Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Appease: Understanding Appeasement as a Trauma Response
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- Opening remarks by Gayle King. By exploring the interaction between the nervous system and our thoughts and actions, this discussion will cover both the science and real experience of trauma responses, especially “appeasement.” Panelists are leading psychologist and founder of Transitioning Families Dr. Rebecca Bailey, and kidnapping survivors Elizabeth Smart and Jaycee Dugard.
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This is an amazing group of women, absolutely loved this❤
This is a talk that I hope everyone finds on YT, as this information is useful to all survivors. Autonomic system driven appeasement makes so much more sense than any Stockholm Theory based accommodation. Thanks so much for posting this video.
Great interview glad I watched one of my greatest fears for my own children and their children or anyone’s .
Thank goodness for people like this, who are continually fighting the good fight!
Elizabeth Smart, The Malouf Foundation(Sam&Casey), Gail King, and all the others, thank you, for your time and talents, and teaching us about this.
Why didn’t Gail (or anyone) just moderate this panel? These are 3 strong panelists who need a moderator to bounce off of, and someone other than an honored expert like Jaycee running tech.
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There was a case of a young girl who was kidnapped in a similar manner and she escaped by bitting on the rope she was tide up with!!! So personality is a very important factor in the case why someone would not try to fight or escape!! Those sociopaths are predators and some people have a more prey like personality that makes them more prone not to try to fight or escape!
@@Rae_777 "wolf don´t eat wolf"!!! those psychopaths are predators , they hunt for the easy prey, the personalities that are more vulnerable!!! random moments of anger everyone has but as a whole was still prey!!!
@@luisfelipesilvasampaio7922 Ok, so you think it’s the fault of 2 year old babies when they get attacked because they should have been less easy to prey on. Most toddlers can’t change the fact that they’re toddlers, and being small is not a personality defect. You know what is a huge personality problem? Being a predator. Just as bad as being a predator is supporting men who hurt vulnerable people.
@@Rae_777 Of course not!!! If a baby is attacked is his parents responsability or who ever was in chard of his safety!!! they should not have made the baby an easy prey!!!
@@luisfelipesilvasampaio7922 you are hopeless! Blame those who have been preyed on and their parents. Perfect. So Luis, if you want to empower those who are not predators, there are many aspects to empowerment. Learn these and promote them. For those who have been tortured and those who have died, support their recovery and/or the recovery of their loved ones. Saying that only the sheep are preyed upon and that a wolf never preys on a wolf is not only not helpful, it’s not true. There have been so many who have done all they could with alpha energy and fearlessness to escape a predator and were still preyed on, tortured, attacked, often killed. Surviving comes by means of all types of responses. For these women it was to smartly, wisely, instinctively do what was demanded of them so they could survive in each moment. A string of moments can lead to freedom. Not a bad plan for them and many for whom it has worked, including many battered women. In terms of what you can do: Everyone heals and recovers differently, learn these ways and support healing. Work towards true empowerment. Stop blaming. Stop promoting yourself as superior. You know almost nothing of value, start over.
@@ToddDouglasFox Well, first of all, is not blame! Is responsability! When we cross a road we have to look both sides to be safe! When we don´t do that we let go the responsability we have with our own safety! second; i don´t see this people healing!! i see them living forever orbiting whatever happened to them!! they keep reliving what happened to them!! healing would be if they lived lives that has nothing to do with what happened to them!! everytime i watch anything about Jaycee, elizabeth, and other victims of trauma they are always talking about what happened to them!! is that healing? i don´t think so!! it is like: imagine someone has a broken leg and every week he goes to a meeting where he talks about how he broke his leg and how painful it was, etc... when really what he should be saying is what can i do to start walking again and live this behind! the same happens with those victims, they keep taking about what they went throgh and how hard it was, etc... when they actually should be trying to live their lives and ways to live that behind so it was not a part of them anymore!!! just something that happened to them at one point!!! that is healing!!!!
I saw a man on TH-cam he said really annoying thing about Jaycee