmation bias fall for this type of talk.

    • @XonTheOne
      @XonTheOne ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yo Same, When you own what you have done you never Project this perfect image.
      i cheated when i was young, its been 9 years and i have never done it again.
      we are all flawed Human Beings but with Discipline we can be less Sh💩ty

  • @capo4270
    @capo4270 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    "I'm sorry Ms Jaxn" 🎵🎶
    "I am for real" 🎵 🎶
    "Never meant to make your daughter cry but I gotta be a philanderer til I die" 🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵

  • @DubR424
    @DubR424 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    The way y’all kept showing his wife’s eyes the more he would talk was priceless 😮‍💨😮‍💨😫😂😂

  • @ayanaatthrivebewhole
    @ayanaatthrivebewhole ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Certified Life Coach here. Fyi, the way that I was trained was not to force any agenda on people, but to empower people to help discover their own Journey and to help them find the tools to really be who they want to be authentically. It was also about helping them advocate for themselves, and develop soft skills that could help them get to that next level! It was very helpful similar to therapy, helping people get to the root of why they struggle to reach their goals! So when done properly, it can be extremely helpful! Health coaching was what helped me lose 50 lb and live a healthier lifestyle! But, you're right, that there are people who are not doing it for the right reasons or from the right lens!
    Also, I used to watch his videos, and a lot of them weren't bad. There were a bunch of them that were just about loving yourself and knowing you're worth, and setting appropriate boundaries. To be fair, when he was speaking ill of men, it was more about if you encounter this type of behavior here's what you should do. I never got the impression that he was condemning all men.
    But his behavior is fraudulent as hell right now.

  • @JodyMay05
    @JodyMay05 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    The gag is he wasn't cheating, Derick jaxn was. He and Derick jaxn are separate that's why he refers to himself in the third person. In his mind, he's done nothing wrong 😂

  • @AsiaMare
    @AsiaMare ปีที่แล้ว +39

    The zooming in on his wife’s face … 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @HFFCANADA
    @HFFCANADA ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Maybe the only really true key to happiness for a relationship is being happy with yourself and coming together as two content people.

    • @mariaamor2496
      @mariaamor2496 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      🎯 🎯 🎯

    • @gnhun101
      @gnhun101 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Where do you find happy women? If you find them, please let me know.

    • @honeybee9393
      @honeybee9393 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@gnhun101don't look for them its dangerous you'll always end up with the wrong one seek the kingdom of God and let him add a woman to you if it's meant and the relationship with be right

    • @sashimi879
      @sashimi879 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I like the way you phrased that

    • @breatheeleganceheart-talk
      @breatheeleganceheart-talk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spot on! 👍👍👍

  • @powerliftingsloth1711
    @powerliftingsloth1711 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I think Preach made a great point at the end. All these "relationship coaches" do is offer bad advice with zero liability, and then shit talk actual professionals like psychologists who go to school and have structures in place for the protection of their patients.

  • @ChampionAnalysis
    @ChampionAnalysis ปีที่แล้ว +273

    It really feels like this man became a dating coach to cope with his infidelity. Instead of confronting himself for his socially unacceptable behavior, he puts all that energy into crafting his public image (a man who not only lives in a socially acceptable manner, but acts like a champion of it). I'm not a big fan of Psychoanaltic Theory, but sometimes that shit makes sense. Speaking on that part Preach said about psychology though, I did 4 years of psychology and even then I'm not fit to be a dating coach. Yes I have learned more about relationships than the average person, but to be a coach or a counselor you need additional schooling and certification. It's not easy. So I get the frustration with random people coming up and claiming to be coaches or experts.

    • @tatlifelover
      @tatlifelover ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He could spin this whole thing and say he was just warning women about males like him.. some naive folks would fall for it.

    • @joyandpeacefullaughter5307
      @joyandpeacefullaughter5307 ปีที่แล้ว

      He discovered a market "desperate women seeking validation from a good looking male" and saw $$$ signs. Then he also saw free sex.
      Men always follow this sugar trail like ants.

    • @NN-re7cy
      @NN-re7cy ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You're spot on. In psychoanalytic theory, what he's doing is called reaction formation, where he presents as strongly against the very thing he is. This is done to overcompensate for the uncomfortable feeling of being who he is, a dishonest cheater.

    • @ChampionAnalysis
      @ChampionAnalysis ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NN-re7cy Exaaaaactly. You smart.

    • @ChampionAnalysis
      @ChampionAnalysis ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @T.H. It's crazy that a market will always exist for con artists man. All we can do is try our best to stay on top of our game out here 💪

  • @brennanb4911
    @brennanb4911 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    This man deserves an Oscar, the guilty has spoken and had been speaking this whole time. Also keep up the great work guys.

    • @minecraftvvg4250
      @minecraftvvg4250 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think Jackson and low from playback deserve an Oscar

    • @dipset4016
      @dipset4016 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love his catchphrases though. "Don't forget your crown." Forget an Oscar, get this man a Nobel Prize in Literature.

    • @backoff8062
      @backoff8062 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yo Derrick big fan. I just wanted to get in touch with you, so I can learn how to finesse the hoes too. Big UPS my man, waiting for divorce number three and four

    • @garawa1987
      @garawa1987 ปีที่แล้ว

      Na the narcissist is just playing itself.

    • @jay_1212
      @jay_1212 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro Derrick is the literally a real life Tyler Perry villain.

  • @danielle6228
    @danielle6228 ปีที่แล้ว +524

    As someone who is studying to become a psychologist; do not give general advice and claim it to be the answer. There is a reason why we treat people individually. The treatment depends on the person, just like Preach said.
    Now there are situations where you can give some tips, but only if you state that these are tips which aren’t specific and that if they need more than generic they need individual help.
    Same goes for doctors treating patients. Everyone knows that eating fruits and vegetables is good for you and knows some generic things to do when you feel sick. When it gets more complicated, you call a doctor. Same thing

    • @joshuabritt5677
      @joshuabritt5677 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha. I've seen some dump ass psychologist using there degrees and station to give their own personal view points on to peoples lives. Believe no one and take no prisoners. Fuck psychologist.

    • @marloncebo242
      @marloncebo242 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I don't mean this in a bad way, but change your major. You can absolutely do it and get your degree, but I don't think I've ever met a happy phycologist ever. haha

    • @XOChristianaNicole
      @XOChristianaNicole ปีที่แล้ว

      Except vegetables aren’t good for you - or anyone, for that matter.
      Anti-nutrients, for starters - they are plants defense mechanisms (plants don’t wanna die, too); and they prevent nutrients from being properly absorbed.
      I mean, Hell.. Brussel sprouts have over 30 known carcinogens, for example.
      On average, about 70 people die from potato poisoning, a year. I didn’t even know potatoes with any sort of green on ‘em can be dangerous to consume - as improperly stored potatoes produce a poison called “Solanine.”
      If beans aren’t cooked fully - the lectins in ‘em can cause severe sickness.
      It’s dangerous to consume real raw almonds, as they have a toxin the body breaks down into cyanide (not the store-bought labeled “raw” - they still go through a pasteurization process; either with Propylene oxide, a carcinogen (good luck finding organic almonds. I am from an area that is one of the largest almond agricultures, in California - almost impossible to find organic, still), or with steam processing, which, destroys most of any potential nutrients [which, the phytic acid in almonds would prevent the absorption of such nutrients, anyways]).
      As well as the human GI tract is not designed to break down fiber, in the amount majority of people consume.
      Also, oxalates - which, are like little glass shards, which, build up in the body.
      Especially, in teas.
      I have had ‘em pushed out of my skin, before, while healing/fasting for severe liver disease.
      Legit felt like glass was pushing through my skin.
      I won’t even tell you how vegetables made me more sick - and just how gruesome what I went through was, personally - during my near decade tenure of being bedridden/housebound, due to GI/stomach complications.
      Though, my own person experience is beside the point - as everything else is applicable, to every living person.
      Nutrition With Judy is a great channel to check out.
      I am only taking the time to mention such, being you are studying psychology.
      Vegetables, legitimately, have the potential to cause depression, anxiety, mood disregulation, and so much more (and don’t even get me started on how awful vegetable/seed oils and corn all are) - yet, many medical professionals fail to consider such as contributing factors, to One’s psychological/mental health.
      I pray you find this information supportive.
      Best wishes, in your studies and endeavors.

    • @Quest1luv
      @Quest1luv ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@marloncebo242 I agree. Psychologists are greatly appreciated by many, but they also have an inherent bias, which can be harmful to themselves. They have a lot more belief and faith in specialists, and they subconsciously tend to shy away from good or common advice offered to them by people who aren't in their field. In other words, it's often hard for a psychologist to trust and adhere to the word of someone not in their field when they need the help that they offer to others. Hopefully, this is not the case for the OP, but it is something to keep in mind.

    • @thesovereign1893
      @thesovereign1893 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@Quest1luv The irony is that you're generalizing when her original comment was about not generalizing. That may be your subjective negative outlook on what the profession does to people, but that would always depend on the individual, and the only thing we know about her is that she is at least not as black and white about the world as you are.

  • @stevenprince9963
    @stevenprince9963 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I wonder how many "I told you so's" replaying in her head from the ppl who was looking out for her and told her to leave

  • @anthonymontes7454
    @anthonymontes7454 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    Your guys' Derrick Jaxn commentary needs its own separate weekly segment on this channel 🤣it's just too hilarious

    • @carleighrousseau4226
      @carleighrousseau4226 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      So fuckin great 🤣 play play

    • @dandaadnad529
      @dandaadnad529 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Honestly I was so happy when I saw the title...i missed some roasting if this fool 🤣

  • @Reshme77
    @Reshme77 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    My best wishes go to danaia
    She's damaged from being surrounded by manipulative bigots, including her jaxn.
    I hope she gets all the help she can.

    • @beewest5704
      @beewest5704 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes there is no medals in the Struggle Love Olympics.

    • @max2beuz
      @max2beuz ปีที่แล้ว

      THATLL teach her. Dumb bitch

    • @Reshme77
      @Reshme77 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@beewest5704 I hope she gets away from those toxic family members and church members she knows. Just like the duggers that poor lady has been brainwashed

    • @SMD2x
      @SMD2x ปีที่แล้ว +3

      At least someone feels bad for her because I don't, I'm fairly sure there were signs before it came out to the world and she sat there and stayed with him after talking all that shit and kicking her back in as he did it and she sat there with him in front of a camera and just kept nodding like a yes man knowing he ain't shit.

    • @Keviekev115
      @Keviekev115 ปีที่แล้ว

      She might be mental a lil

  • @lakendraburdette2247
    @lakendraburdette2247 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    The wife’s curse worked because who was talking ill about them and cursing their name was her husband. Now her husband is leaving her, her children will be raised in a broken home 🧐.

  • @lenamonee997
    @lenamonee997 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    What can you say….he was doing field work to gather the info necessary. 😂

    • @zeenkosis
      @zeenkosis ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Research 😂😂😂

    • @kendraheard1097
      @kendraheard1097 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      LMAO Good one

    • @rezzieggg
      @rezzieggg 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Was looking for this comment, lol

  • @fmcscarkenlife
    @fmcscarkenlife ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Prayers for his wife.

    • @Rachelllllll2024
      @Rachelllllll2024 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Nope. He showed her who he was. This is on her now. She shoulda walked away and expedited the healing process, but now it's double the trauma because of HER decision.

    • @Faminetheblack
      @Faminetheblack ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nah she's kind of Wilding

    • @letrice2892
      @letrice2892 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Rachelllllll2024 I agree and she made a video spewing some nonsense in regards to ppl talking about the situation smh she shouldve had that energy for her husband from the start not the internet

    • @thomasarnoldcoe6527
      @thomasarnoldcoe6527 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I still feel sad for her.
      Seems like she tried to hold it altogether, not realising the foundations of the marriage were broken.
      They needed to get out of this industry and never did.
      Posting curses and putting Jesus’s Name to it was a bad move, she’s not helped herself or anyone else, even if she felt better after.
      The whole thing is a tragedy, no one wins, we all lose.

    • @niccotalbert4378
      @niccotalbert4378 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah. I feel for their child. She's wishing death in the name of her god. I'm good.

  • @bungleboy7
    @bungleboy7 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Preachs immediate laugh after Derricks intro got me dead 💀💀💀💀

  • @lukasgordon2199
    @lukasgordon2199 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    15:19 Aba: “She out here casting spells wishing death on people”
    Preach “In the name of Jesus”
    😂😂😂😂😂 *reaches for inhaler*

    • @zeenkosis
      @zeenkosis ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Which bible 😂😂😂😂

  • @willardth
    @willardth ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She's so hurt she don't know what she doing. Praying she gets healing. It will take a few years

  • @ArsenalofMikeocracy
    @ArsenalofMikeocracy ปีที่แล้ว +129

    I had an ex that would start a fight with me every time after she watched one of this guy's videos.

    • @slaveofgod3481
      @slaveofgod3481 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dayyum... she must feel dumb now....

    • @Mizzmolf
      @Mizzmolf ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Imagine 😂😂🤦

    • @adeeltk
      @adeeltk ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Send her this video

    • @marlom7882
      @marlom7882 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Ahahahahahahahahahaha! Oh my lord the irony. You should be petty and send this shit to her

    • @Kroitk
      @Kroitk ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There's a reason that crazy bitch should be your ex. ANY female that gets off to watching "relationship gurus" and shit, and then starts ARGUMENTS about it is a sign she is UNSTABLE from the start--or at the very least your relationship has RED FLAGS. Crazy how I never had that issue, almost as if there are actually dudes out there like me who KNOW how to avoid crazy bitches and only find quality😂

  • @whatidoknow3417
    @whatidoknow3417 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    11:34 but everyone please remember ... "He's not a rapper"

  • @may8043
    @may8043 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The stuff Derrick Jaxn said about men who cheat was spot on. I realize now he is an expert at cheating, so it was all accurate.

  • @Bendilin
    @Bendilin ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Preach is 100% right; A good relationship guru needs to be a psychologist/therapist before they can even be any good at giving relationship advice.

    • @musical_lolu4811
      @musical_lolu4811 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Nope. See, the word 'relationship guru' is ironic in and of itself. There's theory or stats or 'guidelines', but then there's in-the-wild life experience. We're all fallible humans, and that includes 'certified' psychologists. I wouldn't want a certified person like Greg Mathos for instance giving me advice on anything really.

    • @kingcort8073
      @kingcort8073 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Only married Psychologist/therapist that have been with their spouse for at least 20-30 years..not having a baby momma y'all live with but y'all got married and still going ...only those folks I talk advice from ..the rest not much

    • @nnekemnsh
      @nnekemnsh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gottman.
      Esther Perel.

    • @rlj615
      @rlj615 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even with that I still wouldn't trust what they are said. You have skim listen to them through their answers. Just use common sense, you know what is right from wrong.

    • @omanamalgas7725
      @omanamalgas7725 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kingcort8073 fr

  • @latebluebird
    @latebluebird ปีที่แล้ว +5

    5:54 This guy is wearing a t-shirt that reads "Stretch Mark Lover" while giving advice to women..🤣🤣🤣 legend!.

    • @jewelmathieu9521
      @jewelmathieu9521 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right, most corny shirt I've ever seen 🤣

  • @Mr.CalCal
    @Mr.CalCal ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Ana and preach was rubbing they hand like birdman when they heard Derrick jaxn got caught again😂😂😂🤣

  • @MrMadu-rv6lr
    @MrMadu-rv6lr ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yo, the close up of his ex wife's face though. 😂😂😂 I feel bad for her, but that editing is funny storytelling.

  • @ComposedSage75
    @ComposedSage75 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Sad thing is how many men called this out and were called all manner of insults by folks online. Now that the cat’s out of the bag about him that he admitted *again* they see what those men were saying. Some folks will still be on his side tho.

    • @babyhoho6745
      @babyhoho6745 ปีที่แล้ว

      Folks aka delusional Women

    • @jhinthevirtuoso4886
      @jhinthevirtuoso4886 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Dank Waifu that's exactly what happens, the rules are broken for men like them.

    • @SoLoboo
      @SoLoboo ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Back when I was on facebook still years ago, me and my homie shared one of his videos and was clowning the bozo. One of this fanatics tagged him and then him and a whole wave of his worshippers came through defending his honor while I’m sure he got off to it all. Wonder where they are today with this news.

    • @AboveRubiesTV
      @AboveRubiesTV ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, his content wasn’t wrong. He just so happened to be a perpetrator of that very content. I always skipped over his videos because he wasn’t saying anything rocket science-very basic. Fast talking narc 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jhinthevirtuoso4886
      @jhinthevirtuoso4886 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@AboveRubiesTV he was wrong on many ocassions. he is selling lies that women want to hear, not what they need to hear to help them.

  • @Golflegend410
    @Golflegend410 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I just lost it when Preach started laughing right in the beginning when Derrick Jaxn introduced himself 😂

  • @gnjr4969
    @gnjr4969 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    … she out here casting spells wishing death on people… “in the name of Jesus”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 killed me

    • @joshuasterling2144
      @joshuasterling2144 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't let it kill you that's the point...lol

  • @carltonmanoxide6268
    @carltonmanoxide6268 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You guys are the Siskel & Ebert of modern society that we really needed 🔥

  • @milton7763
    @milton7763 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    8:54 Which Psalm was that again? The one that went:
    “What u say!?”

  • @justbelieveinyourself
    @justbelieveinyourself ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Why you take relationship advice from a person who cheats anyways?? It’s like getting your teeth cleaned from a dentist who has cavities

    • @VolumePerfection
      @VolumePerfection ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Because it takes one to know one 😂 that's why they do. They watch him because he knows what he's talking about since he cheats.

    • @Whoisit91
      @Whoisit91 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Your statement proves why people do it to begin. How would they know he’s cheating if it wasn’t public? Same as a dentist with cavities. If they didn’t tell you, how would you know? He made it believable for the money and women ate it up

    • @strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049
      @strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whew ain't this the truth

    • @maineman5757
      @maineman5757 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Maybe it's like those scared straight convicts telling the kids what not to do or else they'll end up like them lol

    • @daughterofzion778
      @daughterofzion778 ปีที่แล้ว

      People didn't know he was cheating at first until last year when it came out

  • @ericapaquette9624
    @ericapaquette9624 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Oh man the pettiness the text, reviewing the books and ZOOMING on his ex's face...🤭 😆 !!!!!! You Aba created a masterpiece.

  • @Kal.El1
    @Kal.El1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have far more respect for someone who screws up & owns up to it soon after. The ones who get caught out, then try & hide behind fake platitudes & scripted apologies are amongst the worst hypocrites.

  • @perrious4980
    @perrious4980 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    I really feel for the woman. Ain't nothing as ass as having to endure your heartbreak and betrayal in public. She's really talking like she's hurting. Wil'n'out here

    • @strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049
      @strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      She's so hurt and damaged she would rather wish death on everyone else but the person who actually hurt and damaged her. That's rough

    • @MarcusTheJR
      @MarcusTheJR ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Derrick Jaxn has 700k subscribers, women built him up. And now wanna act as if men wasn't telling yall for years about men

    • @cutiekitty1155
      @cutiekitty1155 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@MarcusTheJR what does that have to do with his wife he kept publicly humiliating?

    • @Moonshinexmoonshine
      @Moonshinexmoonshine ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@cutiekitty1155 from what I heard, he’s the one filling for divorce

    • @strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049
      @strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@cutiekitty1155 absolutely nothing. He just wanted to feel the glory of being right. I'm a woman and figured out he was full of chap when I was 17... 7 years ago. No man told me that it was clear as day

  • @RaizelSX
    @RaizelSX ปีที่แล้ว +77

    My guy wasn't even tossing rocks in a glass house he was summoning fire golems, with Gatling guns, in a dry forest, with methain leaks.
    And he still has followers! This is a movie plot twist that everyone saw coming but no one thought it would drop this season

    • @aurianaames7940
      @aurianaames7940 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😭😂😂😂

    • @christianbolisca1493
      @christianbolisca1493 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You know what and how but not when and why. That’s Derrick Jaxn’s infidelity summed up.

    • @DoomBot_616
      @DoomBot_616 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sounds like a bonus stage in DOOM Eternal, lol.

    • @chrisdawarlordtriggacollie
      @chrisdawarlordtriggacollie ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The way you said it 😂

  • @andremalcolm_studio
    @andremalcolm_studio ปีที่แล้ว +7

    8:35 tell Derrick to change that smoke detector battery.

    • @tkayeyeless3222
      @tkayeyeless3222 ปีที่แล้ว

      im mad asl you caught that😂😂

  • @ericw.1061
    @ericw.1061 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    These guys are the best reactors out there. We need more bars from Aba.

  • @stickmastergib3665
    @stickmastergib3665 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Interesting convo at the end there. Whether Aba was being ironic at 18:49 or not, that’s just facts. Relationships (ideally, marriages) function best when both the man and the woman have a solid relationship with God.
    A good friend once told me, “two halves don’t make a whole.” You put two broken people together and you get a dysfunctional marriage like Derrick Jaxn here. Like you said Aba, only God can know their hearts and what’s best for them.

    • @melindaroop1346
      @melindaroop1346 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No. Relationships function best when both parties are mature and have morals...don't need a relationship with God for that. Some of the worst marriages I've seen (always end in divorce because of infidelity) were couples that had "relationships with God".

    • @stickmastergib3665
      @stickmastergib3665 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@melindaroop1346 I don’t disagree with you there, maturity and morality are essential to a successful relationship. I would still argue that both parties having a relationship with God within their marriage serves to reinforce maturity and morality, not degrade it.
      Yet the people you’re describing were adulterous, which is neither mature or moral. I don’t know those folks as well as you do, but I would look no further than Mrs. Jaxn in this video. As you can see, someone can simultaneously invoke the name of Jesus and still say things that are completely unbiblical. A relationship with God is more evident in their behavior than in their words.

    • @ng4logic
      @ng4logic ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@melindaroop1346 that is true. These people act like they dont know how to behave if there was no god. It feels like they are only good people because they are afraid of the god, not because they actually are

  • @kane99560
    @kane99560 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    ABA petty AF and I am here for it 😅😅🤣😂😂
    edit: damn..the wife done lost her mind. She sound like she spitting some gypsy curse shit from the old world.....
    In the name of Jesus 😂😂🤣

    • @thomasarnoldcoe6527
      @thomasarnoldcoe6527 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I did the same thing.
      I posted how bad I felt for her, then got her cursing .
      It’s ironic, if she is cursing people, she would be wise to keep Jesus’s Name out her mouth.

    • @kane99560
      @kane99560 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@thomasarnoldcoe6527 seriously. I know this isnt all Christians but sometimes you see the way they living one moment and in the next spitting scriptures. Makes you look at them sideways. She knows her Bible but she knows how to curse people too, i know neither.

  • @michelleforte8669
    @michelleforte8669 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    As a black woman, I have seen maybe 2 videos of his, by the looks of him, I felt "something" bad about him. Then later his cheating scandal last year.
    I felt bad for his wife, but she should have placed her curses on her cheating husband. I hope she gets help.

    • @Keviekev115
      @Keviekev115 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah that curse made me lose all sympathy

    • @sodvine3486
      @sodvine3486 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I couldn't get what he was saying. And his ex wife needs help. He broke her down down. Using witchcraft now.

  • @daniellehunter5318
    @daniellehunter5318 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I can't but feel like Derrick has been trolling for this entire time 😂

    • @goyonman9655
      @goyonman9655 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣
      Interesting theory

    • @tinamoul
      @tinamoul ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah, don't give him an out, he is a scammer.

  • @juiuzgbt9289
    @juiuzgbt9289 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Derrick Jaxns book titles sound like his diaries 😂

  • @haddingtoniangcp2464
    @haddingtoniangcp2464 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    The editing in this is evil genius and I'm all here for it 😂😂😂😂

  • @F.R.A.N.K.I.E
    @F.R.A.N.K.I.E ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I lost it when Aba quoted Shakespeare and Preach said "is you quoting scripture too?" Preach is just naturally hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @terrinplez9391
    @terrinplez9391 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m glad to see that I am not the only one that has been binge watching Aba&Preach. Great commentary.

  • @imjusmoody180
    @imjusmoody180 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Aba been waiting for this day😭😭😭

  • @bamig8063
    @bamig8063 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    10:35 I love how Preaches laugh is exactly the same now as it was then

  • @Pandorians7Boxes
    @Pandorians7Boxes ปีที่แล้ว +15

    He wrote books?!?!? This the best editing! This video almost gave me back Christmas spirit. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @yanab4284
    @yanab4284 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I disagree about the divorce thing, sometimes it's better for people to separate, there's undesirable consequences to stay in a relationship when there's distrust, issues, personality conflict and layers in-between. It's like walking into street as soon as you get home, you don't even want to be there because it's so stressful. But I mean there's a lot of people with divorced parents who's issues and stuff you can relate with so, it's not the worst option

  • @Towjowmojo
    @Towjowmojo ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Preach is right. There’s just too many parameters in love and relationships. You have to know and understand all those parameters for certain to be able to call yourself a relationship expert, and that’s just not possible.

    • @letrice2892
      @letrice2892 ปีที่แล้ว

      at the end of the day all of these online dating gurus are simply in it for the money they will say what the ppl want to hear mean while they aren't a great example of what they speak of that's why ppl shouldn't idolize them .

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps ปีที่แล้ว +121

    This video is spot on 😂😂😂 the one thing that kills me about all these "self help gurus" and "life coaches" and people online who tend to be very preachy about how others should live their lives tend to not necessarily have their own sh*t together or worst case scenario they end up being scammers or hiding some skeletons in their closets 😂😂😂.
    And best believe we gon laugh when the truth comes out coz these kinds of people be mad hypocritical.

    • @Moonbaby001
      @Moonbaby001 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Apt. Including Kevin Samuel. I hope y’all know he falls into this category. Brown nose black men and then sell u his private coaching sessions. He ironically ended up dyint alone….the same way derrick ended up cheating.

    • @TheOnlyTaps
      @TheOnlyTaps ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Moonbaby001 Yeah. We all not perfect. We all make mistakes. We all human.
      That's why I hate the fact that people think there's always gonna be some sort of one size fits all answer to everything. Using social media to try and live up to everyone else's expectations or standards of living and what not.
      And all these dudes (and women included coz I'm sure there's also the equivalent on their side doing the same nonsense like with selling fit teas and all sorts of lifestyle things while getting surgery and all sorts) just be peddling the same nonsense.
      Everybody just gotta work on doing better however which way they choose I just hope they don't go down the path of these false prophets and snake oil salesmen.

    • @PassportGang
      @PassportGang ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Moonbaby001 Kevin didn’t lie to y’all not one time though.

    • @NoName-ug7rm
      @NoName-ug7rm ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PassportGang Nonetheless, the point is that many of these coaches are giving out advices for a lifestyle they are not living themselves. If you find some truth in their rhetorics, then that is fine but be careful to use them as an example on how you should live your life. Beyond the persona it is usually smoke and mirrors.

    • @misterbreezeoftharedpillma1710
      @misterbreezeoftharedpillma1710 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Moonbaby001 🤥🤡

  • @aegon_the_conquerer9563
    @aegon_the_conquerer9563 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    she out here casting spells in the name of jesus😂😂😂, that had me weak!

  • @user-eh5cr4or6k
    @user-eh5cr4or6k ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have a feeling the best part of this story is going to be when we hear about him crying about how she took half plus.

  • @Undeadhalfelf
    @Undeadhalfelf ปีที่แล้ว +17

    That feeling you described Aba, that feeling is the feeling a person with compassion has when they watch someone feed themselves rope then make the jump. It isn’t as satisfactory when you are still a decent human. It’s a good thing

  • @Lilpeach523
    @Lilpeach523 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I lost a friend for saying he wasn't authentic. Then she said no one is perfect after the first scandal. I blocked her; so I don't know how she feels now. But lawd.

    • @nw66990
      @nw66990 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s a goddamn idiot. Good riddance

    • @Chuck_EL
      @Chuck_EL ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sorry man but it's sad how obsessed grown adults are fixated on a bunch of social media influencers who can care less about them that they're willing to ruin relationships over them

  • @arogosinsky
    @arogosinsky ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I aspire to Aba's level of petty 😂😂

  • @controversialcommentswithmia
    @controversialcommentswithmia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I choked on piece of fish I was having for dinner from laughter it got out my nose
    Aba you are crazy 🤪 the black man don't cheat msg was iconic.

  • @mikemontgomery2654
    @mikemontgomery2654 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Did anybody else see this as the most predictable outcome for a person like this? Seriously? Who legitimately DIDN’T see something like this coming? It’s always these guys that catch a scandal.