We always get these weak ass arguments about how "sex and marriage arent comparable, youre being disingenous". You're right, Marriage is FAR MORE serious considering its a lifelong commitment. SO men wanting to wait for marriage makes far more sense then women wanting to wait for sex since marriage is such serious business. And yet derrick claims men dont have the right to ask a woman to wait for something so serious of a decision, but women should have the right to demand their partners to wait sex. Lol some of yall are making my point and you dont even realize it. Our original video got removed from FB & youtube so we decided to one large deep dive into the man himself. One big video coming out this week, look out for it around Thursday or friday!
I'm putting my comment here too and I hope you guys see it. The problem with what he says is that, he knows how to speak to the FEELINGS of the women he addresses. The fact that he does that gives him the ability to be inconsistent in his own words and unaccountable. Much like his audience. If they do what he said before and it goes bad. He can't be blamed. Because, what he said yesterday may not be what he would say today. The, "I'm still growing and learning" excuse. He's no teacher or coach for dating. Dating is based around feelings and feelings sway like leaves in the wind.
Aba & Preach I agree that at times Derrick Jaxn is fugazi.There’s a difference though between a woman wanting to save herself for marriage and a guy taking a decade to propose to a girl who’s been wanting to get married.
The waiting comment was not a contradiction, one was talking about sex, the other was talking marriage. I really don’t think there’s anything wrong with his message, but the messenger need to be dragged through the whole continent.
That happened to me in high school and the dude got friend zoned and screwed me out of some poon poon. I’m over it now but I was pissed cause she had a fatty
His wife waited how long for him to marry her. It wasn't until she got pregnant he married her to try and save his image. He's a joke like so many. Have several seats, sir.
@@jlupus8804 He was a so called Relationship Guru who was always giving advice to broken women(manipulation) saying all this Conscience mess like he was that Guy, portraying to be a Single Man and the whole time he was Married and having multiple extramarital affairs the entire time! He was a big Narcissistic Fraud
Aba and Preach’s commentary about reaching success at a later stage in life really lifted my spirits. I’m 28 and struggling to find my place in the world, but hearing these guys say that it’s okay to find success later in life made me feel much better.
I'm 31 and I only found my career at 28 after years of trying different things and getting nowhere in life... just now starting to move to a city where I can take that career seriously, didn't find a group of friends I actually felt were my family until I was 25 and didn't feel like I really fit with them properly until I was like 26/27.. still have so many things to achieve that people usually achieve young but that's what a late ADHD diagnosis will do for a person 😅 You'll find your path eventually, I promise, honestly mine was under my nose the whole time I just didn't think I could do it, took me that long just to convince myself I should try it!
You're exactly where you're supposed to be at this moment...long as you ain't out here following horrible advice like his you'll find your way...it's called YOUR way for a reason....keep doin ya thang
Keep searching. I've had multiple careers and i'm looking forward to learn and switch again and again. Its the beauty in life to never stop evolving! That is not weakness.
I just watched a video where he was talking about some chick that was playing games on Twitter because she posted a text trying to make the dude a jerk.
I ain't mad at Derrick... he's running his game. He's not a serious person he tells women what they want to hear and there's lots of money in that. Ask Steve Harvey...
@David Stephens Ask his studio employees in Chicago. He felt he could talk to them any kind of way cause he (at the time) was off to Hollywood, now Kelly Clarkson has his spot cause karma is a bitch.
I saw a quote on píntese that said, “You gotta be mature enough to understand that you have some toxic traits too. It’s not always the other person.” I feel like women need to realize they’re toxic traits as well.
@@Kal-El207 Here's our problem as men. So quick to jump & praise a woman whenever we see or hear something we like. How are you ready to throw out the term 'wifey material' & gas someone up? That's why average women are out here demanding high coz we're aiming low.
FelixMuk I said that in terms of her admitting to something that many women refuse to do. Also I said wifey “MATERIAL”. Not that she WAS wifey. Which means she has the “potential” to be one. Last thing my ass wants to do is gas up average chicks. But if we act like we average guys then obviously we gonna attract average women. It goes both ways. But I’m not giving my power over like that fam.
@@a100percentReal Even if your advice is that if he takes too long to marry you then you shouldn't waste your time? That said, some people claim he is married and technically he could still give advice anyway, it would just be hypocritical and inconsistent to give that advice but not have their partner follow it too... And if he didn't encourage them to do the same, that might show that he is selfish and possibly manipulative and maybe he's not the best guy to listen to... I'm talking hypothetically of course, I don't know much about this particular person... But yeah, that would be my reasoning... I dunno, I find it best not to take any one person too seriously. A lot of the time they won't be totally right about everything, just use them to provoke reflection and advance your understanding from multiple sources (and not just the ones you agree with). It's highly unlikely that one person will have all the answers.
@@KitsyX No I'm just saying. People seem to think that you can only give advice if you're successful. Or they'll only listen to successful peoples advice.
This is priceless. I'm here a year later, after this guy was exposed for being a fraud. But he's BEEN contradicting himself!! What a clown, and the women that followed him and purchased his book need to continue to seek wise counsel, maybe a little soul searching!! How did you not see he was on some straight bs?? Bc he was catering to your feelings??? Feeding your pride, taking the responsibility off of you?? He's transparent!!!! Periodt!
Team Jaxn here after the cheater has been exposed🤣🤣 Most Women really will go for anyone on the condition that he says the things they want to hear🤭🤭 The phrase "Men are attracted by what they see & Women are attracted by what they hear" Is soo True👀
And as a woman, it saddens me to know that soooo many women go for just about anything they hear, just based on the rhyming and play on words. This dude been giving y’all exactly what he’s about and became a millionaire from it. Wake the F up women and have your own mind! Don’t rely on no mortal man to direct your path!!
@Islam Islam I said what I meant! Don’t make assumptions that I’m going off the Bible or anything else for that matter, regarding this situation. You are totally taking “man being the head” out of context. This has nothing to do with that. This is about women having their own mind and thoughts on relationships, not going by what a man gets in his car and basically bash men about along with selling books about it.
He comes off as a narcissist, he will contradict anything he says in order to appeal to whoever gives him money or clout. At what point can one really say that someone isn't worthy to share their experiences on something that they personally experienced just because it proves them wrong or irrational on the basis that your following is smaller?
@@namekman01 It is not the exact definition, I was being descriptive his tendencies as shown in the video. But narcissists tend to have grand views of themselves to the point that calling them out on their wrong doing or hypocrisy can really make them upset due to their obsession with the personal/public image they draw of themselves - and that is ASSUMING that they actually decide to address the points that challenge them and not skirt it or avoid it all together. They may also tell lie after lie about themselves. Of course its not as simple as that, but I don't want to write a wall of text.
All those life coaches are sad, but this is the day and age where people can be so low or in such a bad situation without necessarily being their fault, Where they listen to people like Jaxn because they have no other advice to take.
Hahahaha Tabea I saw your comment then rewatched that moron in the video and started pissing myself laughing, I didn't notice while I was watching the video.. Also I just wanna say I like your parents, Tabea is a sexy name. Sorry can't complement you on that one, unless you made it up, that's all your parents coolness 😉
Why he always on his car? Cus he don't want his wife to hear him spit out all that hypocrisy while he turn around and do the exact opposite of what he preach.
Never heard about this guy but he sounds like one of those friendzoned sleazy “nice guy” dudes who tell women anything they want to hear just to get them in bed the moment she gets in to a fight with her man.
So the woman’s time and investment in the relationship isn’t a waste because the guy is lazy and unmotivated. Some people need the threat of loss and imminent pain to take action not every guy is decisive and confident
@@ThingsILikke What the actual fuck, getting some real fendom vibes from that comment, It works both ways, if he's not ready but you are, COMMUNICATE, dont give an ultimatum, thats just shallow as fuck morally. You are literally saying "Make a lifetime commitment to me within a reasonable time frame to MY liking or else"....if i were him i'd take the or else without a second thought, ultimately wasting BOTH our times, and effectively smacking that BS ultimatum back to sender, no return adress
@@DeathWish-DJ Ultimatums are a last resort, after prior attempts at communication have led nowhere. And if a woman gave you one and you said no marriage, then she got the answer she needed and you are fine with her moving on and seeing other people that have the same goal of marriage that she does. Looks like it would work perfectly. Not every girl is fine being in a dead end relationship with no marriage in sight. If she wanted that and you were stalling and giving her the run around, why does she owe it to you to waste her life on YOUR schedule? Sounds like you just want to avoid the pain of taking a risk on marriage.
@@ThingsILikke When marriage is more or less a disservice to men, its understandable why many of us would be hesitant, but if he's just giving you the run around you have the option to simply leave, No ultimatums needed. Ultimatums are ONLY effective when you have some sort of leverage over the other (such as a boss). In a relationship...not so much, thats why i said COMMUNICATE, try to ease his concerns if you're 100% for marriage and he's giving it LEGIT thought (not the run around guys, not all of us do it) Express yourself, try to understand from not only your point of view but also his. Everytime i hear marriage brought up, theres always IMMENSE pressure on the man to give HER the wedding SHE wants while he has little to NO say in the matter. Instead of being able to communicate this to the one he is giving thought about marriage, she slaps him with an ultimatum and or labelling him the bad guy, often times resulting in either 1 the guy giving in and settling into a marriage he was not yet ready for, which can bring about feelings of entrapment and eventually, loss of interest. While you may be ESSTATIC, the man would be suffering. Or he simply leaves and has his name tarnished in the process. Marriage in this day and age is solely FOR WOMEN. That being said, work on communication and stop fucking around with guys that give you the "ohhh i just need more time" without ever expressing a single concern. If a guy is giving it serious consideration, he will express these concerns to you when you bring up the topic of marriage.
@@DeathWish-DJ Dude, are you not aware that traditionally the woman's dad pays for the wedding? My dad even paid for my sisters AND my brother's weddings. And I do not have this problem of wasting time with guys at all. I have known several people that were in relationships like this and the woman was through with the guy wasting her time and she said "If you have dated me for two years and have no interest in marrying me, then I do not think you want to marry me, bye bye." A girl does not need to wait around for a guy thats bringing her down and getting on her nerves and costing her time and energy that she would better use making money, building her career and friendships, starting a family. Some girls are fine with indecisive and scared men, but some of us take a lot of decisive action and take risk because we know life is short. Don't need to waste your patience, you are not supposed to count on someone changing you need to take people as they come. A lot of women have shitty husbands and now that women make more money they do not need to settle or seek a man as an escape from a bad home life.
I got with my girl when we was 16 Ish as well. We got married after 11 years and we were grown up enough and financially stable. We going on 21 years now together. Good show again boys.
Same! I still feel like I’m not ready after 23 yrs together and 12 years of marriage!!! But when your ready no matter the time frame that’s what you should do!!
Wife friends and boss was oh it's been 4 years and she fell for that I had to let her know they aren't in this with us so let's take our time, now were going in on 13 . Marriage is a journey not a show for your friends just to say I'm Mrs
He's wrong in some things but he's right on some things too. He branded himself wrong. His brand should've been: "I'm trash so I can tell you all about other trash men".
Eternity With Christ I do know some....which is what adds MORE truth to what I said...some are getting taking advantage of BECAUSE they’re vulnerable and hearing what they wanna hear from who ever is taken advantage of them....o yea btw speaking of wicked men isn’t this guy one of them??? Fake #prophetsForProfit ass niggaz
Wow I needed this! Society is always telling us to do this or that but doesn't take into account everyone's journey is different. You are right where you need to be.
That's true but I'm not waiting 11+ yrs for a dude to want only me. I low key knew my bae's the one when we broke up & started talking *HELLA SHIT* about each other to EVERY1! we met up to talk still PISSED at each other. We yelled, said "fuck u!I'm done, don't call me anymore" i swung on him & cried. Somehow By the end of the argument We got back together & was sitting in my car laughing hard AF at what we said about each other *No lie,That shit was HILARIOUS we WENT IN on each other. I have big teeth. I don't remember exactly what he said about my teeth, all I remember is it was funny AF! & I couldnt breath 😂& I remember thinking "I cant see my life with out you* we both made it clear the future holds marriage, kids, success & a happy comfortable lit life with noone but each other..PERIOD *NEVER* rush & push things but it don't take 11+ yrs to know if u want someone
Basically, noone should waste anyone's time. If he taking "too long" to propose, then leave. If waiting with her for sex until marriage is too long, then leave. Everyone can and should leave when they're not happy.
Exactly. I mean 9 times out of ten waiting that long won't get you anywhere, it is common sense. There will always be a possible exception to the rule. He isn't making up everything he says. Most of it we already know if we keep it real with ourselves.
Too long is an opinion. What your saying is your opinion. You are becoming controlling and dictating of the relationship by commanding when is too long.
@@Sing4mekier You know when too long is too long for YOU. Women are generally more concerned for the other person, and pleasing them instead knowing themselves, and allowing someone of the same mindset to be in their spaces.
I met my ex husband at 16. We had our first child at 17. Had our 2nd child at 22. Still waited to get married until I was 23. Had our 3rd child at 25. We separated when I was 32. Waiting or not waiting doesn’t mean it’s going to last. The 2 people involved are what makes it lasts.
I agree. I have many people around me who dated three to six months before marriage and they're happily married 30 years. I've seen people who dated 10- 15 years and their marriage couldn't last two years. I believe that you can know what you want within the first few months/ years of the relationship but ultimately it still takes two people to make it work.
@@angwamgmail well it depends why they married... often people who were in long relationship marry because they hope they can add new air to their relationship (bad reason to marry someone, look Miley Cyrus)
@@x_VineM_x well... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I mean they often have not time to see each other, are constantly around other pretty and maybe very interesting people , often don't clearly have rules about what is ok or not in their relationship, their work environment is about the now and not about the future, too much money and too many possibilities in which directions their lifes could go, work over family, everyone looks at any step you make, everyone is looking for you to say something stupid, judging your appearance, judging your partner, judging the way you live. Is it really that difficult to understand why this relationships often don't work? I don't think so... It's sad somehow
Brooke Wills If you know what you want then it takes a year at the most to determine if a person is what you want! Dating for years means you don’t know what you want, you’re dating before your ready to get married or you know you don’t want to get married but like dating. For the marriage to work people have to really mean it when they say “for better or worse; for richer or poorer; till death do us part!
I agree. I like the fact that they didn't let outside forces rush them into a lifetime commitment. I never understood the whole timestamp on certain things.
@@EleashaD True. After a string of bad relationships, and an 8 year hiatus from romantic relationships in general, I finally tied the knot at 38. I have no regrets. Even though I had to endure some pretty ignorant and asinine comments along the way.😏
So true, my story is pretty much the same. We been together for 30! years (lord) and married for 13. Met when I was 16 and he was 18. We both needed growth. We are happier now than before, 10 years in when people were pressuring us to marry, I (a woman) surely was not ready.
Its funny because theres men on TH-cam that say things we dont want to here that actually helps US (women) and his fan base cant tell. I used to follow him until he was 4 videos in he was just lying his ass off.
"Isn't it possible that the reason why women want to pay for things Is so she feels like she doesn't owe you anything" YASSSSSSS I FELT THAT ON AN ATOMIC LEVEL!!!! FaCtSssssS
I can’t stand all these pretty boy pseudo relationship gurus. A lot of these women only listen to them because they’re attractive. They can say any fluff. No thanks! I’m good bruh!! ✌🏾
I’m definitely realizing that everyone is unique and has really specific things going on in their relationship - there’s no one size fits all glove for relationships. Most people give you advice from their own relationships. Even if people make good decision for themselves and are smart with their own relationships it doesn’t necessarily make it the right decision for you. You can take all the advice you can’t, but one person isn’t gonna have the ultimate knowledge for everyone. At the end of the day we have to decide what’s right for ourselves.
Lol my relationship is like Preach's. I've been with my fiance for 15 years and he just proposed. We're getting married in October 2020, our sixteenth year together. He wasn't ready even though I was since we were twenty four. The only thing I asked after like 6 years together was if he planned on marriage. I don't really care about marriage, the only thing I want is kids. He doesn't want to have kids unless he's married. So I had to know if we wanted the same things in life or it wouldn't work. But after he said he wants to get married to me someday and have kids, I was good. My family told me top give him ultimatums that if he doesn't marry me soon then I'm going to leave. I told them there's no way in hell I'm doing that. That just leads to resentment or a break up. And i want him to marry me because he wants to not because he was forced to. I never hounded him about it or ask about it. And last year he took me to Greece and proposed in Santorini. And it was the best because I completely did not expect it. I was so blind sided and could believe it. Now we're both ready and having fun planning our wedding. So It worked out for us
Congratsss! I wish yall much love and longevity. I love your comment so much because there was amazing balance. Yall lined up and nothing was rushed. After years of being together, yall got an understanding of what was wanted. There weren't "idk's" for 20 years. It was established and then worked towards. I hope to have something like that.
If a dude really loves you he ain't gonna let you come out the house or be on social media looking any old kinda way...0:53 I'm still trying to understand why he let his wife come on his cheating video looking like that?
To me, that outfit just screamed "I'm done" from her. Maybe Jaxn did ask her to change. I'm sure all she had to do was look at him and he decided to back off. He needs to be grovelling to her, not the internet.
His advice of going out with single friends and taking pictures with random men is literally... LTERALLY what goes wrong in every movie plot with these situations EVER...
The same reason other youtubers typically use the same background. Like these guys for instance... they always film in this room with that background. Nothing wrong with it, just what they want to do. PS, he’s not driving lol.
For real? And Steve Harvey is on his 3rd marriage? Why do women listen to men like this? Any body who says everything you agree with is feeding you sweet poison.
Exact reason why I never feed in to what Derrick says, he’s either talking down to his own people to appeal to weak minded emotional people or playing off societal stereotypes to make a point. #WhoAreYouTalkingTo
As a woman I can say that it equally feels good for us when we can spoil our men the same way they spoil us, it brings me personally just as much pleasure giving my man of ten years a gift that he’s really been wanting as it brings him to spoil me as well. It also feels good knowing that I am financially contributing to our household, it feels like OUR home instead of HIS home that I’m living in rent free.
Yes it does feel good. My grandmother contributed 50/50, my mum did the same. Actually my mum bought our holiday house but share ownership with my dad. I can't think otherwise than to contribute 50/50 with my husband.
When Aba pulled the age 28 out i almost choked. I am now 28 and just starting college, because I wasn't mentally healthy or prepared for it. Coincidences are funny.
I started college at 27 and I feel like my timeline was perfect for me in my situation. Don't ever feel like you're behind based on the timing that makes sense for other people. ❤
@@ishy5336 facts. He is just making good money off of these ignorant single mother's...can't be mad at him..we all would've done it...he just beat us too it. Lol
Juanita Michelle I never really watched his videos but I knew that he was obsessive about getting them done. He did a few things I thought were a bit gay and it turned me off and I stopped communicating with him.
GOT em lmao. Im glad to see that theres some INTELLIGENT women in this world, who arent fooled or impressed by stupid BS like that. That man tries to pretend to be YODA, just so he can get on your SOFA lol.
The reason why Derrick Jaxn is contradicting himself is that he knows his audience too well. And unfortunately caters to them. I think deep down he knows that. He says some thoughtful things though.
But... These "thoughtful things" are not complicated or deep whatsoever. I'm 41 now and there's NOTHING he's ever said that I didn't already say or think when I was 16 and 17. However, by 18 I already realized how un-unique those things were. How did I realize that? Because every other one of my peers knew and said the same shit. Some of them even tried to present it in this Derrick Jaxn front. And they were always called out on it. We called it, "surface level intelligence". You barely break the surface but yet you try and tread in the deep. Niggas end up drowning. That's why Derrick ain't said nothing new. Saying that what he saays is thoughtful is really nothing. Hallmark cards are thoughtful.
@@commentcopbadge6665 that's great for you man. Unfortunately you did not create a TH-cam channel to profit off of the knowledge you have. I get what you mean but it veers too close to hating. For me, I thought he said some thoughtful things. Might just be you know way more than I do in that department.
@@sabin97 no, like this one, it's funny and kind of spot on about the way people behave. I liked it a long time ago. th-cam.com/video/gMnsu0kjEBY/w-d-xo.html
@@millionshadesofdarkness2165 I used to watch him sometimes when I was young, dumb, with no experience with women. Now, I still have no experience, but I'm way more emotionally intelligent than I was, and it's easy to see how manipulative he is.
Funny. When a guy waits 10 years for the love of his life, then it's seen as a fairytale romance that inspires books and movies. When a woman waits, it's not love.
I'm all for waiting and taking it seriously and all that, but in general a man has significantly more time to wait, a woman has her biology and societal pressure working against her, so even if she waited for her 'true love', the end result is far more prosaic, it's too late too soon.
If you can't wait then you're always free to leave. If we pressure women into having sex then we're assholes. But when we ask you to wait longer for something infinitely more serious, we get made out as the bad guys. "You" meaning women generally.
Scrapy G yeah it’s definitely tough making the decision to leave when you really care about someone, but ultimately if you want different things you have to make the call. I get what you’re saying about guys wanting to wait longer about making the right decision, but I also think women get attached way faster and make their mind up about people quicker. It seems like that. As far as the sex.. I get that too but as far as my experience goes it’s better to wait if you want to send the signal to the guy that you’re looking for something more serious. Even though I might wanna do it too, haha. But you have to give up something more pleasing in the short term for a better future in the long run with that person.
You mean he speaks down on black men and panders to a group that consists of unattractive to average looking black women for money. Women who are fans of his are sexually attracted to him. Point blank, done and done..
I used to be petty in my 20s. Then I fell in love with my now husband. As soon as I found that unexpected happiness being petty went out the window. When you know how good being so happy is you never want to waste another second feeling any other kind of way.
Not doubting you, but I hope most learn that before they meet Mister right, because if you are petty he might just walk away. Glad you found yours tho :)
So what do you do? leave the man who treats you well and is not ready for a new man who may not treat you well but will marry you bc he doesn't value the institution? I have a friend who has been divorced three times and engaged several other times. He cheats on every woman he's with. If you get tired of waiting on your man, he'll marry your ass.
@@mr_knowitall and if he is not ready for 20 years? We're grown. No, you don't just up and leave someone who is great for you to be with any random. But if he is that great, he should also realize what he is forcing the woman to miss out on. She can be his girlfriend forever. Or she can jump back out there to find her husband. The conversation is so funny because whenever women don't wait and go ahead and start their family with a man who is not her husband, anything that goes wrong is now her fault. "She should have found a husband first." "She knew he couldn't commit, why did she have children with him?" A man who is not willing to commit, but is willing to do married things with a woman is not a good man however he may seems. If he doesn't believe in the institution of marriage then it should be no big deal to get a license and go to the court house. And if he is purely afraid of commitment, that is something he can work on while she is out there finding someone who is not.
Yeah, but he was 16 that's young it makes sense that he waited awhile. When your older you tend to have narrowed down where you want to be, so it's easier to bring someone into your life.
@@CARTOONIVERSE1 facts marrying the first isnt something special or anything, though its rare, for some it takes the first relationship for most further, its the same for all make sure she a real one, and you ready to settle down
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We always get these weak ass arguments about how "sex and marriage arent comparable, youre being disingenous". You're right, Marriage is FAR MORE serious considering its a lifelong commitment. SO men wanting to wait for marriage makes far more sense then women wanting to wait for sex since marriage is such serious business. And yet derrick claims men dont have the right to ask a woman to wait for something so serious of a decision, but women should have the right to demand their partners to wait sex. Lol some of yall are making my point and you dont even realize it.
Our original video got removed from FB & youtube so we decided to one large deep dive into the man himself. One big video coming out this week, look out for it around Thursday or friday!
I'm putting my comment here too and I hope you guys see it. The problem with what he says is that, he knows how to speak to the FEELINGS of the women he addresses. The fact that he does that gives him the ability to be inconsistent in his own words and unaccountable. Much like his audience. If they do what he said before and it goes bad. He can't be blamed. Because, what he said yesterday may not be what he would say today. The, "I'm still growing and learning" excuse. He's no teacher or coach for dating. Dating is based around feelings and feelings sway like leaves in the wind.
Why would it be removed, though??? Did his petty female clients flag it???
Aba & Preach I agree that at times Derrick Jaxn is fugazi.There’s a difference though between a woman wanting to save herself for marriage and a guy taking a decade to propose to a girl who’s been wanting to get married.
@ShalakumX Simba exactly. I read that wrong at first. The issue with Jaxn is that, you know that's exactly what he would do.
Wait what happened with the video of Aba and his cousin, I wanted to rewatch and I'm not finding it...
I went to high school with Derrick... I find it ironic that he’s now a dating coach... he was a “player/eff boy” back in the day.
thatlovegirl12 sounds about right
For Real ? I'm shook ! But he still single and have a baby mama on the side.
Really?!? Do tell🤔
That was always the vibe I got from him...a play boy...around here playing with women's emotions.
@@ruthgibson8386 yep. That's when I unfollowed him. Total hypocrisy.
Just sounds like he’s good at telling a woman what they wanna hear.
Yup! Pretty much
It works wonders!
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Yep forever doing that
Y'all got the man arguing with himself?! 😂 😂 😭
Hes arguing for you tho because he loves the queens lol
@@HeatGoesOn first off I don't like Derrick Jaxn. He pander to women and contradicts himself too much. Go watch Ryan Davis and how he roasted him.
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@@StaticShockNene oh damn lemme look that up
@@StaticShockNene oood damn let me get on that real quick
This aged so well to the point that he argued with himself in 3rd person 🤣
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The waiting comment was not a contradiction, one was talking about sex, the other was talking marriage. I really don’t think there’s anything wrong with his message, but the messenger need to be dragged through the whole continent.
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Returning to the scene of the crime 🔍
HILARIOUS! LMFAO! Yeah, Derrick was talkin' all that good sh*t in the front of the house, meanwhile in the back...G*DDAMN!
He’s legit the type of guy when you leave your girl for a second, he swoops in and tries telling all the bad things about you and try’s to pick up.
That happened to me in high school and the dude got friend zoned and screwed me out of some poon poon. I’m over it now but I was pissed cause she had a fatty
Like my post, Derrick wants the cheeks.
Jorge Estrada you stupid bro 😂😂. She had a fatty 😂😂. The lingo these days get me laughing
🤣💀 Dirty Mackin’ at it’s finest!!
Jorge Estrada so did she screw with the dude and friend zone him, or did she not screw with him and friend zone him? I’m confused
His wife waited how long for him to marry her. It wasn't until she got pregnant he married her to try and save his image. He's a joke like so many. Have several seats, sir.
Several seats 🤣😂
Right they been together since high school
scrubby
In several rows
🤣🤣🤣🤣🙄 Exactly 🚶🏽♀️🚶🏽♀️
Y'all basically exposed him long before shit hit the fan today
Yep, they been seen through the bullshit!
@@cassandra2994 Exactly
That part!
I just knew this guy existed today, what happened?
@@jlupus8804 He was a so called Relationship Guru who was always giving advice to broken women(manipulation) saying all this Conscience mess like he was that Guy, portraying to be a Single Man and the whole time he was Married and having multiple extramarital affairs the entire time! He was a big Narcissistic Fraud
Telling women what they want to hear is a billion dollar industry. These the type of dudes that become preachers.
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😩 we are vulnerable
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Two bit sermonizing
After you beat every simp in the world, you have to face him as the final boss
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Goddamn hahahahahaha
Video: *starts playing*
Aba and Preach life OST: *Giorno’s Theme intensifies*
Lol best reply
Que the mortal kombat intro "Fight"
He’s the master finesser of lonely single black women.
Grown body but teenage like mind girls lol
🤣🤣🤣 I agree with @lynay Dirden
Nailed it!!
He's a good looking black dude who knows he only has to tell them what they want to hear:
a) "It's not your fault"
b) "your shit don't stank"
Facts 💯
“If you have to wait for him to be husband ready for 10 years it ain’t worth it”
Derrick Jaxn wife waited 12 years and counting 😩
And look how that worked out for her.
@@leonidas0242 I feel for her.
It’s crazy huh!!! He just seem to like the sound of his voice!!!!!!
His wife should take his advice
@@AngellMessiah she should take the his 1st & 3rd person advice.
Aba and Preach’s commentary about reaching success at a later stage in life really lifted my spirits. I’m 28 and struggling to find my place in the world, but hearing these guys say that it’s okay to find success later in life made me feel much better.
I'm 27 and I have no clue what I'm doing lol. They're comment AND yours really lifted my spirit, because I see that I'm not the only one. Thanks!
I'm 31 and I only found my career at 28 after years of trying different things and getting nowhere in life... just now starting to move to a city where I can take that career seriously, didn't find a group of friends I actually felt were my family until I was 25 and didn't feel like I really fit with them properly until I was like 26/27.. still have so many things to achieve that people usually achieve young but that's what a late ADHD diagnosis will do for a person 😅
You'll find your path eventually, I promise, honestly mine was under my nose the whole time I just didn't think I could do it, took me that long just to convince myself I should try it!
You're exactly where you're supposed to be at this moment...long as you ain't out here following horrible advice like his you'll find your way...it's called YOUR way for a reason....keep doin ya thang
@Omara Oliver You're right, Mrs. Troll. Thanks a million!
Keep searching. I've had multiple careers and i'm looking forward to learn and switch again and again. Its the beauty in life to never stop evolving! That is not weakness.
Derrick doesn’t hold women accountable he holds men accountable and that’s why women love him
Nylis Robinson facts
These are facts sir...I've been saying that for the longest...there is no balance in what he says it's all one sided.
Darkell White feel me
I just watched a video where he was talking about some chick that was playing games on Twitter because she posted a text trying to make the dude a jerk.
Caramel Kisses
That one situation doesn’t nullify the other 99% of bs he’s spread
I ain't mad at Derrick... he's running his game. He's not a serious person he tells women what they want to hear and there's lots of money in that. Ask Steve Harvey...
Fax
True true
I mean, you're not wrong 🤣
Benaiah Wright faxxxx 📠
@David Stephens Ask his studio employees in Chicago. He felt he could talk to them any kind of way cause he (at the time) was off to Hollywood, now Kelly Clarkson has his spot cause karma is a bitch.
Well this aged well 🤣 Thank you TH-cam Algorithm
Yes!
That's what I was thinking like look at youtube😄
Yass
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If I could only put this into a bottle, this has aged like a fine wine.
I saw a quote on píntese that said, “You gotta be mature enough to understand that you have some toxic traits too. It’s not always the other person.” I feel like women need to realize they’re toxic traits as well.
Preach.....most wemen never wanna acknowledge toxic feminine traits
Damn. You’re wifey material talking like that. That’s real talk girl.
@@Kal-El207 Here's our problem as men. So quick to jump & praise a woman whenever we see or hear something we like.
How are you ready to throw out the term 'wifey material' & gas someone up? That's why average women are out here demanding high coz we're aiming low.
FelixMuk I said that in terms of her admitting to something that many women refuse to do. Also I said wifey “MATERIAL”. Not that she WAS wifey. Which means she has the “potential” to be one. Last thing my ass wants to do is gas up average chicks. But if we act like we average guys then obviously we gonna attract average women. It goes both ways. But I’m not giving my power over like that fam.
Yup. Hard pill to swallow
Damn I didn't know Gemini man came out already.
A masterpiece comment.
QbrotherSoulStar
LMFAOAOOAOAAO!!!!!
Lmaoooo you win!
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Context
Why are women listening to a dude that hasn't married a woman yet?
Js.
Because he's basically a female himself. Women listen to other women who have never been married too.
@@phoenix9999 nope. Only a baby mama
You don't have to be married 2 give advice.
@@a100percentReal Even if your advice is that if he takes too long to marry you then you shouldn't waste your time?
That said, some people claim he is married and technically he could still give advice anyway, it would just be hypocritical and inconsistent to give that advice but not have their partner follow it too... And if he didn't encourage them to do the same, that might show that he is selfish and possibly manipulative and maybe he's not the best guy to listen to...
I'm talking hypothetically of course, I don't know much about this particular person... But yeah, that would be my reasoning... I dunno, I find it best not to take any one person too seriously. A lot of the time they won't be totally right about everything, just use them to provoke reflection and advance your understanding from multiple sources (and not just the ones you agree with).
It's highly unlikely that one person will have all the answers.
@@KitsyX No I'm just saying. People seem to think that you can only give advice if you're successful. Or they'll only listen to successful peoples advice.
This is priceless. I'm here a year later, after this guy was exposed for being a fraud. But he's BEEN contradicting himself!! What a clown, and the women that followed him and purchased his book need to continue to seek wise counsel, maybe a little soul searching!! How did you not see he was on some straight bs?? Bc he was catering to your feelings??? Feeding your pride, taking the responsibility off of you??
He's transparent!!!! Periodt!
#whenthemaskfalls
Team Jaxn was hannin 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Team Jaxn here after the cheater has been exposed🤣🤣
Most Women really will go for anyone on the condition that he says the things they want to hear🤭🤭
The phrase
"Men are attracted by what they see &
Women are attracted by what they hear"
Is soo True👀
And as a woman, it saddens me to know that soooo many women go for just about anything they hear, just based on the rhyming and play on words. This dude been giving y’all exactly what he’s about and became a millionaire from it. Wake the F up women and have your own mind! Don’t rely on no mortal man to direct your path!!
@Islam Islam I said what I meant! Don’t make assumptions that I’m going off the Bible or anything else for that matter, regarding this situation. You are totally taking “man being the head” out of context. This has nothing to do with that. This is about women having their own mind and thoughts on relationships, not going by what a man gets in his car and basically bash men about along with selling books about it.
He comes off as a narcissist, he will contradict anything he says in order to appeal to whoever gives him money or clout. At what point can one really say that someone isn't worthy to share their experiences on something that they personally experienced just because it proves them wrong or irrational on the basis that your following is smaller?
Narcissist, thats the word... i thought it was sociopathic myself.... Then again hes probably bi polar (half narc half soc 🤣🤣)
The knowledge guru advice dealing in absolutes over a tweet is so played out...
i dont think thats what narcissist means tho
@@namekman01 It is not the exact definition, I was being descriptive his tendencies as shown in the video. But narcissists tend to have grand views of themselves to the point that calling them out on their wrong doing or hypocrisy can really make them upset due to their obsession with the personal/public image they draw of themselves - and that is ASSUMING that they actually decide to address the points that challenge them and not skirt it or avoid it all together. They may also tell lie after lie about themselves. Of course its not as simple as that, but I don't want to write a wall of text.
All those life coaches are sad, but this is the day and age where people can be so low or in such a bad situation without necessarily being their fault,
Where they listen to people like Jaxn because they have no other advice to take.
waiter: how would u like your steak?
jaxn: you see there’s two types of steaks ...
This is a bullet wound
Yall killing me
Jaxn: you see there's 2 types of steaks--
Big Worm: Boy what the f*ck you want?!
Nigga!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Stephen A: youre wrong and heres why
When Preach said: "You have to unlearn certain things that was givin by your parents"... Yup i felt that
To learn, you must unlearn.
Wise words from Yoda.
Penelope416 You from Toronto?
@@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue No. Never been there.
YEEESSS 🗣
Hahahaha Tabea I saw your comment then rewatched that moron in the video and started pissing myself laughing, I didn't notice while I was watching the video..
Also I just wanna say I like your parents, Tabea is a sexy name. Sorry can't complement you on that one, unless you made it up, that's all your parents coolness 😉
Why he always on his car? Cus he don't want his wife to hear him spit out all that hypocrisy while he turn around and do the exact opposite of what he preach.
Bruv, I always wondered about that
Some of the videos he did were in front of his mistress' home.
This is such an intelligent, humorous, and witty way to allow him to expose himself.... Ive never been a fan of his either.
Nice to hear that queen
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Society needs more women like you, honey 🌟
that's not a queen 🤦
Cedrick Tidwell and your mother isn’t either son 😕🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Never heard about this guy but he sounds like one of those friendzoned sleazy “nice guy” dudes who tell women anything they want to hear just to get them in bed the moment she gets in to a fight with her man.
That's him that's the guy!😝😝😝😝😝
He gets in the bed with her but they have separate blankets lmao.
LifeNplay
Wow great observation!!!
Even someone who never watched him before can read him in seconds lol. Crazy!!!
Hammer. Nail. Head.
Consider yourself lucky that this is your first time..
I have NEVER understood how some women would actually be fine with getting proposed to because of an ultimatum. Why would you ever want that???
So the woman’s time and investment in the relationship isn’t a waste because the guy is lazy and unmotivated. Some people need the threat of loss and imminent pain to take action not every guy is decisive and confident
@@ThingsILikke What the actual fuck, getting some real fendom vibes from that comment, It works both ways, if he's not ready but you are, COMMUNICATE, dont give an ultimatum, thats just shallow as fuck morally. You are literally saying "Make a lifetime commitment to me within a reasonable time frame to MY liking or else"....if i were him i'd take the or else without a second thought, ultimately wasting BOTH our times, and effectively smacking that BS ultimatum back to sender, no return adress
@@DeathWish-DJ Ultimatums are a last resort, after prior attempts at communication have led nowhere. And if a woman gave you one and you said no marriage, then she got the answer she needed and you are fine with her moving on and seeing other people that have the same goal of marriage that she does. Looks like it would work perfectly. Not every girl is fine being in a dead end relationship with no marriage in sight. If she wanted that and you were stalling and giving her the run around, why does she owe it to you to waste her life on YOUR schedule? Sounds like you just want to avoid the pain of taking a risk on marriage.
@@ThingsILikke When marriage is more or less a disservice to men, its understandable why many of us would be hesitant, but if he's just giving you the run around you have the option to simply leave, No ultimatums needed. Ultimatums are ONLY effective when you have some sort of leverage over the other (such as a boss). In a relationship...not so much, thats why i said COMMUNICATE, try to ease his concerns if you're 100% for marriage and he's giving it LEGIT thought (not the run around guys, not all of us do it) Express yourself, try to understand from not only your point of view but also his. Everytime i hear marriage brought up, theres always IMMENSE pressure on the man to give HER the wedding SHE wants while he has little to NO say in the matter. Instead of being able to communicate this to the one he is giving thought about marriage, she slaps him with an ultimatum and or labelling him the bad guy, often times resulting in either 1 the guy giving in and settling into a marriage he was not yet ready for, which can bring about feelings of entrapment and eventually, loss of interest. While you may be ESSTATIC, the man would be suffering. Or he simply leaves and has his name tarnished in the process. Marriage in this day and age is solely FOR WOMEN. That being said, work on communication and stop fucking around with guys that give you the "ohhh i just need more time" without ever expressing a single concern. If a guy is giving it serious consideration, he will express these concerns to you when you bring up the topic of marriage.
@@DeathWish-DJ Dude, are you not aware that traditionally the woman's dad pays for the wedding? My dad even paid for my sisters AND my brother's weddings. And I do not have this problem of wasting time with guys at all. I have known several people that were in relationships like this and the woman was through with the guy wasting her time and she said "If you have dated me for two years and have no interest in marrying me, then I do not think you want to marry me, bye bye." A girl does not need to wait around for a guy thats bringing her down and getting on her nerves and costing her time and energy that she would better use making money, building her career and friendships, starting a family. Some girls are fine with indecisive and scared men, but some of us take a lot of decisive action and take risk because we know life is short. Don't need to waste your patience, you are not supposed to count on someone changing you need to take people as they come. A lot of women have shitty husbands and now that women make more money they do not need to settle or seek a man as an escape from a bad home life.
But he waited for 12 years before he married on her meanwhile cheating on her
He’s a joke 🤦🏾♂️
He literally was talking about HIMSELF all this 10yrs!!😂
He is pandering, but he definitely is familiar with the group he is manipulating..
100%
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To sell his book and card games
GonePostal 28 heavy white women
@@jcnot9712 naw nigga fat ass black single mothers
I got with my girl when we was 16 Ish as well. We got married after 11 years and we were grown up enough and financially stable. We going on 21 years now together.
Good show again boys.
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Yes, take your time
Same! I still feel like I’m not ready after 23 yrs together and 12 years of marriage!!! But when your ready no matter the time frame that’s what you should do!!
Wife friends and boss was oh it's been 4 years and she fell for that I had to let her know they aren't in this with us so let's take our time, now were going in on 13 . Marriage is a journey not a show for your friends just to say I'm Mrs
@RachLyna *FACTS BOO!!*
"Nobody has seen his legs" 😂🤣😂🤣😂
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🤣😂😂 bruh
Domere Taylor NOBODY ☠️
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He's wrong in some things but he's right on some things too. He branded himself wrong. His brand should've been: "I'm trash so I can tell you all about other trash men".
Lol, that's how I saw him before this story broke tbh. That's the vibe I always for from him!!!!!!
I agree.
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@@christinac6238 saaaamme. Ppl need to stop using so much emotion and realize if he is about that life, he IS an expert lol
Lol even after finding out he’s full of shit you’re still championing him. Find your next guru that’s going to lead you into you lonely future.
Does that guy idolize Steve Harvey or something? He flips the script to make women feel better the same way.
RayS2able dead as fck 💀😂😂
@RayS2able *dang*
@RayS2able ouch, and people say im harsh lol.
@RayS2able That was one of the best responses I've ever read
They both run the same hustle.
Tell a “hurt broken vulnerable” woman what they wanna hear and they’ll open up their purse to you....dude is just a con artist robbing these women
You know why? Because women by nature are 2 dimensional thinkers. Tell them what they want hear they will do anything.
ChArLz In ChArGe sadly But true....not ALL women tho...some of them know he just tryna get some pussy😂😂
And these women allowing themselves to be robbed. They aren’t victims they’re volunteers. Fools and their money soon part ways.
Eternity With Christ I do know some....which is what adds MORE truth to what I said...some are getting taking advantage of BECAUSE they’re vulnerable and hearing what they wanna hear from who ever is taken advantage of them....o yea btw speaking of wicked men isn’t this guy one of them??? Fake #prophetsForProfit ass niggaz
@@charlycash nah you underestimating some of them lol
I bet the women who was dragging y'all feel silly now after this week's revelations 🤣🤣🤣
We been warned them he was a fraud
No, they just move the goalpost. Now it's "see we told you men ain't s*** "
@@jasonwolfe3252 yep and act as if they never were his # 1 supporters
@@Roy_Al_Blak202 Very exactly.
They don’t at all. They just claim they knew all along.
@@gobot581 they was going hard to bat for him lol
Wow I needed this! Society is always telling us to do this or that but doesn't take into account everyone's journey is different.
You are right where you need to be.
Naturally Em. The "wisdom" of man is finite and constantly contradicting itself. Seek God's word
Naturally Em.
Ooohhh say it again!!!!
I love you and especially love this comment!!! Bless up and stay up queen!!!
c Facts 💯
@HardOnThots ` 贾思敏😊
That's true but I'm not waiting 11+ yrs for a dude to want only me. I low key knew my bae's the one when we broke up & started talking *HELLA SHIT* about each other to EVERY1! we met up to talk still PISSED at each other. We yelled, said "fuck u!I'm done, don't call me anymore" i swung on him & cried. Somehow By the end of the argument We got back together & was sitting in my car laughing hard AF at what we said about each other *No lie,That shit was HILARIOUS we WENT IN on each other. I have big teeth. I don't remember exactly what he said about my teeth, all I remember is it was funny AF! & I couldnt breath 😂& I remember thinking "I cant see my life with out you* we both made it clear the future holds marriage, kids, success & a happy comfortable lit life with noone but each other..PERIOD *NEVER* rush & push things but it don't take 11+ yrs to know if u want someone
Basically, noone should waste anyone's time. If he taking "too long" to propose, then leave. If waiting with her for sex until marriage is too long, then leave. Everyone can and should leave when they're not happy.
Exactly. I mean 9 times out of ten waiting that long won't get you anywhere, it is common sense. There will always be a possible exception to the rule. He isn't making up everything he says. Most of it we already know if we keep it real with ourselves.
Exactly, how about every do what they want when they want. There’s 8 billion of us out here.
Too long is an opinion.
What your saying is your opinion. You are becoming controlling and dictating of the relationship by commanding when is too long.
@@Sing4mekier You know when too long is too long for YOU. Women are generally more concerned for the other person, and pleasing them instead knowing themselves, and allowing someone of the same mindset to be in their spaces.
Right it’s that simple lol people make it complicated
I met my ex husband at 16. We had our first child at 17. Had our 2nd child at 22. Still waited to get married until I was 23. Had our 3rd child at 25. We separated when I was 32. Waiting or not waiting doesn’t mean it’s going to last. The 2 people involved are what makes it lasts.
I agree. I have many people around me who dated three to six months before marriage and they're happily married 30 years. I've seen people who dated 10- 15 years and their marriage couldn't last two years. I believe that you can know what you want within the first few months/ years of the relationship but ultimately it still takes two people to make it work.
@@angwamgmail well it depends why they married... often people who were in long relationship marry because they hope they can add new air to their relationship (bad reason to marry someone, look Miley Cyrus)
@@alaplaya5 Look at most celebrities lol
@@x_VineM_x well... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I mean they often have not time to see each other, are constantly around other pretty and maybe very interesting people , often don't clearly have rules about what is ok or not in their relationship, their work environment is about the now and not about the future, too much money and too many possibilities in which directions their lifes could go, work over family, everyone looks at any step you make, everyone is looking for you to say something stupid, judging your appearance, judging your partner, judging the way you live.
Is it really that difficult to understand why this relationships often don't work? I don't think so... It's sad somehow
Brooke Wills
If you know what you want then it takes a year at the most to determine if a person is what you want! Dating for years means you don’t know what you want, you’re dating before your ready to get married or you know you don’t want to get married but like dating.
For the marriage to work people have to really mean it when they say “for better or worse; for richer or poorer; till death do us part!
If more people had the maturity and emotional intelligence Preach and his wife had, maybe the divorce rate wouldn't be so ridiculously high.
I agree. I like the fact that they didn't let outside forces rush them into a lifetime commitment. I never understood the whole timestamp on certain things.
@@EleashaD True. After a string of bad relationships, and an 8 year hiatus from romantic relationships in general, I finally tied the knot at 38. I have no regrets. Even though I had to endure some pretty ignorant and asinine comments along the way.😏
So true, my story is pretty much the same. We been together for 30! years (lord) and married for 13. Met when I was 16 and he was 18. We both needed growth. We are happier now than before, 10 years in when people were pressuring us to marry, I (a woman) surely was not ready.
Exactly, their situation should become more common. I love the way they did it and they didn't rush anything. That's how i want my relationship to be.
From one Mimi B to another, 16 years is a long ass time.
“WHO ARE YOU TALKING TO?!”
These guys are great. Would love to chill with them. 😂
right? :D
LOL that part took me out
This man tells the "woken" exactly what they wanna hear. Its empowerment but theres really very little substance.
Those aren't woke people, those are bitter people.
@@isimikehinde5584 Do you think Nädi was calling those people "woke?"
@@Egoblivion isn't that what was on her comment?
@@isimikehinde5584 She put it in parentheses though.
@@Egoblivion Very observant. 😁
Bro just feeding them what they want. That's how he makes his money.
Bitch you guessed it. He says whatever fits the narrative
Hey I do not blame him the brother sold 400 thousand books, and is making a lot of money from his merch.
Whatever. Everyone says do whatever you need to do to get your bag. Let him cater if it makes him money. It's not illegal so doesn't matter.
He knows exactly what he's doing.
Its funny because theres men on TH-cam that say things we dont want to here that actually helps US (women) and his fan base cant tell. I used to follow him until he was 4 videos in he was just lying his ass off.
Who else is watching this after his cheating scandal came out?😂😂😂
Yup and it's even better now
Oh yeah
This aged like fine wine 😂😂😂
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Meeee!!! Lol
"The square root of this is doodoo - Preach"
I'd wear that T-Shirt.
Emmanuel oShaddai that had me dying 🤣🤣🤣
@@FashionRoadman you know what to do 😂
Doodoo squared is this.
I was going to post this same comment
"Isn't it possible that the reason why women want to pay for things Is so she feels like she doesn't owe you anything" YASSSSSSS I FELT THAT ON AN ATOMIC LEVEL!!!! FaCtSssssS
You crazy
@@thutiisbackml Stfu
@@tootsiee_roll you still crazy
@Caphale Coombs there needs to be a balance. Give and take. But don't fully depend on someone.
@Not Sure a relationship is not a charity. It takes mutual effort
I can’t stand all these pretty boy pseudo relationship gurus. A lot of these women only listen to them because they’re attractive. They can say any fluff. No thanks! I’m good bruh!! ✌🏾
You are smart. Most of derricks fans would buy a 2005 civic for 20 grand if he sold it to them, sheep.
brianroyal1 facts 😂😂😂😂😂
Thank You!
Sometimes the truth is not sugar coated and not what we want to hear. Tough love is real and can be the best for you.
He is NOT CUTE 😂😂😂 I never liked his pandering or his looks 😬
Y'all need to do a review of this video because you deserve to say you were right.
They did
Yall missed your callings. You should have been detectives and lawyers. 😂😂😂😮
How are you able to send the banana pudding to Florida? And how much would it cost? That's if you sell banana pudding. I mean this literally btw.
Or Dating coaches lol
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@hXcFreethinker lol. Its pudding made with bananas and nilla wafers. Follow @thepuddery or check out thepuddery.com. Thanks for asking. 🍌😊
@No Chump's Gym I will. 👍🏼🍌💛
No one should emulate another person’s relationship, nor should we listen to dating coaches lmbo. Discernment- let’s get some.
Dominique Lewis 🙌🏽
I’m definitely realizing that everyone is unique and has really specific things going on in their relationship - there’s no one size fits all glove for relationships. Most people give you advice from their own relationships. Even if people make good decision for themselves and are smart with their own relationships it doesn’t necessarily make it the right decision for you. You can take all the advice you can’t, but one person isn’t gonna have the ultimate knowledge for everyone. At the end of the day we have to decide what’s right for ourselves.
Amen! Amen! And Amen!!!
Very trueeeeeee
@Dominique Lewis: Lets just say that you have great discernment 😇😉
Lol my relationship is like Preach's. I've been with my fiance for 15 years and he just proposed. We're getting married in October 2020, our sixteenth year together. He wasn't ready even though I was since we were twenty four. The only thing I asked after like 6 years together was if he planned on marriage. I don't really care about marriage, the only thing I want is kids. He doesn't want to have kids unless he's married. So I had to know if we wanted the same things in life or it wouldn't work. But after he said he wants to get married to me someday and have kids, I was good. My family told me top give him ultimatums that if he doesn't marry me soon then I'm going to leave. I told them there's no way in hell I'm doing that. That just leads to resentment or a break up. And i want him to marry me because he wants to not because he was forced to. I never hounded him about it or ask about it. And last year he took me to Greece and proposed in Santorini. And it was the best because I completely did not expect it. I was so blind sided and could believe it. Now we're both ready and having fun planning our wedding. So It worked out for us
congrats🖤
Congratsss! I wish yall much love and longevity. I love your comment so much because there was amazing balance. Yall lined up and nothing was rushed. After years of being together, yall got an understanding of what was wanted. There weren't "idk's" for 20 years. It was established and then worked towards. I hope to have something like that.
@@Ndiya-Probly thank you. I hope you find the same too
@@wickmaani116 thanks
This is beautiful!
If a dude really loves you he ain't gonna let you come out the house or be on social media looking any old kinda way...0:53 I'm still trying to understand why he let his wife come on his cheating video looking like that?
Protecting his brand ?
He need to save this brand, he don't got no time for her to get ready lol
Because it's all about him. He probably just drag her to say his piece and to enable him. She check out already though, she could not care less.
To give his cheating validity!!
To me, that outfit just screamed "I'm done" from her. Maybe Jaxn did ask her to change. I'm sure all she had to do was look at him and he decided to back off. He needs to be grovelling to her, not the internet.
His advice of going out with single friends and taking pictures with random men is literally... LTERALLY what goes wrong in every movie plot with these situations EVER...
why is that dude always in his car.....
And driving while filming -.-
The same reason other youtubers typically use the same background. Like these guys for instance... they always film in this room with that background. Nothing wrong with it, just what they want to do. PS, he’s not driving lol.
Cause he don't have a house 😂😂😂
😂the million dollar question
Searching for more women :)
"If you think somebody's trash, then why would you play in the trash."
"Cause maybe you like trash."
I feel personally attacked 😂🤣
How ironic we know now he waited 10yrs to marry his wife and is currently cheating. Praise for all who called him out on his bs all these years!
Derrick sounding like that one guy in class who really tryna smash ALL the women of the earth
Lmfaooo facts
And you be wondering where they get all their information from to be even talking like that 😂😂💀💀
@ and people grow up she could've been butthurt for all l care but whatever
💯!
A hard penis ain't got a friend in the world. He a hound.
He has three kids from three ladies... bye
yes from a white woman if im not mistaken.
@@millionshadesofdarkness2165 what does her race have too do with it?
@@XeroFailGames he is giving mostly black women advise. Also he wants black women's money but won't date them.
@@eveharris30 I think 2/3 are black but yes I totally agree
For real? And Steve Harvey is on his 3rd marriage? Why do women listen to men like this? Any body who says everything you agree with is feeding you sweet poison.
This dude. I swear he should be banned from ALL male hangouts, parties, events and outings. I bet he ain't got NO homies, nada.
hes just making the bag lol.you think hes being geniune u can see the lies from a mile away
He sounds like his momma. That's not a man.
The older you get the less friends you got bro
I don't have that many homies now that I'm older.... It's a good thing to be honest
Who is here after the scandal of him cheating is out now????
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This guy!
🙋🏽♀️
I Am!
Meeeee lol
Exact reason why I never feed in to what Derrick says, he’s either talking down to his own people to appeal to weak minded emotional people or playing off societal stereotypes to make a point. #WhoAreYouTalkingTo
Lmfao!!!
The hashtag lolol.
BINGO!
Exactly. I feel like that's indirectly racist/white supremacist. Low key.
oRuTRa45 How’d you get that?
X A 5th Of Henny X I’m glad you asked because I wasn’t going to.
"Nobody has really seen his legs", "nobody has really seen our legs" lmao, im done with y'all bruh
As a woman I can say that it equally feels good for us when we can spoil our men the same way they spoil us, it brings me personally just as much pleasure giving my man of ten years a gift that he’s really been wanting as it brings him to spoil me as well. It also feels good knowing that I am financially contributing to our household, it feels like OUR home instead of HIS home that I’m living in rent free.
Yes it does feel good. My grandmother contributed 50/50, my mum did the same. Actually my mum bought our holiday house but share ownership with my dad. I can't think otherwise than to contribute 50/50 with my husband.
You know that's all bs.
@@smarke76 I’m sorry you’ve never had a woman want to spoil you 🤷🏻♀️
@@1892Genesis As women do you guyz think Derrick jaskson big man boobs are attractive 🤔🤔🤔
My mother was like that. Married 40 years now. Still looking for one not stuck in the game . Good to see some of yall do exist in this day in age
This aged better than angela bassett!
When Aba pulled the age 28 out i almost choked. I am now 28 and just starting college, because I wasn't mentally healthy or prepared for it. Coincidences are funny.
It's never too late ❤️
There’s no “right” way to live life. Live it the way that’s best for you 👍
I started college at 28 as well.
I started college at 27 and I feel like my timeline was perfect for me in my situation. Don't ever feel like you're behind based on the timing that makes sense for other people. ❤
That was when I started to actually get a handle on my shit
I’ve never liked Derrick he contradicts everything he says
he feeds off the miniscule income that single mothers and bitter hoes have.
I mean he's just telling these women what they wan't to hear, however if there is a market for it I can't blame him for capitalizing on it.
The same derick jaxn who stays single, says 'fellas love our black women' and kept his mixed white baby he had out of wedlock a secret?
@@ishy5336 facts. He is just making good money off of these ignorant single mother's...can't be mad at him..we all would've done it...he just beat us too it. Lol
@@yameil I remember that episode😂
Bruh, Derrick sounds like someone’s gay best friend😂😂😂
All he needs to do is say girl every 3.4 seconds.
Or friendzoned simp, either or.
🤣🤣🤣😂
No he doesn't. Like at all
BIG FACTS!!!
Lol I'm watching this after the cheating wife scandal
Me too!!
It’s like a female jumped into his body and started giving bad advice
He's been Space Jammed lol
@@Bryan8863 lol
Aidan S 😂😂
😂😂😂
Loool
OMG YES WHEN HE STARTED SINGING TOXICITY I STARTED SCREAMING THE LYRICS😂😂😂 the “preach you grew up an angry white kid” comment took me out😂😂😂
He got me with that too😅
Then he said it was beastie boys not SOD. Got the wrong band man.
I knew him personally. He’s the antithesis of what he preaches. He says this stuff is because he knows he’s making money off y’all.
He must have kicked you to the curb and stop speaking to you
N. Major but I think that’s obvious. Sad that ppl have to be told.
Juanita Michelle I never really watched his videos but I knew that he was obsessive about getting them done. He did a few things I thought were a bit gay and it turned me off and I stopped communicating with him.
@@majornija Idk that man lol. I'm just saying u sound bitter.
Jordyn Taylor suuuuuurrrreeeee 😉😉
People like Derrick don’t practice what they preach. 👀they always have so much to say.
Here's a better question: is Derrick Jaxn homeless? Cuz every video he makes he's always living out of his car 😂😂😂😂😂
@Eternity With Christ you really capping hard for a man you don't know.
Eternity With Christ shut yo lame ass up bitch
on some Brian Pumper shit.....😆😆😆😆
@Eternity With Christ ouch you big mad
@Eternity With Christ Derrick Jaxn is that you???
Derrick jaxn is the type to act deep & wise but is really a very simple man
Everything he says is very simple though
GOT em lmao. Im glad to see that theres some INTELLIGENT women in this world, who arent fooled or impressed by stupid BS like that.
That man tries to pretend to be YODA, just so he can get on your SOFA lol.
@@DrMathOfficial lol yes I totally agree , he talk these women right out they pants and don’t be saying anything
Bet all the comments on his video were “yasssssssss queeen”
😂😂😂😂
🤣😂 the accuracy is above the charts
Accurate
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Derrick business wise is a genius. He's definitely a enabler. Just helping women play in their mess.
yeah... blkmen dont cheat
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This didnt age well at all
"I got Derrick Jackson to argue against Derrick Jackson" 😂😂😂👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Finally someone called this clown out 😂🤣
Wow. He is talking about himself
Way back then.
“WHO ARE YOU TALKING TO?” LMFAOOOOOOO
I think a dude broke derricks heart a while back and he's just projecting his anger of his ex in his videos
Jordan Williams a dude tho? 💀
I was thinking the same thing fam
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Yoooo you're dumb
@Letucces Satan lol i am not writing a paper but i will edit for you
The reason why Derrick Jaxn is contradicting himself is that he knows his audience too well.
And unfortunately caters to them. I think deep down he knows that.
He says some thoughtful things though.
like "go out of your way to be petty against the person who ended a relationship with you"?
But... These "thoughtful things" are not complicated or deep whatsoever. I'm 41 now and there's NOTHING he's ever said that I didn't already say or think when I was 16 and 17. However, by 18 I already realized how un-unique those things were. How did I realize that? Because every other one of my peers knew and said the same shit. Some of them even tried to present it in this Derrick Jaxn front. And they were always called out on it. We called it, "surface level intelligence". You barely break the surface but yet you try and tread in the deep. Niggas end up drowning.
That's why Derrick ain't said nothing new. Saying that what he saays is thoughtful is really nothing. Hallmark cards are thoughtful.
@@commentcopbadge6665 that's great for you man. Unfortunately you did not create a TH-cam channel to profit off of the knowledge you have. I get what you mean but it veers too close to hating. For me, I thought he said some thoughtful things. Might just be you know way more than I do in that department.
@@sabin97 no, like this one, it's funny and kind of spot on about the way people behave. I liked it a long time ago.
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@@jkay07
sorry i couldnt see your quote. could you copy-paste it for my benefit?
The TH-cam Algorithm on fire with this one at this moment 👌
Damn I thought I was the only black person who dislikes Derrick's misleading info and likes Last Resort. 😂
only single mothers, bitter women, and beta males like him. Most black men hate this dude
Definitely not lol
@@millionshadesofdarkness2165 I used to watch him sometimes when I was young, dumb, with no experience with women. Now, I still have no experience, but I'm way more emotionally intelligent than I was, and it's easy to see how manipulative he is.
Nah. We all in here.
last resort is amazing!!! dbz amv introduced me lol
Funny. When a guy waits 10 years for the love of his life, then it's seen as a fairytale romance that inspires books and movies. When a woman waits, it's not love.
Seems about accurate to me
I'm all for waiting and taking it seriously and all that, but in general a man has significantly more time to wait, a woman has her biology and societal pressure working against her, so even if she waited for her 'true love', the end result is far more prosaic, it's too late too soon.
@@anzelaiv well that’s on them
Lol wurrd
@@anzelaiv societies expectations are bs, and a horrible reason to do anything.
I lost it when Preach yeet that mannequin at Aba. 🤣
"MANnequin"
Not quite
@Trololol Trololol it is
Whose back here after a year?? After he cheated?
Is Derrick Jaxn in a relationship himself tho?👀
And btw, I love System of A Down!🤘
Apparently he is married
I believe his GF is white
@@MrShaneVicious he's married to a black women all over his social media
Sheik Unique he’s married to a black woman.
@@signalfire15 Thank you!
biological clock in women is a valid Concern. compared to men there is a smaller window for womens fertility. hence the wait may be detrimental
Marie adesola it’s not as severe as some people make it seem. My mom had me at 39.
@@staforiii I already get pressured and I'm 27. But when I was younger I thought I would be married with a kid by this age .
Funke Adegoke those were thoughts you were given, they’re not your own.
@@staforiii True. Definitely influenced from outside factors. Especially peers who are married with kids already
The severity varies and depends on different factors, but does not take away the fact that it is a valid Concern.
Kimbella is a terrible example. If you know her story, she was dumb to wait.
But everybody has their own path.
This!! 10 years for a marriage vs. a few dates for sex. That's not a comparison, lol.
If you can't wait then you're always free to leave. If we pressure women into having sex then we're assholes. But when we ask you to wait longer for something infinitely more serious, we get made out as the bad guys.
"You" meaning women generally.
@@argeus3639 huh?
@@mshalcomb09 he speaking facts
Scrapy G yeah it’s definitely tough making the decision to leave when you really care about someone, but ultimately if you want different things you have to make the call. I get what you’re saying about guys wanting to wait longer about making the right decision, but I also think women get attached way faster and make their mind up about people quicker. It seems like that. As far as the sex.. I get that too but as far as my experience goes it’s better to wait if you want to send the signal to the guy that you’re looking for something more serious. Even though I might wanna do it too, haha. But you have to give up something more pleasing in the short term for a better future in the long run with that person.
3/22/21 and this aged like fine wine!
This man is a brand! He says what he needs to say to get that 💰💰.
Exactly! I see envy here 🙈🙉🙊
You mean he speaks down on black men and panders to a group that consists of unattractive to average looking black women for money. Women who are fans of his are sexually attracted to him. Point blank, done and done..
Bdubz_Det exactly what you just said! I can’t listen to his BS.
You women want a real man but cant accept the truth .
In order to bring out the truth you have to expose the falsehood.
is a bag that important to people? sheesh thas sad
I used to be petty in my 20s. Then I fell in love with my now husband. As soon as I found that unexpected happiness being petty went out the window. When you know how good being so happy is you never want to waste another second feeling any other kind of way.
Not doubting you, but I hope most learn that before they meet Mister right, because if you are petty he might just walk away. Glad you found yours tho :)
He speaks like he's one of the homegirls that know men lol.
😂😂
Bruhhh this is it 💀💀
White knight felt off by a few degrees.
Perfect analogy.
The comment of the year 💯 🚫🧢
And to think all these videos he was talking about his self in the third person.
IKR!!!! 😂🤣
Bruh these white knights are the most annoying wastes of life, just be a honest respectful person and stop having expectations.
That music break? I felt that. I was definitely the only black girl (in my friend group) that listened to “white people” rock music. Lol
Same , my folks hated my "country music" phase
I ROCK OUT when Hubster and the kids aren’t home ... I don’t want them to worry 😂
Preach is the exception and not the rule. Most of the time when women wait like that, it leads to just more waiting...
What he said is he waited for his success so what happens if he falls
So what do you do? leave the man who treats you well and is not ready for a new man who may not treat you well but will marry you bc he doesn't value the institution? I have a friend who has been divorced three times and engaged several other times. He cheats on every woman he's with. If you get tired of waiting on your man, he'll marry your ass.
@@mr_knowitall and if he is not ready for 20 years? We're grown. No, you don't just up and leave someone who is great for you to be with any random. But if he is that great, he should also realize what he is forcing the woman to miss out on. She can be his girlfriend forever. Or she can jump back out there to find her husband.
The conversation is so funny because whenever women don't wait and go ahead and start their family with a man who is not her husband, anything that goes wrong is now her fault. "She should have found a husband first." "She knew he couldn't commit, why did she have children with him?"
A man who is not willing to commit, but is willing to do married things with a woman is not a good man however he may seems. If he doesn't believe in the institution of marriage then it should be no big deal to get a license and go to the court house. And if he is purely afraid of commitment, that is something he can work on while she is out there finding someone who is not.
Yeah, but he was 16 that's young it makes sense that he waited awhile. When your older you tend to have narrowed down where you want to be, so it's easier to bring someone into your life.
@@Musicfreaklolduh which doesn't change the point at all especially since I'm talking about adults.
He definitely wasn't talking about his wife! 😂😂😂
*Wait!* Preach has been dating 1 woman since puberty? There must be *more* to the story but good for *them.*
CARTOONIVERSE1 probably been on and off for that long period of time tbh
Its possible my first relationship was my wife, but dang it's not as long tho.
My brother married his hs sweetheart they now have 2 kids but there definitely was some bullshit sprinkled in there...it worked out in the end
@@ShawtyFyne1 - Good to hear & rare these days.
@@CARTOONIVERSE1 facts marrying the first isnt something special or anything, though its rare, for some it takes the first relationship for most further, its the same for all make sure she a real one, and you ready to settle down