First Story: I personally think OP's friend is showing some bad parenting. Instead of firmly and sternly telling her kids "no u can’t have the dog" she instead try to take OP's dog to stop their crying. These kids have to learn that they can’t have everything they want Second Story: Obviously SM just wanted this baby shower to be planned the way she wanted without much consideration for anyone else (especially since she showed up at the venue early to set up everything) Third Story: OP needs to not only cut this scumbag out but also her mother too. She just sat there and allowed this sorry excuse for a man to do all of this to OP and not once did anything to help her? OP's mom is a failure as a parent for choosing this scumbag over OP
Yes, what a ridiculous response to a tantrum! Why not remind them that OP loves his dog? Tell them pets are family? Take them to a shelter to visit the dogs? You know, raise your damn kids! 😅
The real problem is there's a lot of dogs who need homes and yet, she has to steal someone else's dog because she can't stand spending a few hundred bucks to adopt one for herself and her kids?
Last Story: Gather evidence of both the mother's and the father's behavior, block them (or delete the related social-media accounts to prevent further tracking), then file for a restraining order. These two are not just toxic in behavior, they're dangerous to be around. As it's already been called-out: "If I can't have her, no one can" line is a dangerously-obsessive line.
It sounds like the mother is just as abusive as the dad if she allowed the dad to abuse her daughter but sat by and pretended it never happened. These are not parents, these people are lucky to even be called donors. OP owes them nothing, if anything, they owe her so much but it's clear that they would never consider that.
@@jaggedlittlepearl8635 I think the bodysuit thing are things people can wear to look pregnant but I'm not sure. Still a pizza themed party is awesome period!
Last story: I completely agree with you, rSlash. Call the cops and fill them in for when he eventually stalks her up and tries to take the baby. That guy sounds every level of unhinged.
In my house, the pets are either your children or your siblings. They are NEVER treated like an object to just toss away or for someone to borrow. The audacity of that karen to try to take OPs dog is insulting to say the least.
Last story: so if you don't let your abusive stepfather see your baby, then the family that ignored all of your mental issues won't be allowed to see her either? Sounds like a win-win to me, I don't believe for one second mom didn't know about any of this abuse, and even now she helping your stepfather force himself in your life, none of these people deserve you and they expecially shouldn't be around your child. I say cut them all out anyone that agrees with him shouldn't be in your life.
Mom is an enabler, which makes her just as guilty. Cut them all out, block them on everything you have. Block their phone numbers, block their FB stuff, block everything. Leave it all behind and go to therapy.
Wtf? Last story sucks my stepfather used to do the exact same thing to me. I'm autistic too. He used mentally and verbally abuse for years on end. That story hits very close to home.
@@kranberry3318 Not sure what the grounds are for a restraining order, but if I was OP I’d research it at least. And move, if possible, without notice. This controlling creep is the very type to turn around and go full psycho.
Last story: "If I can't see her, nobody can" is pretty obviously a thinly veiled threat. I would be researching how to get a restraining order if I were OP. There's already a past history of physical abuse, which should help the case.
Stepfather story: I've never understood this whole "I'm owed the world for doing the bare minimum for someone I'm responsible for" mentality that some parents/stepparents have. Can someone try to explain it please?
Its manipulation and abuse. She's slipping from his grasp of control so he is lashing out. Trying to intimidate her and guilt her into staying in the abusive relationship.
It's toddler logic; "I had to endure a punishment, so I require all of the rewards in the world to be soothed or I'm going to throw a tantrum." Those people see the person they cared for as a punishment they had to endure because they never wanted the responsibility, only the perks attached to that responsibility. And now when more perks are available? Well, ofcourse those need to be available too.
@@dethkruzer Or go a step further and use molasses. That stuff is proven town destructive. We could also tar and feather him like a tax collecter from the 19th century(1800s).
Those are the words of someone who will kill the person they can't have. It happened to a family member, my mom taught me that if anyone ever says that run
@chadelowat I'm so sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, this is exactly what I thought of when I heard that comment.... dangerous, possessive, & jealous attitude.
Story 1:OP you have terrible friends, after giving you a last-minute notice to want their kids because they assumed you weren't doing anything, they thought they could just make you give then your dog. Then when that didn't work they sic their family on you as if that's supposed to do something. They're ungrateful, selfish, and disrespectful.
I wouldn't blame them completely for the last minute notice. They did have someone else, who bailed at the last minute. It happens, it sucks. The part about OP's dog is entirely on them
That first story went from "I don't see what the problem is going to be here. This friend agreed to babysit without payment, and it sounds like they did a great job." To "OH God, what the actual fuck?" So fast
Second story, look the SM in the eye, tell her 'No grandchildren for you', then cut her out of their life. She just wants attention and using OP's child for it, no matter what. No one needs that garbage in their life.
Oh Op did cut her AND his dad out of his life, he got a restraining order against the stepmom and I think she's in legal trouble due her latest antics, needless to say, she's is absolutely vile EDIT: Damn, was hoping to here that the monster would at least get some jail time
@@MurphN7 Oh Jesus, I didn't think to check for an update. WTF did she do? Edit: hold up. This is the OP from a story Rslash did a while back where the SM hit her son and OP's father defended her. I think I even brought to the update where OP and their spouse went full NC as did their other family. Took me a second to notice the username. Unfortunately nothing came from the monster striking their son.
@@Sanodi21 Well, Op and his fiancée adopted her toddler brother after her parents passed, and stepmom was jealous of how fast the family accepted him when they still didn't like her, anyway Op asked his father to babysit his kid and BIL, when they got home, stepmom was there, she was screaming and BIL was sobbing with a SPLIT LIP, apparently, BIL threw a fit earlier and her response was to yell at him, and when that didn't work, she hit him so hard that it split his lip open, OP has more details in his original post, but that's pretty much what went down
The story about op being abused by her step-dad is she needs to get a protection order against her step-dad and mother and change her Facebook settings to private and move across the country to get far away from her parents and in-laws and change her name and her child's name so that she can't be found by anyone
"you have time to train a new dog" I'm sure OP does but that would never be the same. Anyone who actually cares about their pets know that they're as unique as us.
My parents considered their last pair of dogs - sibling Labs - as their "second set of kids". They were certainly family members, not just pets. Their eventual passing was the only times I ever saw Dad cry.
@@lancerevell5979 aww I think my mom view their dogs the same. I'm not one to cry much but earlier this week I broke down completely after being forced to put my cat down. She was definitely family to me.
The last story is giving me the absolute ick, OP, have you considered the reason the step dad treated your sister well, is maybe because he was abusing her in another way? Its really common for an abuser to over treat their abuse victim, and verbally abuse the only support that victim may have, to create a divide but also a reason as to why one day you may opening say your suspicions. OP, I'd have a talk with your sister
First story: Just tell the friends that you got very attached to their kids over the weekend, and are willing to trade your dog for one of the children.
Second Story: I've been following this user for a while now, and this story is just ONE example of how unhinged his stepmom is, and the sad thing is, this isn't the worst thing that she's done
I was _just_ thinking how we hadn't had an Entitled Parents vid in a while. Get out of my head, rSlash! 😛 *First OP:* Hol' up; OP agreed to babysit her (I'm assuming OP is a woman) friend's kids for the weekend on short notice _for free_ , and the (ex) friend wants OP to give up her dog for the kids? Yeah, I'd cut contact with that friend, too. *Second OP:* That's _wild_ that OP's SM hijacked OP's and his wife's baby shower. Shoutouts to OP's sister for "sabotaging" Sam's plans. I do feel bad for OP's stepbrother. *Third OP:* I'm glad OP cut contact with her stepfather. Looks like she needs to cut contact from everyone else, as well. Best of luck to OP and her daughter.
Story 1) I have 0 doubts that your dog will be abused and neglected, especially once the kids lose interest (which will likely happen in a very short amount of time). If they don't have time for 2 kids and a dog, then they don't need *any* dog let alone your dog. It's pretty obvious they're neglectful parents too because instead of asking if you could set up play dates where you could bring your dog over from time to time or teaching their kids that they can't always get what they want; they would rather put an animal through abuse and stress just so they don't have to listen to their kids whine. Story 2) Wow, what a mother from hell that lady is. How insane do you have to be to think that after ignoring your soon to be first grandchild that you can just swoop on in and act like nothing happened when the golden grandkid you wanted wasn't going to happen? And seriously? Expecting it's a girl? There is a 50/50 chance and having 0 investment in the lives of the couple means your 'mothers always know' BS doesn't work. Thank god OP has gone full NC. Story 3) Your father should be lucky that his ass isn't rotting in jail. Imagine the sheer audacity to think your entitled to seeing someone else's child after you abused them for *years* and just expect them to get over it. Your entire family who sides with him would receive a punishment too if it was up to me and your mother is an absolute disgrace and doesn't deserve the title mother. She is not a mother, she is a waste of space more interested in what's in a guys pants than her own flesh and blood.
The last story hit too hard. My stepdad was almost the exact same; he never got physical with me but did with my sisters. My mother defended him and still defends him. We were discussing the past, and one of my sisters asked my mom, "Do you ever think he'll apologize?" My mom said, "No, but neither will they." I looked at her, so quick." I apologize for what? We were kids! "
I suggest to OP(with the abusive step father) if ever finds this is to cut off the entire family that are on his side or try to convince to let it go. You make your decision whether it helps or not it's on you! The same as the step father made the decision to abuse and lie. Actions have consequences as well.
Op should have told her mom, “ since you chose that scumbag over me, never stood up to me ,and allowed him to abuse me, you and him will never see my baby, and don’t go blaming me or try to call me out because its all your fault and you have to live with it “
Last story needs to talk to a lawyer incase the parents try and sue for grandparents rights to see the grandkid. Or try and use OPs mental issues against them and get custody taken away and given to them
This is why I like that my dog defensively growls at anything smaller than him. And being big dog, thats usually everything lol Edit: He is a good boy, who in his 10 years has never attacked any one that wasn't trying to break into my apartment. He is just old and likes his sleep.
I would have laughed my ass off if someone tried demanding my floofer because their gremlins won't stop crying. Animals shouldn't be something given just to shut a kid up. They are part of the family and no one is taking away my perfect lil daughter floofer ❤
Right? My roommate’s kids come over every other weekend, and they’re fine, but if they started wailing and demanding one of my babies? Lol fuck that noise.
@@kranberry3318 aw thank you! I actually have 6 dogs and they are happy little fuzzballs ❤ I hope you (and anything fuzzy you have) have an amazing day, too ❤
@@ajjamsen694 Unfortunately I don’t have a dog rn (can’t afford it and no one can do morning walks) so the fuzziest thing I have is my fiancé with fluffy hair and a beard lol But thanks! ❤️
For the baby shower story, I would have waltzed my self over to my step mother and said wow you should have been here a little earlier. Someone set up a hideous pink party. I think someone must have left all the stuff here from an earlier party. It's all in the boxes but thank goodness everyone pitched in to get that mess down!
Story 2: can we all talked about what awesome sister and friend OP and his wife have. Most people would not go through the lengths they did but they helped save the party with minute to spare like champs. I would have thrown all of SM's pink wrap in the track do after she tried to take over the party like that.
Me too. Op talked about how she was small and not really capable of fighting back when he would beat her. But if I were she, then as soon as I grew up; got bigger and stronger and more capable in fighting I would waste no time in giving my physically abusive parent the beatdown I had been wanting to give them ever since they started doing it to me. I don't blame OP for not going down that route but she should have. If she did I guarantee he wouldn't be bothering her now.
I just have to share this about my cat (can a cat really have an owner?). So my wife and I adopted this cute little kitten and he immediately became my wife's cat. My wife got sick, so we moved into my parent's spare bedroom. My wife ended up passing away. The cat was a bit lost for awhile, but then he adopted my father (probably because I was working 60 hours a week). My father got sick and died. The cat was distraught! My mom likes animals, but she gives this vibe to all animals big or small to not become friends with her. She tolerates them. So my cat adopted me (Cue John Williams...Help me Obi Wan, your my only hope!). He hates it when he can't see me or when I leave the house (I got sick as well so I can no longer work.). He will literally wait for me at the garage door. When I leave for several days giving him plenty of food and water (I do love the little guy), and he does have a cat door so he can go outside, he will hardly eat a thing. He just pouts. I'm his third person. I am glad I am his person, but when I'm not around the poor kitten just pouts.
Third story: Honestly if that happened to me and he went to post that on Facebook, I'd be all over the comments saying "So do you want to be the pot or the kettle?"
Last Story: I know the feeling of step-dads who loved to ab*** me growing up. My mom's current boyfriend threatened to come to my place and "deal with me himself." If I ever made my mom cry again..... all I did to make her cry was ask if I was ever gonna get the original copies of my birth certificate and social security card.....
There are so many doggos that need a home if my kids lost it like that I would say we could get our own family dog after some steps. I might beg my friend to come over and go over what pet ownership meant in the immediate time to quell the crying(also see if we could set up some visits where the kids help temporarily since it takes time to get volunteering set up). Then we would take classes and volunteer at a shelter to find our own pet. My daughter desperately wanted a bunny because her friend had one. We went through the classes and the shelter made me sign paperwork saying the pet was mine because kids lose interest. My daughter didn’t lose interest she became allergic and since our bunny had his own bunnytopia room it was fine that she couldn’t interact much anymore(lots of meds when she did also side note before the bunny her allergy test showed no allergy to his hay which was her problem)and he would also hang out with me and our elderly dog because he didn’t manage to bond with any of the bunnies the shelter tried to bond him with when my daughter became allergic because bunnies need lots of interaction so another bunny was our attempt to get him more interaction. When my dog died the bunny fell into a depression we couldn’t fix and he died a year later but he was almost 10. My long blithering point is after volunteering at the bunny house I saw first hand what happens when kids just have to have a certain pet and other than that mom being entitled in this story she also is setting up a situation where that pet ends up in the shelter. I could be wrong since we got our first dog as newlyweds randomly with zero planning but managed to keep our sweet baby alive 14 years despise all her health issues she came with as a puppy.
First story- I can tell you that the kids are gonna grow up to be absolutely spoiled all because mommy dearest didn't want to say no. Though the kids don't seem spoiled now, since snitching, oversharing and wanting something seems like typical young kid behavior. If I had a friend watch my young kids and they brought over their dog, and the kids loved the dog and they both want the dog, I'd say no and most likely settle for a compromise, like call up my friend and ask to see when they'll be next available so they could come over with their dog cause my friend gets to keep their dog and my kids get to see the dog cause the kids still get to see the dog, and I still get to visit my friend. No need to drop/cut contact with anyone. Second story- If the SM is so adamant on having that Barbie-esqe, Instagrammable and expensive baby shower where it looks like a little girl's dream birthday, she can wait until her own son gets back into the dating scene. Yet depending on how traumatized he is, that might not happen for a while, or if he's THAT traumatized, not at all. Third story- Good for OP for cutting both her stepfather and mother off (someone gave a small update and said that OP cut off both stepfather and mother). If I had a stepfather who mentally and emotionally abused me and gaslit me, I'd move out as soon as I can and go little to no contact with both of them. Seeing how the stepfather is abusive and gaslit anyone into believing nothing's wrong, OP probably tried to convince her mother to leave him, but from my understanding of gaslighting, the stepfather probably threatened to off himself if she threatened to leave him, since gaslighting someone would just question their sanity
The entitled dog Karens begging for the dog makes more and more of a case for why they shouldn't have a dog. They don't care if they think "just get another dog" as if the time commitment to training the dog is why she's reluctant to just give him away, no thought that maybe she loves her dog. They say they don't have time for a dog, so, at best, an 8 year old would be in charge. Not only should they not get this dog (obviously) they shouldn't have any dog, or pet.
So many monsters favoring one child over another with castastrophic consequeses. This spans all generations with kids. Im one of those kids. Im grateful to say after going very little contact with my parents from 19 to 40, It took 5 years to teach them how to love me. In my case they finally were able to get over thier own crap and its not that didnt have the capacity, they just didn't know how. But wow the damage it causes not to just the unfavored, but the favored becomes entitled and spioled, a horrible type of person to deal with because thier parents taught them to be that way. Parents love your children, fairly and responsibly.
Title: Karen stole my dog! Description: Entitled parent tries to steal dog. Story: Entitled parent makes unreasonable request for dog. C'mon Rslash, if you have to dress it up that much then maybe it shouldn't have been the lead story.
Not sure if you'll see this reply, but that's probably because rslash is a channel that narrates in a style that's say, entertaining, engaging, "really gets you hooked on what's gonna happen next" kind of way. Which is why rslash isn't actually my favorite channel per se. My favorite reddit reading channels are the ones that just calmly read the stories out loud, and it's so much more relaxing! My absolute favorite is Mark Narrations, not just because he's so chill and funny, but because he also reads the comments on both sides of the argument and he's such a thoughtful considerate guy :)
1st Story: Juuust in case, OP should make sure to keep herself and her dog away from that family, for the rest of their lives. 2nd story: First of all; Keep SM the F away from your kid. She is showing some obvious bias. And as soon SB have a kid, she is gonna ditch OP's kid. Just cut her out of your life. Second of all: Support your SB, it may suck now, but it's very likely she was cheating with her Ex. 3rd story: I am more surprised OP still have contact with her mom, or the rest of the family for that matter. Honestly, she should just cut them all out. Especially considering the 'mom' enable this BS
Story 1 : Dump those donkey "friends" for good keep the dog... what a crappy thing to do trying to guilt trip op into handing over pretty much a child.. Story 2 : Op and his gf:" were gonna have a baby" Op stupid stepmother: " how do i take all the shine off the baby and put it on to me hmmmm ".. Story 3 : op needs to block everyone that ever agreed with her abusive disgusting stepfather out of her life forever even when theyre on theyre death bed and asking for forgiveness..
That mom is an enabler that just wants to shut up her kids the moment they're crying, that's just bad parenting. I call CPS and tell them what's going on with the pet situation and they might do an investigation that will her out .
i don't understand the cognitive dissonance it takes to recognize the strong attachment that the children have formed with a dog in two days, while it not occurring that op might have some sort of emotional attachment to the same dog over several years.
One really chaotic answer to the first story is "Sure, I'll trade it for your favorite kid." The kids will be devastated when it is implied one of them is liked more. The mom will lose it, and it also makes sure they know your dog is as important as their favorite child. It works. Granted, I am the unhinged type of person who responds to being asked if my dog bites with, "No, but I do." Makes annoying strangers leave me alone because they think I am nuts. It's just more efficient to make myself seem insane than explain to entitled parents that my senior dog doesn't like screaming brats.
3:00 I have a dog called Charlie, he’s only young and quite loud but like you said, basically everyone down our road deals with it because he’s friendly and of course, part of our family. Our street is made up of several families with dogs and cats and pretty much all of us get along. We did have an issue with a new neighbour a few years ago who didn’t like the dogs barking and I’ve always questioned it, why would you move into an area with a dog in literally every household in you don’t like dogs.
Last story: If I can't have her, no one can. If you have documented proof that he said that, I would go to the cops and get a lifetime restraining order against him. That line there says he is more than willing to kill the child to get his way.
This last story hits home for me My partners mum was an alcoholic and a grade A narcissist and her dad didn’t know what to do so just shut himself in I have been with my partner since we where both 14 so almost 11 years now and she would try and be nice but it was always that sickly sweet side of things and it wasn’t until being with me that my partner realised how horrible her mum was and the contrast between my parents and hers Her mum would deliberately smoke infront of our newborn baby after we told her not too she would say horrible things about me and her and with our second child she claimed it wasn’t mine because he’s ginger and I’m not 😂 she’s a fucked up person and we don’t talk to her anymore We did recently find out she got cancer which I personally just believe is karma on her part for the multiple children she’s emotionally abused over the years
Rslash, you need to give us your dog, my daughter wont stop crying about him! oh and you have to for him to be shipped! i hope you do the right thing, you could always fall in love and train and cuddle with and get attached to again, its not like its that hard! gosh!
OP's stepdad in the last story is not just toxic, he's EVIL. Like, PSYCHOPATH evil. And he doesn't deserve to be called stepfather. He's OP's mom's boytoy since OP's mom brought an evil person into her life just to get her leg over. OP's entire family (with the possible exception of her sister depending on how she reacts to being treated the way she is) are horrible, awful people and OP needs to cut them off immediately before they drag her down with them to the lowest pit of Hell where they're headed.
I think the most dangerous and frustrating thing about those with narcissistic personality disorder is that they don’t admit to themselves or just don’t realise that they have a problem and seek help, unlike other mental health disorders. They’re just there in their toxic bubbles, wondering why people leave their lives and not “serve” them anymore.
Story 1 (update): "Sad update: I can't really say much without identifying the people involved, but there was a lot more going on behind the scenes than I was made aware of. My friend is currently undergoing treatment for things I can't really describe without risking doxxing her, and she's got enough on her plate as things stand. She really did blow a fuse though, and is now aware that what she was asking wasn't rational and has apologized." So it happens to a sad update that something was eong with her mentally. A good ending to this.
A kid tried to steal my ESA about 3 years ago, I went to my baby picked her up, and left The kid was screaming and trying to take my dog out of my hands thankfully I was taller than the brat I just took my dog inside The mom came and demanded I give her seamon demon my baby I called the police Never saw that brat and woman again
The second story is from the OP that put a restraining order on his stepmom since she hit his fiancée’s four year old brother and cut contact with his father btw
I really hope that OP from story #1 ends that friendship. I mean they don't have to make a big pronouncement unless it gets to that, but this one story shows that it's not a twosided relationship. I guarantee that OP does stuff to help out all the time. If it is ever reciprocated I'd be surprised. It's too bad because it sounds like OP would be a good person to have as a friend. I hope OP realizes they deserve to be treated with respect.
That last story hits hard. While my Mom is overprotective of me, I'm always the odd one out because I'm autistic. ABA did absolutely nothing except takes hours away from my day and give me anxiety of people leaving me for no reason. I always had "anger issues" which turns out me just being overwhelmed as hell. I felt so bad for blowing up and my Mom used my brothers to make me feel guilty. I hated myself for that. I hated myself for not being able to function like a normal person and I felt bad when talking to people because I learned I talk too much when I do. Being told that you can't be fixed gets to you. It's even worse when people discount you for having autism. I wish I wasn't so dependent on my family as I am ATM, otherwise I would go no contact. Sorry.
Ooo entitled kids of the future right there... also, how ya'll gonna get off asking someone to give you their dog? Being able to train a new one isn't what matters in this situation, what matters is a lot of people tend to view their pets as *family* members, not just a pet. Instead, she should be using this time to teach their kids to behave, and teaching them that they can't always have what they want, or, idk, maybe pay OP to train a puppy that SHE buys for her own kids? If OP has time to train a new dog, OP can be paid to train a new dog for her, not give his own dog to them and buy a new one for himself.
I had a similar story as the last one. However i was a 19yr father. I cut him out and soon cut my own mother out of my life. His and her family kept pushing to go into contact so i cut every single one of them out. No explanation either as they were only hearing my mothers side of the story. If they couldn't see its odd for a child to cut their own parent out of their life then that's on them. Soon after my step father pew pew himself and my mother blamed me (even though it was during a in person confrontation with her over custody of their kid from splitting after i went NC) I was informed all this as family desperately tried to reach me so i could go to the funeral. I never did and havent talked to any of them sense. Point of this is i feel so much happier and stress/drama free. My daughter doesn't remember of her as they only me when she was couple months old and i dont ever plan for them to meet again.
Yea, not happening.. They aren't attached to the dog, they just don't understand how to take no!! I will not be talking to these entitled people.. I love my cat and dog, they are our babies, you lost your mind if you ask me to GIVE you my babies!!
Okay, word of advice about being roped into things like babysitting, and you'd be hesitant to ask to be paid. Just say, _"Sorry, but I got a side-gig this weekend that'd pay over 500bux and I just can't afford to blow it off as I really need the cash."_ so then they have a choice of either ponying up 500bux, or suckering someone else to babysit.
Providing food, clothes, a roof over a child’s head, etc is the BARE MINIMUM of being a parent. That’s basic, you don’t get brownie points for doing basic things.
(The last story) I watch this YT channel called Misery Machine where they cover stories about children having their lives ended by parents, step parents and some strangers. These poor kids barely ever get anyone to advocate for them and the ones that do, the government ignores either because "the parents are so charming, the kids MUST be lying." Or some other stupid reason like it's a cop or security guard who would never hurt a child. I am happy OP got out and has a family away from toxic trash. A lot of children who go through such abuse, don't get the chance to escape.
With the baby shower, instead of saying "nice try", I would have just enthused about how awesome everything looks, how it's everything I wanted, and thank the SM for putting it all together..
How do and can “friends” demand giving them your dog asif it’s a Tupperware box?? Kids need to understand not getting what they want, happens more in a lifetime than once 🤷🏻♀️🙄 parents in this story should have explained this is op’s dog and if asked nicely they maybe could play with him with approval of op, but that’s that. SMH 🤦🏻♀️ the entitlement of some people just goes over my head… 🙄🫨🫥
Final story: you had a crap mom/step dad. They BOTH need to be removed from your life. It's bad he abused you but your own mother failed at the #1 purpose of a parent is to protect your child.
Third story made me wish that, if someone faced as much abuse as OP got from her stepfather, it would be legal to shoot him and get away with it, but alas.
MY Dog story cracked me up. The parents need to train their kids not to get a trained dog lol. OP knew how to handle those kids better than their own parents unfortunately.
Second story: from the way this story is told, its almost like the stepmother is trying to make everything about her, not considering Op and their spouses opinion on the matter.
First Story: I personally think OP's friend is showing some bad parenting. Instead of firmly and sternly telling her kids "no u can’t have the dog" she instead try to take OP's dog to stop their crying. These kids have to learn that they can’t have everything they want
Second Story: Obviously SM just wanted this baby shower to be planned the way she wanted without much consideration for anyone else (especially since she showed up at the venue early to set up everything)
Third Story: OP needs to not only cut this scumbag out but also her mother too. She just sat there and allowed this sorry excuse for a man to do all of this to OP and not once did anything to help her? OP's mom is a failure as a parent for choosing this scumbag over OP
That’s why this is entitled parents
It shows how little she thinks of the dog too, she obviously haven't had pets before.
Yes, what a ridiculous response to a tantrum! Why not remind them that OP loves his dog? Tell them pets are family? Take them to a shelter to visit the dogs? You know, raise your damn kids! 😅
The mom obviously has a problem saying the word "No".
The real problem is there's a lot of dogs who need homes and yet, she has to steal someone else's dog because she can't stand spending a few hundred bucks to adopt one for herself and her kids?
Last Story: Gather evidence of both the mother's and the father's behavior, block them (or delete the related social-media accounts to prevent further tracking), then file for a restraining order. These two are not just toxic in behavior, they're dangerous to be around. As it's already been called-out: "If I can't have her, no one can" line is a dangerously-obsessive line.
Frankly, it sounds like a gallon of boiling sugar syrup would fix the issue really quick.
That's like how the Joker views Harley. Straight up psychotic.
There behaviour could land them on jail for real.
It sounds like the mother is just as abusive as the dad if she allowed the dad to abuse her daughter but sat by and pretended it never happened. These are not parents, these people are lucky to even be called donors. OP owes them nothing, if anything, they owe her so much but it's clear that they would never consider that.
Side note that pizza themed baby shower is an adorable idea
I know right! If I were and expecting mom I would love that! I'm just wondering what the bodysuit thing is?
@@jaggedlittlepearl8635 maybe baby onesies?
Let’s be honest, pizza themed anything is awesome! Glad everyone that mattered had a blast at the baby shower!
@@abiean222 that would sort of make sense but I doubt it because it seems like the kids are able to wear them.
@@jaggedlittlepearl8635 I think the bodysuit thing are things people can wear to look pregnant but I'm not sure. Still a pizza themed party is awesome period!
Last story: I completely agree with you, rSlash. Call the cops and fill them in for when he eventually stalks her up and tries to take the baby. That guy sounds every level of unhinged.
I agree
In my house, the pets are either your children or your siblings. They are NEVER treated like an object to just toss away or for someone to borrow. The audacity of that karen to try to take OPs dog is insulting to say the least.
She's one of those morons who see pets as toys.
Last story: so if you don't let your abusive stepfather see your baby, then the family that ignored all of your mental issues won't be allowed to see her either? Sounds like a win-win to me, I don't believe for one second mom didn't know about any of this abuse, and even now she helping your stepfather force himself in your life, none of these people deserve you and they expecially shouldn't be around your child. I say cut them all out anyone that agrees with him shouldn't be in your life.
And make a stand as well on social media.
Mom is an enabler, which makes her just as guilty. Cut them all out, block them on everything you have. Block their phone numbers, block their FB stuff, block everything. Leave it all behind and go to therapy.
Wtf? Last story sucks my stepfather used to do the exact same thing to me. I'm autistic too. He used mentally and verbally abuse for years on end. That story hits very close to home.
@@lorilancaster5917 absolutely
@@kranberry3318 Not sure what the grounds are for a restraining order, but if I was OP I’d research it at least. And move, if possible, without notice. This controlling creep is the very type to turn around and go full psycho.
The crazy Step mother is insane, you know it’s NOT ABOUT YOU. It’s about the new mother to be and the baby not about the step mother
The sweet relief I felt when they destroyed her party and she was just baffled at the end
Kind of wonder if her insanity lead to her son’s fiancé bailing? You know, along with her getting back with her ex
Last story: "If I can't see her, nobody can" is pretty obviously a thinly veiled threat. I would be researching how to get a restraining order if I were OP. There's already a past history of physical abuse, which should help the case.
Stepfather story: I've never understood this whole "I'm owed the world for doing the bare minimum for someone I'm responsible for" mentality that some parents/stepparents have. Can someone try to explain it please?
Its manipulation and abuse. She's slipping from his grasp of control so he is lashing out. Trying to intimidate her and guilt her into staying in the abusive relationship.
He's nothing but a bully and abusive jerk probably jealous of a poor kid.
There are multiple updates and long story short she goes nc with everyone agreeing with step father including her mom
People who think they're owed control over others will find any justification as to why.
It's toddler logic; "I had to endure a punishment, so I require all of the rewards in the world to be soothed or I'm going to throw a tantrum."
Those people see the person they cared for as a punishment they had to endure because they never wanted the responsibility, only the perks attached to that responsibility. And now when more perks are available? Well, ofcourse those need to be available too.
The "if I can't have her no one can" rhetoric in the last story is super scary.... please keep that man away from all vulnerable people!!!
Or just douse his groin area with boiling sugar syrup.
@@dethkruzer Or go a step further and use molasses. That stuff is proven town destructive. We could also tar and feather him like a tax collecter from the 19th century(1800s).
Those are the words of someone who will kill the person they can't have. It happened to a family member, my mom taught me that if anyone ever says that run
@chadelowat I'm so sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, this is exactly what I thought of when I heard that comment.... dangerous, possessive, & jealous attitude.
Restraining order time.
Middle story: The Evil Stepmother's plan to turn the baby shower into a Barbie Hellscape taken down by intuitive BFFS! That post was comedy gold!
I hope her bio son only has boys.
Story 1:OP you have terrible friends, after giving you a last-minute notice to want their kids because they assumed you weren't doing anything, they thought they could just make you give then your dog. Then when that didn't work they sic their family on you as if that's supposed to do something. They're ungrateful, selfish, and disrespectful.
I wouldn't blame them completely for the last minute notice. They did have someone else, who bailed at the last minute. It happens, it sucks. The part about OP's dog is entirely on them
Time to make them EXfriends.
@@marjoriejohnston4905 Agree.
I'd have responded "so would you give me your children because my dog likes them? I'll text you the address of the shelter. Get your own dog."
That first story went from "I don't see what the problem is going to be here. This friend agreed to babysit without payment, and it sounds like they did a great job." To "OH God, what the actual fuck?" So fast
1- that Karen is sooo dumb! I love visiting my dog owning friends because I get all the doggy love without the doggy responsibilities!
Second story, look the SM in the eye, tell her 'No grandchildren for you', then cut her out of their life. She just wants attention and using OP's child for it, no matter what. No one needs that garbage in their life.
Oh Op did cut her AND his dad out of his life, he got a restraining order against the stepmom and I think she's in legal trouble due her latest antics, needless to say, she's is absolutely vile
EDIT: Damn, was hoping to here that the monster would at least get some jail time
@@MurphN7 Oh Jesus, I didn't think to check for an update. WTF did she do? Edit: hold up. This is the OP from a story Rslash did a while back where the SM hit her son and OP's father defended her. I think I even brought to the update where OP and their spouse went full NC as did their other family. Took me a second to notice the username. Unfortunately nothing came from the monster striking their son.
@@Sanodi21 Well, Op and his fiancée adopted her toddler brother after her parents passed, and stepmom was jealous of how fast the family accepted him when they still didn't like her, anyway Op asked his father to babysit his kid and BIL, when they got home, stepmom was there, she was screaming and BIL was sobbing with a SPLIT LIP, apparently, BIL threw a fit earlier and her response was to yell at him, and when that didn't work, she hit him so hard that it split his lip open, OP has more details in his original post, but that's pretty much what went down
The fact that she didn’t get jail time for that abuse infuriates me to no end. LOCK. THE BITCH. UP!!!!
Guess what!
The story about op being abused by her step-dad is she needs to get a protection order against her step-dad and mother and change her Facebook settings to private and move across the country to get far away from her parents and in-laws and change her name and her child's name so that she can't be found by anyone
I was thinking something similar. That man is going to try to kill the baby at some point and she needs to GTFO while she can.
I had to do something similar with my brother
"you have time to train a new dog"
I'm sure OP does but that would never be the same. Anyone who actually cares about their pets know that they're as unique as us.
That sounds like someone who thinks dogs are possessions and not family. I hope that lady never gets a dog, I don't trust her tbh
My parents considered their last pair of dogs - sibling Labs - as their "second set of kids". They were certainly family members, not just pets. Their eventual passing was the only times I ever saw Dad cry.
@@lancerevell5979 aww I think my mom view their dogs the same. I'm not one to cry much but earlier this week I broke down completely after being forced to put my cat down. She was definitely family to me.
The last story is giving me the absolute ick, OP, have you considered the reason the step dad treated your sister well, is maybe because he was abusing her in another way?
Its really common for an abuser to over treat their abuse victim, and verbally abuse the only support that victim may have, to create a divide but also a reason as to why one day you may opening say your suspicions.
OP, I'd have a talk with your sister
Beating your child with another child of yours is top-tier Dad threat.
Stealing dogs is obviously not a very cool thing to do
No no no, not stealing, communism, *OUR DOG*
At least they didn't eat it like...some people.
100%
Clearly this Karen hasn’t watched John Wick
@@Tajarim88 bro wtf 💀
First story: Just tell the friends that you got very attached to their kids over the weekend, and are willing to trade your dog for one of the children.
Story 1 I hope op has his dog chipped. I wouldn't put it past them to try and steal your dog.
Also security cameras
Second Story: I've been following this user for a while now, and this story is just ONE example of how unhinged his stepmom is, and the sad thing is, this isn't the worst thing that she's done
I was _just_ thinking how we hadn't had an Entitled Parents vid in a while. Get out of my head, rSlash! 😛
*First OP:* Hol' up; OP agreed to babysit her (I'm assuming OP is a woman) friend's kids for the weekend on short notice _for free_ , and the (ex) friend wants OP to give up her dog for the kids? Yeah, I'd cut contact with that friend, too.
*Second OP:* That's _wild_ that OP's SM hijacked OP's and his wife's baby shower. Shoutouts to OP's sister for "sabotaging" Sam's plans. I do feel bad for OP's stepbrother.
*Third OP:* I'm glad OP cut contact with her stepfather. Looks like she needs to cut contact from everyone else, as well. Best of luck to OP and her daughter.
Story 1) I have 0 doubts that your dog will be abused and neglected, especially once the kids lose interest (which will likely happen in a very short amount of time). If they don't have time for 2 kids and a dog, then they don't need *any* dog let alone your dog. It's pretty obvious they're neglectful parents too because instead of asking if you could set up play dates where you could bring your dog over from time to time or teaching their kids that they can't always get what they want; they would rather put an animal through abuse and stress just so they don't have to listen to their kids whine.
Story 2) Wow, what a mother from hell that lady is. How insane do you have to be to think that after ignoring your soon to be first grandchild that you can just swoop on in and act like nothing happened when the golden grandkid you wanted wasn't going to happen? And seriously? Expecting it's a girl? There is a 50/50 chance and having 0 investment in the lives of the couple means your 'mothers always know' BS doesn't work. Thank god OP has gone full NC.
Story 3) Your father should be lucky that his ass isn't rotting in jail. Imagine the sheer audacity to think your entitled to seeing someone else's child after you abused them for *years* and just expect them to get over it. Your entire family who sides with him would receive a punishment too if it was up to me and your mother is an absolute disgrace and doesn't deserve the title mother. She is not a mother, she is a waste of space more interested in what's in a guys pants than her own flesh and blood.
"Looked like Barbie puked all over hello Kitty section!" Oh man I'll never be able to unsee that vision!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The last story hit too hard.
My stepdad was almost the exact same; he never got physical with me but did with my sisters. My mother defended him and still defends him. We were discussing the past, and one of my sisters asked my mom, "Do you ever think he'll apologize?" My mom said, "No, but neither will they." I looked at her, so quick." I apologize for what? We were kids! "
Story 1: The mother actually called the cops and lied, claiming OP stole "their" dog.
That matches the title. Why didn't that part get read?
@@9adam4 May have gotten overlooked in editing
There was a update to that story
@@9adam4 rSlash records some videos weeks in advance.
Bet that didn't work when OP showed paperwork on the dog that the other family couldn't produce.
“Remember, you can borrow anything you want, anytime, as long as you bring it back before it’s missed.”
-Mr. Krabs
Lmfaoo
"everyone knows that, right?"
I suggest to OP(with the abusive step father) if ever finds this is to cut off the entire family that are on his side or try to convince to let it go. You make your decision whether it helps or not it's on you! The same as the step father made the decision to abuse and lie. Actions have consequences as well.
“You need to be reasonable” says the person who’s actively trying to get someone to JUST HAND OVER THEIR DOG
Just as bad as those who try to get a mother to give them her child. Disgusting.
Op should have told her mom, “ since you chose that scumbag over me, never stood up to me ,and allowed him to abuse me, you and him will never see my baby, and don’t go blaming me or try to call me out because its all your fault and you have to live with it “
Last story needs to talk to a lawyer incase the parents try and sue for grandparents rights to see the grandkid. Or try and use OPs mental issues against them and get custody taken away and given to them
YES! Entitled Parents is one of my favourites you cover! Happy Saturday, rSlash!
This is why I like that my dog defensively growls at anything smaller than him. And being big dog, thats usually everything lol Edit: He is a good boy, who in his 10 years has never attacked any one that wasn't trying to break into my apartment. He is just old and likes his sleep.
I bet at that age he is a PROFESSIONAL when it comes to naps and snoozles
@@kranberry3318 You know it
I would have laughed my ass off if someone tried demanding my floofer because their gremlins won't stop crying. Animals shouldn't be something given just to shut a kid up. They are part of the family and no one is taking away my perfect lil daughter floofer ❤
Floofer 😆😆💖💖
Right? My roommate’s kids come over every other weekend, and they’re fine, but if they started wailing and demanding one of my babies? Lol fuck that noise.
You sound like a great dog mom! I hope your floof is happy and having a great day 😊
@@kranberry3318 aw thank you! I actually have 6 dogs and they are happy little fuzzballs ❤ I hope you (and anything fuzzy you have) have an amazing day, too ❤
@@ajjamsen694 Unfortunately I don’t have a dog rn (can’t afford it and no one can do morning walks) so the fuzziest thing I have is my fiancé with fluffy hair and a beard lol But thanks! ❤️
For the baby shower story, I would have waltzed my self over to my step mother and said wow you should have been here a little earlier. Someone set up a hideous pink party. I think someone must have left all the stuff here from an earlier party. It's all in the boxes but thank goodness everyone pitched in to get that mess down!
Story 2: can we all talked about what awesome sister and friend OP and his wife have. Most people would not go through the lengths they did but they helped save the party with minute to spare like champs. I would have thrown all of SM's pink wrap in the track do after she tried to take over the party like that.
I would have BURNED the stuff in front of her.
That last story would have me in prison so fast. But my step-dad would be dead and beheaded so it's worth
Me too. Op talked about how she was small and not really capable of fighting back when he would beat her. But if I were she, then as soon as I grew up; got bigger and stronger and more capable in fighting I would waste no time in giving my physically abusive parent the beatdown I had been wanting to give them ever since they started doing it to me. I don't blame OP for not going down that route but she should have. If she did I guarantee he wouldn't be bothering her now.
Boil oil and spill it inside the stepfather's ear. He will never lift a finger or his voice at you again; you may go to prison, but it's worth it
I just have to share this about my cat (can a cat really have an owner?). So my wife and I adopted this cute little kitten and he immediately became my wife's cat. My wife got sick, so we moved into my parent's spare bedroom. My wife ended up passing away. The cat was a bit lost for awhile, but then he adopted my father (probably because I was working 60 hours a week). My father got sick and died. The cat was distraught! My mom likes animals, but she gives this vibe to all animals big or small to not become friends with her. She tolerates them. So my cat adopted me (Cue John Williams...Help me Obi Wan, your my only hope!). He hates it when he can't see me or when I leave the house (I got sick as well so I can no longer work.). He will literally wait for me at the garage door. When I leave for several days giving him plenty of food and water (I do love the little guy), and he does have a cat door so he can go outside, he will hardly eat a thing. He just pouts. I'm his third person. I am glad I am his person, but when I'm not around the poor kitten just pouts.
Third story: Honestly if that happened to me and he went to post that on Facebook, I'd be all over the comments saying "So do you want to be the pot or the kettle?"
I was about ready to declare a defcon 1 level emergency concerning op's dog in the first story
The best baby shower I ever went to was an invite everyone bbq at a park with a snow cone truck. All baby shower games were banned.
That little "nice try" was the best part of the video 😂
For the last one: those parents are so toxic that make uranium look safe
2:44 -- They'll get your free babysitting, their pretty! And you're little dog too!! :D
Last Story: I know the feeling of step-dads who loved to ab*** me growing up. My mom's current boyfriend threatened to come to my place and "deal with me himself." If I ever made my mom cry again..... all I did to make her cry was ask if I was ever gonna get the original copies of my birth certificate and social security card.....
There are so many doggos that need a home if my kids lost it like that I would say we could get our own family dog after some steps. I might beg my friend to come over and go over what pet ownership meant in the immediate time to quell the crying(also see if we could set up some visits where the kids help temporarily since it takes time to get volunteering set up). Then we would take classes and volunteer at a shelter to find our own pet. My daughter desperately wanted a bunny because her friend had one. We went through the classes and the shelter made me sign paperwork saying the pet was mine because kids lose interest. My daughter didn’t lose interest she became allergic and since our bunny had his own bunnytopia room it was fine that she couldn’t interact much anymore(lots of meds when she did also side note before the bunny her allergy test showed no allergy to his hay which was her problem)and he would also hang out with me and our elderly dog because he didn’t manage to bond with any of the bunnies the shelter tried to bond him with when my daughter became allergic because bunnies need lots of interaction so another bunny was our attempt to get him more interaction. When my dog died the bunny fell into a depression we couldn’t fix and he died a year later but he was almost 10. My long blithering point is after volunteering at the bunny house I saw first hand what happens when kids just have to have a certain pet and other than that mom being entitled in this story she also is setting up a situation where that pet ends up in the shelter. I could be wrong since we got our first dog as newlyweds randomly with zero planning but managed to keep our sweet baby alive 14 years despise all her health issues she came with as a puppy.
First story-
I can tell you that the kids are gonna grow up to be absolutely spoiled all because mommy dearest didn't want to say no. Though the kids don't seem spoiled now, since snitching, oversharing and wanting something seems like typical young kid behavior. If I had a friend watch my young kids and they brought over their dog, and the kids loved the dog and they both want the dog, I'd say no and most likely settle for a compromise, like call up my friend and ask to see when they'll be next available so they could come over with their dog cause my friend gets to keep their dog and my kids get to see the dog cause the kids still get to see the dog, and I still get to visit my friend. No need to drop/cut contact with anyone.
Second story-
If the SM is so adamant on having that Barbie-esqe, Instagrammable and expensive baby shower where it looks like a little girl's dream birthday, she can wait until her own son gets back into the dating scene. Yet depending on how traumatized he is, that might not happen for a while, or if he's THAT traumatized, not at all.
Third story-
Good for OP for cutting both her stepfather and mother off (someone gave a small update and said that OP cut off both stepfather and mother). If I had a stepfather who mentally and emotionally abused me and gaslit me, I'd move out as soon as I can and go little to no contact with both of them. Seeing how the stepfather is abusive and gaslit anyone into believing nothing's wrong, OP probably tried to convince her mother to leave him, but from my understanding of gaslighting, the stepfather probably threatened to off himself if she threatened to leave him, since gaslighting someone would just question their sanity
Who stole a dog? There was no story of stealing a Dog.
The entitled dog Karens begging for the dog makes more and more of a case for why they shouldn't have a dog. They don't care if they think "just get another dog" as if the time commitment to training the dog is why she's reluctant to just give him away, no thought that maybe she loves her dog. They say they don't have time for a dog, so, at best, an 8 year old would be in charge. Not only should they not get this dog (obviously) they shouldn't have any dog, or pet.
So many monsters favoring one child over another with castastrophic consequeses. This spans all generations with kids. Im one of those kids. Im grateful to say after going very little contact with my parents from 19 to 40, It took 5 years to teach them how to love me. In my case they finally were able to get over thier own crap and its not that didnt have the capacity, they just didn't know how. But wow the damage it causes not to just the unfavored, but the favored becomes entitled and spioled, a horrible type of person to deal with because thier parents taught them to be that way. Parents love your children, fairly and responsibly.
Title: Karen stole my dog!
Description: Entitled parent tries to steal dog.
Story: Entitled parent makes unreasonable request for dog.
C'mon Rslash, if you have to dress it up that much then maybe it shouldn't have been the lead story.
man I love watching rslash vids, but they always make my heart beat uncomfortably fast like im nervous or some shit
Not sure if you'll see this reply, but that's probably because rslash is a channel that narrates in a style that's say, entertaining, engaging, "really gets you hooked on what's gonna happen next" kind of way. Which is why rslash isn't actually my favorite channel per se. My favorite reddit reading channels are the ones that just calmly read the stories out loud, and it's so much more relaxing! My absolute favorite is Mark Narrations, not just because he's so chill and funny, but because he also reads the comments on both sides of the argument and he's such a thoughtful considerate guy :)
OP in 3rd story does need to do more. Completely NC and take her and her daughter and live their best life
1st Story: Juuust in case, OP should make sure to keep herself and her dog away from that family, for the rest of their lives.
2nd story: First of all; Keep SM the F away from your kid. She is showing some obvious bias. And as soon SB have a kid, she is gonna ditch OP's kid. Just cut her out of your life.
Second of all: Support your SB, it may suck now, but it's very likely she was cheating with her Ex.
3rd story: I am more surprised OP still have contact with her mom, or the rest of the family for that matter. Honestly, she should just cut them all out. Especially considering the 'mom' enable this BS
Story 1 : Dump those donkey "friends" for good keep the dog... what a crappy thing to do trying to guilt trip op into handing over pretty much a child..
Story 2 :
Op and his gf:" were gonna have a baby"
Op stupid stepmother: " how do i take all the shine off the baby and put it on to me hmmmm "..
Story 3 : op needs to block everyone that ever agreed with her abusive disgusting stepfather out of her life forever even when theyre on theyre death bed and asking for forgiveness..
That mom is an enabler that just wants to shut up her kids the moment they're crying, that's just bad parenting. I call CPS and tell them what's going on with the pet situation and they might do an investigation that will her out .
When cutting contact with parents, nobody talks about how lonely it feels to basically not have parents.
Second story: I wonder if Stepmom's son's fiance saw that binder and that's why she noped back to her ex.
i don't understand the cognitive dissonance it takes to recognize the strong attachment that the children have formed with a dog in two days, while it not occurring that op might have some sort of emotional attachment to the same dog over several years.
One really chaotic answer to the first story is "Sure, I'll trade it for your favorite kid."
The kids will be devastated when it is implied one of them is liked more. The mom will lose it, and it also makes sure they know your dog is as important as their favorite child. It works.
Granted, I am the unhinged type of person who responds to being asked if my dog bites with, "No, but I do." Makes annoying strangers leave me alone because they think I am nuts. It's just more efficient to make myself seem insane than explain to entitled parents that my senior dog doesn't like screaming brats.
3:00 I have a dog called Charlie, he’s only young and quite loud but like you said, basically everyone down our road deals with it because he’s friendly and of course, part of our family.
Our street is made up of several families with dogs and cats and pretty much all of us get along. We did have an issue with a new neighbour a few years ago who didn’t like the dogs barking and I’ve always questioned it, why would you move into an area with a dog in literally every household in you don’t like dogs.
My God the mother in the first story. That mom needs to learn the word no. I guess she didn't hear that a lot growing up.
Last story: If I can't have her, no one can. If you have documented proof that he said that, I would go to the cops and get a lifetime restraining order against him. That line there says he is more than willing to kill the child to get his way.
This last story hits home for me
My partners mum was an alcoholic and a grade A narcissist and her dad didn’t know what to do so just shut himself in
I have been with my partner since we where both 14 so almost 11 years now and she would try and be nice but it was always that sickly sweet side of things and it wasn’t until being with me that my partner realised how horrible her mum was and the contrast between my parents and hers
Her mum would deliberately smoke infront of our newborn baby after we told her not too she would say horrible things about me and her and with our second child she claimed it wasn’t mine because he’s ginger and I’m not 😂 she’s a fucked up person and we don’t talk to her anymore
We did recently find out she got cancer which I personally just believe is karma on her part for the multiple children she’s emotionally abused over the years
Rslash, you need to give us your dog, my daughter wont stop crying about him! oh and you have to for him to be shipped! i hope you do the right thing, you could always fall in love and train and cuddle with and get attached to again, its not like its that hard! gosh!
OP's stepdad in the last story is not just toxic, he's EVIL. Like, PSYCHOPATH evil. And he doesn't deserve to be called stepfather. He's OP's mom's boytoy since OP's mom brought an evil person into her life just to get her leg over. OP's entire family (with the possible exception of her sister depending on how she reacts to being treated the way she is) are horrible, awful people and OP needs to cut them off immediately before they drag her down with them to the lowest pit of Hell where they're headed.
I think the most dangerous and frustrating thing about those with narcissistic personality disorder is that they don’t admit to themselves or just don’t realise that they have a problem and seek help, unlike other mental health disorders. They’re just there in their toxic bubbles, wondering why people leave their lives and not “serve” them anymore.
Story 1 (update): "Sad update: I can't really say much without identifying the people involved, but there was a lot more going on behind the scenes than I was made aware of. My friend is currently undergoing treatment for things I can't really describe without risking doxxing her, and she's got enough on her plate as things stand. She really did blow a fuse though, and is now aware that what she was asking wasn't rational and has apologized."
So it happens to a sad update that something was eong with her mentally. A good ending to this.
Entitled parents on my birthday?? Hell yes!
Same birthday!
Lucky you guys wish he did this more often there usually my favorite
Happy birthday! :)
@@MorganVsTheInternet thank you!
@@itsjustjay4607 happy birthday bday twin :)
Try and steal my pet, and I’ll go John Wick.
on you.
Oh man that "nice try" in her ear is just... beautiful
Unless the father is a horse. I don't want any gender reveal parties to ever happen.
Keep things traditional.
A kid tried to steal my ESA about 3 years ago, I went to my baby picked her up, and left
The kid was screaming and trying to take my dog out of my hands thankfully I was taller than the brat I just took my dog inside
The mom came and demanded I give her seamon demon my baby
I called the police
Never saw that brat and woman again
The second story is from the OP that put a restraining order on his stepmom since she hit his fiancée’s four year old brother and cut contact with his father btw
Love the petty revenge in the second story against O.P’s Disney level of wicked step mother! 😂
I really hope that OP from story #1 ends that friendship. I mean they don't have to make a big pronouncement unless it gets to that, but this one story shows that it's not a twosided relationship. I guarantee that OP does stuff to help out all the time. If it is ever reciprocated I'd be surprised.
It's too bad because it sounds like OP would be a good person to have as a friend.
I hope OP realizes they deserve to be treated with respect.
That last story hits hard. While my Mom is overprotective of me, I'm always the odd one out because I'm autistic. ABA did absolutely nothing except takes hours away from my day and give me anxiety of people leaving me for no reason. I always had "anger issues" which turns out me just being overwhelmed as hell. I felt so bad for blowing up and my Mom used my brothers to make me feel guilty. I hated myself for that. I hated myself for not being able to function like a normal person and I felt bad when talking to people because I learned I talk too much when I do. Being told that you can't be fixed gets to you. It's even worse when people discount you for having autism. I wish I wasn't so dependent on my family as I am ATM, otherwise I would go no contact. Sorry.
Ooo entitled kids of the future right there... also, how ya'll gonna get off asking someone to give you their dog? Being able to train a new one isn't what matters in this situation, what matters is a lot of people tend to view their pets as *family* members, not just a pet.
Instead, she should be using this time to teach their kids to behave, and teaching them that they can't always have what they want, or, idk, maybe pay OP to train a puppy that SHE buys for her own kids? If OP has time to train a new dog, OP can be paid to train a new dog for her, not give his own dog to them and buy a new one for himself.
I had a similar story as the last one. However i was a 19yr father. I cut him out and soon cut my own mother out of my life. His and her family kept pushing to go into contact so i cut every single one of them out. No explanation either as they were only hearing my mothers side of the story. If they couldn't see its odd for a child to cut their own parent out of their life then that's on them. Soon after my step father pew pew himself and my mother blamed me (even though it was during a in person confrontation with her over custody of their kid from splitting after i went NC) I was informed all this as family desperately tried to reach me so i could go to the funeral. I never did and havent talked to any of them sense. Point of this is i feel so much happier and stress/drama free. My daughter doesn't remember of her as they only me when she was couple months old and i dont ever plan for them to meet again.
Entitled Mother " _Can I have your dog_ ?"
OP: " _Can I have your child_ ?"
Yea, not happening.. They aren't attached to the dog, they just don't understand how to take no!! I will not be talking to these entitled people.. I love my cat and dog, they are our babies, you lost your mind if you ask me to GIVE you my babies!!
Okay, word of advice about being roped into things like babysitting, and you'd be hesitant to ask to be paid.
Just say, _"Sorry, but I got a side-gig this weekend that'd pay over 500bux and I just can't afford to blow it off as I really need the cash."_ so then they have a choice of either ponying up 500bux, or suckering someone else to babysit.
Providing food, clothes, a roof over a child’s head, etc is the BARE MINIMUM of being a parent. That’s basic, you don’t get brownie points for doing basic things.
Man that's Ruff
I'll show myself out now
(The last story) I watch this YT channel called Misery Machine where they cover stories about children having their lives ended by parents, step parents and some strangers. These poor kids barely ever get anyone to advocate for them and the ones that do, the government ignores either because "the parents are so charming, the kids MUST be lying." Or some other stupid reason like it's a cop or security guard who would never hurt a child. I am happy OP got out and has a family away from toxic trash. A lot of children who go through such abuse, don't get the chance to escape.
With the baby shower, instead of saying "nice try", I would have just enthused about how awesome everything looks, how it's everything I wanted, and thank the SM for putting it all together..
Rslash I had to rewind 😭 the "our" you added in the beginning of the second story made it sound like op and their Fiancee are step siblings
Um...so...there hasn't been nearly enough Yougo content lately. Need puppy content!!!!
How do and can “friends” demand giving them your dog asif it’s a Tupperware box??
Kids need to understand not getting what they want, happens more in a lifetime than once 🤷🏻♀️🙄 parents in this story should have explained this is op’s dog and if asked nicely they maybe could play with him with approval of op, but that’s that. SMH 🤦🏻♀️ the entitlement of some people just goes over my head… 🙄🫨🫥
Final story: you had a crap mom/step dad. They BOTH need to be removed from your life. It's bad he abused you but your own mother failed at the #1 purpose of a parent is to protect your child.
Trying to steal my dog is like trying to steal my kid. I mean if you want to be filled with holes by all means try and steal my dog. Bang bang bang
Third story made me wish that, if someone faced as much abuse as OP got from her stepfather, it would be legal to shoot him and get away with it, but alas.
Alcohol? At a baby shower? The guest(s) of honour cant even drink...
Playing this at 2X speed makes Rslash a rapper.
MY Dog story cracked me up. The parents need to train their kids not to get a trained dog lol. OP knew how to handle those kids better than their own parents unfortunately.
Second story: from the way this story is told, its almost like the stepmother is trying to make everything about her, not considering Op and their spouses opinion on the matter.
In the last story, op need to block her mom n step dad's number n get restraining order out on them both.
The stepmother is making the baby shower more about her rather than the mother to be. I'm beginning to think the stepmother is a narcissist.